S1 Ep267: 5 Ways To Unlock The Mystical Ancient Greek Power of Kairos Time To Help You Transform Your Marriage Quicker No matter How Little Time You Feel You Have
The 3 specific benefits you’ll gain by listening to the end of this episode are:  1. You’ll know simple ways of breaking free from SSDD scheduled time and entering into spontaneous play with your Queen leaving both of you giggling like teenagers again. 2. You’ll understand how getting locked in chronos time is one of the most poisonous things for killing your marriage aliveness. 3. You’ll be ...
1hr 6m Oct 17, 2025
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S1 Ep266: The 4 Unsexy, Boring Yet Excitingly Transformative Leadership Ideas Struggling Husbands Refuse to Use and Thus Remain Stuck in their Marriage Rut
The 3 specific benefits you’ll gain by listening to the end of this episode are: 1. You’ll learn a practical time trick that ultra-high performing men use and will have you quit complaining about not having time ever again. 2. You’ll learn what is possibly the simplest and most ignored peak performance hack that 99% of husbands never use and struggle as a result. 3. You know how boring leaders...
58m Oct 10, 2025
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S1 Ep265: The 4 Mental Patterns Husbands Use in Marriage to Energise Themselves…. But Only One Leads To Happily Ever After
The 3 specific benefits you’ll gain by listening to the end of this episode are: 1. You’ll recognise the signs your thinking has shifted to one of the three connection eroding mental patterns. 2. You’ll have clear access to the ultimate mental pattern that will create connection, trust and attraction on repeat for years to come. 3. This new awareness will empower you to go from conflict to c...
1hr Oct 03, 2025
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S1 Ep264: How To Avoid The 4 Major Potholes Where Husbands Blindly Destroy The Progress They’ve Made in Marriage
The 3 specific benefits you’ll gain by listening to the end of this episode are: 1.You’ll know how to recognise these potholes and avoid destroying the progress you’ve created 2.You’ll learn the one mindset trick that golfing legend Jack Niclaus used that set him apart from all other competitors that you can use to enter legendary husband status 3.You make a massive step in overcoming your on...
59m Sep 26, 2025
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S1 Ep263: This Is Probably the #1 Most Effective Marriage Transforming Strategy You’ll Ever Hear About
The 3 specific benefits you’ll gain by listening to the end of this episode are: 1. You’ll learn the one major strategic difference between great masculine leaders in any arena and the pretenders who never reach their leadership potential. 2. You understand why if you want to ever feel freedom and fulfilment in marriage you simply CAN’T ignore this strategy. 3. You’ll learn how to access arguab...
50m Sep 19, 2025
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S1 Ep262: 10 Simple Ideas To Create Rapid and Radical Progress in your Marriage No Matter How Bad Things Seem Today
The 3 specific benefits you’ll gain by listening to the end of this episode are: 1. You’ll have a super simple yet comprehensive playbook to start winning in marriage today. 2. You’ll learn the highest leverage ideas all my private clients use to create massive transformation in a week. 3. You’ll feel a rocket boost of hope knowing that you have the power to change your marriage for the better...
54m Sep 12, 2025
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S1 Ep261: The 5 Oppressive Married Life Pains Husbands Are Silently Suffering And Need Relief From That Wives Rarely Understand
The 3 specific benefits you’ll gain by listening to the end of this episode are: 1. You’ll feel validated and less alone that your inner world emotional pains are pretty much universal amongst husbands. 2.You’ll be able to put words to the background lack of fulfilment you experience and find a powerful solution for it. 3.You’ll understand you are never locked in Same-Shit-Different-Day permane...
1hr 1m Sep 05, 2025
1hr 1m
S1 Ep260: How To Use 2 Simple FBI Hostage-negotiator Strategic Empathy Techniques to Bring Your Wife from Irrational Rupture Hell to Grounded Rational Repair You Can Understand and Connect With
The 3 specific benefits you’ll gain by listening to the end of this episode are: 1. You’ll understand the distinction between masculine and feminine integrity practices helping you take nothing personal ever again. 2. You’ll know how to embrace any emotional intensity your Queen throws your way and exactly what to say to help ground her. 3. You’ll know a strategic trick to use everything you...
