S1 Ep654: What to do when people misunderstand you
If you've been living at all, people are going to misunderstand you. You can respond with anger or frustration, but that often makes it worse. Recently, I took some big risks and shared some things that I knew people would misunderstand. But I decided it was worth it. Our goal is not to be held back by what we think other people's reactions will be. If you're hiding out, you can still be critic...
5m Sep 08, 2019
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S1 Ep653: The 7-System Plan with Dr. Pat Luse
My friend Dr. Pat Luse explains how each of the seven systems in our bodies are connected. If you want to lose weight, you can't just look at one system, you have to look at all seven of them.
1hr 49m Sep 07, 2019
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S1 Ep652: Are you a cheerleader of a coach?
A lot of people say they're coaches, but in reality they're just cheerleaders. We all need truthtellers in our lives. A true coach is going to call you out,not just encourage you. If you struggle with being a cheerleader instead of a coach,consider pushing yourself more and pull from that grit for your clients.
3m Sep 06, 2019
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S1 Ep651: The real reason why I write
I write to understand life — to process my thoughts. It's the writing process that helps me make sense of what happens in my life. It does take a while. But afterward I have more clarity and can help more people. Write for yourself and let the world peek in. Get some tools at https://www.mybookhook.com and https://www.mybookblueprint.com
4m Sep 05, 2019
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S1 Ep650: The real reason people don't lose weight. (I had no idea.)
My friend Dr. Pat Luse, who wrote the 7 System Plan, says most dieting is focused on calorie intake while ignoring the other systems in our body. We need to have all of our seven systems optimized in order to lose weight, sleep better, improve our stamina and more. To find out more on this, join me at Dr. Luse on a live training, Thursday, September 5th at 1 pm ET: How the 7 Systems of Your Bod...
5m Sep 04, 2019
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S1 Ep649: How to increase engagement on social media
The other day I heard an author complaining about no one interacting with her posts about her book. Sometimes we can be too deep for social media. Know the platform and the audience. Understand the context. If you need help in this area, join us at Igniting Souls Conference (https://www.ignitingsoulsconference.com).
5m Sep 03, 2019
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S1 Ep648: Perfect love casts out fear
I spent most of the day writing a very vulnerable post about my most recent addiction. I have gotten a ton of responses, but the ones I love the most are the ones where people are telling me how much they needed to hear this. Remember that we all have a story to tell. When we hide that, we are keeping other people from experiencing their own liberation. You have overcome for a reason. Step into...
4m Sep 02, 2019
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S1 Ep647: What happened when I thanked a "stranger"
My son came home recently telling me about some great insights he learned from J.D. Bergman like "If you check the world more than you check the word, your life is going to be pretty tough." Even though I didn't really know J.D., I messaged him to thank him. Now we're enjoying breakfast together. To get more inspirational messages from J.D., go to inteamnow.com.
5m Sep 01, 2019
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S1 Ep646: What keeps a strong marriage ino your 80s
I'd like to introduce you to one of my favorite couples: Pat and Pete Gano. They gave me the gift of belief. Pat published her book, The Language of Heaven at the age of 83. And they are not stopping. They've been married 56 years and are still having a ball. Why? Because the believe that life gets better and that hard things are often actually gifts. If you have a book inside of you, join us a...
6m Aug 31, 2019
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S1 Ep645: Pick a date before you pick a client
So many times people do things backwards. People often try to get their client first. Instead pick the date first. It creates urgency and reality. For more info on this topic, go to https://www.ignitingsoulsconference.com.
4m Aug 30, 2019
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S1 Ep644: Do the people in your life match your speed?
I think we all have a tempo to life — some fast, some slow — whether the speed of trust or productivity. When you're aware of your speed, you attract other people like you. Identify your own pace and your speed. To find out more about self awareness, go to https://www.yoursecretname.com.
4m Aug 29, 2019
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S1 Ep643: The best type of passport to have
Life can be a prison, even for a Christian without purpose. In her book Passport to Purpose, Carol, a member of the Fire Ring Mastermind, helps people figure out their purpose in the context of the great commission. To find out more, go to the Mission of Grace Foundation Facebook Page.
3m Aug 28, 2019
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S1 Ep642: Author Academy Awards Top 10 Finalists
Announcing the top 10 finalists in the Author Academy Awards. This award recognizes excellence in literary achievements in several categories and genres as assessed by the Academy's voting membership. These categories include popular vote, social contribution, and overall presentation (cover, content, flow, and originality).
