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35m
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22m
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21m
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17m
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50m
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32m
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<span><span class="js-time" data-epochtime="1753782840" data-format="short_date">Jul 29, 2025</span></span>
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Her husband told her having threesomes would keep him from cheating on her with other men (likely story). She stuck by her man, hoping things would get better. It wasn’t until a life-threatening scare that she finally realized she had to get out. What finally gave her the courage to get out? We&#39;ll find out when we break down this week&#39;s break up.

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She&#39;d been grieving her boyfriend for two years when she pulled up his obituary one day and saw the unthinkable- a note from another woman. How did finding out he&#39;d been seeing someone behind her back affect her healing journey? We&#39;ll find out when we break down this week&#39;s break up.

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20m
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1hr 11m
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<span><span class="js-time" data-epochtime="1746525300" data-format="short_date">May 06, 2025</span></span>
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40m
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<span><span class="js-time" data-epochtime="1746093240" data-format="short_date">May 01, 2025</span></span>
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They were college sweethearts who thought they&#39;d nailed the whole &quot;forever&quot; thing — until one night, right after nailing something else, he casually asked for a divorce. Why did these two part ways after feeling like they&#39;d found their great love story? We&#39;ll find out when we break down this week&#39;s break up.

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53m
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<span><span class="js-time" data-epochtime="1745920440" data-format="short_date">Apr 29, 2025</span></span>
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13m
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<span><span class="js-time" data-epochtime="1745488440" data-format="short_date">Apr 24, 2025</span></span>
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She thought her relationship troubles were over when she broke up with her boyfriend of a few years- little did she know the drama was only getting started. When she tries to move on from her long-term boyfriend, she said he went to extreme lengths to keep her around...even if those lengths were behind bars.

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<span><span class="js-time" data-epochtime="1745315640" data-format="short_date">Apr 22, 2025</span></span>
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16m
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<span><span class="js-time" data-epochtime="1744910581" data-format="short_date">Apr 17, 2025</span></span>
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S7 Ep13: When she had to DM his ex on LinkedIn.... - S7E13
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She met him on a fun weekend in Nashville. He was tall, charming, and technically still living with his ex, even though swore it was “just temporary.” When they finally made it official, he was gone—ghosted her like a true con artist in cowboy boots. So why did he come back around days later with a big ol&#39; sob story? We&#39;ll find out when we break down this week&#39;s break up.

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This week we&#39;re ra...
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26m
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<span><span class="js-time" data-epochtime="1744710840" data-format="short_date">Apr 15, 2025</span></span>
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S7: Break Down Bonus: How &#39;enmeshment&#39; impacts your romantic relationships w/ Dr. Ken Adams
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27m
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<span><span class="js-time" data-epochtime="1744278840" data-format="short_date">Apr 10, 2025</span></span>
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She posted a dreamy clip from her wedding with the caption: “She doesn&#39;t know it yet, but in nine months her husband will leave her because his family doesn&#39;t like her.” Now TikTok can’t stop watching—and wondering what really went down behind the smiles. We&#39;ll find out the details when we break down this week&#39;s break up!

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38m
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<span><span class="js-time" data-epochtime="1744106040" data-format="short_date">Apr 08, 2025</span></span>
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<span><span class="js-time" data-epochtime="1743683601" data-format="short_date">Apr 03, 2025</span></span>
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When she said her mom &amp; husband had an affair.... - S5Replay
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This episode originally aired in season 5

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We haven&#39;t spent enough family time this holiday season...so let&#39;s keep it in the family this episode....This week we have a submission a la TikTok where a woman says her husband and mother had an affair that led to their divorce!

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After her divorce, she falls for a charming, attentive man, believing she’s finally found a fresh start. But when she learns he’s married, she’s forced to face the painful irony of becoming what once shattered her. Why did she stay even after finding out about his other relationship? We&#39;ll dig into the details when we break down this week&#39;s break up.

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