49m Aug 29, 2025
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S1 Ep259: 1 Question To Help Unlock Your Wife’s Kindest and Most Encouraging Feedback and Help You Create Meaningful Progress She’ll Love and Appreciate You For.
The three specific benefits you'll gain by listening to the end of this episode are: 1.You'll know the highest leveraged question a husband can ask his wife in marriage. 2.You'll know the best timing to ask this question to get the maximum brownie              points from asking it. 3.You'll know the exact follow up that is required to maximise the trust you build by       asking the question...
36m Aug 22, 2025
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S1 Ep258: How to Use The 10 Key Masculine and Feminine Differences Between Husbands and Wives to Confidently Create Connection and Attraction
The 3 benefits you'll gain by listening to the end of this episode are: 1. You'll understand, acknowledge and accept the beauty of marriage is knowing how to allow each other be uniquely different. 2. You'll know the two precise strategies to use to inspire your wife to bloom into hot feminine fullness with you. 3. You'll know how to channel your masculine mission for freedom in meaningful wa...
1hr 5m Aug 15, 2025
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S1 Ep257: The #1 Most Sexually Attractive Thing A Husband Can Say That’s Guaranteed To Relight The Marital Sexual Flame Today and For Years to Come
In this episode you'll discover the #1 Most Sexually Attractive Thing A Husband Can Say That’s Guaranteed To Relight The Marital Sexual Flame Today and For Years to Come The 3 Benefits you will gain by listening to the end of this episode are: 1- You’ll learn the one thing all female authors of romantic novels make sure their male protagonist says and thinks about sexually relating with his ...
38m Aug 08, 2025
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S1 Ep256: "Marriage Transformation Heroes Special Series" with Alan and Karoline
In this special episode, you will get to witness the precise strategies and mindset that Alan has used in his marriage transformation journey with his beautiful wife Karoline. The benefits you will experience by listening to the end of this episode are: - Learn Alan’s detailed inner process going from shutdown and conflict to repair and reconnection - You will understand from Karoline’s ama...
1hr 31m Aug 07, 2025
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S1 Ep255: How To Stop Being A Weak Feminine Pleasing Mr Nice Guy and Set Safe and Strong Boundaries Your Wife Respects
In this episode, you'll discover How To Stop Being a Weak Feminine Pleasing Mr Nice Guy And Set Safe Yet Strong Boundaries Your Wife Respects The 3 specific benefits you’ll gain by listening to the end of this episode are:  1. Understand the two ways husbands avoid setting boundaries that erode trust, connection and attraction. 2. Learn how to set boundaries with your wife that allow mutual c...
45m Aug 01, 2025
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S1 Ep254: 2 Things You Must Do Together To Help Your Wife Relax And Surrender Into Your Leadership and Listen To What You Have To Say
In this episode, you'll discover 2 things you must do together to help your wife relax and surrender into your leadership and listen to what you have to say. The 3 specific benefits you’ll gain by listening to the end of this episode are: 1. You will have 2 high leverage precise challenges that will let you know exactly what to do beyond this episode to have your wife trust your leadership lik...
38m Jul 25, 2025
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S1 Ep253: 5 Easy Steps To Embodying A Trustworthy Secure Attachment Style No Matter What Dysfunctional Attachment Style Has Eroded Trust Until Now
In this episode, you'll discover the one practice you need to know to start embodying a secure attachment style, no matter what dysfunctional attachment style you have had until now. The 3 specific benefits you’ll gain by listening to the end of this episode are: - You’ll know exactly what response to take at the first signs of conflict….husbands that struggle don’t know this simple practice...
50m Jul 18, 2025
50m
S1 Ep252: An Easy 2-Minute Progress Building Communication Habit To Create A Sense of Confidence and Connection No Matter How Distant Your Marriage Feels
In this episode, you'll discover a daily progress building communication habit that can be done in 2 minutes flat. The 3 marriage transforming benefits you'll gain by listening are: - Gaining a high leverage connection habit you can fit in the busiest of family schedules - A simple tool to focus you and your wife's awareness on the things that are going well - A daily habit guaranteed to build...
