00:08.06
Nandi K
Welcome to Right Quick.

00:10.07
Vance 😈
A bite-sized pop culture conversation with your favorite queer, unfriendly Black hotties?

00:15.10
Nandi K
Today we are unfriendly because millennials are the most unserious parents. I'm Nandi K.

00:23.45
Vance 😈
And I am Vance Gowe. um Unserious. Yeah. I mean, I feel like we're millennials and we're unserious.

00:31.62
Nandi K
It's true.

00:32.34
Vance 😈
And if we had children, we would be unserious as well.

00:35.61
Nandi K
Yeah, I like being unsure serious with the children in my life, even though I don't have any.

00:35.90
Vance 😈
So I think...

00:40.77
Vance 😈
I think they appreciate that, to be frank. like I think kids, like when they sense sarcasm and it's not mean, they think it's funny. like that i I think that they appreciate that you're talking to them like you talk to everyone else, and like they they like that, yeah.

00:48.82
Nandi K
They do.

00:53.27
Nandi K
I do, yeah. That's my main thing about, like, dealing with kids. I just talk to them like adults, but I try to... Obviously, you can't cuss and stuff.

01:01.43
Vance 😈
Yeah.

01:02.49
Nandi K
That's tough.

01:03.83
Vance 😈
Well, I mean, you know, it depends on the family.

01:04.28
Nandi K
Um...

01:06.74
Nandi K
No, i don't think you should cuss around kids. And see, this is why I don't have kids, right? Because like, I think even though there's a lot of problems with how I was raised, there was some things them niggas got right.

01:23.22
Nandi K
And I'm like, not cussing. You shouldn't let your kids cuss. Even though also my brother did used to cuss when he was like a toddler because he was like, I heard it on TV.

01:29.14
Vance 😈
i

01:33.83
Nandi K
And you know, toddlers be repeating everything.

01:36.60
Vance 😈
Yeah, the bad stuff too. My first word was shit, so.

01:40.60
Nandi K
Your first word was shit?

01:42.07
Vance 😈
Yeah, and my my mom tells that story all the time.

01:43.58
Nandi K
Wow.

01:45.39
Vance 😈
and like I don't think my mom, my mom do cuss, but I don't think she cuss that much. But I think that's just kid stuff.

01:49.34
Nandi K
Wow. Wow.

01:50.63
Vance 😈
like They hear a cuss word and they're just like, that's the word. like You say a bunch of words, but

01:55.83
Nandi K
And when did you first speak, if you don't mind me asking? Do you remember?

01:59.09
Vance 😈
I might have been like two. I don't know.

02:01.46
Nandi K
Okay, yeah. So you was like, I'm not talking to you, niggas for a while.

02:01.98
Vance 😈
I was like a baby.

02:04.53
Nandi K
Yeah.

02:04.70
Vance 😈
Yeah, I was like a little baby.

02:05.27
Nandi K
Yeah. See, I was talking. Before I could even talk, I was talking. I was running my mouth before I could even form words. I was also singing before I could form words.

02:19.22
Nandi K
um But I was not cussing. That was my baby brother, Gabriel, that was the doing in the cussing.

02:23.96
Vance 😈
he heard it on TV.

02:25.58
Nandi K
That's what he said. he heard it on TV when somebody said like, because me and my other brother was telling on him, we was like, Gabriel is cussing all the time. Like, this is getting out of control.

02:34.90
Vance 😈
The baby is cut. That baby has a potty mouth, mom.

02:38.04
Nandi K
we were like this is and then i don't know why like maybe our parents thought we were like lying on him that why we would make this up is wild but apparently like one day something had happened maybe gabriel had like dropped the toy and he was like god damn it and my parents heard him and my mom was like where did you learn that from and he was like tv

02:47.38
Vance 😈
Right.

03:00.02
Vance 😈
I'm dead.

03:04.83
Vance 😈
Uh, that is the plot of Chucky. Like y'all literally be like, it' he's saying bad words.

03:08.52
Nandi K
Gabriel kind of was like that, though. because he was But Gabriel was super cute, though, unlike Chucky. Chucky was a very ugly doll. and Gabriel, very cute. Probably did more.

03:18.98
Nandi K
I do feel like Gabriel was bad, but like he was cute. like He got away with a lot of stuff.

