S1 Ep223: 12 Simple Strategies To Be An Unstoppable King in Marriage and Life in 2025
The only permissible Kingly aim going into the New Year is setting the intention to make this the best year yet in your marriage and life. It doesn't matter how intense your married life is now; these simple strategies and mindset upgrades will help you create an awesome year worthy of the King you were born to be. Let’s begin….. Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment an...
1hr Jan 03, 2025
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S1 Ep222: The One Greatest Trustworthy Gift to Give Your Queen This New Year
There’s one thing your Queen desires you to gift her the most. She’s been desiring this from you since you first met. This episode unpacks the greatest gift you will have ever gifted your Queen and marriage since you first got married. It also happens to be the greatest gift you can gift yourself in life. Let’s begin….. Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Rece...
57m Dec 26, 2024
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S1 Ep221: The Two Simplest Questions To Answer To Make 2025 The Best Year You’ve Lived Yet!
The episode reveals the simplest journaling exercise in the world. It arguably is the most powerful journaling exercise in the world. It will transform your wounds, woman and world for the better making 2025 epic….but only if you have the spiritual balls to do it?! Let’s begin….. Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement...
37m Dec 19, 2024
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S1 Ep220: The 1 Sneaky Reason Why Your Current Best Efforts Aren't Yet Working In Marriage
Many husbands, despite their best current efforts, aren’t getting anything near the return they’d love to see and feel from their wives. There is one major blind spot that will sabotage all of your best efforts and render your Queen incapable of truly seeing how hard you’re trying. This episode is essential listening for any husband who wants to get the return on investment he believes his e...
37m Dec 12, 2024
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S1 Ep219: 8 Steps From Holiday Season Marital Stress and Overwhelm To Your Most Connected and Present Experience Ever
The holiday season and all it’s socially imposed crazy expectations are upon us! This time of year creates unnecessary amounts of stress, tension and disconnection behind the scenes in marriage dynamics. There is a different way for you to consciously lead your wife and kids to the best holiday season you’ve ever experienced together. Here's to you being her Holiday Season Heroic Husband t...
52m Dec 05, 2024
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S1 Ep218: 1 Trick To Prevent Your Dark Subconscious Mind From Repelling Your Wife
Every husband has a dark side he doesn’t want to show the world, especially his wife.  Many men in this Mr Nice Guy era will deny such a side even exists. But this dark subconscious mind does exist. And it rules all your behaviours until you know how to work with it consciously. If you want to stop peeing against your subconscious wind in marriage, this episode is a must. Let’s begin….. ...
56m Nov 28, 2024
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S1 Ep217: The 2 Karmas Buddhist Teachings Say You Must Create To Be Victorious In Marriage and Life
You've already created the conditions (Karma #1) necessary for becoming married. The second Karma you must create is infinitely more important. Without creating this second karma you will pee against the proverbial wind in marriage and life. Knowing what this second Karma is and how it’s created might be the most important wisdom you ever learn. Let’s begin….. Will you do The Heroic Husb...
31m Nov 21, 2024
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S1 Ep216: 5 Steps to Soften Your Wife’s Trump Provoked Fearful Feminist Backlash and Return to Loving Connection
The recent re-election of Donald Trump as President of the USA has been used to polarise a beautiful nation and by extension the human family once more into fearing masculine power in men. The feeling of fear feels real in many of our wives and it’s not pretty when this comes out against all men in their speech with us.  Not all women are feeling this; some might even love the guy being elec...
50m Nov 14, 2024
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S1 Ep215: The 1 Enemy You Must Defeat To Go From Suffocating Resentment and Regret to Limitless Freedom and Fulfilment in Married Life
You have only one enemy to defeat in marriage. When you defeat this one enemy you will have access to the infinite game of limitless freedom and fulfilment in all areas of marriage, parenting and life. With resentment and regret festering in the background of most marriages, no husband can afford to ignore this message. Let’s begin….. Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assess...
1hr 2m Nov 07, 2024
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S1 Ep214: The 6 Cognitive Distortions That Make Men Wonder How They Ever Married HER
Our unconscious cognitive distortions ruin our marriages. They drive our Right-vs-Wrong righteousness in arguments where we might win the fight, but lose the marriage. The masculine practice is knowing not every thought is created equally. Some thoughts are helpful to follow. The majority, our cognitive distorted thoughts, are destructive to follow. This episode will put you in full menta...