25m Jul 11, 2025
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S1 Ep251: The 3 Levels of Masculine Maturity Wives Meet in their Husbands When Trying to Land Their Feminine Feedback…2 They Hate, 1 They LOVE!!!
Embracing your wife’s feedback is possibly the single highest leverage way to winning at the game of marriage as a husband. Almost nothing surpasses the feeling of trust and connection within a wife when her husband appreciates and honours her feedback as the gift it is. Yet there’s also almost nothing that triggers a man’s subconscious wounding more than trying to receive his wife’s feedba...
1hr 4m Jul 03, 2025
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S1 Ep250: The #1 Hack British Olympic Gold Rowing Legends Can Teach Us About How To Be Ultra Decisive Husbands All Day Every Day
In the run up to the summer Olympics In Sydney 2000, the British rowing team had failed to win gold for over 88 YEARS! Like most husbands, they had a long history of their good intentions never being good enough. Determined to finally change the story, they based their entire training preparations on one simple clarifying question. This one simple tool allowed them to decide what was going...
38m Jun 27, 2025
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S1 Ep249: Marriage Transformation Heroes Special Series with Tara and Duane Kennedy
We welcome in Tara and Duane Kennedy to tell their heart-warming story of marriage transformation. From the depths of pain and hopelessness that things could ever improve, Tara and Duane let us know the insights and strategies driving their stunning turnaround. Tara gifts us many profound insights into the challenges a wife experiences when relating with a well-intentioned but emotionally uns...
1hr 13m Jun 26, 2025
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S1 Ep248: 10 Ways Stoicism Will Help You Kill Victimhood and Master Your Mind and Marriage
The quality of your marriage matches the quality of your thoughts. Learning to upgrade the quality of your thoughts is your path to the most epic marriage you ever believed possible. Stoic philosophy might be the most powerful vehicle to take you there. Let’s begin….. Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Plan? Start ...
57m Jun 20, 2025
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S1 Ep247: The 3 Attachment Needs to Instantly Ease Tension in Marital and Parenting Conflicts With Zero Need to Say Anything Clever
Most of us husbands have a trigger happy impulse to try and fix conflicts at home with rational solutions.....that rarely work!!!! In this episode you will meet the three human attachment needs and how to use them at home that will change how you look at conflict forever. In conflict, effective communicators are not trying to change the mental state of others. Instead, their focus is on chan...
23m Jun 13, 2025
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S1 Ep246: 10 Ideas To Break Up Mundane Marital Boredom By Unleashing Your Freedom-Loving WILD Man
Unspoken boredom and helplessness while feeling stuck in the Same-Sh1t-Different-Day reality of married life is killing marriages around the world.  The answer: One badass husband unleashing his WILD man energy to shake the marriage to it’s foundations and rebuild a marriage of excitement, fun and inspiration.  This episode is for you if you’re ready to live the infinite game of married life!...
59m Jun 06, 2025
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S1 Ep245: Why Not Giving A Sh!t About Your Wife’s Happiness Actually Inspires Her To Love and Trust You More Than Ever Before
We’ve been conditioned in this profoundly sick society to deny ourselves our own needs as men and over-prioritise meeting the needs of the women in our lives. This pattern started in childhood as we related with our mothers. As it seemed to work in childhood with our mothers, we subconsciously bring the exact same pattern into marriage….to devastating and very often marriage-ending effects. ...
56m May 30, 2025
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S1 Ep244: The 6 Most Unsexy and Untrustworthy Mistakes Husbands Commonly Make When Trying to Save Their Marriage
Every husband listening in to the podcast has great intentions. Yet great intentions are useless if you are unwittingly making one or more of these common yet catastrophic mistakes. If you want the peace of mind knowing that your efforts in marriage are making a difference, this episode is a must. Let’s begin….. Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Poi...
