What Is Prayer and How Do I Get It To Work?—One Question with BT
BT does a deep dive on prayer, one of the most misunderstood and underutilized spiritual disciplines. He covers common questions like: “What is prayer?”, “How do I do it?” and “How do I get it to work?” Full of aggressive and actionable tips to get more yeses when you pray—things like (1) be animated, (2) be specific, and (3) picture what you are praying for—this short episode just might unlock...
16m Apr 08, 2025
16m
The Five Friendships You Need with Alli Patterson—Pastor, Author & Podcaster
Lone wolves are sicker, weaker, and die earlier than wolves in a pack. While loneliness continues to climb, the aggressive take action against it. Pastor and author, Alli Patterson, returns to The Aggressive Life to unpack her newest book: Blueprint for Belonging. She walks through the five types of friendships everyone needs, where to find them, and how to grow each one. In a world built to ke...
57m Apr 01, 2025
57m
Building A Marriage You Actually Want with Dave & Ann Wilson—Marriage Gurus
Dave and Ann Wilson have been helping others create the marriages they actually want for three decades—but their marriage wasn’t always one worth emulating. On their 10th wedding anniversary, Ann admitted that she had lost her feelings for Dave, taking him completely by surprise. Instead of arguing or fighting back, Dave took that moment to apologize and repent, and a new chapter for the Wisons...
54m Mar 25, 2025
54m
Making “Ozark” and “The Accountant” with Mark Williams—Hollywood Writer & Producer
Mark Williams is one of the masterminds behind some of the best TV and movies of the past decade. He was a writer and producer for Netflix’s smash Ozark. He produced Ben Affleck’s action films The Accountant and The Accountant 2. He’s done movies with Liam Neeson, Alfie Allen, and Jon Bernthal. But his next big swing just might be the most aggressive of his career. In this conversation, Mark ta...
1hr 12m Mar 18, 2025
1hr 12m
Risk is Key to Growth in Friendships, Marriage, and Business with Ron Razete—Founder, Peace, Love and Little Donuts
When Ron Razete launched Peace, Love and Little Donuts, it was an incredible risk. After multiple failures in the entrepreneurial space, Ron and his wife, Marci, had their backs against the wall. With nowhere else to turn, she sold her car to finance the venture, and the couple opened their first brick and mortar store in Pittsburg. 15 years later, that risk has more than paid off, expanding to...
1hr 9m Mar 11, 2025
1hr 9m
How to Put Your Phone Down and Live More with Darren Whitehead—The Digital Fast
Studies are clear: screens dominate our waking hours. It’s not uncommon to spend 7-10 hours in front of one, every single day. We don’t like it, but feel powerless to change it. That’s where Darren Whitehead comes in. A pastor, and author of “The Digital Fast,” Darren leads others to experience the power and life change he discovered through intentional disconnection. In a hyperconnected world,...
1hr 9m Mar 04, 2025
1hr 9m
How to Be a Better Husband—One Question with BT
The phrase “how to be a better husband” is Googled nearly 2x as much as “how to be a better wife.” Why is that? And how do you know if you’ve found a good answer? With nearly 40 years of experience, BT gives his perspective on that question. To be a better husband, he believes it involves seeing your marriage as a team, spending your energy toward it, having a plan, and making space for fun tog...
19m Feb 25, 2025
19m
Growing Prophetic Spiritual Muscles with Paul Maconochie—Leader, Teacher, Pastor
Does prophecy still happen today? Paul Maconochie thinks so, and that God is speaking to anyone willing to listen. Alongside BT, Paul unpacks the ways he hears from God, the risk it takes to share with others, and how we can learn to do the same. This aggressive conversation will push you out of your comfort zone and into a better place—because the more you risk, the more you grow. Watch the f...
