<v Speaker 1>Jar, you, Katie, and Josh one hundred.

<v Speaker 2>Well, text of the day goes to Steph because we

<v Speaker 2>were just talking about all the unique ice cream sandwiches

<v Speaker 2>out there, and I did make a comment about being lactose.

<v Speaker 1>Intolerant and probably hating that segment, but.

<v Speaker 2>Steph wrote in and said, yeah, guys, I have a

<v Speaker 2>dairy allergy, so screw you respectfully.

<v Speaker 1>Of course, texts of the Davis staff bringing the sas

<v Speaker 1>you guys.

<v Speaker 2>Ever want to sound off on what we're talking about

<v Speaker 2>here on the morning show. Same number for text line

<v Speaker 2>and calling us. We're very accessible. Three on three six

<v Speaker 2>nine one one mix three O three six nine one

<v Speaker 2>sixteen forty nine. Story here says we're all just looking

<v Speaker 2>for a little more fun in our day. We need

<v Speaker 2>more fun. It's just work, work, work. Yeah, I think

<v Speaker 2>that's about right. I could use a little more fun,

<v Speaker 2>for sure. But the problem is is once you start

<v Speaker 2>factoring in going to work, coming home, doing your chores,

<v Speaker 2>dealing with family stuff, off, doing the laundry, blah blah

<v Speaker 2>blah blah blah, you don't have any time left in

<v Speaker 2>your day to have some fun. And this survey says

<v Speaker 2>about forty percent of Americans want more fun, and they

<v Speaker 2>think they could achieve that by just having two and

<v Speaker 2>a half more hours per day.

<v Speaker 1>Of whatever they want to do of fun essentially.

<v Speaker 2>Okay, so let's wave the magic wand there you get

<v Speaker 2>two and a half hours to go have some fun.

<v Speaker 1>What are you gonna do? The first thing on the list?

<v Speaker 1>Watch TV? Come on, Fat America. I'll play it for you.

<v Speaker 1>It's Fat America.

<v Speaker 2>Go outside, go touch grass, right, good tree. The other

<v Speaker 2>fun things people want to do, dine out, follow personal

<v Speaker 2>hobbies did make the list, So if you're into pottery

<v Speaker 2>for three D printing, playing games, yatzi, who know? And

<v Speaker 2>then enjoying outdoor activities also made the list there at

<v Speaker 2>the bottom, so going camping or something.

<v Speaker 1>But I think that's about right. What would you do

<v Speaker 1>with two and a half hours a day?

<v Speaker 3>No, I just am so by myself now, like that's

<v Speaker 3>my free time is filled with that. So I think

<v Speaker 3>I would like to add someone to it, Like I

<v Speaker 3>would really like a man to have more fun with

<v Speaker 3>on a half hours today, someone to do these things with, like,

<v Speaker 3>you know, actually go out and be outside and touch

<v Speaker 3>grass and touch a tree with a man.

<v Speaker 2>Yeah, so you've been texting with that one dude the

<v Speaker 2>past couple of days, Like what happened with that?

<v Speaker 1>You were like hot and heavy with this guy.

<v Speaker 4>We were just getting to know each other and him met.

<v Speaker 1>Let's call him Mike. Mike, so we were.

<v Speaker 3>Yeah, chatting a little bit and things were progressing to

<v Speaker 3>the point where we're like, hey, let's go ahead and meet.

<v Speaker 3>And we did meet over the weekend, and I have

<v Speaker 3>to tell you it was kind of fabulous in the

<v Speaker 3>sense that we sat there for three hours and just

<v Speaker 3>talked and talked and talked, and he was so much

<v Speaker 3>fun to talk to.

<v Speaker 4>But the thing is, immediately I.

<v Speaker 3>Sat down and within fifteen thirty seconds of meeting this guy,

<v Speaker 3>I could tell there wasn't really a spark there right

<v Speaker 3>like that fast Yeah, just I mean it like there

<v Speaker 3>was something about it where when we met in person,

<v Speaker 3>I just immediately was like, you know what, I feel

<v Speaker 3>like this guy could be just a really good friend,

<v Speaker 3>almost like a brother vibe, Like I get along really

<v Speaker 3>well with my brother.

<v Speaker 4>And that's what he reminded me of.

<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry, were you saying what you were talking about?

<v Speaker 4>Like what were everything? Does everything?

<v Speaker 3>Because we got like we are both huge into just

<v Speaker 3>the food culture around towns. We like to go to

<v Speaker 3>different restaurants and whatnot. He's also a big sports fan,

<v Speaker 3>so we were talking about sports.

<v Speaker 1>He loves to hike.

<v Speaker 4>We were talking about hiking.

<v Speaker 5>And just this isn't purpose match.