03:24.69
Vance 😈
That's that. privilege Yeah, that's that early privilege.

03:25.98
Nandi K
Yeah. Yeah. Well, we're changing things up because now our people, our People our age, our generation, millennials are parents, which is wild.

03:36.80
Vance 😈
Are the parents.

03:40.73
Vance 😈
Yeah. I mean, not not only parents. Like, these niggas got 18-year-olds.

03:45.85
Nandi K
Oh, yeah. I have friends who have 20-year-olds.

03:47.70
Vance 😈
15. Yeah.

03:48.89
Nandi K
Yeah. Yeah.

03:49.91
Vance 😈
One of my good friends, her baby just turned 18. I got some friends that I went to high school with. Their kids are the same age we were when we were in school. And that feels fake.

03:58.36
Nandi K
Yeah.

03:58.43
Vance 😈
Like, one of my friends from high school, her son's in jail. Like, he old enough for that. And I'm just like, what is going

04:03.19
Nandi K
Yeah, I have a play cousin that I grew up with, and her son is probably 20 now. 21, maybe even. Yeah, because she had him when I was like 14 or 15.

04:14.00
Vance 😈
That's brazy

04:14.84
Nandi K
Yeah, listen. But, you know, we're parents, and in some ways, we're breaking generational curses, and and in it other ways, we are creating new ones, unfortunately.

04:21.33
Vance 😈
A lot of ways, yeah New curses

04:27.10
Nandi K
We hate to see it, but... Uh, I want to talk, we're talking about millennial punishments today.

04:35.42
Vance 😈
Which, very specific.

04:37.62
Nandi K
Yeah. I mean, we're talking about what we know, right? They say, speak on what you know, huh?

04:40.54
Vance 😈
Right. So, um I feel like this was your topic. What was, ah was it your topic? It was.

04:47.61
Nandi K
Oh, I think, yeah, I think i recommend I recommended it. I suggested it because a while ago ago ago on the internet, it was going viral where people were making their kids do Dru Hills as a punishment.

05:02.04
Nandi K
And if y'all don't know what the Dru Hills were, because the fact that they got just turned into Dru Hills also, I think, happened via this kind of millennial punishment phenomenon.

05:08.12
Vance 😈
Yeah.

05:12.68
Nandi K
But basically, the jump choreography from Dru Hill's 1996 hit, Tell Me. That's the what they're making kids do. So that, tell me what you want.

05:25.18
Vance 😈
What you want?

05:25.85
Nandi K
that skip jump you know that they do for that whole time and I'm gonna be real you know when that song comes on at the function and everybody starts doing it right by the time it gets to the end of the chorus I'm tired so doing this is a punishment like you got because it seems like they're making their kids do it for the whole song

05:25.96
Vance 😈
Yeah.

05:35.51
Vance 😈
yeah

05:40.34
Vance 😈
Yeah, because...

05:48.28
Vance 😈
Which is crazy. It's like a nigga burpee. You know? like

05:53.50
Aaron Rand Freeman
Thank you.

05:55.45
Vance 😈
The only thing they missing is like getting on the ground, right? But it's like a nigga burpee. So it's just like, yo like...

06:01.97
Nandi K
Oh, God.

06:04.12
Vance 😈
i Also, the the verbification... The verb the verbification...

06:08.86
Nandi K
Yep.

06:09.54
Vance 😈
make that up. The verbification of words is so Black and like specifically the Dru Hill dance.

06:10.46
Nandi K
Yep.

06:13.08
Nandi K
It is.

06:15.31
Vance 😈
Like it's just like Black 5 Black, you know, the president of Black 5, like they had a meeting was like, this is what we're, which is crazy.

06:17.27
Nandi K
Dru Hills. Yeah, for sure.

06:24.42
Vance 😈
It's, it speaks to our brilliance and creativity, but also like, it's also wild.

06:27.16
Nandi K
Truly. Yeah, and also, like, I mean, this is in some ways. Now, I don't know how serious these parents are. I don't know what's happening when the camera is down. I've never seen a child complete...

06:44.09
Nandi K
all the Dru Hills through the song. I've actually seen children who were unable to do a single Dru Hill. And I think that's a failure of millennial parenting.

06:51.93
Vance 😈
Is it the coordination?

