<v Speaker 1>Jerry, Katy and Josh Mix one hundred.

<v Speaker 2>Katie, what went on with this latest dude that was

<v Speaker 2>trying to get free hive story? Like she there's all

<v Speaker 2>these clowns that come out of the woodwork.

<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I mean online dating is, it's a process, let

<v Speaker 3>me tell you that. And there's a lot of just

<v Speaker 3>unenviable things that happened to me.

<v Speaker 4>I guess.

<v Speaker 3>But the latest is, so I was talking to this guy, right,

<v Speaker 3>and I just want to point out that I knew

<v Speaker 3>this guy already, So we had hung out years ago,

<v Speaker 3>and that's where the story gets a little tricky, but

<v Speaker 3>I still feel like I am in the right.

<v Speaker 4>So here's what happened.

<v Speaker 3>I matched with this guy who, again we had hung

<v Speaker 3>out before, and just without getting too crazy intimate into it,

<v Speaker 3>like we have done our taxes together before, you had,

<v Speaker 3>so we have years ago, a passionate already hung out

<v Speaker 3>with the guy. All right, it's all right, it's okay.

<v Speaker 3>But anyway, so we match again, right like years ago,

<v Speaker 3>we hang out and then it ended, and then we

<v Speaker 3>match again. And I actually asked him, I'm like, do

<v Speaker 3>you remember me? And he's like, oh, yeah, you're you know.

<v Speaker 3>Katie on the radio like I totally remember you, blah blah,

<v Speaker 3>and I was like, Okay, well then maybe this can work.

<v Speaker 3>I was completely honest about my intentions, as I always am.

<v Speaker 3>I'm like, you know what, just so you know, I'm

<v Speaker 3>not looking for a hookup. I'm not looking for that

<v Speaker 3>stage of my life, like I am looking for a relationship.

<v Speaker 3>I am actively dating, looking for my person right now.

<v Speaker 3>So I just want you to know that first and foremost.

<v Speaker 3>And he's like, oh, that's great. I'm also in the

<v Speaker 3>same camp. And here's the thing. When we dated, I

<v Speaker 3>feel like the reason a big reason it didn't work

<v Speaker 3>out is because I had roommates, Like, I didn't live

<v Speaker 3>by myself. I wasn't really in the place to like

<v Speaker 3>bring somebody back to my.

<v Speaker 5>Place, did you guys like you?

<v Speaker 4>And we went on a few dates.

<v Speaker 5>You want a boyfriend and girlfriend?

<v Speaker 4>No, no, no, we want a.

<v Speaker 3>Boyfriend and girlfriends multiple dates. I hung out with this

<v Speaker 3>man for like a month. So we hung out for

<v Speaker 3>like a month, and you know, hung out multiple times

<v Speaker 3>and whatnot. So anyway, fast forward to we are gonna

<v Speaker 3>hang out again, right, We decide that we're gonna meet

<v Speaker 3>on this day, and it's like, okay, we're gonna hang

<v Speaker 3>out on let's say Friday, right, We're gonna hang out

<v Speaker 3>Friday night. All week long, he doesn't really text me

<v Speaker 3>like how's your day, how's this? It is just we're

<v Speaker 3>gonna meet this day and that's it. So Friday I

<v Speaker 3>hit him up and I'm like, Hey, what, what's the

<v Speaker 3>plan for tonight?

<v Speaker 4>What do you want to do?

<v Speaker 3>I mean, we're talking crickets the whole day. I messaged

<v Speaker 3>him early in the morning, as you know, uh so

<v Speaker 3>crickets the whole day. And then he finally messages me

<v Speaker 3>later that night and he was like, hey, I'd still

<v Speaker 3>love to see you. I had to help my friend

<v Speaker 3>Trey change his alternator, so I'm all dirty and I

<v Speaker 3>don't want to drive all the way back to Boulder

<v Speaker 3>just to shower. And I was just like, wait a minute,

<v Speaker 3>this is this man asking me to come shower at

<v Speaker 3>my house? Like is he asking to come use my shower?

<v Speaker 3>And like the message totally made it seem that way,

<v Speaker 3>Like his next question was going to be can I

<v Speaker 3>come shower at your house and then we'll go on

<v Speaker 3>to our date.

<v Speaker 5>What's wrong with that?

<v Speaker 4>I don't like that, Jeremy, Like you want to get

<v Speaker 4>naked in my house.

<v Speaker 5>He just needed a shower.

<v Speaker 4>He's been working on a car, seen each other in years.

<v Speaker 5>You're not in the shower with him. There's a door.

<v Speaker 5>I've been to your apartment.

<v Speaker 2>Actually we've showered together, but there's a door in your bathroom.

