• Setting strong boundaries is a MUST. 
• Help them shape their inner warrior
• Let them build relationships with trusted people
• Transformation starts from YOU so lead by example.

• Where you are getting your money (Are you putting the DEMAND on yourself)
• Where you are spending your money (Are you being REAL about measuring it)

• Where am I afraid?
• Where am I not trusting?
• Where am I not clear?

1. The history of cannabis is SO much more complex than we thought! 
2. There’s a whole network in the human body called the Cannabinoid System that deals with these molecules and chemicals. 
3. Cannabis is just one tool to assist with transformation. Like everything in your life, healing requires balance with lifestyle, mindset, and much more.

• Is this a problem with understanding what to do? (purpose)
• Is this an issue with figuring out how to do things? (strategy)
• Is this a struggle with believing I can do it? (self-worth)

• Take stock of the last year - Check in with feelings, lessons, growth, gratitude.

• Create your challenges - How were they blessings, why did it need to happen, but also did you create your own challenges - because that’s how you master life.

• Honour the lessons - don’t learn the same thing over and over. Apply the lessons to grow. Look at the cycles happening and talk about the one you are in to bring awareness to it.

• Plan your ‘flow state’ activities - daily, weekly, monthly, quarterly. Things that help you feel present. Plan the fun.

• Be consistent - growth is a continuous spiral upwards. If you don’t put in the work in the marathon you’ll be at the same point next year.

• Interrogate the discomfort (don’t numb it)
• Set boundaries with yourself first (Go within before focusing outward
• Communicate. Communicate. Communicate. (Stop expecting others to get your position without telling them it first)
• Make it a statement (Questions imply you’re open to moving the lines. You don’t have to excuse yourself)
• Be strong but not defensive (When you are the latter you perceive others can take that boundary off you)

1. Constantly being a people pleaser (where do you stop and someone else starts)
2. An inability to speak up (Or being too emotional when you do)
3. Feeling guilty or anxious all the time (Because you’re putting more value on someone else)
4. A fear of rejection (Not wanting to lose someone else, but losing yourself instead. 
5. You carry resentment that people don’t ‘know’ what you need.  (People can only ‘cross’ lines if you’ve actually set & communicated them first.

• Set a particular time each week (or day) to talk - Come together in a place of respect and understanding.
• Leave judgement out of it - Create a space that is safe and free from finger-pointing. Remember that it is you and your partner against the problem, not you against your partner.
• Use structured questions - Things like “Is anything unresolved for you?” or “In what ways can I show up for you this week to show I care?”
• Remember to acknowledge the good - All relationships are about balance, so don’t forget to praise instead of just raise problems.

• The values of traditions and what they can bring to our lives
• The need to set strong boundaries
• The importance of leaning into discomfort for growth

• What’s acknowledged grows. Start noticing the good and put attention on the outcome you want.
• Create an anchor point. When there is chaos have a placed of calm within you that you can come back to. Your mission, calling, or purpose. Even the values you know you can rely on.
• Break things down. Pretty much 99% of the time put off things off not because we can’t do them, but because they overwhelm us. Put it into a step-by-step plan.
• Open a dialogue with yourself. Bring a consciousness to the way you speak to yourself. And be open and inquisitive.
• Work on your relationships. They are fundamental to our lives and it’s easier to give up when things feel fractured.

• Rainmaker  - Sees opportunity in everything and gets resources for the business
• Manager - Gets things done and systemises everything
• Talent - Has a big vision and thinks outside the box

•  Everything is love. Even trauma. Love is the synthesis of both positive and negative. Not either one but both.
• You should put yourself first, always. You cannot fill from an empty cup and you cannot teach others to do the same if you don’t first.
• Your self-worth is equal to your net-worth. Show us your bank account and we will tell you how much love you have for yourself.
• You’re responsible for what happens to you. While you might not be able to control circumstances, you are the only one deciding how you show up and react to them.

