<v Speaker 1>Hey, angels, welcome back to my channel. Who has missed me? Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>Let's get right into the video. Stop chasing men. I

<v Speaker 1>know that a lot of us ladies find ourselves in

<v Speaker 1>this position where we don't even realize that we are

<v Speaker 1>chasing the guys that we desire. Guys, if you hear

<v Speaker 1>that in the background, it's literally the rain it's pouring

<v Speaker 1>in New York. I think it's important for us to

<v Speaker 1>take a step back and understand that when we choose

<v Speaker 1>to chase a man, we automatically lose.

<v Speaker 2>When you chase.

<v Speaker 1>Men, you compromise and you lower your standards because it

<v Speaker 1>is not a natural thing to do. You know, you

<v Speaker 1>devalue yourself and the next thing you know, boom, you

<v Speaker 1>are fighting common sense and falling for any of his

<v Speaker 1>lies and deceit that he's trying to pull over your

<v Speaker 1>eyes because you've already crossed the line as soon as

<v Speaker 1>you started compromising and running after him. So naturally, the

<v Speaker 1>question becomes, how do you know if you are in

<v Speaker 1>fact chasing a man?

<v Speaker 2>Let me help you out. You know you're.

<v Speaker 1>Chasing a man when you have to ask the following questions,

<v Speaker 1>how do I get him back after he ghosted me?

<v Speaker 2>How do you get him back after he goes? If

<v Speaker 2>a guy ghosts to.

<v Speaker 1>You, it's simply because he wasn't really that interested and

<v Speaker 1>is talking to someone else. I mean, if anything, let

<v Speaker 1>the trash take out itself. He eliminated himself. Good, Now

<v Speaker 1>you know how to move from here on out. You

<v Speaker 1>clearly know he obviously doesn't care. It's just like cut

<v Speaker 1>and dry. How do I get him, you know, to

<v Speaker 1>want me? I know it's so difficult when dealing.

<v Speaker 2>With you know, a situation where you feel like you

<v Speaker 2>kind of lost someone and you want to get them back.

<v Speaker 1>But this is how I perceive things, you know, the

<v Speaker 1>older that I become. It's kind of just like, I'm

<v Speaker 1>not interested in who is not interested in me. I

<v Speaker 1>don't care about who doesn't care about me. I just

<v Speaker 1>don't have the energy. I don't care.

<v Speaker 2>But I understand that. At the same time, the.

<v Speaker 1>Younger you are, you have to go through this process

<v Speaker 1>of how do I get the guy back? You know

<v Speaker 1>that ghosted me, and he, you know, took me out

<v Speaker 1>on a bunch of dates, and then all of a

<v Speaker 1>sudden he doesn't want to hang out anymore. And you

<v Speaker 1>always have to initiate the conversation or initiate when you're

<v Speaker 1>gonna see him again.

<v Speaker 2>And all you guys ever do is hang out at

<v Speaker 2>his place.

<v Speaker 1>I get that, you know, like I always tell you guys,

<v Speaker 1>certain things in life we cannot skip. So once you

<v Speaker 1>make those mistakes and you mature and you learn from them,

<v Speaker 1>you understand the importance of action and not caring for

<v Speaker 1>what doesn't care for you. Because if we essentially really

<v Speaker 1>understood the genuine easiness and flow of a healthy functioning relationship,

<v Speaker 1>I don't think that we would genuinely make the mistakes

<v Speaker 1>that we have. And for some of us, unfortunately that

<v Speaker 1>may not have ever experienced a healthy relationship, you really

<v Speaker 1>have nothing to compare it to besides what you know

<v Speaker 1>or you may know is right in a relationship. But

<v Speaker 1>for me, I know that I have experienced, you know,

<v Speaker 1>a healthy relationship before, and I kind of always compare

<v Speaker 1>it to that that person really loved me. I know

<v Speaker 1>what it feels like to be really loved and really

<v Speaker 1>cared for. I know what it feels like when a

<v Speaker 1>man really wants you, really desires you, really will do

<v Speaker 1>anything for you. So based on my experience of that,

<v Speaker 1>I know how to identify that in other people. You know,

<v Speaker 1>just essentially bending your back and bending your schedule around

<v Speaker 1>this guy.

