113: Today My Queen Ripped Through My Mediocrity Justifying BS!
Raw, real and delivered fresh from the octagon of my marriage today! Enjoy!  Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Plan? Start 5-Min Self-Assessment NOW (https://heroichusbands.scoreapp.com/) Want the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship? Coaching - Heroic Husbands (htt...
35m Aug 09, 2023
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112: Why Every Husband Listening Should Get Remarried Soon!
It's a fun title that speaks to one of the most transformative healing perspectives any husband can bring into his marriage transformation journey. This little known trick establishes a way of communicating that can burn up years of resentment in a surprisingly playful way leaving you the path of least resistance to creating the marriage of your dreams. Let's begin.... Will you do The Heroic...
38m Aug 03, 2023
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110: How To Upgrade Your Commitment and Enter Hero Husband Status
Most husbands subconsciously think that exchanging marriage vows was the biggest commitment, yet that moment in the nervous system of our Queens doesn't count for sh1t compared with moment to moment embodied commitment. Deriving deep inspiration from a mountaineer's perspective on the miraculous powers of commitment, welcome to a direct challenge to up-level your commitment levels to a standar...
41m Aug 02, 2023
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110: Be Like A Monk Who Loves To F!ck
The cultural shaming of desire has created one of the most destructive unspoken forces poisoning marriages in the modern era. Our primal body loves the radically alive feeling that desire in it’s broadest sense affords us, including but not limited to it’s expression in sexual intimacy. Yet, the culturally conditioned collective mindset of humanity has been indoctrinated into believing desire...
1hr 4m Jul 27, 2023
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109: Marriage Is a Lonely Dogfight Without Brotherly Love and Support
A sad tragedy of modern living is that 99% of husbands are feeling lonely in marriage and life.  We men are missing the spiritual nourishment of genuine deep connection with other men and often our marriages are unwittingly taking a destructive hit because of this. The subconscious boy energy patterns of neediness see our wives as the only source of love. This breeds the common catchphrase, “c...
43m Jul 26, 2023
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111: Masculine Words Of Safety For Marriage First Aid Moments
The great feminine emotional wound is fearing abandonment in love. Unwittingly most husbands trigger this wound in deeply emotional moments with their wives by trying to suggest a fix or solution to the problem. The counter-intuitive trick to fixing a shitty feeling emotional moment your wife is experiencing is by meeting her there fully in that moment. In this episode I share a list of hi...
39m Jul 20, 2023
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109: The 4-Word Deep Connection Phrase Wives Love Hearing
This episode comes off the back of an intimate relationship wisdom bomb dropped by Duey Freeman during my recent conversation with him. In these four simple words, you will have access to a high-leverage means to meet your Queen’s core feminine desire for union in love and sooth the core feminine emotional wound of abandonment. I’ve played with this four-word phrase with my Queen for weeks to...
37m Jul 19, 2023
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109: "Living an Alcohol-Free Peak Performance Lifestyle" with Shea Fairbanks
In this episode we welcome back in Shea Fairbanks. Emerging from a childhood of immensely traumatising events, for years Shea would use alcohol to help numb the pain. Out of the ashes he would rise up to break free not only from alcoholism, but to create a life of epic freedom and uncommonly high levels of radical health and vitality. Shea is an Alcohol Free Performance Coach and passionate ...
1hr 22m Jul 13, 2023
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108: Unscrewing My Arrogant Ass Parenting Style
I ate humble pie recently when parenting expert Dan Peterson came on the show. Entering the interview with Dan, I felt I had the parenting game in the bag. Dan’s reflections ripped this hood of arrogance off my eyes leaving me staring at major blind spots I had been unable to see. In today’s episode I share personal experiences in breaking up my arrogant ass parenting style immediately after I...
46m Jul 12, 2023
46m
107: Living A Life of Radical Masculine Freedom with Alex McAfee
Few men have lived with such radical masculine inner and outer freedom of expression than Alex McAfee. Enjoy this rip-roaring ride through his inner and outer world adventures as he details his process of navigating life’s chapters while remaining true to his authentic self.  It's the type of radical challenge we need set down to us as husbands to make sure we empty our fullest spiritual music...