<v Speaker 5>He would just be in their shower and getting ready.

<v Speaker 5>Then you go out.

<v Speaker 6>No.

<v Speaker 3>I felt like this was his way of being like,

<v Speaker 3>I'm going to get naked in your apartment and you

<v Speaker 3>know what happens next.

<v Speaker 5>You feel like he'd walk out like oops, I dropped my.

<v Speaker 3>Like I feel like this was going to end up

<v Speaker 3>into another just random hook up. I don't feel like

<v Speaker 3>he was had the same intentions as I did.

<v Speaker 4>Like I am really looking for a relationship.

<v Speaker 2>I am, and I think you're over thinking a little bit,

<v Speaker 2>like I'm usually on your side.

<v Speaker 4>And I was.

<v Speaker 3>Talking to my friends about it and they were like,

<v Speaker 3>this man has had so many red flags, like and

<v Speaker 3>the fact that you are just now flags.

<v Speaker 4>So when we did, I don't even want to do

<v Speaker 4>posters on the wall.

<v Speaker 3>And here's the thing is, so when we called it quits, right,

<v Speaker 3>he actually hit me up a few months later and

<v Speaker 3>he's like, I'm hoping this is the Katie from and

<v Speaker 3>he named a fast food restaurant. Now I know that

<v Speaker 3>that's probably pretty accurate when you're thinking, of course it's you,

<v Speaker 3>of course it's Katie from blah blah. No, he meant

<v Speaker 3>I worked there. He's like, I hope this is Katie

<v Speaker 3>from you worked at this.

<v Speaker 5>Fast guys, a different Katie.

<v Speaker 3>He totally hit me up thinking it was a different Katie,

<v Speaker 3>and I went back. It was years ago, but still like,

<v Speaker 3>that's why this this man is just like, there's so

<v Speaker 3>many things. And so when he asked to use my

<v Speaker 3>shaf before our first date, I was like, oh no, no, no, no,

<v Speaker 3>no no, and I blocked him. I unmatched just and

<v Speaker 3>he hasn't hit me back since.

<v Speaker 5>Oh he can't. Oh wait, did you try to find

<v Speaker 5>out so overthinking?

<v Speaker 4>No, they didn't.

<v Speaker 3>I didn't because people told me like, don't waste your

<v Speaker 3>time on this man he asked to use it.

<v Speaker 5>I would have tried to find out first.

<v Speaker 2>God, I hate to go into this other topic now,

<v Speaker 2>because this one is really good.

<v Speaker 4>I'm serious.

<v Speaker 5>You want to say, okay, well do we want to

<v Speaker 5>save it?

<v Speaker 2>I think you're overthinking of Katie. He was with a

<v Speaker 2>friend working on his cars, wanted to meet up with you,

<v Speaker 2>and he's like, I'm gonna just shower your place, get ready,

<v Speaker 2>and we can bounce.

<v Speaker 3>No, I don't think that that was you are so

<v Speaker 3>you are such a guy in that regard, Like.

<v Speaker 5>It's exactly what I would do.

<v Speaker 4>He wants to get naked in my apartment, you would do.

<v Speaker 5>Something like that. He's been naked in your apartment. That's

<v Speaker 5>the big.

<v Speaker 4>Deal, I know. He like that's the thing is like

<v Speaker 4>this is years ago.

<v Speaker 1>No, but Jeremy, is this something you would actually do?

<v Speaker 2>I was working on a car all day, wanted to

<v Speaker 2>meet up with somebody, and like, hey, it's way closer.

<v Speaker 2>Just can I just quickly shower at your house and

<v Speaker 2>then we can go out.

<v Speaker 5>I would never do that.

<v Speaker 4>I hated it and immediately unmatched.

<v Speaker 5>Us because of that reason.

<v Speaker 3>Immediately, And not only that, but it got me thinking,

<v Speaker 3>like I got all like philosophical in my head. I'm like,

<v Speaker 3>there's a reason the windshields bigger than the rear view window.

<v Speaker 3>I need to be looking forward and not my pass

<v Speaker 3>like right, Like that's where my mind went immediately.

<v Speaker 1>But I don't think there's anything wrong with going back

<v Speaker 1>if you want to. If you want to try out

<v Speaker 1>that old car again?

<v Speaker 5>You see if you should.

<v Speaker 2>We push the no, push this other topic back to tomorrow.

<v Speaker 5>We got to argue this out, Jared. If you want to.

<v Speaker 2>Call and sound off about this, was Katie completely overthinking it.