<v Speaker 2>Chasing him big mistake.

<v Speaker 1>Men can't and won't value what they don't work for

<v Speaker 1>and invest in.

<v Speaker 2>If you start off easy.

<v Speaker 1>And convenient, they will exploit that, and you will be

<v Speaker 1>taken advantage of. If you're taking ubers to him and

<v Speaker 1>always driving to his house, delivering yourself on a silver

<v Speaker 1>platter to him.

<v Speaker 2>Here I am, He's gonna get used to that. There

<v Speaker 2>is no initiative.

<v Speaker 1>Anymore to go out his way to see you, to

<v Speaker 1>make plans to go to dinner, because now it's all

<v Speaker 1>at his discretion. Understand, we've all been there before, but

<v Speaker 1>we just get so used to the routine and we

<v Speaker 1>tell ourselves, Okay, well, I mean at least he is

<v Speaker 1>hanging out with me, because if he really didn't want

<v Speaker 1>to see me, I mean, he wouldn't have agreed to

<v Speaker 1>even seeing me.

<v Speaker 2>Not true.

<v Speaker 1>Guys are capable of liking us to different degrees because

<v Speaker 1>they are master compartmentalizers.

<v Speaker 2>I always tell you guys this.

<v Speaker 1>So with that being said, if you just simply say, hey,

<v Speaker 1>are you busy?

<v Speaker 2>I was wondering what you were doing on Wednesday night?

<v Speaker 1>Because I really wanted to you know, probably get dinner

<v Speaker 1>something like that.

<v Speaker 2>If he has nothing to do.

<v Speaker 1>I mean it's a Wednesday night, more than likely he

<v Speaker 1>feels like he's going to sleep with you.

<v Speaker 2>He's not going to turn that down. Great.

<v Speaker 1>He might reply saying something like this, you know, I'm

<v Speaker 1>really busy all day on Wednesday.

<v Speaker 2>I won't be home till about like ten pm.

<v Speaker 1>But if you wanted to come over after, I mean,

<v Speaker 1>it's up to you. You ken, if you want, then

<v Speaker 1>here you go. Wow, look at him he's so busy,

<v Speaker 1>but he still just wants to see my face. So

<v Speaker 1>he's telling me.

<v Speaker 2>I can come over after ten pm. No, okay.

<v Speaker 1>What he's doing is he's probably going to go to

<v Speaker 1>dinner at seven thirty okay with another girl, come home

<v Speaker 1>bang you okay, and either you go back home or

<v Speaker 1>you spend the night Monday morning, Boom, you're out before

<v Speaker 1>eight thirty. Great plan, great plan, but to you it

<v Speaker 1>reads is something else. You simply forgot the fact that

<v Speaker 1>you're the one that had to initiate plans. Two, he

<v Speaker 1>didn't even make plans with you. He said he was

<v Speaker 1>busy till ten pm. He's working late that night, he

<v Speaker 1>has a family thing. No, he just doesn't want to

<v Speaker 1>see you, to.

<v Speaker 2>Go out with you. Even worse, hopefully that's not the case.

<v Speaker 2>He doesn't want to spend the money.

<v Speaker 1>So instead he's like, come over my place at a

<v Speaker 1>time where no knowing, Lee, what is really open at

<v Speaker 1>ten pm for you guys to actually do anything substantial

<v Speaker 1>on a Wednesday. I'm exposing the game because they get

<v Speaker 1>pretty creative, and I want you guys to know what's

<v Speaker 1>going on when you.

<v Speaker 2>Do things like this.

