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Hi Antoinette.

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Thank you for coming on.

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Hi.

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Excited to have, thank you for having me.

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I was gonna say, excited to have you.

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Oh my gosh.

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Thank you.

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I have been so guilty of

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saying stuff like that.

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I remember years ago going to

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like the movie theater and you

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order like food or something, and

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they're like, enjoy your movie.

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And you're like, thanks, you too.

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Yeah, right.

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It's just like you're on

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autopilot a lot of times.

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You're like, oh, you too.

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Oh, you too.

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Yeah.

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Oh my gosh.

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It literally happens all the time.

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I'm just like, yeah.

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And it's funny now, like my daughter's

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too, but there's times where I'm like,

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oh, I don't even, I'll ask a question.

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She just goes, good.

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And I'm like, well, that's like

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if someone says, how are you?

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But it's just like, it's funny.

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Anyways, thank you for coming on.

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I'm excited to have you here.

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I know we were talking before that

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I just, I found you on TikTok.

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I love your content,

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your banter, if you will.

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and I think that's just

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perfect for this, podcast.

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so you are a labor and delivery

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nurse by day and you banter

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about pop culture at night.

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I mean, I don't know if

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it's necessarily at night.

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Tell us a little more about yourself.

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You, and, I'd love to hear more.

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I am a day nurse.

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'cause you know, there are some

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people who only do night shifts.

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I'm a day girly.

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Okay.

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I can't do the night shift stuff.

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So I am a labor and delivery nurse by

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day, but we do like 12 hour shifts,

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so I'm not working every day, so it's

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basically like three to four days a week

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that I am a labor and delivery nurse.

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And then basically at night or the days

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I have off, I do, Or if I have a break

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or more of my breaks if I  try to fit it

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in there, then I'll do my TikTok stuff,

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which, I actually only started a year ago.

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my fiance was like, I loved watching

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reality tv, and then I was always

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searching for other people's

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takes and stuff, and then also

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like calling my friends and being

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like, oh my God, da da da dah.

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And then also telling him because he

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also watches with me now, so like, then

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I'm like, oh my God, blah, blah, blah.

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And he's like, well, I mean,

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you're always searching for it.

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You're always watching people's takes.

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Like, why don't you do your own?

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And I was like, mm-hmm.

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Like, yeah, why not?

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So.

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Yes.

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And then it, the really fun.

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What was, what was the first show

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or thing in pop culture that either

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really took off or the first content

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you made about, do you remember?

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So the first content I made about

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was actually Love Island season six.

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it honestly like, really, 'cause I

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was getting really revved up because

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I felt like people were like really

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misunderstanding Serena and being

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like, oh, she doesn't like Cordell.

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she's just like really protecting herself.

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I was like feeling fired up about

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it and I was like, okay, fine,

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I'm gonna do it on this one.

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but I feel like the season it

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wasn't Love Island that I think

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really spearheaded things.

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for me, like, I think I got a lot of

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exposure during The Love Is Blind DC

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Ooh, I'm trying, yeah.

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I, I watched Love Is Blind.

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Trying to remember who was on that one.

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Lier.

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Uh, we call him.

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is it Tyler?

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I feel like I'm not, I only

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call him Lier, because he lied.

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Oh my God.

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He like had those three children and it

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was like, there was all this drama about

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like, how he had these two children,

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but he called them sper donors and

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then his fiance believed him and then

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his baby mama came out to be like, no.

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the first one was a sperm donor

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situation, but the other two were not.

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we made those ourselves.

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I must have stopped right

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before that season 'cause they

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don't look familiar to me.

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I like religiously watched it in the

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beginning I think I watched the first

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three seasons and then I just like shot.

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There's like, oh my God,

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there's a new season.

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Wait, there's a new season.

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It was wild.

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There's so many, I think there's

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like two seasons a year, but

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it feels like there's three.

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always one coming out.

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There's always, yeah.

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Because I think if you like sleep

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on it for a little bit, all of

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a sudden there's another one.

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Netflix is really on their

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zoom with it, honestly.

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And the first one came out in 2020.

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Because I feel like I

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remember being locked down.

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to binge watch this show.

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I care what it is.

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It was that in Tiger King that

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I was like, what's going my.

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Oh my God.

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I forgot about that.

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That was so good.

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That was wild.

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My husband and I were

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just like, what is this?

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Oh, that was good tea.

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That was good tv.

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And we weren't doing anything

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like we were locked in.

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We were living for, yeah, we

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were living for like, like.

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You said, like any morsel.

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Oh my gosh.

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the pods.

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' Because I feel like the

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pods were because of COVID.

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was written before that.

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But those, I dunno, man.

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I feel like it really took off because

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of everyone was at home just watching TV

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and then they're like, what's this show?

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Okay, I guess we'll watch it.

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And then it just blew you up on so.

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And then blew up.

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And then Lauren and Cameron, I mean

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they're still like the, what's it called?

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I love them.

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and now you know, Lauren's pregnant,

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so that's just so beautiful.

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Honestly, they're just

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so that I love them.

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and I always feel like the first

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season, they're the most real because

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they're not in it all for the tv.

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big the show's gonna be.

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They're like, well let's try it out.

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But seasons after, I feel

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like people just sign up.

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'cause they're like, oh, I'm

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gonna get social media famous.

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now, I think it was Love is blind.

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You really want them to be genuine

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because like, you're gonna get married.

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and I think some of these other

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ones, dating ones, it's like, it

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doesn't necessarily fully have

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to be genuine, but like, do think

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a lot of them, like love island.

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you know, people wanna be influencers,

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but at the same time they're pretty

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young and you're not thinking of

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marriage or just thinking of dating.

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liking each other and dating.

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but like with Love is Blind.

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I do think people are like, they wanna

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be influencers, but then it's like

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you end up having to think about are

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you willing to get engaged and married

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to somebody just to be an influencer?

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That's pretty big.

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That's wild.

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The concept is wild to me.

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when they were like moving them

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into these apartments together, I

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was like, you don't know this guy.

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what are you doing?

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Nothing about them.

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You don't just what they

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told you on the other side.

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Just like what we found about life.

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Like, you know, nothing.

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Mm-hmm.

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Like whatever they decide to tell you.

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And I do think there's a

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lot of people who like.

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In these later seasons into finding

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out some really messed up stuff.

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Really?

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And one of the girls, I think

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on UK Sabrina, she was like, he

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didn't even have his own place.

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Like he was living with roommates

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and then he like wasn't even

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willing to go, like they were

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living in different parts of the uk.

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He wasn't even willing to go see her.

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But like, he couldn't even afford to, so

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she didn't even know that like, oh wait,

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you actually really aren't in a place.

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I mean, it's one thing if you like

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start dating someone and you know,

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they're like financial status, but like,

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I really do think they should check.

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I was like, are you even in a place

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to be married, to put somebody first

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to even financially support yourself.

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in a good well, or like, not,

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there's anything wrong with having

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roommates, but you know what I mean?

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this guy I think was like 37 and like

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she, I think he didn't really give all

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those details, which I think a lot of

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people would assume at three seven,

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like, okay, you might not have everything

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together, but you probably financially

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are.

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A little more.

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A little bit more

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established.

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Established, yeah.

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Yeah.

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I think, or at least Communicate about

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like, Hey, I had some financial issues,

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or This is what's going on here.

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Because there was that other guy,

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I don't know what season this was,

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maybe two or three, where they got

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like towards the end and it came out.

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He had all this debt and there was

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something like he was lying about,

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I can't remember their names, I

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can't remember their names, but

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I know what you're talking about.

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We weren't like parody a lot.

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Social media.

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I know what you're talking about.

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Wait, shoot.

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I don't remember.

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Yeah, I dunno means there, but

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yeah, but there's that too.

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And it's like if you get

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married, your dad is their dad.

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that can really mess somebody stuff up.

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Yeah.

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That was, oh, one of the

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first couples, Barnett.

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Yeah.

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Amber and Barnett.

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Amber, yeah.

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Mm-hmm.

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that was something like, she was

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like, Hey, I have a lot of debt,

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and they like moved in together.

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he had a house already, but I think he

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like sold it to help pay for the debt.

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I mean, as far as I know, they're

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still together, so, I mean.

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Yeah.

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And they have a kid and they were like.

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Oh, I didn't know that.

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Yeah.

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They were child and everything

327
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but she was upfront about it.

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Yeah, they, she, she was upset

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about it, so like, or married.

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So it's one of those things

331
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where it's like, if you know

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all that stuff and you're still

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willing, then that's, one thing.

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Like she was upfront about it.

335
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He was still willing.

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So it's like, okay, cool.

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that's on you,

338
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Yeah.

339
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the reality TV is just wild to me.

340
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I used to watch Bachelor pretty regularly

341
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too, and then I kind of just like,

342
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then Bachelor in Paradise was like

343
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fun 'cause they all come together.

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Yeah.

345
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But I've kind of slowly stopped

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watching because I feel like they

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always just go on to be like,

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influencers and I'm just I don't know.

349
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I can't really get into it anymore.

350
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just.

351
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Yeah.

352
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I honestly have never, I mean, I

353
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keep trying mostly for content.

354
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Like, every time it comes out

355
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I'm like, okay, I'm gonna try

356
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and I just can't get into it.

357
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you'll probably see me make one post

358
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and then just nothing else because

359
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I'm like, I just can't get into it.

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I feel like it's so overly produced

361
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too, and it just feels so fake.

362
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You found 20 men or 20 women that

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are interested in this one person.

364
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Mm-hmm.

365
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Not saying that they couldn't

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all necessarily, but like it's

367
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not like they met this person.

368
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They were like, oh, the 20 people

369
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met this person, or you had them

370
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meet like a hundred people and

371
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these are the 20 that were like, I'm

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actually interested in this person.

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Like, you just found

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20 people or whatever.

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I was like, it just doesn't feel organic

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and then it's just vying for one person.

377
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It just feels weird, honestly.

378
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Totally.

379
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I love dating shows, but that one,

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that's just one I can't get into.

381
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no, and you make it such a good

382
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point because, it brings me back,

383
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'cause again, I haven't watched

384
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probably in like five plus seasons.

385
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But it's like, they're like, he's

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my dream guy, she's my dream girl.

387
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And I'm like, you would've said that

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about any person they brought on as

389
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a bachelor and bachelorette Right.

390
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And unbeknownst to you, last

391
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season they were a nobody.

392
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You know what I'm saying?

393
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Like, they came on as

394
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like a random person too.

395
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It's like exactly.

396
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I dunno.

397
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I was like, you literally know

398
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nothing about these people.

399
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most of 'em don't even get like,

400
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really a lot of screen time.

401
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So it's like you just saw like a

402
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couple dates with whoever they were

403
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with on last season, and then now

404
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you're like, that's your dream person.

405
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You don't know anything about them, and

406
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I feel like we also saw that with Jen,

407
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like obviously all those men basically

408
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didn't even know it was gonna be Jen.

409
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They thought it was gonna be, what's

410
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her name, that other girl that was

411
00:09:31,306 --> 00:09:32,836
like really famous on Joey's season.

412
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They all thought it was gonna be a. a

413
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different bachelorette, and that set

414
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her up for complete failure, honestly.

415
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and then, ugh, that scammer Devin,

416
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like that was whole, I like tried

417
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to, but I was like, I mostly was

418
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scrolling, watching things because I

419
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was like, I keep up with it, but I'm

420
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like, I can't watch a whole episode.

421
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I literally can't.

422
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Yeah, I know every once in I went.

423
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You're like two hours long too.

424
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I'm like, ah, Jesus.

425
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I know it's, well, there'll be

426
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like three hour season finale

427
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and I'm like, who's got the time?

428
00:09:57,610 --> 00:09:58,489
But why?

429
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And most of it's not even needed.

430
00:10:00,096 --> 00:10:01,176
I was like, okay, this really

431
00:10:01,176 --> 00:10:02,046
could have been cut down.

432
00:10:02,303 --> 00:10:02,722
Literally.

433
00:10:02,727 --> 00:10:03,442
Like, there's just like a lot of

434
00:10:03,442 --> 00:10:04,856
different montages with music.

435
00:10:04,856 --> 00:10:05,876
It's just so gimmicky.

436
00:10:06,102 --> 00:10:06,402
Yeah.

437
00:10:06,402 --> 00:10:08,172
It's literally them picking out rings,

438
00:10:08,333 --> 00:10:10,182
walking down the street through tears

439
00:10:10,302 --> 00:10:12,222
in their eyes, picking out their dress.

440
00:10:12,222 --> 00:10:13,962
And I'm like, Ugh, come on.

441
00:10:13,962 --> 00:10:14,707
She's like, speed it up.

442
00:10:14,802 --> 00:10:15,582
Speed it up.

443
00:10:15,942 --> 00:10:16,062
Please.

444
00:10:16,152 --> 00:10:17,442
We can do this all in 10 minutes.

445
00:10:17,442 --> 00:10:18,979
Let's just tell us who she picked.

446
00:10:19,399 --> 00:10:19,879
Yes, I know.

447
00:10:19,879 --> 00:10:20,479
It's wild.

448
00:10:20,721 --> 00:10:22,124
Props with anyone that goes on.

449
00:10:22,124 --> 00:10:23,054
that's just not, yeah.

450
00:10:23,334 --> 00:10:23,913
my cup of tea.

451
00:10:24,086 --> 00:10:24,903
That's why I like Bachelor

452
00:10:24,903 --> 00:10:25,653
in Paradise better.

453
00:10:25,683 --> 00:10:27,087
So I have a confession.

454
00:10:27,087 --> 00:10:28,857
I've never watched Love Island.

455
00:10:29,187 --> 00:10:31,017
Oh, it's everywhere.

456
00:10:31,557 --> 00:10:33,387
But this last season makes me wanna watch

457
00:10:33,387 --> 00:10:35,733
because the viral like sounds and stuff.

458
00:10:35,943 --> 00:10:36,483
Yeah.

459
00:10:36,483 --> 00:10:37,743
But maybe I should try it.

460
00:10:37,743 --> 00:10:39,753
I've had people tell me to watch it.

461
00:10:39,981 --> 00:10:40,657
I think you should.

462
00:10:40,657 --> 00:10:41,947
I think I would watch, like,

463
00:10:42,139 --> 00:10:43,608
watch season six of USA.

464
00:10:43,825 --> 00:10:44,840
I think season five and season

465
00:10:44,840 --> 00:10:46,040
six of USA are really good.

466
00:10:46,286 --> 00:10:48,536
the uk I also think season five of

467
00:10:48,536 --> 00:10:50,456
UK is really, really, really good.

468
00:10:50,541 --> 00:10:50,743
Okay.

469
00:10:50,743 --> 00:10:51,883
It started in uk so there's

470
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like a lot more seasons.

471
00:10:53,353 --> 00:10:55,216
even Love Island Australia,

472
00:10:55,216 --> 00:10:55,996
I can't remember what season.

473
00:10:55,996 --> 00:10:57,136
It wasn't the latest one I

474
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think, or it was the one before

475
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last was really, really good.

476
00:11:01,260 --> 00:11:03,383
So I do, I really love, love Island.

477
00:11:03,383 --> 00:11:04,553
I feel like it's just.

478
00:11:04,832 --> 00:11:05,773
Like, you know, people are on

479
00:11:05,773 --> 00:11:06,943
there to be influencers, but it's

480
00:11:06,943 --> 00:11:08,323
also just like a dating show.

481
00:11:08,462 --> 00:11:09,349
mean, they're all dating shows,

482
00:11:09,349 --> 00:11:09,799
but you know what I mean?

483
00:11:09,889 --> 00:11:10,609
But it's also just like,

484
00:11:10,812 --> 00:11:11,652
people being there.

485
00:11:11,652 --> 00:11:12,582
They get to meet each other,

486
00:11:12,582 --> 00:11:13,692
they get to, and like, there are

487
00:11:13,692 --> 00:11:14,712
definitely, you're gonna, like,

488
00:11:14,832 --> 00:11:15,792
a lot of them are good looking.

489
00:11:15,965 --> 00:11:17,185
You're gonna like somebody,

490
00:11:17,185 --> 00:11:17,725
you know what I mean?

491
00:11:17,922 --> 00:11:18,915
and then there's just more like

492
00:11:18,915 --> 00:11:20,805
organic drama as well as they

493
00:11:20,805 --> 00:11:22,638
don't  allow them to get drunk.

494
00:11:22,828 --> 00:11:23,943
each day they get like maybe

495
00:11:23,943 --> 00:11:24,933
this amount of alcohol.

496
00:11:24,933 --> 00:11:25,233
That's it.

497
00:11:25,233 --> 00:11:25,743
Okay.

498
00:11:25,743 --> 00:11:26,043
I like that.

499
00:11:26,043 --> 00:11:28,963
Um, so it also feels  not, so you're

500
00:11:28,963 --> 00:11:30,673
not as worried about some of the,

501
00:11:30,930 --> 00:11:31,533
you know what I'm talking about?

502
00:11:31,583 --> 00:11:32,753
possible things that can happen if people

503
00:11:32,753 --> 00:11:34,283
are like inebriated, like, you know,

504
00:11:34,283 --> 00:11:36,233
that they're making decisions sober.

505
00:11:36,490 --> 00:11:37,480
especially if there's anything like

506
00:11:37,480 --> 00:11:39,137
sexual that goes on, Especially because

507
00:11:39,137 --> 00:11:40,187
with that, you know, you do end up

508
00:11:40,337 --> 00:11:41,867
in there, they do end up sleeping in

509
00:11:41,867 --> 00:11:43,367
the same bed as the guy, as a couple

510
00:11:43,367 --> 00:11:44,657
that they choose and all that stuff.

511
00:11:44,657 --> 00:11:46,106
So, and they do seem to have, like,

512
00:11:46,285 --> 00:11:48,465
even though I feel like this season in

513
00:11:48,465 --> 00:11:51,002
the USA, they did not do very good job

514
00:11:51,002 --> 00:11:52,532
of like really doing background checks.

515
00:11:52,532 --> 00:11:54,272
There's a lot of racial stuff coming out.

516
00:11:54,509 --> 00:11:56,092
I did think that about someone.

517
00:11:56,097 --> 00:11:56,677
Yeah.

518
00:11:56,707 --> 00:11:58,117
So they really haven't like, done

519
00:11:58,387 --> 00:12:00,400
good background checks on people, but

520
00:12:00,400 --> 00:12:02,223
like in general, I do think they have

521
00:12:02,223 --> 00:12:03,633
some pretty cool things in place, like

522
00:12:03,633 --> 00:12:05,450
consent wise, there's just a light

523
00:12:05,450 --> 00:12:06,680
that they have in the back of the bed.

524
00:12:06,680 --> 00:12:07,910
Like, so if things start happening,

525
00:12:07,970 --> 00:12:10,270
both people have to press it to be

526
00:12:10,270 --> 00:12:11,920
like, I consent to what's happening.

527
00:12:11,920 --> 00:12:13,603
And if it's not pressed, then production

528
00:12:13,608 --> 00:12:14,653
gets involved in like no stuff.

529
00:12:14,683 --> 00:12:15,853
Oh, okay.

530
00:12:15,951 --> 00:12:16,850
That's a good step.

531
00:12:16,998 --> 00:12:19,063
Because I remember hearing years ago, like

532
00:12:19,183 --> 00:12:21,317
bachelor, something happened on one of

533
00:12:21,317 --> 00:12:23,267
the shows and they like limit them now to

534
00:12:23,507 --> 00:12:25,444
certain alcohol too, because people would

535
00:12:25,444 --> 00:12:27,824
be like getting inebriated and saying

536
00:12:27,824 --> 00:12:29,384
stuff or doing inappropriate things.

537
00:12:29,604 --> 00:12:30,874
that was a bachelor in Paradise thing too.

538
00:12:30,874 --> 00:12:31,144
I remember.

539
00:12:31,144 --> 00:12:31,714
They were like, oh, we're

540
00:12:31,714 --> 00:12:32,944
only allowed to have like.

541
00:12:33,166 --> 00:12:34,229
Two drinks an hour or

542
00:12:34,229 --> 00:12:35,579
one drink an hour maybe.

543
00:12:36,092 --> 00:12:36,662
Oh, wow.

544
00:12:36,944 --> 00:12:38,532
Because yeah, you see, yeah.

545
00:12:38,532 --> 00:12:39,612
With them it's literally

546
00:12:39,612 --> 00:12:40,872
one glass and that's it.

547
00:12:41,170 --> 00:12:41,756
Wow.

548
00:12:41,802 --> 00:12:43,139
there's a whole usually scenes at night

549
00:12:43,139 --> 00:12:44,699
where like there, or sometimes at night

550
00:12:44,699 --> 00:12:45,959
where you'll see a scene where they like,

551
00:12:46,138 --> 00:12:47,586
are all going up to this table and it's

552
00:12:47,586 --> 00:12:49,159
just like, there's drinks sitting out

553
00:12:49,249 --> 00:12:50,599
already with like a little umbrella.

554
00:12:50,599 --> 00:12:51,829
And that's their serving of

555
00:12:51,829 --> 00:12:52,609
their alcohol, who they get.

556
00:12:52,759 --> 00:12:53,329
Okay.

557
00:12:53,329 --> 00:12:54,074
Well that's, I know.

558
00:12:54,109 --> 00:12:55,306
I was like, I just think it's like,

559
00:12:55,306 --> 00:12:56,296
it makes you feel a little bit

560
00:12:56,296 --> 00:12:57,703
better, but not that there's not any,

561
00:12:57,703 --> 00:12:59,023
some type of like, oh my God, these

562
00:12:59,023 --> 00:13:00,850
like crappy men on here, whatever.

563
00:13:00,855 --> 00:13:01,090
Right, right.