1hr 9m Oct 31, 2024
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S1 Ep213: The 4 Attachment Styles Husbands and Wives Have In Marriage
Attachment theory rocks! Knowing which attachment style your nervous system has empowers you to know how to move forward in marriage with clarity, confidence and above all, compassion for both yourself and your wife. Listening will help you learn which attachment style you and your Queen are. This episode will become one of the most empowering 60min investments in self-growth of your adult l...
1hr 13m Oct 24, 2024
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S1 Ep212: 1 Simple Mindset Hack To Stop Confusion and Lead With Confident Clarity She'll Trust and Love
Most well intentioned husbands struggle to make progress because they unwittingly do the same habitual things MORE OFTEN, hoping this will improve their marriage. This doesn't work. Ever. This one simple mindset hack will cut through all your confusion of what works and what doesn’t, leaving you in the driving seat to marital success. Let’s begin….. Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriag...
1hr 11m Oct 17, 2024
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S1 Ep211: 15 Generative Questions To Easily Create Deep Intimate Connection and Trust with your Queen
Generative Questions help snap your marriage conversations out of Same-Sh1t-Different-Day mode into passionate soulful connection where both of you feel on fire together. These simple questions will be amongst your highest leverage tools to transform your marriage with ease. No husbands should be without them!!! Let’s begin….. Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and...
1hr 12m Oct 10, 2024
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S1 Ep210: "Marriage Transformation Hero" Special Series with Jason DiFulvio
Jason DiFulvio joined Heroic Husbands Men’s Circles under a year ago. Just after quitting a dysfunctional relationship with alcohol and with his marriage hanging by a thread, Jason aggressively attacked his deep men’s work path. His obsessive focus on finding growth opportunities to become a happier man and more emotionally integrated husband for his Queen, makes Jason’s marriage transforma...
1hr 14m Oct 03, 2024
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S1 Ep209: #1 Way To Naturally Increase your Testosterone Levels and Confidence As A Masculine Leader
Testosterone is the most beautiful juice driving masculine confidence and clarity. Without sufficient levels of it, we go limp in and out of the bedroom. Here is the simplest natural way to increase your testosterone levels helping you lead your Queen with masculine fire and passion. Let’s begin….. Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalis...
32m Oct 02, 2024
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S1 Ep208: Marriage Transformation Hero Special Series with David Nelson
Dave Nelson is one of the regular guys of Heroic Husbands Men’s Circle #3 committed to doing irregularly deep inner work to become a better man and husband. Listen in to Dave’s inspirational story taking his marriage from the cliff edge desperation of his Queen wanting to end it all after years of his failed promises, to Dave taking extreme ownership to win his sacred Queen’s trust and heart b...
1hr 16m Sep 26, 2024
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S1 Ep207: Marilyn Monroe Wisdom To Help You Be A Brilliant Masculine Lover and Leader
Marilyn Monroe was unapologetically feminine: untameable, unboxable, unpredictable and at home with her sexual fire and passion. Hence, she was so damn attractive to powerful, strong, masculine men. Women embodying unapologetic feminine energy challenge men to find their masculine core….or die trying! For husbands who want to be strong in their masculine core, sit back and enjoy this epic ...
1hr 3m Sep 25, 2024
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S1 Ep206: The 1 Simple Question That Will Transform Marriage Hell To Marriage Heaven
There exists a magical question that if asked often enough and the wisdom of it’s answer acted upon, will transform everything in your marriage and life. Warning: It takes giant masculine spiritual balls to answer this simple question and have the courage to act on it’s answer, again and again.  If you think you have what it takes, let’s begin…. Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Sel...
46m Sep 18, 2024
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S1 Ep205: 2 Simple Steps To Get Your Irrational and Doubting Wife To Trust Your Rational Lead On Any Topic
A major frustration for most husbands is his wife’s lack of trust in his leadership.  Your masculine core clearly sees the problem at Point A, you establish a path to a better future at Point B, but she gives you irrational kickback refusing to budge from Point A. Or if she follows your lead to Point B, she does so grudgingly with an omnipresent readiness to hit you with “I told you so!” if y...
44m Sep 12, 2024
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S1 Ep204: The 3 Uncommon Steps To Holding a Safe Space for your Wife’s Sadness and Depression
A ton of husbands are suffering the pain of not knowing how to hold space for their wives sadness and depression. Not knowing how to do so effectively is unnecessarily killing happiness in a massive number of marriages. This episode details your path to becoming the single most healing presence in your wife’s life journey as a human being. Let’s begin….. Will you do The Heroic Husbands ...
