Hey everybody.

Welcome back to another episode

of, here Comes The Drama.

I'm your host, Christa Innis,

and I'm extra excited for you

guys to be here today because

it's our one year anniversary.

I can't believe I'm saying that out

loud because I still remember the.

Coming up with this idea, feeling

like it was so out of my reach.

And here it is.

I just am so grateful to all of you

guys for listening to sending in

stories, to just sharing your support.

It just means so much to me.

So before I get too mushy and

share too much about the podcast,

I wanna read, this week's review.

It's from Lady Tony.

It says, when I was pregnant

with my daughter in 2024, I got

hooked with the skits on Insta.

Then I came across this

podcast, craving for Drama.

Satisfied.

I love that because we all secretly, or

maybe not so secretly, love the drama.

Especially when it's not our own.

that's the reason why, you know,

I came up with this podcast.

You guys wanted more stories,

you wanted to hear more stories,

talk more, hear more drama.

and you guys were sending me so many,

and this is a fun way to share more

of myself, to meet other people.

It's been a lot of fun.

so before we jump into the full part of

the episode, like I said, I wanna just

celebrate something big here and that

is, the podcast is a year old today.

We also hit 250,000 downloads, which

was well beyond my expectations.

I think I've said this before,

but I thought we were gonna hit

like 25,000 in the first year.

That was my initial goal.

so I'm just blown away by the support, the

love, all the stories you guys share with

me, people willing to come on the podcast.

I've met so many amazing

people that have been, just.

Eager to come on the podcast and

just be real and have conversation.

and it's been really great for me

to just expand because as I've said

before, know, I work from home.

My husband works from home, and

it's great to just meet people, but

with having a toddler, we don't.

Always get out as much as we want to.

and so this is a great way to

meet people from all over the

world, all over the country.

And, that's just been such a blessing,

such a gift to be able to do that.

So, to say thank you to you guys after

my blabbing here, I wanna tell you guys

that I am doing a one year giveaway.

not to be confused with the

giveaway I'm doing for the new year.

It's a little different, so pay

attention to these specific details.

but first I wanna share some

fun stats about this podcast.

So in the year, we have done 52 episodes.

We had 34 unique guests.

Many were on multiple times.

I think maybe like five to

10 were on multiple times.

I know my best friend, Yvette has been

on like three or four at this point.

and some of the people I've interviewed,

their episodes have not come out yet.

And then I have some in my

roster that are scheduled and

have not been interviewed yet.

So lots more exciting episodes coming out.

This podcast has reached 50 different

countries, including obviously the

United States, well, Canada, United

Kingdom, Australia, Germany, New Zealand.

Ireland, Sweden, Philippines, Netherlands,

Denmark, Norway, India, Mexico, France,

South Africa, and many, many more.

so that's very exciting.

And yes, I know the UK includes

many different countries.

just kind of looking at

my stats here quickly.

so it's just.

Mind blowing to me still, just

to know how many of you guys

listen to it every single week.

And it makes me that much more

excited to, also putting a lot more

pressure on myself, but more excited

to get the content out to you.

So back to this giveaway, one

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All right.

That was enough blabbing for today.

But you know what, who am I?

What am I saying?

We're getting into more blabbing now.

So let's get into today's episode.

you would think I'd be a little

more well rested for this episode.

I'm currently drinking this Gorge

Energy drink, not sponsored at all.

my husband put this in

my stocking this year.

Isn't it cute?

If you're looking at the video,

More caffeine than I'm used to.

I did not get great sleep last night.

It's been a doozy.

and yeah, we stayed up too

late watching Stranger Things.

I'll get into that later.

Okay.

Let's get into, would you rather, and

then I have a long story so I don't

wanna take up too much time before

that, would you rather seat feuding

relatives together or leave one

uninvited and deal with it forever?

Ooh, that's hard.

Seat feuding relatives together

or leave one uninvited.

That's gonna depend on my own

personal relationship with them.

Right.

I hate causing drama or like

causing something to happen.

But if I'm thinking of like a situation

where two people just can't get along

and, let's say it's someone that's like

closer to me, I would probably rather

just not have someone invited if I knew

they were gonna cause more drama at the

wedding, seeing people together that

I know aren't gonna get along is just,

it's just asking for it at that point.

So I think I'd rather just

not invite one of the party.

Okay.