<v Speaker 2>We will take your calls and comments when we come

<v Speaker 2>back from the break. If nobody is sounding off about this,

<v Speaker 2>we will. We will dive into what was on your walls,

<v Speaker 2>your bedroom walls growing up? Picture of a shower? Probably no,

<v Speaker 2>seriously on Angela's Texas and.

<v Speaker 5>Jeremy, you're wrong, thank you.

<v Speaker 2>The guy was sweaty and dirty from working on his car.

<v Speaker 2>He just needed a shower. Hi, Kendra, good morning, Good morning?

<v Speaker 5>All right? So is she overreacting about this guy?

<v Speaker 7>Not at all?

<v Speaker 4>Thank you?

<v Speaker 5>Why come on? Come on?

<v Speaker 8>If he wasn't just trying to get in their sheets,

<v Speaker 8>he would take a shower at his friend pow.

<v Speaker 4>Thank you. Yeah, places can shower.

<v Speaker 8>Go watch your stank ass at your frank friend? Howse?

<v Speaker 2>And what if what if they were like a mechanic

<v Speaker 2>shop or something working on this car?

<v Speaker 5>There's no shower there, so what's he to do if.

<v Speaker 8>He's working with his friends. I'm sure he has friends

<v Speaker 8>around there's no way that she is the only shower available.

<v Speaker 8>Go to the gym, take a shower.

<v Speaker 4>So go truck stops.

<v Speaker 2>To go to a truck stop, or go get a

<v Speaker 2>gym membership and then come see.

<v Speaker 8>She's already he's already experienced it. But if Katie's aging

<v Speaker 8>like fine wine, why why no no, no, all right,

<v Speaker 8>I'm gonna put.

<v Speaker 5>You in camp.

<v Speaker 2>No no, no, I'm gonna put you in camp.

<v Speaker 5>Never shower at Katie's house, all right, Kindra.

<v Speaker 7>Thank you mean, or don't come at all, and thank you.

<v Speaker 5>For working in stink ass.

<v Speaker 4>Your favorite.

<v Speaker 5>Have a great day, Kindra.

<v Speaker 2>Bye bye, Hi Mariah, Hi, Hey, so it was Katie overreacting.

<v Speaker 2>This dude just wanted to come over, take a shower,

<v Speaker 2>and then they're going to go out on a date.

<v Speaker 9>You know what, Personally, I would have just let him

<v Speaker 9>shower at my place, see if he still looks good,

<v Speaker 9>and then send him on his way.

<v Speaker 10>He's at your house. If you don't like, if you

<v Speaker 10>don't like what you see, kick him out.

<v Speaker 11>If not, you know you washed it, you know, washed

<v Speaker 11>up good, Get some.

<v Speaker 9>Free food and be on your way. Don't over react.

<v Speaker 4>You don't know what you already know. What the goods are.

<v Speaker 5>He might be totally jack now and you might be like,

<v Speaker 5>never mind.

<v Speaker 9>He was working on a car. He looks all dirty.

<v Speaker 9>Now you get to see him all clean. I mean,

<v Speaker 9>you get the best of both sides. Girl, just out

<v Speaker 9>way too fast.

<v Speaker 4>I should have stayed, should have made this hand.

<v Speaker 2>Oh and Mariah, should we mention the katies in a

<v Speaker 2>twenty month dry spell right now?

<v Speaker 4>I don't know why you have.

<v Speaker 5>Almost two years.

<v Speaker 9>You should have gotten him dirty and clean. My god, no,

<v Speaker 9>you missed.

<v Speaker 5>Out, Mariah. I'm blushing.

<v Speaker 4>I'm blushing and now I'm kicking myself in the pants.

<v Speaker 6>Like girl, I'm I kind of wish I was not

<v Speaker 6>a serial killer.

<v Speaker 9>You know that for sure. You could have just gotten

<v Speaker 9>in and out and then got with me.

<v Speaker 4>Girl, Riah, I think this is Riya.

<v Speaker 5>This is we don't even need to take any more.

<v Speaker 2>I kind of wish I was single right now so

<v Speaker 2>I can hook up with Mariah.

<v Speaker 4>Mariah sounds fun.

<v Speaker 9>This would be very upset.

<v Speaker 5>Don't bring him into.

<v Speaker 4>This, Mariah.

<v Speaker 5>Hey, I appreciate your phone call today. So you're on team.

<v Speaker 5>Let the man shower and check out the goods.

<v Speaker 9>It's funny if you if it isn't the first time

<v Speaker 9>eating whim shower at your place? Isn't the first time?

<v Speaker 9>Hopefully it's not the last.

<v Speaker 5>I know, it's so stupid. I did react very Mariah.

<v Speaker 5>Thank you for your call. You have a great day,

<v Speaker 5>you too, got bye. I like her.

