<v Speaker 1>Jeremy, Katy, and Josh in the morning Nick one hundred.
<v Speaker 2>So I came in this morning and Katie was like,
<v Speaker 2>oh my god, I gotta show you this TikTok video
<v Speaker 2>I do.
<v Speaker 3>It's blowing up online.
<v Speaker 2>Which side note, every time she says anything about anything
<v Speaker 2>on TikTok or Instagram, it's always it's time followed by
<v Speaker 2>it's blowing up. This is all anybody is talking about.
<v Speaker 4>Making the round.
<v Speaker 3>And I was like, really, I've never heard about it.
<v Speaker 3>Tell me about it.
<v Speaker 1>Well, here's the backstory, right, So, the story is about
<v Speaker 1>a woman named Quinn. She went viral this year Jair,
<v Speaker 1>and she's from right here in Denver. So all this
<v Speaker 1>happened at a Denver coffee shop, right. So, she was
<v Speaker 1>hanging out at this coffee shop and she witnessed a
<v Speaker 1>man who she identified, should we say his name?
<v Speaker 4>It's okay?
<v Speaker 3>Well is it all over?
<v Speaker 1>It's all over the end, exactly anybody's talking about. So,
<v Speaker 1>Quinn identified a guy, Cody, on what appeared to be
<v Speaker 1>an early date that Cody was having with another woman. Right, So,
<v Speaker 1>she posted a video saying, Hey, I just saw cute
<v Speaker 1>guy Cody, and I just want to say Cody if
<v Speaker 1>you're single, I want to quote throw my hat in
<v Speaker 1>the ring.
<v Speaker 4>Okay. So she joked that she was not on.
<v Speaker 1>Dating apps and that the approach was quote creepy in itself,
<v Speaker 1>but she felt compelled to try because she witnessed him
<v Speaker 1>on a date and she didn't think that it was
<v Speaker 1>going very well. So she was just like, I want
<v Speaker 1>to shoot my shot. And that's where all of this started.
<v Speaker 1>Is because she went on TikTok and expressed all this.
<v Speaker 3>That's a large assumption.
<v Speaker 4>She did not go.
<v Speaker 3>Well, yeah, she's like she was in the moment. She
<v Speaker 3>probably could have heard. She's like, this is a night.
<v Speaker 1>And she overheard somebody let him introduce himself. That's how
<v Speaker 1>she knows his name. I'm super really kind of creepy
<v Speaker 1>about it a little, and she says so herself that
<v Speaker 1>it was a little cringe, right. But she went on
<v Speaker 1>TikTok and she was just like, you know, I'm gonna
<v Speaker 1>shoot my shot.
<v Speaker 4>I'm just gonna put it out there.
<v Speaker 1>If Cody sees this, just let you know I'm interested,
<v Speaker 1>So hit me up. And people are divided with that.
<v Speaker 1>They're like, is that okay? I feel like that is
<v Speaker 1>crossing so many lines.
<v Speaker 3>You know, it's really no different than like the missed connections.
<v Speaker 3>Back in the day, you would go on to Craigslist
<v Speaker 3>and be like, hey, I saw you on the light rail.
<v Speaker 3>You were with somebody, but I.
<v Speaker 4>Think with somebody though, that's the currect I mean.
<v Speaker 2>There was a million scenarios on those misconnections, right.
<v Speaker 1>Usually the miss connections are just I saw you out
<v Speaker 1>and about I saw you look at me.
<v Speaker 4>I looked at you a little bit? Was that in
<v Speaker 4>my head?
<v Speaker 1>Or do you want to make it something. I've never
<v Speaker 1>seen a misconnection where somebody was out on a date
<v Speaker 1>and somebody else tried to shoot their shot because if.
<v Speaker 3>They don't have a ring on them, it's fair game, right.
<v Speaker 4>I don't know. I don't like that rule. I don't,
<v Speaker 4>but we have.
<v Speaker 1>You know, there's a lot of people on TikTok talking
<v Speaker 1>about about it right now, and one specifically is the guys.
<v Speaker 1>The guys are really the guys are fired up and
<v Speaker 1>they're not having it.
<v Speaker 4>So that's where like with you guys.
<v Speaker 1>Having your stance right now, like typically the men, the
<v Speaker 1>men are saying this is not okay.
<v Speaker 3>I'm gonna play this audio. Did wait? Did this guy
<v Speaker 3>he did?
<v Speaker 4>I took it all out. I take it all.
<v Speaker 1>I'm pretty sure I.
<v Speaker 3>Took it here it's Katie's phone.
<v Speaker 5>Okay, deal, I've seen the video of the girl from
<v Speaker 5>Denver who basically was like at a coffee shop or
<v Speaker 5>something like that. She says that she saw this couple.
<v Speaker 5>She said it looked like the first or second date,
<v Speaker 5>then proceeded to make a video and basically saying that
<v Speaker 5>she wishes them the best, but that if he's still single,
<v Speaker 5>she wants to shoot her shop. Oh and then she
<v Speaker 5>knew his name. She like overheard him introducing himself to
<v Speaker 5>somebody else, so she was like looking for him on
<v Speaker 5>the internet.