Two, would you rather your dad

be late walking you down the

aisle or your stepparent insist

on being included last minute?

I think I'd rather have my dad be

late walking me down the aisle.

Hopefully not too late.

cause that's a problem.

But again, all these things are very

nuanced because if you're close with

your stepparent, I would hope you

kind of include them in some way.

It doesn't have to be like them

walking you down the aisle, but

maybe you give them flowers and

take photos with them ahead of time.

Maybe you do like a

special moment with them.

but again, it's gonna

depend on how close you are.

If your stepparent is insisting, then my

thought is maybe you're not that close, so

that's why I'm gonna go with the late dad.

Okay.

Would you rather cover costs for a

broke bridesmaid or ask for a step down?

Absolutely cover the cost.

If this person means enough to me where

I ask them to be in the wedding, I would

absolutely be like, don't worry about it.

I will cover it for you.

I've been in, not my own wedding, but

I've been in other weddings where, a

friend of mine reached out to me as

like the maid of honor and was like.

I'm in three other weddings this year.

I don't think I can afford

the bachelorette party.

And I said, if you really wanna

go, I will cover it for you.

Like don't worry about it.

Please.

Like, I wanna make sure you're there

for blank, actually come to think of

it, I did have a couple bridesmaids, I

wouldn't say broke bridesmaids at all.

I'm not calling them that, but other

ones that had other obligations like

maybe other vacations planned or,

they were having a baby other things

going on where I just told them like,

let me know where I can step in.

I would never ask them to step down if

they couldn't afford something because

the reason I'm asking someone to be in my

wedding is 'cause they mean a lot to me.

so I don't know.

I just don't like that of like,

oh, you can't afford this, or

You don't wanna spend this.

You can't stand up in my wedding.

Nah.

Would you rather your maid of honor,

ghost planning, or take over everything?

that's a tough one.

I had the most amazing maid

of honor, Yvette, who's been

on my podcast many times.

She would never either.

God, I'm so bad because it's

like I can't just pick one.

Okay, I'm gonna pick one.

I'm gonna say take over everything.

I would rather, because think about this.

If your maid of honor is

ghosting you, they don't care.

They don't wanna be there, they don't

wanna be a part of your wedding.

Who knows what's gonna happen to your

relationship after your wedding day.

so there's a lot of things, a

lot of issues going on there.

So if I can have them just

take over the wedding.

Hopefully they're good at it.

I don't know.

Okay.

would you rather someone bring an

uninvited plus one or bring their

kids to a child free wedding?

These are tough ones.

I think I would rather have someone

bring an uninvited plus one.

Because specified child-free wedding

is not gonna be set up for more kids.

Plus I think that's

gonna cause more drama.

'cause imagine if there was someone else

that was like, oh, I can't bring my kids.

Okay, I'll leave them at home.

Or I'll call a babysitter or whatever.

And then they come and this other

person came with their kids.

So I think that's gonna cause

more drama, an uninvited plus one.

Of Course, depending on the

person, but, I think that's fine.

ultimately it's not fine,

but I think that's better.

maybe they just needed

a ride or, I don't know.

They don't wanna come

alone either are not ideal.

Would you rather have a guest leave

early and post about it or stay

and complain the entire night?

Well, if they're posting about

it, are they posting like.

Why they left earlier,

why the wedding stopped?

'cause that's what I'm thinking.

Leave and post about it because if

it's my wedding day, I am not paying

attention to what people are posting.

I'm not gonna see until the next day.

So sorry.

If they took the time out to post

about why they left my wedding early,

then it had more of an impact on

them than they would like to think.

Okay.

Would you rather go over budget

or cut your guest list in half?

That's hard because to me, people

were the most important thing to

me when planning everything out.

it was really hard.

There were a few people that were like

on the, I don't know, like I haven't

talked to 'em in a couple years, but

when we were friends or when we did

work together, we were really close.

So there was a lot of people like that.

Cutting in half would

be really hard though.

Now, I think I would say I would rather.

Cut my guess list in half.

Then I think I'd rather

go a little over budget.

It just depends on how much.

Right.

okay, last one.

Would you rather accept money with strings

attached or pay for everything yourself?

Pay for everything myself,

I've talked about this before.

We had help on both sides and then

we paid for a good chunk ourselves.

but we never had any meddling parents.

both of our parents, or say all

four of our parents were so helpful.