54m Aug 27, 2019
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S1 Ep641: How to stop a fight with someone you love
We all have interpersonal conflict at times. One way to begin to alleviate it is to give the other person control. That removes the tension and amazing things happen. Sometimes they're then able to see things from your perspective. To get more info on interpersonal conflict, check out the book Pebble In my Shoe.
3m Aug 26, 2019
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S1 Ep640: Are you in the wrong job?
Louise was very miserable in corporate America. Now she's motivated to help others remove blocks and get clarity. She wrote Brain Power Pyramid on how to achieve optimal brain energy. If you think you might be in the wrong job, you might just be in the wrong place. 86% of the population feels the same way. Find out more at https://www.careerpowershift.com and at Fire Ring Mastermind at https://...
6m Aug 25, 2019
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S1 Ep639: How to start a gathering in your city
I'm on my way to the monthly Igniting Souls fellowship. We've been doing it for seven years. I would encourage you to do something like this. We record it and live stream it. The Igniting Souls Fellowship helps get the word out and helps people dig deeper and stay connected. This free gathering is a secret to our growing business. 
4m Aug 24, 2019
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S1 Ep638: 1 in 4 women are impacted by this
Let's talk about domestic abuse. One in four people are impacted by abuse. it is the #1 killer of women around the world. People think it's a personal thing and and doesn't impact us. But it impacts employers and others around. If you know someone who may be suffering from abuse, build trust with them. If you are a victim, reach out for help. You can get a toolkit at https://www.thesupportertoo...
7m Aug 23, 2019
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S1 Ep637: The one secret you can't hide in your marriage
Have you ever had a secret you feel like you have to hide — like porn addiction? But you shouldn't hide it. Find out this author's story of her husband and his porn addiction in her book, "Choosing A Way Out When the Bottom Isn't the Bottom." The author Kirsten Samuel recommends you reach out for help immediately. She's taken her pain and turned it into her passion as a trauma impact coach. Ack...
5m Aug 22, 2019
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S1 Ep636: Your idea isn't too crazy (Shawshank is proof)
Have you ever had a crazy idea? Me too! I'm standing in front of Shawshank Prison, where I just did a presentation. Years ago, I had a crazy idea called Day Job To Dream Job about people escaping the Shawshank Prison of their job. I decided I wanted to write it inside the prison. I had no idea how I was going to do that. Don't worry about the how of your dream. I have now come back on the 20th ...
4m Aug 21, 2019
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S1 Ep635: Most people miss this law of success
Is it possible to exercise once a year? Well, you can but it won't change anything. I have seen Doug working on his mindset and beliefs. Why? He says, "The more you work on yourself, the more ripped you get." The reality of working out is that people don't see 80% of what you do. It's a daily process. But when you start seeing the pay off, people start to notice and ask questions. You can find ...
7m Aug 19, 2019
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S1 Ep634: How to stop worry from limiting your best life
We live in a world where so many people worry. Worry is an improper use of imagination. Worry is very creative thinking, but it's used in a negative way. your brain is wired to validate what you're looking for. Be careful about what you say and think. Replace your thoughts and use your imagination for good. For more on this topic, go to https://www.yoursecretname.com for a free book and masterc...
5m Aug 18, 2019
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S1 Ep633: Are you a wave maker or a wave faker?
Daphne Smith, a member of the Fire Ring Mastermind, shares the difference between a wave maker and a wave faker. A wave maker is someone who is not afraid of rocking the boat. A wave faker is an imposter — someone who is treading water. Ask yourself if you are making waves. If not, it may because you're scared. In Daphne's book, What Is Your Scarlett Letter, about recognizing your hurts, releas...
4m Aug 17, 2019
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S1 Ep632: I love what this lady told me today
The last couple of weeks, I have been interviewing people for our private mastermind — Fire Ring. These are people who want to be pushed. They want to grow — like Christina, who told me when she wants to go to the next level in anything, she seeks out the best to guide her through the process. That's what Fire Ring is all about. We share our exact playbook. Having a guide will give you confiden...
5m Aug 16, 2019
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S1 Ep631: Better to take a shot or run sprints?
My daughter was in this girl's basketball clinic recently. The coach gathered the girls together and told them that my daughter was going to throw two free throws. He told them they had a choice to either run two sprints right now and she doesn't have to shoot any. If she makes one and misses one, they have to run five sprints. If she misses both, they have to run 10 sprints. And if she makes b...
