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Get ready for some sapphak serotonin. So today's episode centers

on the two thousand and three film Monster. This film

dramatizes the real life story of Eileen Warnos, a queer

serial killer. This movie features my first crush, Rissina Ricci,

playing Eileen's girlfriend, Angelina. Do you remember your first celebrity crush?

Speaker 1: Yes, I remember you saying that Christina Ritchie was You're

and the other one from My Girl.

Speaker 2: Yeah, because both of them played like kind of tomboy

characters at some point, and I was only attracted to

them in the tomboy character You're like Christina Ricci and

now and then as Roberta who then grows up to

be Rosio O'Donnell loved her. And then Anna Chlumsky from

My Girl played in a movie opposite Christina Riccie. Christina

Riccie was like her fan friend and the movie was

called gold Diggers Escape from Bear Mountain, I think, and

it was so gay, and Anna Schlumsky played like like

this like mask twelve year old, I don't know.

Speaker 3: I was into it when I was five.

Speaker 1: You were like, this is everything. Yeah.

Speaker 3: I was like, why am I so attracted to this?

Speaker 1: I remember, I think I told you and I'm blinking

on the main character's name. But the Babysitters Club the

movie the main character where she's like Christy no, but

like her the actor, yes, her, but the actors I

don't remember her name. But then also Rachel Lee cook

in there. I liked both of them there. Yeah, and

I was just like, oh my god. Yes, I used

to watch that movie and I was like, oh my god,

I want to dress just like her and be Christy

and so then I would. But then I was like, no,

I think, I think I like her, but I can

just pretend she's a boy guys.

Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, that's so funny. So I went through like

a tomboy phase. But it was weird because I don't

like sports and I'm not like a tomboy at all.

But I feel like I did it because my best

friend was kind of a tomboy, and I thought she

was really cool. She was my friend that loved sporty Spice,

so I pretended I also loved sporty Spices, but I

hate sports. I loved Scary Spice because she had cool,

beautiful hair, and I loved when she would do the

two like little like horns almost, and she always wore

Leopard I still I'm like, you're relired by her. And

then I always had to be baby Spice when we

would play Spice girls because I was wand and this

was also weird body shaming. I remember in like second

and third grade, my friends were like, you have to

be baby Spice because you have chubby legs and she

has chubby legs. And I look at her and I'm like,

she wasn't even chubby. First of all, I was a

chubby kid. But like, what, Rudo's that is.

Speaker 1: Pretty rude to say that, But I think you're right.

We had a different perception of what we consider chubby,

and like, she she's literally just like a regular body.

And it's funny that you said that because obviously we

had like different experiences. But in elementary there was this

girl that was very like tomboyish and she would wear

like her hair and a ponytail.

Speaker 2: Yeah, and she had like this shirt I'm a girl.

Speaker 1: But she was very like everyone liked her, like they

didn't really consider her like a tomboy tomboy even though

that's like how she presented herself like. She was cool

with everyone. And I remember one time she came to

school and she had this shirt on and it was

showing like the littlest bit of her stomach and she

kind of had like like sort of like not like

like she had so wait on her Yeah. And I

saw that and I was like, I need to be

like that. I was so inspired by her, and I

was like trying to dress like her, but I had

no shirts that showed my stomach, Like it wasn't like

a crop top, but it was just like a little bit.

So then I was just like what do I do?

Like how do I get it to be that way?

But also my mom was like, why do you want

to show your belly?

Speaker 2: No?

Speaker 1: Like girl, No. But I remember thinking she was so

cool and I was like, oh my god, I just

want to hang out with you. And she loved soccer,

and so I tried to play soccer. Because she was

like really into it, like she knew all the terminology

and she knew how to play. And I was like, oh,

I play handball, so I'm a little sporty.

Speaker 2: I knew.

Speaker 1: I was like, if you get me on the core

for handball, I know exactly what you're talking about. But

when it came to soccer, I was so afraid of

getting hit in the face and looking stupid. But I

was just like, I'm willing to give it a try.

I'm sporty. If you couldn't tell, like, I'm like, you.

Speaker 3: Know, sporty girl.

Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, So we both tried things that there was not.

Speaker 2: There was something else I was gonna say about it,

and I don't remember what it is. I'll probably remember

at some point, but yeah, I never even tried to

play soccer.

Speaker 3: I just you were like, I'm gonna just like sporty stuff.

I don't know. It was weird.

Speaker 2: I did have like a baseball mit at some point

because my grandpa would like teach me to like play

catch or whatever. He bought me like a lefty baseball

mint because I'm a left handed person. If you guys

didn't know that fun fact about me.

Speaker 1: We're also handed cool, right, Yes it is.

Speaker 3: I yeah, I like being left handed.

Speaker 2: I think it makes me special, even though I think

that I was kind of forced to be left handed.

Speaker 1: But oh they wanted you. But then that's okay. I mean,

maybe you can also be where you can use your

right hand. I'm forgetting, I'm blinking.

Speaker 3: Oh well, I only use my right hand for cutting.

Speaker 2: But I think that's because there was never left handed

scissors around when I was a kid, so I always

use the regular scissors, so I use my right hand

to cut. But I'm also not good at cutting anything

in a straight line, no matter what hand.

Speaker 1: So I have a question, do you I know that?

There was another one of my other coworkers. She's left handed.

She puts her mouse on the left hand side. I

don't do that. I just do the right because to me,

it like sort of makes sense. But she says it's

so hard for her to do that, so she does

the left. You don't ever have you ever done that?

Speaker 2: It's on the right. Yeah, well look you it's right.

And then I type with both.

Speaker 1: Yeah, I do both.

Speaker 3: Obviously, I'm like no offense type like that, but I

she's a real typer.

Speaker 1: She can do like one hundred words per minute. Yeah, no,

I actually bet you do. Like I'm not even so

fast like pre clag.

Speaker 2: AnyWho do you have a hot take or a burning

desire that you are desperate to share?

Speaker 1: Yes, my burning desire is for both Eileen and Selby.

I want them both. That's my only thing. I'm sure

there's like more. I have opinions more like later on,

but honestly, it's just like watching this again at each

stage of your life you realize just genuinely how much

if I were Selby, I would have never freaked the

fuck out if she was killing men. I think they

deserved it, and that may be different. I totally support Eileen.

I would be on the run with her and helping her, like, girl,

what do we need to do so you don't get

caught and we can live together happier or after?

Speaker 3: I know.

Speaker 2: All I think of when you said that, like I

don't care that she's killing men is like, you know,

in Jennifer's body, when the friend is like you're killing.

