<v Speaker 1>Jerey Katy and Josh Mix one hundred.

<v Speaker 2>Good morning everybody or Jeremy Katie Josh Mix one hundred.

<v Speaker 2>All right, we're gonna go into this message that came

<v Speaker 2>in from Mark and Morrison. Is how he signed it?

<v Speaker 2>You know he's doing that all the time. Hi, Mark,

<v Speaker 2>Mark and Morrison, Mark and Morrison, Ah, feel free to

<v Speaker 2>sound off about this too. Fun lines are wide open

<v Speaker 2>three zero three six nine one sixteen forty nine up.

<v Speaker 2>Mark from Morrison said, Hey, guys, I'm forty two years old.

<v Speaker 2>I've never been married, I don't have kids, and I've

<v Speaker 2>never really had what you call a serious.

<v Speaker 3>Long term relationship.

<v Speaker 2>Now, I've dated a lot, things just never turned into

<v Speaker 2>anything substantial. But lately when it comes up on dates,

<v Speaker 2>the reaction has been really weird. The minute I say

<v Speaker 2>that I've never had a serious relationship, it's like the

<v Speaker 2>vibe totally changes suddenly. I get all sorts of questions.

<v Speaker 2>One woman even said, wow, you must have had a

<v Speaker 2>really bad breakup, and I'm sitting there thinking, well, that

<v Speaker 2>would require having a relationship first. Du So now I'm wondering,

<v Speaker 2>is this actually a red flag to people when they're dating?

<v Speaker 2>To me, it's just kind of how my life worked out,

<v Speaker 2>but it feels like people are judging me for it

<v Speaker 2>before they even get to know me. He goes on

<v Speaker 2>to say, I'm almost tempted to start making something up, like, Yeah,

<v Speaker 2>my ex and I almost eloped back in twenty eleven,

<v Speaker 2>but she left me for her personal trainer.

<v Speaker 1>Make that part of your story, my dude, that's.

<v Speaker 2>Pretty juicy, He says. I'm curious about what you and

<v Speaker 2>your listeners think. If you met somebody my age who's

<v Speaker 2>never been married, never had a long term, serious relationship,

<v Speaker 2>would that make you nervous? Or is it really not

<v Speaker 2>that big of a deal? Love you clowns? And that

<v Speaker 2>is Mark, Mark and Morrison if you forgot so if

<v Speaker 2>you want to sound off about this, is this a

<v Speaker 2>gigantic red flag? If you were out on a date

<v Speaker 2>with his dude and he's never been married, never been

<v Speaker 2>in a long term relationship, would that concern you? Should

<v Speaker 2>he be worried that he's never going to be with

<v Speaker 2>anybody now? Three O three six nine one one mix

<v Speaker 2>three oh three six nine one sixteen forty nine. I

<v Speaker 2>guess I really can't comment on this because I've been

<v Speaker 2>in the longest long term relations yeah, of all long.

<v Speaker 3>Term relationships since the beginning of time. Okay, but Katie,

<v Speaker 3>you're out there, would this give you the he b GB's.

<v Speaker 4>I went through this exact thing actually on a date

<v Speaker 4>that I went on. We met at this place, and

<v Speaker 4>this guy seemed like pretty normal. He actually was a

<v Speaker 4>meteorolog to meteorologist, yeah, but he wasn't a TV meteorologist, right,

<v Speaker 4>And so he said that he had spent his whole

<v Speaker 4>twenties and thirties just perfecting his career. So that's where

<v Speaker 4>all of his you know, energy went.

<v Speaker 2>I've been working on the weather down in my mom's basement,

<v Speaker 2>I'd have been realize.

<v Speaker 4>Yeah, Like it's like there's a whole team of meteorologists

<v Speaker 4>who just like sit around and talk about the weather

<v Speaker 4>kind of stuff.

<v Speaker 3>I can't get any chicks because I'm worried about the upslope.

<v Speaker 4>Yes, and this was his life, his whole like young

<v Speaker 4>adult you know time. And so when we met for

<v Speaker 4>a date and he told me he'd never really dated

<v Speaker 4>anybody long term, he never lived with anybody, he didn't

<v Speaker 4>have any kids, he wasn't married. I was just like,

<v Speaker 4>so it did because I was I don't want to

<v Speaker 4>have to deal with all of that, all the firsts, right,

<v Speaker 4>I don't want to be your first breakup.

<v Speaker 1>I don't want to be your first, you know, serious loves.