<v Speaker 4>She was fun.

<v Speaker 3>But see, here's the thing, is like, Yes, that's the

<v Speaker 3>good approach to take if you're just looking to hook up.

<v Speaker 2>Right, But oh, Katie, stop trying to sound all noble.

<v Speaker 2>You would have done it if it was presented to you,

<v Speaker 2>you would have done it.

<v Speaker 5>Kristen, Yes, yes.

<v Speaker 12>Sorry, fun.

<v Speaker 5>I can just want I can tell. I can tell Katie.

<v Speaker 13>Needs to trust her instincts and go with listening to

<v Speaker 13>all those other callers, go with what she's ultimately looking for.

<v Speaker 13>I think it's weird. I thought of the friend thing

<v Speaker 13>while I was on hold. I'm glad Kender brought that up.

<v Speaker 13>Charch Dan friend's house.

<v Speaker 4>Yes, JN.

<v Speaker 13>And we don't know if he's not a creeper. I

<v Speaker 13>don't care where she I don't care if she's been

<v Speaker 13>with him in the past. People are people, and they're

<v Speaker 13>dynamic and fluid, and that's just putting her in an

<v Speaker 13>uncomfortable position and I commend her for following her instincts.

<v Speaker 2>Do you know if he reached out to you, like, well,

<v Speaker 2>was he driving he had already left his friend's place.

<v Speaker 4>I don't know. He said he worked on the car.

<v Speaker 5>So maybe he had already left. He's gone, he's in

<v Speaker 5>his car.

<v Speaker 2>He's like, let me swing in, Yeah, get cleaned up,

<v Speaker 2>and I'll take you out for chicken tinders.

<v Speaker 12>I know.

<v Speaker 13>Oh, do you know he's even gonna pay these don't

<v Speaker 13>care if it was ten years fifteen years ago. Like

<v Speaker 13>he just sounds like, go with your instincts. I think

<v Speaker 13>you are being a guy in this respect.

<v Speaker 8>You can't give everyone the benefit of the doubt.

<v Speaker 4>You can't.

<v Speaker 3>And I'd like what you said, Kristin about just trusting

<v Speaker 3>my gut, because the minute I read the message, I

<v Speaker 3>felt uneasy and I was like, I don't like this,

<v Speaker 3>you know.

<v Speaker 14>Don't you.

<v Speaker 2>I feel like in the past you've kind of said

<v Speaker 2>you have a thing for mechanics and dirty fingers and

<v Speaker 2>the smell of oil and that gross's.

<v Speaker 5>People. People change, Kristen.

<v Speaker 4>No, I definitely like that, you.

<v Speaker 5>Know, exact point, because she likes that Kristen. She likes

<v Speaker 5>so he would have been smelling like that at the house,

<v Speaker 5>and I.

<v Speaker 4>Tell you what I don't like.

<v Speaker 3>It's almost like he assumed that I was going to

<v Speaker 3>say yes, Like his message was, so.

<v Speaker 4>I know, but I didn't like it, Like you're getting.

<v Speaker 2>Guys, you house behind closed doors like that her private

<v Speaker 2>sanctuary place, Like that's all we have is our home,

<v Speaker 2>whatever it is, even if it's a tiny home, that's all.

<v Speaker 4>It's all, but it's mine.

<v Speaker 5>Kristin.

<v Speaker 2>We appreciate you calling in today. Thanks for voicing your opinion.

<v Speaker 5>You're great, have a good day, all right, see you later.

<v Speaker 5>She was team go with your instincts. Yeah, yes, all right. Scottie, Hi, scott, Hey,

<v Speaker 5>how you guys doing well?

<v Speaker 2>We're super dupes. Katie apparently hates men and showers clean men.

<v Speaker 7>Well, it would be a little different if you didn't

<v Speaker 7>know the guy, and say, if you did your texes with.

<v Speaker 2>The guys many times.

<v Speaker 7>If it was some perfect stranger. Okay maybe, but I

<v Speaker 7>think that for a guy's point of view, that I

<v Speaker 7>think we need to see about like the exes, like

<v Speaker 7>have a day of critiquing and see what the issues are,

<v Speaker 7>because it goes both ways and and you know, to

<v Speaker 7>just find out what uh you know what they say

<v Speaker 7>about maybe your dating experience with them.

<v Speaker 4>Find out what they thought about me.

<v Speaker 7>Yeah, I mean, because I mean and it's good to

<v Speaker 7>get feedback, whether it's bad or good. And you know,

<v Speaker 7>because everybody has quirks, you know, maybe some people talk

<v Speaker 7>too much or you know, say this about themselves and

<v Speaker 7>never you know, let anybody else, you know, chime in.

