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<v Speaker 1>into this video. We are still in quarantine, ladies. Don't

<v Speaker 1>let your loneliness get to you. I'm going to break

<v Speaker 1>down the types of men that you guys should be avoiding.

<v Speaker 1>This is in no particular order, but let's start with

<v Speaker 1>number one. Late night Lance. Yes, always calling at dark

<v Speaker 1>thirty because he knows that you are going to pick up.

<v Speaker 1>We are more vulnerable at night. I mean seriously, that's why.

<v Speaker 1>What did they say? Sometimes the best conversations do happen

<v Speaker 1>at night, but for the most part, it's usually some

<v Speaker 1>sort of hotline. If you will right, things get more

<v Speaker 1>steamy easily at night. Our guards down, we're disarmed. Half

<v Speaker 1>of us are in bed. No, make a pimple cream

<v Speaker 1>on who knows which is more vulnerable? And then you

<v Speaker 1>have Lance texting you yo you up? Hey? Yeah, it's

<v Speaker 1>a can't sleep. That's crazy because you know I was

<v Speaker 1>saying about you all day, but oh no, I just

<v Speaker 1>I don't want to go to sleep and not say

<v Speaker 1>this up. And then here you go suck back down

<v Speaker 1>the drain again. Oh my god, I can't leave. He's

<v Speaker 1>thinking about me. It's such a it's this hour and

<v Speaker 1>like girl, stop stay away from late night lamb. He's

<v Speaker 1>taking advantage of the fact that he knows you're going

<v Speaker 1>to answer him. He knows you're more vulnerable. Okay, it's

<v Speaker 1>dark thirty no more with that. Next we have chaos

<v Speaker 1>and confusion. Chris does boyfriend thanks for you, but refuses

<v Speaker 1>to make you his girlfriend. But you're upset because you

<v Speaker 1>are always feeling uncomfortable to bring things up because you

<v Speaker 1>know you're not his girlfriend yet. He says he's not ready,

<v Speaker 1>but he doesn't want to lose you at the same time,

<v Speaker 1>aka manipulating you, keeping a hold on you while not

<v Speaker 1>wanting to commit. In this type of dynamic, all you're

<v Speaker 1>going to feel is confused with this person, and that

<v Speaker 1>within itself is an answer. Ladies can't communicate Corey. It's

<v Speaker 1>literally like talking to a wall with this guy. I mean,

<v Speaker 1>emotionally unavailable is not even the word. You can't get

<v Speaker 1>anything out of this guy. He dodges every conversation and

<v Speaker 1>he has mastered the art of being very vague. All

<v Speaker 1>of his answers are seemingly just enough to answer your question.

<v Speaker 1>But then once he's done talking to you, and snakes

<v Speaker 1>his way out of the conversation. You feel emptier than

<v Speaker 1>you did when you came, because I mean at least

<v Speaker 1>when you were going to address whatever you were going

<v Speaker 1>to address with him. At first you had a strong standpoint,

<v Speaker 1>but then he opened his mouth and you're just even

<v Speaker 1>more confused. And what does this do? This type of

<v Speaker 1>dynamic makes you work harder because whatever you chase runs,

<v Speaker 1>and in that type of dynamic, you're going to find

<v Speaker 1>yourself very tired and emotionally bankrupt by time he's done

<v Speaker 1>with you and disposes of you, because you are working

<v Speaker 1>to get something out of this man. Now, the issue

<v Speaker 1>with this type of individual is he doesn't see an

<v Speaker 1>issue with his behavior or his communication style. And why

<v Speaker 1>is that a problem? Because you can't change what you're

<v Speaker 1>not acknowledging. If you don't think there's an issue, it's

<v Speaker 1>not going to get solved. And then we have don't

<v Speaker 1>define anything, Devin, Oh, how many of us have been

<v Speaker 1>in a situation with this guy? And I say a

<v Speaker 1>situation because it's never a relationship. This guy is how

<v Speaker 1>to get into a situationship one oh one. In this

<v Speaker 1>type of dynamic, there's no red tape. There's no defining term,

<v Speaker 1>and what does that allow? What does that enable? That

<v Speaker 1>means no accountability all at the grand expense of your feelings.

