Hey everybody.
Welcome back to another episode
of, here Comes The Drama.
I'm your host, Christa Innis,
and I'm extra excited for you
guys to be here today because
it's our one year anniversary.
I can't believe I'm saying that out
loud because I still remember the.
Coming up with this idea, feeling
like it was so out of my reach.
And here it is.
I just am so grateful to all of you
guys for listening to sending in
stories, to just sharing your support.
It just means so much to me.
So before I get too mushy and
share too much about the podcast,
I wanna read, this week's review.
It's from Lady Tony.
It says, when I was pregnant
with my daughter in 2024, I got
hooked with the skits on Insta.
Then I came across this
podcast, craving for Drama.
Satisfied.
I love that because we all secretly, or
maybe not so secretly, love the drama.
Especially when it's not our own.
that's the reason why, you know,
I came up with this podcast.
You guys wanted more stories,
you wanted to hear more stories,
talk more, hear more drama.
and you guys were sending me so many,
and this is a fun way to share more
of myself, to meet other people.
It's been a lot of fun.
so before we jump into the full part of
the episode, like I said, I wanna just
celebrate something big here and that
is, the podcast is a year old today.
We also hit 250,000 downloads, which
was well beyond my expectations.
I think I've said this before,
but I thought we were gonna hit
like 25,000 in the first year.
That was my initial goal.
so I'm just blown away by the support, the
love, all the stories you guys share with
me, people willing to come on the podcast.
I've met so many amazing
people that have been, just.
Eager to come on the podcast and
just be real and have conversation.
and it's been really great for me
to just expand because as I've said
before, know, I work from home.
My husband works from home, and
it's great to just meet people, but
with having a toddler, we don't.
Always get out as much as we want to.
and so this is a great way to
meet people from all over the
world, all over the country.
And, that's just been such a blessing,
such a gift to be able to do that.
So, to say thank you to you guys after
my blabbing here, I wanna tell you guys
that I am doing a one year giveaway.
not to be confused with the
giveaway I'm doing for the new year.
It's a little different, so pay
attention to these specific details.
but first I wanna share some
fun stats about this podcast.
So in the year, we have done 52 episodes.
We had 34 unique guests.
Many were on multiple times.
I think maybe like five to
10 were on multiple times.
I know my best friend, Yvette has been
on like three or four at this point.
and some of the people I've interviewed,
their episodes have not come out yet.
And then I have some in my
roster that are scheduled and
have not been interviewed yet.
So lots more exciting episodes coming out.
This podcast has reached 50 different
countries, including obviously the
United States, well, Canada, United
Kingdom, Australia, Germany, New Zealand.
Ireland, Sweden, Philippines, Netherlands,
Denmark, Norway, India, Mexico, France,
South Africa, and many, many more.
so that's very exciting.
And yes, I know the UK includes
many different countries.
just kind of looking at
my stats here quickly.
so it's just.
Mind blowing to me still, just
to know how many of you guys
listen to it every single week.
And it makes me that much more
excited to, also putting a lot more
pressure on myself, but more excited
to get the content out to you.
So back to this giveaway, one
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All right.
That was enough blabbing for today.
But you know what, who am I?
What am I saying?
We're getting into more blabbing now.
So let's get into today's episode.
you would think I'd be a little
more well rested for this episode.
I'm currently drinking this Gorge
Energy drink, not sponsored at all.
my husband put this in
my stocking this year.
Isn't it cute?
If you're looking at the video,
More caffeine than I'm used to.
I did not get great sleep last night.
It's been a doozy.
and yeah, we stayed up too
late watching Stranger Things.
I'll get into that later.
Okay.
Let's get into, would you rather, and
then I have a long story so I don't
wanna take up too much time before
that, would you rather seat feuding
relatives together or leave one
uninvited and deal with it forever?
Ooh, that's hard.
Seat feuding relatives together
or leave one uninvited.
That's gonna depend on my own
personal relationship with them.
Right.
I hate causing drama or like
causing something to happen.
But if I'm thinking of like a situation
where two people just can't get along
and, let's say it's someone that's like
closer to me, I would probably rather
just not have someone invited if I knew
they were gonna cause more drama at the
wedding, seeing people together that
I know aren't gonna get along is just,
it's just asking for it at that point.
So I think I'd rather just
not invite one of the party.
