<v Speaker 1>Jerry Katy and Josh one hundred. We've been so happy

<v Speaker 1>for Josh lately because after years and years of searching,

<v Speaker 1>he finally found some true love, it sounds like, and

<v Speaker 1>he's been seeing this Jinny girl for quite a while

<v Speaker 1>and now you guys are considering a big step.

<v Speaker 2>Yes, So it was brought up the other day.

<v Speaker 3>We were at dinner hanging out together, and we've been

<v Speaker 3>seeing each other for almost four months now, so that's,

<v Speaker 3>you know, it's getting pretty serious, I guess you could say.

<v Speaker 3>And she was talking to me and she was like, hey, like,

<v Speaker 3>you know, we're both you know, been together for a while.

<v Speaker 3>Do you think that we might be And then she

<v Speaker 3>said the m word moving in together, like would it

<v Speaker 3>be a good idea to consider that? It's not a

<v Speaker 3>for sure thing, But I was like immediately no. I

<v Speaker 3>was like no, like we haven't been together long enough

<v Speaker 3>and everything. But then she kind of kept explaining to

<v Speaker 3>me and she was like, well, I think you know,

<v Speaker 3>like we're both in our thirties, we're both kind of

<v Speaker 3>in love and Twitter paid and it's new and everything,

<v Speaker 3>and she's like, I think this would actually be a

<v Speaker 3>really good step for us, and a mature step to

<v Speaker 3>really see and test the waters of how we be

<v Speaker 3>together and everything living together in a living situation. And

<v Speaker 3>I was like, I'm actually not upset with that idea,

<v Speaker 3>and it actually changed my mind. I have never moved

<v Speaker 3>in with anybody in a relationship in my life. I

<v Speaker 3>have never lived I've never made that step. I've never

<v Speaker 3>moved in before and made that massive step of actually

<v Speaker 3>living with your significant other. So I was like, this,

<v Speaker 3>that doesn't sound too bad. I'm kind of into it.

<v Speaker 3>And so I brought it up to you guys, and

<v Speaker 3>I'm like, is this a good idea. I've never done

<v Speaker 3>this before. You both have been in those shoes and

<v Speaker 3>you've made that leap, and I'm kind of for it now.

<v Speaker 3>Now we've only been together, not even four months yet,

<v Speaker 3>but now I'm kind of starting to see the light

<v Speaker 3>of this whole thing. We've had a few more conversations

<v Speaker 3>about it too.

<v Speaker 1>Kind of into it, okay, kind of liking it.

<v Speaker 2>Is this too? I don't know, I don't know. I'm

<v Speaker 2>I'm for it.

<v Speaker 3>Do you guys think that this is something that I

<v Speaker 3>should do or consider?

<v Speaker 4>Well, It's funny because like with the whole in your

<v Speaker 4>thirty thing, that's the part that I am much more.

<v Speaker 4>And that's the thing. Like, I don't know if now

<v Speaker 4>you just move faster because you do want to have

<v Speaker 4>the family and the house and the picket.

<v Speaker 5>Fence an accelerated past.

<v Speaker 4>Yeah, so it's different, I think because when I moved

<v Speaker 4>in with guys, I was just dominant in my twenties. No,

<v Speaker 4>shut up, It wasn't like that. But I definitely did

<v Speaker 4>it a couple of times, and each time I remember,

<v Speaker 4>I don't know if it was the move. I just

<v Speaker 4>think I was young and I thought I was in love,

<v Speaker 4>and I thought that was a smart thing to do.

<v Speaker 2>Well, this is the thing.

<v Speaker 3>It's like, I've already got the house, so it wouldn't

<v Speaker 3>be that big of a deal. In my mind, I'm thinking, Okay,

<v Speaker 3>this is fine. We're not out, you know, looking yeah.

<v Speaker 1>It's gonna be my question, like if you're gonna move

<v Speaker 1>into her place or your place?

<v Speaker 2>No, it would definitely be my place.

<v Speaker 4>She would move into your yes, Yeah, yeah, I don't.

<v Speaker 5>Know how I feel about this.

<v Speaker 3>I got more excited, Like the more we talked about it,

<v Speaker 3>the more I that's good.