<v Speaker 5>Maybe he was giving me a chance.

<v Speaker 7>I'm not saying that that could be the point, but

<v Speaker 7>you never know.

<v Speaker 5>I feel like you just called in to say, Katie

<v Speaker 5>is the problem.

<v Speaker 7>Yeah, but you know, yeah, my fell you could be

<v Speaker 7>you know, in line, you know, ready to be the

<v Speaker 7>crazy cat lady and start collecting.

<v Speaker 2>I think, Scott, I will say, I don't think she's

<v Speaker 2>been thinking clearly in some instances, correct, because you're so

<v Speaker 2>backed up.

<v Speaker 4>Katie, Oh, Scot, that's not it. I am actually thinking

<v Speaker 4>very clearly, are you.

<v Speaker 3>I'm thinking of how this is going to make me

<v Speaker 3>feel in the long run and not just in the now,

<v Speaker 3>you know.

<v Speaker 4>And I think that's a big but that's a big.

<v Speaker 3>Reason with this where I was like, I don't know

<v Speaker 3>if I'm will because this seems.

<v Speaker 4>Like he's just in it for the hookup.

<v Speaker 5>You could let him shower.

<v Speaker 2>You could have let him shower, You could have left

<v Speaker 2>your house, you could have gone for a walk.

<v Speaker 12>Yeah.

<v Speaker 7>I think sometimes you might have to lower some standards

<v Speaker 7>a little bit until you get comfortable with somebody for

<v Speaker 7>a long period of time. You know, you can't slam

<v Speaker 7>a door like, you know, a sap like nope, nope.

<v Speaker 5>You know it's over and it's probably a shower door

<v Speaker 5>you're slamming.

<v Speaker 4>I know.

<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, Scott, I thank you for your call.

<v Speaker 5>I think I don't know. Thank you for your call.

<v Speaker 4>Thank you for calling.

<v Speaker 7>I think we need a guy's calling perspective, that's what

<v Speaker 7>we need.

<v Speaker 2>I wish we could get this dirty guy on the

<v Speaker 2>phone and be like, dude, did you just want to

<v Speaker 2>shower or are.

<v Speaker 5>You trying to get some.

<v Speaker 2>We'll never know, We'll never know. There you go, Scotty,

<v Speaker 2>we have full phone lines.

<v Speaker 5>Have a great day, buddy.

<v Speaker 9>YouTube.

<v Speaker 5>All right, but Chris, hi, Chris.

<v Speaker 6>How's it going? Can you hear me?

<v Speaker 5>Yeah, we can hear you a loud and clear Chris,

<v Speaker 5>You're perfect.

<v Speaker 6>Hey, So all right, And I want to preface this

<v Speaker 6>with I suck at planning, right, but when I was dating, right,

<v Speaker 6>and when I was getting serious, I made you know

<v Speaker 6>that my priority. So I'm not sure whether you know

<v Speaker 6>guy was just being stupid and had piss poor planning

<v Speaker 6>or whether he's being a creeper, But either way, I

<v Speaker 6>think Katie's better off without.

<v Speaker 5>Thank you. II. This is so fascinating to me.

<v Speaker 2>If it truly is a guy that was like, hey,

<v Speaker 2>it's forty five minutes to my house, it's fifteen to yours.

<v Speaker 5>I'm a mess.

<v Speaker 2>Can I can I quickly shower and then we'll go out.

<v Speaker 5>It is fascinate you and everybody's freaking out.

<v Speaker 6>I'm an idiot when it comes to planning, but you know,

<v Speaker 6>ultimately it's up to her. And if she the guy

<v Speaker 6>that's you know all right?

<v Speaker 5>He was just starting to make sense to everybody.

<v Speaker 4>Did we get fired up about this right?

<v Speaker 5>Yet? Here is Jane?

<v Speaker 15>Hi?

<v Speaker 5>Jane, Hi, Hey, don't cuss?

<v Speaker 12>Okay, no, my voice is gone a little. But I

<v Speaker 12>had to call in and say, Katie, trust your instincts.

<v Speaker 12>You did the right thing this time, and you did

<v Speaker 12>the right thing the last time. You didn't continue with

<v Speaker 12>that guy, thank you, because he knew he's he had

<v Speaker 12>known you had a date a whole week crickets, crickets,

<v Speaker 12>So what's up with that? Yeah, No, you did the

<v Speaker 12>right thing, block him, double blocking double what.

<v Speaker 2>I wish Jane was living with you so she could

<v Speaker 2>just stand at the door.

<v Speaker 3>Leave no leave Now, Katie has no time for you.

<v Speaker 4>Hire you.