Okay.
Two, would you rather your dad
be late walking you down the
aisle or your stepparent insist
on being included last minute?
I think I'd rather have my dad be
late walking me down the aisle.
Hopefully not too late.
cause that's a problem.
But again, all these things are very
nuanced because if you're close with
your stepparent, I would hope you
kind of include them in some way.
It doesn't have to be like them
walking you down the aisle, but
maybe you give them flowers and
take photos with them ahead of time.
Maybe you do like a
special moment with them.
but again, it's gonna
depend on how close you are.
If your stepparent is insisting, then my
thought is maybe you're not that close, so
that's why I'm gonna go with the late dad.
Okay.
Would you rather cover costs for a
broke bridesmaid or ask for a step down?
Absolutely cover the cost.
If this person means enough to me where
I ask them to be in the wedding, I would
absolutely be like, don't worry about it.
I will cover it for you.
I've been in, not my own wedding, but
I've been in other weddings where, a
friend of mine reached out to me as
like the maid of honor and was like.
I'm in three other weddings this year.
I don't think I can afford
the bachelorette party.
And I said, if you really wanna
go, I will cover it for you.
Like don't worry about it.
Please.
Like, I wanna make sure you're there
for blank, actually come to think of
it, I did have a couple bridesmaids, I
wouldn't say broke bridesmaids at all.
I'm not calling them that, but other
ones that had other obligations like
maybe other vacations planned or,
they were having a baby other things
going on where I just told them like,
let me know where I can step in.
I would never ask them to step down if
they couldn't afford something because
the reason I'm asking someone to be in my
wedding is 'cause they mean a lot to me.
so I don't know.
I just don't like that of like,
oh, you can't afford this, or
You don't wanna spend this.
You can't stand up in my wedding.
Nah.
Would you rather your maid of honor,
ghost planning, or take over everything?
that's a tough one.
I had the most amazing maid
of honor, Yvette, who's been
on my podcast many times.
She would never either.
God, I'm so bad because it's
like I can't just pick one.
Okay, I'm gonna pick one.
I'm gonna say take over everything.
I would rather, because think about this.
If your maid of honor is
ghosting you, they don't care.
They don't wanna be there, they don't
wanna be a part of your wedding.
Who knows what's gonna happen to your
relationship after your wedding day.
so there's a lot of things, a
lot of issues going on there.
So if I can have them just
take over the wedding.
Hopefully they're good at it.
I don't know.
Okay.
would you rather someone bring an
uninvited plus one or bring their
kids to a child free wedding?
These are tough ones.
I think I would rather have someone
bring an uninvited plus one.
Because specified child-free wedding
is not gonna be set up for more kids.
Plus I think that's
gonna cause more drama.
'cause imagine if there was someone else
that was like, oh, I can't bring my kids.
Okay, I'll leave them at home.
Or I'll call a babysitter or whatever.
And then they come and this other
person came with their kids.
So I think that's gonna cause
more drama, an uninvited plus one.
Of Course, depending on the
person, but, I think that's fine.
ultimately it's not fine,
but I think that's better.
maybe they just needed
a ride or, I don't know.
They don't wanna come
alone either are not ideal.
Would you rather have a guest leave
early and post about it or stay
and complain the entire night?
Well, if they're posting about
it, are they posting like.
Why they left earlier,
why the wedding stopped?
'cause that's what I'm thinking.
Leave and post about it because if
it's my wedding day, I am not paying
attention to what people are posting.
I'm not gonna see until the next day.
So sorry.
If they took the time out to post
about why they left my wedding early,
then it had more of an impact on
them than they would like to think.
Okay.
Would you rather go over budget
or cut your guest list in half?
That's hard because to me, people
were the most important thing to
me when planning everything out.
it was really hard.
There were a few people that were like
on the, I don't know, like I haven't
talked to 'em in a couple years, but
when we were friends or when we did
work together, we were really close.
So there was a lot of people like that.
Cutting in half would
be really hard though.
Now, I think I would say I would rather.
Cut my guess list in half.
Then I think I'd rather
go a little over budget.
It just depends on how much.
Right.
okay, last one.
Would you rather accept money with strings
attached or pay for everything yourself?
Pay for everything myself,
I've talked about this before.
We had help on both sides and then
we paid for a good chunk ourselves.
but we never had any meddling parents.
both of our parents, or say all
four of our parents were so helpful.