<v Speaker 5>That's a good sign it.

<v Speaker 4>But it is a big step.

<v Speaker 5>I mean, that's that's a big step.

<v Speaker 3>It's like now, so it'll be four months in about

<v Speaker 3>two weeks, so that's of seeing each other all time.

<v Speaker 4>In the four months. There have been moments where you

<v Speaker 4>have been like, oh, I can't wait to get back

<v Speaker 4>to my house by myself and not see anybody, and

<v Speaker 4>you like.

<v Speaker 5>Well, you could be buried yourself, Katie.

<v Speaker 1>I have had multiple times a week because that happen

<v Speaker 1>a lot.

<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I mean I would base it on that.

<v Speaker 2>That's not a good question, Katie.

<v Speaker 4>Okay, but this is this is big.

<v Speaker 5>I mean, this is the next big step.

<v Speaker 2>It's a scary thought for me because again I've never

<v Speaker 2>done it.

<v Speaker 3>So I'm like, I you get excited, and I'm when

<v Speaker 3>I'm with her, so this is the thing. When I'm

<v Speaker 3>with her, I'm like, yes, this actually sounds really cool.

<v Speaker 2>I like this.

<v Speaker 3>But then you know, she has a job where she

<v Speaker 3>travels a lot, and when we're alone, I like it.

<v Speaker 3>It's not to say that I don't like her, it's

<v Speaker 3>I like alone time. I'm used to that. I've been

<v Speaker 3>alone my whole life. You know, I can go home

<v Speaker 3>and find my solitude. So I'm like fifty fifty ish

<v Speaker 3>on this. We're like when I'm home alone, I'm like,

<v Speaker 3>you know, it's not too bad. I kind of like it,

<v Speaker 3>but I love being with her and I really really

<v Speaker 3>really like her.

<v Speaker 1>So oh, I don't know how much I can say.

<v Speaker 2>Why I need your input.

<v Speaker 1>Well, I know, but I I want to be nice.

<v Speaker 1>But we know your track record. Oh boy, So that's

<v Speaker 1>why I don't want to really bring it up.

<v Speaker 5>So I don't know.

<v Speaker 1>That's why I'm hesitant to say that you should do

<v Speaker 1>this because I know your track record.

<v Speaker 5>I've known you for a long time, and I hearts

<v Speaker 5>will be broken.

<v Speaker 4>Well, it's a good point as far as just you

<v Speaker 4>can't like undo it.

<v Speaker 2>I mean you can, but that's a lot more. It's

<v Speaker 2>a lot more.

<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I mean it's my she's got a loft downtown,

<v Speaker 3>she's got a great place.

<v Speaker 5>You want to live downtown in a lot. Absolutely.

<v Speaker 2>I will not live downtown just for a little bit.

<v Speaker 5>No, oh, I totally would, especially.

<v Speaker 1>If you're young and have you got nothing tying you down,

<v Speaker 1>no kids, go enjoy that lifestyle downtown.

<v Speaker 4>But you own your home, right, So that's the difference. Also,

<v Speaker 4>like you would have to sell your house.

<v Speaker 2>I don't want to do that in order to go

<v Speaker 2>live down, hold onto it, run it out.

<v Speaker 5>What do you want?

<v Speaker 3>You want to towards doing it at least really like

<v Speaker 3>giving it a go.

<v Speaker 2>Do you think you should wait for a year?

<v Speaker 4>Do you think that's a good idea be together for

<v Speaker 4>a year before you decide if you want to merge

<v Speaker 4>your lives.

<v Speaker 2>I think that would be my advice.

<v Speaker 5>One year.

<v Speaker 4>One year. I think that's a good mark because that

<v Speaker 4>shows that you're both committed.

<v Speaker 2>I mean, Jerry track record, not a lot of them.

<v Speaker 2>Make it a year and you have all the.

<v Speaker 4>Holidays under your belt. Like you've went through all the holidays.

<v Speaker 2>That's a big right.

<v Speaker 3>It's her birthday, by the way, shout for Jenny. It's

<v Speaker 3>her birthday today.

<v Speaker 5>It's your birthday. Happy birthday.

<v Speaker 6>Yeah.