Speaker 3: People and she's like, no, I'm killing boys.

Speaker 1: Literally it's okay. She's like no, no, no, it's they're

not just boys.

Speaker 3: But yeah, that was kind of my hot take.

Speaker 2: I mean, I don't think this is to some circles,

this probably is a hot take, but yeah, I feel

like most of them deserved it. They were creepy. The

first guy was definitely obviously a rapist. He obviously deserved it.

The other guys were creepy weirdos that take advantage of

women in shitty situations, and I don't approve of that.

The only one that I felt bad for was the

very last one because as they show in it, she

was kind of in this desperate spot where it was

like she had to do it and she didn't even

want to do it. And obviously I don't know everybody

involved in the real life case, so you know, but

I think it's weird when people are like I have

a favorite serial killer, Like, oh, I love Jeffrey. Don't

like that's weird. You like that is weird. You're a weirdo.

If there, if there's ever one you're alike kind of

allowed to like, I would say it would be someone

that is avenging women who have been sexually assaulted, right,

like when she got when she got convicted, is when

she had that outburst in court in real life. If

you guys haven't seen this look up Eileen Worno's like

court where she was like, okay, Judge, I hope you

brought in how like you are sentencing a raped woman

to death?

Speaker 3: Like are you kidding me? You know? And it makes

me cry.

Speaker 1: It's sad.

Speaker 2: She had a really shitty life, and not everybody that

has a shitty life should just kill people.

Speaker 3: But I feel like most of those people were really

bad people.

Speaker 1: So I agree.

Speaker 2: That was my hot My other second hot take kind

of went along with yours because I just remember that

everyone talked about how ugly they made Charlie's faan in this,

and I thought she's still a cat and.

Speaker 1: So something about her when she was on screen. I'm like,

I am, I need to be with you.

Speaker 2: Yeah, I was like, also, Charlie's still as hot as

fucking this.

Speaker 1: She is cheer.

Speaker 2: Yeah, I do sometimes sometimes when I wake up and

my hair looks kind of crazy, You're like, do not

have eyebrows? I would always be like, oh my god,

I look like Charlie's Sarah, Oh my god, and I

feel bad, but it's because I wake up in my

hair just does this natural trashy like we're.

Speaker 3: Like how she would do her hair in the Bat.

Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, anyway, if you haven't seen this movie, you

need to see it.

Speaker 3: It's a classic.

Speaker 2: I love it a lot, so I think that's really important.

Speaker 1: Yeah, we love this movie. We love this movie.

Speaker 2: I was so excited to get to talk about it.

It also inspired my outfit. Well we can talk about

it a little later, but so okay, now we get

to take a break. I was so excited. I was

gonna skip the break and go.

Speaker 3: Right go right to the recab like you guys, I'm ready.

Speaker 2: So we're gonna take a quick break now and when

we get back, we'll get into the recap.

Speaker 3: So don't move.

Speaker 2: We'll be back quicker than a lesbian falling in love

on the first bab.

Speaker 3: Welcome back to but I'm a Lesbian.

Speaker 2: This week, we are just discussing Monster, a two thousand

and three film that Charlie's Thearren won an Academy Award,

a Golden Globe, and a SAG.

Speaker 1: Award for Well Deserved.

Speaker 2: Yeah, she also won all the awards In my Heart

as a thirteen year old, when this came out, I

was like wow.

Speaker 1: I was like, this is immediately my favorite.

Speaker 3: So okay, we'll get into the recap.

Speaker 2: So basically, like I kind of mentioned in the beginning,

if you don't know, this is based on a real person.

Her name was Eileen Warnos. She was actually a sex worker.

She was actually convicted of killing multiple men and she

was put to death. I believe she was put to

death in two thousand and two, like she died, well,

she was sentenced to death before that, but she actually

was like killed by the state in two thousand and two,

and then the film came out like right after. And

so in this movie she refers to herself as Lee

the whole, which I think she did go by Lee

in some of the documentaries I've seen. So we open

on Baby Aileen Warnos, and she's like kind of narrating it,

and she's talking about how she always wanted to be

a star, and as she was getting older, she started

doing things to get attention and get attention from boys,

and really that's she's kind of explaining how she ended

up in sex work. She didn't have a great like

family life obviously, because she was just out.

Speaker 3: There in the woods doing these things, ended up doing

them for money and stuff. In real life.

Speaker 2: I don't think they exactly mention it in the book,

but like, yeah, she was like had probably an abusive family,

potentially an incestuous, like abusive relationship. She did have a

baby when she was like thirteen that I think was

put up for adoption. Yes, at some point her her

family had like kicked her out and she was like

living in the woods. So she was like a homeless

teen sex worker living in the woods in like why,

I don't even know what state this was. Some were

cold because she was not in Florida. The movie takes

place in Florida, but she didn't move to Florida until

she was an adult. So yeah, she had a rough life.

So she kind of gives us this little backstory. And

then we go to what was the present day of

when the movie is set, which is like early nineties.

Speaker 3: And we see grown up Lee.

Speaker 2: So Charlie's theren without eyebrows, and she like, so I'm

so mad about this.

Speaker 3: Still, she was supposed to be like kind of fat in.

Speaker 2: This like they were like we had to gain thirty

five to forty pounds and blah blah blah. And I

remember there's a scene in here where she's like doing

like a bath in like the in the scene.

Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm like, girl, she's her.

Speaker 2: Body looks like better than my body now and I've

lost a lot of weight to get to where I am,

and I'm like, girl, this was fat in two thousand

and three, Like this goes back to apparently Baby Spice

was the chubby one. I was so confused by that,

So I don't know she's people are ridiculous. So we

see she's under like an overpass and she has a

gun and it's like raining, and she's just kind of

like looking at the gun, and so we're like, what

is she gonna do? But then she decides to go

into a bar, and so she goes into this bar

where there's this girl Selby, who is Christina Ricci.

Speaker 3: Looking so hot. I don't know, I just loved.

Speaker 1: Okay, did you hear what they said? I know how

you said that, like they wanted to make sure le's

their own like ugly in fat and like, which is

so not true because we think she's hot so hot.

They said the same for Christina Ritchie too, where they

were like, yeah, they wanted to like to them looking

masculine as a woman was like making them look like

undesirable because it's all so like but to us, We're like,

oh my god, they're so hot. Yeah.

Speaker 2: It took me so many years to understand that, like

being attracted to masculinity doesn't mean that I'm attracted to men.

I am not attracted to men. I am attracted to

women that have like masculine traits. But I could never

it's called but I'm a lesbian. Because I'm a lesbian,

I could never have a relationship with a man.

