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Hey guys.

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Welcome back to another episode

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of, here Comes The Drama.

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I'm your host, Krista Ennis, and

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this is a solo episode today.

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If you guys are new here or new to

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listening, I do one of these every

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month other than the Patreon episodes,

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which is completely separate.

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but I thought we'd do something a little

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different this month and because we are,

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seven months in of doing the podcast and

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it's just been so much fun to create.

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I thought today we would do something a

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little different and highlight the top

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five moments from all the episodes so far.

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And I've seen podcast use before where

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they share like a little snippet,

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but I want you guys to feel a little

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like it's still a unique episode.

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Okay?

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So at the very end, of course, as

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always, it's gonna be a brand new story.

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But before we get to that, I'm gonna do

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top five moments with different guests

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on the show and play the clip from

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that episode and introduce it as to.

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Why it was just such a crazy moment.

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these are moments that

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had our jaws dropping.

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I honestly had to do some double

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takes because I wasn't sure that they

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actually happened, but they're insane.

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we get some crazy stories sent to us

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and this is just a thank you episode

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to everyone that submits stories

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who listens and shares with their

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friends because it just means so much

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to me that I'm able to hang out with

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you guys and, do what I love here.

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So.

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Thank you guys.

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I know it was a little bit of a

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ramble, but hey, if you're used

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to hearing me talk, I ramble.

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Sometimes it's just the way it goes.

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Starting off, let's do.

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Some would you rather.

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Wedding Chaos edition.

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I'm talking bridesmaids,

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brides, all that kind of stuff.

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so here we go.

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and I'm gonna answer just, I

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dunno, I haven't read these.

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We're gonna see what happens.

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Would you rather your bridesmaid

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shows up in a white dress or your maid

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of honor roasts you in her speech?

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I've talked about this before.

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I could not have cared less if

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someone at my wedding wore white.

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I think white dress would be fine.

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I mean, if it's not a wedding

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dress, I don't really care.

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People know who the bride is.

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Trip down the aisle in front

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of everyone or drop the wedding

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cake right before cutting it.

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I think I'd rather drop the wedding

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cake tripping down the aisle.

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I would be mortified.

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A cake.

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You know, you kind of laugh it off.

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We got other desserts.

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Would you rather have a makeup fail

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in every photo or forget to change out

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of slippers and walk down the aisle?

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slippers, obviously, because

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I myself didn't even wear, no,

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only, and then I put on sneakers.

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would you rather sit next

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to your ex at the reception?

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So I'm guessing it's not my own wedding.

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my personal, I would love my

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my mother-in-law be involved with

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the wedding and help with that.

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' cause she was very involved in my wedding.

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Would you rather go over your budget

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by $5,000 or have your outdoor

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ceremony completely rained out?

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it was kind of rained out.

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at our venue, we had an option to

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nice, we could get married outside.

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chilly and I think it ended up

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though, because we got married at the

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end of March and where I live, it's,

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you never know what you're gonna get.

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You could be in seventies or you could

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probably, you could be in like thirties.

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I always joke about our wedding day.

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It was like every kind of season.

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like maybe forties, then we had

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some rain, we had some clouds,

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Would you rather find out your

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bridesmaid is proposing to her boyfriend

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at your wedding or learn someone

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secretly brought their own cake?

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I mean, why not?

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Who cares if you bring your own cake?

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I mean, people have dietary restrictions.

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could enjoy gluten-free or dairy-free.

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Would you rather lose your

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dress in transit or your wedding

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accidentally scheduled on the

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same day as a major family event?

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well, how would that happen?

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if other people are RSS v ping to

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the wedding that are in my family.

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the second one, I mean.

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transit, so we're gonna go with that.

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So I am in my closet.

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this, I recorded my closet.

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literally a bridesmaid.

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I should do a bridesmaid.

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You guys, I know  you can't comment,

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but I have a bridesmaid robe in

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here from when I was a bridesmaid.

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video on social media or something.

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from being in weddings.

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time, but I don't talk about

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like personal stories a lot.

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four, robes in my closet, guys.

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A DHD oh my gosh.

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I forgot I was doing hot takes, whatever.

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I have four, five bridesmaid robes.

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I've got two bridal jean jackets.

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that's a story.

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That's for my wedding though.

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I've got a bunch of like.

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when I was engaged and guys, I

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probably have six bridesmaid dresses.

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The weddings I were in in the beginning

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of my bridesmaid career are long gone.

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sorry if you guys are listening.

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knew I would never wear again.

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four bridesmaid dresses are were donated.

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other ones in my closet right now

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that I've been telling myself I'll

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wear again, dunno if I will or not.

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Back to where I was.

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do some kind of video on all that stuff.

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Would you rather have your

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officiant call you the wrong name?

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I read a story about that once

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or your wedding video go viral

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for all the wrong reasons.

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' cause with my name with Krista, I've

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been called the wrong name my whole life.

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I've gotten Crystal.

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Christina, Chrissy, Christie.

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go viral for the wrong reasons.

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' cause I've seen that.

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last one.

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Would you rather catch your best man doing

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morning of the wedding that your DJ quit?

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DJ called, quit or whatever.

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All my friends have great playlists

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on their phone ready to go.

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announcement the DJ can do.

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we loved our dj.

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He did a great job, but worst case,

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a dance on the floor like that.

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I think another episode, I

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wanna talk a little bit more

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about the weddings I've been in.

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I've shared little stories here and

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there, but it's funny, I was thinking

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about reflecting on different weddings

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I've been in and I was like, I don't

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really have that many of crazy stories.

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I do, what I can kind of share right now.

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The first wedding I was ever

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in, was my sister's wedding,

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and I was the maid of honor.

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I was.

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19 or 20 years old.

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from the last wedding I was in.

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The last wedding I was in,

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I was 30, how old am I now?

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sharing a little detail about myself.

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well, the last wedding I was in, I

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was pregnant, so I was probably like

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That was for, a friend of mine, my

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husband's cousin actually, and I was

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a matron of honor in that wedding.

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Maid of honor.

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So, what I can say is with the

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first Wedding I was ever in.

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I didn't really know

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what to expect, right?

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So I'm underage, I can't like plan a

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crazy bachelorette, that kind of thing.

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the bridal shower was at my parents'

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house, so we kept it really small.

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This was kind of before

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Pinterest and all that stuff.

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So it was very simple.

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It was fun because it was family.

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my sister had a pretty, I would

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say, small wedding party, right?

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My speech, I like took time.

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I wrote it all out.

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I made sure it sounded, you

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know, very like heartfelt.

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I was also in college, so there

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was a lot going on, right.

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I go to get my speech, I

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wanna say I was second.

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Yes.

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So the best man goes before

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me, had nothing planned.

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He stood up and just

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went on a whim and just.

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Started talking.

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I didn't have a clock in front

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of me or a phone in front of me.

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I don't know how long he talked,

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but I wanna say he talked for like

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10 minutes and no one cut him off.

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And it was someone that I

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think in his mind was like,

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oh, I know all these things.

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I'm gonna say I got three points.

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I'm gonna go with it.

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And then it just kept going.

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So meanwhile, I'm sitting there and I'm

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getting more and more nervous because

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you know when you're ready to talk and

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then they just keep pushing it back.

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You're just like, okay, okay, I'm ready.

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I'm ready.

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So eventually I stood up to talk and

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I had a printed piece of paper, and

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I remember shaking the whole time.

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I felt like I was giving

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like a school speech.

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I looked out here and there to

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the audience, but most of the

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time I was just like staring down.

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yeah.

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So then the last one, like I said,

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I was six months pregnant and.

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gosh,, it was a really fun wedding,

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but I wish I would've asked for more

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help because here I am, like on the

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floor trying to move her dress and

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like train behind her with my big

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belly, and I'm on the shorter side.

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So when I was pregnant, it

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was like I had a big belly.

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Guys, I'm not afraid to say it.

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It was just really hard to move.

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So I'm like trying to get

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down these, in these heels.

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and it was not easy.

347
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Doing all that, but it was fun.

348
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it was fun to be in a wedding

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pregnant, however, It was

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interesting going dress shopping.

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You had to find, I guess, a certain one.

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Then you try to get it fitted around it.

353
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Right.

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But as my mom says, it's way

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better now than when she was

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pregnant as a bridesmaid.

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They just didn't have the flattering

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styles to fit your pregnant

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belly, I guess she would say.

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But there's like eight

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weddings in between all that.

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So maybe one episode I'll kind of

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share some highlights about each one.

364
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They're all just different.

365
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Every bride is so different to what

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they need, their audience, their family.

367
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The type of wedding I've

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done very DIY weddings.

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I've done something from like.

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Campsite.

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Like we literally were at a

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campsite, not a bridesmaid.

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I was just there helping, where we picked

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wild flowers and it was very chill and

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laid back and we could wear just like

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sundresses all the way to like a super

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expensive, fancy wedding in the city.

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where we took a bus around

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downtown getting photos and

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that just felt so elegant.

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and.

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They all end up beautiful.

383
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So I know I'm going on like a little

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tangent now, but just kinda reflecting

385
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back, okay, let's get into it.

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Top five moments.

387
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I didn't have anyone vote on these.

388
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It just kind of based on like downloads

389
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and then me looking at the stories

390
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again and being like, oh my gosh.

391
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Yeah, that was a insane story.

392
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So these are like top five.

393
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I want to hear from you guys though.

394
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Which one of yours were like the.

395
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Craziest.

396
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Okay, so coming in at number five is when

397
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Cassie Harrell Wedding Pro cast came on

398
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for the social media screaming match here.

399
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It's

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When we announced that we were

401
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engaged on Facebook, oh gosh,

402
00:11:11,131 --> 00:11:13,101
everyone seemed very happy about it.

403
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Then I started to see angry faces

404
00:11:15,611 --> 00:11:17,574
and a lot of negative comments.

405
00:11:17,574 --> 00:11:19,794
My mother-in-law commented saying,

406
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how effing, the actual word,

407
00:11:22,744 --> 00:11:24,224
effing dare you announce this

408
00:11:24,224 --> 00:11:26,914
without asking my permission first?

409
00:11:28,583 --> 00:11:30,589
not on a public facebook post

410
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This is terrible.

411
00:11:31,742 --> 00:11:32,372
So bad.

412
00:11:32,549 --> 00:11:34,111
then it only got worse from there.

413
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She proceeded to call me names

414
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and tell me that I wasn't

415
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good enough to marry her son.

416
00:11:38,838 --> 00:11:40,248
Oh my gosh.

417
00:11:40,544 --> 00:11:41,905
all while she was commenting, my

418
00:11:41,905 --> 00:11:43,855
sister-in-law was calling and yelling

419
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at him about how they should have

420
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had a family meeting about allowing

421
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a woman with kids into the family.

422
00:11:50,705 --> 00:11:50,995
What?

423
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I felt sick and unwanted.

424
00:11:53,952 --> 00:11:54,915
That is terrible.

425
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Family meeting.

426
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Oh, my gosh.

427
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Eventually we get to planning the

428
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wedding and his mom had made it

429
00:12:01,582 --> 00:12:03,755
very clear that she did not want any

430
00:12:03,755 --> 00:12:05,105
part of helping plan the wedding.

431
00:12:05,322 --> 00:12:07,625
We tried to include her many times, but

432
00:12:07,625 --> 00:12:08,965
she would just keep saying rude things

433
00:12:08,965 --> 00:12:10,425
about how my wedding didn't need to

434
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be the center of every conversation.

435
00:12:12,309 --> 00:12:14,582
So my husband is from a really small town

436
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and we went there for the Fourth of July.

437
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This was the first time I would

438
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be meeting his dad and step

439
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mom, his brother and sister.

440
00:12:21,004 --> 00:12:22,220
Yes, the same sister that was

441
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calling and yelling at him.