<v Speaker 1>Stay away from guys that refuse to define anything. When

<v Speaker 1>you don't have a definition for something, it is a

<v Speaker 1>breeding ground for deceits and lies in any sort of dynamic.

<v Speaker 1>This even goes with friendships. Oh, I don't really know

<v Speaker 1>if that puts it my friend or not, but like

<v Speaker 1>you know, like sometimes you're like a friend of me

<v Speaker 1>to me, Like, no, no such thing. In relationships and relationally,

<v Speaker 1>certain things are black and white when it comes to

<v Speaker 1>defining things. Are we friends yes or no? That's it?

<v Speaker 1>There's no sometimes no. Are we together? Yes or no?

<v Speaker 1>That is it? Are you interested? Yes or no? Okay,

<v Speaker 1>to what degree? Let me know? Are we on the

<v Speaker 1>same page? These all require answers. When you are with

<v Speaker 1>someone who refuses to define anything, you were going to

<v Speaker 1>run into a plethora of and this again will leave

<v Speaker 1>you emotionally bankrupt. Because I'm gonna tell you how this

<v Speaker 1>is gonna go, Babe. You're gonna get frustrated. You're going

<v Speaker 1>to be upset that you even let yourself get that

<v Speaker 1>deep into it without defining anything. Because you think, okay, well,

<v Speaker 1>first month in oh, I don't want to rush him,

<v Speaker 1>but I do like him, And of course a month

<v Speaker 1>goes in you feel like the vibes are aligned. You

<v Speaker 1>guys are vibing on the same frequency, and then lo

<v Speaker 1>and behold, you turn around. Six months has gone by

<v Speaker 1>and you're still not this guy's girlfriend. And I don't

<v Speaker 1>know why it yeelds to us or it seems like

<v Speaker 1>guys have mastered the art of being consistent enough to

<v Speaker 1>hold us where we are, and then one day they

<v Speaker 1>drop the ball because they can't keep the act up anymore,

<v Speaker 1>and they naturally go find someone new and they feel

<v Speaker 1>like they have you in a good enough position, which

<v Speaker 1>they do actually, because now your emotions are at state

<v Speaker 1>where they can do whatever they want kind of and

<v Speaker 1>get away with it while still potentially keeping you there.

<v Speaker 1>It's not as high of a risk when you have

<v Speaker 1>someone that refuses to define something with you. Don't try

<v Speaker 1>to force someone to be in anything with you. They're

<v Speaker 1>either going to want to or not once they are

<v Speaker 1>addressed with the question, Hey, like, I'm just wondering, like,

<v Speaker 1>what are we Whatever the case is, however you do it,

<v Speaker 1>however it comes about and they want to give you

<v Speaker 1>the you know, I don't really believe in titles. I

<v Speaker 1>feel like, let's just kind of see where things go

<v Speaker 1>and keep things where they are because I feel like

<v Speaker 1>we're fine, like we're good with where we are. And

<v Speaker 1>I just feel like sometimes when you put titles on things,

<v Speaker 1>it just for some reason, it just really messes things up. Yeah, okay,

<v Speaker 1>these are the same types of guys that don't want

<v Speaker 1>to get married because it's a piece of paper. No,

<v Speaker 1>it's a vow to God. You get a literal certificate

<v Speaker 1>for it by the state. It is a very serious thing.