Speaker 3: Like what did Kitmanig say, like, I don't want a

man in my house?

Speaker 1: Yes, she's like why do I do? Like coming home

from work or whatever and just seeing a man there,

like I don't want a man there disgusting And I'm like, yeah,

that would piss me off. Like you have a hard day, Yeah,

you had the worst fucking day of your life, and

you get home and you see a man there. I know.

That's like a horror story to me.

Speaker 3: I know.

Speaker 2: And he probably did nothing all day, even though I

shouldn't say that because or even if he.

Speaker 1: Did, if he did anything at all, just if he

he's just there.

Speaker 3: She's just probably stinky.

Speaker 1: And it makes me think of like the people that,

like some celebrities say like oh I am like they're

not gay, And I'm like, okay, I get that. Whatever.

I mean, everyone has their own prefaces. Joia Fox. Oh no,

uh no, that's how I was thinking of. But I'm

trying to remember exactly who it was. But I remember

they did an interview and they're like, I have a

separate house than my husband, Like we have separate houses.

We love each other, but we are separate. And I'm like,

in my head, I'm like, yeah, if that were the like,

I can see that she even as a straight woman,

she wants to protect her peace.

Speaker 2: Yes, but with it being a woman, I'm like, I

can't be away from you for.

Speaker 1: Feeling so much, even if it's like a separate room.

Speaker 3: Why sad because my wife is downstairs while we're in the.

Speaker 1: Pod loft, Like, just have way here to be.

Speaker 3: Here my emotional support. Anyway, I don't know how I oh.

Speaker 2: Yeah, because we were talking about how they tried to

make them look unattracted because it's very male gaze whatever,

even though are we going to act like studs and

masks don't get hit on by men all the time.

They get hit on so much exactly, so it's like, oh,

they're ugly to men. Yeah, right now.

Speaker 3: Okay.

Speaker 2: Anyway, so we see Selby at the bar Christina Ricci.

It's definitely a lesbian bar because it looks like only

lesbians around, and I mean it's like flannel hats.

Speaker 1: They're trying to make it very very obvious lesbian.

Speaker 2: So Lee walks in to get a beer and she's

like all like soaked in water because she was outside

in the rain, and Selby comes up to talk to her,

and uh because Selby was like all alone, which was

kind of sad because she was kind of like watching

these other lesbians that were like a group, and she

was like all alone and sad. And I was like,

oh my god, this is sad because I mean, I've

never been to a lesbian bar, but I have definitely

like felt like I only had straight friends, and I've

seen groups of queer friends and I was like, how

do I get to be part of their group?

Speaker 3: You know?

Speaker 2: And it was also before I was on antidepressants and

anti anxiety medication. I was very very like socially awkward

where I would just sit there being like sad and jealous,

like I wish I had friends, but I'm not going

to go up and talk to them. Anyway, So she

was kind of like by herself, which was sad. So

she goes up to walk up to Lee because Lee

walked in by herself, and Lee's basically like, I'm not

a dyke.

Speaker 1: Like yeah, you're just like get the fuck out for me.

Speaker 2: And she's like, I'm just trying to have like a

fun night, like I'm not also good on Selby for

like going up to her, She's like, just can.

Speaker 1: You can we are? Yeah, like just human connection is

I'm not a man. I don't want to immediately assume

you want to fuck yes.

Speaker 2: And so also I forgot to note that Selby's arm

is broken. That's kind of important later on. And so

they spend the whole night drinking and like they're having

so much fun, and then the bar closes and they

have to leave, and then Selby's like, do you like

want to come to my house and stay over? And

she's like, okay. I don't know if she can kind

of tell that Lee is like maybe homeless, or she

just wants her to come over because she likes her.

Speaker 1: I don't I feel like at this point, since they

try to make it seem like Selby is kind of

oblivious to a lot of things, Like in the beginning,

I feel like she just thinks that like Lee is

not from there, or she's like, you know, traveling, and

she's like this person's talking to me. She seems cool,

and I want to buy her over, yeah, And Lee's

obviously like, well, I could use like a.

Speaker 3: Place to say, you know for sure.

Speaker 2: And so then Lee like is narrating this, you know,

And so she says, I was going to kill myself

that day, like when I was under the bridge with

the gun, but I decided not to because I had

this five dollars in my pocket and I was like,

I probably gave somebody a blowjob or a hand job

or whatever for this five dollars. I'm going to fucking

spend like I had to do work for this. And

so she went in to get the beer and that's

when she met Selby, and so I wrote Selby is

creepy and staring and touching Lee's face when they're like

after like they go to the house and then I

think she tells Lee like you can take a shower,

and then they like lay in the bed together, and

like you know, they're just kind of like laying like

awkwardly and then Selby is like, she's like, I don't

really know what it's never I mean, I've never had that.

Speaker 1: She's like me, I've.

Speaker 3: Never had a girl in my bed before.

Speaker 1: She's just like touch her face.

Speaker 2: But it's really sweet because I feel like she thinks

that Lee is like so beautiful, and she does say

that later she's like.

Speaker 3: Oh my god, like a woman like you, and it's

so sweet. Anyway, so.

Speaker 2: In the morning, we they basically show us like these

family friends that Selby is like staying with. So she's

like has a room in this house that belongs to

this like family, this like kind of Christiani family, and

I feel like her family sent her there because they

found out she was gay, yase what they kind of

explained later. So anyway, they see they see Lee there,

they freak out because they're like, uh, you have a

woman in here. And also they're like she's a street

person and they're like really rude and they like, I

don't know. So Lee leaves and then Selby like runs

after her, and they like kind of make like a

hangout date that they're going to hang out that night.

And so then Lee goes to her storage unit and

the manager guy is like her friend and he gives

her a sandwich and she's like, hey, I'll blow you

for it if you want it, and he's like no.

And I feel like it's so sad because they're just

showing that. I feel like anytime a man has shown

any sort of kindness to her, she feels that they

want something sexual.

Speaker 3: I don't know that she has, because that's like been

her whole life.

Speaker 2: Yeah, And so we cut to the scene. I was

talking about Lee doing a little bath in the sink

at the gas station, and I wrote about how I

was like, she looks skinny, and I don't understand.

Speaker 1: How we were, how they were, they was bad.

Speaker 2: Yeah, And she's doing her little eighties hair that sometimes

I wake up with. And then she goes to meet

Selba at the skating rink and they have fun and

they end up like making out and it's just really cute,

like really cute and also like kind of hot, like

they're both really into making out in like the ally

way whatever.