442
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It was a good time, and they were

443
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very interested in all the things

444
00:12:27,060 --> 00:12:28,420
that we had planned for the wedding.

445
00:12:28,530 --> 00:12:29,860
Okay, so it seems like some

446
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family member was like,

447
00:12:30,630 --> 00:12:31,600
this is turning around.

448
00:12:31,790 --> 00:12:32,360
Yeah.

449
00:12:32,490 --> 00:12:32,910
Maybe.

450
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Maybe.

451
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His dad told us that we had an

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allotted amount of money to use, and

453
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that if he needed anything beyond

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that, his mom would have to help us.

455
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the dad's ex wife.

456
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so it was the day we went dress

457
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shopping and because we had so many

458
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bridesmaids, the place was a full house.

459
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Everyone was having the best time.

460
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Then we felt a shift in the

461
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energy and my mother in law

462
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walked in just the gray clouds.

463
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Here we go.

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She was extremely upset that no one Picked

465
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her up to bring her to the bridal shop.

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She sat down and shouted,

467
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Let's get this thing over with.

468
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I don't want to be here all effing day.

469
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She seems nasty.

470
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Yeah, why even invite her?

471
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Like, I would be like,

472
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No, you're not coming.

473
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Cause I wouldn't even want

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someone's opinions like that.

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My mom looked over at her and asked her to

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leave then if she didn't want to be there.

477
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Yeah.

478
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Then she said, She's been married

479
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before, so I don't know why

480
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she even needs to buy a dress.

481
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That is terrible.

482
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I hate that.

483
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She could have gotten one at Goodwill.

484
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No.

485
00:13:33,369 --> 00:13:35,088
Okay, that is terrible.

486
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This lady's a witch.

487
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Yeah.

488
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I ignored the comments and

489
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started trying on dresses.

490
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There wasn't a dress I tried on that

491
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she didn't have a rude comment about.

492
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I would be telling her

493
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to leave at that point.

494
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That is, yeah, that's so like unenjoyable.

495
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I finally found the one and

496
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loved it and it made me happy.

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Later that evening at

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dinner, she tells my husband.

499
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I found the dress that

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hides my arm flab the best.

501
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No, this is bad.

502
00:14:00,816 --> 00:14:01,385
I don't know who this

503
00:14:01,385 --> 00:14:02,705
woman is, but this is bad.

504
00:14:02,785 --> 00:14:03,625
This is bad.

505
00:14:03,635 --> 00:14:04,755
This is like one of the

506
00:14:04,805 --> 00:14:06,025
worst stories I've read.

507
00:14:06,471 --> 00:14:07,001
Oh my gosh.

508
00:14:07,304 --> 00:14:08,898
The night of my rehearsal, my mother

509
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in law sat there complaining the

510
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whole time how she had to sit at

511
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the same table as my father in law.

512
00:14:13,337 --> 00:14:15,531
She kept saying he better not talk to me.

513
00:14:15,718 --> 00:14:17,318
Then finally my brother in law shows

514
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up late and my mother in law demanded

515
00:14:19,438 --> 00:14:20,758
that I allow my brother in law's

516
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wife in the wedding as a bridesmaid.

517
00:14:23,463 --> 00:14:24,814
Excuse me?

518
00:14:24,875 --> 00:14:27,548
At the rehearsal dinner?

519
00:14:27,548 --> 00:14:28,186
Okay.

520
00:14:28,428 --> 00:14:30,610
She was supposed to be my bridesmaid and

521
00:14:30,610 --> 00:14:32,923
then they broke up and I guess they got

522
00:14:32,933 --> 00:14:34,983
back together the week of the wedding.

523
00:14:35,043 --> 00:14:35,773
Surprise.

524
00:14:36,073 --> 00:14:36,613
Okay.

525
00:14:36,834 --> 00:14:38,713
They called me many times that week

526
00:14:38,733 --> 00:14:40,513
and never said anything about it so

527
00:14:40,513 --> 00:14:42,143
I was a little taken aback by this.

528
00:14:42,341 --> 00:14:44,440
my mother in law told me that she

529
00:14:44,440 --> 00:14:46,220
told her to bring the dress with

530
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her and that she would make me

531
00:14:49,303 --> 00:14:50,833
let her be in the wedding again.

532
00:14:51,047 --> 00:14:51,223
Okay.

533
00:14:51,223 --> 00:14:52,803
So force this girl into the wedding.

534
00:14:53,013 --> 00:14:53,683
Yeah.

535
00:14:53,810 --> 00:14:55,873
and make my other bridesmaids sit out.

536
00:14:55,943 --> 00:14:57,443
Wait, so that's even worse.

537
00:14:57,473 --> 00:14:58,273
Like, we're just going to

538
00:14:58,303 --> 00:14:59,603
swap you right in there.

539
00:15:00,013 --> 00:15:00,843
This is terrible.

540
00:15:01,010 --> 00:15:01,620
Oh my gosh.

541
00:15:01,797 --> 00:15:03,283
I told her I wouldn't allow my other

542
00:15:03,283 --> 00:15:04,793
bridesmaid who paid money for the

543
00:15:04,793 --> 00:15:06,843
dress to sit out and they would both

544
00:15:06,843 --> 00:15:08,393
have to walk down the aisle together.

545
00:15:08,594 --> 00:15:10,200
That didn't make her happy and she told

546
00:15:10,200 --> 00:15:12,063
me to just tell my bridesmaid that we

547
00:15:12,063 --> 00:15:13,973
would reimburse her for the dress and

548
00:15:13,973 --> 00:15:15,943
she could sit down and enjoy herself.

549
00:15:16,111 --> 00:15:17,830
I again told her absolutely not.

550
00:15:18,002 --> 00:15:19,087
She got upset and called

551
00:15:19,087 --> 00:15:20,667
me a spoiled witch.

552
00:15:20,850 --> 00:15:22,598
I'm a little taken back by this woman.

553
00:15:22,846 --> 00:15:23,046
all right.

554
00:15:23,046 --> 00:15:23,781
That was wild.

555
00:15:23,973 --> 00:15:24,154
All right.

556
00:15:24,214 --> 00:15:26,764
Coming in at number four is Rebecca

557
00:15:26,764 --> 00:15:29,584
Rogers and the Surprise Wedding Guest.

558
00:15:29,953 --> 00:15:31,581
On the morning of my wedding, the

559
00:15:31,581 --> 00:15:33,111
bridal party was getting ready

560
00:15:33,111 --> 00:15:34,989
in the bridal suite the groom was

561
00:15:34,989 --> 00:15:36,309
getting ready in the groom suite.

562
00:15:36,523 --> 00:15:37,746
One of the groomsmen didn't

563
00:15:37,746 --> 00:15:39,396
follow instructions and showed up

564
00:15:39,486 --> 00:15:42,296
two hours late with a different

565
00:15:42,296 --> 00:15:44,723
girl than who we RSVPed for.

566
00:15:45,224 --> 00:15:45,794
Okay.

567
00:15:46,074 --> 00:15:47,115
This, this girl had a very

568
00:15:47,115 --> 00:15:48,645
strong Russian accent.

569
00:15:48,880 --> 00:15:50,950
went into the groom suite and started

570
00:15:50,950 --> 00:15:53,710
talking to the groom and asking questions.

571
00:15:53,943 --> 00:15:56,877
For example, is this a yee-haw wedding

572
00:15:57,086 --> 00:15:59,047
and will you be doing square dancing?

573
00:15:59,277 --> 00:15:59,787
Okay.

574
00:15:59,787 --> 00:16:00,537
Interesting.

575
00:16:02,777 --> 00:16:05,050
I mean, I guess like switching, I get it.

576
00:16:05,050 --> 00:16:06,490
Like, girl, it doesn't really

577
00:16:06,490 --> 00:16:08,380
matter, but it's interesting.

578
00:16:08,620 --> 00:16:09,610
Oh, wow.

579
00:16:09,615 --> 00:16:09,855
Okay.

580
00:16:09,860 --> 00:16:10,690
Okay, go ahead.

581
00:16:10,690 --> 00:16:11,110
Go ahead.

582
00:16:11,330 --> 00:16:12,817
the boys kicked her out and told

583
00:16:12,817 --> 00:16:14,137
her to wait somewhere else, and

584
00:16:14,137 --> 00:16:15,847
she came then to the bridal suite.

585
00:16:16,056 --> 00:16:17,784
She came in and started acting

586
00:16:17,814 --> 00:16:20,004
faint and sat at a table demanding

587
00:16:20,004 --> 00:16:21,954
attention from all the bridesmaids.

588
00:16:22,160 --> 00:16:23,950
They were taking care of her because

589
00:16:23,950 --> 00:16:25,540
they were worried and had a hard time

590
00:16:25,540 --> 00:16:27,550
understanding her because of her accent.

591
00:16:27,830 --> 00:16:30,090
When they turned away to finish getting

592
00:16:30,090 --> 00:16:32,947
ready for the day, she ate my lunch,

593
00:16:33,164 --> 00:16:35,577
the bride's lunch, the audacity.

594
00:16:35,821 --> 00:16:37,920
There was no more food left until after

595
00:16:37,920 --> 00:16:40,384
the ceremony, so I went to my wedding

596
00:16:40,384 --> 00:16:44,163
hungry see I'm a big, like weddings that

597
00:16:44,163 --> 00:16:46,473
I've been in and like helped coordinate.

598
00:16:46,698 --> 00:16:49,380
I am big into like no one other than

599
00:16:49,380 --> 00:16:50,940
the wedding party be in the room.

600
00:16:51,181 --> 00:16:52,783
Like, yeah, why was she in there?

601
00:16:52,963 --> 00:16:53,323
Yeah.

602
00:16:53,323 --> 00:16:54,642
I feel like it's probably the

603
00:16:54,642 --> 00:16:56,562
groomsmen that wasn't paying attention.

604
00:16:56,562 --> 00:16:58,209
Being like, oh, just go in there.

605
00:16:58,209 --> 00:16:58,629
You're fine.

606
00:16:58,629 --> 00:16:59,529
You're one of the girls.

607
00:16:59,632 --> 00:17:00,346
' cause I've seen that.

608
00:17:00,376 --> 00:17:00,706
Yes.

609
00:17:00,706 --> 00:17:01,786
That's what I can see that,

610
00:17:01,786 --> 00:17:02,116
yeah.

611
00:17:02,116 --> 00:17:02,506
okay.

612
00:17:02,725 --> 00:17:04,146
I could give her the benefit of

613
00:17:04,146 --> 00:17:06,019
the doubt in the groomsman suite.

614
00:17:06,109 --> 00:17:07,009
I could give her the benefit

615
00:17:07,009 --> 00:17:07,969
of the doubt and I'm like, ah.

616
00:17:07,969 --> 00:17:09,812
She's just, you know, I think there

617
00:17:09,812 --> 00:17:11,702
are such stereotypical views of

618
00:17:11,702 --> 00:17:14,026
Americans in different parts of Europe.

619
00:17:14,031 --> 00:17:14,235
Mm-hmm.

620
00:17:14,278 --> 00:17:14,998
I can see her like

621
00:17:14,998 --> 00:17:15,958
genuinely getting excited.

622
00:17:15,958 --> 00:17:17,013
Is this a yha wedding?

623
00:17:17,013 --> 00:17:18,956
Because like everywhere is Texas.

624
00:17:18,986 --> 00:17:19,076
Yes.

625
00:17:19,169 --> 00:17:20,986
People in Europe don't understand that,

626
00:17:21,226 --> 00:17:23,316
they think cowboys, they think McDonald's.

627
00:17:23,581 --> 00:17:24,945
they have very specific ideas

628
00:17:24,945 --> 00:17:26,505
of what they think America is.

629
00:17:26,726 --> 00:17:26,858
Yeah.

630
00:17:26,858 --> 00:17:27,308
And.

