<v Speaker 1>Jeremy, Katy and Josh in the Morning Nick Fix one hundred.

<v Speaker 2>Here's how this works. We take a message that has

<v Speaker 2>come in on our social sites Jeremy, Katy, Josh on

<v Speaker 2>Facebook and Instagram. You guys write us about what's going

<v Speaker 2>on in your life, and if we think it's juicy enough,

<v Speaker 2>we will take that message and read it on the

<v Speaker 2>air and then open up the phone lines for our

<v Speaker 2>listeners to sound off. On show.

<v Speaker 3>Wants to know, Katie, what you got over to A Yeah, well,

<v Speaker 3>I have a message from Denise. She says, Hi, Show people,

<v Speaker 3>I need your advice because I've gotten myself into a

<v Speaker 3>messy situation. My sister Danielle just broke up with her

<v Speaker 3>boyfriend of four years, and I mean recently, like only

<v Speaker 3>a couple months ago. They broke up. I have to admit, well,

<v Speaker 3>they were still together. Denise says that she and he

<v Speaker 3>used to text a little on the side. She said

<v Speaker 3>it was flirty at times, but nothing ever actually happened.

<v Speaker 3>She says. I know that doesn't look great, No it doesn't.

<v Speaker 3>Denise wonder what they were said, She says, but you look.

<v Speaker 2>You looks cute at Christmas. No, you looked cute at Thanksgiving.

<v Speaker 3>Anything to your sister's boyfriend is a little all right,

<v Speaker 3>so far, so good, so but she says, now that

<v Speaker 3>they've broken up, he and I have been talking a

<v Speaker 3>lot more, and I can't deny that I'm really interested now.

<v Speaker 3>Danielle has no idea about any of this. My mom does, though,

<v Speaker 3>Uh oh, I let it flip one said I had

<v Speaker 3>feelings for him, and she immediately told me absolutely stay

<v Speaker 3>away because it would destroy the family. Mom knows best.

<v Speaker 3>I mean, that's a good solid advice for mom there,

<v Speaker 3>but she says, I'm stuck. Do I honor the sister

<v Speaker 3>code and drop it? Is that even a thing anymore?

<v Speaker 3>Or do I go for it and maybe end up

<v Speaker 3>with a great guy that just didn't hit it off

<v Speaker 3>with the cis. Do you think this could possibly affect

<v Speaker 3>my relationship with my sister? Give me your thoughts and

<v Speaker 3>feel free to open it up to Denver I changed

<v Speaker 3>our names anyway. Thanks JKJ love.

<v Speaker 2>Oh sweet Denise, thank you for sharing what's going on

<v Speaker 2>in your life. All right, guys, you heard the dilemma.

<v Speaker 2>Denise's thinking about going after sister's ex boyfriend. How long

<v Speaker 2>were they together? Four years? Four years till now? What

<v Speaker 2>did you just say? Holy Toledo, if you want to

<v Speaker 2>sound off, three oh three six nine one one mix

<v Speaker 2>three oh three six nine one sixteen forty nine. Now

<v Speaker 2>I mean it. They didn't work out, they broke up. Yeah,

<v Speaker 2>they went splitsville. It's over. So what's the big deal?

<v Speaker 2>Is this sister code a real thing? Do you know

<v Speaker 2>anything about a sister code?

<v Speaker 3>I would never date one of my sister's exes. But

<v Speaker 3>I mean, and I'm not. I mean, I'm close to

<v Speaker 3>my family, but they live so far away, so it's

<v Speaker 3>one of those we talk a couple times a month

<v Speaker 3>and it's like no time has passed. But this is

<v Speaker 3>an ingrained rule in my family. I would never I

<v Speaker 3>have liked day one of my sister's exes.

<v Speaker 2>Isn't it just weird?

<v Speaker 1>Like I have two brothers and I would never do

<v Speaker 1>this either, I don't think, because like you date for

<v Speaker 1>four years, Like I don't want to kiss the same

<v Speaker 1>person that my brother kissed.

<v Speaker 2>That to me, that's like the weirdest part. I couldn't.

<v Speaker 1>Like, you're kissing your girlfriend and you have like images

<v Speaker 1>of your brother. That's not a good thing. You don't

<v Speaker 1>want that.

<v Speaker 4>I know.

<v Speaker 1>That's well I'm being very pg that you don't want

<v Speaker 1>that at all. That's not good.

<v Speaker 2>Well, but haven't you dated like friends exes? No, I

<v Speaker 2>feel like Josh was with him, absolutely No, where's the code? No?