Speaker 3: And then.

Speaker 2: Oh, they want to get a hotel room so that

they can have sex, but they have no money, and

so Lee's like, I need to go make money, and

then all like we can hang out the next night

and I'll get us a hotel. Another thing that I

thought was funny is that they dance. They dance, they

skate to Don't Stop Believing by Journey, and my wife

calls this the white people anthem. So actors funny and

you have it's playing, white people will like flock like

we've been like on Bird Street.

Speaker 3: If a bar is playing that, like white people flock

in from the streets, They're like.

Speaker 1: Like, this is our son or that or the other one?

Speaker 3: Which one is it?

Speaker 1: Yes, everyone gets so hyped when they do that.

Speaker 2: I'm like, Oh. Another one that they recently put on

a commercial. I think this is kind of like a

country white person song is the oh my God, how

does it go?

Speaker 3: It's like I can't remember it? How does it go?

Speaker 2: It's like, oh take me home, oh country road?

Speaker 1: Oh yeah.

Speaker 3: It's also so bumpkin.

Speaker 2: But anyway, they I like that it was the white

people anthem that they were.

Speaker 3: They were skating too. Yeah.

Speaker 2: And so then we see the next day, Lee is

working to get some money and she gets picked up

by a guy and he is an evil rapist. You

can kind of tell he's like weird at first, but

she has to deal with weird guys all the time.

Speaker 1: So it's like nothing.

Speaker 2: Yeah, but then this guy is like really violent and

evil and a sadist and he basically almost kills her

and she ends up missing her date with Selby, and

she kills the guy in self defense and steals his car,

and then she goes to get Selby from the house

that she's staying at and they basically like run away

together and I was like moving out lesbian speed for real.

Speaker 1: They really did, because Selby doesn't really know, but she's

just like, I'll go with you.

Speaker 2: Like I think at first she was like you stood

me up and she's like no, like a.

Speaker 3: Lot of things, so many things.

Speaker 2: Yeah, but she doesn't want to tell her, which is

like also so sad because it's like she, I think,

has this like she views Selby as like this like

kind of like innocent little soul that she wants to protect.

She doesn't want to tell her like what happened to her,

and that's so sad.

Speaker 3: And so uh.

Speaker 2: Then they get a hotel room to stay in and

they they go to a bar and Lee is like, this,

here is my girlfriend, And for some reason, I remembered

it for literally twenty years. I remembered her going, this

is my bitch, and I was bating like that to people,

and I think people were just going along with it

because they were like, oh, she loves that movie. That

must be what happens. No, that does not happen. And

I am kind of famous for that's okay, But that's okay.

Speaker 1: You you made it your own okay.

Speaker 2: In my mind, she's like, hey, this is my bitch.

But she is giving definitely like daddy energy. She she

is I'll protect you like I got.

Speaker 3: I made the money for you.

Speaker 1: Yeah, and so.

Speaker 3: Let's see. Oh whoa, I went so far ahead in

my notes somehow. Okay.

Speaker 2: So then the next day we see Selby sneaking into

the house, the friend's house where she was staying because

she's trying to get her stuff, and the bitch lady,

who we found out is named.

Speaker 3: Donna Yeah, but Donna Yeah makes her talk.

Speaker 2: To her dad on the phone and she's like, I'm

not like coming back like I made a friend or

I don't even remember what she says.

Speaker 1: She's just like goodbye, yeah, like I'm done.

Speaker 2: And then we see like we cut to a different scene.

We see Lee burning evidence and stuff and then she

comes in and into the hotel room and tell Selby

like I'm quitting sex work, and Selby's like, well what

do I do? What are we supposed to do about money?

Like I spent all the money and I remember that.

Even though I think Christina Viggi is really pretty and

I think that she's a style icon in this movie,

I think Selby is a fucking cunt bitch.

Speaker 3: I hate her.

Speaker 1: Selby definitely had a lot wrong with her, and I

agree because if that were like, yes, she's something else.

Speaker 2: I just can't imagine like telling someone that they need

to go like do something they don't want to do. Yeah,

because she was lead Yeah, especially something that is so

traumatizing as being with like these gross men, and that

they need to do that to support me, like.

Speaker 1: Like I would do at a job.

Speaker 3: She's like, I have a job because of a broken arm.

You can get a job.

Speaker 1: You can get a job.

Speaker 2: I just feel like she's lazy and I don't like her,

and I feel like she just instantly wants Lee to

like take care of her, and she's.

Speaker 1: Like you got all this money, oh my god, and

like you're my girlfriend and you said you do all

this stuff and yes, I found out that you're doing

sex work, but like, can you keep doing it for me? Yeah,

I'd be like, no, what the fuck?

Speaker 3: Yeah, I think that's really weird.

Speaker 1: Oh poor Lee is like oh okay, Like I feel

like she loves no and that's why it's like yeah,

so then.

Speaker 2: She yeah, I wrote a lot about how I don't

like so yeah, yeah, I don't like you. Is all

excited to go get a regular job, like a non

sex work job, and we can tell she's kind of

like delusional, but also she's she's very uneducated. She's like,

I'll just be a VET or maybe I'll be the

president of the United States. And it's like, well, I mean,

I guess you don't really have to have a political

background to be the president of the United States.

Speaker 1: So you could be a felon and be the president.

Speaker 2: Yeah apparently, But I mean she's also a woman, so

that stacks against her in the eyes of a lot

of America. So it when she said she wanted to

be the VET or a president reminding me of this

girl I knew, Oh my god, she had this boyfriend

that was like such a loser. I think they got married.

So then it was a husband that was a loser

and he didn't have a job, and she's she was like, oh,

he's gonna apply at the State hospital. And I was like, oh,

like to do what like be like an aid or

something like that. You need to like go to school

to be like just like a psychic. And she's like, no,

he's going to be a psychiatrist. And I was like,

what the fuck like a doctor?

Speaker 1: And she's like yeah. And I was like, they're gonna

train him and give him a fucking degree.

Speaker 2: Does he have a Does he have like a doctorate

in anything? And she's like no, but like he went

to Questa. Oh I shouldn't say that he went to

junior college. And I'm like, oh my god, Okay, this

guy also robbed a store one time, and she told

me that she's pretty sure that the reason he robbed

the store is because someone drugged him and made him

rob the store.

Speaker 1: And I'm like, honey, I'm horrifor.

Speaker 2: He's a drug addict he drugged himself to go rob

the store. Anyway, I'm trying to process the fact that

the level of delusion.

Speaker 3: Wow, And I felt so bad because I was like,

oh no.