631
00:17:27,556 --> 00:17:28,893
Sometimes when they're like, oh my God,

632
00:17:28,893 --> 00:17:30,753
am I going to be able to experience this

633
00:17:30,753 --> 00:17:33,299
American thing that I only see on tv?

634
00:17:33,299 --> 00:17:35,459
Like, they can get excited it can

635
00:17:35,459 --> 00:17:37,255
come off as rude because I feel

636
00:17:37,255 --> 00:17:39,495
like, especially in, Eastern Europe,

637
00:17:39,615 --> 00:17:41,265
sometimes people are much more blunt

638
00:17:41,265 --> 00:17:43,155
than we're used to here in the us.

639
00:17:43,373 --> 00:17:44,663
which isn't necessarily a bad thing.

640
00:17:44,663 --> 00:17:45,533
It's just different.

641
00:17:45,758 --> 00:17:47,933
But then the going into like weddings,

642
00:17:48,233 --> 00:17:50,783
wherever you go, the bride is the star.

643
00:17:50,783 --> 00:17:51,883
why are you demanding

644
00:17:51,883 --> 00:17:53,113
attention as a guest?

645
00:17:53,358 --> 00:17:54,939
That should be common sense.

646
00:17:54,999 --> 00:17:55,089
Yes.

647
00:17:55,389 --> 00:17:56,799
Why are you going and bothering

648
00:17:56,799 --> 00:17:58,599
people you've never met before?

649
00:17:58,599 --> 00:17:59,499
Like if, right.

650
00:17:59,559 --> 00:18:02,439
I can even maybe see like a, Hey, we

651
00:18:02,439 --> 00:18:03,909
don't want you to mess up with the setup.

652
00:18:03,909 --> 00:18:05,079
Stay in the groom suite.

653
00:18:05,455 --> 00:18:06,723
Why are you sending her?

654
00:18:06,893 --> 00:18:09,219
I can see why a man, I love men.

655
00:18:09,219 --> 00:18:10,119
Some men are dumb.

656
00:18:10,479 --> 00:18:11,259
Not all men.

657
00:18:11,259 --> 00:18:12,159
Always a man.

658
00:18:12,322 --> 00:18:13,956
Not all men, always a man.

659
00:18:14,016 --> 00:18:14,316
Yeah.

660
00:18:14,376 --> 00:18:16,446
Why is some man being like, yeah.

661
00:18:21,982 --> 00:18:24,208
This is not babysit your girlfriend

662
00:18:24,208 --> 00:18:26,038
time, Tinder, chick of the week.

663
00:18:26,098 --> 00:18:27,377
Like she could have even been

664
00:18:27,377 --> 00:18:29,267
established as a new serious girlfriend.

665
00:18:29,267 --> 00:18:30,527
It's not everyone else's

666
00:18:30,527 --> 00:18:31,907
job to babysit her.

667
00:18:32,132 --> 00:18:32,752
That's weird.

668
00:18:33,378 --> 00:18:34,417
That's strange.

669
00:18:34,447 --> 00:18:37,031
Why, did you have to bring someone?

670
00:18:37,031 --> 00:18:37,511
Like if she had

671
00:18:37,511 --> 00:18:39,598
nowhere else to go, why did you bring her?

672
00:18:39,831 --> 00:18:40,105
yeah.

673
00:18:40,105 --> 00:18:41,155
Especially being a groomsman.

674
00:18:41,155 --> 00:18:42,565
I feel like you've got your guys

675
00:18:42,565 --> 00:18:43,965
there, you got other stuff to do.

676
00:18:44,217 --> 00:18:44,730
All right, let's, right,

677
00:18:45,025 --> 00:18:46,428
let's see what happens next?

678
00:18:46,613 --> 00:18:47,635
So she goes to the wedding

679
00:18:47,635 --> 00:18:48,805
hungry at that point.

680
00:18:48,805 --> 00:18:49,705
Oh, wait, that's not all.

681
00:18:49,705 --> 00:18:50,455
Oh my God.

682
00:18:50,455 --> 00:18:50,845
Okay.

683
00:18:50,845 --> 00:18:51,055
Sorry.

684
00:18:51,655 --> 00:18:51,716
I'm sorry.

685
00:18:51,716 --> 00:18:51,719
Oh my gosh.

686
00:18:51,719 --> 00:18:52,975
You there was the whole story, girl.

687
00:18:52,975 --> 00:18:53,965
We've got lots.

688
00:18:55,190 --> 00:18:55,480
Okay.

689
00:18:55,485 --> 00:18:55,885
Okay.

690
00:18:55,915 --> 00:18:56,275
Okay.

691
00:18:56,275 --> 00:18:56,725
Continue.

692
00:18:56,725 --> 00:18:57,145
Continue.

693
00:18:57,265 --> 00:18:58,525
So Molly, okay.

694
00:18:58,645 --> 00:18:58,945
Okay.

695
00:18:59,256 --> 00:19:01,058
At that point, she got kicked out

696
00:19:01,058 --> 00:19:02,738
and was told to wait in the ceremony

697
00:19:02,738 --> 00:19:04,878
space wedding, and sues with no

698
00:19:04,878 --> 00:19:07,368
other problems until the reception.

699
00:19:07,588 --> 00:19:09,565
During the reception, the girl tries

700
00:19:09,565 --> 00:19:11,445
to enter the bridal suite and the

701
00:19:11,445 --> 00:19:13,155
groom suite where the wedding planner

702
00:19:13,155 --> 00:19:14,775
catches her and tells her that it's

703
00:19:14,775 --> 00:19:16,305
locked until after the wedding.

704
00:19:16,525 --> 00:19:18,288
No one is allowed in except

705
00:19:18,288 --> 00:19:19,218
for the bridal party.

706
00:19:19,248 --> 00:19:19,668
Okay, good.

707
00:19:19,668 --> 00:19:20,628
I'm glad the wedding party

708
00:19:20,688 --> 00:19:21,648
planner is there now.

709
00:19:21,708 --> 00:19:22,038
Right?

710
00:19:22,288 --> 00:19:24,335
The girl on top of this Exactly.

711
00:19:24,625 --> 00:19:26,804
The girl retrieved her groomsmen and they

712
00:19:26,804 --> 00:19:29,744
tried picking the lock to the groom suite.

713
00:19:30,091 --> 00:19:31,866
What, For what?

714
00:19:31,866 --> 00:19:33,111
Why does she need to get in there?

715
00:19:33,291 --> 00:19:33,951
Yeah.

716
00:19:39,214 --> 00:19:39,964
All right, coming in.

717
00:19:39,964 --> 00:19:42,064
Number three is Suzanne Lambert

718
00:19:42,064 --> 00:19:44,404
and the Lake House Pantry Showdown.

719
00:19:44,772 --> 00:19:46,322
My fiancé and I discussed how

720
00:19:46,322 --> 00:19:48,092
upset we were with the day, okay,

721
00:19:48,092 --> 00:19:50,079
so now, now he's around, and how

722
00:19:50,079 --> 00:19:51,689
comfortable she had made things.

723
00:19:51,952 --> 00:19:53,182
he was very supportive and felt

724
00:19:53,182 --> 00:19:55,032
the same way two days later, he

725
00:19:55,032 --> 00:19:56,592
called her to address it, telling

726
00:19:56,592 --> 00:19:58,422
her that her behavior was unfair

727
00:19:58,600 --> 00:19:59,890
and made everyone uncomfortable.

728
00:20:00,130 --> 00:20:02,392
She exploded saying, I'm going

729
00:20:02,392 --> 00:20:03,392
to change her name again?

730
00:20:03,604 --> 00:20:05,931
Is this why Kelly doesn't like me?

731
00:20:06,181 --> 00:20:06,771
And hung up.

732
00:20:07,192 --> 00:20:09,542
She then gave us a science by right.

733
00:20:09,552 --> 00:20:10,802
Like the, yeah, the girl

734
00:20:10,802 --> 00:20:11,552
that wrote the story.

735
00:20:11,552 --> 00:20:11,952
Yeah.

736
00:20:12,092 --> 00:20:12,462
Okay.

737
00:20:12,799 --> 00:20:13,453
huh?

738
00:20:13,569 --> 00:20:14,819
what gave it away?

739
00:20:15,289 --> 00:20:15,859
Like, are you

740
00:20:15,859 --> 00:20:16,340
acting?

741
00:20:17,753 --> 00:20:19,153
it's so funny because like

742
00:20:19,153 --> 00:20:20,213
mother in law's like this.

743
00:20:20,313 --> 00:20:21,873
a level of awareness.

744
00:20:21,883 --> 00:20:23,293
Like, they get there, right?

745
00:20:23,303 --> 00:20:25,613
They get, oh, Kelly doesn't like me,

746
00:20:25,763 --> 00:20:27,853
but they don't see any of the lead

747
00:20:27,853 --> 00:20:29,603
up to anything they could have done.

748
00:20:29,613 --> 00:20:31,903
They look at it as a spontaneous event.

749
00:20:32,073 --> 00:20:32,256
Yeah.

750
00:20:32,256 --> 00:20:34,336
and all of a sudden she didn't like me.

751
00:20:34,336 --> 00:20:35,396
And it's like, are you forgetting

752
00:20:35,406 --> 00:20:36,747
the a hundred things you did

753
00:20:36,767 --> 00:20:38,627
before she reacted the one time

754
00:20:38,884 --> 00:20:39,924
or the time that they

755
00:20:39,924 --> 00:20:41,594
finally like snap back.

756
00:20:41,697 --> 00:20:42,627
they're so mean.

757
00:20:42,840 --> 00:20:44,810
I don't do anything wrong.

758
00:20:44,810 --> 00:20:45,460
And it's like, that was like

759
00:20:45,510 --> 00:20:46,420
the story I read yesterday.

760
00:20:46,420 --> 00:20:48,615
I'm like, Oh my god, this victim mentality

761
00:20:48,615 --> 00:20:50,712
of like, why would she say that to me?

762
00:20:50,712 --> 00:20:51,642
I'm just your mom.

763
00:20:51,642 --> 00:20:52,712
I just care so much.

764
00:20:52,712 --> 00:20:54,012
It's like, no, that

765
00:20:54,012 --> 00:20:55,242
was not the full story.

766
00:20:55,452 --> 00:20:55,842
No,

767
00:20:55,872 --> 00:20:57,542
because if you cared, you, would be

768
00:20:57,542 --> 00:20:59,312
like, oh my god, I hurt your feelings.

769
00:21:00,614 --> 00:21:01,834
I'm so sorry about that.

770
00:21:01,900 --> 00:21:03,617
that's a normal way to do.

771
00:21:03,637 --> 00:21:06,007
Can you imagine like if someone called

772
00:21:06,007 --> 00:21:08,057
you and was like, Hey, at our engagement

773
00:21:08,057 --> 00:21:11,723
party, you made us feel bad and sad and

774
00:21:11,723 --> 00:21:13,503
whatever, like you would be horrified

775
00:21:13,533 --> 00:21:15,023
because you're a normal person.

776
00:21:15,523 --> 00:21:16,413
Imagine like.

777
00:21:17,903 --> 00:21:18,923
that's why they don't like me?

778
00:21:19,343 --> 00:21:20,063
Oh my god.

779
00:21:20,063 --> 00:21:20,343
what?

780
00:21:20,673 --> 00:21:21,743
I don't understand.

781
00:21:21,903 --> 00:21:24,144
And, like, if she had been like, oh,

782
00:21:24,234 --> 00:21:26,694
that's why she doesn't like me, that

783
00:21:26,694 --> 00:21:28,374
would be like such a different thing.

784
00:21:28,374 --> 00:21:29,694
Like, oh, okay.

785
00:21:29,861 --> 00:21:30,561
I didn't realize how

786
00:21:30,561 --> 00:21:32,921
annoying I was being noted.

787
00:21:33,162 --> 00:21:33,944
You know?

788
00:21:34,354 --> 00:21:35,204
Won't do it again.