1hr 21m Jul 06, 2023
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106: The Single Paradigm Shift Needed to Save Your Marriage
How you look is how you see. Marriage transformation can only happen when you bring into direct question how your mind looks on at your marriage. From one habitual perspective, it creates a loop of only seeing one possible reality, thus recreating the same reality. This is only an issue if you don’t like the reality that’s showing up for you in marriage. Most guys don’t like their married lif...
54m Jul 05, 2023
54m
105: Marriage Transformation Hero Special Series with Calum Stenning
Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Plan? Start 5-Min Self-Assessment NOW (https://heroichusbands.scoreapp.com/) Want the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship? Coaching - Heroic Husbands (https://www.heroichusbands.me/coaching/) Don’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to the br...
1hr 19m Jun 29, 2023
1hr 19m
104: The Revelatory Truth About Depression in Marriage
The experience of depression in marriage makes it a brutally painful and connection eroding experience for the couples involved. Yet, like every aspect of modern life, the experience we live out is determined by the social story we've been conditioned to believe. What if the story we've been told about our human experience of profound unrelenting sadness is the source of our cycle of disempow...
1hr 2m Jun 28, 2023
1hr 2m
103: The 3 Pillars of Consciously Parenting Challenging Children
For fathers everywhere who struggle to get their kids to behave well and show respect, Dan Peterson is the medicine to cure all our parenting woes. Dan specializes in helping adults who work with or have challenging children, develop strategies for their child to succeed in both the school environment and family setting. Dan wants to provide parenting tips for children with behavioural problem...
1hr 6m Jun 22, 2023
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102: The Trash Can Metaphor Your Wife Needs You to Understand
Think of attraction like two magnets. Held in one position, it’s almost impossible to get them to stay together without exerting immense force. Yet, within a quick change of position they are glued together when the inherent attractive forces line up correctly. The Trash Can Metaphor lines the attractive forces between you and your Queen up. Period. Know and understand this metaphor and you w...
1hr 7m Jun 21, 2023
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101: Embodying Bravery In Love and Life with James Bravelove
In this beautiful conversation you get to meet the brilliant James Bravelove. James details the profound inner journey he had in re-establishing his bond of love with his wife after a brief period of separation. He speaks to the heart of the “boy energy” every single man brings to his marriage, and his initiatory journey to releasing this persona to step into Kingship in love and life. Be read...
1hr 13m Jun 15, 2023
1hr 13m
100: 6 Steps to Unstoppable Leadership Confidence She Trusts
One of the most common issues husbands report is having a lack of confidence in knowing how to lead in marriage. We desire to inspire our women to trust us deeply but unwittingly fall short of what they need from us. The tragedy is that in the not knowing how to lead, most husbands stop trying. The pain of trying and then failing to gain your Queen’s trust is the greatest pain we can experienc...
1hr 11m Jun 14, 2023
1hr 11m
99: Simple Steps To Healing Your Emotional Trauma with Justin Sunseri
In this episode we welcome in Justin Sunseri. Justin is a trauma-informed therapist and the host of the Stuck Not Broken podcast. Justin believes the world needs a new understanding of mental health. One that's simplified, easily accessible for anyone and doesn't rely on abstract psychobabble.  Enjoy a super fun and deceptively profound deep dive conversation into how you can navigate your e...
1hr 21m Jun 08, 2023
1hr 21m
98: 3 Simple Mental Steps to Total Marriage Transformation
You have four tools in the creation of your marriage experience: thinking, talking, taking action and your emotional state that fuels it all. Thinking is arguably the most important of all these four universal creative tools. Yet, the majority of husbands struggle in marriage because they have no awareness of how their own thinking is what is making a hell out of a potential heaven they could ...
1hr 14m Jun 07, 2023
1hr 14m
97: Secrets To Creating An Amazing Married Sex Life with Taylor Johnson
In this amazing episode we welcome in Taylor Johnson. Taylor is an integrative sex coach for men and host of the Sex Upgraded podcast. We do a deep dive into how us husbands can consciously prepare the ground for the most amazing sexual connection and experience to show up in our marriages. Get ready for super potent insights and strategies to bring a blazing bush fire of passion back into yo...
1hr 16m Jun 01, 2023
1hr 16m
96: Supporting Your Wife When She's In The Grips of Deep Anxiety
Anxiety rates in women is statistically exceptionally high. Mix this with women living in the octagon of marriage, with overwhelming responsibilities, in a world bombarding us all with fear-inducing stimuli, mixed with the common spice of childhood trauma and you've got the perfect recipe for anxiety being a common place occurrence for husbands to face. Here's how you become a master in the a...