They never overstepped.

talented in their own ways.

And so I just found different ways to

include each of them, especially our moms.

Never did they once say, I'm taking

this from you, I'm doing this, or go

behind my back and change something.

They were both so supportive,

and they would never hold

money or gifts over our head.

so yeah, I always really sympathize

with people that have to kind of

like balance it all out because.

In general, even though it is a gift, you

do feel like, okay, they gave this to me,

so I want to give that same respect back.

I've never been in a, bad relationship

where it's like a mother-in-law or a

mom like holding money over the head,

being like, okay, if I give you this

money though, I get to invite my 50

friends from church, or I get to,

Change up the flowers

or I get to, whatever.

I've never personally had to deal

with that, so I'm sure it's very

difficult when you're in that position.

All right, let's get into it.

This week's line reaction,

wedding story submission.

All right.

Huge fan of your videos for years.

I actually started watching them while I

was engaged, and the Ferris and Sloan saga

genuinely got me through the worst of it.

Oh my gosh.

Okay.

I'm trying to think of how to say this.

I love hearing that.

But I also hate hearing that,

if you know what I mean.

Like, I hate hearing that people relate

to the character so much because when

I came up with it, it was just like

so dramatic, so out of line, so wild.

something I could never

picture in my personal life.

but I've had so many people say,

thank you for creating this, because

it allowed me to feel like heard

and seen and like I wasn't alone.

I'm glad for that part, but I'm really

sorry that you had to go through this.

Okay.

My wedding story really began when my

then boyfriend of a year and a half, and

I decided we were ready to be engaged.

My parents and brothers

had met him several times.

I'd met his family and

everything always seemed fine.

My parents acted like they liked him.

My mother even told extended family.

We would definitely get married.

When we'd only been dating for six months.

Okay, wait.

So they said we'd definitely

would get married when we'd only

been dating for six months, which

is an entirely different story.

No one ever openly had a problem with him.

He's quiet and shy, and I always felt my

family was intimidated by the fact that

they couldn't read or manipulate him.

He didn't give them anything to work with.

on the other hand, am a total

blabber mouth and they often use

that to make digs at me or gather

information to use against me later.

Oh gosh.

Okay.

By winter of 2021, we'd been

talking seriously about engagement.

We were also meeting with our

priest for spiritual counseling.

When we told him we were considering

getting engaged, he was excited,

but he also told us we need

to book the date immediately.

If we wanted him to marry us

within the next calendar year,

there were only three slots left.

Otherwise we'd have to wait an

additional year, which we didn't

want, so we booked a date right then.

Even though we weren't

formally engaged yet.

Ooh, I like it.

But I can see where the

drama might come in.

There's a lot of people that

want to have a say over the

date, which I don't understand.

I mean, I get like, so me personally,

I get like checking in with family.

we always hold our family,

like we wanna spring wedding.

and our venue, it was cheaper if you got

married in March and on a Friday night.

So we were like, or not

Friday night, but Friday.

So we kind of like threw that out

there to like our parents at least.

But everyone else we were like,

if you can be there, be there.

If you can't, you can't.

my boyfriend wanted to do the right thing

and ask my parents for their blessing.

I warned him that they were

very controlling and wouldn't

be happy that they would use

the opportunity to bully him.

So you're telling me she

never saw any issues?

With the family and him, or they never

said anything about him, but right off the

bat she's like, they're gonna bully you.

They wanna control you, what?

While he agreed it was ultimately

my choice, he said he was raised to

respect parents and still wanted to ask.

I reluctantly agreed and told him.

I would let them know that

he wanted to speak with them.

Side note, I was living

with my parents at the time.

One morning I told my dad that my

boyfriend wanted to ask him something

important over Thanksgiving weekend.

At first, my dad seemed

excited and supportive.

Then he said he needed to tell my mother.

I went to class and

didn't think much of it.

When I got home, they were

waiting for me and told me we

needed to have a serious talk.

Wait, but he didn't even say anything yet.

They must have like had like a clip.

They sat me down and began

grilling me with the most bizarre

concerns about my boyfriend.

Okay, so this is like a bullet point list

One, he was four years older than me.

We were 22 and 26.

Completely normal.

Yeah.

I think that's a

completely normal age gap.

His job paid more than mine.

Why is that a problem?

And also what is this obsession?