789
00:21:35,592 --> 00:21:36,732
sometimes you need a little kick in the

790
00:21:36,742 --> 00:21:38,872
ass to be oh, I'm like acting a weird way.

791
00:21:39,124 --> 00:21:39,424
Yeah.

792
00:21:39,424 --> 00:21:40,744
But that's wild.

793
00:21:40,754 --> 00:21:42,404
And then to hang up, I don't

794
00:21:42,404 --> 00:21:43,504
believe in hanging up the phone,

795
00:21:43,504 --> 00:21:44,754
especially on your own son.

796
00:21:45,070 --> 00:21:45,520
Right.

797
00:21:45,870 --> 00:21:46,790
this is a long one.

798
00:21:46,790 --> 00:21:47,480
I love this.

799
00:21:47,580 --> 00:21:49,800
Sorry, Nellie, but I'm living for this.

800
00:21:49,800 --> 00:21:50,500
This is crazy.

801
00:21:50,691 --> 00:21:51,041
Okay.

802
00:21:51,071 --> 00:21:52,378
She then gave us a silent

803
00:21:52,378 --> 00:21:54,258
treatment for three weeks.

804
00:21:54,337 --> 00:21:56,117
I bet it was a really nice three weeks.

805
00:21:56,167 --> 00:21:57,517
That sounds lovely.

806
00:21:57,547 --> 00:21:58,717
That sounds like a vacation.

807
00:21:58,727 --> 00:21:58,957
Yeah.

808
00:21:59,477 --> 00:22:00,427
Silent treatment.

809
00:22:00,457 --> 00:22:01,997
That sounds ideal.

810
00:22:02,087 --> 00:22:03,447
She should do that more often

811
00:22:03,447 --> 00:22:04,767
and with others in her life.

812
00:22:04,767 --> 00:22:05,287
I would imagine.

813
00:22:05,297 --> 00:22:05,832
That is beautiful.

814
00:22:05,942 --> 00:22:07,032
Best case scenario.

815
00:22:07,072 --> 00:22:08,272
I feel like in these scenarios,

816
00:22:08,392 --> 00:22:10,066
just  keep it going, please.

817
00:22:11,560 --> 00:22:13,514
She even ignored my fiance's birthday,

818
00:22:13,514 --> 00:22:15,884
which is weeks after the incident.

819
00:22:15,884 --> 00:22:17,870
Normally they every other day.

820
00:22:17,870 --> 00:22:19,432
So this was very shocking

821
00:22:19,432 --> 00:22:21,574
until then we had no issues.

822
00:22:21,574 --> 00:22:24,073
And I thought our relationship was fine.

823
00:22:24,073 --> 00:22:25,402
Her behavior was hurtful,

824
00:22:25,402 --> 00:22:26,830
especially to my fiance.

825
00:22:26,830 --> 00:22:28,432
Thankfully his who witnessed

826
00:22:28,432 --> 00:22:30,217
everything supported us agreeing that

827
00:22:30,217 --> 00:22:32,717
his mom's actions were out of line.

828
00:22:33,233 --> 00:22:35,163
We had a wonder if the aunt is on the

829
00:22:35,163 --> 00:22:37,590
dad's side or the mom's side, cause that

830
00:22:37,590 --> 00:22:39,620
also kind of changes things a little bit.

831
00:22:39,840 --> 00:22:40,990
It's her sister.

832
00:22:41,147 --> 00:22:42,587
Hopefully the aunt is going to

833
00:22:42,587 --> 00:22:44,380
her being like, You're being nuts.

834
00:22:44,527 --> 00:22:46,577
If it's the dad's sister,

835
00:22:46,757 --> 00:22:48,787
she's like, Oh, I've seen this

836
00:22:48,787 --> 00:22:50,347
from this from the beginning.

837
00:22:51,224 --> 00:22:53,254
One of us wanted him to end up with her.

838
00:22:53,524 --> 00:22:55,434
Like, we all wanted him to end

839
00:22:55,434 --> 00:22:57,094
up with the other girl, you that

840
00:22:57,094 --> 00:22:58,574
dynamic is interesting, too.

841
00:22:58,738 --> 00:22:59,838
Yeah, I know.

842
00:22:59,838 --> 00:23:01,206
Like earlier at the party,

843
00:23:01,206 --> 00:23:02,356
I think she said the mom's

844
00:23:02,366 --> 00:23:04,316
sister or the on the mom side.

845
00:23:04,326 --> 00:23:04,366
That's

846
00:23:04,366 --> 00:23:05,586
worse, honestly.

847
00:23:05,793 --> 00:23:08,033
your own sister being like, yeah, but

848
00:23:08,033 --> 00:23:09,983
again, hope the aunt is going to the mom.

849
00:23:09,993 --> 00:23:11,283
Like, if I saw my sister acting

850
00:23:11,283 --> 00:23:12,563
that way, or if they saw me acting

851
00:23:12,563 --> 00:23:14,203
that way, they would be the first

852
00:23:14,213 --> 00:23:15,953
to be like, hey, cut it out.

853
00:23:16,613 --> 00:23:17,453
Exactly.

854
00:23:17,953 --> 00:23:18,093
Okay.

855
00:23:18,093 --> 00:23:19,033
We had a 4th of July weekend

856
00:23:19,033 --> 00:23:20,473
planned at his family's lake house,

857
00:23:20,696 --> 00:23:22,046
and she was supposed to join us.

858
00:23:22,096 --> 00:23:23,226
She didn't show up until

859
00:23:23,227 --> 00:23:24,746
the weekend was nearly over.

860
00:23:24,966 --> 00:23:26,516
When she arrived, there was no

861
00:23:26,526 --> 00:23:28,436
warm embrace, no belated birthday

862
00:23:28,436 --> 00:23:30,286
wishes for her son, just coldness.

863
00:23:30,296 --> 00:23:31,286
It's like, why even come?

864
00:23:31,546 --> 00:23:32,046
It was incredible.

865
00:23:32,046 --> 00:23:32,346
Yeah.

866
00:23:32,516 --> 00:23:33,096
Awkward.

867
00:23:33,316 --> 00:23:34,037
Cause she wants to have

868
00:23:34,037 --> 00:23:35,516
her Real Housewives moment.

869
00:23:35,526 --> 00:23:37,476
She thinks she's on Real Housewives of

870
00:23:37,476 --> 00:23:40,100
Orange County, with a dramatic show up.

871
00:23:40,110 --> 00:23:41,448
Girl, no one was worried.

872
00:23:44,545 --> 00:23:46,045
the silent treatment, the weekend

873
00:23:46,045 --> 00:23:47,005
without you, where we're just like,

874
00:23:47,695 --> 00:23:49,095
chillin eating hot dogs, waving

875
00:23:49,105 --> 00:23:50,915
flags, like, it was all going really,

876
00:23:50,965 --> 00:23:52,715
the vibes were high, like, yes.

877
00:23:53,538 --> 00:23:54,728
yeah, she wanted to come in with the

878
00:23:54,738 --> 00:23:56,578
sad music, everyone's like, oh no,

879
00:23:56,588 --> 00:23:58,598
what's, wrong with Barb over there?

880
00:23:58,808 --> 00:23:59,648
A fur coat.

881
00:23:59,825 --> 00:24:01,635
Yeah, like, mope dramatically

882
00:24:01,871 --> 00:24:03,081
around the house.

883
00:24:03,091 --> 00:24:04,741
Puffin and puffin Like, what we

884
00:24:04,741 --> 00:24:05,556
would do when we were like, sleeping.

885
00:24:05,696 --> 00:24:07,586
Seven and like our parents made

886
00:24:07,586 --> 00:24:09,206
chicken for dinner and we didn't want

887
00:24:09,206 --> 00:24:11,593
chicken that's what she's she wanted

888
00:24:11,593 --> 00:24:12,983
spaghetti She didn't want chicken.

889
00:24:12,983 --> 00:24:14,833
So now she's making it everyone's problem.

890
00:24:14,943 --> 00:24:15,163
Yeah.

891
00:24:15,673 --> 00:24:16,313
Oh my god.

892
00:24:16,343 --> 00:24:18,416
So true my fiance I decided

893
00:24:18,416 --> 00:24:19,586
we needed to address this.

894
00:24:19,586 --> 00:24:21,476
He pulled her aside in the pantry

895
00:24:21,496 --> 00:24:22,766
while I stayed around the corner

896
00:24:24,916 --> 00:24:26,326
I love, like, the sour

897
00:24:26,326 --> 00:24:27,396
cream and onion chips

898
00:24:27,396 --> 00:24:28,406
listening in,

899
00:24:28,633 --> 00:24:28,813
you know?

900
00:24:29,513 --> 00:24:30,393
That seemed like the best

901
00:24:30,393 --> 00:24:30,633
spot.

902
00:24:30,633 --> 00:24:30,713
Funny

903
00:24:30,893 --> 00:24:32,544
setting conversation.

904
00:24:32,594 --> 00:24:34,224
I love that she added that in.

905
00:24:34,684 --> 00:24:36,354
Yeah, the pantry,

906
00:24:36,384 --> 00:24:37,644
it really sets the scene.

907
00:24:37,644 --> 00:24:39,048
It's like, this is dire.

908
00:24:39,268 --> 00:24:40,678
This is a dire situation.

909
00:24:41,028 --> 00:24:42,148
That was the quickest spot.

910
00:24:42,408 --> 00:24:43,758
He started by saying we wanted to

911
00:24:43,758 --> 00:24:45,708
resolve things, but she exploded again.

912
00:24:45,988 --> 00:24:47,398
She accused us of keeping the

913
00:24:47,398 --> 00:24:49,051
wedding a secret because we

914
00:24:49,051 --> 00:24:50,381
wouldn't share the venue address.

915
00:24:50,651 --> 00:24:52,091
A narrative she created.

916
00:24:52,278 --> 00:24:54,178
She claimed I had promised to send it to

917
00:24:54,178 --> 00:24:56,864
her and didn't, saying she didn't do shit.

918
00:24:57,108 --> 00:24:58,958
At that point, I stepped in the

919
00:24:58,968 --> 00:25:00,574
conversation and said, Well,

920
00:25:00,574 --> 00:25:02,034
it's my turn to enter now!

921
00:25:03,092 --> 00:25:03,302
Okay.

922
00:25:03,302 --> 00:25:05,012
And just a little note, guys, that was the

923
00:25:05,012 --> 00:25:07,417
one we did the follow-up episode where the

924
00:25:07,417 --> 00:25:09,697
original person that sent in that story

925
00:25:09,697 --> 00:25:12,241
came on and shared her site even more.

926
00:25:12,241 --> 00:25:13,381
So if you're looking for some more

927
00:25:13,381 --> 00:25:15,614
detail on that, check out that episode.

928
00:25:15,896 --> 00:25:17,619
And number two was with Saron

929
00:25:17,949 --> 00:25:20,377
oba, the Las Vegas letdown.

930
00:25:20,749 --> 00:25:21,999
Two days later, I made a Facebook

931
00:25:21,999 --> 00:25:23,059
post about the wedding and

932
00:25:23,059 --> 00:25:24,089
saw that my mother in law had

933
00:25:24,119 --> 00:25:26,099
untagged me from her earlier post.

934
00:25:26,349 --> 00:25:27,789
When my husband asked why, she

935
00:25:27,799 --> 00:25:29,659
said, it was a post only for you.

936
00:25:30,039 --> 00:25:30,579
Ew.

937
00:25:30,659 --> 00:25:31,965
Do you wanna fuck your son?

938
00:25:32,345 --> 00:25:34,405
Like, what is going on here?

939
00:25:34,535 --> 00:25:34,995
Why?

940
00:25:34,995 --> 00:25:35,770
I'm sorry, curse here?

941
00:25:35,770 --> 00:25:36,625
Yeah, you're fine.