1hr 14m Feb 18, 2025
1hr 14m
Pushing Yourself to the Limit (and Beyond) with Dan Rebella—Runner, The Great World Race
Running has been in Dan Rebella’s blood for years, so when the ultimate challenge presented itself, he didn’t blink. In late 2024, Dan signed up for the inaugural running of The Great World Race—7 full marathons, on all 7 continents, in only 7 days. From the first race, in Antarctica, to the final in Miami Beach, Dan pushed himself to the utter limit, and came out the other side stronger. No ma...
48m Feb 11, 2025
48m
Hack Your Habits For A Better Life with Michael Easter—Researcher, Author, Rucker
Culture is constantly selling us something. Michael Easter thinks it's time we stop buying. The best-selling author of The Comfort Crisis and Scarcity Brain returns to the podcast to help us push back against the craving and consumerism that keep us in shackles. From understanding how slot machines keep you hooked, to the power of community, to why discomfort is always the path to a better life...
1hr 2m Feb 04, 2025
1hr 2m
5 Keys to Improving Your Finances with John Hope Bryant—Financial Literacy Expert & Coach
John Hope Bryant is a successful entrepreneur, author, and financial guru who believes financial literacy—understanding how to make, save, and spend money—is the civil rights issue of our era. And he’s doing something about it. He’s written best-sellers, advised presidents, and helped influence policymakers. But his most enduring work is as the CEO of Operation Hope, where John is helping teach...
58m Jan 28, 2025
58m
Sports Betting, A Trip to the End of the World, and Raising Kids That Like You—Big News and a Mini Q&A with BT
Before we get too far into the New Year, it’s time for a Q&A episode. BT shares his thoughts on sports betting, how Santa Claus is like God, leading your family through deconstruction, and more. Before that, BT shares some big news coming for the podcast in 2025. The aggressive keep changing and adapting, and that includes us. Leave a rating and written review, get a free Aggressive Life stick...
34m Jan 21, 2025
34m
Mental Health and Perseverance on the Appalachian Trail with Tara Dower - Speed Record Holder for the A.T.
The first time Tara Dower got on the Appalachian Trail, she only lasted a handful of days before anxiety and mental health forced her to abandon her goal of through-hiking the 2,000 mile footpath. But she didn’t give up. In 2024, Tara got back on the A.T. with the goal of claiming the FKT—fastest known time. When she reached the finish line in only 40 days, she became the fastest human ever to ...
54m Jan 14, 2025
54m
How to Hear from God — One Question with BT
If you’re going to have a spiritually potent life, you have to learn how to hear from God. In this 1 Question deep-dive, BT shares his method for hearing from God: a daily repetition of scripture, prayer, and making space to listen. It takes persistence and perseverance, but when you learn how to hear from God for yourself, your aggressive life will hit new strides. - Create your own custom Bi...
21m Jan 07, 2025
21m
What Makes a Man?—BT on The Art of Manliness Podcast
Earlier this fall, BT got to check off a bucket list item—appearing as a guest on The Art of Manliness podcast, one of the first, and most successful, podcasts aimed at a male audience. With over a 1,000 episodes under his belt, host Brett McKay has carved out a space that encourages, challenges, and helps men rise. In conversation with Brian, the pairs discuss what makes a man, the long haul o...
53m Dec 31, 2024
53m
Eggnog with Santa on Christmas Eve with Gabby Claus—Professional Santa
Michael Gabbard—better known as Gabby Claus—has built a life out of serving others. From his time as a paramedic, to a firefighter, to a city council member and beyond, Gabby unexpectedly found his favorite role behind a big white beard and red suit. In his 13th year as Santa, Gabby Claus has a simple mission: bring Christmas smiles to everyone he meets. From city parks to home visits, pictures...
58m Dec 23, 2024
58m
Die Hard Double Feature: Finding God in Die Hard—BT’s “Christmas at the Movies” Teaching
For years, Brian has staked his claim that Die Hard is a Christmas movie. Now, he has stage time to explain why. As part of a weekend teaching series, “Christmas at the Movies,” Brian shares how Die Hard contains echoes of that original night in Bethlehem—from unideal family situations, to a hero that fights for his beloved. Recorded live at Crossroads Church in Cincinnati, Die Hard becomes a m...