<v Speaker 2>All right, call in well, people were calling and then

<v Speaker 2>hanging up. Josh is gonna run in the other room

<v Speaker 2>and get these calls? Three oh three six nine one

<v Speaker 2>one mix three oh three six nine one sixteen forty nine.

<v Speaker 2>What's the code that you just don't d code? That's

<v Speaker 2>literal broke, I mean.

<v Speaker 3>And also I think that there's a side of this

<v Speaker 3>that we're not looking at, and that is the guy's perspective.

<v Speaker 3>I'm sure that's some kind of dream fantasy for him

<v Speaker 3>to want to be with two sisters, right, like anybody

<v Speaker 3>with the eye.

<v Speaker 2>That's a movie.

<v Speaker 1>That's like when you say, like, guys, imagine girls pillow

<v Speaker 1>fighting in sleeper, we don't.

<v Speaker 2>It's some movie thing you guys don't picture that, you know.

<v Speaker 3>See, I've always thought that. I've always thought that guys

<v Speaker 3>wanted to get with like a mom and a daughter

<v Speaker 3>or a sister, and never no, you've never thought of that.

<v Speaker 2>But Josh and I are two very level headed men here.

<v Speaker 2>I mean I'm sure it's going on somewhere else. You're right, absolutely, No,

<v Speaker 2>I've never thought.

<v Speaker 3>About Okay, that's kind of crazy.

<v Speaker 2>But if you are going to date somebody, at least

<v Speaker 2>they were with you know, your sister, and you kind

<v Speaker 2>of know the history then, and you know, you know,

<v Speaker 2>it's just your sister, right, It's not like it was

<v Speaker 2>a Rando friend or you know, somebody else that you

<v Speaker 2>knew from college or whatever. It's just just your sister,

<v Speaker 2>you know.

<v Speaker 3>But that's something you just don't want to share. You know.

<v Speaker 3>You share hair brushes, you even share bras at some

<v Speaker 3>point sometimes, but you don't share boyfriends. That's something you

<v Speaker 3>got to draw the line there.

<v Speaker 2>What do you think Denise should do? Should she go

<v Speaker 2>after this guy that her sister was with for four years?

<v Speaker 2>Didn't work out, they broke up, so she's moving on,

<v Speaker 2>he's moving on. Should she go for him? Three oh

<v Speaker 2>three six nine one one mix three oh three six

<v Speaker 2>nine one sixteen forty nine. Here's Misty, I Missy.

<v Speaker 5>You don't.

<v Speaker 2>Misty. We can't hear you. Are you on a speakerphone?

<v Speaker 6>No?

<v Speaker 7>I'm here.

<v Speaker 5>Can you hear me?

<v Speaker 2>Yes, now, loud and clear. What are your thoughts? On this.

<v Speaker 7>Absolutely not. No, it's a giant no o.

<v Speaker 2>Why it could be her soul?

<v Speaker 8>Me?

<v Speaker 7>No, absolutely not. That is breaking girl code, sister code,

<v Speaker 7>best friend code. That's absolutely not all the codes. It's

<v Speaker 7>not okay, yes, it's breaking all codes.

<v Speaker 9>That is not what we do.

<v Speaker 3>Ever, But it did she came on her?

<v Speaker 2>Why what it just didn't work out between those two?

<v Speaker 2>What if this is what was meant to be was

<v Speaker 2>her and this guy? What's the big deal?

<v Speaker 7>It's a big deal.

<v Speaker 4>Just like you said, you don't.

<v Speaker 7>Want to envision kissing your brother or kissing your sister

<v Speaker 7>when you're kissing your new part.

<v Speaker 2>True, you know how quickly that would wear off? I

<v Speaker 2>mean that might happen the first two or three times

<v Speaker 2>six months in Misty, you're not even gonna think about that.

<v Speaker 7>Absolutely not, absolutely not.

<v Speaker 4>It's a hard no, hard.

<v Speaker 2>No as hard pass, says Misty. Geez, Missy, you're not

<v Speaker 2>very adventurous.

<v Speaker 3>Sorry, well, Missy, don't you think also, that would totally

<v Speaker 3>just break the trust between those sisters. You would not

<v Speaker 3>be able to trust anything she says from that point on,

<v Speaker 3>because you would just start thinking, like like the whole

<v Speaker 3>time you were together, you would question her motives, like

<v Speaker 3>were you looking at him then, you know like she was.