<v Speaker 1>Am the only one who.
<v Speaker 5>Thinks that's weird? As a guy, don't do that so
<v Speaker 5>extremely disrespectful. You know that they were on a first
<v Speaker 5>or second date. How do you know that they weren't
<v Speaker 5>further along a that This app just like melts people's
<v Speaker 5>brain the lack of humility. I know that other women
<v Speaker 5>are probably gonna stitch her videos, but I wanted for
<v Speaker 5>as a guy in a relationship, very very disrespectful, be
<v Speaker 5>just like be better, try to be.
<v Speaker 2>Better, try and be better, so I can say as
<v Speaker 2>that it would get you thinking I will say that, like,
<v Speaker 2>even if you're with somebody first, second, third of six
<v Speaker 2>months and you get.
<v Speaker 3>A message like that, M, it would get you. It
<v Speaker 3>would screw with you a little bit. I think it
<v Speaker 3>would get you thinking like, oh what am I missing
<v Speaker 3>out on? What's this girl all about? She's rejected to me?
<v Speaker 3>Like it would, it would.
<v Speaker 4>Start would pique your interest a little.
<v Speaker 2>You think, yes, and that's just natural, right, like, oh wow,
<v Speaker 2>pretty girl likes me.
<v Speaker 3>When you're already like she's interested in me. Yes, so
<v Speaker 3>it's easy. Now it's fair game, you know.
<v Speaker 4>I don't think it's fair game.
<v Speaker 1>I think it's completely disrespectful. I agree one hundred percent
<v Speaker 1>with what that guy said. I think that the app
<v Speaker 1>kind of culture has completely diminished our brain capacity to
<v Speaker 1>think that rules don't exist.
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, but you got to take a shot.
<v Speaker 4>Rules, there are rules. Do there have to be respectful
<v Speaker 4>when it comes to the shot? Do you hold me already?
<v Speaker 4>Gave the ball to somebody else? Don't about that you
<v Speaker 4>have to steal the ball? Don't know about that?
<v Speaker 2>I I don't know.
<v Speaker 4>You maybe for a foul like that? About that you
<v Speaker 4>may be called.
<v Speaker 3>You may remember this is how Jeremy got his wife.
<v Speaker 3>Well that up yet. So here's what's gonna happen.
<v Speaker 2>We're gonna open up the phone lines three O three
<v Speaker 2>six nine one one mix three O three six nine
<v Speaker 2>one sixteen forty nine. What do you think about Quinn?
<v Speaker 2>Was this a good idea? Bad idea? Does it give
<v Speaker 2>you the ick that she did this? I like Ben,
<v Speaker 2>who just texted it, and he says, it's a doggy
<v Speaker 2>dog world out there. I say, Quinn did nothing wrong.
<v Speaker 2>Life's not a spectator sport. Oh uh, so go for it.
<v Speaker 4>You can't sit on the sideline the thing.
<v Speaker 2>I guess we would have to place ourselves in that
<v Speaker 2>uh chair at the coffee shop where she's overhearing this date.
<v Speaker 4>Yeah.
<v Speaker 2>I think you know, Katie, you could speak to this,
<v Speaker 2>you know when the date's not going well, and you
<v Speaker 2>could probably tell by body language, and you know that
<v Speaker 2>maybe the woman in that situation wanted to leave. It
<v Speaker 2>just wasn't going well because she witnessed that. So how
<v Speaker 2>can we pooh pooh this if she was actually there
<v Speaker 2>watching this go down and she could tell it wasn't gonna.
<v Speaker 3>Last and she's like, eh, why not? This guy's cute.
<v Speaker 2>I'm just gonna put it out, put it out, to
<v Speaker 2>the universe. You guys like doing that.
<v Speaker 3>Put him on I'll put Cody on a vision board.
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, and you never know.
<v Speaker 1>That's the thing is, if she like say that lady
<v Speaker 1>like left the date and the guy's still sitting there,
<v Speaker 1>and then she went up to him and tried like
<v Speaker 1>shooting her shot in that way to like the groundwork, maybe.
<v Speaker 4>That would have been okay.
<v Speaker 1>But she legit took to the internet, said her stuff,
<v Speaker 1>and then we expected.
<v Speaker 4>Nobody to judge it like she wanted us.
<v Speaker 1>That's why we have the right to judge, just because
<v Speaker 1>she gave it to us to judge it.
<v Speaker 4>You know.
<v Speaker 1>I think that there would have been a different way
<v Speaker 1>to go about it if she wanted to be cringey
<v Speaker 1>like that and kind of reach out and take somebody else's.
<v Speaker 3>I think it's you think it's cute on a text line?
<v Speaker 2>Did it? Jim on the text line says, I feel
<v Speaker 2>like she doesn't need to be so desperate.
<v Speaker 3>I don't know if she was desperate.
<v Speaker 2>Again, I think if this is just kind of a
<v Speaker 2>there's a cutesi factor to this. She's like, Hey, I
<v Speaker 2>was at a coffee shop a cute guy.
<v Speaker 3>If it doesn't work out.