564
00:13:01,090 --> 00:13:02,410
But I was like, well, now

565
00:13:02,410 --> 00:13:03,340
you know that this person's.

566
00:13:03,592 --> 00:13:04,428
Crappy sober.

567
00:13:04,518 --> 00:13:04,818
Okay.

568
00:13:04,861 --> 00:13:05,748
Like they, they're just.

569
00:13:06,888 --> 00:13:08,328
He got no excuse.

570
00:13:08,333 --> 00:13:08,628
No, no.

571
00:13:08,628 --> 00:13:08,868
I know.

572
00:13:08,868 --> 00:13:09,468
It's crappy.

573
00:13:09,618 --> 00:13:10,848
It's not a drunk child.

574
00:13:11,019 --> 00:13:12,325
This is who this person is.

575
00:13:12,775 --> 00:13:12,805
Okay.

576
00:13:12,805 --> 00:13:13,225
Yeah.

577
00:13:13,230 --> 00:13:13,862
Yeah, yeah.

578
00:13:13,862 --> 00:13:15,182
I think that sounds better too

579
00:13:15,182 --> 00:13:17,369
when there's like multiple, couple

580
00:13:17,369 --> 00:13:19,259
possibilities and not just one guy

581
00:13:19,259 --> 00:13:21,119
and a million girls and vice versa.

582
00:13:21,315 --> 00:13:23,210
and I feel like it also gives like

583
00:13:23,403 --> 00:13:25,244
the bachelor, bachelorette or whatever

584
00:13:25,244 --> 00:13:26,474
type of show it is when there's just

585
00:13:26,474 --> 00:13:28,714
one guy fending for all these women.

586
00:13:28,908 --> 00:13:30,292
It gives them like this like false

587
00:13:30,292 --> 00:13:31,732
sense of like, oh, I'm the hottest

588
00:13:31,732 --> 00:13:32,992
guy in the room at all times.

589
00:13:32,992 --> 00:13:34,972
And it's like, you're the only guy, like

590
00:13:35,917 --> 00:13:38,002
they would find a rock hot next to you.

591
00:13:38,002 --> 00:13:38,692
You know what I'm saying?

592
00:13:39,052 --> 00:13:41,300
Honestly though, the only this is working

593
00:13:41,300 --> 00:13:42,745
is 'cause a, scarcity mindset that is

594
00:13:42,745 --> 00:13:45,091
literally fabricated for this show.

595
00:13:45,228 --> 00:13:45,528
Yeah.

596
00:13:45,588 --> 00:13:47,718
If you were in any other situation,

597
00:13:47,718 --> 00:13:49,788
there would be plenty of other options.

598
00:13:49,934 --> 00:13:50,864
you are literally the only

599
00:13:50,864 --> 00:13:51,884
option that they've given.

600
00:13:52,072 --> 00:13:52,257
Yes.

601
00:13:52,257 --> 00:13:53,577
So they are, they have to fight

602
00:13:53,577 --> 00:13:54,984
for you to stay on the show.

603
00:13:54,984 --> 00:13:55,704
Like, remember that?

604
00:13:55,704 --> 00:13:55,794
Yes.

605
00:13:55,819 --> 00:13:57,714
Like this is like, remember that

606
00:13:57,714 --> 00:13:59,114
they're fighting to stay the show.

607
00:13:59,209 --> 00:13:59,499
Okay.

608
00:13:59,774 --> 00:13:59,894
Yeah.

609
00:13:59,894 --> 00:14:02,264
They're deprived of any other men, so

610
00:14:02,264 --> 00:14:04,034
they're like, well, this is my dream.

611
00:14:04,064 --> 00:14:04,124
Yeah.

612
00:14:05,680 --> 00:14:06,670
this is my dream man

613
00:14:06,670 --> 00:14:07,720
because he's only man.

614
00:14:08,590 --> 00:14:10,506
Oh my God, that's so funny.

615
00:14:10,700 --> 00:14:12,890
yeah, I feel like we would just think too,

616
00:14:12,950 --> 00:14:15,496
too logically about that to be on, a show.

617
00:14:15,770 --> 00:14:15,966
Okay.

618
00:14:15,971 --> 00:14:16,001
So.

619
00:14:16,688 --> 00:14:18,511
A little more back about your content.

620
00:14:18,722 --> 00:14:20,021
you were always talking about your own

621
00:14:20,021 --> 00:14:21,851
banter and couldn't really find anyone

622
00:14:21,851 --> 00:14:24,191
that talked about it the way you did.

623
00:14:24,420 --> 00:14:25,797
So when did you kind of start seeing

624
00:14:25,797 --> 00:14:27,201
it, take off and do you remember

625
00:14:27,201 --> 00:14:28,689
like the first video that really like

626
00:14:28,689 --> 00:14:30,345
blew up and you said you talked about

627
00:14:30,345 --> 00:14:32,320
Love Island, but was there one type

628
00:14:32,320 --> 00:14:33,970
of content that you're like, this

629
00:14:33,970 --> 00:14:35,826
is it, people are really connecting

630
00:14:35,826 --> 00:14:37,236
or resonating with what I'm saying?

631
00:14:37,510 --> 00:14:39,350
Love Island, I started, I do really

632
00:14:39,350 --> 00:14:41,260
feel like it was like love is Blind that

633
00:14:41,260 --> 00:14:43,543
season and I think even for me Too, I was

634
00:14:43,543 --> 00:14:46,652
around then, like I started last August.

635
00:14:46,652 --> 00:14:47,312
Mm-hmm.

636
00:14:47,318 --> 00:14:48,452
Like around last august for season

637
00:14:48,452 --> 00:14:50,657
six and then We're still posting and

638
00:14:50,657 --> 00:14:51,770
stuff, but it wasn't really like, I

639
00:14:51,770 --> 00:14:53,750
think last October was when That Love

640
00:14:53,750 --> 00:14:55,730
Is Blind came out October, November.

641
00:14:55,967 --> 00:14:57,699
and that's also when I felt like

642
00:14:57,699 --> 00:14:58,719
I was also taking it more like,

643
00:14:58,749 --> 00:15:00,069
okay, I'm gonna post every day.

644
00:15:00,069 --> 00:15:01,741
I'm gonna like, really cover this

645
00:15:01,741 --> 00:15:03,321
whole season, cause I didn't even fully

646
00:15:03,321 --> 00:15:04,851
cover the whole season of Love Island.

647
00:15:04,901 --> 00:15:05,501
season six.

648
00:15:05,691 --> 00:15:07,725
So with the elevens blind season seven, I

649
00:15:07,725 --> 00:15:09,255
was like, okay, I'm gonna post every day.

650
00:15:09,255 --> 00:15:10,005
I'm gonna like, you know, and

651
00:15:10,005 --> 00:15:11,115
so I was like also being more

652
00:15:11,115 --> 00:15:12,405
intentional about posting.

653
00:15:12,605 --> 00:15:14,515
And so I don't remember what Post

654
00:15:14,594 --> 00:15:16,367
went, but it, I do remember all of a

655
00:15:16,367 --> 00:15:17,957
sudden, like my views started going up.

656
00:15:18,139 --> 00:15:19,970
And then also I went from like,

657
00:15:20,137 --> 00:15:21,207
I feel like a thousand to like

658
00:15:21,207 --> 00:15:23,141
10,000, within that between like

659
00:15:23,141 --> 00:15:24,281
end of October and November.

660
00:15:24,667 --> 00:15:26,013
like blew up.

661
00:15:26,206 --> 00:15:27,376
and I felt like then people were

662
00:15:27,376 --> 00:15:29,223
really like also sending me things

663
00:15:29,223 --> 00:15:30,303
like, oh, I need to know your take.

664
00:15:30,303 --> 00:15:31,113
I need to, and so I got

665
00:15:31,113 --> 00:15:32,133
started getting more of that,

666
00:15:32,133 --> 00:15:33,215
being like, did you see this?

667
00:15:33,215 --> 00:15:33,965
Did you see that?

668
00:15:34,188 --> 00:15:35,238
and people writing those type of

669
00:15:35,238 --> 00:15:37,047
comments, or getting tagged in other

670
00:15:37,047 --> 00:15:39,007
people's videos, for certain stuff.

671
00:15:39,007 --> 00:15:41,256
So it was definitely that, started

672
00:15:41,256 --> 00:15:42,846
to get a little bit more known and a

673
00:15:42,846 --> 00:15:45,029
little bit more, settled in like my

674
00:15:45,262 --> 00:15:48,218
like niche or my niche and my persona,

675
00:15:48,418 --> 00:15:48,988
Yeah.

676
00:15:49,210 --> 00:15:51,175
So do you have any shows that

677
00:15:51,175 --> 00:15:52,525
you, like currently watch that you

678
00:15:52,525 --> 00:15:53,995
wish more people knew about so you

679
00:15:53,995 --> 00:15:55,435
could like commentate on them more?

680
00:15:55,578 --> 00:15:58,148
Or are you mainly in the

681
00:15:58,358 --> 00:16:00,859
reality love dating show type?

682
00:16:01,096 --> 00:16:01,936
I mean, I watch a lot of

683
00:16:01,936 --> 00:16:02,926
different tv honestly.

684
00:16:02,926 --> 00:16:05,956
So like, I mostly comment on reality tv.

685
00:16:05,956 --> 00:16:06,016
Yeah.

686
00:16:06,236 --> 00:16:07,076
and mostly like the, yeah.

687
00:16:07,076 --> 00:16:07,916
The loved ones.

688
00:16:08,137 --> 00:16:09,496
I try to get into the gaming ones.

689
00:16:09,496 --> 00:16:11,439
Like I tried to get into big Brother.

690
00:16:11,603 --> 00:16:12,983
I don't really understand it,

691
00:16:13,214 --> 00:16:14,768
there seems to be so much going

692
00:16:14,768 --> 00:16:17,445
on, so I tried this and it, failed.

693
00:16:17,445 --> 00:16:18,825
I don't know, it didn't work out

694
00:16:18,825 --> 00:16:20,265
for me, but I'm gonna try again.

695
00:16:20,265 --> 00:16:21,435
Another, because I really,

696
00:16:21,558 --> 00:16:22,805
everyone watches Big Brother.

697
00:16:22,805 --> 00:16:24,155
I'm like, I really wanna understand it.

698
00:16:24,351 --> 00:16:24,681
okay.

699
00:16:24,681 --> 00:16:25,641
But let me answer your question.

700
00:16:25,641 --> 00:16:25,736
Special Forces.

701
00:16:28,037 --> 00:16:28,663
Special Forces.

702
00:16:29,249 --> 00:16:30,185
I haven't watched that.

703
00:16:30,185 --> 00:16:30,575
No.

704
00:16:30,816 --> 00:16:31,898
I feel like you would like it.

705
00:16:31,898 --> 00:16:34,663
It's like reality, but it's so like.

706
00:16:34,663 --> 00:16:35,578
It's intense.

707
00:16:35,612 --> 00:16:37,664
Okay, so it's reality stars put

708
00:16:37,664 --> 00:16:39,614
on a competition show, so they're

709
00:16:39,614 --> 00:16:41,984
competing to win special forces.

710
00:16:42,187 --> 00:16:43,406
And like they've had people like,

711
00:16:43,640 --> 00:16:45,830
Hannah Brown or Nick Vile, or, I'm

712
00:16:45,830 --> 00:16:46,520
trying to think of other people.

713
00:16:46,520 --> 00:16:47,806
They're bachelors, but like

714
00:16:47,806 --> 00:16:49,300
other, like, celebrities.

715
00:16:49,522 --> 00:16:50,542
so the woman that dated like

716
00:16:50,542 --> 00:16:53,015
Travis Kelsey, Kayla, Nicole.

717
00:16:53,217 --> 00:16:54,897
so like, people like that are big,

718
00:16:55,144 --> 00:16:57,674
celebrities, athletes, reality TV

719
00:16:57,674 --> 00:16:59,680
stars, and they compete and it's

720
00:16:59,680 --> 00:17:01,317
like really tough competition.

721
00:17:01,317 --> 00:17:02,607
They work with actual people from

722
00:17:02,607 --> 00:17:05,624
special forces and it's like intense.

723
00:17:05,624 --> 00:17:06,644
It's good though 'cause you get

724
00:17:06,644 --> 00:17:08,304
the drama, but you also get, like,

725
00:17:08,334 --> 00:17:09,740
you see them Trying their best

726
00:17:09,740 --> 00:17:11,480
to like win at this competition.

727
00:17:11,657 --> 00:17:11,697
Yeah.

728
00:17:11,697 --> 00:17:12,837
Ooh, okay.

729
00:17:12,837 --> 00:17:13,797
I will have to check that out.

730
00:17:13,797 --> 00:17:14,884
I mean, like, I love anything

731
00:17:14,884 --> 00:17:16,364
with drama, honestly.

732
00:17:16,499 --> 00:17:16,537
Yeah.

733
00:17:16,537 --> 00:17:17,737
I mean, also, like a lot of times on

734
00:17:17,737 --> 00:17:20,016
my content, I do random TikTok drama.

735
00:17:20,308 --> 00:17:22,343
I think there's also a lot stuff there

736
00:17:22,343 --> 00:17:24,346
that like randomly gets flown up I

737
00:17:24,346 --> 00:17:26,259
did the Louis Vuitton chocolate Yes.

738
00:17:27,099 --> 00:17:27,639
Drama.

739
00:17:28,099 --> 00:17:29,855
and the girl with the, dermatology

740
00:17:29,855 --> 00:17:31,800
thing that happened, that was like not

741
00:17:31,800 --> 00:17:33,540
washing her face, not doing anything.

742
00:17:33,540 --> 00:17:33,600
Her

743
00:17:33,600 --> 00:17:34,050
Yes.

744
00:17:34,050 --> 00:17:36,060
Whatever happened with that, was that out?

745
00:17:36,060 --> 00:17:38,190
Um, she got a deal with Sarah V and

746
00:17:38,190 --> 00:17:39,780
started washing her face, basically.

747
00:17:40,640 --> 00:17:42,080
I could not tell if this

748
00:17:42,080 --> 00:17:43,337
was like what's it called?

749
00:17:43,337 --> 00:17:44,507
Where they try to get people mad.

750
00:17:44,507 --> 00:17:45,227
What's it called?

751
00:17:45,327 --> 00:17:45,867
Rage bait.

752
00:17:45,987 --> 00:17:46,317
Yeah.

753
00:17:46,317 --> 00:17:47,217
I couldn't tell if it was rage bait.

754
00:17:47,217 --> 00:17:48,747
I couldn't, I couldn't either.

755
00:17:48,957 --> 00:17:51,347
Part of me feels like it was but then

756
00:17:51,347 --> 00:17:53,603
they also found like an old post,

757
00:17:53,603 --> 00:17:55,223
like a year ago of her having done

758
00:17:55,223 --> 00:17:56,942
the same thing, like, but from Reddit.

759
00:17:57,182 --> 00:17:58,702
So I don't know.

760
00:17:58,702 --> 00:18:00,262
But Sarah v got involved and like got

761
00:18:00,262 --> 00:18:01,642
her to put moisturizer on, and then

762
00:18:01,642 --> 00:18:02,572
it started falling off, which I'm

763
00:18:02,572 --> 00:18:04,076
like, yeah, because you're putting,

764
00:18:04,312 --> 00:18:05,807
like yeah, it's gonna fall off.

765
00:18:06,219 --> 00:18:07,449
you have literally not touched

766
00:18:07,449 --> 00:18:09,459
your face and you're building

767
00:18:09,459 --> 00:18:11,859
up dirt and old skin cells.

768
00:18:11,966 --> 00:18:12,956
that's what's gonna happen.

769
00:18:13,116 --> 00:18:14,661
so like I also do stuff like that

770
00:18:14,797 --> 00:18:16,177
my stuff is like, I have a DD, it's

771
00:18:16,177 --> 00:18:17,347
a little bit a DD too, where I'm

772
00:18:17,347 --> 00:18:18,547
like, whatever I'm interested in.

773
00:18:18,637 --> 00:18:18,727
Right.

774
00:18:19,687 --> 00:18:20,017
Whatever.

775
00:18:20,017 --> 00:18:21,127
I'm interested in that moment.

776
00:18:21,351 --> 00:18:22,984
but it is definitely more like reality TV

777
00:18:22,984 --> 00:18:25,131
drama and then, like TikTok type of drama.

778
00:18:25,359 --> 00:18:25,807
Yeah.

779
00:18:25,927 --> 00:18:27,337
But I am interested in, like right

780
00:18:27,337 --> 00:18:29,577
now I'm watching Huntington Wives on

781
00:18:29,577 --> 00:18:31,810
Netflix, I was thinking about like.

782
00:18:32,231 --> 00:18:32,998
Yes,

783
00:18:33,119 --> 00:18:34,288
I just heard about this.

784
00:18:34,288 --> 00:18:34,768
How is it?

785
00:18:34,768 --> 00:18:35,433
It's so good.

786
00:18:35,663 --> 00:18:35,953
Yeah.

787
00:18:36,343 --> 00:18:37,768
It's so, so, so good.

788
00:18:37,978 --> 00:18:39,515
And like sometimes I will, for

789
00:18:39,515 --> 00:18:40,478
me it's not always for views.

790
00:18:40,478 --> 00:18:41,588
So like, maybe I won't

791
00:18:41,588 --> 00:18:42,488
get a lot of views on it.

792
00:18:42,488 --> 00:18:43,058
'cause like, that's not

793
00:18:43,058 --> 00:18:44,078
necessarily my main base.

794
00:18:44,078 --> 00:18:46,495
But like, even  severance, I did a lot of

795
00:18:46,495 --> 00:18:47,905
posts on that because I love that show.

796
00:18:47,905 --> 00:18:47,935
Okay.

797
00:18:48,177 --> 00:18:49,432
And I just wanted to talk, talk about it.

798
00:18:49,462 --> 00:18:50,452
I was like, somebody will, I was

799
00:18:50,452 --> 00:18:51,442
like, I just wanna talk about it.

800
00:18:51,442 --> 00:18:53,722
So people will come across it.

801
00:18:53,722 --> 00:18:54,742
And yeah, some people will

802
00:18:54,742 --> 00:18:56,332
come across it, but like, yeah.

803
00:18:56,332 --> 00:18:58,492
So I do watch other things and so I,

804
00:18:58,492 --> 00:19:01,288
guess sometimes I do wish that, like,

805
00:19:01,288 --> 00:19:02,235
I think it's hard with the algorithm

806
00:19:02,235 --> 00:19:03,719
from, or whatever, but it would be

807
00:19:03,719 --> 00:19:06,068
easier for people to find me that

808
00:19:06,068 --> 00:19:08,168
if I'm like doing stuff outside of

809
00:19:08,168 --> 00:19:09,818
the, like, reality tv, TikTok, drama,

810
00:19:09,868 --> 00:19:11,248
when I am making those contents.

811
00:19:11,406 --> 00:19:11,838
Yeah.

812
00:19:11,868 --> 00:19:12,198
Yeah.

813
00:19:12,198 --> 00:19:13,188
It's hard to know like what's

814
00:19:13,188 --> 00:19:14,388
gonna like, take off or what people

815
00:19:14,388 --> 00:19:15,408
are gonna like, resonate with.

816
00:19:15,879 --> 00:19:15,954
Yeah.

817
00:19:15,954 --> 00:19:17,094
But that like TikTok drama

818
00:19:17,124 --> 00:19:18,637
stuff, man, it goes fast.

819
00:19:18,637 --> 00:19:20,167
It's like you gotta like hop on it

820
00:19:20,167 --> 00:19:21,604
fast because before you know it, if

821
00:19:21,604 --> 00:19:22,990
I don't, scroll for a couple days.

822
00:19:23,020 --> 00:19:23,980
'cause sometimes like there's like

823
00:19:24,045 --> 00:19:25,493
weeks where I just post and I'm like, I

824
00:19:25,493 --> 00:19:26,723
don't have time to scroll or whatever.

825
00:19:26,932 --> 00:19:27,150
Yeah.

826
00:19:27,270 --> 00:19:27,540
Scroll.

827
00:19:27,540 --> 00:19:28,860
I'm like, wait, what's this drama with

828
00:19:28,860 --> 00:19:30,366
so-and-so, what does she do to her?

829
00:19:30,510 --> 00:19:31,636
And I'm like, okay, I have to

830
00:19:31,636 --> 00:19:32,956
find out who these people are.

831
00:19:32,956 --> 00:19:33,916
It's wild.

832
00:19:33,946 --> 00:19:35,326
Yes, yes.

833
00:19:35,514 --> 00:19:36,840
And some people are really, really on it.

834
00:19:36,983 --> 00:19:37,763
some people it's a

835
00:19:37,763 --> 00:19:39,353
little bit easier to do.

836
00:19:39,353 --> 00:19:40,133
I know like there's some people

837
00:19:40,133 --> 00:19:40,943
I follow where it's like,

838
00:19:40,943 --> 00:19:41,813
this is their full-time job.

839
00:19:41,813 --> 00:19:44,320
So like they can scroll most of the day.

840
00:19:44,320 --> 00:19:45,580
And then like, for me it's not so

841
00:19:45,580 --> 00:19:46,730
like, I can't, I'll have some people

842
00:19:46,730 --> 00:19:47,570
write and be like, I want your ticket.

843
00:19:47,570 --> 00:19:48,320
I was like, I missed it.

844
00:19:48,320 --> 00:19:48,860
I'm sorry.

845
00:19:48,860 --> 00:19:49,670
I was like, I literally do

846
00:19:49,670 --> 00:19:50,750
not have time right now.

847
00:19:50,930 --> 00:19:52,336
whatever was my schedule at that

848
00:19:52,336 --> 00:19:53,326
time, I'm like, I don't have

849
00:19:53,326 --> 00:19:54,286
time to even comment on this.