<v Speaker 2>I mean, yeah, what if she has a conversation with

<v Speaker 2>the sister though, and the sister gives her a green light.

<v Speaker 2>Nobody has yet to say, you just have a conversation

<v Speaker 2>with the sister.

<v Speaker 7>I still think that there would be a trust issue

<v Speaker 7>because just like you said, like, I mean, what were

<v Speaker 7>you thinking when we were having family dinner, or what

<v Speaker 7>about when we were at Christmas? Or you know, I mean,

<v Speaker 7>were you like checking him out? No?

<v Speaker 2>Not, okay, I will say, I don't like the talk

<v Speaker 2>about sending him flirty messages. Yeah, that's already doing that

<v Speaker 2>to me.

<v Speaker 6>Yeah.

<v Speaker 7>I think that that is just completely uncalled for and

<v Speaker 7>the sister should be ashamed of herself. And you know,

<v Speaker 7>I mean even if she wants to talk to her

<v Speaker 7>sister about it. If it were me, again, I don't

<v Speaker 7>have siblings, I would be so upset.

<v Speaker 4>I would be like, are you kidding me?

<v Speaker 7>I'm confiding in you as my sister, we have this

<v Speaker 7>bond and you're flirting with my boyfriend behind my back now?

<v Speaker 2>Or would she be happy and say, you know what,

<v Speaker 2>he was a great guy with me for four years.

<v Speaker 2>You just didn't work out. We just didn't click. I'm

<v Speaker 2>happy that you two found each other. This is a

<v Speaker 2>glass half full moment.

<v Speaker 3>No not I you know what.

<v Speaker 2>He was a great guy, and you know, I just

<v Speaker 2>have at it. You have a sister, you know she's

<v Speaker 2>going to be like that.

<v Speaker 3>You know he was the best boyfriend. I want you

<v Speaker 3>to have some too.

<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that's not break me off a piece of that.

<v Speaker 2>Sharing is not caring. All you guys are crazy. You're crazy.

<v Speaker 7>Haring is not caring.

<v Speaker 4>You're right, You're round.

<v Speaker 2>Not this time, nicety. Thank you for calling in. You

<v Speaker 2>have a great tuesday.

<v Speaker 10>You as well.

<v Speaker 7>Thank you.

<v Speaker 2>Thank you. Guy, quick recap if you want to call

<v Speaker 2>in and I'll talk to Laila here. Denise wrote in

<v Speaker 2>her sister was with a guy for four years. They

<v Speaker 2>broke up, didn't work out, and Denise is like, you

<v Speaker 2>know what, I I kind of have the feels for

<v Speaker 2>this guy. Is it all right now? If I move

<v Speaker 2>in and make a move on him and go out

<v Speaker 2>with him? What do you guys think? Three O three

<v Speaker 2>six nine mix three oh three six nine one sixteen

<v Speaker 2>forty nine. Here's Laila, Hi, Layla.

<v Speaker 10>Hi, guys, are you guys well?

<v Speaker 2>We're super dupes what do you think Denise should do?

<v Speaker 6>Miss me?

<v Speaker 10>Did we think I was going to say, you guys

<v Speaker 10>miss me from last week?

<v Speaker 1>Of course we did, yes apparently, Yes, Yes, she had

<v Speaker 1>a very memorable call last week.

<v Speaker 2>That's all right, What do you want to say?

<v Speaker 6>This is so wrong.

<v Speaker 10>I believe she should know they cannot be together. That's

<v Speaker 10>absolutely wrong in so many levels. And you guys are

<v Speaker 10>trying to find the reasons why they could accept. But

<v Speaker 10>just think if was you guys's brother hanging I will

<v Speaker 10>want to hang out the way to your ex girlfriend.

<v Speaker 10>Would that be okay?

<v Speaker 3>No?

<v Speaker 10>Yes?

<v Speaker 3>No?

<v Speaker 2>Why is my brother? It didn't work out, you know,

<v Speaker 2>and I would probably have a talk with him. Hey,

<v Speaker 2>you know, I am sorry I didn't work out with you, guys,

<v Speaker 2>but I've always felt a connection there. I feel like

<v Speaker 2>there's something there. Do you care if I date her?

<v Speaker 10>No? I know that's wrong. That's wrong. You were saying

<v Speaker 10>that just because it's not happening with you.

<v Speaker 2>No, I'd be all over once.

<v Speaker 10>You were in that situation.

<v Speaker 2>You were not on a thing like that, from what

<v Speaker 2>I from when I hear it, it's slim pickens out there.