06:54.98
Nandi K
We're not making sure our babies are coordinated.

06:59.06
Vance 😈
Yeah, i, i i think

06:59.99
Nandi K
Not all of us. Some of us are doing the work.

07:02.58
Vance 😈
I think some kids have that rhythm, right? Like they they might have been the dance or something because like we just had a party, same party, the 18-year-old party.

07:11.35
Nandi K
here Oh yes, yes, yes.

07:12.31
Vance 😈
It was a 2000 shindig.

07:13.62
Nandi K
Yes, I remember.

07:14.94
Vance 😈
We was teaching the babies like... Electric slide. Like, like, were, like, they don't, the recipes ain't being passed down.

07:20.02
Nandi K
Yeah. Wow. I mean, it's our job to pass down, i guess.

07:24.12
Vance 😈
i mean, that's what we were doing, but, like, it felt late.

07:25.69
Nandi K
The electric slide.

07:27.45
Vance 😈
It felt late.

07:28.12
Nandi K
Yeah.

07:28.13
Vance 😈
Because I'm like, y'all are 16, 17.

07:29.00
Nandi K
Dang, I gotta make sure my sister knows the electric slide. oh But she's a dancer.

07:32.25
Vance 😈
Yes.

07:34.16
Nandi K
i know my sister knows the electric slide.

07:35.64
Vance 😈
Yeah.

07:35.88
Nandi K
She danced until she was like 17. So actually, I'm not worried about her.

07:39.70
Vance 😈
But that's what I mean.

07:39.74
Nandi K
She knows the electric slide.

07:40.62
Vance 😈
Like, even the, like, she might, she might not know the dance, but if you teach her the coordination piece she got, because...

07:45.66
Nandi K
I actually have to ask her now because I actually don't trust that.

07:49.32
Vance 😈
Cupid Shuffle. Um, I know y'all in the South, so y'all got like them deep line dances.

07:55.10
Nandi K
I mean, yeah, we have all the same ones, but I can't be a cute. These days, the way the line dances are... that boots on the ground that to me i'm like yeah that's the only part i can do what infant pop pop pop that's all i can do i'm like i can't be learning all these steps like this is too much and you're not calling them out what happened to calling out the steps so i can follow along like in the cupid shuffle

08:05.62
Vance 😈
The, the fan, the fan one. Yeah. Uh,

08:13.11
Vance 😈
yeah

08:27.22
Vance 😈
Hey, you better. yeah That's why I like the Cupid Shuffle. It's easy. Like, electric slide, cha-cha slide. Like, you know, these things are...

08:34.10
Nandi K
And I do think that is a flaw of the Dru Hills, right? Because, again, there's no directions.

08:40.46
Vance 😈
Yeah.

08:40.70
Nandi K
So, like, the kid is relying on their parent to teach them it.

08:45.26
Vance 😈
Mm-hmm.

08:46.66
Nandi K
And what if they can't execute

08:49.21
Vance 😈
Right. And it is highly coordinated as well. And like... Low key, you might have to watch the video. Study.

08:57.61
Nandi K
I hope that this is what's happening. Again, I'm like, the story started before I got there. I'm seeing but a snippet. And I'm hoping that ahead of them picking up the camera, the child has been made to watch a video or some type of demonstration.

09:04.95
Vance 😈
Right.

09:16.30
Vance 😈
They have to. cause i like How do you even explain the dance like in a way to make sense?

09:20.34
Nandi K
This is what I'm saying.

09:21.62
Vance 😈
Yeah, they had to.

09:22.01
Nandi K
But I've seen some people. It's tough.

09:27.10
Vance 😈
But young kids are also very uncoordinated unless they have like a dance like background or something, training or practice.

09:33.30
Nandi K
I don't know, but don't you feel like when we were kids, we were all doing like cheers and dances? Like I was always doing a cheer or a dance when I was little. Like that, we stayed doing cheers and dances.

09:44.09
Vance 😈
But we also, like, I feel like millennials had, like, a remember, like, the ah You Got Served era where, like, um I don't know this happened for y'all, but in Fresno, there was a point where everybody was in a dance group.

09:50.33
Nandi K
We did have that.

09:57.38
Vance 😈
Like, there was, like, dance gangs.