6m Aug 15, 2019
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S1 Ep630: FIRE RING: our premium mastermind for select high performers
We pull back the curtain so you can see the energy of our Fire Ring Mastermind and what it has meant to the group. Apply at https://www.fireringmastermind.com
3m Aug 14, 2019
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S1 Ep629: Why the best things in life and business are free
This past weekend, we spent a bunch of time in the basement playing indoor volleyball. So many times we think our kids need the latest technology. Sometimes we just need to turn off the devices and have some good old fashioned fun. The best things in life are often free. Entertainment often gets tripped up on money and budgets. What could you do that's free in your business. The best marketing ...
5m Aug 13, 2019
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S1 Ep628: Do you keep score?
My friend Lee talks about how if you ask a rookie on a football team what success looks like, he will know exactly what that means. Many times in our business, our rookies don't know what success means for our company. Do you know what success looks like for your company? We have a moonshot. It was to ignite one million souls by 2020. But we've already achieved that, so now our moonshot is 10 m...
4m Aug 12, 2019
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S1 Ep627: Why your idea isn't working
Timing is everything. I believe that now more than ever. We recently has two major partnerships happen. If you're trying to push something and it's not coming together, you might be learning key lessons for the next partnership. Take notes on what you can do differently next time. God is working things in the background — His perfect plan. If you need more help on this topic, consider joining u...
5m Aug 11, 2019
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S1 Ep626: How to avoid other people disappointing you
A lot of people are dependent on other people's affirmations, but you might be setting yourself up to fail because you are connecting your success to someone else. Instead, encourage yourself. Compliment yourself. That's what you can control. When you look at high performers, they find their confidence internally. Find out more about developing a practical mindset at https://www.ignitingsoulsco...
4m Aug 10, 2019
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S1 Ep625: How to live to 156
Join me and Dan Sullivan for a Global Livestream Book Launch Party, in which Dan shares his plan for living to be 156. His recommendation: live today as if you have massive amounts of time left in your life. Find out more about his book and get a close up look at how to do a book launch party.
1hr 3m Aug 09, 2019
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S1 Ep624: Don't ask for forgiveness
We have amazing team members, and I am a big fan of keeping things open and transparent in business. You gain relational equity when you talk to someone in advance.
4m Aug 08, 2019
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S1 Ep623: The most attractive person at the party. (nothing to do with looks)
There are two ways to live. You either never have enough or you have more than enough. That includes time, attention, money, affirmation, and confidence. If you have the mindset that you have more than enough, everyone wants to be around you and work with you. It impacts literally everything. Which one are you?
4m Aug 07, 2019
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S1 Ep622: The secret ingredient to get more joy in life
Kindness is the key — even in the littlest things like merging in traffic. Team unity is so important. It's so easy to respond in anger, but when you respond in kindness it diffuses the situation. I was at Sky Sprout Summit recently, and I could tell the staff was working hard, so as a speaker I told them what a great job they were doing and thanked them. I don't always act with kindness, but i...
5m Aug 06, 2019
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S1 Ep621: Plan your spontaneity
Have you ever known someone who is not spontaneous at all. You can actually plan your spontaneity. I love doing new things. Getting stuck in a rut is not good. It literally makes us go on autopilot. When you add novelty, you get close to the optimal state of performance. Plan some spontaneity.
3m Aug 05, 2019
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S1 Ep620: Meet my friend, the robot
Take a look at this crazy cool invention. It's called The Beam. It's a mobile Skype device. Someone can remotely drive it to another person's office across the world to Skype with them. You never know how big the imagination can be. Whatever your idea is, give it a shot.
3m Aug 04, 2019
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S1 Ep619: Stop letting your enemies hurt you
Just the other day i learned what the word resentment means. It means to feel again. If you feel resentment, you are choosing to feel again. You can't change the past, so why would you and I choose to resent someone? Write down everyone you feel resentment for and let go of it. Feel free again. Go to https://www.yoursecretname.com to get a free book, training and masterclass. Don't get wounded ...
3m Aug 03, 2019
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S1 Ep618: Do you suffer from digital dementia?
I heard someone ask how many phone numbers you know. We don't do that anymore. Our smart phones sometimes make us dumber. Memory is a muscle and we know most people don't stretch their brain. Are you stretching your brain?