850
00:19:54,286 --> 00:19:55,096
Like, I'm so sorry.

851
00:19:55,276 --> 00:19:56,716
Like, I'm catching babies.

852
00:19:56,746 --> 00:19:56,926
Like

853
00:19:58,576 --> 00:19:59,806
.
You were out there quite literally

854
00:19:59,806 --> 00:20:02,431
saving lives I know when you first told

855
00:20:02,431 --> 00:20:03,851
me you're a labor and delivery nurse to

856
00:20:03,851 --> 00:20:05,608
her, I was like, how do you do it all?

857
00:20:05,608 --> 00:20:06,341
I was like, you were

858
00:20:06,341 --> 00:20:07,661
literally an angel on earth.

859
00:20:07,948 --> 00:20:08,248
Oh my gosh.

860
00:20:08,548 --> 00:20:09,478
I'm not sleeping very much.

861
00:20:10,468 --> 00:20:11,038
Yeah.

862
00:20:11,038 --> 00:20:11,548
Oh my gosh.

863
00:20:11,715 --> 00:20:13,845
I always knew nurses were amazing people.

864
00:20:13,845 --> 00:20:15,253
My grandma was an ER nurse.

865
00:20:15,821 --> 00:20:15,851
Oh.

866
00:20:15,851 --> 00:20:17,201
And so I'm like, I always heard

867
00:20:17,201 --> 00:20:18,741
about like, working in the ER and

868
00:20:18,741 --> 00:20:19,731
everything, but then it's like

869
00:20:19,731 --> 00:20:21,451
once I had my baby and I was like.

870
00:20:21,898 --> 00:20:24,206
These nurses are just incredible.

871
00:20:24,206 --> 00:20:25,883
Like, you guys are just amazing.

872
00:20:26,003 --> 00:20:27,203
this is totally side note and

873
00:20:27,203 --> 00:20:28,853
everything, but like how did you get

874
00:20:28,853 --> 00:20:31,603
into labor and delivery and like, I mean

875
00:20:31,693 --> 00:20:32,713
?
Well, yeah.

876
00:20:32,803 --> 00:20:34,773
I mean, so my first nursing job

877
00:20:34,773 --> 00:20:37,023
was actually as a transplant nurse.

878
00:20:37,023 --> 00:20:39,483
So I worked, inpatient for people on a

879
00:20:39,483 --> 00:20:41,063
unit that just did, what was it called?

880
00:20:41,063 --> 00:20:43,940
Kidneys, livers, and pancreatic, some

881
00:20:43,940 --> 00:20:45,440
lung transplants, things like that.

882
00:20:45,495 --> 00:20:46,738
but when I was in nursing school

883
00:20:46,862 --> 00:20:48,898
we did our labor rounds, I had like

884
00:20:48,898 --> 00:20:50,275
One shift where we like actually

885
00:20:50,275 --> 00:20:52,105
got to be in like the labor unit.

886
00:20:52,105 --> 00:20:53,455
We did a lot on Mother, baby.

887
00:20:53,739 --> 00:20:54,909
I was like, oh, this is really fun.

888
00:20:54,909 --> 00:20:55,707
Like, I thought I would, like really

889
00:20:55,707 --> 00:20:57,957
enjoy it, but I was also a little bit

890
00:20:57,957 --> 00:21:00,310
scared because, some stats stuff can

891
00:21:00,310 --> 00:21:01,780
happen too, like losses and things.

892
00:21:01,780 --> 00:21:03,310
And I'm a very empathetic person.

893
00:21:03,381 --> 00:21:04,624
I'm one of those people, like, I will

894
00:21:04,654 --> 00:21:06,222
cry at movies, thinking about certain

895
00:21:06,222 --> 00:21:07,692
things will start to make me cry honestly.

896
00:21:07,692 --> 00:21:08,946
Like I fox in the hound.

897
00:21:09,126 --> 00:21:10,566
Even just thinking about them talk

898
00:21:10,626 --> 00:21:13,056
will make me cry like you did.

899
00:21:13,296 --> 00:21:15,255
So I, like really empathize

900
00:21:15,255 --> 00:21:16,155
very well with people.

901
00:21:16,279 --> 00:21:17,419
I was a little bit nervous, so like

902
00:21:17,419 --> 00:21:19,309
when I went to go get my first nursing

903
00:21:19,309 --> 00:21:21,079
job, I was like, I actually did apply

904
00:21:21,079 --> 00:21:22,339
for labor, but then I turned it down

905
00:21:22,339 --> 00:21:23,059
because I was like, I don't know if I

906
00:21:23,059 --> 00:21:24,409
can handle it if something happened.

907
00:21:24,630 --> 00:21:25,980
but then I kept thinking about

908
00:21:25,980 --> 00:21:27,000
it and I kept thinking about it.

909
00:21:27,183 --> 00:21:28,563
so then I was like, okay,

910
00:21:28,563 --> 00:21:29,283
I just need to do it.

911
00:21:29,313 --> 00:21:31,113
So then I stayed in the same hospital, but

912
00:21:31,113 --> 00:21:33,007
I just ended up applying and like, but it

913
00:21:33,007 --> 00:21:34,207
was basically 'cause I just kept thinking

914
00:21:34,207 --> 00:21:35,557
about it and I was like, I'm just.

915
00:21:35,747 --> 00:21:36,489
I'm really interested.

916
00:21:36,549 --> 00:21:37,389
Like, I was like, obviously

917
00:21:37,389 --> 00:21:38,647
I should just do it then.

918
00:21:38,894 --> 00:21:39,585
and so then, know, it

919
00:21:39,585 --> 00:21:40,125
has been really good.

920
00:21:40,125 --> 00:21:41,295
Obviously when sad things happened,

921
00:21:41,295 --> 00:21:43,135
it says still really like, touch me.

922
00:21:43,389 --> 00:21:44,859
but I am able to deal with it.

923
00:21:45,079 --> 00:21:46,915
but like, everybody, there's, it just is

924
00:21:46,915 --> 00:21:48,535
something that happens, but there's just

925
00:21:48,535 --> 00:21:50,335
so many beautiful moments that happen.

926
00:21:50,573 --> 00:21:52,303
it's so many, like being able to be

927
00:21:52,303 --> 00:21:54,253
there for women when they're going

928
00:21:54,253 --> 00:21:56,160
through this, or be there for mothers,

929
00:21:56,366 --> 00:21:57,716
not everyone identifies as women,

930
00:21:57,716 --> 00:21:59,221
but like, being there for mothers

931
00:21:59,221 --> 00:22:00,338
when they're going through this, um.

932
00:22:00,478 --> 00:22:02,238
It just feels so beautiful I really

933
00:22:02,238 --> 00:22:03,828
love being able to support that process,

934
00:22:03,828 --> 00:22:05,478
being able to support the baby and like

935
00:22:05,699 --> 00:22:07,428
just being there for that whole thing.

936
00:22:07,518 --> 00:22:07,938
So.

937
00:22:07,998 --> 00:22:08,568
Yeah.

938
00:22:08,802 --> 00:22:09,665
Oh, I love that.

939
00:22:09,798 --> 00:22:11,178
No, I love hearing like how people

940
00:22:11,178 --> 00:22:12,828
got into nursing and stuff and like

941
00:22:12,948 --> 00:22:14,593
their department because, I used

942
00:22:14,593 --> 00:22:16,093
to work for a mom and baby burn,

943
00:22:16,093 --> 00:22:17,383
and so like, I would talk to like,

944
00:22:17,557 --> 00:22:20,313
nurses and doulas and oh, you know,

945
00:22:20,313 --> 00:22:21,933
just people in the field and stuff.

946
00:22:21,933 --> 00:22:23,463
So I'm always just so curious about it.

947
00:22:23,463 --> 00:22:24,744
I love, that kind of stuff.

948
00:22:24,804 --> 00:22:24,864
Yeah.

949
00:22:24,864 --> 00:22:25,550
Just a little, side

950
00:22:25,550 --> 00:22:26,510
note, but yeah, why not?

951
00:22:26,510 --> 00:22:27,140
I love that.

952
00:22:27,293 --> 00:22:27,624
Okay.

953
00:22:27,714 --> 00:22:30,437
Let's get into the wedding portion of.

954
00:22:30,467 --> 00:22:30,707
Okay.

955
00:22:30,797 --> 00:22:31,337
I'm excited.

956
00:22:32,509 --> 00:22:32,789
I didn't know.

957
00:22:32,794 --> 00:22:33,224
I love drama.

958
00:22:33,224 --> 00:22:33,554
I was let as.

959
00:22:34,364 --> 00:22:35,903
Yes, we live for the drama here.

960
00:22:36,863 --> 00:22:38,813
It's a good, uh, mental break from

961
00:22:38,813 --> 00:22:40,496
the world and all that, but, okay.

962
00:22:40,496 --> 00:22:42,686
So starting off, do you have

963
00:22:42,686 --> 00:22:44,486
any like wild wedding stories or

964
00:22:44,486 --> 00:22:45,776
wedding stories that come to mind

965
00:22:45,776 --> 00:22:47,386
when you, first think of weddings?

966
00:22:47,887 --> 00:22:48,141
Okay.

967
00:22:48,247 --> 00:22:50,357
it's not necessarily wild, but when

968
00:22:50,357 --> 00:22:52,618
it's about me, and it was something I

969
00:22:52,618 --> 00:22:53,608
was like younger, so I don't even know

970
00:22:53,650 --> 00:22:55,064
why I was doing this, but like it was

971
00:22:55,064 --> 00:22:57,134
during My oldest sister's wedding, and

972
00:22:57,134 --> 00:22:59,294
when it was the throwing the bouquet

973
00:22:59,294 --> 00:23:01,225
part, we're all like vying for it.

974
00:23:01,389 --> 00:23:03,539
And then it ends up being, I look up and

975
00:23:03,539 --> 00:23:05,459
it's actually me and I'm like pulling,

976
00:23:05,459 --> 00:23:06,659
like, pulling, like trying to get this.

977
00:23:06,659 --> 00:23:07,793
And I think I just locked in.

978
00:23:07,793 --> 00:23:08,903
I was like, I don't even know why.

979
00:23:08,903 --> 00:23:09,971
I'm like, how old was I?

980
00:23:09,971 --> 00:23:12,129
Even like, I feel like like 17.

981
00:23:12,962 --> 00:23:13,947
I was like, I'm next.

982
00:23:13,947 --> 00:23:15,207
What was I doing?

983
00:23:15,262 --> 00:23:16,582
but I was like, I'm fighting for this.

984
00:23:16,582 --> 00:23:18,142
And then I look up and it was actually my

985
00:23:18,142 --> 00:23:20,447
other sister, and everybody else was gone.

986
00:23:20,807 --> 00:23:21,947
Do you guys actually pull poll at this?

987
00:23:21,947 --> 00:23:23,627
Yes, we were pulling at this.

988
00:23:23,824 --> 00:23:25,110
I just feel like we locked in.

989
00:23:25,174 --> 00:23:26,280
I don't even know what I was thinking,

990
00:23:26,280 --> 00:23:27,900
but I was like, I'm getting this.

991
00:23:28,080 --> 00:23:29,464
I got very competitive at the,

992
00:23:29,554 --> 00:23:30,844
but we both did apparently.

993
00:23:31,260 --> 00:23:31,950
my other sister were sometimes I

994
00:23:31,950 --> 00:23:33,709
actually dating somebody, and she

995
00:23:33,709 --> 00:23:34,909
was a little bit older so like,

996
00:23:34,999 --> 00:23:36,529
you know, like made more sense.

997
00:23:36,779 --> 00:23:37,889
It just made more sense.

998
00:23:38,095 --> 00:23:39,405
But it's so funny to like watch the

999
00:23:39,405 --> 00:23:40,695
video 'cause it's just like everybody

1000
00:23:40,695 --> 00:23:41,775
else has gone and just watching us like

1001
00:23:41,775 --> 00:23:42,945
literally pull for this thing and then

1002
00:23:42,945 --> 00:23:44,085
like we, I look up and I was like, oh.

1003
00:23:44,085 --> 00:23:44,745
And I let it go.

1004
00:23:44,866 --> 00:23:45,292
I was like, oh.

1005
00:23:45,742 --> 00:23:46,492
I was like, so sorry.

1006
00:23:47,812 --> 00:23:48,772
Something just came over me.

1007
00:23:48,772 --> 00:23:49,192
I'm sorry.

1008
00:23:49,222 --> 00:23:49,492
Yeah.

1009
00:23:49,492 --> 00:23:50,662
I was like, I dunno what's going on.

1010
00:23:50,662 --> 00:23:52,552
Like, like the sister thing.

1011
00:23:52,552 --> 00:23:53,332
We'll just let them

1012
00:23:53,482 --> 00:23:53,812
Yeah.

1013
00:23:53,812 --> 00:23:54,142
Figure it out.

1014
00:23:55,492 --> 00:23:55,612
Yeah.

1015
00:23:56,458 --> 00:23:56,542
Gosh.

1016
00:23:56,542 --> 00:23:57,742
I've been to weddings where people get

1017
00:23:57,742 --> 00:23:59,782
pretty like, vicious over like the bouquet

1018
00:23:59,782 --> 00:24:01,672
toss or like push people out the way.

1019
00:24:01,672 --> 00:24:03,412
And I'm like, yeah guys,

1020
00:24:03,501 --> 00:24:04,401
it's gonna be okay.

1021
00:24:04,406 --> 00:24:05,421
It's, it's gonna be fine.

1022
00:24:05,451 --> 00:24:06,051
It's gonna be fine.

1023
00:24:06,211 --> 00:24:07,231
but sometimes it's just a

1024
00:24:07,231 --> 00:24:08,881
competitive nature, you know?

1025
00:24:08,999 --> 00:24:09,858
That takes over.

1026
00:24:09,868 --> 00:24:11,218
I can't tell you what I was thinking.

1027
00:24:11,218 --> 00:24:13,246
I don't think I was, I think, I think

1028
00:24:13,246 --> 00:24:15,091
I just had it and I was like, it would.

1029
00:24:17,810 --> 00:24:18,994
You're like, okay, you can take it.

1030
00:24:19,264 --> 00:24:19,504
Yeah.

1031
00:24:19,504 --> 00:24:20,494
I was like, oh, ooh.

1032
00:24:20,784 --> 00:24:21,423
My bad dresser.

1033
00:24:22,323 --> 00:24:23,313
It's so funny 'cause I remember

1034
00:24:23,313 --> 00:24:25,083
going to weddings in like my early

1035
00:24:25,083 --> 00:24:26,163
twenties, so I don't even know if I

1036
00:24:26,163 --> 00:24:28,166
was with my now husband yet, but like,

1037
00:24:28,166 --> 00:24:29,696
I'd be at weddings and like I was in

1038
00:24:29,696 --> 00:24:31,166
that mind frame where I was like, I

1039
00:24:31,196 --> 00:24:32,546
don't wanna get married for a while.

1040
00:24:32,738 --> 00:24:34,199
And the bouquet would come and I would

1041
00:24:34,199 --> 00:24:36,289
just look at it and just step back.

1042
00:24:36,289 --> 00:24:36,349
Yeah.

1043
00:24:38,681 --> 00:24:40,076
I'm like, someone else take it.

1044
00:24:40,076 --> 00:24:40,946
There's been a few weddings

1045
00:24:40,946 --> 00:24:42,086
like that where like no one

1046
00:24:42,086 --> 00:24:43,873
grabs it and I'm like, oh man.

1047
00:24:43,873 --> 00:24:44,773
We're all just like.

1048
00:24:44,773 --> 00:24:45,073
Yeah.

1049
00:24:45,073 --> 00:24:45,673
Like everyone's like,

1050
00:24:45,673 --> 00:24:46,453
oh, don't, don't jinx me.

1051
00:24:46,483 --> 00:24:46,663
Yeah.

1052
00:24:46,663 --> 00:24:46,933
Like we're not

1053
00:24:48,938 --> 00:24:49,888
Times have changed.

1054
00:24:50,497 --> 00:24:51,361
Yeah, exactly.

1055
00:24:51,886 --> 00:24:53,476
We're waiting a little longer these days.

1056
00:24:53,708 --> 00:24:54,308
that's so funny.

1057
00:24:54,522 --> 00:24:55,012
oh my gosh.

1058
00:24:55,012 --> 00:24:56,592
I love that because, it's one of those

1059
00:24:56,592 --> 00:24:58,303
things where like people are either

1060
00:24:58,328 --> 00:25:00,662
like so into the bouquet toss and garter

1061
00:25:00,662 --> 00:25:02,342
toss and other people are like, no.

1062
00:25:02,462 --> 00:25:03,945
I always ask my audience what

1063
00:25:03,945 --> 00:25:05,415
are your unpopular opinions?

1064
00:25:05,622 --> 00:25:07,473
And I would say like, I. Most of the time

1065
00:25:07,473 --> 00:25:09,627
one of those come up as like, don't do it.

1066
00:25:09,780 --> 00:25:11,433
people are like, don't do the garter toss.

1067
00:25:11,433 --> 00:25:12,213
It's weird.

1068
00:25:12,273 --> 00:25:13,683
Don't do the bouquet toss.

1069
00:25:13,683 --> 00:25:14,873
It's starts fights.

1070
00:25:14,873 --> 00:25:16,793
And I'm just like, it's interesting how,

1071
00:25:16,817 --> 00:25:18,707
the dynamic has kind of changed on those.

1072
00:25:18,941 --> 00:25:19,273
Yeah.

1073
00:25:19,313 --> 00:25:20,900
I think it can start, right?

1074
00:25:21,342 --> 00:25:22,307
But also I think it's one of those

1075
00:25:22,307 --> 00:25:23,567
things where like, it's very easy

1076
00:25:23,567 --> 00:25:25,247
to like get dangerous really quickly

1077
00:25:25,247 --> 00:25:26,703
because people are like jumping

1078
00:25:26,703 --> 00:25:27,670
and like, there could be an elbow.

1079
00:25:27,670 --> 00:25:29,140
Like, it's not even like you're trying

1080
00:25:29,140 --> 00:25:31,215
to do, but it's like, for my own, I

1081
00:25:31,377 --> 00:25:32,622
don't think I probably would do it.

1082
00:25:32,722 --> 00:25:34,462
I don't know if anyone that's coming

1083
00:25:34,462 --> 00:25:36,142
would fight over it, but like, I also

1084
00:25:36,142 --> 00:25:37,989
just don't want any accidents to happen

1085
00:25:37,989 --> 00:25:39,743
over, like just throwing this thing.

1086
00:25:39,983 --> 00:25:41,698
I know didn't do them at my

1087
00:25:41,698 --> 00:25:44,068
wedding and I was just telling

1088
00:25:44,068 --> 00:25:45,459
someone while back, but I was like,

1089
00:25:45,644 --> 00:25:48,316
honestly, I am not very Athletic.

1090
00:25:48,533 --> 00:25:48,773
Yeah.

1091
00:25:48,998 --> 00:25:50,773
So I could see myself throwing the

1092
00:25:50,773 --> 00:25:52,153
bouquet, hitting someone in the

1093
00:25:52,153 --> 00:25:55,663
face, separation, breaking something.

1094
00:25:55,663 --> 00:25:56,958
So I'm like, not just

1095
00:25:56,963 --> 00:25:58,123
not throwing anything.

1096
00:25:58,123 --> 00:25:58,903
But it might not even

1097
00:25:58,903 --> 00:26:00,373
go where everybody is.

1098
00:26:01,123 --> 00:26:02,623
How embarrassing would that be?

1099
00:26:02,833 --> 00:26:03,253
I throw it.

1100
00:26:03,478 --> 00:26:03,718
I don't.

1101
00:26:04,588 --> 00:26:06,883
Exactly and I don't want be embarrassed.

1102
00:26:07,123 --> 00:26:07,363
Yeah.

1103
00:26:07,363 --> 00:26:09,133
I'm like, let's just take that away.

1104
00:26:09,389 --> 00:26:09,520
yeah.

1105
00:26:09,520 --> 00:26:10,000
I love that.

1106
00:26:10,193 --> 00:26:10,516
Okay.

1107
00:26:10,516 --> 00:26:12,046
Here are some hot takes that people

1108
00:26:12,046 --> 00:26:13,366
have sent in and we can just kind

1109
00:26:13,366 --> 00:26:14,836
of share our opinions on them.

1110
00:26:14,836 --> 00:26:14,866
Okay.

1111
00:26:15,063 --> 00:26:15,425
this says.

1112
00:26:16,047 --> 00:26:18,596
If you need a content day during your

1113
00:26:18,596 --> 00:26:20,503
wedding week, you're not planning a

1114
00:26:20,503 --> 00:26:23,163
marriage, you're producing a mini series.

1115
00:26:23,358 --> 00:26:24,360
So they're saying, like,

1116
00:26:24,410 --> 00:26:25,880
I've heard of this more, more

1117
00:26:25,880 --> 00:26:27,393
and more now with weddings.

1118
00:26:27,393 --> 00:26:28,863
people are so concerned with the overall

1119
00:26:28,863 --> 00:26:30,693
look that they'll plan out content

1120
00:26:30,743 --> 00:26:32,663
during their video or during their day.

1121
00:26:32,723 --> 00:26:34,713
Like they'll film stuff or do like,

1122
00:26:34,743 --> 00:26:37,113
tiktoks have a TikTok section.

1123
00:26:37,340 --> 00:26:38,507
I've never been a part of one

1124
00:26:38,507 --> 00:26:39,917
that does that, but yeah, either

1125
00:26:40,049 --> 00:26:41,960
this person must have seen it.

1126
00:26:42,253 --> 00:26:43,573
So they're saying if you're

1127
00:26:43,603 --> 00:26:45,073
planning con, then you're, what?