942
00:25:36,625 --> 00:25:37,195
I'm a

943
00:25:37,195 --> 00:25:39,190
little late to ask that question, but.

944
00:25:39,267 --> 00:25:39,475
Redo!

945
00:25:39,475 --> 00:25:39,760
No.

946
00:25:39,760 --> 00:25:40,875
Yeah, it'll be fine.

947
00:25:42,323 --> 00:25:43,153
I don't know.

948
00:25:43,213 --> 00:25:45,377
That is, yeah, why?

949
00:25:45,760 --> 00:25:47,350
I don't get these mother in laws that

950
00:25:47,350 --> 00:25:50,200
hate their daughter in laws so much

951
00:25:50,420 --> 00:25:52,040
that they don't care what they say,

952
00:25:52,347 --> 00:25:53,707
like no one's good enough for their son.

953
00:25:53,737 --> 00:25:54,957
I don't, know what it is.

954
00:25:55,160 --> 00:25:55,440
It's enmeshment.

955
00:25:56,050 --> 00:25:57,170
I think that's the word.

956
00:25:57,573 --> 00:25:59,653
no, it's emotionally incest, even worse.

957
00:25:59,947 --> 00:26:00,367
Yes.

958
00:26:00,437 --> 00:26:01,937
No, that's creepy as hell.

959
00:26:02,017 --> 00:26:02,217
Right.

960
00:26:02,454 --> 00:26:04,524
once you meet this psycho

961
00:26:04,656 --> 00:26:05,706
mother in law, right?

962
00:26:05,918 --> 00:26:08,631
and you see that this man  sees nothing

963
00:26:08,631 --> 00:26:11,121
wrong with their relationship and kind

964
00:26:11,121 --> 00:26:13,421
of encourages it and won't ask her.

965
00:26:13,531 --> 00:26:15,871
How are you still attracted to this

966
00:26:15,871 --> 00:26:17,632
man that might want to fuck his mom?

967
00:26:17,839 --> 00:26:18,725
Like, how do you not get the

968
00:26:18,735 --> 00:26:20,765
ick immediately and run away

969
00:26:20,989 --> 00:26:22,439
from, like, self preservation?

970
00:26:23,419 --> 00:26:25,842
Yeah, cause my thing is, this

971
00:26:25,842 --> 00:26:26,982
is not the first time something

972
00:26:26,982 --> 00:26:27,902
like this has happened.

973
00:26:28,136 --> 00:26:30,176
She had of given signs before

974
00:26:30,176 --> 00:26:31,916
they got engaged, or when they

975
00:26:31,916 --> 00:26:33,466
first met, I'm thinking, like,

976
00:26:33,852 --> 00:26:35,406
first dinner at a parent's house.

977
00:26:35,406 --> 00:26:35,853
Every girlfriend

978
00:26:35,853 --> 00:26:36,748
had a book before

979
00:26:36,748 --> 00:26:37,418
him, before her.

980
00:26:37,418 --> 00:26:38,142
Yeah, yeah, for sure.

981
00:26:38,152 --> 00:26:40,082
Yeah, like, what were the signs before?

982
00:26:40,305 --> 00:26:42,220
Yeah, because it wasn't like, oh, they're

983
00:26:42,220 --> 00:26:43,790
engaged now, they're serious, now my

984
00:26:43,790 --> 00:26:45,717
real, like, craziness is gonna come out.

985
00:26:45,727 --> 00:26:47,408
Like, I feel like she had to have

986
00:26:47,458 --> 00:26:49,208
treated her poorly before this.

987
00:26:49,420 --> 00:26:49,720
Right.

988
00:26:49,990 --> 00:26:53,118
And the sister in law is also a  as well.

989
00:26:53,858 --> 00:26:56,259
Yeah, what's the deal with that?

990
00:26:56,597 --> 00:26:58,197
Okay, three days after the wedding, she

991
00:26:58,197 --> 00:27:00,157
texted my husband saying she wanted to

992
00:27:00,157 --> 00:27:02,197
talk about my behavior at the wedding.

993
00:27:02,546 --> 00:27:02,616
What?

994
00:27:03,455 --> 00:27:05,155
He told her he wouldn't have

995
00:27:05,155 --> 00:27:06,335
that conversation without

996
00:27:06,335 --> 00:27:08,355
me there, and she refused.

997
00:27:08,700 --> 00:27:10,560
A few days later, she blocked me on

998
00:27:10,560 --> 00:27:12,190
social media and deleted my husband?

999
00:27:12,824 --> 00:27:14,894
So what her behavior was like having

1000
00:27:14,894 --> 00:27:17,413
boundaries and like, No, expecting her

1001
00:27:17,423 --> 00:27:18,313
parents to be able to

1002
00:27:18,313 --> 00:27:19,033
sit in the front row.

1003
00:27:19,319 --> 00:27:19,869
Yeah.

1004
00:27:19,869 --> 00:27:22,059
And not allowing the friend of

1005
00:27:22,059 --> 00:27:23,169
a co worker of her neighbor's

1006
00:27:23,179 --> 00:27:24,939
nephew to come last minute.

1007
00:27:24,969 --> 00:27:26,349
Those were the things.

1008
00:27:26,349 --> 00:27:26,689
Right.

1009
00:27:26,689 --> 00:27:26,809
Those were the things.

1010
00:27:27,159 --> 00:27:28,669
Those are really harsh to have.

1011
00:27:28,669 --> 00:27:29,942
I mean, maybe blocking on social

1012
00:27:29,942 --> 00:27:31,232
media and deleting the husband is

1013
00:27:31,232 --> 00:27:32,672
like the best thing, because then you

1014
00:27:32,672 --> 00:27:34,348
guys can't see her on social media.

1015
00:27:34,378 --> 00:27:35,338
I wouldn't have said a thing

1016
00:27:35,348 --> 00:27:36,018
about that.

1017
00:27:36,018 --> 00:27:36,238
I would have

1018
00:27:36,238 --> 00:27:36,398
said,

1019
00:27:36,398 --> 00:27:36,748
great.

1020
00:27:37,168 --> 00:27:37,858
I'm like, awesome.

1021
00:27:37,858 --> 00:27:39,708
Yeah, you saved it.

1022
00:27:39,878 --> 00:27:40,888
saved me from doing it.

1023
00:27:41,135 --> 00:27:42,325
When I tried reaching out,

1024
00:27:42,335 --> 00:27:44,095
she called my husband crying.

1025
00:27:44,278 --> 00:27:44,978
Here we go.

1026
00:27:45,018 --> 00:27:46,974
The victim saying she'd been crying

1027
00:27:47,024 --> 00:27:49,164
every day because of how I treated her

1028
00:27:49,363 --> 00:27:52,316
when he defended me like a good, she

1029
00:27:52,316 --> 00:27:54,784
hung up because she realizes he gone.

1030
00:27:55,101 --> 00:27:55,911
he's not backing you

1031
00:27:55,911 --> 00:27:57,001
up anymore, crazy mom.

1032
00:27:57,011 --> 00:27:57,361
He is now

1033
00:27:57,361 --> 00:27:58,858
someone else's husband.

1034
00:27:59,078 --> 00:28:00,158
Not yours.

1035
00:28:00,318 --> 00:28:00,588
Yeah.

1036
00:28:00,718 --> 00:28:01,768
Not yours.

1037
00:28:02,061 --> 00:28:03,681
Finally, my husband texted her

1038
00:28:03,681 --> 00:28:05,361
saying she had two options.

1039
00:28:05,554 --> 00:28:07,644
Have a conversation or lose him.

1040
00:28:07,911 --> 00:28:10,021
She replied, I guess I won't

1041
00:28:10,031 --> 00:28:11,761
be seeing you anymore then.

1042
00:28:12,819 --> 00:28:15,349
I mean, I would say hallelujah.

1043
00:28:16,733 --> 00:28:18,483
I would be like, I'm so sorry, babe.

1044
00:28:19,075 --> 00:28:19,355
Yeah.

1045
00:28:19,475 --> 00:28:21,145
It'll be like, we'll, we'll get this.

1046
00:28:21,145 --> 00:28:23,485
It's just trying to keep my face straight.

1047
00:28:23,485 --> 00:28:23,895
Okay.

1048
00:28:24,115 --> 00:28:24,325
I know.

1049
00:28:24,335 --> 00:28:25,986
I feel like the petty in me, I'd text

1050
00:28:25,986 --> 00:28:28,012
her, I'd be like, well, have a great life.

1051
00:28:28,961 --> 00:28:29,641
Best of luck.

1052
00:28:29,841 --> 00:28:30,201
Yeah.

1053
00:28:30,201 --> 00:28:32,291
Honestly, I'm relieved, you know, and

1054
00:28:32,291 --> 00:28:34,721
I really hope they don't contact her.

1055
00:28:34,741 --> 00:28:36,341
And I hope it's just like left that way

1056
00:28:36,341 --> 00:28:37,791
because like we were saying, this mother

1057
00:28:37,791 --> 00:28:39,621
in law would make her life a living hell.

1058
00:28:42,930 --> 00:28:45,750
number one for the craziest wedding story

1059
00:28:45,750 --> 00:28:48,484
I ever read on a podcast episode was

1060
00:28:48,484 --> 00:28:51,317
with Pile Desai wedding brawl disaster.

1061
00:28:52,096 --> 00:28:53,537
My sister and I were always super

1062
00:28:53,537 --> 00:28:56,161
close to our cousin and his sister.

1063
00:28:56,349 --> 00:28:58,744
When he got engaged to his first wife,

1064
00:28:58,774 --> 00:29:01,087
they invited my sister, his sister,

1065
00:29:01,239 --> 00:29:02,971
and me to be a part of their wedding.

1066
00:29:03,199 --> 00:29:05,367
We happily accepted during the planning.

1067
00:29:05,367 --> 00:29:07,077
They asked my boyfriend at the time to

1068
00:29:07,077 --> 00:29:09,147
be a DJ for the wedding, and he accepted.

1069
00:29:09,489 --> 00:29:11,214
We were getting everything set up for him.

1070
00:29:11,372 --> 00:29:12,587
We had to travel out of state for

1071
00:29:12,587 --> 00:29:14,857
this while also getting our dresses.

1072
00:29:15,219 --> 00:29:17,261
During the time his sister announced her

1073
00:29:17,261 --> 00:29:20,677
pregnancy, his fiancé did not like that,

1074
00:29:20,839 --> 00:29:22,677
and then kicked her out of the wedding.

1075
00:29:22,972 --> 00:29:24,184
Wait, what?

1076
00:29:24,491 --> 00:29:26,827
So their cousin The girl cousin?

1077
00:29:27,042 --> 00:29:27,465
Yeah Announced

1078
00:29:27,465 --> 00:29:28,222
Her pregnancy.

1079
00:29:28,222 --> 00:29:29,317
And the fiancé kicked her

1080
00:29:29,317 --> 00:29:30,097
out of the wedding for that.

1081
00:29:30,451 --> 00:29:31,291
Oh, wow.

1082
00:29:31,412 --> 00:29:32,197
That's awful.

1083
00:29:33,577 --> 00:29:35,587
Fast forward to the wedding and reception.

1084
00:29:35,587 --> 00:29:37,371
The ceremony went well, but the

1085
00:29:37,371 --> 00:29:39,741
reception was a complete disaster.

1086
00:29:39,949 --> 00:29:41,151
Her parents went through the

1087
00:29:41,151 --> 00:29:43,251
wedding gifts and cards to pay

1088
00:29:43,251 --> 00:29:45,911
my boyfriend for his DJ services.

1089
00:29:46,184 --> 00:29:46,582
Oh my

1090
00:29:46,582 --> 00:29:47,084
God,

1091
00:29:47,084 --> 00:29:48,194
that's so

1092
00:29:48,541 --> 00:29:52,607
Tacky That's so, this is why, and

1093
00:29:52,607 --> 00:29:53,807
I've said this before, it's like

1094
00:29:54,003 --> 00:29:55,367
when you hire friends, they're

1095
00:29:55,367 --> 00:29:57,543
looking for like a little discount?