<v Speaker 1>It is a vow. And if you are a human

<v Speaker 1>being with some sort of moral integrity or understanding, even

<v Speaker 1>if you do not want to get married, you have

<v Speaker 1>that understanding even though you may not partake. That is

<v Speaker 1>not for you to minimize the significance of a marriage

<v Speaker 1>license and getting married. I even wonder people that have

<v Speaker 1>commitment issues have commitment issues in many different areas, and

<v Speaker 1>be careful because it may not be in the areas

<v Speaker 1>that you guys assume you will think, Oh, super successful guy,

<v Speaker 1>I mean has to be committed to something. He does

<v Speaker 1>make it pretty decent living for himself. But then these

<v Speaker 1>people are inconsistent in their own personal goals. Some people

<v Speaker 1>just happen to be really good at making money, but

<v Speaker 1>in otherwise they could have maybe wait issues that they

<v Speaker 1>are very inconsistent with, and that is something that they

<v Speaker 1>are not broadcasting, but it's very real to them. They

<v Speaker 1>could be inconsistent in so many different variables and so

<v Speaker 1>many different things in their life. Sometimes it's just so

<v Speaker 1>easy to look at an individual's success and sort of

<v Speaker 1>assume that they have it all together. Next we have

<v Speaker 1>playing or player Peter and understand this. People that are

<v Speaker 1>not of value or do not consider themselves of value,

<v Speaker 1>will never understand your value. It's just not possible because

<v Speaker 1>if you don't value anything. It's just like some people

<v Speaker 1>like the idea of nice things, but they don't know

<v Speaker 1>how to handle it, so they mistreat it, they misuse it,

<v Speaker 1>they lose it because they can't handle what it is

<v Speaker 1>that they thought that they wanted. When it comes to players,

<v Speaker 1>it is impossible to get to know them on a

<v Speaker 1>deeper level. They're not even connected with themselves. Nine times

<v Speaker 1>out of ten, people that our players are going through

<v Speaker 1>hopefully a phase, and some men that are still doing

<v Speaker 1>this into their fifties and even forties and up. That

<v Speaker 1>tells you a lot about that person. I don't know

<v Speaker 1>what this thing is. Sidebar of guys bragging about being

<v Speaker 1>forty forty five years old and even older. How dare

<v Speaker 1>they on these dating apps talking about never been married,

<v Speaker 1>no kids? It's like, congratulations for literally broadcasting what a

<v Speaker 1>failure you possibly are. There's a disconnect there, Like a

<v Speaker 1>guy even told me this one time, a guy over

<v Speaker 1>thirty five that is literally not married, never been married

<v Speaker 1>or anything. That's a red flag. And I'm talking to

<v Speaker 1>the people that additionally believe in, you know, in marriage too.

<v Speaker 1>What are you doing that is not something to broadcast

<v Speaker 1>that tells me that there is something deficient in you?

<v Speaker 1>And it must be great. Have you been working on

<v Speaker 1>a project for a majority of your life that you

<v Speaker 1>were unable to settle down with one person? I mean literally,

<v Speaker 1>for goodness sake, Mark Zuckerberg was able to literally create

<v Speaker 1>Facebook while simultaneously maintaining having a girlfriend. I don't know

<v Speaker 1>if he's still with her, but probably he is, Like,

<v Speaker 1>I'm sure you can make it work. Aside from never

<v Speaker 1>being able to know these people on a deeper level,

<v Speaker 1>these people don't even stick around long enough to even

<v Speaker 1>open up. They form very artificial relationships with people because

<v Speaker 1>what to form a genuine connection with someone? What do

<v Speaker 1>you have to do? It takes time, It takes relationship building,

<v Speaker 1>which is bonding, and these are things that people that

<v Speaker 1>are emotionally deficient and emotionally unavailable. They are not capable

<v Speaker 1>of doing these types of things. They cannot participate in

<v Speaker 1>that type of party. It is just simply too much

<v Speaker 1>for their little peeni brain. They're not in the headspace,

<v Speaker 1>especially now talking about younger guys, especially you know, late

<v Speaker 1>teens into early twenties or twenties period. Okay, they are

<v Speaker 1>not in the headspace to commit to one person all

<v Speaker 1>the time. So what are they going to do. They're

<v Speaker 1>going to be here, there, everywhere, all around the square

<v Speaker 1>because they don't want to form deeper bonds of people,

<v Speaker 1>because they're not in a space where they're trying to

<v Speaker 1>really uncover themselves. It takes true self work and realization,

<v Speaker 1>and it's a sobering moment to sit with yourself. Stop

<v Speaker 1>numbing yourself in the drugs, in the alcohol, in whatever

<v Speaker 1>your vice is, in the sex, and sit with yourself

<v Speaker 1>and ask yourself, why am I this. I don't want

<v Speaker 1>to run through. You know, these girls that is someone's sister, daughter,