1hr 6m Sep 04, 2024
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S1 Ep203: 10 Masculine Mantras To Be Fearless In Marriage Leadership
No-BS, Zen-like statements that cut to the point are potent tools. They bring you from the outer chaos of the battlefield of married life to instantaneous inner clarity knowing what to do next. ​ In Heroic Husbands Men's Circles (https://preview.convertkit-mail2.com/click/dpheh0hzhm/aHR0cHM6Ly93d3cua2luZ3NvZmZyZWVkb20ubWUvaGVyb2ljLWh1c2JhbmRzLW1lbnMtY2lyY2xlcy8=) we call these statement our Ma...
1hr 24m Aug 30, 2024
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S1 Ep202: "The 5D Man Lifestyle Approach To Making Men Strong Again" with Eivind Skjellum
We welcome in Eivind Skjellum to introduce his brilliant 5D Man Lifestyle approach which helps men to awaken their heroic impulse within. Best known for his work in masculine archetypes, Eivind’s new exciting 5-Dimensions framework is at the leading edge of masculine thought leadership. Get ready for a revelatory ride learning how to embody Clarity, Courage, Creation, Connection with their ca...
1hr 19m Aug 28, 2024
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S1 Ep201: What Uncommonly Wise Husbands Do When Their Queens Seek Praise and Validation
Husbands are meant to be solid oak trees. Husbands need to treat their wives as sublimely beautiful flowers. Your understanding of this energetic distinction is tested every time your wife seeks your praise and validation. Get it right, marriage is easy. Get it wrong, marriage is hard. Don’t skip this episode! Let’s begin….. Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and ...
29m Aug 22, 2024
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S1 Ep200: The Little Known Most Important Masculine Rule In Masculine-Feminine Relating
The main reason us husbands are unnecessarily suffering in marriage is that nobody taught us the most important rule of the game of masculine-feminine attraction. Without Knowing the #1 Most Important Masculine Rule in Marriage, you will never enjoy the experience of marriage. If you're ready to become a legendary player in the game of marriage, this episode's for you. Let's begin.... Will ...
39m Aug 15, 2024
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S1 Ep199: The 1 Surprising Strategy For Evoking A River of Her Praise and Validation
As humans, we have a deep psychological need to feel validation. Husbands subconsciously try to get this need met by their wives in ways that unwittingly repulses their feminine core. This episode simplifies the battle-field with the one strategy every husband needs to know. Let's begin. Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improve...
51m Aug 08, 2024
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S1 Ep198: The 3 Masculine Leadership Characteristics Wives Need, Love and Trust
There is a secret code to becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship.  It involves embodying three simple to understand and integrate leadership characteristics. If you want to eliminate stress, struggle and stagnation and start winning BIG in married life, then buckle up and enjoy! Let’s begin….. Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-...
1hr 14m Jul 31, 2024
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S1 Ep197: Without Doing Shadow Work She’ll Never Trust You As Her King
Your Queen can only trust you when you are an embodied Mountain in the Storm. Shadow Work is where boys become men, and men become Kings. If you are in the octagon of marriage and desire to live and die without regret, this episode is a must. Let’s begin….. Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Plan? Start 5-Min Self-...
57m Jul 25, 2024
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S1 Ep196: 3 Essential Steps To Rebuilding Your Marriage After Your Wife’s Infidelity
A wife cheating can be a brutal blow for any man. The fog of hurt, blame and shame blinds the path forward. This episode brings radical no-BS clarity as to how you must approach this challenge if you desire to rebuild an awesome marriage built on rock solid trust and unshakeable respect. Let’s begin….. Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personal...
59m Jul 18, 2024
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S1 Ep195: 3 Rules To Stop Resenting Your Wife And Confidently Master The Infinite Game of Marriage
Us magnificent men have been wrongly conditioned into believing marriage is a finite game. This leads to men relating to their wife as a ball on chain and marriage becomes Same-Sh1t-Different-Day. Yet, when men realise the rules of transforming marriage into an infinite game, everything changes for the better…forever! Married life becomes a blank canvass where life just keeps getting bett...
1hr 5m Jul 10, 2024
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S1 Ep194: This Uncommon Insight Helps Husbands Enjoy Unlimited Radical Authentic Freedom in Marriage and Life
Being authentic and real is the heart essence of mans search in life. But WTF does being authentic actually mean? Until you have radical clarity on what a term means, your brain has no idea how to bring it to life. This episode simplifies authenticity in a way that will become the master key to creating the most amazing marriage and life you ever dreamed of. Let’s begin….. Will you do T...
