<v Speaker 1>Jerry, Katie and Josh six one hundred guys right into
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<v Speaker 3>Phone lines are wide open right now. Three oh three
<v Speaker 3>six nine one one mix three O three six nine one.
<v Speaker 2>Sixteen forty nine.
<v Speaker 3>This one came in from Travis started it out by saying,
<v Speaker 3>yo foos, Well yo, do you too, sir? Tell me
<v Speaker 3>yo foos. My girlfriend and I have been dating for
<v Speaker 3>about a year. The other night we were talking about trust
<v Speaker 3>in relationships and she brought up about how couples who
<v Speaker 3>are truly committed shouldn't have secrets from each other. And
<v Speaker 3>she said a lot of couples share their passwords and.
<v Speaker 2>It's totally normal.
<v Speaker 3>She even said most of her friends do it, and
<v Speaker 3>when somebody refuses, it usually means they're hiding something. He goes, well,
<v Speaker 3>that me on the spot. I didn't want to look shady,
<v Speaker 3>so I gave her my email password. I figured, if
<v Speaker 3>we trust each other, what's the big deal? He goes
<v Speaker 3>on to say, here's the thing, though she never offered
<v Speaker 3>hers up.
<v Speaker 2>Oh, I didn't really.
<v Speaker 3>Think much of it. But then a couple days later
<v Speaker 3>I noticed something weird. Some of my emails in my
<v Speaker 3>inbox were already marked as red, and I know I
<v Speaker 3>didn't open those, So now I'm starting to think she
<v Speaker 3>might actually be going through my inbox. The thing that
<v Speaker 3>really made me raise my eyebrows is that the other
<v Speaker 3>night I also grabbed her phone just to check the time,
<v Speaker 3>and she immediately took it back and made sure that
<v Speaker 3>the screen was locked.
<v Speaker 2>He goes wtf, bro foos and Bros.
<v Speaker 3>Travis goes on to say, I got nothing to hide,
<v Speaker 3>but this feels pretty one sided.
<v Speaker 2>So what's my next move here?
<v Speaker 3>JKJ Do I ask for her password so it's equal?
<v Speaker 3>Do I change mine? Pretend like nothing happened? Does this
<v Speaker 3>if I bring this up? Does it make me look guilty?
<v Speaker 3>He ends by saying, my buddy said I should just
<v Speaker 3>dump her and move to Mexico and start a new life.
<v Speaker 2>Ha ha ha. Oh, well I agree with the buddy.
<v Speaker 3>Dump, get out of here, flee the country. What would
<v Speaker 3>you guys do? Use this for your show? No segment
<v Speaker 3>and that was from our boy Travis. So what do
<v Speaker 3>you guys think Have you been in this situation where
<v Speaker 3>you've been kind of put on the spot to share
<v Speaker 3>your password?
<v Speaker 2>Are you sharing your password with somebody?
<v Speaker 3>Are you like Travis's girlfriend and say and she says
<v Speaker 3>it's totally normal.
<v Speaker 4>To do this.
<v Speaker 2>What do you think show wants to know?
<v Speaker 3>Phone lines are open three O three six' nine one
<v Speaker 3>one mix THREE l three six nine one sixteen forty.
<v Speaker 3>Nine would love to talk to some of our listeners
<v Speaker 3>About travis's situation. TODAY i don't like that she didn't
<v Speaker 3>offer hers up. Immediately i'll tell you that much right. Now,
<v Speaker 3>Yeah but then, again it's like if it was, ME
<v Speaker 3>i was, LIKE i don't care about your?
<v Speaker 2>Email do you think that's the spot that? Cheating is their? Email?
<v Speaker 5>Immediately i'm, like how much action is he getting On
<v Speaker 5>gmail right?
<v Speaker 4>Now?
<v Speaker 2>Write so just your? Letters she might see Your excel
<v Speaker 2>bill and your water. BILL i don't, know but it.
<v Speaker 5>Is just the entire process of sharing your password with
<v Speaker 5>somebody like that is a commitment for. One BUT i
<v Speaker 5>JUST i don't, like like you, said he gave her,
<v Speaker 5>hers but she didn't reciprocate or, yeah exactly like the
<v Speaker 5>so that the only Time i've ever needed a password
<v Speaker 5>from a significant others WHEN i was already thinking they
<v Speaker 5>were up to. Something so that's WHERE i JUST i don't.