• Why / Concept - Finding both an idea to solve and the purpose in solving it, and what this gives YOU and your IDEAL customer. As Mike says - you need to figure out where the water is before you dig the well.
• Who - Knowing everything about that ideal customer and focusing your energy there. Remember, if you focus too much on catching every fish in the sea, you’ll never catch anything.
• Hook - Making an undeniable offer, or actually THREE!! The ones you’ll need are: Core (your best or main product), Downsell (A dressed down version that’s more accessible), and Educational (A small buy they can’t say no to)
• Structure - The core elements you need to run that it’s good to have an accountant to help you with. Business name, revenue expectations, product or service based, online or physical. Get asking those questions.

1. Breathe. And remember they aren’t GIVING you a hard time, they are HAVING a hard time.
2. Give them the space to express their feeling
3. Don’t take it personally. They aren’t mad at you, but at whatever is causing their ‘overwhelm’
4. Give words to why they are hurting. The worst thing you can do is ignore it.
5. Wait until they are OUTSIDE the emotion (in place and time) to discuss the real stuff that’s going down.

• It helps eliminate delusion (since you know where your weaknesses & strengths are)
• It allows YOU to prioritise and choose (instead of having people take it from you)
• It creates value in you (as you know your worth)
• And it allows more money to find you (because money flows to where it is organised most)

• People (New perspectives or differing opinions)
• Songs (Music that helps you let go, or transports you to a specific time and place)
• Movies (Films that have deeper messages)
• Podcasts (People talking about obscure & peculiar topics)
• Books (Non-fiction gems that unlock your mind)
• Nature (Plant medicine, time connecting with the universe)
• Movement (Exercise, playing, dancing - getting in touch with his 

• Have a vision that is real and detailed
• Feel and connect your vision with a moment of pure gratitude
• Broadcast that gratitude with intensity
• Do it frequently and with purpose
• Get feedback by asking for - and being open to - the universe’s signs

1. Giving up on your own values
2. Placing expectations on your partner
3. Not communicating in terms of your values

1. Imagine - You’ve got 6 months to live and no restrictions. What do you do?
2. Write - Condense the essence of your dream into 100 words
3. Attributes - Find the attributes you’d need for that life, and go to a time, place and location you’ve already displayed that
4. Receive - Write down what you expect back from the universe, and be ready to receive everything that comes with that.
5. Feel -  Ask yourself “what would I feel every morning if I woke up accomplishing this mission,” and show up in that emotion.

• The science of manifestation
• Why Universal Laws are important
• Whether manifestation can backfire on you
• The 7-step formula for manifesting your dreams

1. Do you actually NEED to hire someone (and are you hiring in the RIGHT role)
2.  Have I thought about what is going to bring PURPOSE to this position?
3. Am I being honest about the 3 elements of a prospective employee (can they do the job, will they do the job, will they be a culture fit)

• Make self-worth your starting point
• Understand time is finite and valuable
• Focus on your vision and celebrate your wins
• Know that cycles come and go
• Switch up your thoughts from addictions to inspiration

• Marketing & Awareness
• Conversion & Sales
• Capacity & Efficiency
• Products & Service

• Recognise trends early 
• See what other people in your industry are moving towards
• Look for opportunities in relation to your skillset
• Don’t be afraid to take calculated risks

1. By standing on the shoulders of giants who have done it before
2. Or by spending time and money on trial and error

• You aren’t connected enough to what you do and it’s REAL service to humanity
• You are too connected to what you do, that you're not doing the systemised work to get there.

• Why the build, maintain, and disperse financial phases are seven years each 
• How and why new currencies emerge (Paper > Plastic > Stocks/Bonds > Crypto)
•  The power of a savings system (and what it needs to follow to be successful)
•  How to diversify and use the expertise around you (not subordinate to it)

• Your idea has got to be 𝙪𝙣𝙞𝙦𝙪𝙚 (Give people something they can’t get elsewhere)
• It’s got be 𝙧𝙚𝙥𝙧𝙤𝙙𝙪𝙘𝙞𝙗𝙡𝙚 (You can’t just help one person, you’ve got to help many!)
• There should be a 𝙨𝙮𝙨𝙩𝙚𝙢 (Which you continue to build as you grow)
• You’ve got to be 𝙘𝙤𝙣𝙨𝙞𝙨𝙩𝙚𝙣𝙩 (Growth requires stability)
• It should come from a 𝙨𝙠𝙞𝙡𝙡𝙨𝙚𝙩 (Passion becomes experience becomes skill)

•  Surrounding yourself with people who are vibrating at the level you want (cut out that poverty mentality)
• The seven-year wealth cycle (we’re currently in ‘destruction phase’ and you NEED to do something about this)
• There are blessings in everything… even being poor. And you’ll never break out of it until you can acknowledge that.

