S1 Ep639: How to start a gathering in your city
I'm on my way to the monthly Igniting Souls fellowship. We've been doing it for seven years. I would encourage you to do something like this. We record it and live stream it. The Igniting Souls Fellowship helps get the word out and helps people dig deeper and stay connected. This free gathering is a secret to our growing business. 
4m Aug 24, 2019
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S1 Ep638: 1 in 4 women are impacted by this
Let's talk about domestic abuse. One in four people are impacted by abuse. it is the #1 killer of women around the world. People think it's a personal thing and and doesn't impact us. But it impacts employers and others around. If you know someone who may be suffering from abuse, build trust with them. If you are a victim, reach out for help. You can get a toolkit at https://www.thesupportertoo...
7m Aug 23, 2019
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S1 Ep637: The one secret you can't hide in your marriage
Have you ever had a secret you feel like you have to hide — like porn addiction? But you shouldn't hide it. Find out this author's story of her husband and his porn addiction in her book, "Choosing A Way Out When the Bottom Isn't the Bottom." The author Kirsten Samuel recommends you reach out for help immediately. She's taken her pain and turned it into her passion as a trauma impact coach. Ack...
5m Aug 22, 2019
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S1 Ep636: Your idea isn't too crazy (Shawshank is proof)
Have you ever had a crazy idea? Me too! I'm standing in front of Shawshank Prison, where I just did a presentation. Years ago, I had a crazy idea called Day Job To Dream Job about people escaping the Shawshank Prison of their job. I decided I wanted to write it inside the prison. I had no idea how I was going to do that. Don't worry about the how of your dream. I have now come back on the 20th ...
4m Aug 21, 2019
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S1 Ep635: Most people miss this law of success
Is it possible to exercise once a year? Well, you can but it won't change anything. I have seen Doug working on his mindset and beliefs. Why? He says, "The more you work on yourself, the more ripped you get." The reality of working out is that people don't see 80% of what you do. It's a daily process. But when you start seeing the pay off, people start to notice and ask questions. You can find ...
7m Aug 19, 2019
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S1 Ep634: How to stop worry from limiting your best life
We live in a world where so many people worry. Worry is an improper use of imagination. Worry is very creative thinking, but it's used in a negative way. your brain is wired to validate what you're looking for. Be careful about what you say and think. Replace your thoughts and use your imagination for good. For more on this topic, go to https://www.yoursecretname.com for a free book and masterc...
5m Aug 18, 2019
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S1 Ep633: Are you a wave maker or a wave faker?
Daphne Smith, a member of the Fire Ring Mastermind, shares the difference between a wave maker and a wave faker. A wave maker is someone who is not afraid of rocking the boat. A wave faker is an imposter — someone who is treading water. Ask yourself if you are making waves. If not, it may because you're scared. In Daphne's book, What Is Your Scarlett Letter, about recognizing your hurts, releas...
4m Aug 17, 2019
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S1 Ep632: I love what this lady told me today
The last couple of weeks, I have been interviewing people for our private mastermind — Fire Ring. These are people who want to be pushed. They want to grow — like Christina, who told me when she wants to go to the next level in anything, she seeks out the best to guide her through the process. That's what Fire Ring is all about. We share our exact playbook. Having a guide will give you confiden...
5m Aug 16, 2019
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S1 Ep631: Better to take a shot or run sprints?
My daughter was in this girl's basketball clinic recently. The coach gathered the girls together and told them that my daughter was going to throw two free throws. He told them they had a choice to either run two sprints right now and she doesn't have to shoot any. If she makes one and misses one, they have to run five sprints. If she misses both, they have to run 10 sprints. And if she makes b...
6m Aug 15, 2019
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S1 Ep630: FIRE RING: our premium mastermind for select high performers
We pull back the curtain so you can see the energy of our Fire Ring Mastermind and what it has meant to the group. Apply at https://www.fireringmastermind.com
3m Aug 14, 2019
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S1 Ep629: Why the best things in life and business are free
This past weekend, we spent a bunch of time in the basement playing indoor volleyball. So many times we think our kids need the latest technology. Sometimes we just need to turn off the devices and have some good old fashioned fun. The best things in life are often free. Entertainment often gets tripped up on money and budgets. What could you do that's free in your business. The best marketing ...
5m Aug 13, 2019
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S1 Ep628: Do you keep score?