50m May 23, 2025
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S1 Ep243: These 3 Simple Yet RARELY SPOKEN Words Form The Single Most Impactful Phrase a Husband Can Speak To His Wife…(it’s NOT What You Are Thinking)
There are three words in the English language that hold enormous power to help you transform your marriage with your wife. Coincidently they are also universally the least spoken words by husbands in marriage. The more disconnected your marriage situation, the more powerful these words are. They are not the words, “I love you”. These three words are infinitely more impactful. When spoken...
35m May 16, 2025
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S1 Ep242: End Suffocating Self-Doubt In Marriage By Activating These 6 Dormant Superpowers Every Husband Has But Rarely Uses
Ever experience self-doubt in marriage? Being a husband and father is the most challenging leadership position on the planet….Of course you experience self-doubt! Fact: Every husband on the planet experiences self-doubt at times. However, most husbands lock their self-doubt away and try to just get on with life pretending it’s not there. This doesn’t work. Ever. The rare few who learn how...
56m May 08, 2025
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S1 Ep241: How To Confidently Inspire Your Wife To Stop Flirting With Other Men
Nearly every husband has been there. Seeing your wife feeling radically alive, eyes lit up, loving life, laughing and letting loose…but in the presence of another man. All her behaviours fall into the category we call flirting. But what is the most powerful way to intervene in this awkward, disconnecting situation? This episode gifts you the code to obliterating the competition in any soc...
58m May 02, 2025
58m
S1 Ep240: 1 Easy Trick To Fix 95% Of Your Wife’s Irrational Upsets and Complaining in 60secs Flat
When your wife is deeply upset, pissed off and complaining about something, do you ever find yourself jumping into action to fix the problem by addressing what she’s complaining about? Of course you do; you’re a rational minded man who loves solution finding cause-effect style….but it rarely works with your wife, right?!  Why? Because there is one secret cause to 95% of your wife’s irrationa...
23m Apr 25, 2025
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S1 Ep239: 4 Simple 1-5min Daily Habits to Evoke Your Wife’s Primal Love and Trust Responses
Most husbands listening in will try new suggested strategies of conscious relating when with their Queens.  This is brilliant and has a massive power in it. Yet, sometimes the new attempts don’t have nearly the positive effect you’d love! Enter the untapped world of high-leverage daily training habits for priming your nervous system. This episode gifts you 4 simple daily habits (1-10mins m...
47m Apr 18, 2025
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S1 Ep238: 3 Steps to Confident Self-Mastery of Masculine Leadership in Marriage
Self-mastery is the essence of great masculine embodiment in men. There is no arena more important to embody self-mastery as a man than that of married life. Our legacy depends on it. Without a precise grasp on what self-mastery in masculine leadership is built on, you will always struggle to manifest freedom and fulfilment in married life. Get ready for laser-focused clarity on how to em...
1hr 9m Apr 11, 2025
1hr 9m
S1 Ep237: When You’re Being A Great Guy But She Still Treats You Like Crap…Do This
One of the most frustrating things every husband experiences is when you show up at your wonderful best and your Queen treats you like crap. The clearly good intentions of your attempt to do/say something of deep meaning gets trampled on by your Queen’s confusing and crazy irrationality.  These moments habitually get stuck in a right-vs-wrong storm of disconnection. This episode introduces...
1hr 8m Apr 04, 2025
1hr 8m
S1 Ep236: The Code To Let Your Queen Viscerally Surrender Into Trusting You’ll Never Ever Leave Her Or Stop Loving Her
This episode unpacks the raw power in consciously communicating belonging cues. Belonging cues are simple behaviours that create safe connection. We used belonging cues as signals long before language – our unconscious brains are highly attuned to them. When our Queens receive them consistently, marriage feels like a dream. When our Queens don’t receive them consistently, marriage becomes ...
40m Mar 27, 2025
40m
S1 Ep235: A Dalai Lama Mind Hack To Magically Generate Rapid Clarity and Calm in any Marital Conflict
Most husbands will admit that, albeit they love their wife, they find marriage the ultimate challenge to their sense of inner peace.  The often joked “Can’t live with her, can’t live without her”, points to this seemingly universal crux in married life for men. Yet, one simple mind hack allows husbands go from massive psychological resistance to re-entering flow with their wives in no time a...