<v Speaker 5>You need a little bodyguard. I think it's Jane.

<v Speaker 4>He'd be my muscle at the door.

<v Speaker 5>Like no.

<v Speaker 3>I like that a lot. You're right, though, he gave

<v Speaker 3>me the red flags already before he even asked me

<v Speaker 3>to use his shower. Right, he didn't message me all week.

<v Speaker 5>And because he's busy with a broken down car.

<v Speaker 4>I guess apparently that's his excuse.

<v Speaker 5>But great point, Jane, Jane, thanks for calling.

<v Speaker 12>Thank you guys.

<v Speaker 5>Bye, Mary, Hi, Mary.

<v Speaker 10>Hi, good morning.

<v Speaker 2>Tell me somebody's gonna say that Katie's overreacting just a

<v Speaker 2>little bit.

<v Speaker 5>Come on.

<v Speaker 10>I kind of think just because of the brief history,

<v Speaker 10>whys the path together, it's a slight overreaction. If it

<v Speaker 10>truly was just a shower, and if he had additional intentions,

<v Speaker 10>you can determine what happens at that point, you know.

<v Speaker 4>Okay, So I should have let it gone a little farther.

<v Speaker 5>I should have You might have missed out on the shower.

<v Speaker 10>He's trying to be respectful, clean up a little before

<v Speaker 10>you go. Maybe his friend was in a bad place

<v Speaker 10>and he was being helpful and it just was bad timing.

<v Speaker 10>But he did the right thing helping his friend. And

<v Speaker 10>now he's stinky. However, a minor, small flip of the

<v Speaker 10>coin that nobody has brought up yet, Like, so he

<v Speaker 10>is going to shower at your house and then has

<v Speaker 10>no clean clothes to put on afterwards, So he's going

<v Speaker 10>to get clean just to put on dirty clothes.

<v Speaker 5>Well, we don't know. He might have a bag full

<v Speaker 5>of clothes from his previous girlfriends.

<v Speaker 4>Did he bring a.

<v Speaker 3>Bag of clean clothes? Like he planned to shower at

<v Speaker 3>my house? Like, that's where my mind went, is like

<v Speaker 3>the same thing it went down that road.

<v Speaker 5>Maybe he does have a change of clothes.

<v Speaker 4>Maybe and then did he.

<v Speaker 10>Play Maybe he felt comfortable enough with you because of

<v Speaker 10>the history that he did just want to take a

<v Speaker 10>quick shower and he didn't want to push off the

<v Speaker 10>dates so much. If he lived that far away, you.

<v Speaker 5>Might have missed out on a banger of a date.

<v Speaker 1>A date.

<v Speaker 3>I still again, no messaging all week long, and I

<v Speaker 3>don't know, I just I really felt like it was

<v Speaker 3>not a good idea to let him in my house.

<v Speaker 5>So Mary, thank you for your thoughts. Have a great day.

<v Speaker 6>Bye bye bye.

<v Speaker 5>Oh what time is it? We can do a couple more.

<v Speaker 2>We'll do last call here if anyone wants to sound

<v Speaker 2>off about this? Did Katie overreact over the dude wanting

<v Speaker 2>to come shower at her house? Three oh three six

<v Speaker 2>nine one, sixteen forty nine.

<v Speaker 5>Here's Justin. Hi, Justin.

<v Speaker 15>Hey, guys, how you doing?

<v Speaker 5>Super dupes? Buddy? So do you want to go shower

<v Speaker 5>at Katie's house?

<v Speaker 15>Yeah?

<v Speaker 5>Yeah, yeah, you used. She's got the best shampoo.

<v Speaker 15>A car all day She's got you know, when.

<v Speaker 5>I was over there showering, she had the best body wash. God,

<v Speaker 5>the razor. Oh but used?

<v Speaker 2>Yeah, the the Lufa created such a rich, creamy lather.

<v Speaker 2>All right, just stop it. I'll bowl dump you. I

<v Speaker 2>will hit the dumb button on you. You Hi, Justin,

<v Speaker 2>What do you think does she ever react?

<v Speaker 15>I think maybe a little bit, But given I mean,

<v Speaker 15>especially listening to the last few callers, now, I'm kind

<v Speaker 15>of second guessing my own opinions. So I think if

<v Speaker 15>you guys had some sort of rapport years ago, right, Yes, yes,

<v Speaker 15>I think I don't know, and maybe he does have

<v Speaker 15>a bag of clothes in his car.

<v Speaker 2>But bottom line and justin, we gotta we gotta get

<v Speaker 2>this done by tomorrow.

<v Speaker 15>Line, bottom line, by tomorrow, bottom line. Trust your instinct.