My friend Lee talks about how if you ask a rookie on a football team what success looks like, he will know exactly what that means. Many times in our business, our rookies don't know what success means for our company. Do you know what success looks like for your company? We have a moonshot. It was to ignite one million souls by 2020. But we've already achieved that, so now our moonshot is 10 m...
4m Aug 12, 2019
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S1 Ep627: Why your idea isn't working
Timing is everything. I believe that now more than ever. We recently has two major partnerships happen. If you're trying to push something and it's not coming together, you might be learning key lessons for the next partnership. Take notes on what you can do differently next time. God is working things in the background — His perfect plan. If you need more help on this topic, consider joining u...
5m Aug 11, 2019
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S1 Ep626: How to avoid other people disappointing you
A lot of people are dependent on other people's affirmations, but you might be setting yourself up to fail because you are connecting your success to someone else. Instead, encourage yourself. Compliment yourself. That's what you can control. When you look at high performers, they find their confidence internally. Find out more about developing a practical mindset at https://www.ignitingsoulsco...
4m Aug 10, 2019
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S1 Ep625: How to live to 156
Join me and Dan Sullivan for a Global Livestream Book Launch Party, in which Dan shares his plan for living to be 156. His recommendation: live today as if you have massive amounts of time left in your life. Find out more about his book and get a close up look at how to do a book launch party.
1hr 3m Aug 09, 2019
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S1 Ep624: Don't ask for forgiveness
We have amazing team members, and I am a big fan of keeping things open and transparent in business. You gain relational equity when you talk to someone in advance.
4m Aug 08, 2019
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S1 Ep623: The most attractive person at the party. (nothing to do with looks)
There are two ways to live. You either never have enough or you have more than enough. That includes time, attention, money, affirmation, and confidence. If you have the mindset that you have more than enough, everyone wants to be around you and work with you. It impacts literally everything. Which one are you?
4m Aug 07, 2019
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S1 Ep622: The secret ingredient to get more joy in life
Kindness is the key — even in the littlest things like merging in traffic. Team unity is so important. It's so easy to respond in anger, but when you respond in kindness it diffuses the situation. I was at Sky Sprout Summit recently, and I could tell the staff was working hard, so as a speaker I told them what a great job they were doing and thanked them. I don't always act with kindness, but i...
5m Aug 06, 2019
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S1 Ep621: Plan your spontaneity
Have you ever known someone who is not spontaneous at all. You can actually plan your spontaneity. I love doing new things. Getting stuck in a rut is not good. It literally makes us go on autopilot. When you add novelty, you get close to the optimal state of performance. Plan some spontaneity.
3m Aug 05, 2019
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S1 Ep620: Meet my friend, the robot
Take a look at this crazy cool invention. It's called The Beam. It's a mobile Skype device. Someone can remotely drive it to another person's office across the world to Skype with them. You never know how big the imagination can be. Whatever your idea is, give it a shot.
3m Aug 04, 2019
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S1 Ep619: Stop letting your enemies hurt you
Just the other day i learned what the word resentment means. It means to feel again. If you feel resentment, you are choosing to feel again. You can't change the past, so why would you and I choose to resent someone? Write down everyone you feel resentment for and let go of it. Feel free again. Go to https://www.yoursecretname.com to get a free book, training and masterclass. Don't get wounded ...
3m Aug 03, 2019
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S1 Ep618: Do you suffer from digital dementia?
I heard someone ask how many phone numbers you know. We don't do that anymore. Our smart phones sometimes make us dumber. Memory is a muscle and we know most people don't stretch their brain. Are you stretching your brain?
4m Aug 02, 2019
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S1 Ep617: Guaranteed proof you're a disciplined person
Are you disciplined? You are 100% disciplined according to your current results. The question is, "Are we happy with the results we're getting?" If not, may be you need to change something. To help you decide what resets you want in your life, go to https://www.deeperpathbook.com and get your free book, masterclass and assessment. 
3m Aug 01, 2019
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S1 Ep616: Almost couldn't cross the border (People smell unbelief)
I just crossed the border and it didn't go well. Why? Because I wasn't confident when answering the guard's questions. She asked me where I live and I fumbled a bit because I was distracted. That caused her to grill me further. People pick up on your vibe/unbelief even more than your words. When you are prepared for the moment, then the moment is prepared for you. Go to http://www.dayjobtodream...