Speaker 1: And the worst part of it is that he's a man,

so somehow he could potentially get himself into a position

that he's not worthy for.

Speaker 2: Yes, okay, So anyway, that just reminded me of that

story because she was.

Speaker 3: Like, I'll just be able or the president.

Speaker 2: And so then she's like going around and trying to

get a job at an office and people are really

mean and they won't hire her.

Speaker 3: They're like, you don't have any experience.

Speaker 1: Yes, she's wearing.

Speaker 2: Like a cute little like business suit skirt suit, and

you know, I'm probably thrifted or whatever. It doesn't she's fancy,

but it's like she's trying, and I think she had

her little resume with her, but like it doesn't have

that much on it because she hasn't really like had

a regular job, and everyone's mean. This one guy, I

understand where he was coming from. She like applies to

work at like a law office, and he is like

so condescending and rude to her, Like he's like, oh,

you're from I think it's like Palm Beach or whatever.

It's like, well, let me tell you. When you decide

that the party's over, you don't get to just come

in and join what all of us worked our whole

lives for and like, he's just very rude to her.

And I don't think she was applying to be a lawyer.

I think she was applying to like to be in

the office, yeah, like sister or something.

Speaker 3: But anyway, he was just so rude and condescending.

Speaker 2: And then she's like, hey, fuck you, and then she

good for her throws a chair or something dramatic, and

I was like, Okay, she probably shouldn't have done that,

because then he's like, oh, I'm so sad I didn't

hire it out. But at the same time, I'm like

he needed to be she needed to.

Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't like that guy.

Speaker 2: So anyway, she's like all bummed because she was trying

really hard to get a regular job.

Speaker 3: And then.

Speaker 2: She uh sees a newspaper like on the street or whatever,

and it talks about the guy that she killed, the

evil rapist guy, and so it says his body was found.

So she's like she's like yeah, and then oh that

actually I think a little bit. Before that, this asshole

cop picks her up and makes her do sex stuff

like give him because.

Speaker 1: He's already picked before. And he's like, if you don't

want to go to jail then you know what to do.

And she's like, I'm not doing that anybody, Like I'm

trying to get a you know that. And then I

feel like that shows it like even though as hard

as she's trying to do that, it's what she's like

sort of being forced to do everybody like yeah in

that situation, but like by the person that she loves.

Speaker 2: I know, like should be the one person that is

like in her corner, yeah, and supporting her.

Speaker 3: Could be a veterinarian with.

Speaker 2: No school, but you know that she can get like

she can get a different job.

Speaker 3: Yeah.

Speaker 2: So anyway, that cop was an asshole, as we've said before.

So then uh, she goes home to Selby, and Selby's

like throwing a fit, being so dramatic, trying to cut

the cast off her because she's so sure that she

cannot find a job with a broken arm. I feel

like it would be harder if she had a broken

leg because she like can't really like Walt.

Speaker 1: But you like you can use one. Yeah, fine girl.

Speaker 2: Yeah, I've seen people working with the cast before. I

don't know, I feel like she could get her.

Speaker 1: They just have like modified duties. You can still get

a fucking.

Speaker 3: Job, Okay.

Speaker 2: So then Lee tells her the truth about how she

killed that evil guy, and she's like, that's why, like

I haven't been wanting to do it, and I've been

like kind of weird and freaked out. And then Lee

seems to kind of just decide whatever, I just have

to go back to sex work, like I have to because.

Speaker 3: I have no other options.

Speaker 2: Yeah, And so then we see her working again getting

picked up.

Speaker 3: She kills another guy and steals his car.

Speaker 2: After after that, she comes home and makes it rain

on Selby and then they look at this murder.

Speaker 1: Yeah.

Speaker 2: Then they have sex and they tell each other they

love each other. And the song playing is Crimson and

Clover by Jone Jet and I love that song. I

know that it's a cover, but I know that's the

I talked about that Andrea Gibson poem that talks about

do you remember the first time that we didn't have

to change like the pronouns in a song? And I

always felt like that with comes in Clover because I'm like,

this is a woman singing and she's like, I don't

hardly know her, yeah, but I think her okay, And

I love Jon Jett.

Speaker 3: I think she's so hot even though she's.

Speaker 1: She's old enough, but she's still fucking hot.

Speaker 2: And has had a lot of plastic surgery. I think

she's still hot.

Speaker 3: I love And so then they go they move to like.

Speaker 2: A nicer place, like a little like studio, one bedroom house,

and they're living their best lives. They go to a

diner and Lee is like so proud to be with Selby,

which is really cute. She's just like wants to take

on this like provider protector role. And then and then

they're smoking at the diner and the waiters like you

can't and Lee freaks out and pushes him because I

feel like she's like, don't tell my woman what to do.

Speaker 3: Yeah, like you know, came back the fuck up.

Speaker 1: Yeah.

Speaker 3: And so.

Speaker 2: That was interesting, but it's just an example of how

she doesn't have if we couldn't tell she doesn't really have,

Like she's not very emotionally regulated.

Speaker 3: Right, Like she has.

Speaker 2: Had a lot of things happen, and I don't feel

like she's been offered a lot of resources and mental

health assistance in her life either, and she's just had

to figure out how to like deal. So then we

cut to seeing Lee practice with her gun again, and

then she ends up meeting this like nice awkward man

who is he plays the bad guy in Identity, which

is one of my favorites.

Speaker 3: I was like, wait, have you seen that?

Speaker 2: No, you haven't seen Identity.

Speaker 3: Oh my god, it's so good.

Speaker 2: It's with John Cusack and Amanda Key and it's like

a scary movie. They like are at They all end

up at like a hotel like in the middle of nowhere.

Speaker 1: Wait is this where like that person has like multiple

I'm sorry, guys, if you haven't figured out here, there's

gonna be spoilers. But I think I have seen that. Yeah,

but it's so good.

Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, it's really good. This actor plays the bad

guy whatever. Okay, So the guy that she decides not

to kill is the guy that plays a bad guy

in Identity. He just seems very like awkward and nice,

and she's trying to like get him to say creepy

things because us if she says like something to them,

they'll be like, yeah, I like it, rough, I want

to I want to push.

Speaker 3: You around, you know. And then she's like feels justified because.

Speaker 1: They're like where they're like creepy and she's just like,

you know, I bet you're like this or that or whatever.

Speaker 2: One guy, one guy was like call me daddy, and

she's like why.

Speaker 1: He's like what, He's like wait what? Well it is.