• Still get emotional at someone on the opposite side of the argument
• Go to rallies and then fall into the same thinking patterns when they go home
• Get annoyed, angry, or pissed off about the issue (and it’s coverage)

• Wingin’ it instead of strategising
• Focusing too hard on getting to their goals, they don’t plan what to do once they make it there.
• Failing to have a ‘Holy F***’ plan for when things go to s***
• Not understanding your outcome. Because that’s where all good prep work starts. 

• What dad does for work…
• Who cooks better in the Behan household
• What their parents are good at
• Who is the number one kid…
• Which things come first in Mitch’s life
• What they want to be in the future
• What their best advice is to others

• What death really means
• Why love is the greatest gift we leave behind
• How important it is to not leave things unsaid
• Why we should shift our perceptions before losing someone

• What is comedy? Is it simply taking the piss?
• Why we won’t ever find things 𝙩𝙧𝙪𝙡𝙮 funny unless we are clear with ourselves.
• That there is power in not shrinking to make other people comfortable.
• Why cancel culture can lead to us erasing our past missteps. Which is just as bad.
• Why who you are is more important than how others see you.

• The two types of people using technology
• Why people (even business coaches like Mike) freak out when doing Instagram Lives
• How ‘fear’ is your biggest roadblock
• What the best technology advancement (bets on Zoom… anyone?!)

• Sometimes it takes effort - it is okay to PLAN your break
• Find a balance between fun and nurturing yourself
• Don’t stay on break too long (don’t let boredom run riot…)
• Keep a routine where you can, as this benefits your health and protects your energy.
• Set your intentions before indulging (drinking, eating sweets), and ask what you want to get out of it so you can control and guide yourself to that.

1. Having a vision (What and Why) and reason behind what you’re doing.
2. Get clear on your position, and honest on where you want to go (Who and Where)
3. Build a system, create steps, and reverse engineer results (How)

• What you are grateful for
• What you CAN control (as opposed to what you can’t)
• And how to think outside the box to celebrate the way you want 

• Never-ending Imposter Syndrome

• And a lack of support from a ‘flawed system’

• Why you don’t need to ‘convince’ someone to buy your product
• How important it is to create a depth of vision for your business
• Why the key to success is grabbing people’s attention and delivering the impossible
• How real wealth lies in how you serve others
• The three P’s to profits - Promises, Problems, and People

• Why some people prefer deep and meaningful conversations
• How vulnerability and trust are the biggest factors in having someone’s back
• Why you need to be able to laugh at yourself (without putting yourself down)
• How you can earn the right to talk about people in a certain way
• Why apologising is a foundation to friendship

• 𝗥𝗲𝘀𝗶𝘀𝘁𝗮𝗻𝗰𝗲 (Feeling annoyed and irritated at things your partner does)
• 𝗥𝗲𝘀𝗲𝗻𝘁𝗺𝗲𝗻𝘁 (When that annoyance turns into hate and you compare how they ‘used’ to be)
• 𝗥𝗲𝗷𝗲𝗰𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻 (When the resentments build up, and often lead to divorce. Whatever they want suddenly you don’t want it)
• 𝗥𝗲𝗽𝗿𝗲𝘀𝘀𝗶𝗼𝗻 (When you bury the pain of not getting what you want and just get ‘comfortable’)

• Practice discipline
• Remember you are in the driver’s seat of your own health
• Give away your TV
• Do breath work
• Meditate
• Prioritise your health
• Ask questions and be curious

• Physical (Get moving to bring you up)
• Mental (Switch off and shut out what is bringing you down) 
• Spiritual (Align with your values to bring you balance)

• Whether you’re the 𝘁𝗮𝗹𝗲𝗻𝘁, the 𝗰𝗼𝗮𝗰𝗵, or the 𝗿𝗮𝗶𝗻𝗺𝗮𝗸𝗲𝗿 in your field!
• What the blindsides and benefits each position bring to the table
• The key thing people overlook when hiring in a business

• Become intelligent (not just clever)
• Occupy your mind with things that nourish you
• Stop trying to change other people’s opinions and lead by example instead.
• Make living your values and searching for truth a top priority.