<v Speaker 5>KNOW i don't know IF i agree with sharing, passwords
<v Speaker 5>but if she didn't give it to, you that is
<v Speaker 5>a red.
<v Speaker 3>FLAG i kind of want to sabotage the whole thing
<v Speaker 3>and send myself an email from some, account you, know
<v Speaker 3>and calling her out on something OR i don't, know,
<v Speaker 3>anyway is it on the, SURFACE i really don't think
<v Speaker 3>this is that big a. Deal but maybe you've been
<v Speaker 3>through it and you want to sound off Give travis some. Advice, Hi, Ana,
<v Speaker 3>hey guys hate, You so.
<v Speaker 2>What's your advice For?
<v Speaker 4>Travis, so as someone who has actually dealt with like
<v Speaker 4>cheating and all of that fun, stuff it is definitely
<v Speaker 4>a red. Flag it seems like she is probably hiding
<v Speaker 4>something herself and is trying to snoop around to see
<v Speaker 4>if he's also hiding something to either justify her actions or.
<v Speaker 4>Whatever BUT i have always me and my husband have
<v Speaker 4>always had our own, passwords and we know each other's,
<v Speaker 4>passwords like it's not a secret for. Us AND i
<v Speaker 4>think the biggest thing when it comes to a relationship
<v Speaker 4>is trust and, honesty and if you can't trust that other,
<v Speaker 4>person then you don't have anything.
<v Speaker 2>Truth, NO i mean that's.
<v Speaker 5>It and you're, right, like if you start out your
<v Speaker 5>relationship sharing passwords and you guys are just completely, transparent
<v Speaker 5>then that's completely. Okay but if she, asks like in
<v Speaker 5>they're already in the relationship and then out of the
<v Speaker 5>blue she asks for, it you're, right that makes it.
<v Speaker 3>Weird, WELL i mean they've been together for a, year
<v Speaker 3>SO i guess that would be kind of out of the.
<v Speaker 5>Blue you you, didn't Like, anika you seem like you
<v Speaker 5>and your husband have had this kind of you, know
<v Speaker 5>preset you, know acknowledgment of each, other like you're gonna
<v Speaker 5>have the, Passwords so that's, okay.
<v Speaker 4>Right, Absolutely. Yeah and in the, past And i've dealt,
<v Speaker 4>with you, know shady cheating and all of that. Stuff the,
<v Speaker 4>biggest like my initial red flag was the like all
<v Speaker 4>of a sudden the password was changed or it was you,
<v Speaker 4>know you'd leave your phone on the side table and
<v Speaker 4>then all of a, sudden you're not leaving your phone
<v Speaker 4>on the side, table and you're being really secretive and
<v Speaker 4>you're not leaving it like out in the, open or
<v Speaker 4>you have notifications turned off and the.
<v Speaker 3>Phone has probably busted so many. People, yeah, right that's
<v Speaker 3>like the go to the.
<v Speaker 2>Phone what's going?
<v Speaker 6>On?
<v Speaker 3>Custom all, Right, annika we we have your. Vote although
<v Speaker 3>what is your vote just to you want to want
<v Speaker 3>us to approach her about it or?
<v Speaker 4>WHAT I, YEAH i would say that he needs to
<v Speaker 4>approach her and say, like, hey this is making me
<v Speaker 4>uncomfortable and like it feels like you're hiding something and
<v Speaker 4>you're trying to catch me hiding something as, well? Gotcha and,
<v Speaker 4>yeah if she's not open and honest about, IT i
<v Speaker 4>would say they need to have a serious conversation about
<v Speaker 4>where go from.
<v Speaker 3>Here while you're looking at my water, bill, girl knock
<v Speaker 3>it off AND i could thank you for your.
<v Speaker 2>Call we have your.
<v Speaker 3>Vote, Suzanne good, morning good. Morning all, Right so you've
<v Speaker 3>heard what's going on With travis and his. Girlfriend what
<v Speaker 3>are your thoughts for?
<v Speaker 6>Him, yeah one hundred percent guilty. Conscience it's it's VERY
<v Speaker 6>i feel like she is doing something on her own
<v Speaker 6>and reality has now kicked in what she's, doing so
<v Speaker 6>she's hoping to justify it through him doing it. TOO
<v Speaker 6>i definitely Think i've been.
<v Speaker 4>THERE i know. IT i feel.
