25: How to Break Free from Perfectionism & Live Your Values
Is your commitment to being perfect or good actually the enemy of your growth? In this episode we discuss: - The subtle ways perfectionism masquerades as preparation and protection - How perfectionism can become a form of self-harm and procrastination - The connection (and important differences) between perfectionism and people-pleasing - Why letting go of perfectionism can feel like losing...
52m Feb 12, 2025
52m
24: How to Prevent Parental Estrangement with Whitney Goodman, LMFT
Want to prevent estrangement in your kids? This is the second part of our conversation with Whitney Goodman, LMFT. For the first part, please listen to the "Calling Home" podcast. In the first part of this conversation, we cover, what social media gets wrong about parental estrangement and what the nuance is that is missing online. In this second part of the conversation, we discuss. - How bec...
29m Feb 05, 2025
29m
23: You Do Owe People Things: The Myth of Zero Obligations
Has "setting boundaries" turned into an excuse for treating people like they're disposable? We're seeing a concerning trend in our therapy rooms: people are using self-care language to justify ghosting, dishonesty, and basic human decency. In conversation, we tackle: The wild disconnect between how we treat strangers IRL vs. potential partners online Why your "I don't owe anyone anything" min...
45m Jan 29, 2025
45m
22: BONUS: Post- Inauguration Processing & Pep Talk
In this raw and personal bonus episode, Sam and Amanda process their feelings on Inauguration Day, sharing a candid conversation about: Dealing with political anxiety and finding hope amid uncertainty Sam's experiences working in healthcare during COVID-19, including confronting conspiracy theorists and managing the hospital's COVID response The importance of local government and understanding...
39m Jan 23, 2025
39m
21: Stop Flaking On Your Friends!
In this candid episode, therapists Sam and Amanda discuss Sam's recent experience with a TikTok going viral. After posting about friendship and flaking culture, Sam faced unexpected backlash leading to a broader conversation about social media, nuance, and connection in today's world. The hosts explore: How legitimate concerns about accessibility and mental health can sometimes be weaponized t...
50m Jan 22, 2025
50m
20: Mental Health Advice That Changed Our Lives Part 2
In this episode of the Nuance Needed podcast, Amanda and Sam delve into their favorite mental health advice and life lessons. They explore the concept of numbing emotions, the importance of yoga and mindfulness in personal growth, and the significance of understanding one's emotions through interoception. The conversation emphasizes the need for self-advocacy, embracing both good and bad exper...
39m Jan 15, 2025
39m
19: Mental Health Advice That Changed Our Lives Part 1
In this episode of the Nuance Needed podcast, Amanda and Sam share their best mental health tips, focusing on the importance of understanding emotions, accountability, and self-reflection. They discuss how current feelings can distort perceptions of the past and future, and emphasize the need for personal responsibility in navigating life's challenges. The conversation highlights the significan...
44m Jan 08, 2025
44m
18: Why We Hate Resolutions: What to do Instead
We hate resolutions, but we love setting realistic goals. In this episode, we discuss their thoughts on the New Year, resolutions, and explore the difference between resolutions and goals, emphasizing the need for planning and the impact of shame on personal progress. The conversation also touches on the significance of specificity in goal setting and building a healthy relationship with food. ...
38m Jan 01, 2025
38m
17: Holiday Pep Talk!
In this holiday episode of the Nuance Needed podcast, Amanda and Sam discuss the emotional complexities of the holiday season, offering insights on how to navigate feelings of pressure and sadness. They emphasize the importance of self-care, finding comfort in traditions, and the freedom to enjoy the holidays in a way that feels right for each individual. The conversation also touches on the Ne...
8m Dec 25, 2024
8m
16: Taylor Swift Therapy: The End of The Eras Tour
How are we feeling post Eras Tour? Amanda and Sam delve into the aftermath of Taylor Swift's Eras Tour, discussing the mixed reactions from fans, the overwhelming conspiracy theories, and the pressures of celebrity culture. We explore the expectations set by Taylor's performances, the marketing strategies surrounding her music releases, and the need for more nuanced discussions within the fando...
46m Dec 18, 2024
46m
15: How to Actually Change: The Messy Truth No One Talks About
How exactly do people change? In this episode we dive deep into the messy reality of personal change, sharing Sam's recent cross-country move from Utah to Florida as a launching point to explore how real transformation happens. We discuss our professional and personal experiences with change, challenging the common misconception that change should feel good or comfortable. From Sam's enlighteni...
44m Dec 11, 2024
44m
14: How to Break free from All-or-Nothing Thinking & Find Joy Online
In this episode, licensed therapists Amanda White and Sam Dalton, we explore the pervasive impact of all-or-nothing thinking in our digital world and how to find balance amidst the extremes. Through personal stories (including Sam's endearing confession about her fear of whales), we dive into how social media algorithms reward black-and-white thinking and extreme takes, making it challenging to...
40m Dec 04, 2024
40m
13: How to Decide If You Want To Have Kids & Why It's Okay to Question It
In this conversation, Amanda and Sam discuss the topic of whether or not to have children. They explore their own experiences and Amanda shares her perspective on being someone who was not sure if she wanted children and how she decided she wanted one. Now she shares her experience form the other side-- specifically the challenges and joys that come with it. We also touch on the importance of ...