They never overstepped.
talented in their own ways.
And so I just found different ways to
include each of them, especially our moms.
Never did they once say, I'm taking
this from you, I'm doing this, or go
behind my back and change something.
They were both so supportive,
and they would never hold
money or gifts over our head.
so yeah, I always really sympathize
with people that have to kind of
like balance it all out because.
In general, even though it is a gift, you
do feel like, okay, they gave this to me,
so I want to give that same respect back.
I've never been in a, bad relationship
where it's like a mother-in-law or a
mom like holding money over the head,
being like, okay, if I give you this
money though, I get to invite my 50
friends from church, or I get to,
Change up the flowers
or I get to, whatever.
I've never personally had to deal
with that, so I'm sure it's very
difficult when you're in that position.
All right, let's get into it.
This week's line reaction,
wedding story submission.
All right.
Huge fan of your videos for years.
I actually started watching them while I
was engaged, and the Ferris and Sloan saga
genuinely got me through the worst of it.
Oh my gosh.
Okay.
I'm trying to think of how to say this.
I love hearing that.
But I also hate hearing that,
if you know what I mean.
Like, I hate hearing that people relate
to the character so much because when
I came up with it, it was just like
so dramatic, so out of line, so wild.
something I could never
picture in my personal life.
but I've had so many people say,
thank you for creating this, because
it allowed me to feel like heard
and seen and like I wasn't alone.
I'm glad for that part, but I'm really
sorry that you had to go through this.
Okay.
My wedding story really began when my
then boyfriend of a year and a half, and
I decided we were ready to be engaged.
My parents and brothers
had met him several times.
I'd met his family and
everything always seemed fine.
My parents acted like they liked him.
My mother even told extended family.
We would definitely get married.
When we'd only been dating for six months.
Okay, wait.
So they said we'd definitely
would get married when we'd only
been dating for six months, which
is an entirely different story.
No one ever openly had a problem with him.
He's quiet and shy, and I always felt my
family was intimidated by the fact that
they couldn't read or manipulate him.
He didn't give them anything to work with.
on the other hand, am a total
blabber mouth and they often use
that to make digs at me or gather
information to use against me later.
Oh gosh.
Okay.
By winter of 2021, we'd been
talking seriously about engagement.
We were also meeting with our
priest for spiritual counseling.
When we told him we were considering
getting engaged, he was excited,
but he also told us we need
to book the date immediately.
If we wanted him to marry us
within the next calendar year,
there were only three slots left.
Otherwise we'd have to wait an
additional year, which we didn't
want, so we booked a date right then.
Even though we weren't
formally engaged yet.
Ooh, I like it.
But I can see where the
drama might come in.
There's a lot of people that
want to have a say over the
date, which I don't understand.
I mean, I get like, so me personally,
I get like checking in with family.
we always hold our family,
like we wanna spring wedding.
and our venue, it was cheaper if you got
married in March and on a Friday night.
So we were like, or not
Friday night, but Friday.
So we kind of like threw that out
there to like our parents at least.
But everyone else we were like,
if you can be there, be there.
If you can't, you can't.
my boyfriend wanted to do the right thing
and ask my parents for their blessing.
I warned him that they were
very controlling and wouldn't
be happy that they would use
the opportunity to bully him.
So you're telling me she
never saw any issues?
With the family and him, or they never
said anything about him, but right off the
bat she's like, they're gonna bully you.
They wanna control you, what?
While he agreed it was ultimately
my choice, he said he was raised to
respect parents and still wanted to ask.
I reluctantly agreed and told him.
I would let them know that
he wanted to speak with them.
Side note, I was living
with my parents at the time.
One morning I told my dad that my
boyfriend wanted to ask him something
important over Thanksgiving weekend.
At first, my dad seemed
excited and supportive.
Then he said he needed to tell my mother.
I went to class and
didn't think much of it.
When I got home, they were
waiting for me and told me we
needed to have a serious talk.
Wait, but he didn't even say anything yet.
They must have like had like a clip.
They sat me down and began
grilling me with the most bizarre
concerns about my boyfriend.
Okay, so this is like a bullet point list
One, he was four years older than me.
We were 22 and 26.
Completely normal.
Yeah.
I think that's a
completely normal age gap.