<v Speaker 2>So you got to take what you can get from

<v Speaker 2>what I hear from Katie.

<v Speaker 3>No, but that's the thing. There's seven billion people on

<v Speaker 3>this planet, so you should be able to find someone

<v Speaker 3>outside of your family.

<v Speaker 2>Maybe that was the universe just presenting this guy in

<v Speaker 2>that moment, like this is your one of the billions

<v Speaker 2>of people.

<v Speaker 3>I'm not saying it hasn't happened. It's definitely happened.

<v Speaker 2>And you already know him, you know his backstory, He's

<v Speaker 2>been around you know, you know what you're getting. This

<v Speaker 2>is gonna be It's like buying a used vehicle. What's

<v Speaker 2>the big deal.

<v Speaker 3>This is gonna mess with your family dynamic for sure.

<v Speaker 2>He's just like a used Forerunner, is what he is.

<v Speaker 3>Toddler threw up in the back and had a complete

<v Speaker 3>accident in the backseat. That's the difference here.

<v Speaker 2>But you know, you know it's been cleaned up and

<v Speaker 2>it's been well taken care for, care of and yeah

<v Speaker 2>it's fine. I'm putting, you know, with Misty hard No. Yes,

<v Speaker 2>thank you for calling. You have a great day. It

<v Speaker 2>was very nice talking to you. Here is Rachel. Hi,

<v Speaker 2>Rachel Hi. Hey, My note says he is scummy on

<v Speaker 2>the screen.

<v Speaker 6>Yeah, so if he was sending thirty text to her

<v Speaker 6>while dat while he was dating Denise's sister. What's he

<v Speaker 6>gonna do with the sister while dating Denises? Because you're

<v Speaker 6>more likely to cheat with an X than anybody else.

<v Speaker 6>And he wants and she wants to create all that

<v Speaker 6>opportunity for temptation, And like, why would you do that

<v Speaker 6>to yourself?

<v Speaker 2>You think this is gonna be like a game of

<v Speaker 2>pickleball here, He's just gonna go back back and forth.

<v Speaker 3>I've seen this on Jerry Springer many times, Like.

<v Speaker 6>I mean, it may not be an immediate, you know thing,

<v Speaker 6>but it's that temptation factor. Okay, you know, why would

<v Speaker 6>you why would you create that situation?

<v Speaker 10>Wait?

<v Speaker 6>Where that's a temptation and that's a factor and something

<v Speaker 6>to be worried about.

<v Speaker 2>I see what you're saying with this. Yeah, and Rachel

<v Speaker 2>making about it.

<v Speaker 3>He also has a comparison, right, Like he's going to

<v Speaker 3>take these two women and compare them against twenty one another.

<v Speaker 3>And I mean that's just I just don't like the

<v Speaker 3>whole thing.

<v Speaker 2>Well yeah, yeah, you guys been making this so like smarmy.

<v Speaker 2>He could just say, you know, I had my time

<v Speaker 2>with your sister. She was a lovely woman. It didn't

<v Speaker 2>work out with us. My eye has always been for you,

<v Speaker 2>and they could get married and live happily ever after

<v Speaker 2>for the next forty years.

<v Speaker 3>What is he a family heirloom?

<v Speaker 2>It's gonna pass a fairy tale.

<v Speaker 6>If he dated if he dated the sister a few months,

<v Speaker 6>four years ago, I'd be like, Okay, cool, what you know? Yeah,

<v Speaker 6>I go for it. But he dated her sister for

<v Speaker 6>years and they haven't been broken up very long. All right,

<v Speaker 6>that's way too much residual everything going on, visual booty,

<v Speaker 6>too much, too much temptation, and too much everything.

<v Speaker 2>Netflix for sure. All right, I'm putting you down for

<v Speaker 2>no Rachel hard past. Thank you for thank you for

<v Speaker 2>calling in and voicing your opinion. You're very wise. Have

<v Speaker 2>a good DAYE here is V hi V.

<v Speaker 8>Good morning, guys.

<v Speaker 2>Good morning. What should Denise do?

<v Speaker 8>So I have a little bit of a weird situation.

<v Speaker 8>You can put me down as a.

<v Speaker 10>Investigated maybe.

<v Speaker 6>Yeah.

<v Speaker 8>So my dad actually dated both of my aunts.

<v Speaker 5>With them.

<v Speaker 8>So one of my aunts actually dated all three brothers

<v Speaker 8>and married the oldest one. My other aunt dated my

<v Speaker 8>dad and a middle brother and married a middle brother.