• The structure and science of viruses and bacteria
• How and why we project neuroses and fears onto things in life
• What natural remedies are and how they work
• How healing is possible

• “Saving Private Ryan really f*&$ed me up”
• If you haven’t watched Pan’s Labyrinth, what are you doing with your life
• Mills has not seen Schindler’s List OR Scarface OR Blazing Saddles
• The late 80s and early 90s might just have been the best era of film… I mean come on, The Goonies, The Breakfast Club, Flatliners, Dead Poets Society…
• Mitch’s favourite actor ISN’T Irish.

• Eat whole foods where possible
• Remove processing and stick to simple stuff
• Figure out what’s unbalanced in your life if you’re trying to find it in processed foods

• One pandemic
• Several incredible trips to India
• Dozens and dozens of transformational seminars
• And who knows how many arguments

1. True connection means being 𝐏𝐑𝐄𝐒𝐄𝐍𝐓. Connection is not just about being physically there - you must be energetically there too.  So give them your undivided attention. Don’t watch tv, scroll your phone, or be stuck in the mindset of trying to escape the situation.
2. Connection is different for each person. What works for one child, won’t for another. Similarly - you have to find ways to relate to them that are important to 𝐘𝐎𝐔 too. That brings true connection.
3. You don’t have to love it or be great at it 𝟏𝟎𝟎% of the time. You accept that you can’t be perfect with your partner or friends - so why do you expect you should be the same with your kids. Whatever they don’t get from you they will find, so BREATHE.
4. Kids process things 𝐬𝐥𝐨𝐰𝐥𝐲, so give them (and yourself) a moment after you ask a question. 

• Having the privilege to meet Jack Canfield (and be invited to his house!)
• Being given the gift of incredible friendships
• The chance meeting that led to her becoming a National Sales Manager of Juice Plus Australia
• The great advice her dad gave her about wealth

1.  There’s a conscious behaviour that happens because of a subconscious motive (root cause)
2. The feelings (conscious behaviour) we have are temporary and actually there to tell US what needs transforming
3. We find it easy to try and fix something in someone else, because we haven’t worked out those issues ourselves. 

• Most people set themselves up to fail because they make excuses before they start
• You need to have a clear, value-driven outcome
• You have to lean INTO the hard stuff. Being mentally comfortable gets you nowhere.
• A dream is nothing without the process behind it. And that brings beauty and pain.

In business, it's not just about the POWER OF LOVE; it is about the power of delegation. Conservation of energy and focusing on things you love are vital to running a successful business, team or tribe.

On this episode of D & D, Mitch and Mills discuss why delegating is essential and how to find the people to delegate to and how to efficiently delegate to others.

Also, you must listen to Mitch hitting the high notes with this weeks song.

Have you seen things that make your blood boil and just make you want to run out and hurt someone?

In this world of social media, it is so easy to condemn others for their actions, we need to sometimes look at why we are so quick to anger.

Take a look at Mitch and Mills as they explain how to feel better about the world and not have your consciousness kidnapped or sidetracked by social media or news media.

In this episode of Dorothy and the Dealer, Mitch and Mills breakdown the difference between repetition and routine, and then explain how this relates to children and their daily routines.

If you are a parent, this is a MUST WATCH episode!

In this podcast, Mitch and Mills challenge the stereotype of New Years resolutions, where people see January 1st as a fresh start.

Instead they believe that each year should be seen as a continuous cycle where people should be constantly staying accountable and focused on their goals.

Mitch and Mills scrap the BS and get real with how you can be YOUR BEST SELF while creating a successful business online!

They touch on topics like how the Nacar Lines and Mayan ruins are created and discuss the idea of taking Ayahuasca.

We were so blessed and fortunate to get some time with the one and only, legend and scholar in the personal development Dr John Demartini from the Demartini Institute.

In the first half of the episode, Dr Demartini talks about his youth, incongruence with monopolar personality thinking, meditating, and scientific study of positive statements. We finish by discussing where the consciousness movement is heading. 