09:58.62
Nandi K
Yes, I was in a dance group in the sixth grade.

09:59.26
Vance 😈
it ah Same.

10:01.14
Nandi K
Yes.

10:01.49
Vance 😈
I was in one at, like, 7 or 8, and, like, ah no, same.

10:03.35
Nandi K
And I wasn't even that good of a dancer, but I could do choreography. I was probably the worst, though, now looking back.

10:07.19
Vance 😈
Same. I probably was less than you. I was pretty bad. but they i But it's because I'm not lazy, but I think I don't put the energy in that, that you know that that you know, the stank.

10:20.32
Vance 😈
I don't got it. I'm kind of laid back.

10:21.59
Nandi K
Yeah, I don't really be committing. And a lot of these kids aren't committing because, you know, they just don't feel the way we feel when Dru Hill’s tell me. because on And that's why for them it's a punishment, which is tragic.

10:33.78
Nandi K
I love doing it for the duration of the chorus of the song. What are some other... ah I think a lot of these punishments really like center around like the internet and being like recorded.

10:46.55
Vance 😈
Yeah, that's what I think. I think like that's the negative part of it. Right. Because I'm like, I don't know if I in here like as a as an adult person, like I don't know if like saying like, oh, you did something bad.

10:51.80
Nandi K
Agreed.

10:59.93
Vance 😈
A punishment for this is going to be like jump in place for three minutes or whatever. I don't know if I personally hold that that's like the worst punishment, but it could be because I'm military.

11:10.04
Nandi K
right

11:10.58
Vance 😈
but um But with that being said, i do think, like, the added layer of, like, embarrassment or posting online, I think that's where, like, it's, like, a hard line, like, no.

11:10.90
Nandi K
yes

11:20.92
Nandi K
I fully agree.

11:21.18
Vance 😈
Because, and back to the whole new new curses of it all.

11:21.73
Nandi K
Mm-hmm.

11:25.10
Vance 😈
Like, now, like, parenting is, like, ah it's already a community thing when you're dealing with your internal community, your close friends and family. But then when it becomes randoms, on the internet. giving you feedback or praise or attention, I think that's when it goes from like, oh, that's kind of funny to, oh, you probably shouldn't be doing that.

11:43.38
Nandi K
Yeah, I agree. And also, like, I grew up with a mama who embarrassed me a lot. And I thank God that there was no internet because, like, thank God only my, like, internal family knew about it and people that I told.

11:49.17
Vance 😈
Mm-hmm.

11:51.90
Vance 😈
Right.

11:58.67
Nandi K
I think there's something sinister about your punishment going viral to, like, a million plus views. Like, that... And like the internet is not forever. Plot twist. The internet, y'all, is not forever, in fact.

12:14.84
Nandi K
But especially like younger kids like Gen z they like struggle to even enjoy life because they grew up under this type of surveillance of social media.

12:21.56
Vance 😈
Yeah.

12:25.46
Nandi K
So that is the like thing I don't like. And just a little disclaimer, you know, we don't support child abuse. Like I think we're both grew up in abusive homes and we don't want people abusing their kids, no matter how entertaining it might be.

12:34.88
Vance 😈
Yeah.

12:37.89
Vance 😈
Yep.

12:45.69
Vance 😈
Right, right. Even though, like...

12:46.87
Nandi K
No matter how much I laugh at uncoordinated your kids are, I'm also worried about them.

12:51.70
Vance 😈
Right.

12:54.87
Nandi K
And so, yeah, we don't, you know, if you know anyone who's suffering from child abuse after this podcast, please seek professional help as we are neither professional nor helpful.

12:54.90
Vance 😈
Yeah.

13:07.73
Vance 😈
That's very true. um Here you have... Okay, I think I saw this one. How do you feel about this one? The one with a mom the mom... The daughter was being a class clown showing her ass at the schoolhouse.

13:20.82
Vance 😈
Tale as old as time. ah Mama, this say this is the part that's unconventional.

13:22.84
Nandi K
Yep.

13:25.14
Vance 😈
Mama go down to the schoolhouse dressed as a clown that sits in the classroom with the kid. How do you feel about that one?

13:31.76
Nandi K
I think this one, not so bad.

13:34.30
Vance 😈
i I don't disagree. only Only because, I mean, that actually happened to me minus the clown.

