214: The 6 Cognitive Distortions That Make Men Wonder How They Ever Married HER
Our unconscious cognitive distortions ruin our marriages. They drive our Right-vs-Wrong righteousness in arguments where we might win the fight, but lose the marriage. The masculine practice is knowing not every thought is created equally. Some thoughts are helpful to follow. The majority, our cognitive distorted thoughts, are destructive to follow. This episode will put you in full menta...
1hr 9m Oct 31, 2024
1hr 9m
213: The 4 Attachment Styles Husbands and Wives Have In Marriage
Attachment theory rocks! Knowing which attachment style your nervous system has empowers you to know how to move forward in marriage with clarity, confidence and above all, compassion for both yourself and your wife. Listening will help you learn which attachment style you and your Queen are. This episode will become one of the most empowering 60min investments in self-growth of your adult l...
1hr 12m Oct 24, 2024
1hr 12m
212: 1 Simple Mindset Hack To Stop Confusion and Lead With Confident Clarity She'll Trust and Love
Most well intentioned husbands struggle to make progress because they unwittingly do the same habitual things MORE OFTEN, hoping this will improve their marriage. This doesn't work. Ever. This one simple mindset hack will cut through all your confusion of what works and what doesn’t, leaving you in the driving seat to marital success. Let’s begin….. Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriag...
1hr 11m Oct 17, 2024
1hr 11m
211: 15 Generative Questions To Easily Create Deep Intimate Connection and Trust with your Queen
Generative Questions help snap your marriage conversations out of Same-Sh1t-Different-Day mode into passionate soulful connection where both of you feel on fire together. These simple questions will be amongst your highest leverage tools to transform your marriage with ease. No husbands should be without them!!! Let’s begin….. Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and...
1hr 12m Oct 10, 2024
1hr 12m
210: "Marriage Transformation Hero" Special Series with Jason DiFulvio
Jason DiFulvio joined Heroic Husbands Men’s Circles under a year ago. Just after quitting a dysfunctional relationship with alcohol and with his marriage hanging by a thread, Jason aggressively attacked his deep men’s work path. His obsessive focus on finding growth opportunities to become a happier man and more emotionally integrated husband for his Queen, makes Jason’s marriage transforma...
1hr 14m Oct 03, 2024
1hr 14m
209: #1 Way To Naturally Increase your Testosterone Levels and Confidence As A Masculine Leader
Testosterone is the most beautiful juice driving masculine confidence and clarity. Without sufficient levels of it, we go limp in and out of the bedroom. Here is the simplest natural way to increase your testosterone levels helping you lead your Queen with masculine fire and passion. Let’s begin….. Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalis...
32m Oct 02, 2024
32m
208: Marriage Transformation Hero Special Series with David Nelson
Dave Nelson is one of the regular guys of Heroic Husbands Men’s Circle #3 committed to doing irregularly deep inner work to become a better man and husband. Listen in to Dave’s inspirational story taking his marriage from the cliff edge desperation of his Queen wanting to end it all after years of his failed promises, to Dave taking extreme ownership to win his sacred Queen’s trust and heart b...
1hr 16m Sep 26, 2024
1hr 16m
207: Marilyn Monroe Wisdom To Help You Be A Brilliant Masculine Lover and Leader
Marilyn Monroe was unapologetically feminine: untameable, unboxable, unpredictable and at home with her sexual fire and passion. Hence, she was so damn attractive to powerful, strong, masculine men. Women embodying unapologetic feminine energy challenge men to find their masculine core….or die trying! For husbands who want to be strong in their masculine core, sit back and enjoy this epic ...
1hr 2m Sep 25, 2024
1hr 2m
206: The 1 Simple Question That Will Transform Marriage Hell To Marriage Heaven
There exists a magical question that if asked often enough and the wisdom of it’s answer acted upon, will transform everything in your marriage and life. Warning: It takes giant masculine spiritual balls to answer this simple question and have the courage to act on it’s answer, again and again.  If you think you have what it takes, let’s begin…. Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Sel...
46m Sep 18, 2024
46m
205: 2 Simple Steps To Get Your Irrational and Doubting Wife To Trust Your Rational Lead On Any Topic
A major frustration for most husbands is his wife’s lack of trust in his leadership.  Your masculine core clearly sees the problem at Point A, you establish a path to a better future at Point B, but she gives you irrational kickback refusing to budge from Point A. Or if she follows your lead to Point B, she does so grudgingly with an omnipresent readiness to hit you with “I told you so!” if y...