His job paid more than mine.
Why is that a problem?
And also what is this obsession?
What people's jobs pay If you are not
paying the bills, why does it matter
and how do they know what he makes?
Anyway?
Three, he had a car and I didn't,
they had actively prevented me from
getting a license up to that point.
Okay, so they just don't like
that this guy is going to kind
of be like your new family.
It sounds like they were controlling
you into not getting a license.
Not, I mean, not getting a car.
That's really odd to me.
Number four, he was in the process of
buying a house and they demanded that
my name be on the title before marriage.
Okay.
As someone that has a daughter, if this
was her partner, I feel like these are all
great qualities, he has a good paying job.
He has a car, he's in the
process of buying a house.
These are all great things.
You would be like, wow,
he's got his shit together.
He loves you.
He wants to take this to the next level.
Like next step.
Like why are they so like, Nope,
you need to do this, this, and this.
Why are these red flags to me?
These are green flags.
Also like putting his her name
on the house before marriage.
I mean, I don't know, like
legality stuff of that.
I mean, I get like putting your, I
mean, it's not like she's even talking
about moving in yet, but I don't know.
Whatever.
Okay.
Last one.
They even implied that he might be
abusing me, which was completely untrue.
Why would you say something
like that, if anything?
He protected me from their ongoing abuse.
Someone like that.
And I'm not gonna make accusations
because I'm only reading a story.
I don't know anyone in this
story personally, someone
that's so used to controlling
you and making choices for you.
When they see another influence
come in that's allowing you to be a
little more independent or kind of
go away from their grasp, they're
gonna try to do all those things.
They're gonna try to like point the
finger at him and say, oh, he's bad.
He's trying to hurt you.
He's trying to do all these things
because They realize that when
you get more independent and start
thinking for yourself, you're gonna
realize that they're the problem.
On Thanksgiving day, my
boyfriend still showed up,
polite, respectful, and hopeful.
After dinner, he asked my
father if they could talk.
My father refused and said,
now is not a good time.
I don't think it's appropriate for
you to ask me on Thanksgiving and
make the holiday all about Jessica.
Do they hate their
daughter this is absurd.
I don't think I ever use that word.
This is just like, yeah, I mean,
in my mind, 22 is young, but
that's not for them to decide.
She's an adult.
I think I was still living at
home at 22, but I moved in with
my boyfriend now husband at.
24. 24. I think we were dating at 23.
at that point you can't.
They just wanted her to stay like
under wraps, under their control Q,
the most awkward dinner imaginable.
My brothers kept making weird jokes
about how women only get married
because they're gold diggers and
kept pushing political arguments.
No one wanted.
Why do they hate her so much?
So this was their problem with
him making more money because it's
gonna look like she's a gold digger.
I don't know.
This is wild.
The next day was my cousin's wedding.
The whole family was acting
strangely, but my boyfriend
and I tried to enjoy ourselves.
At the reception.
I casually mentioned to my dad that I like
the napkin color and would want something
similar to that for my own wedding.
He gave me a disturbed look and
walked away without saying a
word, dude, what is their problem?
The day after that, my boyfriend went
back to my parents' house for the
conversation they had decided to have.
The moment he walked in,
it felt like a war room.
They told him to sit down, then turned to
me and told me to go wait in the attic.
I wish I was kidding.
Go wait.
In the attic, where do you live?
is that your room or do
we need to call someone?
Hopefully you don't still live there.
This is like giving housemaid.
Why are you in an attic and why
do they want you to go there?
This is scary.
My boyfriend tried to insist that
the conversation involved both of us,
but my father demanded that I leave.
I wouldn't wanna stay with the dad.
I'd be like, no.
She's gonna stay with me, otherwise
we're both gonna leave for 40 minutes.
They grilled him about his
intentions and demanded.
One that he agreed to financially
support me getting a master's
degree, which I never wanted.
Okay, wait.
So first she's a gold digger, but
for marrying someone that's making
more money and now they're telling
him he has to financially support
her in getting a master's degree, but
she never even said she wanted that.
Number two is that he put my name
on the house title before marriage,
even though the house was still under
construction and no title even existed.
this is insane to me.
Completely insane.
I don't even know, like,
what do you do at that point?
Like eventually I was allowed back
in the room, my boyfriend again
explained that a title didn't exist
yet, but they refused to accept it.