What people's jobs pay If you are not

paying the bills, why does it matter

and how do they know what he makes?

Anyway?

Three, he had a car and I didn't,

they had actively prevented me from

getting a license up to that point.

Okay, so they just don't like

that this guy is going to kind

of be like your new family.

It sounds like they were controlling

you into not getting a license.

Not, I mean, not getting a car.

That's really odd to me.

Number four, he was in the process of

buying a house and they demanded that

my name be on the title before marriage.

Okay.

As someone that has a daughter, if this

was her partner, I feel like these are all

great qualities, he has a good paying job.

He has a car, he's in the

process of buying a house.

These are all great things.

You would be like, wow,

he's got his shit together.

He loves you.

He wants to take this to the next level.

Like next step.

Like why are they so like, Nope,

you need to do this, this, and this.

Why are these red flags to me?

These are green flags.

Also like putting his her name

on the house before marriage.

I mean, I don't know, like

legality stuff of that.

I mean, I get like putting your, I

mean, it's not like she's even talking

about moving in yet, but I don't know.

Whatever.

Okay.

Last one.

They even implied that he might be

abusing me, which was completely untrue.

Why would you say something

like that, if anything?

He protected me from their ongoing abuse.

Someone like that.

And I'm not gonna make accusations

because I'm only reading a story.

I don't know anyone in this

story personally, someone

that's so used to controlling

you and making choices for you.

When they see another influence

come in that's allowing you to be a

little more independent or kind of

go away from their grasp, they're

gonna try to do all those things.

They're gonna try to like point the

finger at him and say, oh, he's bad.

He's trying to hurt you.

He's trying to do all these things

because They realize that when

you get more independent and start

thinking for yourself, you're gonna

realize that they're the problem.

On Thanksgiving day, my

boyfriend still showed up,

polite, respectful, and hopeful.

After dinner, he asked my

father if they could talk.

My father refused and said,

now is not a good time.

I don't think it's appropriate for

you to ask me on Thanksgiving and

make the holiday all about Jessica.

Do they hate their

daughter this is absurd.

I don't think I ever use that word.

This is just like, yeah, I mean,

in my mind, 22 is young, but

that's not for them to decide.

She's an adult.

I think I was still living at

home at 22, but I moved in with

my boyfriend now husband at.

24. 24. I think we were dating at 23.

at that point you can't.

They just wanted her to stay like

under wraps, under their control Q,

the most awkward dinner imaginable.

My brothers kept making weird jokes

about how women only get married

because they're gold diggers and

kept pushing political arguments.

No one wanted.

Why do they hate her so much?

So this was their problem with

him making more money because it's

gonna look like she's a gold digger.

I don't know.

This is wild.

The next day was my cousin's wedding.

The whole family was acting

strangely, but my boyfriend

and I tried to enjoy ourselves.

At the reception.

I casually mentioned to my dad that I like

the napkin color and would want something

similar to that for my own wedding.

He gave me a disturbed look and

walked away without saying a

word, dude, what is their problem?

The day after that, my boyfriend went

back to my parents' house for the

conversation they had decided to have.

The moment he walked in,

it felt like a war room.

They told him to sit down, then turned to

me and told me to go wait in the attic.

I wish I was kidding.

Go wait.

In the attic, where do you live?

is that your room or do

we need to call someone?

Hopefully you don't still live there.

This is like giving housemaid.

Why are you in an attic and why

do they want you to go there?

This is scary.

My boyfriend tried to insist that

the conversation involved both of us,

but my father demanded that I leave.

I wouldn't wanna stay with the dad.

I'd be like, no.

She's gonna stay with me, otherwise

we're both gonna leave for 40 minutes.

They grilled him about his

intentions and demanded.

One that he agreed to financially

support me getting a master's

degree, which I never wanted.

Okay, wait.

So first she's a gold digger, but

for marrying someone that's making

more money and now they're telling

him he has to financially support

her in getting a master's degree, but

she never even said she wanted that.

Number two is that he put my name

on the house title before marriage,

even though the house was still under

construction and no title even existed.

this is insane to me.

Completely insane.

I don't even know, like,

what do you do at that point?

Like eventually I was allowed back

in the room, my boyfriend again

explained that a title didn't exist

yet, but they refused to accept it.

Then they turned to me yelling about how I

thought I was going to pay for a wedding.