37m Mar 21, 2025
37m
S1 Ep234: The Secret To Stop Your Wife from Always Arguing Against Your Rational Perspective
The eternal conundrum for husbands: You listen to her speaking about an upsetting issue, you find a problem-solving fix you know will end her suffering…….and she never wants to listen to what you’ve got to say!!!! And she even has the audacity to claim you weren’t listening!!! This episode will let you know the secret in how to prepare your Queen for receiving your beautiful gift of masculin...
44m Mar 14, 2025
44m
S1 Ep233: 4 Steps How to Skilfully Eliminate Your Wife’s Unfair Criticism of You Forever More
Every husband on the planet has a part of him that yearns for freedom from the constraints of his wife’s criticism. Right? If she’d just wake up and see the amazing amount of cool shit you do and the ocean of loving good intentions you have, she’d go easier on you….or so that sneaky part of our mind tells us. But the complaints, criticism and river of unfair feedback keeps on flowing toward...
1hr 37m Mar 07, 2025
1hr 37m
S1 Ep232: 8 Steps To Rebuilding Your Queen’s Trust After The Devastation of your Infidelity
A husband’s infidelity can be a devastating blow for his Queen. Years of distrust, suspicion and rage mixed with grief can follow, leading many men to give up trying to save their marriage. This hopelessness is not needed. These 8 powerful steps will support you making your infidelity become the stage for the greatest inner and outer transformation you ever dreamed possible. Let’s begin…....
53m Feb 27, 2025
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S1 Ep231: This One Simple Game Might Be The Most Powerful Marriage Transformation Tool Ever
As men we practice low tolerance of our own BS grumpy moods with our customers, boss, neighbours, friends etc. They get our highest standard communication. Then we go home and practice super high tolerance of our BS grumpy moods with our Queen and children. Our nearest and dearest get our lowest standard of communication. Low tolerance = high standards. High tolerance = low standards. The...
1hr 1m Feb 20, 2025
1hr 1m
S1 Ep230: 4 Attachment Theory Insights On How To Set Up Your Nervous System for Infinite Expansion in Marriage and Life
Attachment theory rocks. It pin points exactly where we have pulled up the nervous system handbrake preventing love from ever flowing in our lives. Only when you know where the handbrake is pulled up, can you then have the power to put it back down and start allowing the juice of love flow between yourself and your Queen again. Ready to put the damn heart handbrake down, once and forever? ...
1hr 10m Feb 13, 2025
1hr 10m
S1 Ep229: The Art Of Shifting From Your Rational Minded Head Farts to Latin Lover Heart Art Your Queen Will Melt For
Most husbands unwittingly Head Fart.  Head Farting is insisting on thinking, talking and taking action in the same way you always have and expecting your married life to suddenly transform. It doesn't. Marriage Transformation Heroes create Heart Art. Heart Art is accessing an inexhaustible force within capable of creating loving connection no matter what the perceived obstacle in your worl...
1hr 13m Feb 06, 2025
1hr 13m
S1 Ep228: 14 Signs Your Wife Is Dealing With A Narcissistic Mother
Holding space for your Queen’s human experience is tough at the best of times for even the most loving husband. But holding space if she has a narcissistic mother and the emotional trauma that comes with it, can be an absolute nightmare. If you have ever experienced strain in your marriage as a result of your Queen’s relationship with her mother, this episode is handcrafted for you. Let’s...
1hr 22m Feb 05, 2025
1hr 22m
S1 Ep227: Go From Daily Unspoken Deadening Desperation To Jump-Out-Of-Bed Clarity with this 1 Family Leadership Definition
Most husbands face a daily family grind trying to rally the troops, wife and kids, in a futile attempt to get a cohesive and harmonious unit working together. Good intentions fail. Often. Peeing against a gale force wind comes to mind in most cases, hence our daily evening need to sedate our minds with whatever substance or activity is at hand. Defining what family leadership is, is the fo...