Then they turned to me yelling about how I
thought I was going to pay for a wedding.
They announced they didn't
believe in weddings.
They don't believe in weddings.
Aren't they married?
And it's not for them to decide.
they said they wouldn't pay a cent
because weddings were a waste of money.
Okay?
Just 'cause their marriage sucks,
doesn't mean they can put it on
you, despite having had their
own 50 K wedding in the nineties.
So they have $50,000 wedding
in the nineties, which today.
Let's look this up guys.
A $50,000 wedding in the nineties
is what in today's world,
guys.
$50,000 wedding in the nineties
is equivalent to a 100,000
to $150,000 wedding today.
And they're trying to say,
that is so freaking wild.
here's my theory.
They're either not doing
well financially and.
Maybe marriage wasn't what they thought it
would be because they're unhappy people.
And so they're thinking if
their wedding was $50,000,
they see how money has changed.
they're thinking they're gonna have
to lend all this money to them, and
they're realizing they're not happy in
their own marriage and it was a scam.
They're trying to be like, okay, well,
she needs to get something out of this, so
he needs to pay for her master's degree.
I don't know.
That's the only thing I can think of.
I told them I didn't need their money.
They kept pushing.
So my boyfriend finally said he
had savings for a small wedding.
My father scuffed looked him up and down
and said, well, I guess we have a saver.
They are jealous.
They are so jealous of this boyfriend
because he is doing well financially.
He has his shit together and he's happy.
He's happy with their daughter
and they're not happy.
maybe they didn't save money.
They spent all their money on their
wedding, and so now they're living with
the repercussions of their actions.
Oh my gosh, these people.
Then my mother launched into how
I couldn't get married the next
year because I was also graduating
and the family wouldn't attend
two parties for me in one year.
That's when I told them, we already set
the date Oh, to be a fly on that wall.
They went ballistic.
I'm laughing because I'm so
uncomfortable and I'm not even there.
Like, oh my gosh, this is terrible.
They went ballistic,
screaming verbally abusing me.
Oh my gosh, and completely losing control.
I finally snapped, yelled
back, and stormed out.
My father followed not to
talk to me, but to apologize.
To my boyfriend for my
behavior saying I'm sorry.
She's crazy.
So now the dad's like,
Hey buddy, we're friends.
All these women, they're so crazy.
Get out of here.
We walked down the block to the
car and just stared each other.
Finally, my boyfriend said,
holy shit, you are right.
He is like, yeah, you know what?
I think I'm gonna take some
time to think about this.
Oh my gosh.
That same day he offered
to let me move in with him.
He said he'd always suspected that
my parents treated me badly, but he
had no idea it was this dangerous.
and don't tell, I mean, I know this is
happening, this was in the past, but
don't tell your parents his address
because they sound incredibly toxic.
Incredibly dangerous, abusive, like.
Holy cow.
this is not good.
We never got their blessing.
We never got an apology.
Two days later, after yet another
argument, I packed my things
and moved in with my in-laws
at my husband's insistence.
I wish I could say I went, no
contact with them, but the saga
continued throughout our engagement.
Wedding and even the birth
of our son and daughter.
Girl, you've got so many stories to share.
I have a lot of questions.
Maybe I'll reach out.
the fact that they were still invited
to the wedding, they didn't wanna
offer anything, not saying parents
have to or need to, of course not.
Absolutely not.
But.
It's not like they were holding
a string over your head.
They were literally screaming at you.
They never once supported you.
They made fun of your
boyfriend, then boyfriend.
So to have them be a part of the
engagement, your wedding, and now
the birth of your son and daughter,
I can see now why you relate to
Ferris and Sloan story so much.
Oh, their first postpartum visit to
our home is another insane story.
One that ended with my husband banning
them from our house entirely, but I
think I've written enough for now.
Oh, this poor girl.
Oh my gosh.
She really relates to Ferris and Sloan.
It was, wasn't until my grandpa.
My only remaining tethered to
them passed away in March, 2024
that I finally went no contact.
I am so proud of you.
Like it's so complicated.
Relationships are so complicated,
and I'm not someone that's
like, oh, go no contact, because
every relationship is nuanced.
You never know, but based
on what I know here.
This was long overdue and I'm so proud of
you and I'm sure it was very complicated
and very hard to get to this point.