1096
00:29:57,543 --> 00:29:57,633
Mm-hmm.

1097
00:29:57,873 --> 00:29:59,813
Or they just not as, I

1098
00:29:59,813 --> 00:30:00,803
don't know, professional.

1099
00:30:00,803 --> 00:30:02,183
I don't think like friends

1100
00:30:02,183 --> 00:30:04,303
and business ever mix, No.

1101
00:30:04,481 --> 00:30:05,219
No, they don't.

1102
00:30:05,454 --> 00:30:06,416
That's a no for me.

1103
00:30:06,600 --> 00:30:10,256
You need extra like contracts in place

1104
00:30:10,256 --> 00:30:11,756
or to really make sure it's someone

1105
00:30:11,756 --> 00:30:13,346
that you want to work with, but most

1106
00:30:13,346 --> 00:30:15,371
of the time it's like, yeah, no,

1107
00:30:15,831 --> 00:30:16,916
it just gets mucky.

1108
00:30:16,916 --> 00:30:18,506
It gets mucky, and then you're

1109
00:30:18,506 --> 00:30:20,606
trying to go through cards to pay.

1110
00:30:21,114 --> 00:30:21,564
Dj,

1111
00:30:21,714 --> 00:30:23,154
the number of stories that I've

1112
00:30:23,154 --> 00:30:25,118
read about people hiring friends

1113
00:30:25,118 --> 00:30:27,398
for photographers and vice versa.

1114
00:30:27,398 --> 00:30:27,488
Mm-hmm.

1115
00:30:27,728 --> 00:30:29,438
And then they ended up with no photos

1116
00:30:29,637 --> 00:30:31,258
or they ended up with crappy photos

1117
00:30:31,258 --> 00:30:32,758
'cause it was someone just starting out.

1118
00:30:32,950 --> 00:30:34,349
Like, no, we're not doing that.

1119
00:30:34,349 --> 00:30:34,889
Guys.

1120
00:30:35,006 --> 00:30:36,236
well, and with a friendship

1121
00:30:36,236 --> 00:30:37,736
or even like with family, like

1122
00:30:37,736 --> 00:30:39,326
a falling out could occur.

1123
00:30:39,326 --> 00:30:41,499
And so why would you if it's a

1124
00:30:41,499 --> 00:30:43,743
professional and it, you don't have

1125
00:30:43,743 --> 00:30:44,943
like a relation to that person.

1126
00:30:44,943 --> 00:30:47,313
There's a contract and you abide by that.

1127
00:30:47,509 --> 00:30:48,659
But a lot of times if you're working

1128
00:30:48,659 --> 00:30:50,372
with a friend, like you may forego

1129
00:30:50,372 --> 00:30:51,752
the contract 'cause it's like, oh, we

1130
00:30:51,752 --> 00:30:53,192
don't have to make it all official.

1131
00:30:53,192 --> 00:30:54,602
Like you'll just do it for me.

1132
00:30:54,844 --> 00:30:56,434
there was a lot of animosity between

1133
00:30:56,434 --> 00:30:58,444
her family and ours the entire night.

1134
00:30:58,634 --> 00:30:59,818
If my family was ever on the

1135
00:30:59,818 --> 00:31:01,078
dance floor, which was most of

1136
00:31:01,078 --> 00:31:02,938
the night, her family stayed away.

1137
00:31:03,151 --> 00:31:04,478
What is the deal?

1138
00:31:04,674 --> 00:31:06,788
Also, I feel like if something like

1139
00:31:06,788 --> 00:31:08,438
that happened where they kicked out

1140
00:31:08,438 --> 00:31:10,701
someone for announcing a pregnancy, I

1141
00:31:10,701 --> 00:31:13,341
would already be like, this is weird.

1142
00:31:13,341 --> 00:31:14,031
Like, I don't know.

1143
00:31:14,301 --> 00:31:15,821
Especially like it's his sister

1144
00:31:15,851 --> 00:31:16,781
being kicked out of the wedding.

1145
00:31:17,174 --> 00:31:17,634
Yeah, when

1146
00:31:17,634 --> 00:31:18,504
you pick up your family and be

1147
00:31:18,504 --> 00:31:20,064
like, why are you kicking my sister

1148
00:31:20,064 --> 00:31:22,244
out for announcing a pregnancy?

1149
00:31:22,458 --> 00:31:23,428
do you think that there's like

1150
00:31:23,428 --> 00:31:26,068
an obligation to, including

1151
00:31:26,068 --> 00:31:28,765
like your husband's female?

1152
00:31:29,020 --> 00:31:31,176
Uh, family members in the wedding party.

1153
00:31:31,206 --> 00:31:32,976
'cause I don't think, there is no, like,

1154
00:31:32,976 --> 00:31:34,716
if you don't have a closeness with them,

1155
00:31:34,716 --> 00:31:36,380
like you should not feel obligated.

1156
00:31:36,380 --> 00:31:38,030
'cause I feel like when you do, this

1157
00:31:38,030 --> 00:31:39,770
is the kind of stuff that happens.

1158
00:31:39,770 --> 00:31:41,303
Whereas if you're just like, Hey,

1159
00:31:41,440 --> 00:31:42,970
I'm marrying into your family,

1160
00:31:42,970 --> 00:31:44,440
you're marrying and into my family.

1161
00:31:44,585 --> 00:31:47,983
Let relationships happen like organically

1162
00:31:48,073 --> 00:31:50,743
and over time people become close or they

1163
00:31:50,743 --> 00:31:53,383
don't, but like, just including them for

1164
00:31:53,473 --> 00:31:55,936
optics is kind of a problem, I think.

1165
00:31:55,936 --> 00:31:55,996
Yeah.

1166
00:31:56,266 --> 00:31:57,585
As the night went on, my boyfriend

1167
00:31:57,585 --> 00:31:59,412
played our family song and

1168
00:31:59,412 --> 00:32:00,912
everyone was having a great time.

1169
00:32:01,053 --> 00:32:02,622
Out of the corner of my eye, I

1170
00:32:02,622 --> 00:32:04,872
saw someone shove my grandfather.

1171
00:32:05,650 --> 00:32:07,708
Okay, what's going on here?

1172
00:32:07,738 --> 00:32:09,328
After that, all hell broke.

1173
00:32:09,328 --> 00:32:11,578
Loose fights erupted all

1174
00:32:11,578 --> 00:32:13,816
over the hall, tables broke,

1175
00:32:14,696 --> 00:32:16,770
and there was blood everywhere.

1176
00:32:16,860 --> 00:32:17,786
What?

1177
00:32:18,480 --> 00:32:19,650
That's awful.

1178
00:32:20,416 --> 00:32:20,806
Wait.

1179
00:32:21,024 --> 00:32:23,843
That escalated so fast.

1180
00:32:23,903 --> 00:32:25,616
I'm like, what happened?

1181
00:32:25,676 --> 00:32:29,486
Like, so I feel like there is like a piece

1182
00:32:29,486 --> 00:32:32,636
of this story missing where there was

1183
00:32:32,636 --> 00:32:36,356
some like conflict or tension that is not

1184
00:32:36,356 --> 00:32:38,906
being shared because there's no way that.

1185
00:32:39,414 --> 00:32:41,303
It went from like kicking somebody

1186
00:32:41,303 --> 00:32:42,910
out of the wedding and then

1187
00:32:42,938 --> 00:32:44,648
everyone's angry at each other.

1188
00:32:44,819 --> 00:32:46,529
Two sides, of the family are

1189
00:32:46,589 --> 00:32:48,419
not interacting, engaging.

1190
00:32:49,044 --> 00:32:51,518
Dancing together, celebrating, and then

1191
00:32:51,518 --> 00:32:53,181
all of a sudden it's like a, a bloodbath.

1192
00:32:53,181 --> 00:32:53,721
What?

1193
00:32:54,051 --> 00:32:54,501
Yes.

1194
00:32:54,901 --> 00:32:55,321
No, I'm like

1195
00:32:55,561 --> 00:32:57,894
picturing it like, um, like Romeo

1196
00:32:57,894 --> 00:32:59,364
and Juliet right now, or like

1197
00:32:59,364 --> 00:33:02,068
the two sides are like battling.

1198
00:33:02,328 --> 00:33:04,348
Um, and it started off very innocent.

1199
00:33:04,348 --> 00:33:06,414
Like, hey, like they, they like chose

1200
00:33:06,414 --> 00:33:08,454
the wedding party, we're all in it,

1201
00:33:08,454 --> 00:33:10,554
we're excited, and then boom, like.

1202
00:33:10,858 --> 00:33:12,094
I don't know what the heck.

1203
00:33:12,094 --> 00:33:13,089
This is insane.

1204
00:33:13,290 --> 00:33:15,349
It says the bride's mom got

1205
00:33:15,349 --> 00:33:17,389
into my face for no reason.

1206
00:33:17,574 --> 00:33:19,896
Mind you, I was only 18 at the time.

1207
00:33:20,051 --> 00:33:21,506
She went to shove me,

1208
00:33:21,707 --> 00:33:22,609
but I was pulled away.

1209
00:33:22,781 --> 00:33:25,096
Why are people just shoving people here?

1210
00:33:25,201 --> 00:33:25,981
what is happening?

1211
00:33:26,189 --> 00:33:28,041
Someone threw my mom to the floor

1212
00:33:28,731 --> 00:33:30,531
and broke my boyfriend's custom

1213
00:33:30,531 --> 00:33:33,014
built speakers, like, oh, no.

1214
00:33:33,202 --> 00:33:34,826
Someone threw your mom to the floor,

1215
00:33:34,826 --> 00:33:36,586
pushed your grandfather, like this is

1216
00:33:36,586 --> 00:33:39,016
the most violent story I've ever read.

1217
00:33:39,166 --> 00:33:40,534
Yeah, Okay, wait, there's

1218
00:33:40,534 --> 00:33:41,404
a little bit more.

1219
00:33:41,613 --> 00:33:43,311
it says the state police arrived.

1220
00:33:43,475 --> 00:33:45,931
It turned out,  the bride's parents had

1221
00:33:45,931 --> 00:33:48,985
told my cousin his new wife to leave the

1222
00:33:48,985 --> 00:33:51,611
reception before e everything escalated.

1223
00:33:51,794 --> 00:33:53,981
So they had no idea what was going on.

1224
00:33:54,414 --> 00:33:54,632
Okay.

1225
00:33:54,677 --> 00:33:55,697
So like I said, those

1226
00:33:55,697 --> 00:33:57,827
are some crazy stories.

1227
00:33:57,857 --> 00:33:59,837
If you did not hear the full stories

1228
00:33:59,837 --> 00:34:01,529
of those, go back and check 'em out.

1229
00:34:01,689 --> 00:34:02,499
We're gonna put the links to the

1230
00:34:02,499 --> 00:34:04,419
full episodes in the show notes.

1231
00:34:04,419 --> 00:34:06,129
You guys can check them all out.

1232
00:34:06,284 --> 00:34:08,193
But I'm so curious to hear what you

1233
00:34:08,193 --> 00:34:10,473
guys thought were the craziest episodes.

1234
00:34:10,473 --> 00:34:12,687
Tell me on social media, DM me.

1235
00:34:12,848 --> 00:34:14,468
Post it in my Patreon,

1236
00:34:14,687 --> 00:34:16,228
whatever suits you best.

1237
00:34:16,512 --> 00:34:18,381
and as I promised, we are gonna do

1238
00:34:18,381 --> 00:34:20,391
an exclusive story because I just

1239
00:34:20,395 --> 00:34:22,216
couldn't fathom the idea of sharing a

1240
00:34:22,216 --> 00:34:24,587
new episode without a new story in it.