<v Speaker 1>whatever the case is, do you want it to happen

<v Speaker 1>to you? It really just makes you call into question

<v Speaker 1>these people that do these things that hurt people. They

<v Speaker 1>are going through something, So a player that's in his twenties,

<v Speaker 1>more than likely it is a phase and it will

<v Speaker 1>settle out. But you do not want to be in

<v Speaker 1>the crossfire of this type of individual and expect more

<v Speaker 1>out of them than they can give, because right now

<v Speaker 1>they're running from you, and they're running from themselves. Players

<v Speaker 1>are not focused, right They're not focused. They're just onto

<v Speaker 1>the next, on, the next, on the neck. What can

<v Speaker 1>I get today? They're living literally for the day hide

<v Speaker 1>and seek. Harry Okay tells you he hates social media,

<v Speaker 1>refuses to let you put a picture of him. Every

<v Speaker 1>picture that you upload of him always seems to be

<v Speaker 1>blurry because he's always sort of in motion to something else,

<v Speaker 1>because he didn't really want you to take that picture, girl,

<v Speaker 1>He didn't really want to be in it. And every

<v Speaker 1>time you upload him, you are uploading him to close friends.

<v Speaker 1>He won't even let you do it on your regular profile.

<v Speaker 1>Probably doesn't even follow you on Instagram and you think

<v Speaker 1>that this is literally your boyfriend. I see things like

<v Speaker 1>this happen all the time, and I'm not judging, but

<v Speaker 1>I genuinely feel bad for girls that are in situations

<v Speaker 1>like this where it's so obvious what's going on from

<v Speaker 1>the outside looking in. It's like, girl, he's playing you.

<v Speaker 1>He's flipped bopping between you and the real girlfriend or

<v Speaker 1>the other girlfriend. He is playing the both of you.

<v Speaker 1>I don't care what you think he's telling you. He's

<v Speaker 1>either at his baby mother's house or he's at some

<v Speaker 1>other girl's house. Like it's drama. For a reason. There's

<v Speaker 1>a reason why you can't upload a regular picture of

<v Speaker 1>him because he doesn't do social media and he doesn't

<v Speaker 1>like broadcasting his business because he doesn't want people in it.

<v Speaker 1>There really is a difference between an individual who genuinely

<v Speaker 1>just doesn't want to post their partner on social media,

<v Speaker 1>like myself, like I'm very private in that aspect, I

<v Speaker 1>would not post my partner on social media. However, I

<v Speaker 1>know the difference and he would know the difference that

<v Speaker 1>I'm not hiding you. This is just naturally how I am.

<v Speaker 1>I'm a private person. But you can feel intuitively when

<v Speaker 1>that's not really the case, now, is it right, because

<v Speaker 1>you're still uploading it. You're just uploading it to close friends.

<v Speaker 1>Now why is that? And why can't he seem to

<v Speaker 1>sit still long enough for you to get a still

<v Speaker 1>picture of the both of you? Why is it always

<v Speaker 1>him in motion or him looking at a completely like

<v Speaker 1>he's never like there with you, He's never attempted to

<v Speaker 1>take a photo with you. It is always out of course,

<v Speaker 1>some sort of coercion. And for those guys that want

<v Speaker 1>to use that excuse, oh, social media doesn't matter. No,

<v Speaker 1>here's why social media actually does matter. Social media is

<v Speaker 1>a platform where people post their best lives. That's what

<v Speaker 1>you want to show the world, your friends, your family.