4m Aug 02, 2019
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S1 Ep617: Guaranteed proof you're a disciplined person
Are you disciplined? You are 100% disciplined according to your current results. The question is, "Are we happy with the results we're getting?" If not, may be you need to change something. To help you decide what resets you want in your life, go to https://www.deeperpathbook.com and get your free book, masterclass and assessment. 
3m Aug 01, 2019
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S1 Ep616: Almost couldn't cross the border (People smell unbelief)
I just crossed the border and it didn't go well. Why? Because I wasn't confident when answering the guard's questions. She asked me where I live and I fumbled a bit because I was distracted. That caused her to grill me further. People pick up on your vibe/unbelief even more than your words. When you are prepared for the moment, then the moment is prepared for you. Go to http://www.dayjobtodream...
4m Jul 31, 2019
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S1 Ep615: I needed you today
The other day, my friend, Lee, walked into a grocery store. When he got ready to check out, there was a long line. Suddenly a woman turned on her sign, and he asked if she was open. She replied reluctantly. He told her that sometimes the start of the day is the best part. When they finished their encounter, she told him that she needed him today. Someone needs you today. Your light can help dis...
4m Jul 30, 2019
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S1 Ep614: Want more joy? Turn your Os into Es.
The other day I was talking to my friend, Lee. So many times in life, words are so powerful. We say I "got" to do this or that. Instead say I 'get to." Think of the things you have to do as a blessing or find someone else to do them. Dan Sullivan says, "Find your who," not your how. Find someone who loves to do what you feel like you have to do.
5m Jul 29, 2019
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S1 Ep613: The danger of losing touch with your customer
So many times, we want to factor out the human factor of sales. Automation is great but you need to be able to relate and understand your customers. When you become untouchable, they'll move on to someone else. never lose the ability to stay in touch with people.
3m Jul 28, 2019
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S1 Ep612: Do you do dinner with these types of people?
Every day is an absolute miracle if you just look around and take everything in. We often miss out on so many things because we're dialed into our phones and our own world. Yesterday I had dinner with Dan Sullivan who is always focused on growing. Be around people who grow you and stretch you.
2m Jul 27, 2019
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S1 Ep611: Don't waste your emotional energy
Dan Miller and I both had early flights to get to Chicago and spend the day together, but our flights were delayed. What do you do when you have unexpected things show up. It is always a negative? It's all about your frame of mind. Why would you waste your emotional energy. Instead, ask yourself, what does this make possible? 
4m Jul 26, 2019
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S1 Ep610: Have you scared yourself recently
Most of our lives are built around eliminating fear. Fear is your brain telling yourself that you're in new territory. You can't have courage unless you have the pressure of fear. If you want to be courageous, step into new experiences out of your comfort zone and experience new levels of fear. That's how you up your game. To find out more on this, get your free book at https://www.yoursecretna...
4m Jul 25, 2019
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S1 Ep609: If you struggle with self-doubt
Last night I was talking with a fantastic person who want to write a book. Her fear is that other people will not see her as an expert. Russell Brunson says, "My results are my credentials." You don't have to be an expert. you just need to have real life experience and a passion. What are you waiting to do that you're not doing because you don't have the credentials or the expertise? Stop waiti...
4m Jul 24, 2019
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S1 Ep608: My quick speaking tips
I'm just about ready to go live, speaking at a Nick Francis' Sky Sprout Summit Here's a tip: don't show up unready. Talk to the AV people, do a dry run, make sure there are no surprises. Practices with the room and the set up.
3m Jul 23, 2019
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S1 Ep607: Why it's better to be a master of one than a jack of all trades
The other day, a friend posted this question on Facebook. Would you rather be a jack of all trades or a master of one? It's really important to have one purpose and one focus. My purpose is igniting souls. The way I do that, through speaking, writing and coaching are tools. When people remember you they should remember you for one thing. Find out more in your free book at https;//www.deeperpath...
4m Jul 22, 2019
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S1 Ep606: Why not you? Why not today?
I meet people all the time who are surprised when God's favor or blessing shows up. But why not you? Why does it always have to happen to someone else? This kind of thinking trains your brain to expect that good things are going to happen.
4m Jul 21, 2019
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S1 Ep605: Stop being nice
We're told from a very young age to play nice. Enough with being nice. Nice doesn't create transformation. Last night I was on a call with future authors. There was a gentlemen who took the position of a critic. He was not teachable. Eventually I asked him what he was afraid of. He paused and told us that he was afraid of not being in control. Being nice sometimes can be the most unloving thing...
4m Jul 20, 2019
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