<v Speaker 15>I'm glad you went with your gut. Maybe blocking him

<v Speaker 15>was a little aggressive. Maybe give him another chance, you know,

<v Speaker 15>strike strike two, strike three type thing.

<v Speaker 4>Let's strike two.

<v Speaker 2>Yeah, why didn't you just say to him, can you

<v Speaker 2>shower somewhere else and let's still meet up?

<v Speaker 5>Why did you completely shut this guy down?

<v Speaker 3>Because I felt like it's like my friends even were saying,

<v Speaker 3>like this guy's just like giving you a whole bouquet

<v Speaker 3>of red flags at this point, like you need to

<v Speaker 3>just cut it off, Like don't even friends are yeah, my.

<v Speaker 5>Friends, Yeah, yeah.

<v Speaker 4>That's usually happens, you know.

<v Speaker 5>Justin thank you for the call.

<v Speaker 2>We will do three more Jackie, Bonnie and Kay and

<v Speaker 2>then we will put.

<v Speaker 5>This to bed in the Jackie here. Hey there, all right,

<v Speaker 5>So what are your thoughts for Katie?

<v Speaker 16>Yeah, so I think you totally made the right call.

<v Speaker 16>I think my issue isn't so much the hookup factor

<v Speaker 16>as the fact that he clearly didn't make you a priority,

<v Speaker 16>Like you didn't hear from him all week, and then

<v Speaker 16>he clearly knew that you were supposed to have plans

<v Speaker 16>that night, and he didn't, you know, make it a

<v Speaker 16>point to to time things properly, to get home and

<v Speaker 16>everything in time.

<v Speaker 7>For your date.

<v Speaker 1>Yeah, Katie's also said a billion times she hates when

<v Speaker 1>people faster, so maybe he's heard that.

<v Speaker 2>And he was making it a priority because he was

<v Speaker 2>gonna come over, shower and immediately go out.

<v Speaker 5>So you were the priority, But.

<v Speaker 3>No, where you were talking all week long like usually yeah,

<v Speaker 3>usually there's a house, your day going or you know,

<v Speaker 3>I'm excited about Friday, Like there's something in there with that.

<v Speaker 5>No, why didn't you do it?

<v Speaker 3>But I was the one who reached out to him

<v Speaker 3>on Friday because like the whole show went by in

<v Speaker 3>a couple hours and I was like, is this man

<v Speaker 3>not even going to set up plans for tonight? I

<v Speaker 3>had to reach out to him and that's when he said,

<v Speaker 3>I've been working on my friend's car all day, So like,

<v Speaker 3>I just I don't even feel like he did put

<v Speaker 3>me as a priority.

<v Speaker 4>And when he remembered our date, he's like, maybe I

<v Speaker 4>can get it in real quick.

<v Speaker 5>You know that was my thought.

<v Speaker 2>Yeah, like, all right, so you're thinking she's in the

<v Speaker 2>right Jackie.

<v Speaker 16>Yeah, for sure. It made it seem like it was

<v Speaker 16>like her date was just an afterthought.

<v Speaker 3>Yeah, one of many. Maybe maybe I wasn't even the

<v Speaker 3>only one.

<v Speaker 2>That weekend, Jackie. We appreciate you, thank you for calling in.

<v Speaker 2>Let's do Bonnie and kay, here's Bonnie.

<v Speaker 5>Hi, Bonnie, Well, good morning, good morning to you. Are

<v Speaker 5>you team Katie or team shower?

<v Speaker 14>I most definitely team Katie.

<v Speaker 4>Nice?

<v Speaker 5>Yeah, all right, Bonnie hates clean men too.

<v Speaker 14>No, I like clean men, but hey, dirty dog Bonnie.

<v Speaker 3>Bonnie, we don't know that, and don't you also said

<v Speaker 3>that you are doing the online dating, so you.

<v Speaker 9>Know what this is like I do.

<v Speaker 14>I would have walked him to It's just like.

<v Speaker 16>You weren't a priority.

<v Speaker 14>And if things came up and if Brent had like

<v Speaker 14>a major emergency in his car broke down, he could

<v Speaker 14>have communicated that ye rescheduled for a different day and.

<v Speaker 16>Patten ducks in a row.

<v Speaker 14>And yeah, no, he was. He was totally wrong and

<v Speaker 14>and just being assumptive that, oh, just because we were

<v Speaker 14>together before, this is gonna be great. Well, make an effort.

<v Speaker 14>It didn't work out the last time. Still make an

<v Speaker 14>effort this time.

<v Speaker 5>Yeah, Mike drop moment from Bond.

<v Speaker 2>Thank you, Bonnie drop the Mike walk away, Bonnie.