<v Speaker 1>This is how you find yourself in situationships okay, where

<v Speaker 1>your desire gets ahead of you because you really just

<v Speaker 1>yearn for that affection from that person. And this is

<v Speaker 1>where I start to question the psychology of things, where

<v Speaker 1>it's like, why am I feeling like I want to

<v Speaker 1>see this person so bad? Why do I not feel

<v Speaker 1>like I have more things to do or things that

<v Speaker 1>I could be working on that I want to spend

<v Speaker 1>a lot of my time with this one person.

<v Speaker 2>And I know secretly.

<v Speaker 1>But I'm not paying attention to the fact that he

<v Speaker 1>may not even be exclusive with me.

<v Speaker 2>We haven't even discussed any of that at all.

<v Speaker 1>It just seems like and it feels like because we

<v Speaker 1>have intuition as women, it just feels like if I

<v Speaker 1>continue down this route, it will never really go anywhere.

<v Speaker 1>But I'm hoping that it probably will, so I'm going

<v Speaker 1>to keep on keeping on.

<v Speaker 2>He took you on what.

<v Speaker 1>Three dates, and now you feel like it's your turn

<v Speaker 1>to really just show him how much you appreciate it,

<v Speaker 1>because he's gone farther than any other guy that you've

<v Speaker 1>dated before.

<v Speaker 2>Now, this is another thing.

<v Speaker 1>I was talking to one of my friends about this

<v Speaker 1>actually yesterday, where I was telling her be careful of

<v Speaker 1>entering into relationships when you are not at your best,

<v Speaker 1>because yes, you know, we all want to date and

<v Speaker 1>things of that nature, but when you have certain, you know,

<v Speaker 1>holes in areas that need to be filled by you,

<v Speaker 1>you tend to date people that fulfill those types of

<v Speaker 1>voids in yourself. For instance, if you are someone that

<v Speaker 1>is very ambitious, and you know, naturally we want the

<v Speaker 1>best of the best, it's human nature, and you want

<v Speaker 1>to date someone that is successful, but really you feel like, well,

<v Speaker 1>that's because I want to be that, and I'm hoping

<v Speaker 1>that this person could possibly be a crutch in that

<v Speaker 1>it's a dangerous spot to be in because we end

<v Speaker 1>up depending on that person so much that person sort

<v Speaker 1>of becomes our entire happiness that we are not able

<v Speaker 1>to actually do the work on ourselves like we thought

<v Speaker 1>we would or that we thought we would be assisted in.

<v Speaker 1>This is why having your own hobbies, having your own

<v Speaker 1>life is so important, because that way you're not waiting

<v Speaker 1>around for this person to text you back or anything.

<v Speaker 1>You were able to clearly see logically, this person is

<v Speaker 1>not reciprocating the same amount of desire that I am

<v Speaker 1>to him. And remember, especially in the beginning the desires

<v Speaker 1>for men and women are going to be different. Because

<v Speaker 1>a woman can look at a man and say, oh

<v Speaker 1>my gosh, that looks like somebody I would.

<v Speaker 2>Want to marry.

<v Speaker 1>A guy will look at a woman and say, that

<v Speaker 1>looks like somebody I.

<v Speaker 2>Want to bang.

<v Speaker 1>Do you understand the motivations are different, especially in the beginning.

<v Speaker 1>So you're leading with that sort of mentality and he's

<v Speaker 1>leading with just the banging mentality, and you, guys are

<v Speaker 1>already off on.

<v Speaker 2>The wrong foot.

<v Speaker 1>Now, what I'm saying is knowing what you know, or

<v Speaker 1>knowing what you know now, it's important to identify that

<v Speaker 1>not let your desire get in the way of your

<v Speaker 1>common sense.

<v Speaker 2>It's okay to actually desire wanting to get married and

<v Speaker 2>things of that nature.

<v Speaker 1>But you have to make sure that you're not making

<v Speaker 1>that so obvious because no one likes desperate people.