41m Dec 17, 2024
41m
Die Hard Double Feature: Behind the Scenes with Elizabeth Lane—Hollywood Developer, Die Hard
Die Hard is a cultural phenomenon. The one liners. The action. The relatable hero. And the debate that comes around every single year: is Die Hard a Christmas movie? Brian sits down with former Hollywood movie developer, Elizabeth Lane, to get a rare peek behind the curtain on the beloved film. Part of the team that helped move Die Hard from flailing script to action classic, Elizabeth reflects...
35m Dec 17, 2024
35m
BT’s Aggressive Moonshot—Unpacking the 10X Push
Fresh off six of the most intense, and important, weeks of his career, Brian sits down for a conversation around the 10X Push. With nearly all of his peers winding down their careers, Brian is making the aggressive move to ramp up. Leading yourself, and others, through an intense journey that culminates in a 3-year financial commitment isn’t something to be taken lightly—but it just might be th...
1hr 12m Dec 10, 2024
1hr 12m
Defense & Offense—Five Marks of a Man Devotional, Day 5
For the past week, Brian has been sharing the first five entries from his newest book, The Five Marks of a Man Devotional: 60 Days to a Powerful Life. Written to encourage and empower men toward lives of aggressive and courageous manhood, it is a perfect guide for men of all ages. On this final day, Brian sets his sights on Mark 5: Men Are Protectors… and that means having a strong offense and...
6m Dec 07, 2024
6m
The Right to Fight—Five Marks of a Man Devotional, Day 4
To coincide with the release of his new book, The Five Marks of a Man Devotional: 60 Days to a Powerful Life, Brian is sharing the first week of entries with his podcast. Written in a straight-forward, action-oriented way, this devotional is perfect for any man looking to further develop lives of meaning, impact, and influence. Today, Brian dives into Mark 4: Men Work… instead of expecting lif...
7m Dec 06, 2024
7m
Grab a Shovel—Five Marks of a Man Devotional, Day 3
To celebrate the release of his newest book, The Five Marks of a Man Devotional: 60 Days to a Powerful Life, Brian is sharing the first five entries on the podcast. Designed with men of all ages in mind, the 60-day devotional is a masterclass in developing courageous manhood by putting it into practice, day-after-day-after-day. Today, Brian looks at Mark 3: Men Are Team Players… and that means...
6m Dec 05, 2024
6m
Starting Small—Five Marks of a Man Devotional, Day 2
This week, Brian is sharing the first five entries from his brand new book, The Five Marks of a Man Devotional: 60 Days to a Powerful Life. The final book in The Five Marks of a Man trilogy, the 60-day devotional is a powerful guide to practicing courageous manhood until it becomes second nature. Today, Brian dives into Mark 2: Men Take Minority Positions… even when they are small. If you lik...
6m Dec 04, 2024
6m
Time To Get Moving—Five Marks of a Man Devotional, Day 1
Brian’s new book, The Five Marks of a Man Devotional: 60 Days to a Powerful Life is live today! Born from years of study and practice, this book is designed to help men of all ages, from 13 to 103, develop lives of courageous manhood. How? By putting the marks into action until they become second nature. For the next five days, Brian will be sharing entries from the new book. If you like what ...
10m Dec 03, 2024
10m
Use Your Words This Thanksgiving—BT’s Gratitude Phone Calls 2024
Just days away from Thanksgiving, BT picks up the phone for a new Aggressive Life tradition—making gratitude phone calls. From his wife, to a childhood friend, to unknown warriors at his day job, each phone call gives him a chance to encourage and express gratitude to the people who mean the most to him. Now the challenge is in your hands. Before the Thanksgiving holiday ends, find time to expr...