<v Speaker 1>So yeah, it actually does matter to a certain degree

<v Speaker 1>because if you don't want to post, or you won't

<v Speaker 1>allow someone to post you that you are in a

<v Speaker 1>legitimate relationship with, we have a problem. And it's not

<v Speaker 1>in Houston. And also it's not Instagram either. Instagram isn't

<v Speaker 1>your problem. It's just that you don't want to be

<v Speaker 1>seen anywhere because you want to hide in the shadows,

<v Speaker 1>because you don't want anyone tracking you and seeing Oh okay,

<v Speaker 1>yesterday she posted a picture in your bathroom. Now, you

<v Speaker 1>don't want this girl to post another photo in your bathroom,

<v Speaker 1>because you know, we have a woman. We're the FBI.

<v Speaker 1>We have FBI and we want to be we put

<v Speaker 1>two and two together. Why is the brick in the

<v Speaker 1>back one of them's green? And I know, I know

<v Speaker 1>that's his place. And she she posted that when I

<v Speaker 1>was just there on Thursday, and she posted this on

<v Speaker 1>Thursday night. I love Thursday morning is And then you

<v Speaker 1>do all this FBI work and it's like you two

<v Speaker 1>are still with him, you three are still with him.

<v Speaker 1>However many of there are you? You're all still with him,

<v Speaker 1>fighting for you know, America's next top model with this guy.

<v Speaker 1>Like I don't know what type of games you guys

<v Speaker 1>are playing, but literally stop, it's ridiculous. Now I'm embarrassed

<v Speaker 1>for you. All is not lost if you literally just

<v Speaker 1>put an end to it now, like an end to

<v Speaker 1>that relationship, that situationship, because it's not a relationship. This

<v Speaker 1>guy does not want to broadcast you for a reason.

<v Speaker 1>Even be careful of being in a controlled environment all

<v Speaker 1>the time where he knows who he's not going to

<v Speaker 1>run into when he sees you. He's always dodging you

<v Speaker 1>all the time. If you dare bring up any of

<v Speaker 1>these sort of things, he's gonna do what ghosts to you,

<v Speaker 1>not speak to you for three days, okay maybe even

<v Speaker 1>a week, make you feel crazy because he's manipulating you

<v Speaker 1>so that you apologize for you being offended that he

<v Speaker 1>won't even post you to begin with, and then it

<v Speaker 1>turns now into you being upset legitimately at something and

<v Speaker 1>him ignoring you to the point of crazy insanity where

<v Speaker 1>you are apologizing for something that you did not even

<v Speaker 1>do when you were the one that was actually offended.

<v Speaker 1>When someone isn't even asking you why you are behaving

<v Speaker 1>a certain way, that is a sign someone that genuinely

<v Speaker 1>cares for you and wants to be with you is

<v Speaker 1>always going to approach a situation from a why. They're

<v Speaker 1>not just going to say you're acting crazy. Honestly, I'm

<v Speaker 1>done with you. If someone loved you and they're in

<v Speaker 1>love with you, they're going to say, why are you

<v Speaker 1>acting like this? You know that I love you. How

<v Speaker 1>can we make this work? It's not going to be

<v Speaker 1>name calling and walking away and I'm so mad at you.

<v Speaker 1>I'm not going to speak to you for a week,

<v Speaker 1>because that just kind of means we're on a break

<v Speaker 1>by default, and like we're not even really on a

<v Speaker 1>break because I'm not even with you, Like it's just

<v Speaker 1>you know what I mean. And lastly, we are going

<v Speaker 1>to about the typical cheating chase. This guy has a girlfriend,

<v Speaker 1>he probably has a baby mother, and he complains to

<v Speaker 1>you about how he's unsatisfied at home and how they're

<v Speaker 1>breaking up, and they live like roommates. They don't even

<v Speaker 1>sleep in the same bed anymore. He like sleeps on

<v Speaker 1>the couch and like they barely even talk. They're just

<v Speaker 1>living together and cohabitating for the baby, or they're just

<v Speaker 1>living together until their leases up. Save it. No man

<v Speaker 1>is living in a home with a woman, and I'm

<v Speaker 1>not saying it's impossible. So calm down, calm down over

<v Speaker 1>there in the comments, settle down now, let me explain

<v Speaker 1>the rest of my point. Thank you. Typically, these guys,

<v Speaker 1>they may be having issues, but they're not going to leave.