<v Speaker 2>No one likes someone that's so obvious what it is

<v Speaker 2>that they want. It's unattractive.

<v Speaker 1>And in addition to that, you don't want to start

<v Speaker 1>to feed yourself lies of trying to put this person

<v Speaker 1>in this category to mold him into what it is

<v Speaker 1>that you desire, because he very well might not fit

<v Speaker 1>another thing in regards to desire. We need to have

<v Speaker 1>self control. And I'm not talking about self control where

<v Speaker 1>you're already over his house and you know, you know

<v Speaker 1>that you will not let him sleep with you because

<v Speaker 1>of anything.

<v Speaker 2>You will just sleep on the other side of the bed.

<v Speaker 1>Now, self control begins with not even going over his

<v Speaker 1>house putting yourself in that position anyway, because after a while,

<v Speaker 1>it all boils down to science. Science takes over. You're

<v Speaker 1>already attracted to this guy. Men love sleeping with women

<v Speaker 1>all the time. I mean that just goes without saying.

<v Speaker 1>And now you don't want to put yourself in a

<v Speaker 1>position where you have to even.

<v Speaker 2>Pass up on his advances.

<v Speaker 1>Do you understand what I'm saying That that's where the

<v Speaker 1>self control really begins.

<v Speaker 2>So when you give, give, give, and you turn around

<v Speaker 2>and you're just like, why.

<v Speaker 1>Do I feel like this person isn't really liking me back,

<v Speaker 1>it's because you gave more than you received. Men are

<v Speaker 1>not going to just ghost someone that they've invested in emotionally,

<v Speaker 1>financially and spent months, you know, dating.

<v Speaker 2>They're just not typically going to do that because they

<v Speaker 2>would look dumb.

<v Speaker 1>They already put in too much work to just and

<v Speaker 1>money to walk away and be like.

<v Speaker 2>I'm ghosting her. They don't have a reason to.

<v Speaker 1>But when they've done the bare minimum and God forbid,

<v Speaker 1>it impresses you, and you're meeting them at the finish

<v Speaker 1>line before they get there all the time. Now you've

<v Speaker 1>become predictable, and they know that you're chasing them. They

<v Speaker 1>know that they don't even have to remember to make

<v Speaker 1>plans with you, because you're gonna do it anyway. You're

<v Speaker 1>actually going to remind them that they need to make

<v Speaker 1>plans with you. And then, conveniently, he's never really available

<v Speaker 1>in the day except what once every two weeks, and

<v Speaker 1>he wants to stay local around his house because he

<v Speaker 1>wants to shoot back over just so we can get

<v Speaker 1>with you, all right, And you think, wow, he's despite

<v Speaker 1>his busy schedule, he's just still making time for me.

<v Speaker 1>And I know that he's busy, so I only think

<v Speaker 1>it's there that I, you know, kind of meet him halfway.

<v Speaker 2>We don't need to, We don't need to.

<v Speaker 1>If he really wanted you that bad, he would make

<v Speaker 1>sure that he's making plans for you.

<v Speaker 2>It's just like ladies every single time.

<v Speaker 1>In the beginning, guys are so consistent every single time,

<v Speaker 1>and more than likely we don't reciprocate.

<v Speaker 2>That in the beginning as much as they.

<v Speaker 1>Do until we go in that first date, until we

<v Speaker 1>start hanging out with them, and then we realize, hmm,

<v Speaker 1>I actually do.

<v Speaker 2>Like this guy.

<v Speaker 1>So we start reciprocating and just opening up being as

<v Speaker 1>wanton as possible to really show them, Okay, I like

<v Speaker 1>you back now, and then that's where and when we

<v Speaker 1>fall off the rails, and it's kind of just like,

<v Speaker 1>all right, they did their job already, they chased me already,

<v Speaker 1>and now you're going to.

<v Speaker 2>Chase them for the rest of their relationship. No. I

<v Speaker 2>have said this in a video before. It's just this

<v Speaker 2>cut and dry.

