Lao Tzu was a legendary ancient Chinese philosopher credited as the founder of
Taoism and the author of its most sacred book, the Tao Te Ching. According to Taoism,
real freedom comes from letting go and moving with the natural flow of your life, known as the Tao.
However today, we’re taught the opposite. We are taught that freedom is something you buy with
a massive pile of money - a goal that requires decades of stress, debt, and "hustle" to achieve.
We think that if we just reach a certain number in our bank account, we can finally stop running.
But Lao Tzu suggested that this is a trap. He believed that if you are working a job
you hate to pay for a lifestyle that exhausts you, you aren't building freedom - you are
building a more expensive cage. Taoism asks you to take a step back and simplify. Reduce
what you depend on. When you reduce what you depend on, you reduce what can control you.
In this video, we’ll look at how this Taoist blueprint can help you build real
freedom — not by getting rich, but by realizing that you already have enough.
1. Practice Zhi Zhu Lao Tzu says, “He who knows
that enough is enough will always have enough.” He believed that true freedom isn't about how
much you have, but about the size of the gap between what you have and what you
want. If you want a thousand things, you are a slave to a thousand things. But if
you want very little, you are already free. There is an old story of a wealthy merchant
who sees a fisherman napping peacefully by his boat in the afternoon sun. The merchant asks,
“Why aren't you out catching more fish?” The fisherman says he’s already caught enough for
today. The merchant scoffs and explains that if he worked harder, he could buy a bigger boat,
then a fleet of boats, and eventually build an empire. “Then,” the merchant says,
“you could retire and spend your days napping by the sea.” The fisherman just smiles and asks,
“What do you think I’m doing right now?” In Taoism, this is called Zhi Zhu, which
simply means “knowing what is enough.” Imagine your life is a bucket. Most
people spend their entire lives trying to pour more water — money, status,
or possessions — into that bucket. The problem is that because their desires are endless,
the bucket has a hole in the bottom. No matter how hard they work or how much they earn, the
bucket never fills up, and they never feel safe. Zhi Zhu is the act of plugging that hole. It is
the moment you decide that your current reality is sufficient - more than what
is needed to live a happy, decent life. Most people, as soon as they earn more,
spend more on a better car or a bigger house. Their lifestyle keeps up with their income,
so they stay at zero happiness and zero freedom. To buy your freedom, you must set a “hard ceiling”
on your lifestyle. If you decide that a simple, functional home is your “enough,” and you refuse
to upgrade it just to impress people, you have effectively bought back years of your life.
By keeping your needs small, you are refusing to be a slave to so-called “precious” things.
2. The Strategy of the Low Point
Lao Tzu says “Why is the sea the king of a hundred streams? Because it lies below them”
Most people spend their entire lives trying to "climb the ladder." We are conditioned to believe
that the higher we go - the bigger the title, the more prestigious the neighborhood - the safer and
freer we will be. But Lao Tzu pointed out a fundamental flaw in this logic:
the top is where the wind is strongest. The person at the peak is the one most likely to fall,
the one most watched, and the one with the most to lose. In Taoism, seeking the "high
point" is a form of structural vulnerability. The strategy to counter this is seeking the
"Low Point," or Xia. Lao Tzu observed that water is the most powerful force in nature because it
contentedly flows to the low places that others despise. By doing so, it becomes the foundation
of everything. In human terms, this means finding freedom by occupying a space that
no one else is fighting for. If you are content with a simple home or a humble job, you aren't
"failing" at the game of life—you are effectively becoming invisible to the players. Choosing the
low point isn't about being lazy or giving up; it’s about trading a high-status headache for
a life where you actually own your own time. Think about who the world targets. The taxman,
the thief, the tyrant, and the envious neighbor all look toward the "high
points." They look for the person with the loudest brand and the most visible assets.