Speaker 2: I do think it's weird though, even though I say

it as a joke, but like I would never I know,

not yucking anyone's young, but like if I called my

wife daddy or like Poppy.

Speaker 3: Oh my god, probably freak out.

Speaker 1: Like yeah, she's like Kaitlin, don't ever call like seriously. Yeah.

Speaker 2: So anyway, interesting, and so she doesn't kill that one

nice guy, but she does kill other guys. She goes

on a spree and Selby doesn't know. I feel like

Selby knows. Selby decides to take the car and a

joy ride to a lesbian bar and she tries to

make friends by acting like Lee, like she steals her

story about like yelling at the guy and throwing a

chair and stuff. And anyway, she comes home and Lee

is really mad because obviously the car belongs to a

dead person. How did Selby not know she was still

doing this?

Speaker 3: I don't know. I feel like she was playing down.

Speaker 1: I was like, wait, what, You're still doing this? Girl,

how do you think this?

Speaker 3: Okay, she's so whiny and annoying.

Speaker 1: Oh, I can hear her murder, I can hear her words,

but she's like please you know her like typical Christina, She's.

Speaker 3: Like, I recrying stop.

Speaker 1: Okay.

Speaker 2: So then Lee is like, I want to do fun stuff,

like I want to go to like fun World, and so.

Speaker 3: She's like, we want to go to fun World. I'll

take you a fun World.

Speaker 2: So then she does take her to fun World, which

looks like this, like a fair, and Selby like basically

ditches her to go hang out with her for that always,

which is so rude.

Speaker 3: And I feel like.

Speaker 2: I don't know if they really talked about it, but

I feel like Lee is kind of used to people

being embarrassed of her. I think she said something about

her siblings being embarrassed.

Speaker 1: And no one wanted to be seen with her because

they knew like her reputation. But even like how she

presents herself where like Selby's family, friends, whatever, where like

she's a street person, like you could tell like she's

no good or whatever. Yeah, it broke my heart to

see that Selby the person that Lee is so like

proud to show off and be like this is my girl.

She's embarrassed, and she's just like, you know, like we're

gonna go hang out and do that, and like with

that her you know.

Speaker 2: It's like it was so rude, and then oh yeah it.

Speaker 3: Was like her.

Speaker 2: She ditches Lee even though she's literally killing people to

support her.

Speaker 1: Yeah, exactly.

Speaker 2: So basically at the end, they like do meet up

at fun World, and like Lee is like forgiving of

her because I feel like she's used to people being

embarrassed by her.

Speaker 3: She's fucked up.

Speaker 2: Yeah, anyway, So basically she's been on like this killing spree,

killing John's to support herself and Selby, and then one

day they're driving and Selby crashes the car into someone's

yard and they try to run away because obviously the

car is like stolen from a dead dom siss and yeah,

I know she makes me so much, and then they

the family or whatever that lived there did see them though,

and they're like, no, no, it's fine, I can start it,

and like Lee starts it up and then they go

like drive away and liked somewhere and Selby's like this

is I don't want to walk because She's like we're

gonna have to walk, and.

Speaker 1: She's like, no, wan to walk, I want to drive.

Speaker 3: And I'm like, why are you so lazy?

Speaker 1: Like you can already yeah exactly.

Speaker 2: And so then Lee kind of feels like she needs

to tell her like this car belongs to a dead band,

like I've been killing people, like and then I wrote

about that I liked Selby's Dickie's and tank top and

that she looked really cute. She's annoying, but I went

and bought Dickies because I wanted to.

Speaker 1: I like the style, not the personality exactly.

Speaker 2: And so then I think when they're at home, Lee

shows Selby all the newspaper articles she's been saving about

all the victims, and she's like, you definitely knew and yeah.

Speaker 3: He's like I didn't know, and she's like, yes.

Speaker 1: She's a girl. Don't play dumb with me. You knew.

Speaker 3: Yeah. And then Lee is wearing a cool wolf shirt

like one of these.

Speaker 2: Oh yeah, and I love those, and I was like.

Speaker 3: I want to buy one of those from my wife.

Speaker 1: Oh my god.

Speaker 2: And Selby tells Lee that she can't kill people, and

Lee's like, who says men are bad? Like I don't

know that she said that but I wrote men are

bad and treated her like shit, who fucking cans? Yeah,

so Lee makes a good point. She says people kill

each other for dumb shit all the time, and they're

viewed as heroes when they kill for like religion or

whatever or politics, and I kill rapists and somehow I'm bad.

I'm like, yeah, she's making what I'm saying. And so

Lee's like, you know what, I've been saving money. We

just need to do a little bit more and then

we can get out of here and start a new life,

like I'll buy you a house by the beach or

whatever that she wanted. And so then the next day,

Selby meets up with Donna, that like bitch lady that

was the family friend, and she's like, I just want

you to know that we're leaving and you can tell

my family like we're gonna move away. Donna talks shit

about Lee, and then she also says the N word,

which is weird and racist. I don't even know why

she said that.

Speaker 3: I don't remember.

Speaker 1: I don't remember either, but I don't remember whatever.

Speaker 2: She's basically saying that people with bad lives choose to

have bad lives, And then I wrote is Donna a

secret gay because she keeps saying like, you need security

and stability, even if you have to sleep with a

man to get it. And it made me think, does

she feel like she's being with a man for security?

And she probably she doesn't really like them, I don't know.

So that was interesting. Then we see Lee find out

that one of the guys she killed is a cop,

and so she doesn't steal his car, and she runs

home to ask Selby, like to pack up stuff that

they need to move and only take all the stuff

that can fit on a bus because they don't have

a car, and Selby's like no, and Selby's like, go

get another car. And so basically she's telling her to

go kill another guy a man car And I just

really don't like her.

Speaker 1: Yeah, the audacity, yes.

Speaker 2: And so like the cops are starting to close in

on them. The people that they crashed into their that

saw them, they describe them and then they're sketches of

them on the news. And Lee goes to kill one

last guy. It's sad because he's the only one that

actually seems like a nice person and he was not

even picking her up for sex stuff. He was just

trying to be nice, but she is at this point

of like desperation where she's like, I'm gonna get caught

if I don't do this. Also Selby. I have to

have Selby, like she is the love of my life.

And so she does kill him, and she she I

guess she I think she almost didn't kill him, but

he saw the gun and she's like that's when.

Speaker 1: She's like, I couldn't let you go.

Speaker 2: Yes, She's like, I had to do it. Then Lee

ends up buying a bus ticket for Selby to go home.

So basically they're like breaking up at the at the

bus stop, and Lea's crying because she feels bad for

what she's done.