<v Speaker 1>If a guy wants to see you, he's going to

<v Speaker 1>make time to see you.

<v Speaker 2>If he's thinking about you, he's going to text you.

<v Speaker 1>You ever date somebody and you're talking to them and

<v Speaker 1>they are so consistent with speaking to you, and you're

<v Speaker 1>not really paying attention to them, but you do happen

<v Speaker 1>to notice that.

<v Speaker 2>A whole two days goes by and.

<v Speaker 1>Next you know it, you haven't spoken to them or

<v Speaker 1>they actually haven't spoken to you in a two day timeframe,

<v Speaker 1>and then you just happen to shoot them at text

<v Speaker 1>for once hey, and they respond like a day and

<v Speaker 1>a half later saying sorry, didn't see this before. So

<v Speaker 1>you managed to magically not see the one time I

<v Speaker 1>text you, but every other time before then you were

<v Speaker 1>just on it, whether I was.

<v Speaker 2>Responding or not. He's lying.

<v Speaker 1>It feels good to be pursued, right, It feels good

<v Speaker 1>to be chased. It feels natural to us to be chased,

<v Speaker 1>or at least it should. So why would you want

<v Speaker 1>to relinquish your power to giving up that dynamic?

<v Speaker 2>And now you're the one doing the chasing.

<v Speaker 1>This is going to weak them out very easily by

<v Speaker 1>you understanding that, Hey, does this person really want me

<v Speaker 1>or not? What is this person's intentions? How long is

<v Speaker 1>this person willing to court me, invest in me, do

<v Speaker 1>all these things in effort to actually proving that they

<v Speaker 1>really actually do like me. Like they say, men love

<v Speaker 1>the challenge of conquering something that is new. That's why

<v Speaker 1>they're so consistent when they first meet you, of constantly

<v Speaker 1>communicating with you.

<v Speaker 2>It's a new challenge. Another way to.

<v Speaker 1>Know if you are chasing a man is by trying

<v Speaker 1>to buy his affection.

<v Speaker 2>You cannot buy a man's affection. Okay, that is just

<v Speaker 2>really sad.

<v Speaker 1>And if you're doing that, you just have to stop

<v Speaker 1>because you're going to be looked at as one or

<v Speaker 1>two things, a mother or a friend, and I'm guaranteeing

<v Speaker 1>you that you don't want either of those. I had

<v Speaker 1>a girl that messaged me the other day saying, should

<v Speaker 1>I financially.

<v Speaker 2>Support my boyfriend?

<v Speaker 1>And I'm thinking, well, yeah, of course if you want

<v Speaker 1>him to take that support and support someone else with it.

<v Speaker 2>Like and I get it. Like you know, we as women,

<v Speaker 2>it's natural for us to nurture.

<v Speaker 1>So what we do is we want to meet those

<v Speaker 1>guys that are not where they're supposed to be and

<v Speaker 1>help bring them up. But that's not our job. Men

<v Speaker 1>actually need to fix themselves because they're not going to

<v Speaker 1>appreciate you, the one that stayed with them and the

<v Speaker 1>trenches and you were the ride or die they leave

<v Speaker 1>the rider dies.

<v Speaker 2>Okay, you want someone that's going to cherish you. You

<v Speaker 2>want someone that's going.

<v Speaker 1>To be in love with you, not love you have

<v Speaker 1>love for you by default because you were the ride

<v Speaker 1>or die and you knew what they were like when

<v Speaker 1>they had nothing.

<v Speaker 2>Because you're going to be very hurt.

<v Speaker 1>When he takes the something you helped build and build

<v Speaker 1>that with someone else, you're going to be hurts.

<v Speaker 2>Don't make that mistake.