When you occupy the Low Point, you stay below the radar of the systems that want to extract your
time and energy. You gain geographic and social freedom because you aren't forced to defend an
expensive lifestyle or a high-status reputation. To transition toward this state of peace,
you can perform a Visibility Audit. Ask yourself: "How much of my stress comes from maintaining a
position that others want to take from me?" If you are working a high-stress job just to
keep a title that makes you a target for office politics, you are at a "high point." Buying your
freedom means having the courage to step down to a "lower" position that pays enough for your needs
but carries zero ego-baggage. You aren't winning the race; you have simply stepped off the track.
3. Become the Uncarved Block Lao Tzu says, “When the uncarved
block is cut, it becomes a tool. The sage uses it to remain the master of all tools.”
From the time we are children, society pressures us to become a “shape” that
fits into the economy - a doctor, a lawyer, a coder, or a manager. We spend decades carving
ourselves into these highly specific tools so we can earn a high salary.
But there is a danger here: a tool is only useful if someone else is using it. If you are a highly
specialized scalpel, you are only valuable as long as there is a surgeon to hold you and a
hospital to work in. If that system changes or disappears, you aren't free - you are stuck.
Imagine a block of wood. In its raw state, it has infinite potential. It could become a table,
a bowl, a tool, or a piece of art. But once it is carved into a chair, it can only ever be a chair.
It has lost its ability to be anything else. Taoism suggests that the secret to long-term
freedom is to remain as “uncarved” as possible. Lao Tzu calls the natural, original state of a
human being the Pu, or the “Uncarved Block.” This doesn’t mean you shouldn't have skills;
it means you shouldn’t let your survival or your identity be tied to one single, rigid role.
Think of a corporate executive who has spent thirty years specialized in one
niche industry. They have a massive mortgage, expensive private school fees, and a lifestyle
that requires a massive monthly check. This person is not free. They are “highly carved.”
They are terrified of the future because they know they cannot function outside of that specific
machine. They have high maintenance costs, both in their bank account and in their mind.
In contrast, the person who embraces the “Uncarved Block” maintains a simple and
versatile existence. Because they haven't carved themselves into a single, expensive shape,
they don’t need the world to stay exactly as it is for them to be okay. If one industry fails, they
can easily shift to another because their ego and their expenses aren't tied to a specific title.
By keeping your needs low and your skills broad, you make yourself “anti-fragile.”
Look at your life and ask: “If my specific job title was deleted tomorrow,
what would be left of me?” If the answer feels empty, it’s a sign you’ve carved
too much of your soul into a temporary role. Start by diversifying your utility - learn skills
that don't belong to a corporation, but to you. Buy your freedom by staying “uncarved” - retaining
the power to be a beginner again, to start over, and to move wherever the current takes
you without breaking. 4. Surrender
Lao Tzu says, “Nature does nothing, yet nothing is left undone.”
We often mistake struggle for progress. To understand this, we have to understand
Wu Wei. Often translated as “effortless action,” Wu Wei means acting with such perfect timing and
alignment that you aren’t forcing a result. Most of us are addicted to forcing things
to happen. We push conversations, careers, relationships — even our own growth. Somewhere
along the way, we learned that if we’re not exhausted, we haven’t earned our success.
Effort became proof. Struggle became a virtue. Rest began to feel like weakness. But in Taoism,
constant struggle is an error, it’s a sign that something is out of alignment.
Think of a master sailor versus a novice. A beginner tries to “muscle” the boat,
rowing against the tide until their hands bleed. A master sailor spends most of their time observing.
They identify the current and the wind. If the wind is blowing north and they need to go south,
they don't fight the gale. They tack — tilting the sails so the wind’s
own energy pushes them where they need to go. In your world, that “wind” is market demand or
your natural obsessions. Freedom starts the second you stop rowing and let the sails take the weight.
In nature, rigid things break. A dry branch snaps in a storm, while soft things like grass bend
and survive. Water doesn’t resist the rock — it flows around it, and over time, it reshapes it.