In the second half of the episode, they discuss instant gratification, awakening your heart to see the duality of life, and his AH HA moment. 

We hope you enjoy this podcast as much as we did recording it!

This is a sensitive and tricky subject for Mitch & Mills to tackle. In this episode, Mitch and Mills are offering a new perspective of something that affects so many.

Listen in as Mitch & Mills explore their personal experiences with depression, their thoughts on what can cause it, and how we can all learn something from Jim Carrey’s words of wisdom.  

WARNING If you are feeling depressed, suicidal or if you feel you need to talk to someone about what you are feeling or going through, please call Lifeline on 13 11 14

This is the question Mitch & Mills tackle this week, deep diving into the topic of MONEY.

Whatever your reaction to the thought of money - frustration, anxiety, confidence or certainty - this discussion is essential listening for anyone wanting to take themselves to the next level…

To discover the 3 main areas to becoming wealthy & learn how you too can implement these strategies into your life to make your dreams or ultimate vision a reality.

The first step may just surprise you…

In this episode, Mitch and Mills dive into a discussion about the Universal Laws (governing every aspect of life) and how you can use this knowledge to open up your perspective & invite new opportunities you may have once considered impossible.

So what are you waiting for?

Chocolate or cocaine, anger or alcohol, Mitch and Mills flip the script and discuss their views on addiction. A highly emotional and personal podcast, we hope you enjoy the few nuggets of wisdom that are in there.

If you’re not one of those, you may find the connection between how both high and low self-esteem plays into pretty much every area of your life, interesting.

So, buckle yourself in and prepare for a bumpy yet fascinating ride!

Not an easy topic to tackle, M&M discuss the Parkland shooting survivors #enough movement and ask the questions, how can we, as individuals be compassionate and what can we do to make a difference?

Mitch suggests it is time to stop being distracted and start feeling again!

We also touch on a certain pattern we’ve noticed… specifically, how the people who openly share their stories with the world invite certain opportunities into their lives.

- how to find order in the chaos
- why we avoid emotions as a misguided form of self-protection, and
- how embracing the experience is all a part of life.

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- they talk cringe-worthy radio stations, controversial books, blowing up as 20 somethings, and the questions that started it all.
- how they both realised that they needed to think outside the square - if things were ever gonna change.
- and discuss how the question is sometimes more important than the answer + why talking to yourself isn’t actually all that odd.

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- why going in against big corporations, all guns blazing, isn’t the answer
- how we can start laying down the law on what info we want to consume.
- how we’re all actually in charge of the info we’re fed on social media, and why we’ve gotta stop feeling afraid and start getting creative.

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They discuss the moment Mitch realised he would never nail it as a dad + why children aren’t donkeys for parents to saddle their sh*t on + the difference between talking TO (not AT) our children.

It gets raw. It gets real. And there are more than a few home truths revealed.

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- what really happens when we tell ourselves the same old stories vs. what happens when we dare to think differently
- how you see and view the world and how society let you view it
- how tragedy becomes ones weapon and use it as their greatest tool or drag it through their lives to never step up and shine

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• How everything in life exists in duality - and why attempting to establish a one-sided kind of life will never work
• The #1 error the positive thinking movement makes (+ why those outwardly searching for peace will internally experience war)
• The importance of balancing your perceptions and avoid pursuing unsustainable attitudes (AKA. the distortion of pleasure without the pain)
• Why true homeostasis begins from the inside-out and demands in-depth self-study
• Why screwing up can actually lead to the most important lessons you’ll ever learn
• How perceptions can be influenced, in ways we’d totally never expect (*cough* media *cough*), and why we’re now beginning to wake up

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- the 25% crossover between you and your partner
- falling in love as a process of remembering of who you are and how important it is for you to live up to that value
- your partner is specifically designed in order for you to get you to love your own parts

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- Understanding the link between money and self-worth

- The common thread between how the wealthy manage their money and how the poor manage their money

- What we are passing down and teaching our kids about money

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- Why we are doing this podcast and what we hope to achieve

- Can we fix and change the people around us?

- How the parts of ourself we disown come back to challenge us and teach us

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