<v Speaker 3>Way to go negative. It could be his first and

<v Speaker 3>you guys fell happily ever after. Could just see you're

<v Speaker 3>not giving him a chance.

<v Speaker 4>It seemed to me that there was a whole lot

<v Speaker 4>of emotional maturity that had to happen before he was

<v Speaker 4>at my level, and I just didn't want to be

<v Speaker 4>there to be the one that brought him up to

<v Speaker 4>that point.

<v Speaker 1>So I think that as.

<v Speaker 4>A as a woman, when you're dealing with a guy

<v Speaker 4>like that, like yeah, like heartbreak and tragedy, those kind

<v Speaker 4>of things build character, like you need that. You need

<v Speaker 4>that for your plot, you know, so go get a

<v Speaker 4>little bit more experienced.

<v Speaker 3>You would always known what the weather's entered the game.

<v Speaker 3>I know, always know what the weather.

<v Speaker 1>I think about that guy sometimes I'm not gonna lie.

<v Speaker 4>But it's still like it was just too much of

<v Speaker 4>a task for me to undertake.

<v Speaker 1>And so that's where I stand with it.

<v Speaker 2>All right, Let's open up the phone lines three oh

<v Speaker 2>three six nine one one mix three oh three six

<v Speaker 2>nine one sixteen forty nine.

<v Speaker 3>Sound off about this.

<v Speaker 2>Is this a gigantic red flag that you got a

<v Speaker 2>forty two year old dude who's never been in a

<v Speaker 2>long term, committed relationship. I want some calls and comments

<v Speaker 2>on this right now. I got Jess and Mercury and Shannie.

<v Speaker 2>Will start with Jess, Hi, Jess, good morning.

<v Speaker 5>Good morning guy, Good morning to you.

<v Speaker 2>So is this a major red flag that this guy's

<v Speaker 2>never been married or in a long term relationship?

<v Speaker 6>I mean, at first, yes, it's like, so why not,

<v Speaker 6>Like why are you still forty and have not ever

<v Speaker 6>had a serious relationship. I think that, honestly, there's a

<v Speaker 6>lot of men in this world. There's more men than women, honestly,

<v Speaker 6>and I feel like men never there's a little mature

<v Speaker 6>and still a very tur a certain age, and that's

<v Speaker 6>when they realize that, hey, I want to be with

<v Speaker 6>somebody forever or for the rest of my life. And

<v Speaker 6>you know, as women, we when we see that that

<v Speaker 6>he's never had a relationship, it's like, like, what did

<v Speaker 6>you do? Like what's wrong with you? I'm not kind

<v Speaker 6>of in a way. I mean I would say I

<v Speaker 6>don't know.

<v Speaker 3>Now, why is it not the other way around? Like

<v Speaker 3>he's been with all these women and you're like, what

<v Speaker 3>did these ladies do that they.

<v Speaker 6>Didn't you know, got to you? Yeah, exactly, and that's

<v Speaker 6>what the heat on him as women are as well,

<v Speaker 6>we're not perfect. We do a lot of shot.

<v Speaker 2>Excuse me, but okay, I had a feeling that was

<v Speaker 2>coming so good by Mercury, welcome.

<v Speaker 3>To the show.

<v Speaker 7>Hey, how are y'all doing well?

<v Speaker 3>We're super dope, buddy.

<v Speaker 2>So is this a giant red flag that this guy's

<v Speaker 2>never been in a long term relationship?

<v Speaker 7>Absolutely not, because I honestly I feel like, for one,

<v Speaker 7>the guys coming in coming in, you know, fresh doesn't

<v Speaker 7>have any kids, doesn't have any baby mama drama. It

<v Speaker 7>doesn't you know, pretty, I'm very sure he learns he

<v Speaker 7>learned how to save his money, you know, with all

<v Speaker 7>this time to be able to actually spend it on

<v Speaker 7>someone else. It's like, I feel like that he has

<v Speaker 7>a lot to offer, and I feel that the women

<v Speaker 7>are just selling him short just because he hasn't had

<v Speaker 7>the time to be in a long long term relationship.

<v Speaker 7>It's like how else, you know, Like he's got a

<v Speaker 7>game to experience someday. And I do believe that wholeheartedly,

<v Speaker 7>you know, But it's like, I don't think that anyone

<v Speaker 7>should call that consider that being a red flag.

<v Speaker 3>That's a pretty solid point.

<v Speaker 2>I was thinking about that, like, this guy has no

<v Speaker 2>baggage to worry about really now.