1128
00:26:45,133 --> 00:26:46,153
What's that last part they said?

1129
00:26:46,213 --> 00:26:47,023
You're not thinking about

1130
00:26:47,023 --> 00:26:48,223
planning a marriage, you're more

1131
00:26:48,223 --> 00:26:50,233
about producing, like producing

1132
00:26:50,233 --> 00:26:51,823
something like a mini series.

1133
00:26:52,076 --> 00:26:52,357
Hmm.

1134
00:26:52,706 --> 00:26:53,939
You know what I feel like

1135
00:26:53,939 --> 00:26:55,199
I have two ideas about it.

1136
00:26:55,392 --> 00:26:57,822
I can see how like, yes, I feel

1137
00:26:57,822 --> 00:26:58,602
like that could be true for a

1138
00:26:58,602 --> 00:26:59,622
lot of people where it's like,

1139
00:26:59,622 --> 00:27:02,756
if you're so focused on that and.

1140
00:27:02,929 --> 00:27:05,201
Also like doing different con, I mean,

1141
00:27:05,261 --> 00:27:06,821
I think financially too, like how

1142
00:27:06,821 --> 00:27:07,901
much money are you putting into this?

1143
00:27:07,901 --> 00:27:09,461
Are you thinking about your life later?

1144
00:27:09,648 --> 00:27:10,201
All that stuff.

1145
00:27:10,261 --> 00:27:11,251
But then I also can think

1146
00:27:11,251 --> 00:27:12,481
like, hey, but maybe somebody

1147
00:27:12,481 --> 00:27:13,971
is they really like tiktoks.

1148
00:27:14,190 --> 00:27:14,973
that's kinda like their thing.

1149
00:27:14,973 --> 00:27:15,873
They're like, they're always

1150
00:27:15,873 --> 00:27:17,013
doing like content stuff.

1151
00:27:17,193 --> 00:27:18,847
So then why wouldn't they have that

1152
00:27:18,937 --> 00:27:20,047
to be a part of their wedding too?

1153
00:27:20,047 --> 00:27:21,367
Because it's representing them.

1154
00:27:21,580 --> 00:27:21,670
Yeah.

1155
00:27:21,700 --> 00:27:24,250
Um, and if this is how you envisioned

1156
00:27:24,250 --> 00:27:25,730
it, I don't think that's a big deal.

1157
00:27:25,920 --> 00:27:26,940
as long as it's not like, oh my

1158
00:27:26,940 --> 00:27:28,233
God, like this, okay, you guys

1159
00:27:28,233 --> 00:27:29,253
don't do this TikTok, right.

1160
00:27:29,253 --> 00:27:29,703
Blah, blah, blah.

1161
00:27:29,815 --> 00:27:30,775
But if it's like, if it's just

1162
00:27:30,775 --> 00:27:32,769
for fun and you're like, I want my

1163
00:27:32,769 --> 00:27:34,265
day to be full of like different

1164
00:27:34,265 --> 00:27:35,915
times that I can capture the day

1165
00:27:36,095 --> 00:27:37,415
I think if the other parties are

1166
00:27:37,415 --> 00:27:38,855
okay with it and it's like your

1167
00:27:38,855 --> 00:27:40,055
day and you like, tell people

1168
00:27:40,055 --> 00:27:41,225
we're gonna do this, it's fine.

1169
00:27:41,432 --> 00:27:43,262
did you see the TikTok drama

1170
00:27:43,292 --> 00:27:44,582
talking about TikTok drama?

1171
00:27:44,718 --> 00:27:45,958
She was a makeup artist that

1172
00:27:45,958 --> 00:27:47,068
was hired for a wedding.

1173
00:27:47,308 --> 00:27:48,442
there were photographers there,

1174
00:27:48,661 --> 00:27:50,458
but she had her own plans for

1175
00:27:50,458 --> 00:27:53,158
tiktoks to be filmed during the day.

1176
00:27:53,342 --> 00:27:54,478
So like, literally they were done

1177
00:27:54,478 --> 00:27:56,728
with makeup and she is going around

1178
00:27:56,728 --> 00:27:58,138
doing, having the bridesmaids

1179
00:27:58,138 --> 00:28:00,262
and bride do tiktoks while they

1180
00:28:00,262 --> 00:28:01,702
have like another timeline.

1181
00:28:01,959 --> 00:28:02,382
Wait, wait, wait.

1182
00:28:02,707 --> 00:28:05,077
This is the ma and she was like, involved.

1183
00:28:05,077 --> 00:28:06,637
Yes, I know exactly what

1184
00:28:06,637 --> 00:28:07,627
you're talking about.

1185
00:28:07,627 --> 00:28:08,587
And then she caught in her car saying

1186
00:28:08,587 --> 00:28:10,417
they treated her horribly kicking.

1187
00:28:10,417 --> 00:28:10,477
Yeah.

1188
00:28:10,567 --> 00:28:11,917
Honestly, this is one of my

1189
00:28:11,917 --> 00:28:13,387
things that also blew up for me.

1190
00:28:13,392 --> 00:28:13,602
Really?

1191
00:28:13,602 --> 00:28:14,377
Like in the way, in the

1192
00:28:14,377 --> 00:28:15,547
really beginning for me.

1193
00:28:15,762 --> 00:28:16,173
Yes.

1194
00:28:16,357 --> 00:28:17,070
I know exactly.

1195
00:28:17,070 --> 00:28:19,565
Oh my God, I remember this just of it.

1196
00:28:19,565 --> 00:28:20,540
She was unhinged.

1197
00:28:20,540 --> 00:28:21,830
Yeah, she was unhinged.

1198
00:28:21,830 --> 00:28:24,593
Like even in the first look, she was there

1199
00:28:24,593 --> 00:28:27,083
and in the photos making it all about her.

1200
00:28:27,143 --> 00:28:27,593
Yes.

1201
00:28:27,593 --> 00:28:28,823
And the brides were crying.

1202
00:28:28,823 --> 00:28:29,573
She's like, okay guys.

1203
00:28:29,573 --> 00:28:29,783
Okay.

1204
00:28:29,783 --> 00:28:30,653
Like, that's too much crying.

1205
00:28:30,653 --> 00:28:31,820
I was like, why aren't you still here?

1206
00:28:31,820 --> 00:28:31,880
Yeah.

1207
00:28:32,425 --> 00:28:34,300
She stayed the whole day.

1208
00:28:34,519 --> 00:28:35,209
and then yeah, she kept

1209
00:28:35,209 --> 00:28:36,319
making them do tiktoks.

1210
00:28:36,464 --> 00:28:38,459
Then when it was time for like the

1211
00:28:38,459 --> 00:28:40,146
after party for the reception, she

1212
00:28:40,146 --> 00:28:41,796
was still trying to get tiktoks.

1213
00:28:41,880 --> 00:28:42,096
Yes.

1214
00:28:42,096 --> 00:28:43,836
I, and then they tried to kick her.

1215
00:28:43,926 --> 00:28:44,166
Yeah.

1216
00:28:44,166 --> 00:28:44,916
Then they tried to kick her

1217
00:28:44,916 --> 00:28:46,282
out and then she was like, she

1218
00:28:46,282 --> 00:28:47,212
left and then she came back.

1219
00:28:47,212 --> 00:28:48,082
She was like, no, you know what?

1220
00:28:48,082 --> 00:28:49,719
I'm not gonna let them bully me.

1221
00:28:49,894 --> 00:28:50,792
And she went back.

1222
00:28:50,797 --> 00:28:51,347
I was like, yes.

1223
00:28:51,842 --> 00:28:52,962
I was like, no.

1224
00:28:53,239 --> 00:28:54,569
It was crazy.

1225
00:28:54,569 --> 00:28:56,355
I was like, I don't understand why you're

1226
00:28:56,355 --> 00:28:58,225
not getting it, she was like, oh my

1227
00:28:58,225 --> 00:28:59,155
God, we were having such a good time.

1228
00:28:59,155 --> 00:28:59,815
We were kiking.

1229
00:28:59,815 --> 00:29:00,537
And I was like, not for

1230
00:29:00,537 --> 00:29:01,497
you to stay the whole day.

1231
00:29:02,087 --> 00:29:04,257
No's not for you to stay the whole day.

1232
00:29:04,738 --> 00:29:05,368
Yeah.

1233
00:29:05,546 --> 00:29:07,002
I didn't make any said, oh, the groomsmen?

1234
00:29:07,002 --> 00:29:08,532
Or, she said someone invited her and they

1235
00:29:08,532 --> 00:29:09,758
were probably just being like friendly.

1236
00:29:09,758 --> 00:29:09,938
Like,

1237
00:29:09,988 --> 00:29:10,408
Oh, like in, no,

1238
00:29:10,408 --> 00:29:11,685
Basically like, the bride, I

1239
00:29:11,685 --> 00:29:13,526
think kept being like, oh, okay.

1240
00:29:13,556 --> 00:29:14,036
Oh, okay.

1241
00:29:14,036 --> 00:29:16,382
Like, and I think she like, just was

1242
00:29:16,382 --> 00:29:18,122
just very kind, and like maybe just

1243
00:29:18,122 --> 00:29:19,832
didn't wanna like do any confrontation.

1244
00:29:20,074 --> 00:29:21,368
But then it wasn't until like

1245
00:29:21,368 --> 00:29:23,468
the groom later at the reception.

1246
00:29:23,725 --> 00:29:24,828
Was like, okay.

1247
00:29:24,828 --> 00:29:25,248
No.

1248
00:29:25,308 --> 00:29:25,908
'cause he was tired.

1249
00:29:26,120 --> 00:29:27,440
he didn't actually agree to any of

1250
00:29:27,440 --> 00:29:28,610
the things that the bride Right.

1251
00:29:28,640 --> 00:29:29,240
You know what I mean?

1252
00:29:29,497 --> 00:29:30,847
had said yes to and then

1253
00:29:31,055 --> 00:29:31,845
the bride was like, no, no.

1254
00:29:31,890 --> 00:29:32,700
Like he's just upset.

1255
00:29:32,700 --> 00:29:33,300
It's okay.

1256
00:29:33,529 --> 00:29:34,800
But then she left and it's like, why

1257
00:29:34,800 --> 00:29:36,030
didn't you take the hint from the groom?

1258
00:29:36,130 --> 00:29:36,940
she's like, well you know what,

1259
00:29:36,940 --> 00:29:38,410
my bride, that's what she said.

1260
00:29:38,410 --> 00:29:39,610
She's like, my bride wants me there.

1261
00:29:39,760 --> 00:29:40,970
It's like, no, she doesn't.

1262
00:29:40,970 --> 00:29:41,180
Okay.

1263
00:29:41,180 --> 00:29:42,590
But also it's the groom's wedding too.

1264
00:29:42,590 --> 00:29:43,850
And he asked you to leave?

1265
00:29:43,940 --> 00:29:44,330
Yeah.

1266
00:29:44,450 --> 00:29:46,250
And leave how awkward that is.

1267
00:29:46,250 --> 00:29:47,737
Like she's probably just like, the bride's

1268
00:29:47,737 --> 00:29:49,207
probably just trying to enjoy her day.

1269
00:29:49,207 --> 00:29:50,107
Doesn't wanna start.

1270
00:29:50,273 --> 00:29:51,299
cause in our minds, you know, it's

1271
00:29:51,299 --> 00:29:52,649
like, oh, I don't wanna start drama.

1272
00:29:52,649 --> 00:29:53,969
But it's like, no, she's

1273
00:29:53,969 --> 00:29:55,032
literally crossing all the

1274
00:29:55,032 --> 00:29:55,932
boundaries at the wedding.

1275
00:29:55,932 --> 00:29:56,482
All the boundaries.

1276
00:29:56,482 --> 00:29:57,372
She's the makeup artist.

1277
00:29:57,402 --> 00:29:58,872
She's hired, she did her job.

1278
00:29:59,091 --> 00:30:00,249
And I feel like she was even like

1279
00:30:00,249 --> 00:30:01,891
drinking or something during makeup.

1280
00:30:01,896 --> 00:30:01,986
Yes.

1281
00:30:02,136 --> 00:30:03,226
Showing her drinking.

1282
00:30:03,718 --> 00:30:04,168
All these things.

1283
00:30:04,408 --> 00:30:06,175
And then what kills me is then like.

1284
00:30:06,388 --> 00:30:09,085
She makes this video bashing the bride

1285
00:30:09,085 --> 00:30:11,183
and groom showing all their video

1286
00:30:11,183 --> 00:30:13,603
footage before they even posted to

1287
00:30:13,603 --> 00:30:15,133
make herself look like the victim.

1288
00:30:15,133 --> 00:30:16,393
And I'm like, no.

1289
00:30:16,658 --> 00:30:17,043
Oh my God.

1290
00:30:17,043 --> 00:30:17,373
I knew it.

1291
00:30:17,373 --> 00:30:18,333
So left for her.

1292
00:30:18,363 --> 00:30:20,373
Like no one would have even known

1293
00:30:20,373 --> 00:30:22,420
about it if she didn't make that video.

1294
00:30:22,690 --> 00:30:23,920
the bride and groom, because they

1295
00:30:23,920 --> 00:30:25,540
aren't even social media people.

1296
00:30:25,744 --> 00:30:26,935
no one even known about it.

1297
00:30:27,196 --> 00:30:27,310
Mm-hmm.

1298
00:30:27,395 --> 00:30:28,915
She could have just have ruined this

1299
00:30:28,915 --> 00:30:30,475
wedding and nobody would've known.

1300
00:30:30,684 --> 00:30:30,718
Yeah.

1301
00:30:30,718 --> 00:30:31,678
But then she went online.

1302
00:30:31,678 --> 00:30:34,021
I know she made this whole series blasted

1303
00:30:34,021 --> 00:30:36,205
them, put their videos, their faces.

1304
00:30:36,438 --> 00:30:36,858
Oh my God.

1305
00:30:36,858 --> 00:30:37,818
That was crazy.

1306
00:30:37,818 --> 00:30:40,391
Even like the bridesmaids were getting

1307
00:30:40,391 --> 00:30:41,291
in the comments and being like, oh

1308
00:30:41,326 --> 00:30:42,641
no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no.

1309
00:30:42,701 --> 00:30:44,261
Like this is not okay.

1310
00:30:44,261 --> 00:30:45,311
And then somebody else, like

1311
00:30:45,311 --> 00:30:46,815
there was another MUA that had

1312
00:30:46,815 --> 00:30:47,685
worked with her in the past and

1313
00:30:47,685 --> 00:30:48,945
she's like, oh no, she's unhinged.

1314
00:30:49,196 --> 00:30:49,811
She's unhinged.

1315
00:30:49,811 --> 00:30:50,621
Like, oh yeah.

1316
00:30:50,621 --> 00:30:52,151
So much came out about that woman.

1317
00:30:52,420 --> 00:30:54,378
Yeah, that's wild when you're putting

1318
00:30:54,378 --> 00:30:56,718
your content in front of your client, Yes.

1319
00:30:56,748 --> 00:30:58,409
That's the thing that like, obviously

1320
00:30:58,409 --> 00:31:00,119
like I love social media, I love like

1321
00:31:00,119 --> 00:31:01,666
the connections and stuff, but you

1322
00:31:01,666 --> 00:31:04,639
have to always put like your job first.

1323
00:31:04,639 --> 00:31:05,569
There's so many people that are

1324
00:31:05,569 --> 00:31:07,249
like, oh, I wanna create content.

1325
00:31:07,249 --> 00:31:07,939
And it's like, well this is

1326
00:31:07,939 --> 00:31:09,109
not the place or the time.

1327
00:31:09,109 --> 00:31:10,399
Like as a makeup artist Yeah.

1328
00:31:10,399 --> 00:31:11,653
Do their before and after and

1329
00:31:11,653 --> 00:31:13,153
be like, Hey, can I post this?

1330
00:31:13,350 --> 00:31:14,873
But you have to always check

1331
00:31:14,873 --> 00:31:15,953
in with your client first.

1332
00:31:15,953 --> 00:31:17,333
They might not wanna be posted

1333
00:31:17,333 --> 00:31:18,428
and they might not want you

1334
00:31:18,428 --> 00:31:19,718
hanging out all day and.

1335
00:31:19,718 --> 00:31:19,778
Yeah.

1336
00:31:21,128 --> 00:31:22,058
But she kept being like, well, they

1337
00:31:22,058 --> 00:31:23,378
agreed to content, but they didn't agree

1338
00:31:23,378 --> 00:31:25,320
to like every single content that you I

1339
00:31:25,320 --> 00:31:27,420
think she probably thought you were just

1340
00:31:27,420 --> 00:31:29,640
doing the look content that a lot of like

1341
00:31:29,830 --> 00:31:31,583
people do where it's like, okay, they did

1342
00:31:31,583 --> 00:31:33,863
the before and then they do the after.

1343
00:31:34,040 --> 00:31:35,090
I didn't think, she didn't think

1344
00:31:35,090 --> 00:31:35,750
you were gonna be following her

1345
00:31:35,750 --> 00:31:37,130
around all day trying to get her.

1346
00:31:37,350 --> 00:31:38,493
It was like, I can't remember.

1347
00:31:38,493 --> 00:31:39,543
I can like hear the song in

1348
00:31:39,543 --> 00:31:40,593
my head, but I can't think of.

1349
00:31:40,725 --> 00:31:41,715
can't say it all, but there was like,

1350
00:31:41,715 --> 00:31:43,215
I can remember the TikTok thing that

1351
00:31:43,215 --> 00:31:44,515
she was trying to make and she was

1352
00:31:44,515 --> 00:31:45,595
just trying to go throughout the day.

1353
00:31:45,749 --> 00:31:47,099
you were never even a part of the grooms

1354
00:31:47,099 --> 00:31:48,466
party, but then you involved them.

1355
00:31:48,466 --> 00:31:48,796
'Cause you're like,

1356
00:31:48,826 --> 00:31:49,666
well I need the grooms.

1357
00:31:49,666 --> 00:31:50,726
And I was like, that's when

1358
00:31:50,726 --> 00:31:51,746
you know you've gone too far.

1359
00:31:51,895 --> 00:31:53,809
Does it, does the content fit with

1360
00:31:53,809 --> 00:31:55,539
the service that you're doing?

1361
00:31:55,839 --> 00:31:56,169
Right.

1362
00:31:56,259 --> 00:31:57,579
I think you have to think about that.

1363
00:31:57,579 --> 00:31:59,259
And does it fit within the timeframe

1364
00:31:59,379 --> 00:32:00,579
of the service that you're doing

1365
00:32:00,759 --> 00:32:02,136
or are you going beyond that?

1366
00:32:02,356 --> 00:32:03,466
if it's something where like, I

1367
00:32:03,466 --> 00:32:04,246
don't, things are taking long,

1368
00:32:04,246 --> 00:32:05,296
maybe you won't get your content.

1369
00:32:05,296 --> 00:32:06,286
but exactly what you said,

1370
00:32:06,403 --> 00:32:08,023
the service should come first.

1371
00:32:08,242 --> 00:32:08,506
Yeah.

1372
00:32:08,690 --> 00:32:11,116
And then the content, but someone

1373
00:32:11,116 --> 00:32:12,976
agreeing to make tiktoks with you

1374
00:32:12,976 --> 00:32:13,906
doesn't mean they're agreeing to

1375
00:32:13,906 --> 00:32:14,956
like literally every single thing

1376
00:32:14,956 --> 00:32:16,536
that you came up under the sun.

1377
00:32:16,711 --> 00:32:17,561
Yeah, no.

1378
00:32:17,561 --> 00:32:19,301
100%. Yeah.

1379
00:32:19,331 --> 00:32:19,871
Oh my gosh.

1380
00:32:19,871 --> 00:32:20,381
I can't believe that.

1381
00:32:20,381 --> 00:32:21,881
Just came back like that.

1382
00:32:22,095 --> 00:32:23,501
That was one of those where like, I think

1383
00:32:23,501 --> 00:32:25,211
I took a few days off and I came back

1384
00:32:25,211 --> 00:32:26,861
on and like I got a couple messages.

1385
00:32:26,861 --> 00:32:28,638
Someone tagged me, they're like, Christa,

1386
00:32:28,658 --> 00:32:30,188
can you please make a skit about this?

1387
00:32:30,329 --> 00:32:30,798
I didn't.

1388
00:32:30,798 --> 00:32:32,238
I think I just kind of talked about it.

1389
00:32:32,268 --> 00:32:33,844
'cause I was like, it's so fresh.

1390
00:32:33,921 --> 00:32:35,714
I don't know, like this is kind of wild.

1391
00:32:35,714 --> 00:32:37,539
yeah, I watched all the videos

1392
00:32:37,539 --> 00:32:39,129
and I was like, oh my gosh, this

1393
00:32:39,129 --> 00:32:41,523
is an unhinged, seriously insane.

1394
00:32:41,793 --> 00:32:42,063
Yeah.

1395
00:32:42,456 --> 00:32:42,733
okay.

1396
00:32:42,733 --> 00:32:45,373
This last hot take says reality TV.

1397
00:32:45,373 --> 00:32:47,233
Weddings have convinced people that

1398
00:32:47,233 --> 00:32:49,903
bridal parties are unpaid extras.

1399
00:32:50,181 --> 00:32:50,469
Oh.

1400
00:32:50,979 --> 00:32:53,059
interesting reality.

1401
00:32:53,059 --> 00:32:54,019
Tv.

1402
00:32:54,279 --> 00:32:56,479
Bachelor parties, they said weddings.

1403
00:32:56,716 --> 00:32:58,989
Oh, our unpaid extras.

1404
00:32:59,284 --> 00:33:00,714
Is this more like, I think they

1405
00:33:00,714 --> 00:33:02,738
were saying that people are taking

1406
00:33:02,738 --> 00:33:04,808
advantage of the bridal party basically.