4m Jul 31, 2019
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S1 Ep615: I needed you today
The other day, my friend, Lee, walked into a grocery store. When he got ready to check out, there was a long line. Suddenly a woman turned on her sign, and he asked if she was open. She replied reluctantly. He told her that sometimes the start of the day is the best part. When they finished their encounter, she told him that she needed him today. Someone needs you today. Your light can help dis...
4m Jul 30, 2019
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S1 Ep614: Want more joy? Turn your Os into Es.
The other day I was talking to my friend, Lee. So many times in life, words are so powerful. We say I "got" to do this or that. Instead say I 'get to." Think of the things you have to do as a blessing or find someone else to do them. Dan Sullivan says, "Find your who," not your how. Find someone who loves to do what you feel like you have to do.
5m Jul 29, 2019
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S1 Ep613: The danger of losing touch with your customer
So many times, we want to factor out the human factor of sales. Automation is great but you need to be able to relate and understand your customers. When you become untouchable, they'll move on to someone else. never lose the ability to stay in touch with people.
3m Jul 28, 2019
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S1 Ep612: Do you do dinner with these types of people?
Every day is an absolute miracle if you just look around and take everything in. We often miss out on so many things because we're dialed into our phones and our own world. Yesterday I had dinner with Dan Sullivan who is always focused on growing. Be around people who grow you and stretch you.
2m Jul 27, 2019
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S1 Ep611: Don't waste your emotional energy
Dan Miller and I both had early flights to get to Chicago and spend the day together, but our flights were delayed. What do you do when you have unexpected things show up. It is always a negative? It's all about your frame of mind. Why would you waste your emotional energy. Instead, ask yourself, what does this make possible? 
4m Jul 26, 2019
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S1 Ep610: Have you scared yourself recently
Most of our lives are built around eliminating fear. Fear is your brain telling yourself that you're in new territory. You can't have courage unless you have the pressure of fear. If you want to be courageous, step into new experiences out of your comfort zone and experience new levels of fear. That's how you up your game. To find out more on this, get your free book at https://www.yoursecretna...
4m Jul 25, 2019
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S1 Ep609: If you struggle with self-doubt
Last night I was talking with a fantastic person who want to write a book. Her fear is that other people will not see her as an expert. Russell Brunson says, "My results are my credentials." You don't have to be an expert. you just need to have real life experience and a passion. What are you waiting to do that you're not doing because you don't have the credentials or the expertise? Stop waiti...
4m Jul 24, 2019
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S1 Ep608: My quick speaking tips
I'm just about ready to go live, speaking at a Nick Francis' Sky Sprout Summit Here's a tip: don't show up unready. Talk to the AV people, do a dry run, make sure there are no surprises. Practices with the room and the set up.
3m Jul 23, 2019
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S1 Ep607: Why it's better to be a master of one than a jack of all trades
The other day, a friend posted this question on Facebook. Would you rather be a jack of all trades or a master of one? It's really important to have one purpose and one focus. My purpose is igniting souls. The way I do that, through speaking, writing and coaching are tools. When people remember you they should remember you for one thing. Find out more in your free book at https;//www.deeperpath...
4m Jul 22, 2019
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S1 Ep606: Why not you? Why not today?
I meet people all the time who are surprised when God's favor or blessing shows up. But why not you? Why does it always have to happen to someone else? This kind of thinking trains your brain to expect that good things are going to happen.
4m Jul 21, 2019
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S1 Ep605: Stop being nice
We're told from a very young age to play nice. Enough with being nice. Nice doesn't create transformation. Last night I was on a call with future authors. There was a gentlemen who took the position of a critic. He was not teachable. Eventually I asked him what he was afraid of. He paused and told us that he was afraid of not being in control. Being nice sometimes can be the most unloving thing...
4m Jul 20, 2019
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S1 Ep604: Listen to the nudges of life
I just got off the phone with a friend I haven't spoken to in five years. I am so glad we connected. If you have a nudge like that, do it.
5m Jul 19, 2019
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S1 Ep603: How to think like a Roman Emperor
The words you use matter. I've been reading a book recently about stoic thinking. We often say things with hyperbole and emotion and set unrealistic expectations for ourselves. We don't have to necessarily deny ourselves, but just because we feel something doesn't mean we have to act on it.