13:41.02
Nandi K
Oh, wow. Your mom did this?

13:41.82
Vance 😈
Like my mom came down and like, she came out of nowhere and it was really, feel like it was not my fight in this moment because I got into it with my mom in front of my class and I told her I did not like her, which like, which I think like, I, that's almost as bad as cussing.

13:59.93
Nandi K
Oh my god.

14:00.42
Vance 😈
Right. And I like, I'll walk in front of my whole class and I, right.

14:01.98
Nandi K
oh

14:05.27
Nandi K
You said we was tussling.

14:07.83
Vance 😈
that's to me That's almost like fighting your mama.

14:09.69
Nandi K
Oh my god.

14:10.23
Vance 😈
Right. Like,

14:10.49
Nandi K
That is wild. I would never. I was so scared of my mama when I was a Ooh.

14:14.23
Vance 😈
In eighth grade. i was in eighth grade showing my ass.

14:19.02
Nandi K
Whoa. Wow, you're bold.

14:20.50
Vance 😈
So, yeah, I don't think I don't think showing up to the classroom unannounced is abuse are unwarranted.

14:21.14
Nandi K
No fear.

14:26.83
Nandi K
Dang, you was really free, Nina Simone free, no fear.

14:27.74
Vance 😈
Uh-uh.

14:31.80
Nandi K
My God, i I pray to know that type of freedom every day ever since I heard Nina know Simone say it.

14:36.08
Vance 😈
Uh-uh.

14:37.56
Nandi K
Little do I know, you sitting here right in front of me, you can tell me what it's like.

14:42.06
Vance 😈
birdss feeling high

14:43.58
Nandi K
Bye.

14:44.89
Vance 😈
flying high oh You know what I meant. Okay.

14:48.15
Nandi K
Okay, I think that i think those that is kind of funny. like For me, my mama being at the school, I would turn into a ghost.

14:53.22
Vance 😈
I think.

14:57.87
Nandi K
like I would become ah a dead corpse walking around school.

14:58.23
Vance 😈
Yeah. Under the table.

15:03.61
Vance 😈
a husk.

15:04.04
Nandi K
I would be so silent. it i it would be i I remember walking to class one day and seeing my mama leavin the school. And she looked at me and she shook her head. And I was like, oh.

15:17.45
Nandi K
Oh my God. She didn't even say nothing.

15:19.89
Vance 😈
you're You're cooked.

15:21.36
Nandi K
I was like, it's a wrap, bro.

15:23.37
Vance 😈
Bitch, you're cooked.

15:24.07
Nandi K
It's over. Like it's over for me.

15:29.00
Aaron Rand Freeman
Okay.

15:29.24
Vance 😈
That type of shit make my back sweat. Like, literally, like, back, so yeah.

15:31.29
Nandi K
Yes. My hands are sweaty. Just thinking about it.

15:35.67
Vance 😈
Back, like, just a bead of sweat down your back. Like, you never sweat back there.

15:38.36
Nandi K
Oh my God, man.

15:39.87
Vance 😈
the fuck is this?

15:40.59
Nandi K
Just thinking about it made my hands clammy because it's like that look of like not even saying a word.

15:44.78
Vance 😈
Uh-uh.

15:47.76
Nandi K
Like she could have embarrassed me in front of everyone right there.

15:51.47
Vance 😈
Uh-uh.

15:52.04
Nandi K
and she said, no wait till we get home.

15:52.63
Vance 😈
Uh-uh. Cooked. Cooked.

15:56.57
Nandi K
She just looked at me, shook her head disappointingly and walked out the door.

15:57.18
Vance 😈
Later.

16:01.49
Nandi K
i was like, she gonna kill me when I get home. Y'all somebody call the cops. But I'm not gonna lie, not as bad as forcing kids to get bad haircuts and posting it.

16:13.14
Vance 😈
Bro. bro

16:14.47
Nandi K
That's, I think this is abuse.

16:16.98
Vance 😈
No, it is. No, hands down. ah So i linked i linked the I linked the thing here.

16:21.04
Nandi K
Mm-hmm.

16:22.10
Vance 😈
Like, this man just does these punishment haircuts for these kids. And this what this this article was published January 2026, like this year.

16:26.66
Nandi K
Op.