<v Speaker 4>But again, the baggage is what makes you like a

<v Speaker 4>good player in the game, if you will.

<v Speaker 1>Because here's the thing. If this guy comes in to.

<v Speaker 4>Willy nilly with it, like he's like, oh, I really

<v Speaker 4>like you, and so this is it. This is going

<v Speaker 4>to be the relationship where I give it all to

<v Speaker 4>and then he comes at mesach some little lost puppy

<v Speaker 4>like pervious relationships would have told him, Well, he's got

<v Speaker 4>to play it cool at first, Like he.

<v Speaker 2>Says he's dated plenty. His life is I've dated plenty.

<v Speaker 2>I've just never done anything long term exactly.

<v Speaker 4>He knows how to talk, so that in itself, you know,

<v Speaker 4>that tells a woman I've dated plenty, nothing long term,

<v Speaker 4>So you can't commit. Then what you're telling me is

<v Speaker 4>that you have a problem with commitment and you're just

<v Speaker 4>looking for the next bright, new shiny toy, like as

<v Speaker 4>a femail.

<v Speaker 7>That's what that says in retrospect. For the Mault side,

<v Speaker 7>how could he know what the real commitment is if

<v Speaker 7>no one's giving him the opportunity.

<v Speaker 4>Well, if he's just moving on to the next thing

<v Speaker 4>without giving it's it could not be his fault.

<v Speaker 2>Though he can be cheated on. He could date someone

<v Speaker 2>to find out that she's married.

<v Speaker 4>He's saying that he hasn't been the one to commit

<v Speaker 4>to the long relationship, right, Like that's what the letter said.

<v Speaker 2>He just says it's never turned into anything substantial as

<v Speaker 2>his line.

<v Speaker 4>So we don't know whose side that's on, whether it's

<v Speaker 4>his fault or the woman's fault.

<v Speaker 1>That let's just say it's.

<v Speaker 3>Both, you know, fifty to fifty.

<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but aren't you supposed to date around that's kind

<v Speaker 2>of the thing. You're just get out there and dating.

<v Speaker 1>Your whole life.

<v Speaker 4>You don't have one seven year relationship that you've got

<v Speaker 4>some you know, you owned a house together, You've.

<v Speaker 3>Got sometimes you don't that.

<v Speaker 1>Really again, this all builds character.

<v Speaker 3>What do you think, Mercury?

<v Speaker 7>I mean, like, you know, my relationship, I'm getting married,

<v Speaker 7>but like this is my first long term relationship and

<v Speaker 7>I'm thirty one years old and I've only been on

<v Speaker 7>that account like maybe for for actual relationships before I

<v Speaker 7>actually got with my fiance.

<v Speaker 3>Those were those long term relationships, not at all.

<v Speaker 7>Okay, they didn't even they didn't even go past three months. Ok.

<v Speaker 3>You got to do some test driving, right, you got

<v Speaker 3>to test drive it.

<v Speaker 7>For you if I to feel it.

<v Speaker 3>Sorry, no, go ahead, you're the star here go.

<v Speaker 7>It's like, I just feel that there is a chance

<v Speaker 7>for for market. Morrison's like I do feel like somebody

<v Speaker 7>is out there for him. It's just you know, just

<v Speaker 7>waiting in the wings. It's just going to take some time,

<v Speaker 7>and you know, and some people just actually have to

<v Speaker 7>be leaner and give them a chance. That's all I say.

<v Speaker 3>You know who, It's not going to be Mercury.

<v Speaker 1>You know I've given enough guy's chances. Mercury. I think

<v Speaker 1>we can both agree there. I don't need to be

<v Speaker 1>the one.

<v Speaker 2>Yeah, Scott, Yeah, Merkery, thank you for calling.

<v Speaker 3>Appreciate you.

<v Speaker 7>Don't worries. Don't have a great day you as well.

<v Speaker 2>All right, let's wrap it up with Shanny Hi, Shanni Hi,

<v Speaker 2>how are you?

<v Speaker 3>Oh?

<v Speaker 2>We're super dupes? So would you give this Mark and

<v Speaker 2>Morrison a chance? If he's forty two and has never

<v Speaker 2>been in a long term relationship, I.