<v Speaker 6>IT i think if if he asks, her, hey let's,
<v Speaker 6>uh you, know let's hear what's your email, password let
<v Speaker 6>me see your, phone let's be truly, honest guarantee that
<v Speaker 6>he's going to get his answer right.
<v Speaker 2>There, yeah so.
<v Speaker 3>In your, situation was the guy then like screwing? Around
<v Speaker 3>so then he was asking for your?
<v Speaker 6>Stuff just, yeah we had Exchanged it was not even
<v Speaker 6>a big deal because we did things, together like documents
<v Speaker 6>we needed so and then it was changed and things
<v Speaker 6>like started popping up like. That so, actually WHAT i,
<v Speaker 6>did maybe he needs to do this IS i put
<v Speaker 6>a recorder in his car and caught him heating that.
<v Speaker 2>Way evil but, brilliant BRILLIANT i call you. Resourceful you do.
<v Speaker 2>It if you got your, SUSPICIONS i GUESS i don't know.
<v Speaker 2>THAT i don't know to worry about.
<v Speaker 4>That hey what this was? Mine we were, married you.
<v Speaker 6>Know, fine that's a really good.
<v Speaker 2>Point this is.
<v Speaker 3>JUICY i want to sit down with you and have
<v Speaker 3>a beer and you hear about everything that.
<v Speaker 2>Happened, well And susan.
<v Speaker 5>With this, one specifically the, passwords aside the fact that
<v Speaker 5>she grabbed her phone back and locked the screen streams
<v Speaker 5>guilty to, me that is so.
<v Speaker 2>Shady do you want he approacher you talk to her
<v Speaker 2>first or just move?
<v Speaker 6>ON i would just, like non nonchalantly be, like, hey
<v Speaker 6>you're right about the trust. Thing what's your email. Password
<v Speaker 6>let's let's like kind of be open with each other's
<v Speaker 6>phone to guarantee she's going to have an excuse and
<v Speaker 6>there's the answer.
<v Speaker 2>And he's going to record. Her yeah that.
<v Speaker 3>Works oh my, GOD i want to talk to.
<v Speaker 2>YOU i want to learn about everything you. DID i
<v Speaker 2>really really. Do it's so. Juicy we got to move.
<v Speaker 3>OUT i got one more, Call but thank you so
<v Speaker 3>much for sounding off this.
<v Speaker 4>Morning you're, welcome all.
<v Speaker 2>Right don't you want to know what the car and
<v Speaker 2>who he was talking to you? About, Hi, Mikey.
<v Speaker 4>Hi.
<v Speaker 1>There.
<v Speaker 7>YEAH i think if you have to, ask there's a
<v Speaker 7>lack of. Trust and, uh INITIALLY i think that if
<v Speaker 7>someone wants wants the other one to give them their,
<v Speaker 7>password it's because they don't trust, them because they don't trust. Themselves,
<v Speaker 7>yeah it's kind of.
<v Speaker 2>Guilty and LIKE i said.
<v Speaker 7>BEFORE i would probably JUST i don't think it's a
<v Speaker 7>big deal about the, passwords you, know at my age,
<v Speaker 7>Anyway BUT i would probably just go.
<v Speaker 5>Away run is what you do as fast as you.
<v Speaker 3>Could you have a hard time turning on your laptop
<v Speaker 3>even bet, Yeah.
<v Speaker 2>Mike is a laptop that? Short we, Know.
<v Speaker 5>Thanks.
<v Speaker 2>Mikey all.
<v Speaker 3>RIGHT i think the consensus was you got to approach,
<v Speaker 3>her and if she becomes even more, shady then you
<v Speaker 3>leave her immediately.
<v Speaker 4>And go To.
<v Speaker 5>Mexico oh yeah, Again LIKE i feel like there's such
<v Speaker 5>a guilty conscience on her, Part like you don't just
<v Speaker 5>ask someone for.
<v Speaker 2>Their password out of the. BLUE i, mean, yeah you.
<v Speaker 2>Don't i'm still, like it's it's still weird to me.
<v Speaker 2>Though that's the one thing she.
<v Speaker 3>Wanted she didn't want like a TikTok password or An
<v Speaker 3>instagram Or.
<v Speaker 2>Facebook she was, like, bro what's Your? GMAIL i know
<v Speaker 2>it's silly to me, too but you got hot babes
<v Speaker 2>emailing you at all hours of the. Day that. Weird
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