1hr 7m Jan 30, 2025
1hr 7m
S1 Ep226: How Building The 1 Simple Skill of Receptivity Will Transform Your Marriage
Research shows that newlywed couples who divorce six years later, respond to their partners bids for attention only 33% of the time.  Successful couples respond 87% of the time. Responding to your Queen’s attempts to get your attention might be the single greatest skillset to develop today. This skill is called receptivity. Let’s begin….. Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-A...
38m Jan 23, 2025
38m
S1 Ep225: 6 Steps To Rebuilding An Indestructible Bridge of Flowing Connection and Authenticity That Never Again Collapses into the River of Heartbreak
Creating an indestructible bridge of connection in marriage seems the ultimate Mission Impossible. When guys see it embodied in another relationship, they think it’s because the other dude must have luckily found an exceptional woman unlike their own irrational and hyper-sensitive wife. Or it’s a miracle fluke that’ll never happen for you. It's not good luck and it’s not a miracle. It's a...
1hr 45m Jan 16, 2025
1hr 45m
S1 Ep224: The Simple Mindset Shift To Go From Fear & Fury to Calm & Compassion During Her Worst Outbursts at You
Uncontrollable marital arguments over time destroy the trust that bind marriages together. It's especially hard when your Queen is firing vitriolic words your way that you feel are unfair and inaccurate, but nothing you say makes her stop. This mindset shift will help you instantaneously become her Mountain in the Storm, helping her nervous system return to a place of calm safety and grounded...
53m Jan 09, 2025
53m
S1 Ep223: 12 Simple Strategies To Be An Unstoppable King in Marriage and Life in 2025
The only permissible Kingly aim going into the New Year is setting the intention to make this the best year yet in your marriage and life. It doesn't matter how intense your married life is now; these simple strategies and mindset upgrades will help you create an awesome year worthy of the King you were born to be. Let’s begin….. Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment an...
1hr Jan 03, 2025
1hr
S1 Ep222: The One Greatest Trustworthy Gift to Give Your Queen This New Year
There’s one thing your Queen desires you to gift her the most. She’s been desiring this from you since you first met. This episode unpacks the greatest gift you will have ever gifted your Queen and marriage since you first got married. It also happens to be the greatest gift you can gift yourself in life. Let’s begin….. Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Rece...
56m Dec 26, 2024
56m
S1 Ep221: The Two Simplest Questions To Answer To Make 2025 The Best Year You’ve Lived Yet!
The episode reveals the simplest journaling exercise in the world. It arguably is the most powerful journaling exercise in the world. It will transform your wounds, woman and world for the better making 2025 epic….but only if you have the spiritual balls to do it?! Let’s begin….. Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement...
36m Dec 19, 2024
36m
S1 Ep220: The 1 Sneaky Reason Why Your Current Best Efforts Aren't Yet Working In Marriage
Many husbands, despite their best current efforts, aren’t getting anything near the return they’d love to see and feel from their wives. There is one major blind spot that will sabotage all of your best efforts and render your Queen incapable of truly seeing how hard you’re trying. This episode is essential listening for any husband who wants to get the return on investment he believes his e...
37m Dec 12, 2024
37m
S1 Ep219: 8 Steps From Holiday Season Marital Stress and Overwhelm To Your Most Connected and Present Experience Ever
The holiday season and all it’s socially imposed crazy expectations are upon us! This time of year creates unnecessary amounts of stress, tension and disconnection behind the scenes in marriage dynamics. There is a different way for you to consciously lead your wife and kids to the best holiday season you’ve ever experienced together. Here's to you being her Holiday Season Heroic Husband t...
52m Dec 05, 2024
52m
S1 Ep218: 1 Trick To Prevent Your Dark Subconscious Mind From Repelling Your Wife
Every husband has a dark side he doesn’t want to show the world, especially his wife.  Many men in this Mr Nice Guy era will deny such a side even exists. But this dark subconscious mind does exist. And it rules all your behaviours until you know how to work with it consciously. If you want to stop peeing against your subconscious wind in marriage, this episode is a must. Let’s begin….. ...
56m Nov 28, 2024
56m