Speaker 3: Also I think.

Speaker 2: Because she can't have Selby anymore because Selby is leaving.

She's asking Selby for forgiveness and also asking her like

to come back to her at some point, and she's

saying I will, but I feel like they both know

that they're both not gonna happen. And then the bus

drives away with Selby on it, and then I think

it's supposed to be the same night or sometime soon after,

we cut to Lee being drunk at the bar like

her regular favorite bar, and some creepy like biker dudes.

They're trying to talk to her and her friend Tom,

who is like the guy that gave her the sandwich,

the manager of the storage place. He's he's like, come on,

let's go outside. He's trying to get her to go

like out to the back of the bar, and he

tries to get her to go in the car with

him because I feel like he knows that the cops

are like onto her, something sketchy's happening, and so he's

trying to help her, but she is so used to

men being creepy she thinks that he's trying to take

advantage of her, like she's like, you have a wife,

why are you doing this? Like it's not you, Like

what the fuck Tom? And so she's like, I can't

leave anyway because Selby's gonna call me like at the

bar or whatever, because they didn't have cell phones yet

because this was the nineties, the early nineties, and so anyway,

so then she goes with those guys convince her to

like walk outside the bar in the front, and then

they were totally like undercover cops or hired by the

cops or whatever, because as soon as they get her outside,

the cops come and like get her and arrest her,

and then we see her in jail and she calls

Selby and she's talking to Selby, and Selby, as I said,

I hate her, she set her up on a recorded

line and gets her to confess. She's like egging her

to confess, like I don't remember the exact wording, but

she's like when you did it.

Speaker 1: Yeah, and Lee I feel like picks up on that.

Speaker 3: Yeah.

Speaker 1: It's like, yeah, I did it all and you knew

nothing about it.

Speaker 3: It's it's so sad. She loves her so much.

Speaker 2: Yeah, And so then they show Lee in court, so

we're flashing forward to like her actually being tried. They

play the fucked up confession and Selby testifies against her.

They show Selby like point at her, and it's so sad.

They have this like meaningful eye contact and it's it's

just fucked up because obviously Lee loves her so much.

And the movie ends with her famous outbursts that I

talked about, where she's saying she tells the judge to

rotten hell for sending a rape woman to death, and

basically it ends with like her going into prison and

then it tells you at the end that like she

had just been put to death.

Speaker 3: So oh.

Speaker 2: Also it says that Eileen and Selby never spoke again,

which I feel like, we can break tell was gonna happen.

Speaker 3: But it's so sad. Yeah, it's like.

Speaker 2: So.

Speaker 3: I love this movie, but it's such a downor it is.

I was like, oh my god, I'm so excited and

talk about sad, but it's really good.

Speaker 2: It won awards for a reason, and you know, I mean,

I don't know if have you watched it any of

like the documentaries about I did.

Speaker 1: I watched I watched the documentary on her and I

watched her interview, but then I watched another Like it's

not like it was a movie on her, but they

sort of labeled it as like a documentary, but it

was like with actors.

Speaker 3: And stuff, like the really bad one when she was young.

Speaker 1: Yes, and it was like a girl that looks like

nothing like her, and it was showing that, like it

was trying to show a different story because there's so

many opinions on her that either one she obviously was

like forced into this lifestyle and this like it explains

the reason why she made these decisions and then the

other part of it. They were like, it's calculated, she's

always been this way. She's covering her tracks. She deserved

to die, which I don't agree with. So no.

Speaker 2: Well, also, maybe we'll have another fun topic someday, we

can talk about our views on the death penalty. Yeah,

about such deep things.

Speaker 3: But no.

Speaker 2: I watched one documentary or like docuseries, and I the

cop that like detective whatever that ended up being like

a big part of catching her.

Speaker 3: Was such a disgusting pig.

Speaker 2: He was, like he talked about when he met her

at the bar and he was undercover, and he was like,

she just kept crying about her fat ugly dyke girlfriend.

And I was like, you're just also a fat ugly

dike and what all you do is cry about your

fat ugly dyke girl. Like he kept saying fat ugly dyke.

And I was like, this man is fat and ugly.

He's just mad because these women don't want him, Like

why are.

Speaker 1: You also what a way to be speaking about people

as an a police officer.

Speaker 2: Oh yeah, it's like if things are supposed to be

like fair and you're innocent until proven guilty, but he already.

Speaker 1: There's a bias already. H he already just doesn't like

her in general.

Speaker 3: Because anyway, so the moment you've all been waiting for.

Speaker 2: I did think about not doing much merge murder because

it centers on murder, but I wanted to do it

because I wanted to talk about the characters.

Speaker 3: So we're doing it anyway.

Speaker 2: So uh, munch merged, murder, Lee, Selby, and Donna.

Speaker 1: Go. Okay, I feel like it's really obvious. I know

I'm going to merge with Lee. I'm going to munch

Selby and then murder Donna.

Speaker 3: Yeah.

Speaker 1: I almost wanted to murder Selby for a second, but

I dislike Donna too, so I feel like she kind

of has to go. Selby can be like a one

night stand and then Lee obviously you know what about you?

Speaker 3: I agree.

Speaker 2: I think like, at least, even though I don't like

Selby as a person, at least she's gay.

Speaker 3: And she has cute style.

Speaker 2: I think I've seen the real Selby and she looks

nothing like Cassina Ricci.

Speaker 1: Yeah, but because they did such a good job with

Charlie's their own yeah for Eileen, but for Selby, I'm like, Okay,

they definitely went off.

Speaker 2: No, she looks nothing like Christina Ricci and and it

also makes me think of, I know, you haven't really

seen it, but Orange is the New Black. It was

like based off of real people, at least like the

first few characters whatever. Alex Boss, who's played by Laura Prepon,

she looked nothing like I remember when the show came

out and they showed the real person and I was like, oh.

Speaker 1: Like that's very loosely based.

Speaker 2: Yeah, I was like, not exactly what I would have thought,

but that's okay. But I do feel like part of

it was the appealing to the male gaze type of

thing because Richie, Well they made in Orange is the

New Black, they made you know, Alex Boss. The real

person was very butch, and the character was like fem rockabilly,

but she had like dom like energy, she had like

top energy, but she was definitely like feminine.

Speaker 3: So anyway, I just thought it was interesting.

Speaker 2: I love to talk about other shows that you haven't

really seen.

Speaker 1: We should do like a watch party, and I think,

n back, let us know if you guys want that,

because yeah, I want to, but I also don't want

to start it. And then I'm like, oh, my god,

it's not new to me anymore because.