<v Speaker 5>People say that you should go through the seasons twice.

<v Speaker 2>Is that I've always.

<v Speaker 1>Heard you go through all four seasons twice before you really.

<v Speaker 5>Start making those big moves.

<v Speaker 3>But that's so that's another thing though, Like I'll be

<v Speaker 3>thirty three now by that time.

<v Speaker 2>Oh lord, okay, But if you want to.

<v Speaker 4>Have kids and family and stuff like that.

<v Speaker 2>There is a time. There's a bit of a time class.

<v Speaker 5>I mean, Josh.

<v Speaker 4>Celerated a little bit like maybe thanks to be on

<v Speaker 4>a faster time frame.

<v Speaker 5>I think you should go for it. I kind of

<v Speaker 5>want to do right now.

<v Speaker 2>Do you don't want me to ruin my life or something?

<v Speaker 5>Don't just why not be spontaneous? Just do it?

<v Speaker 2>Well?

<v Speaker 5>Are you want calls on this, Josh?

<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I would love to because I'm I'm concerned, like

<v Speaker 3>I don't know what to do. I've never done this before,

<v Speaker 3>So if anybody has input, I would love to hear

<v Speaker 3>from you.

<v Speaker 5>Here here's Mollie. Hi'm Molli, Hi, good morning. So what

<v Speaker 5>do you think should you move in?

<v Speaker 1>No?

<v Speaker 7>No, don't, don't do it.

<v Speaker 5>But they're in love?

<v Speaker 4>Mollie, Well are you in love?

<v Speaker 7>I heard you say I really like her?

<v Speaker 3>Okay, yeah, I mean I'm not. I just don't think

<v Speaker 3>I was going to say the L word on air.

<v Speaker 3>Have I told her that I love her?

<v Speaker 2>Yes, I've said it to her in person, and Molly,

<v Speaker 2>they're in love?

<v Speaker 4>Okay?

<v Speaker 5>Now, what right?

<v Speaker 7>I mean four months? If you wait, you can still.

<v Speaker 8>Do it later. You can look.

<v Speaker 7>Forward to doing it later. You could have that excitement,

<v Speaker 7>see that excitement dies down if it stays. Really yearn

<v Speaker 7>for it. But oh man, yeah, jumping in it's that's

<v Speaker 7>a lot.

<v Speaker 5>You gotta yearn for it, yearn on.

<v Speaker 4>You can't jump back, right, you said you can jump in.

<v Speaker 7>You can't separation, pulling your lives apart when you've intertwined them.

<v Speaker 5>You know, it's like a soap opera, Molly.

<v Speaker 1>But there's something to say about being spontaneous as well too,

<v Speaker 1>which is kind of fun and butterfly inducing.

<v Speaker 9>You know.

<v Speaker 7>Yeah, there's there's a lot you can do that's spontaneous

<v Speaker 7>in sun and a little bit risky.

<v Speaker 5>Oh, I've heard about it, Mollie. We've heard about it

<v Speaker 5>off the air. All right, So you're in camp. No,

<v Speaker 5>don't move in, don't do it.

<v Speaker 8>Don't wait.

<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna put you. Actually, i'm gonna put you in camp.

<v Speaker 1>Instead of calling it camp. No, I'm gonna call it camp.

<v Speaker 1>Yearn all right. I like that, Molly, have an awesome weekend.

<v Speaker 1>Thank you for calling YouTube. Luck.

<v Speaker 5>Here's Courtney High Court Court.

<v Speaker 8>Hey, how are you well?

<v Speaker 1>We're super dupes? So should Josh move in with his

<v Speaker 1>lady friend?

<v Speaker 8>No, you gotta give it a year. I'm with camp, Katie.

<v Speaker 10>Give it a year.

<v Speaker 8>Let that crazy out a little bit at a time.

<v Speaker 8>You both got your crazy see if you can deal

<v Speaker 8>with it, or you could try it for a week,

<v Speaker 8>live together for a week.

<v Speaker 5>Oh that's a nice little test run, you.

<v Speaker 8>Know, you know, just like ease in a little bit.