Modern grind culture is like that dry branch. It tells you to push harder, break through,
overpower every obstacle. Taoism asks a different question: why try to smash the
obstacle when you can move around it? Imagine a guy who opens a traditional
bookstore in a digital neighborhood. He doubles down, staying open fourteen hours a
day and spending a fortune on ads. This is forced action. He is burning his life savings to fight a
reality that doesn't care about his effort. Now imagine he applies Wu Wei. Just like the
master sailor, he stops rowing and observes. He notices people aren't looking for books, but for
a quiet space to record podcasts. He pivots, clears the shelves, and turns the shop into a
“Creator Space.” Suddenly, the wind catches his sails. He doesn't have to hustle for customers;
they are already looking for him. He works fewer hours, makes more money, and his stress vanishes.
He bought his freedom by moving his boat to where the water was already flowing.
To practice this, ask yourself: “Am I doing this because it’s effective, or because I want to
feel like a hard worker?” Many of us invent “busy work” just to justify our own stress.
To buy back your freedom, perform a low-energy pivot away from anything that
requires soul-crushing force. If a project feels like a constant war, surrender — not
because you’re weak, but because you’re too smart to spend your life fighting a river.
By choosing the path of least resistance, you realize that “rich” is just a number,
but “freedom” is the total absence of unnecessary struggle.
5. Owning Your Time, Not Things Lao Tzu says, “Which is more dear:
your life or your wealth? Which is more valuable: your person or your possessions?”
Taoism teaches that the only thing you truly own is your time. Lao Tzu observed that nature
follows a perfect rhythm. The seasons don't rush. The tide flows in and out without effort. Things
work best when they move at their natural speed. In Taoism, this natural rhythm is the balance of
Yin and Yang. Yin and Yang is represented by a symbol called the Taijitu , contrasting black
and white halves. A lot of people mistake it for a battle between good and evil. But in Taoism,
they aren't enemies fighting for control; they are simply the complementary forces
that keep the universe breathing. Just like nature, we too demand
this balance. Yin is your rest, your stillness, and your peace. Yang is your action, your work,
and your output. You work, and then you rest. You earn, and then you spend.
But we have built an artificial financial system that destroys
this balance, and its main tool is debt. When you take on heavy debt to expand your
lifestyle today, you are artificially forcing your life into a state of permanent Yang. You
aren't just borrowing money; you are borrowing against your time, against your peace. We buy
a massive house, but we are never home to sit in it because we are stuck at the office paying for
the mortgage. And if your income starts to dip, or your business faces an uncertain future, that
debt becomes a trap. You can't step back to care for your family or simply catch your breath. You
are legally signing away your right to rest - your Yin - because you are forced to keep producing.
In Taoism, the physical world is often referred to as the "Ten Thousand Things" - the endless
collection of objects, gadgets, and assets that compete for our attention.
We usually think that owning more things makes us more powerful, but the Taoist perspective is
the exact opposite: every object you own is a tether that pulls on your freedom.
In this cycle, the objects you “own” eventually end up owning you. If you buy a high-maintenance
luxury car on credit, that car now owns a portion of your time, your bank account, and your anxiety.
You aren't just a driver; you have become a servant to a machine. Many "rich" people are
really just high-level security guards for their own property. They spend their weekends managing
repairs, their evenings worrying about insurance, and their workdays earning money to protect what
they’ve already bought. They are so busy defending their "Ten Thousand Things" that they have no
energy left to actually enjoy being alive. Buying your freedom means practicing Skillful
Detachment. It means to use things, but never let them use you. It is the
conscious decision to reclaim your rhythm. To practice this, stop asking how much a
thing costs in money and start asking how much it costs in life. If a purchase costs
you three years of working a job that drains your soul, you aren't buying an object — you
are selling three years of your existence. Go through your home and ask: "Does this
object serve me, or do I serve it?" By letting go of the unnecessary,
you realize the math of freedom is simple: If your cost of living is only 20% of what you make, you
are actually five times “richer” than someone who earns ten times more than you but spends 95% of it
to maintain a luxury lifestyle. That high-earner is a prisoner to their bills; they can’t quit,
they can’t rest, and they can’t say no. Freedom is found the moment you realize you can always
earn more money, but you can never earn more Tuesday afternoons. Money can return. Time cannot.
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