29m Nov 26, 2024
29m
Lessons on Risk, Sex, and Hard Work from 60 Years of Marriage with Dick & Sybil Towner—Spiritual Mentors
You’ve never heard their names, but after this conversation, you won’t be forgetting them anytime soon. Dick and Sybil Towner are in their mid-80s, and still living life as some of the most aggressive people around. From starting a new adventure in their 70s; to intentionally aggressive choices around decision-making, sex, and finances; to how they spend their time on a daily basis, this couple...
1hr 18m Nov 19, 2024
1hr 18m
History’s Greatest Survival Story (Ernest Shackleton & The Endurance) with Nancy Koehn—Historian, Harvard Business School
The story of Ernest Shackleton, and the loss of his ship, The Endurance, is history’s greatest survival story. After nearly a year living on a ship stuck in Antarctic ice, the hull began to crack under the pressure. Shackleton ordered his men off the boat, making camp on the ice, as they watched the Endurance sink beneath the Weddell Sea… and that’s just the beginning of the story. From managin...
1hr 6m Nov 12, 2024
1hr 6m
BONUS: The Morning After The Election with Jon Tyson—Thought-Leader, Pastor
Fresh off an airplane from New York City, pastor, author, and thought-leader, Jon Tyson, sits down for an impromptu conversation with Brian about the US election, the results, and what comes next. Recorded on November 6th, about 10AM, Brian and Jon process and analyze the election results together, and explain why there has never been a better time to be committed to God’s kingdom.
47m Nov 06, 2024
47m
Connecting Emotional Health and Spiritual Maturity with Rich Villodas—Leader, Author, Pastor
You can’t be emotionally unhealthy AND spiritually mature—and thought-leader, Rich Villodas, has made it his mission to help others aggressively take ground in that arena. Whether it’s learning to express emotions, getting honest about the difficulty of life, or learning to stop judging your usefulness based upon what you can do, Rich offers accessible wisdom in crossing a topic that’s often fr...
1hr Nov 05, 2024
1hr
From Solitary Confinement to A Pulitzer Prize with Suave Gonzalez—Artist, Podcaster, Fighter
At the age of 17, Suave was arrested, tried as an adult, and found guilty. The mandatory minimum, at that time in the state of Pennsylvania, was life in prison. Before he was even old enough to vote, register for military service, or smoke, Suave was shipped away for life. While in prison, something began to shift in him. This rebellious, angry, and illiterate kid went on to learn to read, earn...
49m Oct 29, 2024
49m
Grace Feels Like Getting Hit By a Train with Joby Martin—Hunter, Author, Pastor
Joby Martin pastors one of the largest, and fastest growing, churches in the world. And, at the end of the day, he’s still a normal guy who loves hunting, his family, and his dogs. With a remarkable ability to make complex spiritual truths accessible, Joby turns his eye toward grace. It’s the bedrock of Chrirstian faith, and yet remains one of the most misunderstood, misapplied, and abused conc...
1hr 8m Oct 22, 2024
1hr 8m
Rogan, Junger, and Lessons From Dying with John Burke—NDE Researcher & Expert
In the summer of 2020, best-selling author Sebastian Junger nearly died. He was rushed to the hospital, and while medical personnel administered emergency care, he slipped out of consciousness. It was then he began to see, and experience, things that he had a hard time explaining. The medical staff were successful, and Junger’s life was saved. Junger recently published his reflections on his ne...
54m Oct 15, 2024
54m
Walking on the Moon with Astronaut Charlie Duke—Apollo 16 Moonwalker
Only 12 men have ever set foot on the moon—in April 1972, Charlie Duke became the youngest among them. At the age of 36, Charlie was part of Apollo 16, spending nearly 3 days on the lunar surface collecting rocks, taking soil samples, and driving the lunar rover. And that’s only a small part of his incredibly aggressive life. From his involvement with the first lunar landing, to  helping with A...