43m Nov 27, 2024
43m
12: How to Be Happy Being Single (Even If You Want a Partner)
In this episode of the Nuance Needed podcast, Amanda White, LPC and Sam Dalton, LCSW delve into the complexities of being single in today's society. We discuss the cultural shift towards women choosing to remain single, the empowerment that comes with financial independence, and the challenges of navigating relationships while maintaining personal ambition. As some may know, Sam has been singl...
56m Nov 20, 2024
56m
11: Parental Estrangement: Trend or Necessity?
In this episode of the Nuance Needed podcast, Amanda White, LPC and Sam Dalton, LCSW delve into the complex topic of family estrangement, exploring its rising prevalence among younger generations and its seeming trend on social media. We discuss the generational differences in parenting styles, the impact of trauma, and the importance of accountability and repair in relationships. The convers...
54m Nov 13, 2024
54m
10: Post Election Processing: Grief & Hope In Hard Times
In this emergency episode of the Nuance Needed Podcast, Amanda and Sam discuss their emotional responses to the recent election results, exploring themes of grief, coping strategies, and the impact of social media on mental health. We answer your questions that you submitted such as "how do I tell my kids what happened?", "what do I do about people in my life who voted for Trump?" "how do I go ...
48m Nov 08, 2024
48m
9: Self-Care Spending Trap Part 2: When Doctors Become Influencers
If you can believe it we have EVEN MORE TO SAY about wellness TikTok trends. In this bonus episode, Amanda and Sam revisit their previous discussion on TikTok trends, particularly focusing on how it can be even more confusing on social media when real doctors and licensed providers have products and are the ones sharing information. We explore the implications of self-tanner usage, the overwhel...
26m Nov 07, 2024
26m
8: Self-Care Spending Trap: When Wellness Becomes Overconsumption
We have a bit of a lighter episode planned this week and second part coming tomorrow in order to help distract you and keep you company during this election week! In this conversation, Amanda White, LPC and Sam Dalton, LCSW discuss the frustration and misinformation surrounding wellness trends and beauty standards. They highlight the dangers of believing in made-up terms like 'cortisol face' an...
50m Nov 06, 2024
50m
7: When Their Breakup Feels Like Yours: The Psychology of Celebrity Relationships
Licensed therapists, Amanda White, LPC and Sam Dalton, LCSW have a conversation about the public's reaction to celebrity relationships and breakups, focusing on the recent reunion and divorce of Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck. It delves into the pressure and expectations placed on celebrities and the projection of our own desires onto their relationships. The hosts discuss the impact of social...
44m Oct 30, 2024
44m
6: Coaching v. Therapy and How to Be an Informed Social Media Consumer
Licensed therapists Sam Dalton, LCSW and Amanda White, LPC explore the challenges of navigating mental health content on social media and the importance of discernment. They highlight the need to focus on basic self-care before diving into niche trends. They discuss the impact of social media on mental health and the difficulty of finding accurate and helpful information. They emphasize the imp...
45m Oct 23, 2024
45m
5: Chappell Roan: The Nuance of Fame, Mental Health & Public Perception
In this episode of the Nuance Needed Podcast, Amanda and Sam delve into the recent backlash surrounding artist Chappell Roan, particularly focusing on her decision to cancel performances for mental health reasons. They explore the complexities of social media reactions, the pressures of fame, and the importance of nuanced discussions in the face of polarized opinions.They explore the challenges...
44m Oct 16, 2024
44m
4: BONUS: Hurricane Influencers and Social Media Misinformation
* Please note we recorded this during the evacuation, so the audio is not up to our normal level. We appreciate you understanding* In this episode of the Nuance Needed Podcast, Amanda White, LPC and Sam Dalton, LCSW discuss the complexities of navigating personal experiences during natural disasters, particularly focusing on the recent hurricane. They explore the emotional impact of such events...
53m Oct 15, 2024
53m
3: Momtok, Mormonism & Faith Deconstruction
In this episode, Amanda and Sam delve into the Hulu series 'The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives,' exploring the cultural implications and personal experiences tied to Mormonism. They discuss the impact of reality TV on perceptions of the culture, the struggles with shame and accountability, and the complexities of emotional responses within a patriarchal framework. This episode is especially impo...
58m Oct 10, 2024
58m
1: Who We Are and How We Got Here
Amanda White, LPC and Sam Dalton, LCSW introduce their new podcast, Nuance Needed, and discuss why they created it. They talk about their frustration with social media and how it has impacted mental health content. They emphasize the importance of nuance and the dangers of oversimplification. They also discuss the difference between normal human experiences and mental health disorders. Overall...
36m Oct 09, 2024
36m
2: The Weaponization of Boundaries
Licensed therapists, Amanda White, LPC and Sam Dalton, LCSW discuss the topic of boundaries and how they are often misconstrued. They explore the difference between boundaries, norms, and expectations, emphasizing the importance of understanding intentions and allowing for mistakes. They highlight the need for nuance and grace in navigating boundaries, both in personal relationships and online ...
51m Oct 09, 2024
51m
Nuance Needed Trailer
The internet is saturated with content that talks about mental health in all the wrong ways. Licensed therapists, Amanda White and Sam Dalton, know firsthand the harm and confusion that this causes. We are on a mission to bring nuance back to the internet and help you make sense of it all. Together, we’ll psychoanalyze internet culture, debunk TikTok trends, and teach you how to *actually* care...
2m Sep 18, 2024
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