1hr 22m May 31, 2023
1hr 22m
95: The Unmissable Importance of Initiations for Modern Men with Jeddy Azuma
In this episode we welcome in the brilliant Jeddy Azuma. With a decade of experience in Men’s Leadership and Empowerment, Jeddy is the founder and CEO of The Rising Man Movement. As a Guide, Mentor, and Coach, Jeddy has impacted the lives of thousands of men on a mission to initiate an entire generation of men into power and purpose-driven service. Despite his many roles in men’s work, Jeddy c...
51m May 25, 2023
51m
94: 3 Divorce Statistics Every Husband Must Pay Attention To
In this episode, I don't want to be unkind, but I can't afford to be unclear......and ultimately every husband listening in can't afford not to pay full attention to this message. These three statistics will rock the world of the husbands with the spiritual balls and readiness to getting radically honest with themselves with where they truly stand in marriage. Get ready for full flame challen...
55m May 24, 2023
55m
93: Why Male Marital Lone-Wolfing Without Support Makes Total Sense
Why the ultra common habit of husbands, lone-wolfing without support in marriage, makes total sense. Understanding why will change everything for you going forward! Let's begin..... Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Plan? Start 5-Min Self-Assessment NOW (https://heroichusbands.scoreapp.com/) Want the Quickest & Easies...
1hr 3m May 18, 2023
1hr 3m
92: How To Positively Influence Her Complete Lack of Discipline
It's the age old frustration of husbands with wives: Why can't she be more disciplined in her life? We feel frustrated when she doesn't have her shit together, and then feel more disconnected when she gets super disciplined. Today's episode does a deep dive into why this becomes such and issue within us men, and introduces the #1 way to positively influence her behaviour for the better! Let's ...
1hr 12m May 17, 2023
1hr 12m
91: The 3 Most Important Words In Intimate Relationships with Duey Freeman
In this episode we welcome in Duey Freeman. He deep dives into how to create profound connection when you come into contact with other human beings.  Duey is a sought after teacher, trainer, licensed therapist, and equine professional around the world. He has travelled to teach professionally in over 8 countries, has developed a practical attachment theory and human development theory that is t...
1hr 21m May 11, 2023
1hr 21m
90: Simple Steps to Become Her Dependable and Trustworthy King
Broken promises to be a better man tend to plague the landscape of most husband's married lives. We set great intentions, follow through for a couple of weeks, and then fall back into old patterns. This is one of the most corrosive patterns destroying our wives capacity to trust our leadership as husbands. Broken promises hurt our women like hell. Today's episode introduces key steps every hu...
1hr 1m May 10, 2023
1hr 1m
89: Mastering The Dragon of Sexual Desire with Justin Patrick Pierce
Enjoy a sensational and truly profound conversation about mastering the dragon of sexual desire with Justin Patrick Pierce. Author, intimacy teacher, and founder of the Yoga of Intimacy, Justin offers workshops and private training for men and women around the world to help them overcome challenges in relationship, master the embodiments of sexual polarity, and pursue a life of spiritual depth...
1hr 23m May 04, 2023
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88: This One Skill Will Have Her WET & YEARNING You!!!
There is one masculine capacity that fires up our women's trust and sexual attraction for us more than any other capacity. When you learn to master this capacity, she will melt like butter in your hands on the altar of sexual bliss and devotional loving. Curious to know more?!!! Let's begin.... Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast I...
57m May 03, 2023
57m
87: Navigating Your Queen's Dreaded Time of the Month!
This episode we welcome back my beautiful Queen, Matilde, and her full flame fiery wisdom. This ended up becoming an extraordinary deep dive into empowering us Heroic Husbands to consciously lead our Queens during their sacred moon cycle, especially in their bleeding phase. Armed with a list of conscious and high-leverage strategies and perspectives, you will rapidly become the husband she brag...
1hr 36m Apr 27, 2023
1hr 36m
86: 3 Steps to Stopping Your Wife's Abuse of You
Enjoy this intense deep dive into reconnecting with your masculine unfuckwithable core strength and find a power of positive influence within an abusive relationship. It's a no BS, thought provoking perspective that's put forward that will not sit well with the politically correct mainstream views of such a situation. Yet, high conscious extreme ownership has never been mainstream!!! Let's beg...