1241
00:34:24,794 --> 00:34:25,964
I know the whole point of sharing

1242
00:34:25,964 --> 00:34:27,644
some highlight episodes is so I

1243
00:34:27,644 --> 00:34:29,839
can like take a week off, but I

1244
00:34:29,839 --> 00:34:31,309
just felt weird about doing that.

1245
00:34:31,530 --> 00:34:32,445
Okay, here we go.

1246
00:34:33,785 --> 00:34:36,123
So why her sister-in-law?

1247
00:34:36,123 --> 00:34:37,953
Why would they come after her?

1248
00:34:38,222 --> 00:34:40,153
Mind you, I had no intention

1249
00:34:40,153 --> 00:34:41,143
of doing it that way.

1250
00:34:41,378 --> 00:34:43,260
I had just been confirmed Catholic

1251
00:34:43,260 --> 00:34:44,910
and everyone else in the family had

1252
00:34:44,910 --> 00:34:46,320
already been raised in the church.

1253
00:34:46,788 --> 00:34:48,293
This all happened before

1254
00:34:48,293 --> 00:34:49,857
her bridal shower, which of

1255
00:34:49,857 --> 00:34:51,687
course became another issue.

1256
00:34:51,932 --> 00:34:53,370
The bride and groom had planned for

1257
00:34:53,370 --> 00:34:55,260
everyone at the shower to head over to

1258
00:34:55,260 --> 00:34:57,297
the bride's parents' house afterward

1259
00:34:57,297 --> 00:34:59,180
for a small after party, just a

1260
00:34:59,180 --> 00:35:01,740
casual thing, maybe 30 plus people.

1261
00:35:01,988 --> 00:35:04,420
The groom's mom shut it down immediately.

1262
00:35:04,642 --> 00:35:06,730
No, we are going to my brother's

1263
00:35:06,730 --> 00:35:09,010
house after you two or just

1264
00:35:09,010 --> 00:35:10,540
the groom need to be there.

1265
00:35:10,828 --> 00:35:13,307
What, why are they so upset about it

1266
00:35:13,307 --> 00:35:15,777
being at the bride's parents' house?

1267
00:35:16,058 --> 00:35:17,477
This is another one where it's like the

1268
00:35:17,477 --> 00:35:19,097
parents are competing with each other

1269
00:35:19,097 --> 00:35:22,047
because of some hidden reason, right?

1270
00:35:22,047 --> 00:35:23,570
Like there's a just story I just

1271
00:35:23,570 --> 00:35:24,980
read where it's about money.

1272
00:35:25,162 --> 00:35:26,157
There's another story where I have

1273
00:35:26,157 --> 00:35:27,567
read where one felt like the other

1274
00:35:27,567 --> 00:35:29,340
one had more control, but they

1275
00:35:29,340 --> 00:35:30,840
won't just come out and say it.

1276
00:35:31,072 --> 00:35:32,210
It's also hard when it's

1277
00:35:32,210 --> 00:35:33,380
not your wedding, right?

1278
00:35:33,632 --> 00:35:33,890
So.

1279
00:35:34,322 --> 00:35:35,597
Depending on their relationship with

1280
00:35:35,597 --> 00:35:37,767
their son, maybe he's not relaying

1281
00:35:37,767 --> 00:35:39,147
all information to them, so when

1282
00:35:39,147 --> 00:35:40,937
they're feeling left out, I don't know.

1283
00:35:40,997 --> 00:35:41,507
It's hard.

1284
00:35:41,687 --> 00:35:43,007
I've never been in that position, so I

1285
00:35:43,007 --> 00:35:44,537
don't know what that could feel like.

1286
00:35:44,758 --> 00:35:46,690
The groom replied, we live 20

1287
00:35:46,690 --> 00:35:48,277
minutes away and they've never

1288
00:35:48,277 --> 00:35:50,047
even invited us over before.

1289
00:35:50,275 --> 00:35:51,967
The bride's parents have been planning

1290
00:35:51,967 --> 00:35:54,307
this after party for over a month.

1291
00:35:54,608 --> 00:35:56,577
Okay, so what ended up happening?

1292
00:35:57,115 --> 00:36:00,135
My fiance, me the groom and his

1293
00:36:00,135 --> 00:36:02,325
dad all went to the uncle's house.

1294
00:36:02,595 --> 00:36:04,875
Meanwhile, the groom's sister and

1295
00:36:04,875 --> 00:36:07,095
mom went to the bride's parents'

1296
00:36:07,095 --> 00:36:09,418
party and were confused and upset

1297
00:36:09,418 --> 00:36:11,098
when the rest weren't there.

1298
00:36:11,338 --> 00:36:13,642
Wait, I'm so confused by this

1299
00:36:13,642 --> 00:36:15,412
story, so you're telling me.

1300
00:36:15,645 --> 00:36:16,852
Last minute just because

1301
00:36:16,852 --> 00:36:18,112
his parents demanded it.

1302
00:36:18,325 --> 00:36:20,682
They ended up going to the uncle's house,

1303
00:36:20,978 --> 00:36:22,622
but the groom's sister and mom

1304
00:36:22,622 --> 00:36:24,902
went to the bride's parents' house.

1305
00:36:25,175 --> 00:36:27,048
That's so weird.

1306
00:36:27,312 --> 00:36:28,413
Why would they do that?

1307
00:36:29,088 --> 00:36:29,625
Okay.

1308
00:36:29,902 --> 00:36:31,702
Sometimes reacting in real time

1309
00:36:31,702 --> 00:36:33,172
is hard because I'm still piecing

1310
00:36:33,172 --> 00:36:35,002
like the puzzle pieces together.

1311
00:36:35,229 --> 00:36:36,732
I'm only like getting part

1312
00:36:36,732 --> 00:36:38,142
of the story too sometimes.

1313
00:36:38,368 --> 00:36:39,748
so that's my first reaction.

1314
00:36:39,926 --> 00:36:41,355
What the heck is happening here?

1315
00:36:41,583 --> 00:36:41,912
Okay.

1316
00:36:42,129 --> 00:36:44,482
Fast forward to now, the groom's parents

1317
00:36:44,482 --> 00:36:47,392
are insisting on using their PTO to come

1318
00:36:47,392 --> 00:36:49,778
visit, even though the couple explained

1319
00:36:49,979 --> 00:36:52,475
that they had used their PTO for the year.

1320
00:36:52,739 --> 00:36:54,890
Between their own wedding, honeymoon,

1321
00:36:55,126 --> 00:36:57,080
other family weddings, and my wedding.

1322
00:36:57,346 --> 00:36:58,097
So

1323
00:36:58,333 --> 00:36:59,670
they're talking about events

1324
00:36:59,670 --> 00:37:00,840
that are coming up still.

1325
00:37:01,137 --> 00:37:02,067
So the person that wrote

1326
00:37:02,067 --> 00:37:03,447
this is currently engaged.

1327
00:37:03,609 --> 00:37:05,453
There's a bride and groom's wedding

1328
00:37:05,453 --> 00:37:07,317
that's coming up, and the groom's

1329
00:37:07,317 --> 00:37:09,087
parents are the ones that are kind

1330
00:37:09,087 --> 00:37:10,857
of causing an issue in all of this.

1331
00:37:11,820 --> 00:37:13,437
Don't like the wedding invitation.

1332
00:37:13,437 --> 00:37:14,967
Something on there offended them

1333
00:37:14,967 --> 00:37:16,930
Probably because I think it's like the

1334
00:37:16,930 --> 00:37:18,820
bride's family is introduced, right?

1335
00:37:19,100 --> 00:37:20,770
And it's like the daughter of so

1336
00:37:20,770 --> 00:37:22,120
and so is getting married too.

1337
00:37:22,150 --> 00:37:22,420
Right?

1338
00:37:22,420 --> 00:37:23,620
So they were offended 'cause they're

1339
00:37:23,620 --> 00:37:25,300
not like the main name on it.

1340
00:37:25,563 --> 00:37:27,237
then they're mad because they want

1341
00:37:27,237 --> 00:37:29,503
everyone to go to their house after

1342
00:37:29,503 --> 00:37:31,243
there was a plan for over a month.

1343
00:37:31,682 --> 00:37:32,913
But it's just weird that part of

1344
00:37:32,913 --> 00:37:34,527
the family decided to go, okay.

1345
00:37:34,845 --> 00:37:36,137
Still, the groom's parents were

1346
00:37:36,137 --> 00:37:38,027
offended saying they felt unimportant

1347
00:37:38,027 --> 00:37:39,527
and never got to see their son.

1348
00:37:39,795 --> 00:37:42,247
Keep in mind, they live three hours away.

1349
00:37:42,505 --> 00:37:45,113
The groom manages a PT clinic.

1350
00:37:45,360 --> 00:37:47,335
the bride is in law school working at

1351
00:37:47,335 --> 00:37:49,382
a firm, and their schedules are packed.

1352
00:37:49,638 --> 00:37:50,287
That's hard when you

1353
00:37:50,287 --> 00:37:51,187
live three hours away.

1354
00:37:51,187 --> 00:37:52,027
That's really hard.

1355
00:37:52,238 --> 00:37:53,830
I don't know if the parents are working

1356
00:37:53,830 --> 00:37:55,510
as well or if maybe they're retired.

1357
00:37:55,754 --> 00:37:56,400
That's probably a little bit

1358
00:37:56,400 --> 00:37:57,840
easier for them to go to them.

1359
00:37:58,081 --> 00:37:59,600
However, not something you

1360
00:37:59,600 --> 00:38:00,650
really have to plan for.

1361
00:38:00,710 --> 00:38:02,090
I know like my parents live

1362
00:38:02,135 --> 00:38:03,442
just about an hour away from me,

1363
00:38:03,708 --> 00:38:04,865
so we have to make an effort.

1364
00:38:05,045 --> 00:38:06,965
Like we have busy schedules,

1365
00:38:06,965 --> 00:38:08,075
but you have to make it work.

1366
00:38:08,274 --> 00:38:10,665
However, we don't know this relationship.

1367
00:38:10,665 --> 00:38:11,715
We don't know if he wants to

1368
00:38:11,715 --> 00:38:13,275
make it work or, I don't know.

1369
00:38:13,305 --> 00:38:14,415
Three hours is a lot.

1370
00:38:14,661 --> 00:38:15,560
Maybe they can do a zoom call.

1371
00:38:16,467 --> 00:38:17,967
but the groom's parents still try

1372
00:38:17,967 --> 00:38:19,917
to force FaceTime calls at random

1373
00:38:19,917 --> 00:38:21,207
times that don't work for them.

1374
00:38:21,525 --> 00:38:22,973
Now, week of the wedding, the

1375
00:38:22,973 --> 00:38:24,623
groom's parents are insisting the

1376
00:38:24,623 --> 00:38:27,263
dad give a speech at the reception.

1377
00:38:27,545 --> 00:38:28,580
Oh, you knowgo.

1378
00:38:28,762 --> 00:38:30,080
You guys know how I feel about

1379
00:38:30,292 --> 00:38:31,783
someone insisting a speech.

1380
00:38:32,032 --> 00:38:34,473
Traditionally, the groom's family

1381
00:38:34,473 --> 00:38:36,897
can give a speech at, the rehearsal.

1382
00:38:37,098 --> 00:38:38,243
I've seen that many times.

1383
00:38:38,243 --> 00:38:38,903
Not always.

1384
00:38:39,128 --> 00:38:41,157
And then typically it's like the bride's

1385
00:38:41,428 --> 00:38:43,597
dad or family does it at the wedding.

1386
00:38:43,875 --> 00:38:44,605
I'm all for throwing

1387
00:38:44,605 --> 00:38:45,642
traditions out the window.

1388
00:38:45,642 --> 00:38:46,482
You don't have to stick

1389
00:38:46,482 --> 00:38:47,758
to your Traditions.