16:29.78
Nandi K
Op, op.

16:30.86
Vance 😈
Trash. my Another personal story. My mom, and I think I was, it had to be a freshman year. I was cutting up at school. I had long hair. I had braids.

16:41.30
Vance 😈
they hated that I had braids. You know, the Jehovah Witness, they were ops. they were They were looking for an excuse to be like, you can't have these braids.

16:45.66
Nandi K
They hate fun. They hate fun.

16:49.82
Vance 😈
I got in trouble. Like, you know, it was a last straw type thing. My mama commissioned my grandfather to take me to go get my hair cut and they cut my hair and the nigga cut my, my fro and it was in my lap and I was holding it in my hands like, like a corpse.

17:05.90
Vance 😈
And it was, it was so traumatizing.

17:08.18
Nandi K
That's traumatic.

17:08.39
Vance 😈
Like it was, and like, you know, we Black, we carry so much in our hair.

17:09.14
Nandi K
Yeah.

17:12.82
Nandi K
Yeah.

17:12.84
Vance 😈
i think like people don't like take account for that.

17:14.46
Nandi K
Yeah. Damn.

17:16.02
Vance 😈
Even people with long hair, when y'all cut y'all hair, y'all feel better sometimes because y'all just hold so much. So, like, it's just so much in our hair.

17:20.50
Nandi K
Yeah. Mm-hmm.

17:22.61
Vance 😈
That, like, low-key, I feel like that was, like, a turning point for me with a lot of the adults in my life.

17:23.01
Nandi K
Dang.

17:28.50
Vance 😈
Like, oh, y'all are done. Like, as soon as I don't got to be here, I ain't here. Like, could that shit hurt, bro. So, like,

17:34.01
Nandi K
Yeah, no, that's that is awful. Like, that is terrible.

17:37.62
Vance 😈
yeah.

17:39.35
Nandi K
I'm so great. Like, my mama stopped doing my, my mom's main crime, neglect. Neglect was the first, would say, that's not her main crime, actually. The first crime, neglect.

17:51.12
Nandi K
And she stopped doing my hair when I was very young. But I know how to do my hair because I started doing my hair when I was, like, seven years old.

17:59.40
Vance 😈
Mm-hmm. Mm-hmm.

17:59.99
Nandi K
So like for me, that was like a big thing. I remember like people at my daycare talking about my hair. And so like, yeah, that's super humiliating. Now talking about something again, that's not so bad.

18:15.38
Nandi K
The mom who posted TikTok, she posted a supposed plea to her audience and she had the snapchat dog filter on and she said can y'all please help me my child ate some dog food and now she's gonna turn into a dog and she had this dog filter on and she put the child on and the child was like no and when she opened her mouth the tongue looked out she had ears the transformation it had already begun the child was scared she was crying

18:56.47
Vance 😈
That one's hard for me because I think that's funny.

18:58.97
Nandi K
it is funny because first why are you eating the dog food don't i told you not to eat the dog food also that's harmless because then you can be like okay well you didn't turn into a dog you got lucky

19:03.58
Vance 😈
And

19:08.42
Vance 😈
and like

19:12.38
Vance 😈
And hijinks. I think, like, punishment mixed with whimsy and hijinks is kind of funny. Like, it's...

19:17.08
Nandi K
Yeah, that's going to be a great story when she gets older. Like, I feel like that's going to be...

19:20.42
Vance 😈
Dumbass.

19:22.84
Nandi K
It's like you thought she was turning into a dog.

19:23.61
Vance 😈
so Stupid.

19:28.15
Nandi K
Yeah, like, oh, you did say don't do this, but...

19:31.00
Vance 😈
Yeah, I said, I did. up

19:32.73
Nandi K
Put an emoji over the child's face if you do it.

19:35.93
Vance 😈
yeah yeah, something like that.

19:36.89
Nandi K
Yeah.

19:37.51
Vance 😈
Because, again, I just...

19:37.73
Nandi K
Don't post your children online. There's sickos out there, guys.

19:40.15
Vance 😈
that That's what it is. Like, inviting people to your home and, like, your kid don't have, like, your your kid don't understand, like, the nuances of being online. So even if they think they want to be online, like, bitch, when they become an adult, they got all that shit on their, like, no

19:47.93
Nandi K
Right.