They still slander me daily on Facebook.
These are emotionally, mentally, whatever
else, spiritually immature parents.
The fact they treat you like this
and post about you on Facebook,
like, ugh, tell 'em to grow up.
Anyway, I hope you enjoyed my story.
I feel like it has the right amount of
chaos to be one in one of your videos.
And for the record, we did have a
beautiful ceremony and reception.
It was one of the best days of my life.
Second only to the birth of my children.
And yes, my mother wore a black dress.
No one really noticed.
Okay, well I'm glad the mom.
Elise, I'm assuming, behaved yourself
at the wedding and hopefully the dad,
they still had their wedding that they
wanted, and it still was a beautiful day.
So I'm glad for that.
I'm glad that some people were
able to close their mouths on this
special day and let them enjoy it.
But that is a wild story.
If you ever feel like writing in
more and sharing the rest, please do.
a lot of people say like.
Writing these stories out of things that
happened to them or things that they've
seen it's kind of therapy in itself.
it allows you to really go
through your emotions again and
really understand what happened.
And then hearing other people's
stories allow you to see that you're
not alone and you're not crazy.
because I think sometimes like
our mind plays tricks on us and
it's like, oh, it wasn't as bad.
it didn't happen like that,
but it was your experience.
So I think writing it out can be
really helpful, and understanding
yourself, understanding what happened.
and hopefully in sharing this,
other people can relate to you
and maybe give some advice.
Or if other people are in the
early stages, maybe you are in an
engagement right now where their
parents or your parents or some
other relative is acting like this.
so maybe we can share some advice as well.
Oh my gosh, this poor couple.
I'm really happy for you guys
being able to go no contact.
I think a lot of times children can
bring that out in people because you're
like, I don't wanna subject my child
to this, and the cycle ends with me.
Proud of you guys for that.
Alright, let's end this episode
with some confessions and then
we'll get on with our days.
This is your biggest wedding regret.
We always like to mix these
up on Instagram, so that was
the question of the week.
Here we go.
My father-in-law tried to influence
what I was wearing on my wedding day,
but I refused, so he made me cry.
What's with these father-in-laws trying
to influence what the bride wears?
I read another story like that
about him picking out Amazon dresses
because they were affordable,
like he wasn't even paying for it.
I don't understand that this regret.
It says not getting a
professional photographer and
not enough pics with my parents.
I think that's one of the
number one regrets I see.
Photographer is so worth it
getting a good photographer or
videographer because I will tell
you, I still see my wedding photos.
We have them hanging, I have 'em
in a photo book and it's, it was so
worth it to me not trying to do a
small ceremony on a beautiful, small
chapel that I've always wanted.
Okay.
That makes me sad.
I think a lot of times we get
influenced by other people around us,
or we see movies or we see what our
best friend did and we're like, ah,
I need to have a wedding like that.
I need to have a big wedding.
I need to do this.
And it pulls us away from
what is actually true to us.
I wish I had switched out some friends
in my wedding party for my cousins.
That's hard.
That's hard when you regret having or
not having someone in your wedding.
All right, last one.
I let my friend do my hair and makeup,
but she is no longer in my life.
She turned out to be narcissistic.
Well, that's a whole can of worms.
I'm sorry.
I'm sorry that happened.
is the regret because she was not good
at hair and makeup or the regret is
because you're not friends anymore?
Because if she did it
well, who really cares?
Because you could just be
like, oh, it was a hairdresser.
If it was that she's not your friend.
You only did it because she was
your friend at the time and it was
a bad hairstyle and makeup then.
Yeah, that's a regret I would have.
Fun fact, I did my sister's hair
and makeup on her wedding day, and
I'm four years younger than her.
I've always loved doing hair and makeup.
I'm no.
In no way, shape, or form a professional.
You, you guys can see
I'm learning every day.
but makeup was not something
that, like my sister completely
enjoyed I think at the time.
and I remember doing it for her prom
too, and her, another dance too.
so that was like fun.
But I don't think I've
done it for anybody else.
Yeah, I don't know.
Anyway, that was a wild
episode, wild story.
Again, thanks for being here, you guys.
This is my one year.
Birthday of the podcast
of Here Comes the Drama.
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All right guys.
Thanks for hanging out with me.
It's been an amazing year and
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All right, guys, have a good one.