1390
00:38:47,976 --> 00:38:50,334
But insisting, I don't know.

1391
00:38:50,558 --> 00:38:50,904
It's hard.

1392
00:38:50,904 --> 00:38:51,414
'cause I feel like there's

1393
00:38:51,414 --> 00:38:52,254
like a lot of heart.

1394
00:38:52,254 --> 00:38:52,794
It sounds like there's a

1395
00:38:52,794 --> 00:38:53,964
lot of communication error.

1396
00:38:54,212 --> 00:38:55,348
The groom's parents miss their

1397
00:38:55,348 --> 00:38:57,298
son, they wanna see him, they feel.

1398
00:38:57,565 --> 00:38:58,833
Being pulled away.

1399
00:38:58,833 --> 00:38:59,733
However, they're just going

1400
00:38:59,733 --> 00:39:00,993
about it the wrong way.

1401
00:39:01,239 --> 00:39:03,129
and I just never feel like you should

1402
00:39:03,129 --> 00:39:05,229
insist, like, Hey, he needs to speak.

1403
00:39:05,492 --> 00:39:06,803
Maybe he's gonna say

1404
00:39:06,803 --> 00:39:07,733
something inappropriate.

1405
00:39:07,922 --> 00:39:09,583
Maybe he doesn't know his son

1406
00:39:09,583 --> 00:39:10,633
well enough to speak about him.

1407
00:39:10,945 --> 00:39:12,166
Maybe he doesn't know the relationship.

1408
00:39:12,166 --> 00:39:13,246
Maybe he doesn't support

1409
00:39:13,246 --> 00:39:13,966
the bride and groom.

1410
00:39:14,222 --> 00:39:15,906
So if you are personally not asked

1411
00:39:15,906 --> 00:39:17,222
by the bride and groom, don't

1412
00:39:17,222 --> 00:39:18,272
say you're gonna give a speech.

1413
00:39:18,525 --> 00:39:20,328
I've seen it happen so many times where.

1414
00:39:20,592 --> 00:39:21,613
Someone that wasn't supposed to give

1415
00:39:21,613 --> 00:39:23,463
a speech stands up and gives a speech.

1416
00:39:23,678 --> 00:39:24,573
Someone tells the bride and

1417
00:39:24,573 --> 00:39:25,923
groom, Hey, I'm giving a speech.

1418
00:39:26,138 --> 00:39:28,420
And sometimes they work out great, but

1419
00:39:28,600 --> 00:39:29,830
I feel like a lot of times the bride

1420
00:39:29,830 --> 00:39:31,240
and groom's then pushed into a corner.

1421
00:39:31,240 --> 00:39:32,380
So they say yes when they

1422
00:39:32,380 --> 00:39:33,430
don't really want to.

1423
00:39:33,727 --> 00:39:34,013
okay.

1424
00:39:34,302 --> 00:39:36,112
The bride explained that the dad

1425
00:39:36,112 --> 00:39:38,152
already had a planned speech at

1426
00:39:38,152 --> 00:39:40,102
the spot, at the rehearsal dinner.

1427
00:39:40,342 --> 00:39:41,002
So here we go.

1428
00:39:41,228 --> 00:39:43,365
Since there were already two maid of

1429
00:39:43,365 --> 00:39:45,195
honor speeches, a best man speech,

1430
00:39:45,255 --> 00:39:47,025
a short message from the priest and

1431
00:39:47,025 --> 00:39:48,435
her dad's speech at the reception.

1432
00:39:48,435 --> 00:39:49,095
So kind of like what I

1433
00:39:49,095 --> 00:39:49,965
was just talking about.

1434
00:39:50,172 --> 00:39:51,858
So they were like, Hey, you can

1435
00:39:51,858 --> 00:39:53,815
absolutely speak, but we've reserved

1436
00:39:53,815 --> 00:39:55,565
it for the rehearsal dinner,

1437
00:39:55,925 --> 00:39:57,622
the groom's mom responded with.

1438
00:39:57,912 --> 00:39:59,583
So no one's going to hear

1439
00:39:59,583 --> 00:40:01,023
the groom's dad speech.

1440
00:40:01,272 --> 00:40:03,590
Mind you, there'll be almost 70 people

1441
00:40:03,590 --> 00:40:05,120
at the rehearsal dinner, and they're

1442
00:40:05,120 --> 00:40:07,250
mostly from the groom's side of the guest

1443
00:40:07,250 --> 00:40:09,387
list anyway, so we'll see what happens.

1444
00:40:09,417 --> 00:40:11,037
And yes, I'll send another story.

1445
00:40:11,037 --> 00:40:13,152
If anything wild goes down this weekend.

1446
00:40:14,092 --> 00:40:15,643
Oh my gosh.

1447
00:40:15,643 --> 00:40:18,507
I kind of wanna quickly see if

1448
00:40:18,802 --> 00:40:21,140
this person sent me another story.

1449
00:40:21,662 --> 00:40:22,048
Okay.

1450
00:40:22,435 --> 00:40:24,555
They haven't yet, so we'll have to

1451
00:40:24,555 --> 00:40:26,355
do a follow up and see what happened.

1452
00:40:26,598 --> 00:40:27,588
I wanna get my feedback though

1453
00:40:27,588 --> 00:40:29,148
on this, or my comment on this.

1454
00:40:29,455 --> 00:40:31,642
If you really care about your son and

1455
00:40:31,642 --> 00:40:32,842
you're really excited about giving

1456
00:40:32,842 --> 00:40:34,895
a speech, it's gonna be for your

1457
00:40:34,895 --> 00:40:36,665
son and your future daughter-in-law.

1458
00:40:36,942 --> 00:40:39,335
It's not gonna be for everybody else.

1459
00:40:39,578 --> 00:40:41,405
And if you're pushing more like, oh,

1460
00:40:41,405 --> 00:40:42,545
well, no one's gonna hear my speech.

1461
00:40:43,108 --> 00:40:44,785
Your son is gonna hear your speech, the

1462
00:40:44,785 --> 00:40:47,095
person that it really matters about, and

1463
00:40:47,095 --> 00:40:49,015
there's still gonna be 70 people there.

1464
00:40:49,302 --> 00:40:51,208
I guess not the main setup, but if

1465
00:40:51,208 --> 00:40:53,652
someone asked me to do a speech at

1466
00:40:53,742 --> 00:40:55,392
the rehearsal, I would be honored.

1467
00:40:55,422 --> 00:40:57,372
I'd be like, that means so much to me.

1468
00:40:57,678 --> 00:40:59,322
so again, I'm reading this as

1469
00:40:59,322 --> 00:41:00,792
there's a lot of hurt going on.

1470
00:41:00,792 --> 00:41:02,412
There's a lot of miscommunication.

1471
00:41:02,696 --> 00:41:03,915
And, they're not really

1472
00:41:03,915 --> 00:41:05,055
going about it the right way.

1473
00:41:05,305 --> 00:41:06,525
It also sounds to me like

1474
00:41:06,525 --> 00:41:07,635
the bride and groom probably

1475
00:41:07,635 --> 00:41:09,195
aren't making it a priority.

1476
00:41:09,195 --> 00:41:10,785
I mean, they live three hours away.

1477
00:41:11,048 --> 00:41:12,298
They seem to be kind

1478
00:41:12,298 --> 00:41:13,498
of living their lives.

1479
00:41:13,718 --> 00:41:15,378
and again, I'm only getting this

1480
00:41:15,378 --> 00:41:17,672
much detail, so I don't know what

1481
00:41:17,672 --> 00:41:19,232
went on or if they've always just

1482
00:41:19,232 --> 00:41:20,792
been closer to the brides family.

1483
00:41:21,012 --> 00:41:21,672
And that's hard.

1484
00:41:21,882 --> 00:41:22,852
That's hard when.

1485
00:41:23,133 --> 00:41:24,813
One set of parent is closer to the

1486
00:41:24,813 --> 00:41:26,253
bride and groom, or the couple,

1487
00:41:26,467 --> 00:41:27,870
because the other one sees them kind

1488
00:41:27,870 --> 00:41:29,633
of like, dwindling away or they kind

1489
00:41:29,633 --> 00:41:31,103
of feel like they're being pushed out.

1490
00:41:31,342 --> 00:41:32,683
But, there's a lot going

1491
00:41:32,683 --> 00:41:33,793
on here is what I'm saying.

1492
00:41:34,092 --> 00:41:35,183
Alright, well that's pretty wild.

1493
00:41:35,432 --> 00:41:37,230
I am gonna reach out to this person

1494
00:41:37,230 --> 00:41:39,330
and see if there's a part to the story.

1495
00:41:39,590 --> 00:41:40,747
They sent it a month ago,

1496
00:41:40,968 --> 00:41:42,533
so it happened a month ago.

1497
00:41:42,593 --> 00:41:43,943
We'll see if anything wild happened

1498
00:41:43,943 --> 00:41:44,993
during the wedding weekend.

1499
00:41:45,240 --> 00:41:48,060
I would hope the groom's dad just

1500
00:41:48,060 --> 00:41:49,680
accepts it and just gives the

1501
00:41:49,680 --> 00:41:51,486
speech at the, rehearsal dinner.

1502
00:41:52,241 --> 00:41:52,870
Who knows.

1503
00:41:53,138 --> 00:41:53,646
I don't know.

1504
00:41:53,818 --> 00:41:54,516
I've seen it.

1505
00:41:54,546 --> 00:41:55,506
Like I said, I've talked

1506
00:41:55,506 --> 00:41:56,076
about this before.

1507
00:41:56,076 --> 00:41:57,396
I've seen it before where

1508
00:41:57,396 --> 00:41:59,406
people push to give a speech,

1509
00:41:59,666 --> 00:42:01,416
and it doesn't always go great.

1510
00:42:01,688 --> 00:42:02,258
All right guys.

1511
00:42:02,288 --> 00:42:03,578
Well that's all I have this week.

1512
00:42:03,578 --> 00:42:05,318
Thanks for hanging out with me again.

1513
00:42:05,318 --> 00:42:07,628
This was just a very special episode to

1514
00:42:07,628 --> 00:42:10,288
kind of reflect on everything so far.

1515
00:42:10,288 --> 00:42:12,028
It's been so much fun to create

1516
00:42:12,028 --> 00:42:14,435
this for you guys and just hang out.

1517
00:42:14,671 --> 00:42:17,485
The stories I get are wild, and it's

1518
00:42:17,485 --> 00:42:19,465
just fun to kind of react with you guys.

1519
00:42:19,711 --> 00:42:21,671
if you guys don't follow me on YouTube,

1520
00:42:21,701 --> 00:42:22,931
YouTube's where I put the longer

1521
00:42:22,931 --> 00:42:24,505
content, I don't really talk about

1522
00:42:24,505 --> 00:42:26,088
that a lot on here, but obviously I

1523
00:42:26,088 --> 00:42:28,281
do the skits, and I do some one-off

1524
00:42:28,281 --> 00:42:30,875
reading on, TikTok and, Facebook,

1525
00:42:30,875 --> 00:42:33,071
Instagram, but YouTube every single

1526
00:42:33,071 --> 00:42:35,171
week I do release a long form video.

1527
00:42:35,376 --> 00:42:36,756
and I say long form where it's, it's

1528
00:42:36,756 --> 00:42:39,252
like 10 minutes, but I do read other

1529
00:42:39,252 --> 00:42:40,632
story submissions there as well.

1530
00:42:40,632 --> 00:42:42,138
So if you can't get enough, we

1531
00:42:42,138 --> 00:42:43,998
got more there and I got more on

1532
00:42:43,998 --> 00:42:46,248
my Patreon once a month as well.

1533
00:42:46,248 --> 00:42:47,925
So thanks for hanging out with me

1534
00:42:47,925 --> 00:42:49,635
and I will see you guys next time.

1535
00:42:49,665 --> 00:42:50,115
Bye now.