<v Speaker 1>Well, my circumstance is different because he knows that without

<v Speaker 1>me he has no place to live, and we have

<v Speaker 1>that understanding that he would never leave me. Men are

<v Speaker 1>gonna say anything to keep living in your house, to

<v Speaker 1>keep getting all the benefits, cooking, cleaning, all these things

<v Speaker 1>and essentially being your son and your roommate, just to

<v Speaker 1>keep getting.

<v Speaker 2>Consistent sex from you and they get a place to live.

<v Speaker 2>Do you think that's gonna make him fall in love

<v Speaker 2>with you. No, it's going to make him stay.

<v Speaker 1>With you until he stacks up, which is essentially what

<v Speaker 1>he's probably doing because he doesn't really have to pay

<v Speaker 1>for much with you.

<v Speaker 2>Stack up, stack up, and still leave you.

<v Speaker 1>When I was twenty one, I was dating this guy

<v Speaker 1>and he had couldn't keep a job, nothing, And I

<v Speaker 1>was twenty one at the time, and I was paying

<v Speaker 1>for days here and there because I felt bad and

<v Speaker 1>I wanted to be understanding. And then I quickly learned like,

<v Speaker 1>iw like what am I actually doing? Like it was

<v Speaker 1>just such a disaster with this person he did not

<v Speaker 1>have his life together at all, and he was twenty

<v Speaker 1>seven at the time. I'm sure that did not make

<v Speaker 1>him want to stay per se. It was just like, Wow,

<v Speaker 1>this girl is, you know, doing a lot for me,

<v Speaker 1>So I really appreciate that. But then I also quickly

<v Speaker 1>learned that he had that dynamic going with a lot

<v Speaker 1>of his friends that were girls. Because there are also

<v Speaker 1>exceptions to the rule where there are guys that, I mean,

<v Speaker 1>dare I say it, they're comfortable with women actually providing

<v Speaker 1>for them, and those are the men we stay clear

<v Speaker 1>away from. Because what kind of man is that? How

<v Speaker 1>can you genuinely respect that? What are you doing for

<v Speaker 1>me that I can't.

<v Speaker 2>Already do for myself? I don't get it.

<v Speaker 1>Steve Harvey said in his book Act like a Lady,

<v Speaker 1>Think like a man, that a man's job is to protect, profess,

<v Speaker 1>and provide.

<v Speaker 2>It's so simple. Play by those rules. If you already

<v Speaker 2>know that that is their job, then you do not

<v Speaker 2>fulfill those roles.

<v Speaker 1>Amongst the many other things that we ordinarily have to

<v Speaker 1>do as women, make sure that we take care of ourselves,

<v Speaker 1>make sure that we keep ourselves looking young. You know,

<v Speaker 1>have babies lose the weight after we have a baby,

<v Speaker 1>a whole bunch of things, clean the house, all this stuff.

<v Speaker 2>If that's the life so that you want.

<v Speaker 1>But women have more obligations in regular everyday stresses than

<v Speaker 1>men do.

<v Speaker 2>So that's why it's.

<v Speaker 1>So important to not take over his role now too,

<v Speaker 1>professing your love for him, your desire for him, paying

<v Speaker 1>his way to do things, and trying to protect him,

<v Speaker 1>and get defensive every time get a phone call from

<v Speaker 1>your mom asking.

<v Speaker 2>What is he doing living with you? Where's his contribution?

<v Speaker 1>Mom?

<v Speaker 2>You know nothing about anything. You don't know what.

<v Speaker 1>It's like to really be down for a guy to

<v Speaker 1>stay with him.

<v Speaker 2>Not on my watch, Not on my watch. I'm not

<v Speaker 2>gonna do that.

<v Speaker 1>In conclusion, do not ever, ever ever chase any man.

<v Speaker 1>Men never seem to forget that there is no shortage

<v Speaker 1>of women, But we as women tend to always forget

<v Speaker 1>that all the time.

<v Speaker 2>And put all our eggs in one basket. Where's your roster.