They announced they didn't

believe in weddings.

They don't believe in weddings.

Aren't they married?

And it's not for them to decide.

they said they wouldn't pay a cent

because weddings were a waste of money.

Okay?

Just 'cause their marriage sucks,

doesn't mean they can put it on

you, despite having had their

own 50 K wedding in the nineties.

So they have $50,000 wedding

in the nineties, which today.

Let's look this up guys.

A $50,000 wedding in the nineties

is what in today's world,

guys.

$50,000 wedding in the nineties

is equivalent to a 100,000

to $150,000 wedding today.

And they're trying to say,

that is so freaking wild.

here's my theory.

They're either not doing

well financially and.

Maybe marriage wasn't what they thought it

would be because they're unhappy people.

And so they're thinking if

their wedding was $50,000,

they see how money has changed.

they're thinking they're gonna have

to lend all this money to them, and

they're realizing they're not happy in

their own marriage and it was a scam.

They're trying to be like, okay, well,

she needs to get something out of this, so

he needs to pay for her master's degree.

I don't know.

That's the only thing I can think of.

I told them I didn't need their money.

They kept pushing.

So my boyfriend finally said he

had savings for a small wedding.

My father scuffed looked him up and down

and said, well, I guess we have a saver.

They are jealous.

They are so jealous of this boyfriend

because he is doing well financially.

He has his shit together and he's happy.

He's happy with their daughter

and they're not happy.

maybe they didn't save money.

They spent all their money on their

wedding, and so now they're living with

the repercussions of their actions.

Oh my gosh, these people.

Then my mother launched into how

I couldn't get married the next

year because I was also graduating

and the family wouldn't attend

two parties for me in one year.

That's when I told them, we already set

the date Oh, to be a fly on that wall.

They went ballistic.

I'm laughing because I'm so

uncomfortable and I'm not even there.

Like, oh my gosh, this is terrible.

They went ballistic,

screaming verbally abusing me.

Oh my gosh, and completely losing control.

I finally snapped, yelled

back, and stormed out.

My father followed not to

talk to me, but to apologize.

To my boyfriend for my

behavior saying I'm sorry.

She's crazy.

So now the dad's like,

Hey buddy, we're friends.

All these women, they're so crazy.

Get out of here.

Get out of here.

We walked down the block to the

car and just stared each other.

Finally, my boyfriend said,

holy shit, you are right.

He is like, yeah, you know what?

I think I'm gonna take some

time to think about this.

Oh my gosh.

That same day he offered

to let me move in with him.

He said he'd always suspected that

my parents treated me badly, but he

had no idea it was this dangerous.

and don't tell, I mean, I know this is

happening, this was in the past, but

don't tell your parents his address

because they sound incredibly toxic.

Incredibly dangerous, abusive, like.

Holy cow.

this is not good.

We never got their blessing.

We never got an apology.

Two days later, after yet another

argument, I packed my things

and moved in with my in-laws

at my husband's insistence.

I wish I could say I went, no

contact with them, but the saga

continued throughout our engagement.

Wedding and even the birth

of our son and daughter.

Girl, you've got so many stories to share.

I have a lot of questions.

Maybe I'll reach out.

the fact that they were still invited

to the wedding, they didn't wanna

offer anything, not saying parents

have to or need to, of course not.

Absolutely not.

But.

It's not like they were holding

a string over your head.

They were literally screaming at you.

They never once supported you.

They made fun of your

boyfriend, then boyfriend.

So to have them be a part of the

engagement, your wedding, and now

the birth of your son and daughter,

I can see now why you relate to

Ferris and Sloan story so much.

Oh, their first postpartum visit to

our home is another insane story.

One that ended with my husband banning

them from our house entirely, but I

think I've written enough for now.

Oh, this poor girl.

Oh my gosh.

She really relates to Ferris and Sloan.

It was, wasn't until my grandpa.

My only remaining tethered to

them passed away in March, 2024

that I finally went no contact.

I am so proud of you.

Like it's so complicated.

Relationships are so complicated,

and I'm not someone that's

like, oh, go no contact, because

every relationship is nuanced.

You never know, but based

on what I know here.

This was long overdue and I'm so proud of

you and I'm sure it was very complicated

and very hard to get to this point.

They still slander me daily on Facebook.

These are emotionally, mentally, whatever

else, spiritually immature parents.