<v Speaker 8>And my mom is the only one that would not

<v Speaker 8>cast like the hot potato, but it made for very

<v Speaker 8>interesting holiday conversations from time to time.

<v Speaker 2>I've pat yeah, this is, this is, this is some

<v Speaker 2>springer stuff for sure.

<v Speaker 3>Are you from a small town, but.

<v Speaker 8>Well my parents were actually yeah, yeah, graduating class with

<v Speaker 8>thirty people.

<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I'm from a small town too. And this is

<v Speaker 3>a lot more common where families date, you know, all

<v Speaker 3>three brothers. Apparently there's not a lot of options. So

<v Speaker 3>that's where you do go through the family tree while

<v Speaker 3>I've been to this branch, or maybe hop over to

<v Speaker 3>this branch.

<v Speaker 2>But it worked out right, like she ended up with

<v Speaker 2>the third brother and got married and moved on right, right.

<v Speaker 8>Right, and and they all live until both my elbows

<v Speaker 8>passed the way and they were married. And my parents

<v Speaker 8>have been married for sixty years. But when I suggest

<v Speaker 8>to your caller your writer in is if he was already

<v Speaker 8>flirty texting her while he was dating a sister, there

<v Speaker 8>is kind of a red flag because he could do

<v Speaker 8>the same thing there her. You know, it's the name,

<v Speaker 8>once a theater, always a cheater. But maybe she should

<v Speaker 8>sit down and have a conversation with his sister and

<v Speaker 8>not say that she's in texting him. But have a

<v Speaker 8>heart to heart with her of Hey, what happened?

<v Speaker 10>You know?

<v Speaker 8>Why didn't you guys really break up? What happened?

<v Speaker 10>You know?

<v Speaker 8>Because maybe it's something messy that she didn't want to

<v Speaker 8>be involved with, like maybe he was just really bad

<v Speaker 8>with finances and.

<v Speaker 2>The all very very great points. We appreciate you calling in.

<v Speaker 2>I'm putting her down as a maybe this is our

<v Speaker 2>first maybe, but yeah, I went through three brothers and

<v Speaker 2>finally married the oldest one. V. Thank you so much

<v Speaker 2>for calling in. We're a little short on time. I

<v Speaker 2>got to get to Bree, Hannah and Emily really quick.

<v Speaker 2>Here's Brie Hibree. Hi, guys, hey, so really quick. What's

<v Speaker 2>your advice for Denise?

<v Speaker 6>Absolutely not?

<v Speaker 4>Four years is way too long. If I was a sister,

<v Speaker 4>I'd be like expecting a ring at that point. And

<v Speaker 4>now we're breaking up when you want to date my sister?

<v Speaker 3>Yeah right, four years is like longer than some people's

<v Speaker 3>marriage is like time.

<v Speaker 2>Why is nobody saying that she would be happy for

<v Speaker 2>Denise though her sister that she found this guy.

<v Speaker 4>You're in a delusional world, Thank you.

<v Speaker 2>Why you guys are just painting this guy is a

<v Speaker 2>bad guy and the sister is like freaking out. What

<v Speaker 2>if she is genuinely happy?

<v Speaker 4>He can no, no, he can find someone else. You

<v Speaker 4>don't need to stay in her fan.

<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

<v Speaker 2>And he like the parents. He likes the parents, the

<v Speaker 2>rest of the family. They've had holidays together. He is

<v Speaker 2>reaching everybody knows everybody. He's a great guy. He loves animals.

<v Speaker 1>You know what.

<v Speaker 2>He's muscular. You know why, Bree, because the mom wants him.

<v Speaker 2>Now you're on board.

<v Speaker 3>He needs to go in the corner and I'm out.

<v Speaker 2>I love you to pieces, thank you for giving me crapy.

<v Speaker 3>Whatever, solid points.

<v Speaker 2>So she does, Hannah Banana.

<v Speaker 5>Hey, I'm zoning off with everyone else on the no train.

<v Speaker 5>I just have to ask, like, if he was texting

<v Speaker 5>Denise uh while he was still with the sister, how

<v Speaker 5>many women is he dating on Instagram or tech talks?

<v Speaker 2>Right, A good point, Well, how many people was the

<v Speaker 2>sister texting and flirting around with? Maybe that's why they

<v Speaker 2>broke up trying just Hannah, you know, with all sorts

<v Speaker 2>of people.