<v Speaker 1>And understand that you are the prize. There's a story

<v Speaker 1>in the Bible where I don't even remember who it

<v Speaker 1>was that worked for seven years to marry Rachel. And

<v Speaker 1>in the end, when he worked for those seven.

<v Speaker 2>Years, the father gave him.

<v Speaker 1>The sister instead didn't even give him the one he wanted,

<v Speaker 1>and then told him, well, if you actually really do

<v Speaker 1>want Rachel, you have to work X amount of more years.

<v Speaker 2>And he did that because he wanted her so bad.

<v Speaker 1>Hello back in the Bible days, it's what men do.

<v Speaker 2>They work to show us why they deserve us.

<v Speaker 1>So if you are someone that feels like, well, I

<v Speaker 1>don't need a guide to do all these things, I

<v Speaker 1>could do it for myself. Ugh, equality, Why do people

<v Speaker 1>feel like they need a free ride places?

<v Speaker 2>Well, I just automatically know one thing about you.

<v Speaker 1>One you've never experienced someone actually giving you what you

<v Speaker 1>deserve too.

<v Speaker 2>You also don't think you deserve it, so maybe you're right.

<v Speaker 1>Why should you get it if you don't think that

<v Speaker 1>you deserve it. It's always people that are living, you know,

<v Speaker 1>just such bitter lives that always want to question other

<v Speaker 1>people living happier lives.

<v Speaker 2>It's always people that are negative that want.

<v Speaker 1>To just bring you down because misery does love company.

<v Speaker 1>But genuinely ask yourself, why do I get offended by

<v Speaker 1>a girl saying that she wants to marry a guy

<v Speaker 1>with money? Why do I get offended because I don't

<v Speaker 1>believe in hypergamy.

<v Speaker 2>Why do I get offended because I see this girl

<v Speaker 2>going a lavish vacations with a guy, and so.

<v Speaker 1>I'm going to troll her and write on her photo.

<v Speaker 1>You are a bum, You have no job, and you.

<v Speaker 2>Just want men to do everything for you. You don't

<v Speaker 2>see that girl writing on your photo.

<v Speaker 1>Wow, you are just disgusting, like you were working yourself

<v Speaker 1>to the bone.

<v Speaker 2>You look awful. It must be all the bills.

<v Speaker 1>You're splitting with your man or lack thereof. Magically I

<v Speaker 1>show up on your feed now for you to be

<v Speaker 1>such a hard working woman. I mean, how did I

<v Speaker 1>even end up in your algorithms if you weren't looking

<v Speaker 1>for things of luxury now, Either it is divine connection

<v Speaker 1>that God's sending you a sign saying change your mindset,

<v Speaker 1>or maybe you were actually secretly looking it up on

<v Speaker 1>your own.

<v Speaker 2>You have to understand if you are someone.

<v Speaker 1>That does the trolling, or you have this envy in

<v Speaker 1>your heart for people that you feel like don't deserve

<v Speaker 1>certain things. Who are you to tell anyone what they.

<v Speaker 2>Actually don't deserve? Who are you especially in this matter?

<v Speaker 3>Live your life, Go work your job, and let that

<v Speaker 3>other girl that chooses to be taken care of live

<v Speaker 3>her own life.

<v Speaker 2>Why is it bothering you?

<v Speaker 1>It's probably because you wish that you had someone to

<v Speaker 1>do the same for you. And don't lie to yourself

<v Speaker 1>and tell yourself, well, I like earning everything that I

<v Speaker 1>have on my own, and I don't ever need anyone

<v Speaker 1>to do it for me. We all naturally like free things.

<v Speaker 1>There's a reason why we love sales. It doesn't matter

<v Speaker 1>if it's you know, in Bloomingdale's or in Macy's.

<v Speaker 2>We love sales.

<v Speaker 1>It's a natural human instinct to want the best and

<v Speaker 1>to preserve ourselves in effort to getting the best as well.

<v Speaker 2>So that's food for thought. I hope I made sense.

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