<v Speaker 8>But everybody's got you know, you don't know how she

<v Speaker 8>hangs her toilet paper, you don't know how you know

<v Speaker 8>she empties the dishwasher. You gotta like test this stuff

<v Speaker 8>out before you because you could ruin it.

<v Speaker 1>You could ruin have her move everything in for just

<v Speaker 1>a week, Josh, and then have her moved back.

<v Speaker 2>That's how you could.

<v Speaker 4>Make that, Corney, you make a good point though, again

<v Speaker 4>the crazies.

<v Speaker 8>You don't let them see the crazy got it?

<v Speaker 4>Yeah, six months at least?

<v Speaker 8>You wait, right, I would give it a full four

<v Speaker 8>seasons court, unless it's like a financial strain, right, then

<v Speaker 8>there's different decisions.

<v Speaker 9>Right.

<v Speaker 2>No, she's loaded, she's loaded.

<v Speaker 1>Yeah, all right, Courtney, I have you in camp Yurn.

<v Speaker 1>Thank you for casting your vote today. Here's Stephanie. Hi,

<v Speaker 1>Stephanie Hi, how's it going?

<v Speaker 5>Well, we're great. How are you today?

<v Speaker 1>Oh?

<v Speaker 9>Tip toppy, tip top, that's.

<v Speaker 5>A new one. That's a new one.

<v Speaker 2>That's good.

<v Speaker 5>All right?

<v Speaker 1>So should uh Josh move in with his h I

<v Speaker 1>mean instagirl friend.

<v Speaker 9>Yes, I mean I definitely think so, Adrian.

<v Speaker 5>What is going on in your car?

<v Speaker 9>I am driving my kids to school and he's screaming

<v Speaker 9>at his iPads to ignore him. But yeah, so I'm

<v Speaker 9>definitely camp. Yes, I mean I moved in with my

<v Speaker 9>kids dad after two months, and definitely it's just one

<v Speaker 9>of those things you know when you know. But even

<v Speaker 9>a better example is like my sister she waited three

<v Speaker 9>years before she moved in with a guy, lived with

<v Speaker 9>them for maybe two months, and realize that that was

<v Speaker 9>just not that was just not saying just because they're

<v Speaker 9>living situate, living habits, everything just did not mess at all.

<v Speaker 5>Yeah, that's the thing.

<v Speaker 1>If you wait, it could still backfire, even if you're

<v Speaker 1>waiting one, two, three years. I mean, why not just

<v Speaker 1>pull that band aid off quick and.

<v Speaker 5>Get her done?

<v Speaker 9>Yeah?

<v Speaker 5>Okay, well I got you in camp. Yes, I don't

<v Speaker 5>have you in camp Urine, but.

<v Speaker 8>Camp, yes, yes, definitely, yes, all right, in a perfect spot.

<v Speaker 9>He owns his house, so he's not gonna have to relocate,

<v Speaker 9>he's not gonna have to like not getting apartment together.

<v Speaker 9>It's not like they're having to split assets or anything.

<v Speaker 1>To the curb right, simpler, you have a good weekend

<v Speaker 1>and tell that little ruggrat. We said, hi to all right,

<v Speaker 1>I will do one. How does she hang her toilet paper?

<v Speaker 3>She does it the correct way and it goes over.

<v Speaker 3>You do not do the under the toilet paper.

<v Speaker 2>No to No, yep, Hi, Holly, Hey guys, good morning.

<v Speaker 5>Good morning to you. What camp? Are you in Camp

<v Speaker 5>Urine or camp?

<v Speaker 9>Yes?

<v Speaker 10>I am in camp.

<v Speaker 8>Yes, go for it.

<v Speaker 10>I so with my husband and I wait moving together, uh,

<v Speaker 10>just after six weeks, and it was just one of

<v Speaker 10>those things where it was just kind of like we knew.

<v Speaker 8>And we're just gonna go for it.

<v Speaker 10>It was also like I was renting at the time

<v Speaker 10>and he was living with his mom. So in the

<v Speaker 10>event I was like no, you know, he would just

<v Speaker 10>you know, go back to his mom's house and kind

<v Speaker 10>of like whatever. So, I mean, even though there is

<v Speaker 10>a little bit of risk because you are like combining lives,

<v Speaker 10>you know, at the end of the day if it

<v Speaker 10>doesn't work out, I would rather know kind of more immediately,

<v Speaker 10>especially because we're old.