44m Sep 12, 2024
44m
204: The 3 Uncommon Steps To Holding a Safe Space for your Wife’s Sadness and Depression
A ton of husbands are suffering the pain of not knowing how to hold space for their wives sadness and depression. Not knowing how to do so effectively is unnecessarily killing happiness in a massive number of marriages. This episode details your path to becoming the single most healing presence in your wife’s life journey as a human being. Let’s begin….. Will you do The Heroic Husbands ...
1hr 5m Sep 04, 2024
1hr 5m
203: 10 Masculine Mantras To Be Fearless In Marriage Leadership
No-BS, Zen-like statements that cut to the point are potent tools. They bring you from the outer chaos of the battlefield of married life to instantaneous inner clarity knowing what to do next. ​ In Heroic Husbands Men's Circles (https://preview.convertkit-mail2.com/click/dpheh0hzhm/aHR0cHM6Ly93d3cua2luZ3NvZmZyZWVkb20ubWUvaGVyb2ljLWh1c2JhbmRzLW1lbnMtY2lyY2xlcy8=) we call these statement our Ma...
1hr 23m Aug 30, 2024
1hr 23m
202: "The 5D Man Lifestyle Approach To Making Men Strong Again" with Eivind Skjellum
We welcome in Eivind Skjellum to introduce his brilliant 5D Man Lifestyle approach which helps men to awaken their heroic impulse within. Best known for his work in masculine archetypes, Eivind’s new exciting 5-Dimensions framework is at the leading edge of masculine thought leadership. Get ready for a revelatory ride learning how to embody Clarity, Courage, Creation, Connection with their ca...
1hr 19m Aug 28, 2024
1hr 19m
201: What Uncommonly Wise Husbands Do When Their Queens Seek Praise and Validation
Husbands are meant to be solid oak trees. Husbands need to treat their wives as sublimely beautiful flowers. Your understanding of this energetic distinction is tested every time your wife seeks your praise and validation. Get it right, marriage is easy. Get it wrong, marriage is hard. Don’t skip this episode! Let’s begin….. Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and ...
29m Aug 22, 2024
29m
200: The Little Known Most Important Masculine Rule In Masculine-Feminine Relating
The main reason us husbands are unnecessarily suffering in marriage is that nobody taught us the most important rule of the game of masculine-feminine attraction. Without Knowing the #1 Most Important Masculine Rule in Marriage, you will never enjoy the experience of marriage. If you're ready to become a legendary player in the game of marriage, this episode's for you. Let's begin.... Will ...
39m Aug 15, 2024
39m
199: The 1 Surprising Strategy For Evoking A River of Her Praise and Validation
As humans, we have a deep psychological need to feel validation. Husbands subconsciously try to get this need met by their wives in ways that unwittingly repulses their feminine core. This episode simplifies the battle-field with the one strategy every husband needs to know. Let's begin. Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improve...
51m Aug 08, 2024
51m
198: The 3 Masculine Leadership Characteristics Wives Need, Love and Trust
There is a secret code to becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship.  It involves embodying three simple to understand and integrate leadership characteristics. If you want to eliminate stress, struggle and stagnation and start winning BIG in married life, then buckle up and enjoy! Let’s begin….. Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-...
1hr 14m Jul 31, 2024
1hr 14m
197: Without Doing Shadow Work She’ll Never Trust You As Her King
Your Queen can only trust you when you are an embodied Mountain in the Storm. Shadow Work is where boys become men, and men become Kings. If you are in the octagon of marriage and desire to live and die without regret, this episode is a must. Let’s begin….. Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Plan? Start 5-Min Self-...
57m Jul 25, 2024
57m
196: 3 Essential Steps To Rebuilding Your Marriage After Your Wife’s Infidelity
A wife cheating can be a brutal blow for any man. The fog of hurt, blame and shame blinds the path forward. This episode brings radical no-BS clarity as to how you must approach this challenge if you desire to rebuild an awesome marriage built on rock solid trust and unshakeable respect. Let’s begin….. Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personal...
59m Jul 18, 2024
59m
195: 3 Rules To Stop Resenting Your Wife And Confidently Master The Infinite Game of Marriage
Us magnificent men have been wrongly conditioned into believing marriage is a finite game. This leads to men relating to their wife as a ball on chain and marriage becomes Same-Sh1t-Different-Day. Yet, when men realise the rules of transforming marriage into an infinite game, everything changes for the better…forever! Married life becomes a blank canvass where life just keeps getting bett...