1hr 19m Apr 26, 2023
1hr 19m
85: Setting Strong Boundaries with Boundary-Violating In-laws with Darren Magee
In this episode, we do a deep dive into how to set non-negotiable boundaries with disrespectful in-laws with Darren F Magee. Darren is a grounded, down to earth therapist with many years experience working with individuals, couples and groups providing counselling in Belfast. Practicing an integrative approach, he draws on Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT), Person Centred, Psychodynamic and ...
1hr 10m Apr 20, 2023
1hr 10m
84: The Great Perceptual Mistake ALL Husbands Make
"Sugar or Shit with your pancakes sir?" asks your waiter. "Why the hell would I put shit on my pancakes?!!!" you respond with outrage. Yet, the great perceptual mistake ALL husbands make, has us serving SHIT (our unconscious emotional reactivity and the resulting verbal vomit) into our relationship space every day. And then we wonder why our wife doesn't love us anymore!!! This episode will g...
1hr 12m Apr 19, 2023
1hr 12m
83: The Porn Addiction Recovery Journey Explained with Chris White
Enjoy Part 2 of a two-part porn addiction recovery series with Chris White. Chris White helps people who are addicted to, or struggle with their use of, porn and sex. In this episode, Chris explains the essential steps along the road to going beyond porn addiction and it's detrimental effects on self and marriage. After years spent working on his own recovery, in 2021 he began coaching group...
1hr 46m Apr 13, 2023
1hr 46m
82: How to Stop Your Wife Bringing Up The Past During Arguments
This Q&A special episode is a direct response to an amazing question posed by one courageous Heroic Husband listening in each week. His voice message went like this:  “Every time my wife and I argue about things, she has to bring up the last ten to twelve things I disappointed her on.  How do I respond to that, and how do I keep her on point for the disagreement we are having?” Well, this is...
1hr 9m Apr 12, 2023
1hr 9m
81: My Recovery Journey Overcoming Porn Addiction with Chris White
Enjoy Part 1 of a two-part porn addiction recovery series with Chris White. Chris White helps people who are addicted to, or struggle with their use of, porn and sex. After years spent working on his own recovery, in 2021 he began coaching groups and individuals who are looking for a life free from porn or out of control sexual behaviours, and full of confidence, joy, and satisfaction. He has...
1hr 24m Apr 06, 2023
1hr 24m
80: How Men Must Reclaim Their Masculine Authentic Core
For millennia, men have come into their fullest masculine power with the support of other men.  Only when you have your core needs as the masculine King of your house met by other men, can you have the full strength needed to how space for the fullest power of your Queen to come through.  Her unboxable, untameable, unpredictable, unapologetic highest self needs your core to be rooted to the c...
47m Apr 05, 2023
47m
79: Embracing Marital Intensity as your Path to Self-Mastery
A raw and vulnerable opening up to recent intense marriage shifts I've been experiencing inside myself and then in conversation with my Queen. Tons of fears and backlash being embraced as I have doubled down my practice of relentlessly expressing my authentic truth in marriage. The underlying topic that emerges is the radical response-ability we always have as husbands for accepting we are th...
44m Mar 31, 2023
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78: Why Every Man Must Have A Men's Group with Taylor Cantril
In today's episode, we welcome in Taylor Cantril. Taylor is a men’s group facilitator, dedicated athlete, fiancé, and has a day job managing pre-veterinary international travel programs for mostly American university students across eight countries. He grew up in the American Midwest and has been living in Chiang Mai, Thailand, for the last ten years. We go to the depths of importance for me...
1hr 26m Mar 30, 2023
1hr 26m
77: BJJ 4th Degree Black Belt Masculine Wisdom with Nic Gregoriades
This is a wonderfully raw and real conversation with Nic Gregoriades. Nic is a men’s coach, 4th Degree Brazilian Jiu Jitsu Black Belt, author and podcast host at The Nic Gregoriades Show. Born and raised in Cape Town, South Africa, during the turbulent collapse of apartheid, Nic recognized at a young age that there was more to life than promised by the backward, small ideas of his country's c...