<v Speaker 3>We know that that's not in the know. Now you

<v Speaker 3>guys are making stuff up. We know that this man

<v Speaker 3>was texting someone outside of his relationship when he was

<v Speaker 3>in it, but it was just a sister about the nieces.

<v Speaker 2>He was like, Hey, what does your sister want for Christmas?

<v Speaker 2>And that's not what he's actually that red dress on

<v Speaker 2>Christmas because you look pretty in it.

<v Speaker 3>Flirtatious messages were sent like it's.

<v Speaker 2>Within the family. It was within the family.

<v Speaker 3>No, no, not okay, not okay.

<v Speaker 2>So Devil's advocates in Hannah, thank you for calling and

<v Speaker 2>making a smile, see you later.

<v Speaker 10>Thanks, by bye.

<v Speaker 2>All right, here's Emily. Emily, you get the final word

<v Speaker 2>on this.

<v Speaker 10>Okay.

<v Speaker 9>Well, first of all, I agree with everyone who said

<v Speaker 9>that how can you trust someone who's already texting outside

<v Speaker 9>the relationships flagaciously? But my take is, wait a year,

<v Speaker 9>don't text each other, don't talk to each other, don't

<v Speaker 9>have any contact. Wait a year, and if you both

<v Speaker 9>still feel the same way, then talk to the sister.

<v Speaker 9>But and give the sister a chance to heal, like

<v Speaker 9>it would be so unfairfair the Yeah, the sister said, hey, uh,

<v Speaker 9>I'm gonna date your ex boyfriend that you just broke

<v Speaker 9>up with the four years ow.

<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, you're right, But if she goes that's fine.

<v Speaker 2>You can have didn't work out. I wish you guys

<v Speaker 2>the best.

<v Speaker 9>I doubt it. Yeah, I know I doubt it. If

<v Speaker 9>she dies, I think that's a big yeah. I think

<v Speaker 9>I think that's a big no. And like I said, if, if,

<v Speaker 9>if it really is meant to be, wait a year,

<v Speaker 9>Let the sister have a chance to heal. No contact,

<v Speaker 9>no texting. If you don't feel the same way, go

<v Speaker 9>for it.

<v Speaker 2>So am I putting you in the maybe camp. You're

<v Speaker 2>kind of maybe, you're like, give it a year. No

<v Speaker 2>right now, but maybe later.

<v Speaker 9>Yeah, but not no, don't even tell the sister that

<v Speaker 9>y'all were texting. That is like, oh, I have five sisters,

<v Speaker 9>so that is way way against the sister code.

<v Speaker 3>Absolutely, sister code.

<v Speaker 2>Dan, We've got a sister expert right here on the line. Emily,

<v Speaker 2>I like you. You can call you can call us

<v Speaker 2>whenever you want. You're spunky, all.

<v Speaker 9>Right, Well, thank you so much, y'all.

<v Speaker 2>Flawless, flawless. Thank you for calling.

<v Speaker 9>Emily every single day, well except for Saturday and Sunday.

<v Speaker 2>Hey listen, we got to rest sometime. Emily. She's a

<v Speaker 2>look all right, Emily, you have a good day. Thank you,

<v Speaker 2>bye bye bye. Ah. She's so sweet.

<v Speaker 3>She made such a good point though, because I think

<v Speaker 3>also part of the draw between these two is because

<v Speaker 3>they're not supposed to. If you give it a year,

<v Speaker 3>you'll see if there's actually an attraction or if you're

<v Speaker 3>just doing it because it's naughty.

<v Speaker 2>Right, so you're okay.

<v Speaker 3>I liked that idea of wait, that's gonna help. Time

<v Speaker 3>heals everything, Jeremy, So is it okay in a year,

<v Speaker 3>because then you do give the sister time to heal.

<v Speaker 3>You do have time where you can have that conversation

<v Speaker 3>the same guy. I still think, like you are you.

<v Speaker 2>I want him to go for it, and I want

<v Speaker 2>him to fall in love.

<v Speaker 3>You are flirting with disaster just to even approach it.

<v Speaker 3>But if you're going to the advice I liked the

<v Speaker 3>best as Emily's of wait a year and see if

<v Speaker 3>that attraction is still there.

<v Speaker 2>Well, we had five hard nose and then two maybes

<v Speaker 2>in there. So for Denise, the listeners have sounded off, no,

<v Speaker 2>don't do it, don't do it, oh and then one

<v Speaker 2>yes from me. I say yes, Smash, I say yes,

<v Speaker 2>Smash Your will change my mind, smash away. Yes, it's smashtastic.

<v Speaker 9>There you go.

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