<v Speaker 1>Same for even married men, because cheating is cheating all

<v Speaker 1>across the boyd, wife, girlfriend, whatever, because that means that

<v Speaker 1>you were in a commitment where you can be held accountable.

<v Speaker 1>There is a line of red tape that says, is

<v Speaker 1>this person found out that I was doing this, they

<v Speaker 1>wouldn't be too happy. You wouldn't feel any ounce of

<v Speaker 1>guilt or accountability for someone that you're not even with.

<v Speaker 1>It's like ho ho ho, wait on, hold on a second,

<v Speaker 1>I'm like not even with you, so I'm very confused

<v Speaker 1>her and what's going on. You feel more comfortable saying

<v Speaker 1>that as opposed to, Yes, I literally just cheated on

<v Speaker 1>you yesterday because I was bored and I was kind

<v Speaker 1>of upset with you. And this is how I handle

<v Speaker 1>my anger. I literally go and I splurge and I

<v Speaker 1>deep dive into other girls lady parts, because I don't

<v Speaker 1>know how else to deal with my emotions. I mean,

<v Speaker 1>and even then, you kind of you would honestly be

<v Speaker 1>lucky if you even got such an explanation, because not

<v Speaker 1>only is that the truth, but if someone's able to

<v Speaker 1>reveal the truth, it means they're workable, They're a little pliable.

<v Speaker 1>But let's be realistic here, nine times out of ten,

<v Speaker 1>many times out of many, if that even makes sense.

<v Speaker 1>These types of guys that are complaining to you about

<v Speaker 1>their difficult situation with their girlfriend and she knows they're

<v Speaker 1>not together, and she does her own thing too. They

<v Speaker 1>are lying to you. Do not fall for it. Don't

<v Speaker 1>be the type of girl that's dating the guy who's

<v Speaker 1>living with his girlfriend, his baby mother or his wife

<v Speaker 1>and think that you are going to be an exception

<v Speaker 1>to the rule. Your situation is oh so different. It

<v Speaker 1>is not. I can't assure you, because let me tell

<v Speaker 1>you something, sweetheart. If he's going to cheat with you,

<v Speaker 1>he's going to cheat on you. And once you conquer

<v Speaker 1>that individual and you feel like, yes, I knew he

<v Speaker 1>loved me, finally got him to get with me, then

<v Speaker 1>guess what Now that worry that you were a part

<v Speaker 1>of or the other girl is going to become your

<v Speaker 1>main priority and your main concern. You're not going to

<v Speaker 1>sell off into the sunset and never have the fear

<v Speaker 1>that what you were a part of you are exempt from.

<v Speaker 1>So never feel comfortable being in that sort of position.

<v Speaker 1>And a lot of women who tried in their type

<v Speaker 1>is just whatever isn't theirs, whatever doesn't belong to them.

<v Speaker 1>These people have serious issues. They love the idea of

<v Speaker 1>taking from someone as opposed to feeling like they rightfully

<v Speaker 1>earn that individual. Their perception of earning. An individual is

<v Speaker 1>taking something from someone else and that's their type. You

<v Speaker 1>can't build a solid foundation on something like that. It

<v Speaker 1>doesn't work like that. Has it happened? Probably? Of course,

<v Speaker 1>everything is circumstantial, but for the majority, I don't think

<v Speaker 1>anyone would choose to be in a situation like that. So, Angels,

<v Speaker 1>that is the end of this video. I really hope

<v Speaker 1>that you guys have enjoyed it. Let me know in

<v Speaker 1>the comments below, what guy you have encountered out of

<v Speaker 1>all these people that you learned your lesson from and

<v Speaker 1>that you are going to stay away from for the

<v Speaker 1>rest of your life. I want to know in the

<v Speaker 1>comments section below. With that being said, do not forget

<v Speaker 1>that I love you and God loves you, and I'll

<v Speaker 1>see you, beautiful angels in my next video.