The fact they treat you like this

and post about you on Facebook,

like, ugh, tell 'em to grow up.

Anyway, I hope you enjoyed my story.

I feel like it has the right amount of

chaos to be one in one of your videos.

And for the record, we did have a

beautiful ceremony and reception.

It was one of the best days of my life.

Second only to the birth of my children.

And yes, my mother wore a black dress.

No one really noticed.

Okay, well I'm glad the mom.

Elise, I'm assuming, behaved yourself

at the wedding and hopefully the dad,

they still had their wedding that they

wanted, and it still was a beautiful day.

So I'm glad for that.

I'm glad that some people were

able to close their mouths on this

special day and let them enjoy it.

But that is a wild story.

If you ever feel like writing in

more and sharing the rest, please do.

a lot of people say like.

Writing these stories out of things that

happened to them or things that they've

seen it's kind of therapy in itself.

it allows you to really go

through your emotions again and

really understand what happened.

And then hearing other people's

stories allow you to see that you're

not alone and you're not crazy.

because I think sometimes like

our mind plays tricks on us and

it's like, oh, it wasn't as bad.

it didn't happen like that,

but it was your experience.

So I think writing it out can be

really helpful, and understanding

yourself, understanding what happened.

and hopefully in sharing this,

other people can relate to you

and maybe give some advice.

Or if other people are in the

early stages, maybe you are in an

engagement right now where their

parents or your parents or some

other relative is acting like this.

so maybe we can share some advice as well.

Oh my gosh, this poor couple.

I'm really happy for you guys

being able to go no contact.

I think a lot of times children can

bring that out in people because you're

like, I don't wanna subject my child

to this, and the cycle ends with me.

Proud of you guys for that.

Alright, let's end this episode

with some confessions and then

we'll get on with our days.

This is your biggest wedding regret.

We always like to mix these

up on Instagram, so that was

the question of the week.

Here we go.

My father-in-law tried to influence

what I was wearing on my wedding day,

but I refused, so he made me cry.

What's with these father-in-laws trying

to influence what the bride wears?

I read another story like that

about him picking out Amazon dresses

because they were affordable,

like he wasn't even paying for it.

I don't understand that this regret.

It says not getting a

professional photographer and

not enough pics with my parents.

I think that's one of the

number one regrets I see.

Photographer is so worth it

getting a good photographer or

videographer because I will tell

you, I still see my wedding photos.

We have them hanging, I have 'em

in a photo book and it's, it was so

worth it to me not trying to do a

small ceremony on a beautiful, small

chapel that I've always wanted.

Okay.

That makes me sad.

I think a lot of times we get

influenced by other people around us,

or we see movies or we see what our

best friend did and we're like, ah,

I need to have a wedding like that.

I need to have a big wedding.

I need to do this.

And it pulls us away from

what is actually true to us.

I wish I had switched out some friends

in my wedding party for my cousins.

That's hard.

That's hard when you regret having or

not having someone in your wedding.

All right, last one.

I let my friend do my hair and makeup,

but she is no longer in my life.

She turned out to be narcissistic.

Well, that's a whole can of worms.

I'm sorry.

I'm sorry that happened.

is the regret because she was not good

at hair and makeup or the regret is

because you're not friends anymore?

Because if she did it

well, who really cares?

Because you could just be

like, oh, it was a hairdresser.

If it was that she's not your friend.

You only did it because she was

your friend at the time and it was

a bad hairstyle and makeup then.

Yeah, that's a regret I would have.

Fun fact, I did my sister's hair

and makeup on her wedding day, and

I'm four years younger than her.

I've always loved doing hair and makeup.

I'm no.

In no way, shape, or form a professional.

You, you guys can see

I'm learning every day.

but makeup was not something

that, like my sister completely

enjoyed I think at the time.

and I remember doing it for her prom

too, and her, another dance too.

so that was like fun.

But I don't think I've

done it for anybody else.

Yeah, I don't know.

Anyway, that was a wild

episode, wild story.

Again, thanks for being here, you guys.

This is my one year.

Birthday of the podcast

of Here Comes the Drama.

it's just been so much fun to

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I'm just so incredibly grateful.

And of course, as a reminder, we're

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All right guys.

Thanks for hanging out with me.

It's been an amazing year and

there's so much more to come

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All right, guys, have a good one.