49m Jul 04, 2024
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S1 Ep193: "Marriage Transformation Hero" Special Series with Jak Houghton
Jak Houghton is our latest Marriage Transformation Hero from Heroic Husbands Men’s Circles. Jak leads with radical transparency on overcoming his initial intense emotional struggles to surfacing as a masculine force to be reckoned with in marriage and parenting. He drops practical wisdom bombs throughout that will inspire you to your next level. Enjoy a humorous and emotional rollercoaste...
1hr 16m Jul 03, 2024
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S1 Ep192: 10 Super Simple To Implement Romantic Gestures Rational Minded Men Can Light Up Their Queens Hearts With
These ten high leverage romantic gestures are made to give the maximum Return-On-Investment for the least amount of time input. No more excuses. These simple romantic gestures take on average 1-2mins each, and are tried and tested in the arena of marriage. If you want a roaring bushfire of love in your marriage, starting using these is a great place to start. Let’s begin….. Will you do ...
40m Jun 27, 2024
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S1 Ep190: 3 Simple Steps From Conflict Avoidant Anxiety to Kingly Confidence in Communication Mastery
100% of men entering this work are conflict avoidant.  Thus, 100% of men entering this work are not getting what they want in life and marriage.  These three simple steps will help you unlock the doors to experiencing a married life of infinite expansion, connection and joy for you and your Queen forever more. A big, BOLD promise that’s backed up by the extraordinary results every husband w...
1hr 5m Jun 19, 2024
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S1 Ep189: How To Master The Storm of Relating to Challenging Children and Criticising Wife In The Octagon of Husband-Wife-Children Conflict
Father-to-child relating is hard enough. Husband-to-wife relating is even harder. Husband-to-wife-to-challenging-child relating is a family man’s idea of hell! Here, Heroic Husband Men's Circle member Mike gets coached in how to begin mastering the art of becoming a grounded and heart-centred father in one of the toughest married life challenges. Let’s begin….. Will you do The Heroic Husba...
19m Jun 13, 2024
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S1 Ep188: The Simple Conflict De-escalation Tool To Calm Her Irrationality And Have Her Love You For It!
GREAT NEWS! Arguably the most powerful communication tool to de-escalate your Queen’s irrationality is the simplest tool in the world for regular guys like you and I to use. It’s called labelling. It's insanely simple yet ridiculously effective in the Octagon of marital conflict. Let's begin..... Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fa...
35m Jun 12, 2024
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S1 Ep187: "My Autobiography of Healing Trauma" with Dr Peter Levine
You meet the brilliant Peter Levine in this special guest episode. Mark recognises Peter as one of the most influential teachers on his healing journey to reclaiming his authentic voice and power in marriage and life. Sharing his personal journey to heal his severe childhood trauma, Peter is a river of insights helping you move forward with hope and courage no matter what has happened in your...
53m Jun 06, 2024
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S1 Ep186: How To Overcome Your Sexual Shame and Get What You Want in the Bedroom
Sexual shame in men is the most underestimated negative influence that kills intimacy in marriage long-term. Here Mark coaches Duane through his issue with sexual shame and getting what he wants in deep intimacy with his Queen. A short episode packed with immensely powerful insights and strategies to set your sexual dance on fire! Let’s begin…. Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Se...
20m Jun 05, 2024
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S1 Ep185: "Marriage Transformation Hero" Special Series with Tom Crate
In this episode we welcome in Tom Crate. Tom attacked his three-month Heroic Husbands 1-1 coaching deep work with ferocious intentionality. His commitment brought about an immense inner healing and reconnection with his radical aliveness and authenticity…..and of course a beautiful marriage transformation as a bonus! Here's the story of what happens when a regular guy commits to doing irre...
1hr 8m May 30, 2024
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S1 Ep184: How To Go From Marital Dead Energy and Overwhelm to Reawakening Your Radically Alive & Free Wild Man Energy
In this special episode, Heroic Husbands Men’s Circle member Andrew, brings a question every husband on the planet wants the answer of: “How do I bring a consistent energy of aliveness, cutting out the highs and lows, into my life and my family home for those I love the most on a daily basis?” The answer is the Playbook you need to bring unlimited radical aliveness and freedom loving Wild Ma...
22m May 29, 2024
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S1 Ep183: From Your Marriage Efforts Repulsing Your Queen To Easily Becoming Her King of Sexual Attraction and Masculine Leadership
Most husbands on the marriage transformation path are doing their best but struggling to make real change happen. Until you make this one crucial change in approach, your Queen will be repulsed by your best efforts. Making this one simple shift in your approach, you become like two magnets who endlessly struggle to attract, then one magnet turns round and BINGO! Radical attraction naturally...