5m Jul 18, 2019
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S1 Ep602: How to know if you're hustling too hard
I've taken more rest this summer than in previous summers. It's amazing what happens when you build margin in your life. If you don't, your body may MAKE you slow down. For more on this topic get your free book at https://www.deeperpathbook.com
3m Jul 17, 2019
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S1 Ep601: The time I stop talking in the sales process
In the sales process, have you ever had to defend yourself? When i get to that point, I usually back off because I don't like the energy. Sometimes I even confront it. When you find yourself talking and talking, you're telling and selling and not serving. Your job is not to control but to serve. Find out more about how to build and scale your business at https://www.karyoberbrunner.com/bae
4m Jul 16, 2019
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S1 Ep600: You're odd...and that's your superpower
I love the fact that you're odd. I recently watched a movie with my kids about real life superdogs that save people. Behind those super dogs are super people who train them. It takes patience. These people are odd. If you've been told you're odd, embrace it. Let your oddity be your superpower. 
4m Jul 15, 2019
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S1 Ep598: Your breakthrough happens when you remove the mask
Recently one of our authors posted how difficult it is to finish her book. She wasn't complaining, but instead asking for help. When people take off the mask they actually begin to build their own tribe because people can began to relate to them. Stop pretending. Be Real. Be authentic. That's the moment of your ultimate transformation.
4m Jul 13, 2019
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S1 Ep599: Don't waste your breath on these people
Have you ever heard the statement, "Don't waste your breath." I recently got into a conversation with someone who is uncoachable. Immediately they became defensive. No wonder they're stuck. Sometimes it's better to be a good example for everybody. It's not your job to be be responsible for everybody — only to them. 
4m Jul 13, 2019
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S1 Ep597: (Brain Trick) How to live longer
If we're not careful, we accept the cliches about growing older. More and more people are living longer. I just talked to a 75 year old who feels more alive and is more in shape than ever. Your brain will find proof for what it's looking for. if you want to think everything is going wrong then that's what you'll find. If you think you'll find helpful people, you will. Join other authentic, beli...
5m Jul 12, 2019
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S1 Ep596: How to push past your pain (the cross and the crown)
The other day I was talking to a client who was going through some pain. I don't like pain. But most things in life require some pain. We must embrace it. Don't look at the cross, look at the crown. If you focus on the crown, you'll be able to endure the cross. Join us at Igniting Souls Conference to find out more - https://www.ignitingsoulsconference.com.
4m Jul 11, 2019
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S1 Ep595: Don't discover your dream, recover it
People often talk about how they need to find their purpose. Sometimes we get lost along the way and push down our dreams. We often just need to recover some of those dreams we've lost—not find new ones. Maybe you loved art or the outdoors as a kid but didn't think you could make an income doing that. Find out more at https://www.deeperpathbook.com. Get your free book, just pay shipping and han...
4m Jul 10, 2019
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S1 Ep594: How to leverage speaking to grow your influence, impact, and income.
My good friend Dexter Godfrey shares a bit about his transformation story and that of others he's seen in this community. He says if you start with the right idea and share it with the right people, you can grow it. But you have to be teachable and open to change. If you'd like to find out more, join us at the Igniting Souls Conference. https://www.ignitingsoulsconference.com
25m Jul 09, 2019
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S1 Ep593: Quick tips BEFORE you think about doing Facebook ads
Quick tips how to successfully market your product or service online. Exclusive Interview with Igniting Souls Conference Speaker: Nick Francis.
20m Jul 08, 2019
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S1 Ep592: Does your life embody this song?
Growing up in a church, we sang the song Sweet Hour of Prayer. In our day and age, we'd have to change the lyrics to sweet second of prayer. We as a society don't take a lot of time for reflection and prayer. What if you took a break in your day — even five minutes to take a breath, exercise or be in nature. I solve so many business problems taking breaks throughout the day. Just think about wh...
5m Jul 07, 2019
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S1 Ep591: The danger of trusting your brain more than your heart
One of my favorite movies is Dead Poet's Society. There's a scene in the movie where the teacher begins teaching how to score a poem and he tells them to rip the entire section out.  I've been listening to lectures from professors from Harvard and others, and I feel the same way. I think they're overcomplicating it. So many times we rely on logic, but we need to trust our heart. Will power, hus...
5m Jul 06, 2019
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S1 Ep590: What you shouldn't say to people you want to endorse you
Imagine getting this e-mail, "I would love to partner with you. What do you do?" When you're asking for a collaboration, it's like asking someone to go out on a date with you. But it's up to you to do the research and tell them how you can add value to them. So how do you do an ask like "will you endorse my book" of someone you don't have a relationship with? You do it by providing them value f...
5m Jul 05, 2019
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