<v Speaker 1>Jerry, Katy and Josh one hundred.

<v Speaker 2>Dismissa came in from Amy.

<v Speaker 3>She says, Hey, I got a show. Wants to know

<v Speaker 3>Segma for you? Thanks Amy. She says, I'm single, been

<v Speaker 3>going through a bit of a fun phase. Let's just

<v Speaker 3>say I use Tender more than Instagram and she put

<v Speaker 3>wink wink, and there she goes on to say, a

<v Speaker 3>couple of months ago, I matched with a guy named Ethan.

<v Speaker 3>It was a no strings attached situation and as Jeremy says, quote,

<v Speaker 3>we smashed.

<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I do say that like a lot, she said.

<v Speaker 3>Then she wrote, Haha, my little fleeing with him lasted

<v Speaker 3>a couple of weeks and then I moved on. Never

<v Speaker 3>really learned much about him except stuff we can't talk about,

<v Speaker 3>if you know what I mean. Amy's settled down anyway,

<v Speaker 3>so she's fine getting her freaking on with this Ethan guy.

<v Speaker 3>Fast forward to last Thursday. My company just moved into

<v Speaker 3>a new building and my boss was there giving his

<v Speaker 3>family a tour. His wife comes in, one son comes in,

<v Speaker 3>a second son comes in and get this, that was Ethan.

<v Speaker 4>No, no, no.

<v Speaker 3>We locked eyes and both completely froze like we'd seen

<v Speaker 3>a ghost. It was super awkward and I couldn't even focus.

<v Speaker 3>She goes how embarrassing. OMG, here's the issue, though, every

<v Speaker 3>time I see my boss I feel like I'm hiding

<v Speaker 3>the world's most awkward secret. I have no idea if

<v Speaker 3>Ethan has said anything to him. I feel weird even

<v Speaker 3>talking to my boss now, because does he know how

<v Speaker 3>much of a houchie mama I was with his son?

<v Speaker 2>That's the best line in this entire message. Let me

<v Speaker 2>read it again.

<v Speaker 3>Does he know how much of a houchie mama I

<v Speaker 3>was with his son? She goes on and says, what

<v Speaker 3>do you guys think I should do? Pretend it never

<v Speaker 3>happened and hope it gets never gets brought up. Should

<v Speaker 3>I reach out to Ethan and tell him just a

<v Speaker 3>hush hush so it doesn't affect my work life? Or

<v Speaker 3>do I need to start mentally preparing for a new job.

<v Speaker 3>And then she says, or should I just hook up

<v Speaker 3>with him again?

<v Speaker 2>Let me know? Why not? Let me know.

<v Speaker 3>I want to do something about this this week and

<v Speaker 3>would love your input. And that is from listener Amy,

<v Speaker 3>who wrote in a big, old long message on our

<v Speaker 3>Instagram account. So what do you think Amy should do?

<v Speaker 1>Uh?

<v Speaker 3>Feel free to comment.

<v Speaker 2>This is what it's all about.

<v Speaker 3>Three O three six nine one one mix three oh

<v Speaker 3>three six nine one sixteen forty nine. I'll get you

<v Speaker 3>in the studios for show wants to know what an

<v Speaker 3>awkward situation to be?

<v Speaker 2>I fling with Ethan.

<v Speaker 4>Yeah, and every time I would look at my boss,

<v Speaker 4>I think they knew, right, wouldn't you wouldn't you just

<v Speaker 4>rack your brain thinking like did he tell him, like, well,

<v Speaker 4>how much trouble am I going to get in?

<v Speaker 3>Well, you can't really get into any trouble. I mean,

<v Speaker 3>what can your boss do about that? It's like you

<v Speaker 3>just had a relationship with his grown son.

<v Speaker 4>Yeah, but they can look at you different, and maybe

<v Speaker 4>it could jeopardize any kind of advancement you have. I

<v Speaker 4>mean that's not legal obviously, but it could happen.