Speaker 3: I know, I know we're waiting. We're waiting for you guys,

tell us if you want it.

Speaker 1: All we need is one yes, yes, exactly, We'll do it. Yeah.

Speaker 3: Okay, so.

Speaker 2: We need to rate this movie on a scale of

one to five.

Speaker 3: But what would you rate it?

Speaker 1: I would rate this movie of five out a five.

Speaker 3: Cheers me too. I love it.

Speaker 2: It's one of my favorites. I just feel like it's

really well done. I think they did a good job

of humanizing the characters, but I don't think they went

too biased on her because they did show like the

last character, like the last guy that she killed, And yeah,

I thought it was really good.

Speaker 3: I also felt like there weren't that many.

Speaker 2: Movies where there were lesbian storylines, but they weren't, like

the main thing was that it was about lesbians, Like

it just happens to have a lesbian love story on

the side.

Speaker 1: It's more like more crime for sure.

Speaker 2: So I thought that was interesting. But yeah, five out

of five, of course, one of my faves. I've been

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Speaker 1: Welcome back and get ready for our next segment, What's

up with the headoes?

Speaker 2: Yeah?

Speaker 3: What is up with them?

Speaker 1: So for this we wanted to do, uh, am I

the Asshole? Reddit story? But obviously this is a straight couple,

because I don't think a gay couple would ever with this.

So basically, right, am I the asshole? For kicking my

boyfriend out after he acted jealous over my cat, which

I think is pretty obvious. No, You're not the asshole. No,

your boyfriend's the asshole. Yes, so they said, this was

originally posted on am I the Asshole? But this is

I specifically looked for a relationship straight couples, they said. So,

I twenty four female, and my boyfriend, who I'll call Nathan,

twenty six male, have been to right Nathan, such a

fucking douchey name. Have been together for around two years.

I got my cat Toby six years ago and I

love him with all my heart. Maybe Toby yeah, I'm

like picturing Toby.

Speaker 2: I picture him gray and like a little chubby. Yeah,

like just a cute, little fluffy guy.

Speaker 1: Yeah. Last night Nathan came over to my apartment and

this was posted about five days ago, so very recent, guys. Okay,

last night Nathan came over to my apartment and we

were just sitting on my couch watching Netflix while eating snacks,

pretty standard stuff. Toby eventually jumped onto the couch and

started trying to cuddle me, as as cats do. Nathan

seemed to get a bit pissed off at this, but

I ignored it and started cuddling Toby. After a few minutes,

he started suddenly trying to push Toby off of me.

I got really confused at this and asked what the

hell was he doing. He started talking about how Toby

was taking all of my attention and that he felt unloved.

Mind you, I didn't stop being affectionate with him. While

cuddling Toby, my head was on his shoulder and I

was holding his hand with my free one, so like

she's holding his hand and like laying her head on

his shoulder, and then Toby petting him with the other one.

So it's not like she's like, fuck my boyfriend, like

here's my cat only, which is totally acceptable to in

my opinion, but she is still showing him affection. And

so she said. I told him that he was being ridiculous,

and he said, I'm not being ridiculous. You just like

that dumb cat more than me. I was pissed.

Speaker 2: Yeah, little Toby, he's a smart boy.

Speaker 1: Right, He just he's literally doing nothing wrong. He's doing

Oh my god. So I was pissed, and can you

guys already guess what we think about this. I was

pissed and tired at this point, so I just asked

him to leave my apartment. He's been blowing up my

phone ever since he got home, saying stuff like I

can't believe you kicked me out over that stupid cat.

And all I wanted was for you to pay attention

to me. I haven't responded yet.

Speaker 3: Playing the victim much. Oh, I just wanted to attention.

Speaker 1: And not even that. Maybe whatever his little outburst was,

he could have apologized and been like, you know, I'm

definitely in the wrong here, but no, he didn't double down.

He said, I can't believe you kicked me out over

that stupid cat.

Speaker 2: Yeah, no, no, Well, I'm gonna tell you that I

would never be with someone that didn't love cats, so

this would probably have never ever happened.

Speaker 3: But she's not the asshole.

Speaker 2: Somebody that is going to call the cat names is

probably not a person that you want to be with. Also,

she was still paying attention to him. Yeah, And I

just want to say that, like, we have a lot

of animals, my wife and I, but like there have

definitely maybe we're more on the extreme side, but like

we put their comfort above ours. Like we they're like

sleeping on the bed. We're like all uncomfortable and weird positions.

Sometimes we want to make out and do stuff and

we can't because the dog won't move off the she

wants to be in the.

Speaker 3: Middle, so we're like, oh, sorry, I love you, but.

Speaker 2: Can't do anything tonight. So I'm just saying like she

was still paying attention.

Speaker 3: To him, so exactly, she was more.

Speaker 1: She's multitasking and that The crazy thing about that is

that they had been dating for two years. She had

Toby for six years, so obviously before him, and he

never showed like that until literally when she posted it,

and it was last night that he like got fed up,

so he must have felt that way exactly, and then

it was just like a build up and then he

let it, you know, he let it out during that

time and she was just like, uh no, what the fuck,

that's weird.

Speaker 3: Yeah.

Speaker 2: I was thinking that too, like he had pent up

resentment and he didn't say anything.

Speaker 3: About it, and then he did. I want to know

what's his sign?

Speaker 1: Oh my god, No, she didn't post anything.

Speaker 3: I know the comments sign.

Speaker 1: The comments are all like he's jealous of your cat,

the red flag, he's a loser, he's a loser. And

I'm like, yeah, everyone's saying like with hi, ump, everyone's

saying dump that loser. It's a red flag for him

to be treating or speaking that way or just even

feel that way, because it's giving I want your attention

only on me, focused, and if it's.

Speaker 2: Over potential abusive, but yes, because it's like I need

you isolated from everyone.

Speaker 1: Yeah, even your cat, which is fucking crazy.

Speaker 3: Yeah.

Speaker 1: So in a way I'm sad that she is with

somebody like that that their true colors are, but good

because now I guess she has a lot of people

supporting her, yeah, and saying dump him.

Speaker 2: Including us, she's gonna dump him and be like, all

these people on Reddit agreed that you're the asshole here.

Speaker 1: I'm waiting for the little like do you know when

they do the update like whatever, I dumped him, and

I'm like, it's not happened yet, guys. So she's probably

getting over a breakup. I hope.

Speaker 3: Yeah.

Speaker 2: Well, I am glad that we found that one, and

I'm glad that other people agreed, and I hope she

does break up with him.

Speaker 1: Yeah.

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