42m May 23, 2024
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S1 Ep182: This Mysteriously Powerful 10 Second Practice Helps You Go From Stuck-in-your-Head Mode to Embodying Instant Trust-Earning Presence
Nothing in marriage is more common than a husband stuck in his head. Nothing in marriage is more repulsive to a wife than a husband stuck in his head. An over-thinking, stuck-in-his-head husband is one of the primary causes of divorces. This ONE simple practice, changes all that in 10 seconds flat! Virtually no other practice has a greater marital Return-On-Investment than this one! Le...
6m May 22, 2024
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S1 Ep181: The ONE Secret to Speaking With Your Queen About Sex With Natural Ease
Talking about sex with their wives is one of the toughest relationship challenges husbands face.  Passing Hell Week in Navy SEAL training is easy in comparison! If you struggle with this, it’s not your fault and you’re not alone. This episode gifts you the one secret mindset shift every husband needs to enter sex life conversations with natural ease. Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marria...
49m May 16, 2024
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S1 Ep180: Why 3 Minutes Is The Magic Number In Easily Becoming A Master in Conflict De-escalation
96% of the time you can predict the outcome of a conversation based on only the first three minutes of the interaction! Introducing the “Sinking Ship Back to Port” Game. Gamify your arguments to become a master in the art of conflict de-escalation. It’s easy. It works. And it’s available to you NOW if you've 5mins to spare! Let’s begin…. Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Ass...
4m May 15, 2024
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S1 Ep179: The Easily Avoidable and Costly Mistake All Improving Husbands Make On Their Marriage Transformation Journey
On your road to being a better husband you will have THIS ONE distinctly uncomfortable experience with your Queen many times. If you do not expect it or understand it when it happens, you risk losing all hope in your marriage. If you are expecting it and understand it’s sacred meaning, you can navigate any storm and build an amazing marriage. Thus, expecting and understanding this one exp...
35m May 09, 2024
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S1 Ep178: How To Use Your Eyes To Avoid Conflict and Get What You Want In Marriage
Our humble eyes can kill or cure our marriage struggles. One attacking or avoidant glance kills intimacy. One loving soft direct eye gaze reconnects and starts rebuilding her trust in you. This super practical 5-minute lesson will help you unleash the connection superpower that lies in your eyes. Let's begin..... Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point...
3m May 08, 2024
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S1 Ep177: How To Apply The 3 Pillars For Consciously Parenting Challenging Children During Conflict
For fathers who find parenting difficult and challenging at times, Dan Peterson is the medicine to cure all our parenting woes. In Dan’s first episode on the podcast, he taught us the simple 3 Pillars approach to consciously parenting challenging children. It became one of the most listened episodes ever, so we had to get him back on! In this special episode, Dan coaches members of Heroic...
57m May 02, 2024
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S1 Ep176: How To End Confusion and Have Focused Clarity as You Face Her Most Intense Storms
With no training of your mind and how it works, it’s almost impossible not to have major struggles relating with your Queen in deep intimacy. Thinking, talking and taking action are our universal life creating  tools. The greatest skill you must develop is knowing how to consciously decide which thoughts to follow and which to disregard. This is how you develop Kingship level of mastery i...
38m May 01, 2024
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S1 Ep175: 3 Hacks To Stop Your Destructive Habit of Screen Scrolling and Become Your Queen’s Hero of Presence
Your mindless scrolling hurts your Queen’s heart. Your “just-a-glance” thinking hurts your Queen’s heart. Both kill your marriage. Marriages fly high with phones on airplane mode. Armed with these 3 easy-to-implement ideas, you will easily become her Hero of Presence again! Let’s begin….. Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast ...
5m Apr 24, 2024
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S1 Ep173: 5min Heroic Husband Habits: The 3 Pillars of Heroic Hope Save Marriages
This 5-min high flame episode empowers you to become an unstoppable force on your marriage transformation journey. The 3 Pillars of Hope add the nuclear power plant of energy driving you forward to get what you want. Let’s begin….. Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Plan? Start 5-Min Self-Assessment NOW (https://he...
7m Apr 18, 2024
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S1 Ep174: The 4 Deadly Sins In Marriage…and How To Avoid Them
These 4 relationship sins haunt the background of all struggling marriages. No shame needed. The ancient root of the word “sin” simply means “to miss the mark”. This episode helps you see where you are missing the mark and how to re-aim so you hit the marriage bullseye! Let’s begin….. Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improv...
46m Apr 17, 2024
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