1407
00:33:04,961 --> 00:33:05,981
But I feel like people have

1408
00:33:05,981 --> 00:33:06,791
been doing that for like,

1409
00:33:06,791 --> 00:33:08,501
even before reality TV stuff.

1410
00:33:08,501 --> 00:33:08,511
Yeah.

1411
00:33:08,511 --> 00:33:09,646
I don't actually reality tv.

1412
00:33:09,911 --> 00:33:10,301
Yeah.

1413
00:33:10,391 --> 00:33:11,681
I think it's just some people do

1414
00:33:11,681 --> 00:33:13,721
take advantage of the bridal party.

1415
00:33:13,914 --> 00:33:15,322
I think some people don't realize

1416
00:33:15,322 --> 00:33:16,435
that like, yeah, of course, like

1417
00:33:16,435 --> 00:33:18,025
these people wanna be here for you.

1418
00:33:18,218 --> 00:33:19,008
you can't just ask

1419
00:33:19,008 --> 00:33:20,148
endless amount of things.

1420
00:33:20,348 --> 00:33:21,608
you can't also just ask people to

1421
00:33:21,608 --> 00:33:23,348
like put all their money into your

1422
00:33:23,348 --> 00:33:25,435
wedding or into like the bridesmaids

1423
00:33:25,435 --> 00:33:26,785
dress or whatever the makeup that

1424
00:33:26,785 --> 00:33:28,623
they have to do or, what have you.

1425
00:33:28,839 --> 00:33:30,376
also like that whole year is

1426
00:33:30,376 --> 00:33:32,206
not literally about you to.

1427
00:33:32,442 --> 00:33:33,913
Everybody else in your life.

1428
00:33:34,093 --> 00:33:36,176
it's about you for you and

1429
00:33:36,312 --> 00:33:38,442
your spouse, but like everybody

1430
00:33:38,442 --> 00:33:40,032
else's life is still going on.

1431
00:33:40,392 --> 00:33:41,986
I mean, like, I have things to do.

1432
00:33:41,986 --> 00:33:43,696
We got things to do, but I do know

1433
00:33:43,696 --> 00:33:44,656
that I feel like there's a lot of

1434
00:33:44,656 --> 00:33:45,792
people who are like, you're not

1435
00:33:45,792 --> 00:33:47,316
really supporting me right now.

1436
00:33:47,387 --> 00:33:48,328
I feel like you're doing enough

1437
00:33:48,328 --> 00:33:49,138
for the way I was like, what

1438
00:33:49,138 --> 00:33:49,888
are you talking about, dude?

1439
00:33:50,072 --> 00:33:50,585
I have a life.

1440
00:33:50,585 --> 00:33:51,870
Like I will help you, but like,

1441
00:33:52,090 --> 00:33:53,823
I'm not making a full-time job out

1442
00:33:53,823 --> 00:33:54,753
of helping you for your wedding.

1443
00:33:54,963 --> 00:33:55,353
Right.

1444
00:33:55,353 --> 00:33:56,673
The world doesn't stop because

1445
00:33:56,673 --> 00:33:57,663
you're getting married.

1446
00:33:57,838 --> 00:33:58,138
Yeah.

1447
00:33:58,138 --> 00:33:59,938
I've seen wild stories where brides

1448
00:33:59,938 --> 00:34:01,981
get mad because their bridesmaids are

1449
00:34:01,981 --> 00:34:03,950
pregnant or their bridesmaids also

1450
00:34:03,950 --> 00:34:05,330
get engaged and it's like you don't

1451
00:34:05,330 --> 00:34:08,150
get claims to the whole there, there.

1452
00:34:08,400 --> 00:34:10,265
I mean like I had two, pregnant

1453
00:34:10,265 --> 00:34:11,795
bridesmaids and I was like, don't feel

1454
00:34:11,795 --> 00:34:12,935
like you have to come to anything.

1455
00:34:12,965 --> 00:34:15,065
Your baby and your health comes first.

1456
00:34:15,215 --> 00:34:17,075
Like yeah, I mean life happens.

1457
00:34:17,340 --> 00:34:18,547
let's say like you had a destination

1458
00:34:18,547 --> 00:34:19,807
wedding and one of the people got

1459
00:34:19,807 --> 00:34:21,329
pregnant, if it's that time for

1460
00:34:21,329 --> 00:34:22,529
me, my life for me that I wanna get

1461
00:34:22,529 --> 00:34:23,722
pregnant, I'm not gonna like be like,

1462
00:34:23,752 --> 00:34:24,982
oh no, we gotta hold off a year.

1463
00:34:25,198 --> 00:34:25,559
Yeah.

1464
00:34:25,604 --> 00:34:27,172
'cause so and so's, just in case,

1465
00:34:28,427 --> 00:34:29,540
that's not what's gonna happen.

1466
00:34:29,540 --> 00:34:30,920
And I think that's absolutely

1467
00:34:30,920 --> 00:34:31,760
crazy when people do that.

1468
00:34:31,760 --> 00:34:33,116
I think like, literally you

1469
00:34:33,116 --> 00:34:34,106
need to get your head checked.

1470
00:34:34,106 --> 00:34:34,886
That's not cool.

1471
00:34:35,064 --> 00:34:35,130
Yeah.

1472
00:34:35,130 --> 00:34:35,175
Like that.

1473
00:34:35,190 --> 00:34:36,420
Like you're, way too self-centered.

1474
00:34:36,420 --> 00:34:37,543
But I think a lot of times there are

1475
00:34:37,543 --> 00:34:39,043
probably signs about that person.

1476
00:34:39,043 --> 00:34:39,286
yeah.

1477
00:34:39,291 --> 00:34:40,281
You know, before the wedding there

1478
00:34:40,281 --> 00:34:41,301
were probably signs about the person

1479
00:34:41,301 --> 00:34:42,591
that they were pretty selfish.

1480
00:34:42,785 --> 00:34:44,451
and then it just went to like, kind of the

1481
00:34:44,451 --> 00:34:46,131
nth degree when they felt like they had

1482
00:34:46,131 --> 00:34:48,551
an excuse to be their most selfish shelf.

1483
00:34:48,780 --> 00:34:49,341
Yes.

1484
00:34:49,371 --> 00:34:50,211
Like they hear it like,

1485
00:34:50,271 --> 00:34:51,591
oh, it's your bride's day.

1486
00:34:51,591 --> 00:34:52,431
So they're like, yep.

1487
00:34:52,941 --> 00:34:53,151
The court.

1488
00:34:53,151 --> 00:34:54,321
Yes, exactly.

1489
00:34:54,381 --> 00:34:55,581
They're like, okay, well now

1490
00:34:55,581 --> 00:34:56,781
I get to be exact you know.

1491
00:34:56,781 --> 00:34:57,411
Here's my notebook.

1492
00:34:57,411 --> 00:34:57,681
Yes.

1493
00:34:59,278 --> 00:35:00,645
Oh my God, that's so true.

1494
00:35:00,645 --> 00:35:01,778
Because yeah, you hear

1495
00:35:01,778 --> 00:35:02,678
it time and time again.

1496
00:35:02,678 --> 00:35:03,998
It's like, oh, it's a bride's day.

1497
00:35:03,998 --> 00:35:04,868
It's your moment.

1498
00:35:04,868 --> 00:35:05,849
So then they're like, I've

1499
00:35:05,849 --> 00:35:06,899
been waiting for this.

1500
00:35:06,959 --> 00:35:07,619
Yes.

1501
00:35:07,679 --> 00:35:07,889
Yeah.

1502
00:35:07,919 --> 00:35:08,966
But it's not, that's the funny part.

1503
00:35:08,966 --> 00:35:10,196
It's your day.

1504
00:35:10,477 --> 00:35:11,152
It's your day.

1505
00:35:11,212 --> 00:35:12,142
Not your year.

1506
00:35:13,347 --> 00:35:15,062
Not your year, your day.

1507
00:35:16,622 --> 00:35:16,922
Yeah.

1508
00:35:16,922 --> 00:35:18,792
And we gotta have, respect people's

1509
00:35:18,912 --> 00:35:20,652
life and their boundaries too.

1510
00:35:20,772 --> 00:35:21,252
Yes.

1511
00:35:21,252 --> 00:35:22,152
A hundred percent.

1512
00:35:30,858 --> 00:35:32,808
Before we get to this week's wild

1513
00:35:32,808 --> 00:35:34,578
wedding story that we'll react to,

1514
00:35:34,798 --> 00:35:36,898
we'll do a little quick rapid fire.

1515
00:35:36,928 --> 00:35:37,738
How does that sound?

1516
00:35:37,980 --> 00:35:38,238
Okay.

1517
00:35:38,538 --> 00:35:39,378
In addition, okay.

1518
00:35:39,675 --> 00:35:41,018
Would you rather deal with

1519
00:35:41,018 --> 00:35:42,548
a jealous bridesmaid or an

1520
00:35:42,548 --> 00:35:44,378
attention hogging groomsman?

1521
00:35:44,733 --> 00:35:46,293
I guess an attention hogging groom

1522
00:35:46,293 --> 00:35:48,320
has been, I guess, a little bit.

1523
00:35:48,653 --> 00:35:50,870
for me personally, I feel like I

1524
00:35:50,960 --> 00:35:52,550
would be a lot easier to talk to that

1525
00:35:52,550 --> 00:35:54,237
person and be like, tone it down.

1526
00:35:54,567 --> 00:35:54,747
Yeah.

1527
00:35:56,337 --> 00:35:57,409
Like cause I would not have a

1528
00:35:57,409 --> 00:35:58,472
problem be like, I love you so

1529
00:35:58,472 --> 00:35:59,522
much, but you gotta tone it down.

1530
00:35:59,552 --> 00:36:00,212
You're doing too much.

1531
00:36:00,418 --> 00:36:00,525
Yeah.

1532
00:36:00,555 --> 00:36:02,355
Versus somebody who is jealous.

1533
00:36:02,355 --> 00:36:04,005
I don't know if I would know that

1534
00:36:04,005 --> 00:36:05,265
they're being jealous or if they're like,

1535
00:36:05,465 --> 00:36:07,265
kind of being stink face or whatever.

1536
00:36:07,265 --> 00:36:08,647
Or like, eat subconsciously or

1537
00:36:08,647 --> 00:36:09,787
consciously sabotaging things.

1538
00:36:09,787 --> 00:36:10,507
So I feel like I wouldn't

1539
00:36:10,507 --> 00:36:12,007
want that type of negativity.

1540
00:36:12,176 --> 00:36:12,367
Yep.

1541
00:36:12,367 --> 00:36:12,877
On my day.

1542
00:36:13,115 --> 00:36:13,800
That's a great point.

1543
00:36:13,800 --> 00:36:14,100
Yeah.

1544
00:36:14,354 --> 00:36:17,950
would you rather your wedding TikTok flop?

1545
00:36:17,950 --> 00:36:19,480
So like if something bad happened at your

1546
00:36:19,480 --> 00:36:22,117
wedding or your honeymoon get leaked?

1547
00:36:22,357 --> 00:36:24,400
so either the TikTok I have be

1548
00:36:24,400 --> 00:36:25,600
like a flop, like someone said,

1549
00:36:25,786 --> 00:36:27,180
let, like my wedding was a flop.

1550
00:36:27,453 --> 00:36:29,179
if you had like a wedding TikTok,

1551
00:36:29,309 --> 00:36:30,633
maybe you like, posted about your

1552
00:36:30,633 --> 00:36:32,163
wedding as a TikTok and it didn't

1553
00:36:32,163 --> 00:36:33,726
do well, is how I'm reading it.

1554
00:36:33,949 --> 00:36:35,383
or videos from your honeymoon or

1555
00:36:35,383 --> 00:36:36,883
photos from your honeymoon get leaked.

1556
00:36:36,973 --> 00:36:37,243
I don't know.

1557
00:36:37,243 --> 00:36:38,593
Like Oh, like your,

1558
00:36:39,377 --> 00:36:40,432
was like, what type of leak?

1559
00:36:40,457 --> 00:36:43,017
I was like, what we, I was like, I

1560
00:36:43,017 --> 00:36:44,002
was like, what are we talking about?

1561
00:36:44,002 --> 00:36:45,502
I'm nervous I didn't write these.

1562
00:36:45,939 --> 00:36:47,084
I guess  I wouldn't mind

1563
00:36:47,084 --> 00:36:48,194
having a TikTok flop.

1564
00:36:48,194 --> 00:36:49,484
I probably would think it was funny.

1565
00:36:49,685 --> 00:36:51,317
Yeah, it's 'cause it'd be

1566
00:36:51,337 --> 00:36:52,611
more for me anyways if I.

1567
00:36:52,611 --> 00:36:52,911
Yeah.

1568
00:36:53,138 --> 00:36:54,007
Just in case.

1569
00:36:54,007 --> 00:36:54,637
There could be lots of

1570
00:36:54,637 --> 00:36:55,477
different meanings for the leak.

1571
00:36:55,477 --> 00:36:56,707
I'd rather have nothing leaked,

1572
00:36:58,772 --> 00:36:59,827
just to be clear.

1573
00:36:59,887 --> 00:37:01,357
just in case nothing leaked.

1574
00:37:01,447 --> 00:37:02,887
I know, I feel like the word

1575
00:37:02,887 --> 00:37:05,178
leaked just sounds celebrity leak.

1576
00:37:05,178 --> 00:37:05,448
Like Yeah.

1577
00:37:06,108 --> 00:37:07,188
Oh, there, this got leach.

1578
00:37:07,471 --> 00:37:07,741
okay.

1579
00:37:07,978 --> 00:37:09,151
Would you rather have your wedding

1580
00:37:09,151 --> 00:37:10,831
go viral for the wrong reasons?

1581
00:37:10,831 --> 00:37:12,601
Or have no one shared at all?

1582
00:37:12,808 --> 00:37:13,798
No one shared at all.

1583
00:37:14,005 --> 00:37:14,901
Yeah, same.

1584
00:37:15,185 --> 00:37:16,788
Would you rather find out your

1585
00:37:16,788 --> 00:37:18,828
fiance applied to a reality dating

1586
00:37:18,828 --> 00:37:21,178
show after your engagement or

1587
00:37:21,178 --> 00:37:23,008
that your proposal was filmed for

1588
00:37:23,008 --> 00:37:24,688
a pilot episode you didn't know?

1589
00:37:26,194 --> 00:37:26,794
These are wild.

1590
00:37:28,024 --> 00:37:29,438
What the, is this, I guess,

1591
00:37:29,718 --> 00:37:30,943
the film for a pilot?

1592
00:37:30,943 --> 00:37:32,083
I didn't know because like what

1593
00:37:32,083 --> 00:37:34,249
the actual fuck if you just, sorry.

1594
00:37:34,490 --> 00:37:36,126
With the actual flip, if you just, I

1595
00:37:36,126 --> 00:37:37,146
didn't know if you could curse something.

1596
00:37:37,146 --> 00:37:39,091
I was like, it's all good.

1597
00:37:39,321 --> 00:37:39,611
Okay.

1598
00:37:39,799 --> 00:37:41,586
If you just, like, you got

1599
00:37:41,586 --> 00:37:42,336
engaged to me and then you

1600
00:37:42,336 --> 00:37:43,269
just applied to a dating show?

1601
00:37:43,751 --> 00:37:45,595
Dude, there's been people on

1602
00:37:45,595 --> 00:37:47,515
Bachelor that has come out, like

1603
00:37:47,515 --> 00:37:48,705
they have girlfriends at home.

1604
00:37:50,082 --> 00:37:52,839
This happens the thing is why I'm sure,

1605
00:37:52,929 --> 00:37:54,309
well, cheaters, I feel like, just don't

1606
00:37:54,309 --> 00:37:55,719
think about this, but they're like, yeah,

1607
00:37:55,921 --> 00:37:57,172
you don't think it's ever gonna come out.

1608
00:37:57,177 --> 00:37:57,387
Exactly.

1609
00:37:57,387 --> 00:37:58,642
You don't thinking at home,

1610
00:37:58,642 --> 00:37:59,722
like clicking and being like

1611
00:37:59,727 --> 00:38:00,082
thank you.

1612
00:38:00,199 --> 00:38:00,532
Recognize

1613
00:38:00,532 --> 00:38:00,592
the

1614
00:38:00,592 --> 00:38:02,335
internet Are you new?

1615
00:38:02,535 --> 00:38:03,675
Are you new to the world now?

1616
00:38:03,675 --> 00:38:05,095
Like the internet is like, especially

1617
00:38:05,095 --> 00:38:07,022
with TikTok, information moves by fast.

1618
00:38:07,022 --> 00:38:08,102
People are detectives.

1619
00:38:08,102 --> 00:38:08,462
Okay.

1620
00:38:08,652 --> 00:38:09,898
If you're on there, they're gonna

1621
00:38:09,898 --> 00:38:11,832
find you and everything about you.

1622
00:38:11,837 --> 00:38:11,897
So.

1623
00:38:12,359 --> 00:38:13,259
people always think like,

1624
00:38:13,289 --> 00:38:13,979
oh, I can just hide it.

1625
00:38:13,979 --> 00:38:14,639
No, you can't.

1626
00:38:14,843 --> 00:38:14,976
No.

1627
00:38:14,976 --> 00:38:16,416
It's no one else has been able to.

1628
00:38:16,635 --> 00:38:17,926
Someone's always watching,

1629
00:38:17,926 --> 00:38:19,186
especially nowadays.

1630
00:38:19,246 --> 00:38:21,106
Oh my gosh, Coldplay concert.

1631
00:38:21,316 --> 00:38:22,271
Yes, exactly.

1632
00:38:22,541 --> 00:38:23,031
Exactly.

1633
00:38:25,276 --> 00:38:26,536
Someone's always watching.

1634
00:38:26,536 --> 00:38:26,626
Yes.

1635
00:38:26,956 --> 00:38:28,186
And the funny, if they had just not

1636
00:38:28,186 --> 00:38:30,069
ducked, if they had just not ducked,

1637
00:38:30,249 --> 00:38:31,419
that wouldn't have been a thing.

1638
00:38:31,509 --> 00:38:32,049
Yes.

1639
00:38:32,049 --> 00:38:32,949
Seriously.

1640
00:38:32,949 --> 00:38:33,699
No one would've even

1641
00:38:33,699 --> 00:38:34,809
thought twice about it.

1642
00:38:35,038 --> 00:38:36,379
But the funny thing is, someone,

1643
00:38:36,379 --> 00:38:37,729
do you see the behind the scenes,

1644
00:38:37,866 --> 00:38:39,493
someone was behind them and realized

1645
00:38:39,493 --> 00:38:40,753
later, like they had videos of

1646
00:38:40,753 --> 00:38:42,565
them kissing before that happened.

1647
00:38:42,791 --> 00:38:43,255
Oh, they were like

1648
00:38:43,255 --> 00:38:44,815
literally behind the couple.

1649
00:38:44,965 --> 00:38:45,265
Yeah.

1650
00:38:45,325 --> 00:38:46,345
I didn't see that.

1651
00:38:46,345 --> 00:38:46,975
Ah.

1652
00:38:47,065 --> 00:38:47,365
Yeah.

1653
00:38:47,365 --> 00:38:48,090
So I'm like, oh my God.

1654
00:38:48,410 --> 00:38:49,195
But like literally, they would've just

1655
00:38:49,195 --> 00:38:50,455
been like, oh, it's a cute couple.

1656
00:38:50,455 --> 00:38:50,515
Yeah.

1657
00:38:50,575 --> 00:38:51,805
Never would've thought anything

1658
00:38:51,805 --> 00:38:52,915
about if they weren't like, whoa.

1659
00:38:53,515 --> 00:38:54,985
Yeah, exactly.

1660
00:38:55,085 --> 00:38:56,312
it wouldn't, the smelling front.

1661
00:38:56,372 --> 00:38:56,972
Oh my gosh.

1662
00:38:57,187 --> 00:38:57,487
Yeah.

1663
00:38:57,577 --> 00:38:58,597
It wouldn't have been a thing.

1664
00:38:58,826 --> 00:38:59,864
All right, last one.

1665
00:38:59,864 --> 00:39:01,184
Would you rather have your wedding

1666
00:39:01,214 --> 00:39:04,244
edited by Netflix or produced by Bravo?

1667
00:39:04,560 --> 00:39:04,650
Ooh.

1668
00:39:05,904 --> 00:39:07,374
Edited by Netflix or produced

1669
00:39:07,374 --> 00:39:09,054
by Bravo, I guess edited by

1670
00:39:09,054 --> 00:39:10,985
Netflix, produced by Bravo.

1671
00:39:11,719 --> 00:39:12,079
Ooh.

1672
00:39:12,199 --> 00:39:13,878
I don't know, dude, that's kind

1673
00:39:13,878 --> 00:39:16,087
of like, I like Netflix shows, so

1674
00:39:16,087 --> 00:39:17,197
let's just say edit it by Netflix.

1675
00:39:17,197 --> 00:39:17,317
Yeah.

1676
00:39:17,647 --> 00:39:18,187
I like it.

1677
00:39:18,350 --> 00:39:19,637
All right, let's get into this

1678
00:39:19,637 --> 00:39:21,497
week's wedding story submission.

1679
00:39:21,497 --> 00:39:23,217
Are So as always, I have not read

1680
00:39:23,217 --> 00:39:24,657
this, this will be a blind reaction.

1681
00:39:24,657 --> 00:39:25,827
Let's just see how we go.

1682
00:39:25,827 --> 00:39:27,327
Feel free to stop me if you want.

1683
00:39:27,377 --> 00:39:28,757
otherwise we'll, just as you know,

1684
00:39:28,757 --> 00:39:29,507
I might have questions.