<v Speaker 6>Yeah, thank you very much.

<v Speaker 2>Thank you very much. That was a good call. All right,

<v Speaker 2>k kkk you get the final word.

<v Speaker 11>On this good morning? Yes, I want the final word.

<v Speaker 11>I can't believe no one has mentioned this. That's why

<v Speaker 11>I'm calling in. I'm one hundred percent percent team Katie.

<v Speaker 11>First of all, dang, oh my god, So it feels

<v Speaker 11>totally slimy. What this his move he pulled? It feels

<v Speaker 11>like a slinball move. So beyond that, I'm waiting and

<v Speaker 11>waiting for somebody to meet someone to mention this. Wait, Okay,

<v Speaker 11>he's going to shower at her house, and then what

<v Speaker 11>does he have clothes? Is he going to put the

<v Speaker 11>same greasy clothes on, the same Dirney underwear?

<v Speaker 5>Yeah? A couple of people have mentioned that.

<v Speaker 2>We're thinking that maybe he had a bag of clothes

<v Speaker 2>in his car, or he was prepared in one way

<v Speaker 2>or another.

<v Speaker 11>It doesn't sound like it, but who knows that Just

<v Speaker 11>the whole thing sounds sleazy. Assign me to me, and

<v Speaker 11>not a way to start.

<v Speaker 2>As they've had a relationship, they've been there, done that,

<v Speaker 2>and now they're kind of on a friend level.

<v Speaker 5>I think.

<v Speaker 2>So it's just to me, it's just like hey, a

<v Speaker 2>friend saying, hey can I shower at your place?

<v Speaker 5>And then we'll be No, there's no friend level. I

<v Speaker 5>feel like there's a friend level.

<v Speaker 4>There's no friend.

<v Speaker 3>Level because we were intimate before and then he tried

<v Speaker 3>to bring that back at no point where we just

<v Speaker 3>friends ever like this is. It's been a romantic relationship,

<v Speaker 3>and so.

<v Speaker 11>I feel like I needed a bag of clothes, yes,

<v Speaker 11>to feel better about the whole request.

<v Speaker 9>That says so weird to shower and not have that.

<v Speaker 11>It sounded like a last minute move. Hey can I

<v Speaker 11>come over and shower so I don't have to drive home?

<v Speaker 2>So yeah, we're and then he'll pretend to fall in

<v Speaker 2>the shower and be like Katie, help me.

<v Speaker 3>I know I fall, exactly what I thought was gonna happen.

<v Speaker 5>Come on, Kay, Thank you for the call. Thank you

<v Speaker 5>to everybody who called in today.

<v Speaker 2>To texted, texted, I mean overwhelmingly on the text line,

<v Speaker 2>as you did the right thing, trust your gut, and

<v Speaker 2>I agree.

<v Speaker 5>I think that was crazy. I did. I uh, I

<v Speaker 5>was just goofing for the radio. Oh yeah, it was

<v Speaker 5>I think you did the right thing.

<v Speaker 2>That's kind of weird thing to do. Yeah, does he

<v Speaker 2>have extra clothes? Super shady? And once you got a

<v Speaker 2>guy in your house, like people said, you you have

<v Speaker 2>the last word.

<v Speaker 5>But sometimes you can't get him out of your house,

<v Speaker 5>you know.

<v Speaker 3>And not only that, but because of the fact that

<v Speaker 3>this had happened before with this individual, like we had

<v Speaker 3>a history before, I was already hesitant. I was already

<v Speaker 3>second guessing myself, like, do you want to go back

<v Speaker 3>into your past and try something you already did? Like

<v Speaker 3>me trying to justify that already.

<v Speaker 5>Yeah, was hard.

<v Speaker 4>So then when he asked a shower at my ass,

<v Speaker 4>do the right thing?

<v Speaker 6>Oh me?

<v Speaker 4>Never mind?

<v Speaker 5>Two things.

<v Speaker 2>I absolutely love all your dating stories because man, I

<v Speaker 2>just have no idea. I haven't been out in the

<v Speaker 2>dating world in twenty four years, So thank you.

<v Speaker 4>You don't want to be out here.

<v Speaker 5>Thank you for all the success pool.

<v Speaker 2>Juicy stories, and please keep sharing them on the air.

<v Speaker 5>I'm going to the second thing. Does this mean I

<v Speaker 5>can't share it at your house anymore?

<v Speaker 4>I mean, no, stop asking that.

<v Speaker 5>Oh man, Katie, I fall in.

<v Speaker 4>Please come help me, Chare grab your own towel.

<v Speaker 5>Hey, thanks agetting everybody that called in and texted in.

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