<v Speaker 2>And in our three times jocks. Now I get it.

<v Speaker 10>Yeah, then you know, wait for months and months and

<v Speaker 10>months or years or seasons or whatever, and then it's

<v Speaker 10>not gonna work out anyway.

<v Speaker 5>All right, so you are in camp? Yes, do it?

<v Speaker 5>Get it done?

<v Speaker 2>Moving to do it.

<v Speaker 10>I also to let you guys know, I did get

<v Speaker 10>a super Dupe's T.

<v Speaker 1>Shirt, So I thank you, send me a picture and

<v Speaker 1>I'll post you on our socials.

<v Speaker 9>Oh okay, thank you guys.

<v Speaker 5>You're the best. You have a great weekends.

<v Speaker 1>All right, Sea, Hi Becky, Hi morning, Well good morning

<v Speaker 1>to you. You can be the final call on this.

<v Speaker 1>You're the final say because actually it's two to two

<v Speaker 1>right now, two for yurn, two for yes. So should

<v Speaker 1>this is all gonna come down to you?

<v Speaker 5>Should he move in?

<v Speaker 8>Should I say camp?

<v Speaker 9>Yearn Yeah?

<v Speaker 10>He said you mentioned that we're really in love and

<v Speaker 10>Twitter painted.

<v Speaker 6>Right now, Like it sounds like the honeymoon phase. But

<v Speaker 6>like what happens when you get out of that phase.

<v Speaker 6>You know, everyone gets in that phase and even makes

<v Speaker 6>them like wild decisions.

<v Speaker 5>Well, that's called marriage. That's marriage.

<v Speaker 2>Look to get out of it.

<v Speaker 5>That's marriage. Is when you get out of that.

<v Speaker 10>Yeah.

<v Speaker 6>I just feel like they should go through a little

<v Speaker 6>bit more ups and downs first and like really make

<v Speaker 6>deeper connections than just whatever they've already.

<v Speaker 9>Made for short.

<v Speaker 5>It's lust right now, probably you know, yeah, it is.

<v Speaker 5>It's the whole lust of the love conversation.

<v Speaker 1>Yeah all right, Becky, Well I got you in camp yearned,

<v Speaker 1>so you were the final decision.

<v Speaker 5>So I guess she's moving in this weekend.

<v Speaker 1>Okay, all came down to bey on the birthday. You

<v Speaker 1>have a good weekend.

<v Speaker 5>Thank you for calling. That's it that she was it, Josh.

<v Speaker 5>She was the tiebreaker. So looks like you guys are schecking.

<v Speaker 2>Up totally not you're running for each other. It's fine.

<v Speaker 5>I started out that you should wait, but I want

<v Speaker 5>you to move in.

<v Speaker 4>I like the take about how if you wait too

<v Speaker 4>long then you could ruin your chance, like you just

<v Speaker 4>get used to being separate, you know, so like too

<v Speaker 4>much of that.

<v Speaker 2>I think have multiple bedrooms. I could put it in

<v Speaker 2>the guest.

<v Speaker 4>Room, sleep and separate beds.

<v Speaker 5>You should propose tonight too, for a birthday. Yeah, we're

<v Speaker 5>gonna do it.

<v Speaker 2>Let's go big. We should.

<v Speaker 4>Tonight proposed escalated quickly, didn't it right there?

<v Speaker 1>You guys should go look at wedding dresses and tuxedos tonight,

<v Speaker 1>go ring shopping.

<v Speaker 5>Look at that sense to what just happened, and get

<v Speaker 5>a puppy. Get a puppy while you're at it.

<v Speaker 1>Busy weekend, alright, you report back after your weekend after

<v Speaker 1>you have a conversation with her about moving in.

<v Speaker 2>Or okay, all right, we'll do it over her birthday weekend.

<v Speaker 2>There you go.

<v Speaker 5>Thanks for bringing your life to the air, buddy.

<v Speaker 3>Thank you for your help, everybody. I really appreciate it

<v Speaker 3>because I was sweating that one out