1685
00:39:29,507 --> 00:39:29,987
I'll let you know.

1686
00:39:30,737 --> 00:39:31,097
Yeah.

1687
00:39:31,287 --> 00:39:32,058
all names have been

1688
00:39:32,058 --> 00:39:33,408
changed, so here we go.

1689
00:39:33,660 --> 00:39:34,924
This story starts about

1690
00:39:34,924 --> 00:39:36,094
two and a half years ago.

1691
00:39:36,184 --> 00:39:38,614
Around six months before I got engaged.

1692
00:39:38,840 --> 00:39:41,094
I was on a pontoon boat with my friends,

1693
00:39:41,154 --> 00:39:43,524
their boyfriends, and my now fiancé Ryan.

1694
00:39:43,767 --> 00:39:46,234
One of my friends, Brooke, asked Ryan if

1695
00:39:46,234 --> 00:39:48,484
he had any plans to propose in the future.

1696
00:39:48,752 --> 00:39:50,224
At that point, we'd been together

1697
00:39:50,224 --> 00:39:51,918
for a little over a year, so

1698
00:39:51,918 --> 00:39:53,118
it was still fairly early.

1699
00:39:53,359 --> 00:39:55,224
But we had already talked about marriage,

1700
00:39:55,389 --> 00:39:57,359
so it wasn't a totally random question.

1701
00:39:57,596 --> 00:39:59,665
Ryan told Brooke and my other friend

1702
00:39:59,725 --> 00:40:01,655
Erica, that he actually planned

1703
00:40:01,655 --> 00:40:03,725
on proposing in August, which was

1704
00:40:03,725 --> 00:40:05,165
about two months from when they

1705
00:40:05,165 --> 00:40:06,605
were having this conversation.

1706
00:40:06,824 --> 00:40:08,048
I was on the other side of

1707
00:40:08,065 --> 00:40:09,265
the pontoon boat and had no

1708
00:40:09,265 --> 00:40:10,525
idea this was even happening.

1709
00:40:10,761 --> 00:40:12,595
Next thing I know, I look over and

1710
00:40:12,595 --> 00:40:14,485
see Erica sulking in the corner

1711
00:40:14,485 --> 00:40:16,372
of the boat, glued to her phone

1712
00:40:16,372 --> 00:40:18,142
and refusing to talk to anyone.

1713
00:40:18,386 --> 00:40:20,339
We were only about an hour into

1714
00:40:20,339 --> 00:40:22,369
a six hour rental, so things

1715
00:40:22,369 --> 00:40:23,689
weren't off to a great start.

1716
00:40:23,941 --> 00:40:25,742
I asked Brooke if she knew why Erica

1717
00:40:25,772 --> 00:40:28,055
was upset, and she told me that when

1718
00:40:28,055 --> 00:40:30,249
the topic of proposals came up, Erica

1719
00:40:30,249 --> 00:40:32,169
made a comment to her boyfriend who

1720
00:40:32,169 --> 00:40:33,549
was also on the boat, and they'd been

1721
00:40:33,549 --> 00:40:35,289
together for three years at the time.

1722
00:40:35,532 --> 00:40:37,362
Asking when he was going to propose and

1723
00:40:37,362 --> 00:40:39,222
he replied with something dismissive

1724
00:40:39,252 --> 00:40:40,642
like, don't hold your breath.

1725
00:40:41,227 --> 00:40:42,219
Which upset her.

1726
00:40:43,196 --> 00:40:45,955
then starts the comparison, Yeah.

1727
00:40:45,955 --> 00:40:47,159
for the rest of the rental,

1728
00:40:47,159 --> 00:40:49,169
Erica sulked and barely spoke.

1729
00:40:49,312 --> 00:40:50,729
After we got off the boat, she

1730
00:40:50,729 --> 00:40:52,439
immediately returned to her hotel.

1731
00:40:52,439 --> 00:40:53,609
Instead of joining the group for

1732
00:40:53,609 --> 00:40:55,393
dinner the next day, she texted

1733
00:40:55,393 --> 00:40:57,103
me asking why I didn't make more

1734
00:40:57,103 --> 00:40:58,513
of an effort to comfort her.

1735
00:40:58,725 --> 00:41:00,289
I explained that it wasn't fair for

1736
00:41:00,289 --> 00:41:02,449
her to expect me to come spend my

1737
00:41:02,449 --> 00:41:04,773
entire birthday consoling her over

1738
00:41:04,773 --> 00:41:06,303
something I had no control over.

1739
00:41:07,191 --> 00:41:09,209
Fast forward six months, Ryan

1740
00:41:09,209 --> 00:41:10,829
and I get engaged on a beach.

1741
00:41:11,023 --> 00:41:12,399
Brooke was there because she helped

1742
00:41:12,399 --> 00:41:14,409
Ryan plan and execute the proposal.

1743
00:41:14,599 --> 00:41:16,416
Afterward, Ryan and I FaceTimed

1744
00:41:16,416 --> 00:41:18,096
friends and family to share the news.

1745
00:41:18,370 --> 00:41:19,939
When I FaceTimed Erica to

1746
00:41:19,939 --> 00:41:21,087
show her the ring, gosh.

1747
00:41:21,766 --> 00:41:24,069
The first thing she said to me was, Ew.

1748
00:41:24,256 --> 00:41:25,323
He let you have red

1749
00:41:25,323 --> 00:41:26,853
nails for your proposal.

1750
00:41:28,162 --> 00:41:29,741
Jealousy.

1751
00:41:30,851 --> 00:41:31,601
Not a pretty.

1752
00:41:31,601 --> 00:41:33,281
What the, oh my God.

1753
00:41:33,579 --> 00:41:34,434
That's not a friend.

1754
00:41:34,723 --> 00:41:35,914
This is kind of ironic.

1755
00:41:35,914 --> 00:41:37,812
'cause yesterday I did like a, different

1756
00:41:37,812 --> 00:41:39,642
kind of video and I was like, pretending

1757
00:41:39,642 --> 00:41:40,962
to be, I said, your best friend of

1758
00:41:40,962 --> 00:41:42,702
me just found out you're engaged.

1759
00:41:43,422 --> 00:41:44,682
Oh, I think I saw that.

1760
00:41:44,682 --> 00:41:45,762
I saw that.

1761
00:41:45,762 --> 00:41:46,362
I said something like that.

1762
00:41:46,362 --> 00:41:47,562
I'm like, oh, I didn't

1763
00:41:47,562 --> 00:41:48,252
know you liked that.

1764
00:41:48,252 --> 00:41:49,002
Kind of, you know?

1765
00:41:49,422 --> 00:41:49,812
Yes.

1766
00:41:49,812 --> 00:41:51,492
That's literally that kind of comment,

1767
00:41:51,492 --> 00:41:53,742
like why would you say that to someone?

1768
00:41:53,976 --> 00:41:55,548
That is so rude.

1769
00:41:55,765 --> 00:41:57,055
and I feel like jealousy

1770
00:41:57,055 --> 00:41:58,928
is a normal emotion.

1771
00:41:58,998 --> 00:41:59,957
like, people are like, oh, we, I was

1772
00:41:59,957 --> 00:42:01,617
like, I don't think you should like down

1773
00:42:01,617 --> 00:42:02,907
people for having feelings of jealousy.

1774
00:42:02,907 --> 00:42:04,587
It just is like information for you.

1775
00:42:04,773 --> 00:42:05,854
it's not necessarily that you

1776
00:42:05,854 --> 00:42:07,024
dislike the person or whatever.

1777
00:42:07,024 --> 00:42:08,081
It's like there's something going

1778
00:42:08,081 --> 00:42:09,851
on with you You're looking for.

1779
00:42:09,911 --> 00:42:10,391
Do you what I mean?

1780
00:42:10,591 --> 00:42:12,324
And that person has, it

1781
00:42:12,324 --> 00:42:13,074
doesn't necessarily mean that's

1782
00:42:13,074 --> 00:42:14,034
not something you can have.

1783
00:42:14,144 --> 00:42:14,984
it's information.

1784
00:42:15,014 --> 00:42:15,734
That's how I think of it more.

1785
00:42:15,734 --> 00:42:16,394
It's information.

1786
00:42:16,394 --> 00:42:17,414
And if you don't actually take

1787
00:42:17,414 --> 00:42:18,614
in that information, then I think

1788
00:42:18,614 --> 00:42:19,874
jealousy can get out of hand.

1789
00:42:20,231 --> 00:42:21,071
Obviously this person,

1790
00:42:21,071 --> 00:42:22,241
jealousy got out of hand.

1791
00:42:22,448 --> 00:42:22,611
Yes.

1792
00:42:22,611 --> 00:42:25,357
'cause for her to be outwardly so

1793
00:42:25,357 --> 00:42:27,367
rude and dismissive to her friend

1794
00:42:27,595 --> 00:42:29,231
during such a beautiful moment.

1795
00:42:29,231 --> 00:42:30,391
And the fact that she also thinks

1796
00:42:30,391 --> 00:42:31,921
of you so much that she calls

1797
00:42:31,921 --> 00:42:33,091
you during that beautiful moment.

1798
00:42:33,268 --> 00:42:34,134
And that's the first thing you

1799
00:42:34,134 --> 00:42:35,944
say is like, what the fuck?

1800
00:42:36,064 --> 00:42:36,124
Yeah.

1801
00:42:36,374 --> 00:42:37,705
you need to internally look.

1802
00:42:37,925 --> 00:42:38,398
Yeah.

1803
00:42:38,398 --> 00:42:39,727
yeah, you're letting that jealousy

1804
00:42:39,771 --> 00:42:41,421
take over you when it's like, yeah.

1805
00:42:41,421 --> 00:42:42,261
You could have like feelings

1806
00:42:42,261 --> 00:42:43,391
of being like, oh, I wish that

1807
00:42:43,391 --> 00:42:45,131
was me first, or that yeah.

1808
00:42:45,131 --> 00:42:46,461
Kind of sucks, but I wouldn't

1809
00:42:46,461 --> 00:42:47,601
be really happy for my friend

1810
00:42:47,601 --> 00:42:48,811
because she's my friend.

1811
00:42:49,201 --> 00:42:50,551
Yeah, a hundred percent.

1812
00:42:50,718 --> 00:42:52,135
it says I was in such a good

1813
00:42:52,135 --> 00:42:53,365
mood that I brushed it off.

1814
00:42:53,395 --> 00:42:53,905
Okay, good.

1815
00:42:53,935 --> 00:42:55,225
At least it didn't ruin the moment.

1816
00:42:55,420 --> 00:42:56,776
she gave me a half-hearted

1817
00:42:56,776 --> 00:42:57,796
congratulations.

1818
00:42:57,796 --> 00:42:59,363
And we moved on later.

1819
00:42:59,363 --> 00:43:00,841
Our families had planned a

1820
00:43:00,841 --> 00:43:02,701
small celebration at our house.

1821
00:43:02,889 --> 00:43:04,431
Erica and her boyfriend came out

1822
00:43:04,431 --> 00:43:06,141
but barely said anything to me

1823
00:43:06,386 --> 00:43:07,871
and left about an hour later.

1824
00:43:08,047 --> 00:43:09,384
I tried to give her the benefit of

1825
00:43:09,384 --> 00:43:10,644
the doubt, assuming she might be

1826
00:43:10,644 --> 00:43:12,684
having an off day, despite everything.

1827
00:43:12,890 --> 00:43:14,001
I still asked her to be

1828
00:43:14,001 --> 00:43:15,321
one of my bridesmaids.

1829
00:43:15,499 --> 00:43:15,811
There we go.

1830
00:43:15,811 --> 00:43:17,581
That gut feeling like she's

1831
00:43:17,581 --> 00:43:19,351
already showing signs.

1832
00:43:19,564 --> 00:43:21,334
when I started organizing hangout so the

1833
00:43:21,334 --> 00:43:22,984
bridesmaid could get to know each other,

1834
00:43:23,044 --> 00:43:25,204
Erica always made excuses not to come.

1835
00:43:25,369 --> 00:43:27,124
Her reasons ranged from anticipating

1836
00:43:27,124 --> 00:43:29,294
she'd be too tired or needing to attend a

1837
00:43:29,294 --> 00:43:31,214
half birthday party for a six month old.

1838
00:43:31,419 --> 00:43:32,407
What's a half birthday?

1839
00:43:32,407 --> 00:43:34,534
Oh, a six month old, like half birthday.

1840
00:43:34,534 --> 00:43:34,864
I get it.

1841
00:43:35,081 --> 00:43:36,781
to simply not liking who does.

1842
00:43:36,781 --> 00:43:37,344
Six and a half?

1843
00:43:38,154 --> 00:43:39,114
No, I was like, wait, what?

1844
00:43:39,291 --> 00:43:41,363
to simply not liking the location.

1845
00:43:41,538 --> 00:43:41,886
Weird.

1846
00:43:41,946 --> 00:43:43,746
Not going to your friend to hang out

1847
00:43:43,776 --> 00:43:44,766
'cause you don't like the location.

1848
00:43:45,024 --> 00:43:45,426
Okay.

1849
00:43:45,609 --> 00:43:47,126
While planning the bachelorette trip,

1850
00:43:47,126 --> 00:43:48,746
I mentioned feeling sad that one of my

1851
00:43:48,806 --> 00:43:50,306
bridesmaids Tessa wouldn't be able to

1852
00:43:50,306 --> 00:43:51,926
make it because she lives in Arizona.

1853
00:43:52,124 --> 00:43:54,070
Erica responded, I'm so jealous of

1854
00:43:54,070 --> 00:43:55,976
Tessa living in another state gets

1855
00:43:55,976 --> 00:43:57,956
her out of so many of these events.

1856
00:43:58,160 --> 00:43:58,760
Okay.

1857
00:43:58,820 --> 00:43:59,675
Ding, ding, ding, ding, ding.

1858
00:43:59,680 --> 00:44:00,110
Okay.

1859
00:44:00,110 --> 00:44:00,470
Yeah.

1860
00:44:00,470 --> 00:44:01,190
I wanna be here.

1861
00:44:01,220 --> 00:44:01,730
Okay.

1862
00:44:01,730 --> 00:44:02,240
Yeah.

1863
00:44:02,400 --> 00:44:03,505
Honestly, if it was

1864
00:44:03,505 --> 00:44:04,431
me, I'd be like, girly.

1865
00:44:04,431 --> 00:44:05,031
What's going on?

1866
00:44:05,270 --> 00:44:05,438
Yeah.

1867
00:44:05,438 --> 00:44:06,248
Like what is happening here?

1868
00:44:06,248 --> 00:44:07,478
Like you've been saying, I've

1869
00:44:07,478 --> 00:44:08,468
been letting it go, but you've

1870
00:44:08,468 --> 00:44:09,458
been saying way too many things.

1871
00:44:09,458 --> 00:44:10,088
We need to talk.

1872
00:44:10,314 --> 00:44:10,585
Yeah.

1873
00:44:10,807 --> 00:44:11,710
Like, 'cause that's just rude.

1874
00:44:11,770 --> 00:44:12,550
Like, that's just rude.

1875
00:44:12,729 --> 00:44:14,303
You don't have to come, don't

1876
00:44:14,303 --> 00:44:15,623
do me any flipping favors.

1877
00:44:15,688 --> 00:44:15,978
Okay.

1878
00:44:16,253 --> 00:44:16,523
Okay.

1879
00:44:16,523 --> 00:44:17,338
Like, don't do me any, this what.

1880
00:44:17,338 --> 00:44:18,593
You're gonna ruin it being there.

1881
00:44:18,598 --> 00:44:18,818
I'd rather.

1882
00:44:18,823 --> 00:44:18,893
Yeah.

1883
00:44:19,223 --> 00:44:20,273
You are ruining it.

1884
00:44:20,273 --> 00:44:21,293
Like you're ruining everything.

1885
00:44:21,293 --> 00:44:22,643
You're making me feel bad.

1886
00:44:22,823 --> 00:44:24,624
Like you're, putting in digs, like

1887
00:44:24,624 --> 00:44:26,364
trying to make me feel bad about myself.

1888
00:44:26,611 --> 00:44:27,041
Yeah.

1889
00:44:27,041 --> 00:44:28,361
That's, oh gosh.

1890
00:44:28,421 --> 00:44:29,501
She's like putting all

1891
00:44:29,501 --> 00:44:30,731
the signs out there.

1892
00:44:30,940 --> 00:44:31,531
Yeah.

1893
00:44:31,860 --> 00:44:32,222
okay.

1894
00:44:32,252 --> 00:44:34,626
She says I wish I had a solid

1895
00:44:34,626 --> 00:44:36,336
excuse not to come to the

1896
00:44:36,336 --> 00:44:38,236
bachelorette trip, that was her end.

1897
00:44:38,512 --> 00:44:38,969
That's it.

1898
00:44:38,969 --> 00:44:39,119
Yeah.

1899
00:44:39,179 --> 00:44:40,049
That's your excuse.

1900
00:44:40,049 --> 00:44:41,623
Like don't come friend.

1901
00:44:41,653 --> 00:44:42,583
You don't need, I'd be like,

1902
00:44:42,583 --> 00:44:43,453
you don't even need one.

1903
00:44:43,688 --> 00:44:44,406
You're uninvited.

1904
00:44:44,571 --> 00:44:44,866
done.

1905
00:44:45,166 --> 00:44:45,616
Done.

1906
00:44:46,566 --> 00:44:46,896
Oh my gosh.

1907
00:44:47,016 --> 00:44:48,036
That is, I would literally

1908
00:44:48,036 --> 00:44:48,756
be like, don't you?

1909
00:44:48,786 --> 00:44:49,956
I would literally say that most

1910
00:44:49,956 --> 00:44:50,736
likely I'd be like, you don't

1911
00:44:50,736 --> 00:44:51,906
even need one you're uninvited.

1912
00:44:52,121 --> 00:44:53,943
If someone's gonna be that mopey and like.

1913
00:44:54,183 --> 00:44:56,643
Oh yeah, I wish I had a solid excuse.

1914
00:44:56,874 --> 00:44:58,266
And you're saying that to me.

1915
00:44:58,438 --> 00:44:58,585
Yeah,

1916
00:44:58,921 --> 00:44:59,163
Yeah.

1917
00:44:59,223 --> 00:44:59,493
No.

1918
00:44:59,698 --> 00:45:00,230
There you go.

1919
00:45:00,230 --> 00:45:00,740
Bye.

1920
00:45:00,800 --> 00:45:01,100
Yeah.

1921
00:45:01,105 --> 00:45:01,195
Yeah.

1922
00:45:01,410 --> 00:45:02,100
that's your excuse right?

1923
00:45:02,100 --> 00:45:02,880
There you have it.

1924
00:45:03,208 --> 00:45:03,388
okay.

1925
00:45:03,388 --> 00:45:04,768
She goes frustrated.

1926
00:45:04,768 --> 00:45:06,178
I said, if you don't wanna

1927
00:45:06,178 --> 00:45:07,528
come, then you should stay home.

1928
00:45:07,738 --> 00:45:08,158
Okay, good.

1929
00:45:08,421 --> 00:45:10,061
She replied that she would

1930
00:45:10,061 --> 00:45:12,671
def look bad if she didn't go.

1931
00:45:12,948 --> 00:45:14,738
So you look bad by saying this,

1932
00:45:14,865 --> 00:45:15,675
you already, what do you mean You

1933
00:45:15,675 --> 00:45:16,635
obviously don't care about looking bad?

1934
00:45:16,665 --> 00:45:17,925
'Cause you look bad right now.

1935
00:45:18,075 --> 00:45:18,555
Yeah.

1936
00:45:18,801 --> 00:45:20,010
How can you really care about

1937
00:45:20,010 --> 00:45:21,120
looking bad if you say that?

1938
00:45:21,301 --> 00:45:22,321
it's more about everybody

1939
00:45:22,321 --> 00:45:23,491
else, what everyone else thinks

1940
00:45:23,491 --> 00:45:25,351
versus your best friend or one.

1941
00:45:25,351 --> 00:45:25,441
Yeah.

1942
00:45:25,591 --> 00:45:26,851
You don't care about me or what

1943
00:45:26,851 --> 00:45:27,991
I think because you're saying

1944
00:45:27,991 --> 00:45:28,761
all this Yeah, to my face.

1945
00:45:28,801 --> 00:45:29,821
Like, you're being rude

1946
00:45:29,821 --> 00:45:31,321
and mean to my face.

1947
00:45:31,605 --> 00:45:32,145
it's not about me.

1948
00:45:32,145 --> 00:45:33,315
It's like, okay, what other

1949
00:45:33,315 --> 00:45:34,695
people would it look bad for then?

1950
00:45:34,916 --> 00:45:36,148
Yeah, exactly.

1951
00:45:36,328 --> 00:45:37,078
Oh my gosh.

1952
00:45:37,328 --> 00:45:38,678
while shopping for bridesmaid

1953
00:45:38,678 --> 00:45:40,748
dresses, Erica told me she struggles

1954
00:45:40,748 --> 00:45:42,278
when people get married before her.

1955
00:45:42,510 --> 00:45:42,848
Really?

1956
00:45:42,938 --> 00:45:43,178
Did they?

1957
00:45:43,663 --> 00:45:43,983
Right.

1958
00:45:44,083 --> 00:45:46,703
Not also, why are we telling her

1959
00:45:46,808 --> 00:45:48,615
this at bridesmaid dress shopping

1960
00:45:48,615 --> 00:45:51,015
again, like a wedding event for her.

1961
00:45:51,233 --> 00:45:51,851
Don't go if you're

1962
00:45:51,851 --> 00:45:53,141
gonna make it about you.