1hr 4m Jul 10, 2024
1hr 4m
194: This Uncommon Insight Helps Husbands Enjoy Unlimited Radical Authentic Freedom in Marriage and Life
Being authentic and real is the heart essence of mans search in life. But WTF does being authentic actually mean? Until you have radical clarity on what a term means, your brain has no idea how to bring it to life. This episode simplifies authenticity in a way that will become the master key to creating the most amazing marriage and life you ever dreamed of. Let’s begin….. Will you do T...
49m Jul 04, 2024
49m
193: "Marriage Transformation Hero" Special Series with Jak Houghton
Jak Houghton is our latest Marriage Transformation Hero from Heroic Husbands Men’s Circles. Jak leads with radical transparency on overcoming his initial intense emotional struggles to surfacing as a masculine force to be reckoned with in marriage and parenting. He drops practical wisdom bombs throughout that will inspire you to your next level. Enjoy a humorous and emotional rollercoaste...
1hr 16m Jul 03, 2024
1hr 16m
192: 10 Super Simple To Implement Romantic Gestures Rational Minded Men Can Light Up Their Queens Hearts With
These ten high leverage romantic gestures are made to give the maximum Return-On-Investment for the least amount of time input. No more excuses. These simple romantic gestures take on average 1-2mins each, and are tried and tested in the arena of marriage. If you want a roaring bushfire of love in your marriage, starting using these is a great place to start. Let’s begin….. Will you do ...
40m Jun 27, 2024
40m
190: 3 Simple Steps From Conflict Avoidant Anxiety to Kingly Confidence in Communication Mastery
100% of men entering this work are conflict avoidant.  Thus, 100% of men entering this work are not getting what they want in life and marriage.  These three simple steps will help you unlock the doors to experiencing a married life of infinite expansion, connection and joy for you and your Queen forever more. A big, BOLD promise that’s backed up by the extraordinary results every husband w...
1hr 4m Jun 19, 2024
1hr 4m
189: How To Master The Storm of Relating to Challenging Children and Criticising Wife In The Octagon of Husband-Wife-Children Conflict
Father-to-child relating is hard enough. Husband-to-wife relating is even harder. Husband-to-wife-to-challenging-child relating is a family man’s idea of hell! Here, Heroic Husband Men's Circle member Mike gets coached in how to begin mastering the art of becoming a grounded and heart-centred father in one of the toughest married life challenges. Let’s begin….. Will you do The Heroic Husba...
19m Jun 13, 2024
19m
188: The Simple Conflict De-escalation Tool To Calm Her Irrationality And Have Her Love You For It!
GREAT NEWS! Arguably the most powerful communication tool to de-escalate your Queen’s irrationality is the simplest tool in the world for regular guys like you and I to use. It’s called labelling. It's insanely simple yet ridiculously effective in the Octagon of marital conflict. Let's begin..... Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fa...
35m Jun 12, 2024
35m
187: "My Autobiography of Healing Trauma" with Dr Peter Levine
You meet the brilliant Peter Levine in this special guest episode. Mark recognises Peter as one of the most influential teachers on his healing journey to reclaiming his authentic voice and power in marriage and life. Sharing his personal journey to heal his severe childhood trauma, Peter is a river of insights helping you move forward with hope and courage no matter what has happened in your...
53m Jun 06, 2024
53m
186: How To Overcome Your Sexual Shame and Get What You Want in the Bedroom
Sexual shame in men is the most underestimated negative influence that kills intimacy in marriage long-term. Here Mark coaches Duane through his issue with sexual shame and getting what he wants in deep intimacy with his Queen. A short episode packed with immensely powerful insights and strategies to set your sexual dance on fire! Let’s begin…. Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Se...
20m Jun 05, 2024
20m
185: "Marriage Transformation Hero" Special Series with Tom Crate
In this episode we welcome in Tom Crate. Tom attacked his three-month Heroic Husbands 1-1 coaching deep work with ferocious intentionality. His commitment brought about an immense inner healing and reconnection with his radical aliveness and authenticity…..and of course a beautiful marriage transformation as a bonus! Here's the story of what happens when a regular guy commits to doing irre...
1hr 8m May 30, 2024
1hr 8m
184: How To Go From Marital Dead Energy and Overwhelm to Reawakening Your Radically Alive & Free Wild Man Energy
In this special episode, Heroic Husbands Men’s Circle member Andrew, brings a question every husband on the planet wants the answer of: “How do I bring a consistent energy of aliveness, cutting out the highs and lows, into my life and my family home for those I love the most on a daily basis?” The answer is the Playbook you need to bring unlimited radical aliveness and freedom loving Wild Ma...