19:55.06
Nandi K
Yeah. Yeah. I think the last thing is ah kids forced to do the dance on camera that they were doing during class. I saw this little boy who had gotten in trouble for doing the... um I forgot. One of these dances from Fortnite.

20:15.80
Vance 😈
Yeah.

20:16.31
Nandi K
And so then his mama was like, oh, you was doing the dancing class, so do it now. And she was recording him, and he was crying and doing it. And it was funny because he was crying and doing choreography. Not funny like...

20:33.72
Nandi K
the overall I was just like dang y'all need to put emojis over these kids faces because stop posting your children online but the imagery of crying and doing choreography is so funny to me and it's like reminiscent of like dance recitals where the kids don't want to be there but their parents made them yeah

20:51.38
Vance 😈
Yeah. Yeah. And they're crying. is it's the It's like going to work like daily where it's just like the show must go on.

20:58.78
Nandi K
yes oh my god mm-hmm

21:00.45
Vance 😈
However, I am crying.

21:02.10
Nandi K
yeah I am sad though.

21:05.72
Vance 😈
like Yeah.

21:05.77
Aaron Rand Freeman
you

21:06.24
Vance 😈
like I'm super sad about this.

21:06.42
Nandi K
I do be crying at work. That's so funny because sometimes I do cry at work. Like when stuff is really bad, if somebody asks me how I'm doing, I'm going to cry guys. I'm so sorry. Like I'm not going to be able to keep it together.

21:21.56
Vance 😈
Have I ever cried at work? I feel like I've always wanted to cry. i don't think I've cried at work.

21:24.81
Nandi K
I also cry on purpose to make other people uncomfortable because white bitches aren't the only people who can weaponize tears.

21:31.51
Vance 😈
Hey, I think that's...

21:31.67
Nandi K
Like, I love weaponizing tears in a corporate environment as a black trans person. It's very important that, like, of all people, I should be crying.

21:41.07
Vance 😈
There's reparations, if anything.

21:42.98
Aaron Rand Freeman
Mm-hmm.

21:43.13
Nandi K
Yeah. I'm definitely crying. I'm a human being. I bleed blood just like you. My blood bleed red just like you.

21:55.51
Nandi K
And I be crying. feel like my back hurts so bad. I'm so sorry. I'm fighting with insurance. I'm so sorry. Yeah. crying at work. I think now that now when you put it that way, that's a valuable life skill.

22:11.65
Vance 😈
What crying and going through the thing like, like pushing through.

22:13.75
Nandi K
Yeah. Having to do it even if you don't want to. Yeah.

22:17.59
Vance 😈
i mean, that's adulthood. That's existing.

22:21.78
Nandi K
Yeah, even if capitalism wasn't a thing, you would still have to do that.

22:26.55
Vance 😈
yeah

22:26.70
Nandi K
Like, you would still have to push through when something was hard, even if there was no capitalism.

22:32.53
Vance 😈
that's true i mean it's perseverance baseline perseverance like yeah just powering through my my mom who the the the the demon light over there i said is it demon time

22:33.18
Nandi K
Yeah, yeah, yeah.

22:38.30
Nandi K
Dang. Aaron, it looked like you about to start up the red light district in there. Yeah, demon time. Every now and then it just flashed red in front of you.

22:50.78
Nandi K
I'm like, what's going on over there? And how can I join? Mm-hmm.

22:53.83
Vance 😈
I saw the demon time light.

22:56.44
Nandi K
I've seen it a couple times now. The first time I was like, what is that? Maybe it's a fluke.

23:03.71
Vance 😈
I said, the OnlyFans, we started, we soft launching OnlyFans.

23:06.78
Nandi K
Okay, listen, we might have to soon in this economy, guys. So if you like what you hear and you might want to see something, hey, submit your interest now.

23:10.64
Vance 😈
Look...

23:16.15
Vance 😈
Look, I need money.

23:16.57
Nandi K
ah Everyone has a price.

23:18.68
Vance 😈
We need money for Crunchyroll.

23:20.70
Nandi K
We need money for Crunchyroll.

23:21.54
Aaron Rand Freeman
What?

23:23.67
Nandi K
These subscriptions are going up, y'all.

23:26.49
Vance 😈
too much.