1963
00:45:53,771 --> 00:45:55,481
Like honestly, at this

1964
00:45:55,481 --> 00:45:56,291
point, this is where the

1965
00:45:56,291 --> 00:45:57,401
introspection we need to come in.

1966
00:45:57,401 --> 00:45:59,105
And it'd be like, I'm in a weird place.

1967
00:45:59,105 --> 00:46:00,245
I can literally, I don't know

1968
00:46:00,245 --> 00:46:01,295
why, but I can literally not

1969
00:46:01,295 --> 00:46:02,405
be happy for you right now.

1970
00:46:02,568 --> 00:46:02,658
Mm-hmm.

1971
00:46:02,658 --> 00:46:04,278
I want to be, I know I should

1972
00:46:04,278 --> 00:46:05,858
be, but I'm in a bad place.

1973
00:46:06,098 --> 00:46:07,838
honestly, I should just be like.

1974
00:46:08,060 --> 00:46:09,555
I can't do this and cut

1975
00:46:09,555 --> 00:46:10,485
it out, like mm-hmm.

1976
00:46:10,605 --> 00:46:11,693
not a lot of people are like

1977
00:46:11,885 --> 00:46:12,900
self-aware like that, where it's

1978
00:46:12,900 --> 00:46:14,956
like, I'm just not able to do this.

1979
00:46:15,193 --> 00:46:15,513
Yeah.

1980
00:46:15,513 --> 00:46:17,826
If it's gonna bother you that much and

1981
00:46:17,826 --> 00:46:19,326
every little thing you're gonna bring

1982
00:46:19,326 --> 00:46:21,006
up how you're not married yet, or you're

1983
00:46:21,006 --> 00:46:23,123
not engaged yet, that's a problem.

1984
00:46:23,153 --> 00:46:23,303
Yeah.

1985
00:46:23,543 --> 00:46:25,306
You're gonna be rude to your friend.

1986
00:46:25,306 --> 00:46:26,686
It's, this is supposedly your friend.

1987
00:46:26,890 --> 00:46:27,300
Yeah.

1988
00:46:27,630 --> 00:46:28,230
Like, you're gonna be rude to

1989
00:46:28,230 --> 00:46:29,610
them, put them down, make them

1990
00:46:29,610 --> 00:46:30,810
feel bad about all the events that

1991
00:46:30,810 --> 00:46:32,070
are happening around this wedding.

1992
00:46:32,263 --> 00:46:33,920
then just see yourself out,

1993
00:46:34,140 --> 00:46:36,300
be a friend and don't go.

1994
00:46:36,551 --> 00:46:36,820
Right.

1995
00:46:36,820 --> 00:46:37,600
Like that would be the

1996
00:46:37,600 --> 00:46:38,440
way you're being a friend.

1997
00:46:38,440 --> 00:46:40,570
If like I'm literally not able to control

1998
00:46:40,730 --> 00:46:42,180
myself at this point because I'm so

1999
00:46:42,180 --> 00:46:44,170
jealous that I need to not be involved.

2000
00:46:44,386 --> 00:46:44,648
Yeah.

2001
00:46:44,853 --> 00:46:48,378
100%. she goes, especially when

2002
00:46:48,378 --> 00:46:49,338
they haven't been with their

2003
00:46:49,338 --> 00:46:51,528
partners as long as she has.

2004
00:46:51,588 --> 00:46:54,198
Oh my gosh.

2005
00:46:54,888 --> 00:46:55,878
Doesn't matter.

2006
00:46:55,908 --> 00:46:56,298
Erica.

2007
00:46:56,298 --> 00:46:57,018
Get over it.

2008
00:46:57,138 --> 00:46:57,618
Yeah.

2009
00:46:57,648 --> 00:46:58,158
Okay.

2010
00:46:58,206 --> 00:46:59,345
Dump your partner and get a new one.

2011
00:46:59,345 --> 00:46:59,495
Then.

2012
00:46:59,495 --> 00:47:01,175
I don't know, if the issue is

2013
00:47:01,325 --> 00:47:02,435
that, then maybe you should

2014
00:47:02,435 --> 00:47:03,695
like not be with your partner.

2015
00:47:03,695 --> 00:47:05,165
If they, obviously, obviously I don't

2016
00:47:05,165 --> 00:47:06,125
think she should be with her partner.

2017
00:47:06,125 --> 00:47:07,505
If her partner said something along the

2018
00:47:07,505 --> 00:47:09,318
lines of like, oh, what's it called?

2019
00:47:09,424 --> 00:47:10,218
Don't hold your breath.

2020
00:47:10,248 --> 00:47:10,908
Don't hold your breath.

2021
00:47:10,938 --> 00:47:11,598
You shouldn't be with that.

2022
00:47:11,778 --> 00:47:12,618
You shouldn't be with that person.

2023
00:47:12,618 --> 00:47:12,678
Yeah.

2024
00:47:12,683 --> 00:47:14,118
Like you're more mad at him, I think.

2025
00:47:14,291 --> 00:47:14,365
Yeah.

2026
00:47:14,365 --> 00:47:15,385
You're not mad at your friend

2027
00:47:15,385 --> 00:47:17,095
and you're letting him dictate

2028
00:47:17,095 --> 00:47:18,325
how you feel about your friend,

2029
00:47:18,325 --> 00:47:20,191
which you should be happy for her.

2030
00:47:20,191 --> 00:47:21,031
I think you need to turn

2031
00:47:21,031 --> 00:47:22,651
the anger maybe to him.

2032
00:47:22,681 --> 00:47:23,371
Yes.

2033
00:47:23,461 --> 00:47:24,841
You guys are on different timelines.

2034
00:47:24,961 --> 00:47:25,831
Yes.

2035
00:47:25,846 --> 00:47:26,014
Yeah.

2036
00:47:26,014 --> 00:47:27,304
I mean, but also like why even if

2037
00:47:27,304 --> 00:47:28,174
you're on different timelines, why

2038
00:47:28,174 --> 00:47:29,884
would that be your answer to somebody

2039
00:47:29,884 --> 00:47:31,054
asking about when we're getting married?

2040
00:47:31,277 --> 00:47:31,311
Yeah.

2041
00:47:31,311 --> 00:47:32,091
Don't hold your breath.

2042
00:47:32,096 --> 00:47:32,306
Your breath.

2043
00:47:32,311 --> 00:47:33,231
You obviously don't like me.

2044
00:47:33,351 --> 00:47:34,821
if that's your answer, that's rude.

2045
00:47:35,031 --> 00:47:35,421
Yeah.

2046
00:47:35,421 --> 00:47:37,041
It's one thing to be like, I'm not ready.

2047
00:47:37,532 --> 00:47:38,612
Gonna be like, don't hold your breath.

2048
00:47:38,642 --> 00:47:38,882
Okay.

2049
00:47:38,932 --> 00:47:39,469
you don't like me.

2050
00:47:39,469 --> 00:47:40,789
Then like, you always like, you don't

2051
00:47:40,789 --> 00:47:42,606
care about me or my feelings, Yeah.

2052
00:47:42,606 --> 00:47:44,046
The fact that he was so quick to

2053
00:47:44,046 --> 00:47:45,396
be like, don't hold your breath.

2054
00:47:45,396 --> 00:47:46,852
Not like, don't worry,

2055
00:47:46,852 --> 00:47:47,662
we're gonna get married.

2056
00:47:47,662 --> 00:47:48,922
I've got something planned.

2057
00:47:48,922 --> 00:47:50,542
Or just like, I need another year.

2058
00:47:50,542 --> 00:47:51,052
You know, whatever.

2059
00:47:51,052 --> 00:47:52,372
Or can we talk about it later?

2060
00:47:52,432 --> 00:47:53,769
Like, can we talk like not

2061
00:47:53,769 --> 00:47:54,969
on this boat when Yeah.

2062
00:47:54,969 --> 00:47:55,419
Not on this boat.

2063
00:47:56,058 --> 00:47:57,288
might not be happy with my answer.

2064
00:47:57,472 --> 00:47:58,514
Let's talk about it in private.

2065
00:47:59,954 --> 00:48:01,064
Might ruin your whole day.

2066
00:48:01,154 --> 00:48:02,234
Yeah, exactly right.

2067
00:48:02,234 --> 00:48:03,284
Ruins everybody's day

2068
00:48:03,284 --> 00:48:04,094
and year, apparently.

2069
00:48:05,594 --> 00:48:05,684
Yes.

2070
00:48:06,284 --> 00:48:07,034
Oh my gosh.

2071
00:48:07,274 --> 00:48:08,474
she said she felt she should

2072
00:48:08,474 --> 00:48:09,644
be getting married before me.

2073
00:48:09,674 --> 00:48:11,334
Oh, now it's clear before me.

2074
00:48:11,334 --> 00:48:12,294
Because of the length

2075
00:48:12,294 --> 00:48:13,824
of her own relationship.

2076
00:48:14,052 --> 00:48:16,144
Length does not dictate any of that.

2077
00:48:16,144 --> 00:48:16,714
It does not ever.

2078
00:48:16,714 --> 00:48:17,194
It really doesn't ever.

2079
00:48:17,194 --> 00:48:17,874
Oh my gosh.

2080
00:48:17,874 --> 00:48:18,349
It really doesn't.

2081
00:48:18,675 --> 00:48:20,204
I wanted to suggest that she

2082
00:48:20,204 --> 00:48:21,674
stepped down as a bridesmaid, but

2083
00:48:21,674 --> 00:48:23,354
I avoided the confrontation because

2084
00:48:23,354 --> 00:48:24,794
I knew it would end our friendship.

2085
00:48:25,042 --> 00:48:25,778
Well, maybe, but this is

2086
00:48:25,778 --> 00:48:26,588
not ending your friend.

2087
00:48:26,618 --> 00:48:28,298
This should have ended your friendship.

2088
00:48:28,478 --> 00:48:28,988
Yeah.

2089
00:48:29,063 --> 00:48:30,559
This should have ended your friendship.

2090
00:48:30,559 --> 00:48:31,939
I think this girl's being way too

2091
00:48:31,939 --> 00:48:33,889
much of a pushover because like, this

2092
00:48:33,889 --> 00:48:34,849
should have ended your friendship.

2093
00:48:34,849 --> 00:48:36,139
Why are you worried about ending?

2094
00:48:36,306 --> 00:48:37,596
how is this not ending it?

2095
00:48:37,711 --> 00:48:38,131
Mm-hmm.

2096
00:48:38,638 --> 00:48:40,305
all the signs are there from the outside.

2097
00:48:40,305 --> 00:48:41,595
I'm like, these signs are so

2098
00:48:41,595 --> 00:48:43,035
big and red that I'm like you.

2099
00:48:43,233 --> 00:48:43,618
Yeah.

2100
00:48:43,918 --> 00:48:44,338
As red.

2101
00:48:44,338 --> 00:48:45,538
Those nails that you got proposed.

2102
00:48:45,543 --> 00:48:45,743
Yeah,

2103
00:48:48,453 --> 00:48:48,943
exactly.

2104
00:48:50,453 --> 00:48:52,342
They are, flashing at me.

2105
00:48:52,762 --> 00:48:53,062
Yes.

2106
00:48:53,332 --> 00:48:55,132
for the bachelorette trip, a joint

2107
00:48:55,132 --> 00:48:56,692
bachelor and bachelorette weekend.

2108
00:48:56,939 --> 00:48:58,839
Erica texted me the week before saying

2109
00:48:58,839 --> 00:49:00,669
her boyfriend couldn't take time off work.

2110
00:49:00,872 --> 00:49:02,779
So they probably would come late.

2111
00:49:03,079 --> 00:49:03,559
Okay.

2112
00:49:03,846 --> 00:49:04,596
I thought she was gonna say,

2113
00:49:04,596 --> 00:49:05,556
so they probably wouldn't come.

2114
00:49:05,556 --> 00:49:06,636
And I was gonna be like, whoa, whoa, whoa.

2115
00:49:06,876 --> 00:49:07,146
Wait.

2116
00:49:07,429 --> 00:49:08,829
Despite multiple bridesmaids

2117
00:49:08,829 --> 00:49:10,709
offering to drive her so she

2118
00:49:10,709 --> 00:49:12,089
could come on time, she refused.

2119
00:49:12,089 --> 00:49:12,689
that's weird.

2120
00:49:12,919 --> 00:49:14,059
If it's one of my best friends, I'd be

2121
00:49:14,059 --> 00:49:16,109
like, sorry, you have to work a boyfriend.

2122
00:49:16,139 --> 00:49:17,914
I'm going without you like, yeah.

2123
00:49:19,094 --> 00:49:20,174
What, what, I'm sorry.

2124
00:49:20,174 --> 00:49:21,164
I'm not wasting my time.

2125
00:49:21,441 --> 00:49:22,731
she and her boyfriend finally

2126
00:49:22,731 --> 00:49:24,411
arrived Friday night just as we

2127
00:49:24,411 --> 00:49:25,750
were heading to the karaoke bar.

2128
00:49:25,979 --> 00:49:27,477
At the bar they stood apart from

2129
00:49:27,477 --> 00:49:29,627
everyone else repeatedly asked

2130
00:49:29,657 --> 00:49:31,577
when we were leaving and complained

2131
00:49:31,577 --> 00:49:33,017
about how much they disliked it.

2132
00:49:33,077 --> 00:49:33,827
Why did you come?

2133
00:49:34,472 --> 00:49:35,474
They both did?

2134
00:49:35,684 --> 00:49:36,764
Apparently.

2135
00:49:37,114 --> 00:49:37,334
what?

2136
00:49:37,339 --> 00:49:39,599
What was the point of coming then?

2137
00:49:39,842 --> 00:49:41,012
you just like ob you want

2138
00:49:41,012 --> 00:49:42,062
to ruin people's time.

2139
00:49:42,067 --> 00:49:42,427
Mm-hmm.

2140
00:49:42,752 --> 00:49:44,672
You're just miserable, unhappy people.

2141
00:49:44,732 --> 00:49:45,332
Yeah.

2142
00:49:45,392 --> 00:49:46,763
you're being miserable and you're

2143
00:49:46,763 --> 00:49:48,443
trying to make everyone else miserable.

2144
00:49:48,590 --> 00:49:49,703
I'm one of those people where like, I

2145
00:49:49,703 --> 00:49:50,963
feel like I give so much grace where

2146
00:49:50,963 --> 00:49:52,334
I'm like, you know, if somebody's in a

2147
00:49:52,334 --> 00:49:54,697
bad place, and Maybe you are miserable.

2148
00:49:54,727 --> 00:49:54,937
Okay.

2149
00:49:54,937 --> 00:49:57,200
But like, are you spreading your misery?

2150
00:49:57,200 --> 00:49:58,220
That's what I'm really asking.

2151
00:49:58,354 --> 00:50:00,034
are you spreading your misery?

2152
00:50:00,237 --> 00:50:01,234
And that's what's happening here.

2153
00:50:01,234 --> 00:50:01,834
And I feel like that's

2154
00:50:01,834 --> 00:50:03,707
so like, get it together.

2155
00:50:03,935 --> 00:50:05,465
There's really no reason for you to go to

2156
00:50:05,465 --> 00:50:08,435
event and just ruin somebody else's time.

2157
00:50:08,705 --> 00:50:09,665
Go home.

2158
00:50:09,945 --> 00:50:10,875
Yeah, go home.

2159
00:50:11,059 --> 00:50:13,039
Because, yeah, no one feels bad for you.

2160
00:50:13,149 --> 00:50:14,911
don't go there to like ruin their day.

2161
00:50:14,911 --> 00:50:16,111
they're enjoying their time.

2162
00:50:16,111 --> 00:50:16,711
So just like.

2163
00:50:16,711 --> 00:50:16,771
Yeah.

2164
00:50:17,446 --> 00:50:19,235
This would also be a festivity and

2165
00:50:19,235 --> 00:50:20,285
you would literally be like, Ugh.

2166
00:50:20,499 --> 00:50:21,208
Can we go home?

2167
00:50:21,298 --> 00:50:21,748
Yeah, go.

2168
00:50:21,778 --> 00:50:22,558
No, yeah, you can.

2169
00:50:22,563 --> 00:50:22,813
Yeah, please.

2170
00:50:22,818 --> 00:50:24,358
You literally can, you drove here by

2171
00:50:24,358 --> 00:50:25,978
yourself because you didn't come with us.

2172
00:50:26,146 --> 00:50:27,211
' Cause you're waiting for your boyfriend

2173
00:50:27,211 --> 00:50:28,621
so you can, you literally can't go.

2174
00:50:29,401 --> 00:50:29,701
Yeah.

2175
00:50:29,881 --> 00:50:30,331
Literally.

2176
00:50:30,331 --> 00:50:30,721
Please.

2177
00:50:30,721 --> 00:50:31,741
Do you already want

2178
00:50:31,741 --> 00:50:32,611
the excuse to not come?

2179
00:50:32,611 --> 00:50:33,661
This is not an escape room.

2180
00:50:33,661 --> 00:50:34,561
You can escape.

2181
00:50:34,591 --> 00:50:34,831
Okay.

2182
00:50:34,921 --> 00:50:35,011
Yeah.

2183
00:50:36,481 --> 00:50:37,471
You're way out.

2184
00:50:37,476 --> 00:50:38,491
Oh my gosh.

2185
00:50:38,679 --> 00:50:39,631
This is wild.

2186
00:50:39,835 --> 00:50:41,615
the next morning Erica claimed she

2187
00:50:41,615 --> 00:50:43,145
had a panic attack and decided to

2188
00:50:43,145 --> 00:50:46,068
leave saying she wasn't having fun.

2189
00:50:46,405 --> 00:50:47,005
Okay.

2190
00:50:47,005 --> 00:50:47,215
Yeah.

2191
00:50:47,295 --> 00:50:47,964
Neither were we.

2192
00:50:48,024 --> 00:50:48,624
We could tell.

2193
00:50:48,865 --> 00:50:49,024
Yeah.

2194
00:50:49,024 --> 00:50:49,474
You could tell.

2195
00:50:49,479 --> 00:50:49,969
It's not a surprise.

2196
00:50:49,969 --> 00:50:50,529
You made it very clear.

2197
00:50:50,729 --> 00:50:50,969
Yeah.

2198
00:50:50,969 --> 00:50:52,369
Like it's not a surprise, girly.

2199
00:50:54,064 --> 00:50:57,098
A month after the trip, Erica got engaged.

2200
00:50:57,904 --> 00:50:58,024
Hmm.

2201
00:50:58,919 --> 00:50:59,429
Okay.

2202
00:50:59,789 --> 00:51:01,339
Good for maybe, I hope, you know what?

2203
00:51:01,339 --> 00:51:02,809
I hope her attitude changes now.

2204
00:51:02,985 --> 00:51:04,476
I hope she's very happy now.

2205
00:51:04,536 --> 00:51:04,776
Yeah.

2206
00:51:04,956 --> 00:51:06,789
Now she's gonna be, wait, I didn't read

2207
00:51:06,789 --> 00:51:08,559
the rest, but I'm just gonna guess it's

2208
00:51:08,559 --> 00:51:10,329
gonna be all about her and her wedding now

2209
00:51:10,455 --> 00:51:12,482
and then maybe they kept married first.

2210
00:51:12,676 --> 00:51:13,066
Oh my God.

2211
00:51:13,066 --> 00:51:13,726
I bet she's gonna be

2212
00:51:13,726 --> 00:51:14,562
like, oh, you know what?

2213
00:51:14,562 --> 00:51:15,312
If this was my wedding, I

2214
00:51:15,312 --> 00:51:16,032
wouldn't have done that.

2215
00:51:16,247 --> 00:51:17,006
Yes.

2216
00:51:17,246 --> 00:51:18,806
A lot of that, like, oh, you know what?

2217
00:51:18,806 --> 00:51:20,156
I would've never picked that color.

2218
00:51:20,361 --> 00:51:20,822
Oh, you know what?

2219
00:51:20,822 --> 00:51:21,812
I kind of feel like that's a little

2220
00:51:21,812 --> 00:51:23,249
techy, but like, it's good for you.

2221
00:51:23,483 --> 00:51:24,026
Oh my God.

2222
00:51:24,163 --> 00:51:25,046
I hate Erica.

2223
00:51:25,076 --> 00:51:25,316
What?

2224
00:51:25,406 --> 00:51:25,886
Yes.

2225
00:51:26,036 --> 00:51:26,396
God.

2226
00:51:26,396 --> 00:51:27,636
Erica, you're the worse.

2227
00:51:27,656 --> 00:51:27,986
Yeah.

2228
00:51:29,541 --> 00:51:31,101
a month after the trip, so Erica

2229
00:51:31,101 --> 00:51:32,571
got engaged and started texting me

2230
00:51:32,571 --> 00:51:34,131
questions about wedding planning.

2231
00:51:34,344 --> 00:51:35,744
she's so excited now.

2232
00:51:36,321 --> 00:51:37,271
look at her.

2233
00:51:37,491 --> 00:51:38,871
Things most bridesmaids would

2234
00:51:38,871 --> 00:51:40,701
already know, like what wedding

2235
00:51:40,701 --> 00:51:42,801
website I use and where my venue was.

2236
00:51:43,063 --> 00:51:44,971
On the day of my bridal shower, Erica

2237
00:51:44,971 --> 00:51:47,438
showed up with her mom both wearing white.

2238
00:51:47,643 --> 00:51:48,446
Because she's engaged, so

2239
00:51:48,446 --> 00:51:49,976
it's now her wedding here.

2240
00:51:50,119 --> 00:51:51,883
I literally can't,

2241
00:51:52,008 --> 00:51:53,778
Erica is just the worse.

2242
00:51:53,778 --> 00:51:55,913
Erica is the worst.

2243
00:51:56,768 --> 00:51:57,876
She can't help herself.