22m May 29, 2024
22m
183: From Your Marriage Efforts Repulsing Your Queen To Easily Becoming Her King of Sexual Attraction and Masculine Leadership
Most husbands on the marriage transformation path are doing their best but struggling to make real change happen. Until you make this one crucial change in approach, your Queen will be repulsed by your best efforts. Making this one simple shift in your approach, you become like two magnets who endlessly struggle to attract, then one magnet turns round and BINGO! Radical attraction naturally...
42m May 23, 2024
42m
182: This Mysteriously Powerful 10 Second Practice Helps You Go From Stuck-in-your-Head Mode to Embodying Instant Trust-Earning Presence
Nothing in marriage is more common than a husband stuck in his head. Nothing in marriage is more repulsive to a wife than a husband stuck in his head. An over-thinking, stuck-in-his-head husband is one of the primary causes of divorces. This ONE simple practice, changes all that in 10 seconds flat! Virtually no other practice has a greater marital Return-On-Investment than this one! Le...
6m May 22, 2024
6m
181: The ONE Secret to Speaking With Your Queen About Sex With Natural Ease
Talking about sex with their wives is one of the toughest relationship challenges husbands face.  Passing Hell Week in Navy SEAL training is easy in comparison! If you struggle with this, it’s not your fault and you’re not alone. This episode gifts you the one secret mindset shift every husband needs to enter sex life conversations with natural ease. Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marria...
49m May 16, 2024
49m
180: Why 3 Minutes Is The Magic Number In Easily Becoming A Master in Conflict De-escalation
96% of the time you can predict the outcome of a conversation based on only the first three minutes of the interaction! Introducing the “Sinking Ship Back to Port” Game. Gamify your arguments to become a master in the art of conflict de-escalation. It’s easy. It works. And it’s available to you NOW if you've 5mins to spare! Let’s begin…. Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Ass...
4m May 15, 2024
4m
179: The Easily Avoidable and Costly Mistake All Improving Husbands Make On Their Marriage Transformation Journey
On your road to being a better husband you will have THIS ONE distinctly uncomfortable experience with your Queen many times. If you do not expect it or understand it when it happens, you risk losing all hope in your marriage. If you are expecting it and understand it’s sacred meaning, you can navigate any storm and build an amazing marriage. Thus, expecting and understanding this one exp...
35m May 09, 2024
35m
178: How To Use Your Eyes To Avoid Conflict and Get What You Want In Marriage
Our humble eyes can kill or cure our marriage struggles. One attacking or avoidant glance kills intimacy. One loving soft direct eye gaze reconnects and starts rebuilding her trust in you. This super practical 5-minute lesson will help you unleash the connection superpower that lies in your eyes. Let's begin..... Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point...
3m May 08, 2024
3m
177: How To Apply The 3 Pillars For Consciously Parenting Challenging Children During Conflict
For fathers who find parenting difficult and challenging at times, Dan Peterson is the medicine to cure all our parenting woes. In Dan’s first episode on the podcast, he taught us the simple 3 Pillars approach to consciously parenting challenging children. It became one of the most listened episodes ever, so we had to get him back on! In this special episode, Dan coaches members of Heroic...
56m May 02, 2024
56m
176: How To End Confusion and Have Focused Clarity as You Face Her Most Intense Storms
With no training of your mind and how it works, it’s almost impossible not to have major struggles relating with your Queen in deep intimacy. Thinking, talking and taking action are our universal life creating  tools. The greatest skill you must develop is knowing how to consciously decide which thoughts to follow and which to disregard. This is how you develop Kingship level of mastery i...
38m May 01, 2024
38m
175: 3 Hacks To Stop Your Destructive Habit of Screen Scrolling and Become Your Queen’s Hero of Presence
Your mindless scrolling hurts your Queen’s heart. Your “just-a-glance” thinking hurts your Queen’s heart. Both kill your marriage. Marriages fly high with phones on airplane mode. Armed with these 3 easy-to-implement ideas, you will easily become her Hero of Presence again! Let’s begin….. Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast ...
5m Apr 24, 2024
5m
173: 5min Heroic Husband Habits: The 3 Pillars of Heroic Hope Save Marriages
This 5-min high flame episode empowers you to become an unstoppable force on your marriage transformation journey. The 3 Pillars of Hope add the nuclear power plant of energy driving you forward to get what you want. Let’s begin….. Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Plan? Start 5-Min Self-Assessment NOW (https://he...