1hr 2m Oct 08, 2024
1hr 2m
Fighting For New Ground - Live at MAN CAMP 2024
When you try to take new ground, it means one thing: there will be a fight. Recorded under the big tent at MAN CAMP 2024, Brian unpacks the story of Caleb, who kept pushing for the high ground even into his 80s. No matter where you are in life, you aren’t finished yet. Keep fighting. MAN CAMP flash sale is happening right now. Claim your spot for next year at the lowest possible price. Visit h...
30m Oct 01, 2024
30m
Bonus: MAN CAMP 2024 - Songs & Stories
It's Sunday, and 3,000 guys are heading home from a MAN CAMP for the record books—more rain, more laughter, more mud, and more lives changed than ever before. This bonus episode features a mix of live worship, and stories collected in the Story Shitter. For one week, claim your spot at next year's MAN CAMP for the lowest possible price. Visit mancamp.us for the details.
34m Sep 29, 2024
34m
2024 MAN CAMP On-Ramp: TB Monkeys, New Land, and Getting the Most Out of the Weekend with 512 & Windex—MC Cofounders
MAN CAMP 2024 is just days away. With more men heading to camp than ever before, MAN CAMP cofounders Judd Watkins (512) and Craig Dockery (Windex) join Brian for a hilarious and insightful conversation designed to get everyone up to speed. In a hour, they manage to cover everything from the exotic wildlife that used to call MAN CAMP home, to what to pack (and what to avoid), to tips for making ...
54m Sep 24, 2024
54m
NASCAR’s Pit Crew Pastor with Donnie Floyd—Hendrick Motorsports
At every fork in the road, it seems Donnie Floyd has made the aggressive move. From choosing to not become a victim of a childhood Tourette’s diagnosis, to serving in the military, to a dream job as part of the crew at Hendrick Motorsports, NASCAR’s premier racing team, each choice has paid dividends into his life. When tragedy struck the Hendrick team, Donnie found himself pastoring his cowork...
45m Sep 17, 2024
45m
Your AI Questions Answered with Chad Reynolds—Vurvey AI Systems
Will AI take my job? How does AI funding affect the output? Will AI have a role to play in the church? How are you personally leveraging AI to make your life more effective? These are just a handful of the AI questions you wanted answered. Alongside AI expert and entrepreneur, Chad Reynolds, Brian talks about the impact of AI on his life, his faith, and the future. If you are fearful about AI,...
59m Sep 10, 2024
59m
Microskills To A More Connected Life with Lakshmi Rengarajan—Dating and Connection Expert
In our world it’s become easier and easier to meet… but more and more difficult to actually connect. A leader in both modern dating culture and workplace connection, Lakshmi Rengarajan unpacks the surprisingly simple ways to live a more connected life—from asking for help, to borrowing items, to investing in Tupperware. She’s an energetic and aggressive guest with wisdom that can change that st...
1hr 3m Sep 03, 2024
1hr 3m
Breaking Free From the Gravitational Pull Of Your Phone with Joey Odom—Aro
We’re all aware of just how disruptive the little computers in our pockets have become… and yet, most of us feel powerless to stop it. Not Joey Odom. After experiencing the pain of a missed opportunity because of his phone, Joey vowed to do something about it. Soon after, Aro was born, a worldwide movement—not to get rid of phones—but to help reclaim some of the time we all waste on them. This ...
1hr 4m Aug 27, 2024
1hr 4m
Riding on God’s Shoulders—Your MAN CAMP Stories
700+ acres of rolling hills, down by the Ohio River, has been the site of profound moments of spiritual transcendence for thousands of men. It could be the same for you. On today’s episode, nine men share their MAN CAMP stories of freedom, grit, and transformation. Registration for MAN CAMP 2024 is open until September 1st. Stake your claim here (http://www.mancamp.us) .
26m Aug 20, 2024
26m
Is AI the Boogeyman or a Creative Breakthrough? with Chad Reynolds—Vurvey AI Systems
Chad Reynolds is an AI-insider and expert. The founder and CEO of Vurvey, he is on the cutting edge of developing people-powered AI systems, work that’s led him to collaborate with the world's top brands like Adidas and Google. In this timely and aggressive conversation, Chad unpacks the promise, and pitfalls, of artificial intelligence… and why he ultimately has more hope than fear.