<v Speaker 3>Or the son would be like, she's the best, Dad,

<v Speaker 3>we dated for a little bit, and you should promote

<v Speaker 3>her and do everything, because that's what it's dating.

<v Speaker 4>Either they were just cooking up.

<v Speaker 3>Yeah, but again, is the son talking to the dad.

<v Speaker 3>You're not going to say, Dad, I smashed like crazy.

<v Speaker 3>You're just going to say, hey, I went out with

<v Speaker 3>her a few times and she's a great, great person.

<v Speaker 2>You would hope, you would hope that's what they said.

<v Speaker 4>But again, there's no rhyme or reason how these things

<v Speaker 4>work out.

<v Speaker 2>And I don't know. I'd be a little worried.

<v Speaker 3>It's awkward.

<v Speaker 2>For sure, She's generally awkward.

<v Speaker 1>I had a little bit of an experience with that

<v Speaker 1>where it was incredibly awkward. And you don't know what

<v Speaker 1>to do or how to act around a boss like that,

<v Speaker 1>just because you don't know what they know. And that's

<v Speaker 1>the scariest thing is you don't know what they know.

<v Speaker 3>This is a unique situation. I mean, did you ever

<v Speaker 3>fool around with a boss's I didn't know.

<v Speaker 4>Well, I fooled room with somebody that I worked with

<v Speaker 4>and they were related to them, right, So it wasn't

<v Speaker 4>necessarily my boss, but it was somebody I worked with,

<v Speaker 4>and I never told them.

<v Speaker 2>I kept it to myself.

<v Speaker 4>I kept this awful secret to myself because I didn't

<v Speaker 4>want them their opinion of me to change. And here's

<v Speaker 4>the thing is, like we don't really talk anymore. We're

<v Speaker 4>still connected on social media, but every time I see

<v Speaker 4>their name or profile roll up, it gets the shivers.

<v Speaker 2>I'm like, oh, I'm a bad person, like, no, you're not.

<v Speaker 3>You're just having fun when you were young and single

<v Speaker 3>and who cares.

<v Speaker 2>It makes me.

<v Speaker 4>Feel like that because it's a secret I'm keeping from them.

<v Speaker 4>So I just like, if you're looking at holding on

<v Speaker 4>to that, it might do some damage.

<v Speaker 2>Was a Chelsea.

<v Speaker 3>Somebody wrote in and said, talk about the ultimate bomb

<v Speaker 3>to drop when you quit, Like if you're walking out

<v Speaker 3>of that place.

<v Speaker 2>Yeah, well I slept with your son, right boom mic drop.

<v Speaker 3>The whole office romance thing is just so touchy in general.

<v Speaker 3>You know, it is sneaking around and seeing if anybody knows.

<v Speaker 2>And it's fun. Yeah, it's only fun.

<v Speaker 3>I mean I married my office romance.

<v Speaker 4>But that is part of the Alora's people might find out,

<v Speaker 4>so it makes.

<v Speaker 2>It interesting fun.

<v Speaker 4>We got this message from Wade, and this is a

<v Speaker 4>I guess a different way to look at it, but

<v Speaker 4>he said this happened to me. I had a short

<v Speaker 4>relationship with my boss's daughter, of course, not knowing he

<v Speaker 4>was her dad. Once I figured it out, I tried

<v Speaker 4>to get it out into the open, thinking it would

<v Speaker 4>put me at ease. But turns out my bos didn't

<v Speaker 4>like me to begin with and was looking for a

<v Speaker 4>reason to get rid of me.

<v Speaker 2>Wait et if him won Wait, don't ever do that. Yeah,

<v Speaker 2>don't tell on yourself.

<v Speaker 3>See Wade getting onto his Outlook account at all staff,

<v Speaker 3>You'll never guess what I did dot dot who I did? Wade, No,

<v Speaker 3>no way, no