23:26.67
Nandi K
This podcast is free. You haven't paid for a single thing.

23:29.39
Vance 😈
I know.

23:30.67
Nandi K
There's no ads right now.

23:32.18
Vance 😈
I know. Yeah. Speak that. Speak that.

23:35.93
Nandi K
Not yet.

23:35.97
Vance 😈
I mean, all 30 of our listeners, like, we love y'all.

23:41.02
Nandi K
We love y'all so much.

23:42.79
Vance 😈
Chip in our Patreon.

23:42.81
Nandi K
ah We're so grateful that y'all listen every week.

23:46.90
Vance 😈
Period.

23:46.94
Nandi K
It means a lot to us. ah Guys, don't abuse your children. Don't post their punishments online, no matter how much I might laugh.

23:59.86
Nandi K
Or at least post an emoji over these children's faces so they can have plausible deniability.

24:00.03
Vance 😈
Right.

24:06.41
Vance 😈
At least. um The other thing. Stop telling your kids damn business online to anybody to the the Council of Internet aunties because like

24:11.95
Nandi K
Come on. Mm-hmm.

24:16.22
Vance 😈
Like, they they are people too, y'all. Like, they, just like you don't want everybody telling your business. Like, if you if you must do that, please, like, keep it to the group chat. Like, people that know and care about the child. Because, like, you just telling people, like, it is it i don't think I don't think it's the same thing as saying, like, hey, I'm having a hard time with my kid. I think that's fair, right? But, like, when you're giving a play-by-play of the, like, the ins and outs of what your kid is doing, I just think that, like, it's disrespectful to your kid.

24:43.87
Vance 😈
and a lot of the parents i think a common theme here is disrespect like they don't actually respect their kids which is why they uh are using them for attention and likes and this is like bro just like imagine that somebody did that to you like we didn't have the internet like like we have the internet now growing up so like nandi think like my confidence so many other things will be hit uh be hit for the worst like based on like just how these parents because again

24:49.18
Nandi K
Right.

24:52.05
Nandi K
Mm-hmm.

24:58.62
Nandi K
Right. Exactly.

25:05.72
Nandi K
oh

25:09.75
Nandi K
Listen, my i literally like my mom humiliated me and embarrassed me regularly. And there was no Internet like regularly.

25:16.61
Vance 😈
Mm-hmm. Right.

25:20.30
Nandi K
She did this to me. So I know how hard it is to like just come back from having a parent who is like hell bent on making you feel shame. Like, over the slightest thing, right? Not, like, healthy shame, which makes you introspective and reflect.

25:38.10
Nandi K
But, like, over the teeny-tiniest mistake, that's not healthy. Like, and to have it on the internet, where people might recognize them, guys...

25:42.90
Vance 😈
Right. Come on. for Yeah. Yup. Or when you see people and it's like, they know you. So then it's just like, oh I heard about, and this is like, bro, like, especially I ain't told you last crazy.

25:58.87
Nandi K
We are supposed to be breaking generational curses, not making generational curses, y'all.

26:08.82
Nandi K
Well, a big thanks to our audio producer and Adonis, Aaron Rand Freeman.

26:16.57
Vance 😈
I have been Vance Gowe, and you can find me on Instagram at SirLanceaThawt. You can find me on threads at... It's SirLancer. It's the same thing, right? On threads.

26:26.10
Nandi K
No. Oh, yes, yes, yes, yes.

26:27.90
Vance 😈
Yeah, threads. And then I'm also on... What's the other one?

26:33.05
Nandi K
The Tiky Tokies?

26:34.46
Vance 😈
TikTok. I'm on TikTok sometimes. I'm not really on TikTok. That's why I'm having a hard time with this.

26:37.67
Nandi K
You're not on TikTok. Stop lying to the people.

26:38.98
Vance 😈
But anyway, I'm online, y'all. Y'all can find me. You can probably find me posting about this very show you're listening to. Who are you?

26:45.00
Nandi K
It's kind of hard to find them when we have to have to beep out some of the information.

26:52.54
Aaron Rand Freeman
Thank you.

26:52.82
Nandi K
But, you know, hey, I’m Nandi K You can find me on Instagram and threads at Nandi K-A-Y-Y-Y. We'll see y'all next time.

27:04.82
Vance 😈
Thank you.