2244
00:51:59,579 --> 00:52:00,819
matching, outfits, like wearing

2245
00:52:00,819 --> 00:52:02,559
a sash bride and mother of bride.

2246
00:52:05,049 --> 00:52:06,499
She's like, well, I'm, also, engaged.

2247
00:52:06,724 --> 00:52:07,969
We're all engaged together.

2248
00:52:08,919 --> 00:52:08,929
Yeah.

2249
00:52:08,960 --> 00:52:08,994
Oh my God,

2250
00:52:08,997 --> 00:52:09,007
God.

2251
00:52:11,640 --> 00:52:13,320
she asked the other bridesmaids how

2252
00:52:13,320 --> 00:52:15,454
long the shower would last complained

2253
00:52:15,454 --> 00:52:17,074
about having to stay for the opening

2254
00:52:17,074 --> 00:52:19,307
of gifts and spent most of the time

2255
00:52:19,307 --> 00:52:21,557
talking about her own wedding plans.

2256
00:52:23,294 --> 00:52:24,857
you called it,

2257
00:52:25,037 --> 00:52:26,525
I feel like I've just seen so many

2258
00:52:26,525 --> 00:52:27,800
stories like this where I'm just

2259
00:52:27,800 --> 00:52:30,065
like that type of person that's so

2260
00:52:30,256 --> 00:52:32,375
upset and jealous and has to be rude.

2261
00:52:32,593 --> 00:52:33,841
The second then they get engaged.

2262
00:52:33,841 --> 00:52:35,131
It's me, me, me, me, me.

2263
00:52:35,221 --> 00:52:36,781
Oh, you had your, yes, that's it.

2264
00:52:36,841 --> 00:52:37,531
But it's like she doesn't

2265
00:52:37,531 --> 00:52:38,161
have her time yet.

2266
00:52:38,161 --> 00:52:38,641
She's still like.

2267
00:52:38,641 --> 00:52:39,361
She never had her time.

2268
00:52:39,361 --> 00:52:40,921
You were rude the whole time.

2269
00:52:40,921 --> 00:52:42,202
Like and then after now

2270
00:52:42,202 --> 00:52:43,132
you're still being rude.

2271
00:52:43,250 --> 00:52:43,399
See?

2272
00:52:43,489 --> 00:52:44,629
Are you just a rude person?

2273
00:52:45,349 --> 00:52:45,679
Like that.

2274
00:52:46,399 --> 00:52:46,819
Just who?

2275
00:52:47,080 --> 00:52:47,592
Yeah.

2276
00:52:47,652 --> 00:52:48,582
I was like, were there signs?

2277
00:52:48,612 --> 00:52:49,212
You know what, I'm sorry.

2278
00:52:49,212 --> 00:52:50,142
I feel like I was like, were there signs

2279
00:52:50,142 --> 00:52:51,612
already that Erica was not a good friend

2280
00:52:51,772 --> 00:52:52,317
I wanna hear about

2281
00:52:52,317 --> 00:52:52,467
before

2282
00:52:52,467 --> 00:52:53,277
all of this.

2283
00:52:53,330 --> 00:52:54,290
Yeah.

2284
00:52:54,391 --> 00:52:56,761
some pre-engagement stories about Erica.

2285
00:52:56,821 --> 00:52:57,631
Tell me the truth.

2286
00:52:57,751 --> 00:52:58,081
Yeah.

2287
00:52:58,111 --> 00:52:59,101
I was like, let's get the truth.

2288
00:52:59,101 --> 00:53:00,481
Have you, as his friend, needed

2289
00:53:00,481 --> 00:53:01,861
to be gone for a long time?

2290
00:53:02,851 --> 00:53:03,121
Probably.

2291
00:53:03,356 --> 00:53:04,561
My, guess is, yeah.

2292
00:53:04,566 --> 00:53:04,786
Yeah.

2293
00:53:04,961 --> 00:53:05,771
and this just brought

2294
00:53:05,771 --> 00:53:06,941
it all out even more.

2295
00:53:07,041 --> 00:53:09,111
when I walked over to her table,

2296
00:53:09,111 --> 00:53:11,941
her mom interrupted me to show Erica

2297
00:53:11,941 --> 00:53:13,741
something so cute for her wedding.

2298
00:53:14,881 --> 00:53:16,891
About 45 minutes into the shower,

2299
00:53:16,891 --> 00:53:18,971
Erica's mom came up to me and

2300
00:53:18,971 --> 00:53:20,621
said Erica wasn't feeling well.

2301
00:53:20,843 --> 00:53:22,198
I know I have to say that in that voice.

2302
00:53:22,393 --> 00:53:22,768
Yeah.

2303
00:53:22,768 --> 00:53:23,308
No, I love it.

2304
00:53:23,398 --> 00:53:24,388
Come say goodbye.

2305
00:53:24,615 --> 00:53:24,945
Oh.

2306
00:53:25,035 --> 00:53:25,785
At your shower.

2307
00:53:25,785 --> 00:53:26,835
You need to go outside

2308
00:53:26,835 --> 00:53:27,885
and say goodbye to Erica.

2309
00:53:27,885 --> 00:53:29,205
No, Erica can come inside.

2310
00:53:29,385 --> 00:53:29,625
Yeah.

2311
00:53:29,625 --> 00:53:30,768
Or, tell her I say bye.

2312
00:53:31,651 --> 00:53:33,091
She can just do the old Irish goodbye.

2313
00:53:33,241 --> 00:53:33,511
See ya.

2314
00:53:33,965 --> 00:53:36,695
I went outside and Erica apologized,

2315
00:53:36,886 --> 00:53:38,565
later texted me that she's always

2316
00:53:38,565 --> 00:53:40,785
getting sick at events related to me.

2317
00:53:41,111 --> 00:53:41,411
Oh my God.

2318
00:53:44,501 --> 00:53:45,956
You said it weird.

2319
00:53:45,956 --> 00:53:47,613
There must be some jealousy in the air.

2320
00:53:47,683 --> 00:53:47,973
Yeah.

2321
00:53:48,703 --> 00:53:49,413
Right, right.

2322
00:53:49,653 --> 00:53:50,133
I right.

2323
00:53:50,183 --> 00:53:50,853
Stick with jealousy.

2324
00:53:50,858 --> 00:53:51,648
You're literally getting

2325
00:53:51,648 --> 00:53:53,988
sick by your own jealousy.

2326
00:53:54,216 --> 00:53:56,575
Your own jealousy is making you sick.

2327
00:53:56,750 --> 00:53:58,115
Eating you up inside.

2328
00:53:58,175 --> 00:53:58,865
Alive.

2329
00:53:58,870 --> 00:54:00,905
Like, like your body

2330
00:54:00,905 --> 00:54:02,135
knows terrible therapy.

2331
00:54:02,140 --> 00:54:03,200
Immediately, please.

2332
00:54:03,590 --> 00:54:04,320
Like, yeah.

2333
00:54:04,595 --> 00:54:06,245
Can you seek some inner peace?

2334
00:54:06,418 --> 00:54:06,838
all right.

2335
00:54:06,838 --> 00:54:09,905
The next day, my sister texted Erica and

2336
00:54:09,905 --> 00:54:11,555
asked if she'd be getting sick on the

2337
00:54:11,555 --> 00:54:13,548
wedding day too, and whether she saw,

2338
00:54:13,548 --> 00:54:14,413
I love the sister.

2339
00:54:14,673 --> 00:54:15,653
The sister is awesome.

2340
00:54:15,953 --> 00:54:17,388
The sister was like, I'm done with this.

2341
00:54:17,448 --> 00:54:17,808
Yeah.

2342
00:54:17,808 --> 00:54:18,728
Like, I'll be her

2343
00:54:18,728 --> 00:54:19,898
backbone for a little bit.

2344
00:54:19,898 --> 00:54:20,528
I got, yeah.

2345
00:54:20,980 --> 00:54:22,150
Whether she felt capable

2346
00:54:22,150 --> 00:54:23,590
of handling the pressure.

2347
00:54:23,846 --> 00:54:25,766
Erica got defensive and sent me

2348
00:54:25,766 --> 00:54:27,566
a long series of messages about

2349
00:54:27,566 --> 00:54:29,580
feeling disrespected before I

2350
00:54:29,580 --> 00:54:32,010
could respond she blocked me.

2351
00:54:32,800 --> 00:54:33,610
The audacity!

2352
00:54:33,700 --> 00:54:34,750
And all the other

2353
00:54:34,750 --> 00:54:36,640
bridesmaids on social media.

2354
00:54:36,832 --> 00:54:39,006
' cause she was called out for her bs.

2355
00:54:39,597 --> 00:54:40,817
She felt disrespected?

2356
00:54:41,645 --> 00:54:42,945
She, Erica felt disrespect?

2357
00:54:42,980 --> 00:54:44,060
Wow.

2358
00:54:44,171 --> 00:54:45,401
Wow.

2359
00:54:45,401 --> 00:54:46,991
That is wild.

2360
00:54:47,211 --> 00:54:48,254
She did them a favor though.

2361
00:54:48,404 --> 00:54:48,464
Yeah.

2362
00:54:48,464 --> 00:54:50,581
Like somebody needed to like, thank

2363
00:54:50,581 --> 00:54:52,141
you for excusing yourself out then.

2364
00:54:52,356 --> 00:54:52,896
Mm-hmm.

2365
00:54:53,256 --> 00:54:54,276
And she, she literally went

2366
00:54:54,276 --> 00:54:55,206
through, just blocked everybody.

2367
00:54:55,236 --> 00:54:55,536
Okay.

2368
00:54:55,716 --> 00:54:56,466
Nobody wanted you ready.

2369
00:54:56,466 --> 00:54:58,329
That's someone that expects

2370
00:54:58,329 --> 00:54:59,689
you just to like, go to their

2371
00:54:59,689 --> 00:55:01,399
beck and call at all times.

2372
00:55:01,399 --> 00:55:02,959
No one says no to me.

2373
00:55:03,224 --> 00:55:04,169
And so I think because the

2374
00:55:04,169 --> 00:55:06,029
sister came in and was like, yo,

2375
00:55:06,461 --> 00:55:08,423
you're not being a good person.

2376
00:55:08,651 --> 00:55:09,733
Are you gonna be there or not?

2377
00:55:09,763 --> 00:55:10,923
Tell me now because

2378
00:55:10,983 --> 00:55:11,583
Yeah, exactly.

2379
00:55:11,583 --> 00:55:12,273
Not dealing with this.

2380
00:55:12,924 --> 00:55:14,154
I'm glad the sister said something.

2381
00:55:14,154 --> 00:55:15,354
'cause it was like someone had to be like,

2382
00:55:15,578 --> 00:55:17,344
we've already seen the pattern for a year.

2383
00:55:17,544 --> 00:55:18,907
Are you gonna do this on

2384
00:55:19,180 --> 00:55:20,830
the actual important day?

2385
00:55:21,023 --> 00:55:21,113
Mm-hmm.

2386
00:55:21,353 --> 00:55:22,613
If so, like, and I love that.

2387
00:55:22,813 --> 00:55:23,773
Are you gonna be able to handle it?

2388
00:55:23,773 --> 00:55:24,073
'cause Yeah.

2389
00:55:24,143 --> 00:55:25,193
can you handle it?

2390
00:55:25,372 --> 00:55:26,920
You've proven not to be able to.

2391
00:55:27,352 --> 00:55:28,170
So yeah.

2392
00:55:28,170 --> 00:55:29,580
Can you get yourself together before then?

2393
00:55:29,580 --> 00:55:29,760
Mm-hmm.

2394
00:55:30,113 --> 00:55:30,953
And she pretty much, she

2395
00:55:30,953 --> 00:55:32,220
answered, no, she's not.

2396
00:55:32,220 --> 00:55:34,210
I mean by all of her actions were a No.

2397
00:55:34,458 --> 00:55:35,300
That was the answer.

2398
00:55:35,300 --> 00:55:35,360
Yeah.

2399
00:55:35,602 --> 00:55:36,513
Oh my gosh.

2400
00:55:36,513 --> 00:55:38,013
She blocked everybody off.

2401
00:55:38,013 --> 00:55:38,913
That is wild.

2402
00:55:38,943 --> 00:55:39,693
Oh so childish.

2403
00:55:39,693 --> 00:55:40,413
I kind of like.

2404
00:55:40,585 --> 00:55:42,758
Very loosely relate to this.

2405
00:55:42,758 --> 00:55:44,228
years ago I had a very

2406
00:55:44,248 --> 00:55:45,418
shady kind of friend.

2407
00:55:45,418 --> 00:55:46,815
The end of, yeah, shady is probably

2408
00:55:46,815 --> 00:55:47,935
the wrong word, just a friend

2409
00:55:47,935 --> 00:55:49,225
where like I was always like people

2410
00:55:49,225 --> 00:55:51,395
pleasing, bending over backwards for.

2411
00:55:51,598 --> 00:55:53,812
And many times, like last minute

2412
00:55:53,812 --> 00:55:55,072
cancellations, like if she was

2413
00:55:55,072 --> 00:55:56,512
gonna help me with something, like

2414
00:55:56,638 --> 00:55:58,178
feeling sick, that kind of stuff.

2415
00:55:58,252 --> 00:56:00,102
And my sister texted her one day when

2416
00:56:00,102 --> 00:56:02,315
she was supposed to come to something and

2417
00:56:02,345 --> 00:56:04,202
canceled like the morning of, or She like

2418
00:56:04,202 --> 00:56:06,106
stopped responding to me and my sister

2419
00:56:06,106 --> 00:56:07,789
was like, Christa's always bending over

2420
00:56:07,789 --> 00:56:09,512
backwards for you, blah, blah, blah.

2421
00:56:09,512 --> 00:56:10,592
And it was like the same thing.

2422
00:56:10,809 --> 00:56:12,789
She was rude back to my sister and

2423
00:56:12,789 --> 00:56:14,349
then texted me like a whole thing.

2424
00:56:14,349 --> 00:56:15,669
And I was just like, I'm done.

2425
00:56:15,742 --> 00:56:15,752
done.

2426
00:56:15,922 --> 00:56:16,462
Sorry.

2427
00:56:16,666 --> 00:56:17,076
Yeah.

2428
00:56:17,541 --> 00:56:17,831
Yeah.

2429
00:56:17,836 --> 00:56:19,386
Like you can't take accountability.

2430
00:56:19,386 --> 00:56:19,746
Yeah.

2431
00:56:19,986 --> 00:56:20,372
Yeah.

2432
00:56:20,652 --> 00:56:20,832
all right.

2433
00:56:20,832 --> 00:56:22,212
Last paragraph here says,

2434
00:56:22,212 --> 00:56:23,562
looking back, I should have never

2435
00:56:23,562 --> 00:56:24,912
asked her to be a bridesmaid.

2436
00:56:25,115 --> 00:56:27,216
She has always been selfish and viewed

2437
00:56:27,216 --> 00:56:28,956
our friendship as a competition.

2438
00:56:29,046 --> 00:56:29,616
There you go.

2439
00:56:29,616 --> 00:56:29,646
Mm.

2440
00:56:30,246 --> 00:56:32,286
I was trying to hold on to a one-sided

2441
00:56:32,286 --> 00:56:33,786
friendship, but in the end she took

2442
00:56:33,786 --> 00:56:35,556
the first opportunity to bow out.

2443
00:56:36,714 --> 00:56:37,254
Wow.

2444
00:56:37,314 --> 00:56:38,394
They hung on by a thread

2445
00:56:38,394 --> 00:56:39,114
there for a while.

2446
00:56:39,409 --> 00:56:42,486
Yeah, yeah, and everyone, but I

2447
00:56:42,486 --> 00:56:43,176
mean, that's what we're wondering.

2448
00:56:43,176 --> 00:56:44,226
We're wondering, like, it seems like

2449
00:56:44,226 --> 00:56:46,146
Erica probably has always been a problem,

2450
00:56:46,146 --> 00:56:47,773
and, but she just confirmed that.

2451
00:56:48,013 --> 00:56:48,253
Yeah.

2452
00:56:48,324 --> 00:56:48,984
and that happens.

2453
00:56:48,984 --> 00:56:50,554
I mean, I've been, in a friendship

2454
00:56:50,554 --> 00:56:51,604
like that too, where like,

2455
00:56:51,817 --> 00:56:52,834
it was definitely one sided.

2456
00:56:52,834 --> 00:56:53,884
I was definitely like doing everything.

2457
00:56:53,884 --> 00:56:54,724
And they definitely were like

2458
00:56:54,814 --> 00:56:56,338
selfish, but there's like something,

2459
00:56:56,338 --> 00:56:57,448
I don't know what it is, but you

2460
00:56:57,448 --> 00:56:58,738
were like, attached to that person.

2461
00:56:58,738 --> 00:56:59,758
I felt attached to them.

2462
00:57:00,044 --> 00:57:01,124
and sometimes it can be hard to

2463
00:57:01,124 --> 00:57:02,774
like let people go, even if they're

2464
00:57:02,774 --> 00:57:04,604
like, not really bringing anything.

2465
00:57:04,604 --> 00:57:05,564
Mm-hmm.

2466
00:57:05,798 --> 00:57:06,278
A hundred percent.

2467
00:57:06,283 --> 00:57:06,973
Um, yeah.

2468
00:57:07,163 --> 00:57:07,453
Yeah.

2469
00:57:07,513 --> 00:57:07,733
So.

2470
00:57:08,361 --> 00:57:10,048
And I feel like too, it's like, you think

2471
00:57:10,048 --> 00:57:11,728
of like good times with that person.

2472
00:57:11,728 --> 00:57:11,908
Yeah.

2473
00:57:11,908 --> 00:57:13,018
And you're like, oh, they're

2474
00:57:13,018 --> 00:57:14,188
good to me during that.

2475
00:57:14,188 --> 00:57:15,628
Or like, this was a good time.

2476
00:57:15,628 --> 00:57:17,171
I don't wanna just like be the mean

2477
00:57:17,171 --> 00:57:18,791
person and say like, I'm done with

2478
00:57:18,791 --> 00:57:20,644
you, but also like, you matter too.

2479
00:57:20,644 --> 00:57:21,934
And it's like, yeah.

2480
00:57:21,994 --> 00:57:23,194
And their friendships just have

2481
00:57:23,194 --> 00:57:24,334
a timeline and they're just.

2482
00:57:24,552 --> 00:57:25,473
Done at a certain point.

2483
00:57:25,533 --> 00:57:25,803
And that's.

2484
00:57:25,803 --> 00:57:26,073
Yeah.

2485
00:57:26,615 --> 00:57:28,206
And this was the one, I mean, I

2486
00:57:28,236 --> 00:57:30,636
secretly wish for this girl that like

2487
00:57:30,801 --> 00:57:32,203
it had been earlier, so her whole,

2488
00:57:32,376 --> 00:57:34,756
all the events weren't like so tainted

2489
00:57:34,756 --> 00:57:37,019
with Erica's drama, But at least

2490
00:57:37,019 --> 00:57:38,519
her wedding wasn't tainted with it.

2491
00:57:38,524 --> 00:57:38,704
Yeah.

2492
00:57:39,090 --> 00:57:39,266
Yeah.

2493
00:57:39,266 --> 00:57:41,066
She was long out by that point.

2494
00:57:41,066 --> 00:57:41,696
Yeah, right.

2495
00:57:42,206 --> 00:57:42,911
Oh my gosh.

2496
00:57:43,166 --> 00:57:45,236
Well that was a wild story.

2497
00:57:45,432 --> 00:57:47,296
Well, thank you so much for coming

2498
00:57:47,296 --> 00:57:49,646
on and yeah, entering with me

2499
00:57:49,646 --> 00:57:51,986
and reacting to this wild story.

2500
00:57:51,986 --> 00:57:53,396
I had so much fun hanging out with you.

2501
00:57:53,396 --> 00:57:55,046
I feel like we could talk for hours just

2502
00:57:55,046 --> 00:57:57,446
because I do too, so much to chat about.

2503
00:57:58,776 --> 00:58:00,249
can you again, just tell everyone where

2504
00:58:00,249 --> 00:58:02,259
they can follow you and find your content

2505
00:58:02,259 --> 00:58:04,029
and then anything fun you're working on?

2506
00:58:04,247 --> 00:58:04,736
Yeah.

2507
00:58:04,796 --> 00:58:07,046
you can find me on TikTok

2508
00:58:07,228 --> 00:58:08,856
at Miss Razzle Dazzle.

2509
00:58:08,999 --> 00:58:10,229
I've been trying to change it, but

2510
00:58:10,229 --> 00:58:11,579
it won't change on TikTok, so Miss

2511
00:58:11,579 --> 00:58:14,489
Razzle dazzle, and then on Instagram

2512
00:58:14,579 --> 00:58:16,349
at bits of banter with Antoinette

2513
00:58:16,527 --> 00:58:18,026
and then YouTube at bits of banter.

2514
00:58:18,086 --> 00:58:18,418
I love it.

2515
00:58:18,974 --> 00:58:21,764
now my next thing is Perfect

2516
00:58:21,764 --> 00:58:24,224
Match and Love is Blind uk so I'll

2517
00:58:24,224 --> 00:58:25,694
be reacting to those two shows.

2518
00:58:26,039 --> 00:58:26,454
Okay.

2519
00:58:26,454 --> 00:58:28,344
I gotta watch at least one of those.

2520
00:58:28,404 --> 00:58:29,124
Yes, yes.

2521
00:58:29,124 --> 00:58:31,091
I Dating Show World.

2522
00:58:31,301 --> 00:58:31,541
Yes.

2523
00:58:33,352 --> 00:58:33,761
Awesome.

2524
00:58:33,761 --> 00:58:35,141
Well thank you so much.

2525
00:58:35,411 --> 00:58:35,891
Thank you.