7m Apr 18, 2024
7m
174: The 4 Deadly Sins In Marriage…and How To Avoid Them
These 4 relationship sins haunt the background of all struggling marriages. No shame needed. The ancient root of the word “sin” simply means “to miss the mark”. This episode helps you see where you are missing the mark and how to re-aim so you hit the marriage bullseye! Let’s begin….. Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improv...
46m Apr 17, 2024
46m
172: Heroic Husband Habits – Body Language Of A Friend, The Arguments End
Introducing Heroic Husband Habits! Short 5min blasts of high leverage habitual ways of thinking, talking and taking action to become the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship. Have you had moments in marriage when no matter what you say, nothing lands? Moments when your best intended words drive your Queen into worse moods? 90% of our messages are communicated through body langua...
7m Apr 11, 2024
7m
171: Lead Her With Confidence With This Simple Navy SEAL Leadership Mindset
According to ex-Navy SEAL commander Jocko Willink, few leadership principles are as solid as High Ground. In a battlefield, High Ground literally refers to accessing the highest terrain available with view of the battlefield. As most marriages can feel like a battlefield at times, Jocko’s a good guy to seek advice from. This episode unpacks how you can use this simple perspective to becom...
34m Apr 10, 2024
34m
170: You Will NEVER Lose Motivation Again Armed With THIS!
Marriage transformation can be a brutal spiritual dog fight requiring of you the deepest levels of resilience ever asked off you as a man. Imagine an emotional engine giving you an infinite supply of forward momentum to transform your marriage and life? Imagine no matter how black the situation feels, you had the constant power to drive forward to a better future. This episode tells you e...
32m Apr 03, 2024
32m
169: The Secret To Re-igniting The Fire Of Sexual Desire In Marriage
Sexual fire dies in the majority of marriages. So often that the most people assume loss of sexual desire is an unavoidable part of marriage. Yet in a small percentage of marriages, the fire burns brightly no matter how many years pass. This is their secret revealed. Let's begin.... Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvemen...
31m Mar 27, 2024
31m
168: The 7 Most Powerful Journaling Exercises To Save Your Marriage
If there’s one thing you need to know, it’s that journaling is your secret weapon in winning the battle to save your marriage. Regular journaling isn’t worth a damn. This episode introduces you to the World’s 7 Best Marriage Saving journaling exercises proven to bring epic results. Let’s begin…. Access Your FREE “The 7 Most Powerful Journaling Exercises to Transform Your Marriage” PDF NOW...
57m Mar 21, 2024
57m
167: "The Hero's Journey Beyond Absent Fathers And Sexual Abuse" with Andrew Briggs
Andrew Briggs came on to speak about his expertise in health and fitness. What then happened was one of the most inspiring conversations Mark has experienced since beginning the podcast. Andrew tells his captivating story of heroically overcoming the childhood experiences of not having his father present, having his face savagely mauled by a neighbours dog and experiencing repeated sexual ab...
1hr 21m Mar 14, 2024
1hr 21m
166: The Art of Setting Up A Super-Charged Sacred Space To WIN BIG ALWAYS!
Setting up a Sacred Space is the highest leverage action you can take to help you transform your marriage and entire life. CEOs, billionaires, social reformers, world leaders, military commanders rise before those in their world awake to set their mind and body up to win. Success leaves signs behind. 60mins every morning over 365 days gives you 9.5 WORK WEEKS OF TIME in one year to train yo...
1hr 4m Mar 13, 2024
1hr 4m
165: "Marriage Transformation Hero Special Series" with Chris Williams
Get ready to listen to an early legend in the Heroic Husbands Movement, Chris Williams. Chris has faced and addressed issues of mental, emotional, and physical abuse, recognizing the harm caused by his actions. Through introspection and a commitment to change, Chris has embarked on a journey of personal growth and redemption. Despite his past shortcomings, Chris’s dedication to becoming a be...
1hr 34m Mar 07, 2024
1hr 34m
164: 8 Questions From Ancient Mystical Mavericks To Make You Unstoppable
What if you had immediate access to your own super power by listening to wisdom from some of the world’s greatest ever mystical mavericks? Would you click play? OF COURSE YOU WOULD!!! So click play and let’s begin…. To connect with Mark: Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Plan? Start 5-Min Self-Assessment NOW (ht...
35m Mar 06, 2024
35m