1hr 7m Aug 13, 2024
1hr 7m
Let’s Talk About Sex, Baby with Kingdom Sexuality—Sex Podcasters and Content Creators
There’s no topic more exciting, and rife with landmines, than sex. That’s where Kingdom Sexuality comes in. With a popular podcast, resources, and content, the team is helping married couples reclaim active and satisfying sex lives. Brain is joined by Alana and Tiera, 2/3s of the Kingdom Sexuality team, for a conversation as lively, hilarious, and helpful as you’ll ever hear around the topic. P...
59m Aug 06, 2024
59m
You're Stronger Than You Think You Are—Live at MAN CAMP
Life can be hard, but God believes you can face it. He isn’t unaware of your pain; instead, He may be giving you the opportunity to show your tenacity, strength, and endurance. That’s what happened when Jesus’ cousin, John, ended up in jail. He was hoping Jesus was coming to set him free, but Jesus had other plans. Recorded live in front of nearly 3,000 guys at MAN CAMP 2023, this final live t...
51m Jul 30, 2024
51m
The Power of Spiritual Gravitas—Live with Student Influencers
Certain people have a gravitas to their lives, a weightiness that you notice whenever you are around them. This isn’t an inborn trait, it’s a muscle that can be developed—if you’re willing to make decisions that go against cultural norms. In this talk, recorded on an iPhone in a room full of high school leaders, Brian unpacks this idea, the importance of youth, and why it’s never too early (or ...
47m Jul 23, 2024
47m
If God is Good, Why Do Bad Things Happen?—Brian on the "Surviving Grief" Podcast
It’s likely your best—and worst—days are still ahead of you. How you prepare for, and face them, could make all the difference. In this appearance on the new podcast, “Surviving Grief,” Brian discusses making it through difficult days with your faith intact, and tackles one of life’s most challenging questions: why do bad things happen? If you are facing grief of your own, or walking through g...
45m Jul 16, 2024
45m
Punching Back at Loneliness—Live with Crossroads Staff
Nothing will affect the trajectory of your life like the people you surround yourself with. Friendship matters, much more than most of us understand or are willing to admit. In this live talk, delivered to a gathering of male staff members at Crossroads, Brian explains the importance of having good people around you—and what it takes to find friendship in a world drowning in loneliness. Listen,...
32m Jul 09, 2024
32m
Growing Lifelong Friendship With Your Kids—Live at Father+Son Camp
Every parent wants to cultivate a lifelong relationship with their kids, but how do you actually get there? In this accessible and incredibly practical talk, recorded at Crossroads Father+Son camp, Brian shares the steps he took to grow genuine friendship with his kids. Hint: it’s all about the transition between each stage of parenting. Learn more about Father+Son camp, including registration...
32m Jul 02, 2024
32m
Cattle Drives, Leading at Home, and Wake-Makers—Listener Q&A with BT
You asked, BT answers. Fielding questions submitted by listeners via Instagram, Brian tackles everything from what he learned on a legit cattle drive, to his favorite forms of tobacco, to how he processed the online uproar over the Super Bowl of Preaching. Along the way, he also takes time to consider what items he’d take into the wilderness, why he’s so interested in learning new things, and h...
1hr Jun 25, 2024
1hr
What to Expect in Each Decade of Life with Bobb Biehl—Executive Mentor, Author, Sage
What if life wasn’t nearly as unpredictable as we think? That’s what executive mentor, Bobb Biehl, believes. After 50 years working with some of the most successful executives and brands on the planet, he’s uncovered patterns, challenges, and opportunities that every person will face in life—and he’s organized them by decades. According to Bobb, your 20s are for discovering what you don’t want ...
1hr 1m Jun 18, 2024
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