<v Speaker 5>Wouldn't say that I wouldn't give him a chance. But

<v Speaker 5>it does raise some red flags for me, because I mean,

<v Speaker 5>your whole life, you go to high school, you never

<v Speaker 5>had like a sweet puppy love high school sweetheart, and

<v Speaker 5>then you're supposed to date somebody after that, there's supposed

<v Speaker 5>to be like the three until you get to your

<v Speaker 5>love of your life. Yeah, all that time, if you

<v Speaker 5>haven't really had a long one, it kind of makes

<v Speaker 5>you wonder is it him or is it the girls?

<v Speaker 5>And I mean by this point, I at forty two,

<v Speaker 5>you don't want to be someone's mom and have to

<v Speaker 5>teach them emotional maturity as well as in the bedroom

<v Speaker 5>as well.

<v Speaker 3>Like thank you the bedroom.

<v Speaker 1>No, you're right, and no it's great.

<v Speaker 2>But again, he's forty two, so say he is emotionally mature.

<v Speaker 3>He has dated plenty, is his quote.

<v Speaker 2>So he's maybe been in the bedroom a few times

<v Speaker 2>and nothing is just panned out. So why are we

<v Speaker 2>instantly jumping to this guy as like an immature moron

<v Speaker 2>who has no idea what he's doing.

<v Speaker 3>By forty two, you probably know what you're doing.

<v Speaker 5>I mean, if you've dated here and there, that's one thing.

<v Speaker 5>But imagine like usually when you really get into like

<v Speaker 5>the you know, kinks and all of that stuff. It's

<v Speaker 5>long term.

<v Speaker 1>Yeah, No, you're right.

<v Speaker 5>Saturday, and I'm tying her up to the wall.

<v Speaker 2>Sean said, so right though, this is a red flag

<v Speaker 2>because he's not kinky enough for you.

<v Speaker 1>Shannie.

<v Speaker 4>You made such a good point because you alluded to

<v Speaker 4>the fact that, dude, we you do. We have three

<v Speaker 4>big loves in our lives.

<v Speaker 1>We have the.

<v Speaker 4>Puppy love one, we have the one that teaches us

<v Speaker 4>a big lesson and wed you those days. No he

<v Speaker 4>hasn't he has those, he said, he hasn't hit those,

<v Speaker 4>and I'm not wanting to teach him all that.

<v Speaker 1>Like maybe we are looking for our love and.

<v Speaker 3>What if for him only lasted like two much?

<v Speaker 4>No, why do we have to sacrifice our life in

<v Speaker 4>order for this man to feel his three?

<v Speaker 3>Because you're giving him a chance?

<v Speaker 1>No, no, no, no, wouldn't you give the guy chance enough?

<v Speaker 5>Men?

<v Speaker 1>Chances like it's up all we do with our days, right.

<v Speaker 5>Shanny, Seriously, chances all day long. Come on, It's like

<v Speaker 5>at this age, you gotta know what you're doing, dude.

<v Speaker 5>And to me, yeah, I feel like I there's something

<v Speaker 5>underline there because if he hasn't had those. I feel

<v Speaker 5>like it's a hymn thing. Unfortunately, this is colored by numbers.

<v Speaker 1>You need to know, right, Like, I'm not going to

<v Speaker 1>teach you.

<v Speaker 3>All I know is you're dating Shanna. You got to

<v Speaker 3>bring your own ropes.

<v Speaker 1>Yeah you do?

<v Speaker 5>You remember?

<v Speaker 3>You remember? I don't know you listening. I don't know

<v Speaker 3>you what?

<v Speaker 5>No, the other day talking to Daddy.

<v Speaker 3>No, I'm not going to Oh, Daddy called you Daddy.

<v Speaker 3>Jeremy does remember? Never mind? How I do remember exactly

<v Speaker 3>like he does? You are?

<v Speaker 5>Yeah, you know, I have a man and I have

<v Speaker 5>a girl. I mean, if you want to get into technicality,

<v Speaker 5>so you're big, you must be exhaustive.

<v Speaker 1>See, she knows what she wants though I.

<v Speaker 5>Know what I'm doing.

<v Speaker 3>You want everything.

<v Speaker 2>It sounds like, why wouldn't you bring this newbie and

<v Speaker 2>this forty two year old guy just to have some

<v Speaker 2>fun with him.

<v Speaker 1>He probably could learn something from you.

<v Speaker 3>Yeah, like you'd want to teach him.

<v Speaker 2>All right, Shannie, I'm gonna let you go so you

<v Speaker 2>can polish your handcuffs.

<v Speaker 5>All right, all right, I'm dead

<v Speaker 2>All right, I see you later on that note, I uh,

<v Speaker 2>I gotta go take a walk.