52m Mar 23, 2023
52m
76: Light Her On Fire With Daily Messaging Mastery
Most marital online communications reek of same-sh!t-different-day mediocrity leaving wives feeling drained of any sense of true passion and aliveness.  As husbands, we unwittingly miss the enormous potential of messaging technology and then scorn the sexless and dead marriages we have created around us!  This episode aims to help you unleash the fullest potential connection and sexual passio...
29m Mar 22, 2023
29m
75: Epic Health and Finding Flow with Shea Fairbanks
In today's episode we welcome in Shea Fairbanks. Shea is a passionate advocate for men's health and wellness. He is a functional health coach specializing in a 4 pillared approach to health. He coaches clients to create strong habits, bodies, mindsets, and to consistently access the flow state. With a background in CrossFit, nutrition coaching and performance breathwork, Shea uses his knowle...
1hr 23m Mar 16, 2023
1hr 23m
74: This Late Night Hero Husband Habit Changes Everything
The standard nightly norm for most husbands is reaching bed time fit to collapse into the peace of unconsciousness. We’ve given our all during the day, so surely we’re allowed switch off the effort making needs of marriage and life! Conscious Kings and Heroic Husbands think differently. They come to realise that this sacred moment is the most powerful moment of the whole day because it sets t...
31m Mar 15, 2023
31m
73: The Miraculous Morning Prayer of Marriage Transforming Heroes!
Most husbands wake up sleepily and mindlessly enter the chaotic world of their wives, their kids, social media hearing bad news and checking emails. Everyone else’s agenda gets shoved at them before they have any chance of grounding themselves. Any wonder overwhelm grows throughout the day, leaving most men exhausted by the evening, only fit for mindless scrolling, a few beers and bed.  Enter...
27m Mar 09, 2023
27m
72: My Queen's View on How I Screwed Up and Unscrewed My Marriage
This is exciting!!! In a brand new expansion of our podcast, we invite my beautiful Queen and Goddess Matilde in to be our sacred guest today! Matilde will intermittently guest and give us her high flame ideas and perspectives from a divine feminine point of view on diverse relationship topics.  In today’s episode, we speak about the process of saving our marriage from a serious cliff edge ris...
1hr 29m Mar 02, 2023
1hr 29m
71: Nice Guys MUST Learn Anger Mastery or their Marriage Dies
99% of husbands have a totally dysfunctional relationship with their anger. When they think they are expressing their anger with their wife, they are actually expressing unsafe aggression from pent up frustration. Consciously expressed anger is the most beautiful and trust-building emotions to master, yet it remains the most misunderstood in all of society with ruinous effects. If you want you...
1hr 28m Mar 01, 2023
1hr 28m
70: Escaping The Marriage Eroding Career Rat Race with Jeremy Cline
In this episode you’ll meet Jeremy Cline. Jeremy Cline, is a career coach and the host of the Change Work Life podcast. He’s a property investor, and a lawyer who helps some of the wealthiest families on the planet. Deep soul searching witnessing how his long daily commute was eating up family time and his weekends being booked up doing the admin, he started asking was this enough for him as ...
1hr 28m Feb 24, 2023
1hr 28m
69: From Marriage Prison to Playground in 3 Steps
Three simple yet profound steps exist that have the power to transform your marriage in an insanely short period of time. Vision multiplied by Identity multiplied by Decision create miraculous results when harnessed fully. But what mysterious power do these three simple concepts possess? And more importantly, how do they transform the married lives of husbands with the balls to implement the...
1hr 5m Feb 22, 2023
1hr 5m
68: A Man Uncivilized Frees His Soul with Traver Boehm
In this episode we welcome Traver Boehm. Traver’s bio includes travelling around the globe protecting billionaires as a bodyguard in his 20’s — drinking shitty wine to ring in the New Year with Indian porters in Delhi, surfing waves the size of apartment buildings in Nicaragua, and dazzling Thai gamblers with how many punches to the face he could take fighting Muay Thai in Chang Mai. He has h...
1hr 6m Feb 17, 2023
1hr 6m
67: 6 Steps From Helpless Husband to Heroic Husband
Despite every husband giving his best, most men feel secretly helpless believing their best will never be good enough. This episode maps out 6 key shifts you can make today, that will support you bringing more deep connection and attraction into your relationship. Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Plan? Start 5-Min Self...
1hr 9m Feb 15, 2023
1hr 9m