<v Speaker 2>For you, I'm here, you know, and the sidelines, like,
<v Speaker 2>I'd be happy to go on a date with you.
<v Speaker 3>There's a cuteness factor to it.
<v Speaker 2>And what if it didn't work with Cody and who
<v Speaker 2>he was out with and he did get with Quinn,
<v Speaker 2>Like what a great.
<v Speaker 3>Backstory for when they, you know, celebrated the anniversary. It's
<v Speaker 3>a cute backstory.
<v Speaker 4>It is cute.
<v Speaker 1>But again, you put it out there and you divided people,
<v Speaker 1>so half of us are not like it, half of
<v Speaker 1>us are not.
<v Speaker 3>I'm all for providing I know you are.
<v Speaker 2>I am so for it one dividing people, especially when
<v Speaker 2>you see a situation and you're like, as, she could
<v Speaker 2>do way better, that guy's a clown and that guy's
<v Speaker 2>at door.
<v Speaker 4>I think that it's already so online dating.
<v Speaker 1>Like I think if I was in the woman's shoes
<v Speaker 1>who was on a date with Cody.
<v Speaker 3>Which you couldn't because you have giant feet, you.
<v Speaker 1>Know, Okay, whatever, But if I was in her shoes
<v Speaker 1>and I was sitting there on this date, I would
<v Speaker 1>have been irritated had I like came across this story, like,
<v Speaker 1>you know, hard it was for me to go on
<v Speaker 1>this date. I had to get the guy to message
<v Speaker 1>me back, you know, and actually set up.
<v Speaker 2>Plans was horrible, Quinn fun, We don't know.
<v Speaker 1>But that's what I'm saying is going into those dates,
<v Speaker 1>there's so many things you have to do. And I
<v Speaker 1>think that as a woman and as Quinn who says
<v Speaker 1>she's off the apps, but she has to have some
<v Speaker 1>kind of experience with them. It's hard and I think
<v Speaker 1>we all have to respect each other's boundaries, and you know,
<v Speaker 1>lines in that regard, like.
<v Speaker 3>There's anything wrong with inquiring didn't go up. It would
<v Speaker 3>have been worse if she had gone over and.
<v Speaker 1>Let me get through this horrible on nine day first,
<v Speaker 1>and then you can have them.
<v Speaker 3>Quinn was after the day.
<v Speaker 1>I know she was, But again, like I'm just saying,
<v Speaker 1>had she done it after had she maybe done it
<v Speaker 1>and then not posted it?
<v Speaker 4>Like I think that is in.
<v Speaker 1>My opinion, I don't think it's I don't think it's cute.
<v Speaker 1>I think I think Vicky just hit the nail on
<v Speaker 1>the head. Quinn is doing this for TikTok attention. She
<v Speaker 1>got it and that's what. Yeah, but that's what to
<v Speaker 1>me what It's so hard to be in online dating
<v Speaker 1>and when you have people like Quinn out.
<v Speaker 2>There coming after you makes it snatching up your Cody
<v Speaker 2>my cod.
<v Speaker 1>Harder, Like she probably did a lot to get to
<v Speaker 1>that date, and then Quinn.
<v Speaker 3>Maybe Quinn's better.
<v Speaker 1>Maybe maybe Quinn's better, but I still don't like it.
<v Speaker 1>I think this just takes There's.
<v Speaker 3>So many you would fight Quinn, wouldn't.
<v Speaker 4>I would fight Quinn and off.
<v Speaker 3>You call that Jean jacket off and you'd be like,
<v Speaker 3>let's go Quinn, Like.
<v Speaker 1>There's no more respect anybody anywhere. And that's what I
<v Speaker 1>think I have a problem with is like it seems.
<v Speaker 2>Like Quinn Quinn was probably sizing up the other lady
<v Speaker 2>and she was like, Cody could do better, that's fine,
<v Speaker 2>and I'm better, So I'm gonna take my shot. Okay,
<v Speaker 2>why not what I did twenty two, twenty four years later,
<v Speaker 2>it took my shot Quinn.
<v Speaker 4>I just want to put it out there.
<v Speaker 3>It didn't work for Quinn, not work for all, this
<v Speaker 3>for nothing.
<v Speaker 1>And everyone came and it completely harassed her, Like, yeah,
<v Speaker 1>it didn't work out.
<v Speaker 4>She didn't get her Cody. I don't think she got
<v Speaker 4>her co this for nothing.
<v Speaker 1>I'm just saying, but I just I think that there's
<v Speaker 1>there should be rules when it comes to the online
<v Speaker 1>dating and this.
<v Speaker 4>Is where literal chaos starts.
<v Speaker 3>From what I hear. If you're a line, you got
<v Speaker 3>to jump on that carcass.
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, you gotta dive in and just and that's what
<v Speaker 4>makes it hard.
<v Speaker 3>And Cody's the carcass, That's.
<v Speaker 4>What makes it hard. Like so it makes it.
<v Speaker 3>To be funny if that was his last name. Hi,
<v Speaker 3>I'm Cody Carcas Carcass.
<v Speaker 4>Nice to meet you, Katie.
<v Speaker 3>Thank you for this story today
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