<v Speaker 4>No, it wasn't.

<v Speaker 1>There was no romantic, was not a spark.

<v Speaker 3>It was it was and it was like immediately I

<v Speaker 3>was like, I want to be this guy's friend. Like

<v Speaker 3>I just felt like he could be such a fun

<v Speaker 3>person to hang out with.

<v Speaker 4>Because also it's you know, I.

<v Speaker 3>Come across this a lot, and when I want to

<v Speaker 3>go have fun, A lot of times people associate going

<v Speaker 3>out and having drinks and stuff with that, like immediately

<v Speaker 3>that's part of their having fun, and I don't do that.

<v Speaker 3>And this guy also wasn't super focused on that, Like

<v Speaker 3>his idea of fun is actually going out and doing

<v Speaker 3>things like we're talking, and so that's where a lot

<v Speaker 3>of the oh my gosh, we should be friends came from.

<v Speaker 3>So here's the thing is, we went on this date,

<v Speaker 3>talked for three hours, and I really sat there.

<v Speaker 4>And thought about it. I'm like, is it weird if

<v Speaker 4>I messaged this guy.

<v Speaker 3>We didn't exchange phone numbers, but we were still talking

<v Speaker 3>on the app. It's like, is it weird if I

<v Speaker 3>message him and say, hey, I didn't feel a spark,

<v Speaker 3>but I really want to be your friend. I think

<v Speaker 3>we should be homies.

<v Speaker 1>And it's kind of a first impression. It's kind Yeah.

<v Speaker 2>If I if there was nothing there romantically and I

<v Speaker 2>got that back from a lady, I'd be like, well,

<v Speaker 2>that's kind of cool, Like I can carry a conversation

<v Speaker 2>and at least show somebody a good time. In another way, Yeah,

<v Speaker 2>that's I would find that kind of heartwarming.

<v Speaker 5>So that's the.

<v Speaker 3>Way I thought about it, and then I talked to

<v Speaker 3>a few people. While here's the thing. So I sat

<v Speaker 3>on the idea for a couple of days, and I

<v Speaker 3>talked to a few people about it. The baby Nana

<v Speaker 3>actually gave me the best advice because she's like, you know,

<v Speaker 3>you come across a lot of people in your life

<v Speaker 3>where when you meet them, they're your friend and you

<v Speaker 3>know that.

<v Speaker 4>So this is just like that.

<v Speaker 3>You know, this is just because you went out with

<v Speaker 3>the assumption that it could be romantic doesn't.

<v Speaker 5>Mean I mean, why not let the spark maybe build

<v Speaker 5>a little bit. I mean a lot of times the

<v Speaker 5>best relationships start with just the friendship. Why not be

<v Speaker 5>friends and then see if something builds later on, Like

<v Speaker 5>it doesn't have to be the initial, like you could

<v Speaker 5>be my husband, you know.

<v Speaker 3>And I don't want to put out because like we've

<v Speaker 3>talked about this before, like the ick, it wasn't the ick.

<v Speaker 4>I don't want to just say that, but I just.

<v Speaker 1>You just had you could not envision him laying on top.

<v Speaker 3>Of you, yeah, because that's the itck is so mean.

<v Speaker 3>I feel like that's not the way it was, but

<v Speaker 3>it I and I know a lot of relationships can

<v Speaker 3>build from a solid friendship connection, but again, I just

<v Speaker 3>feel like this will be.

<v Speaker 4>Just a friendship.

<v Speaker 1>And so did you send the text?

<v Speaker 4>He did?

<v Speaker 3>I sat on in a few days and then I

<v Speaker 3>sent him not only a message, but along it was like, Hi,

<v Speaker 3>I don't know if this is weird or not, but

<v Speaker 3>I really like talking you now. I didn't feel a spark,

<v Speaker 3>but I really feel like we could be friends. And

<v Speaker 3>then I kept on saying I never do this with anybody,

<v Speaker 3>like if I don't like somebody, But.

<v Speaker 4>I explained that to him.

<v Speaker 3>I was like, if I don't like someone, I'll do

<v Speaker 3>the adult thing and move on. But I really thought

<v Speaker 3>that I wanted to reach out to you because you

<v Speaker 3>don't have a three hour conversation with somebody for nothing.

<v Speaker 2>I feel like your messages are pretty darn genuine. I mean,

<v Speaker 2>it's totally going to depend on the person on the

<v Speaker 2>other end of you know, how they're reading it. But

<v Speaker 2>I've received messages from you, and I feel like that

<v Speaker 2>would probably be a pretty darn sweet message.

<v Speaker 1>Well do you reply back?

<v Speaker 5>Then?

<v Speaker 4>He has not replied back.

<v Speaker 1>He hasn't replied back.

<v Speaker 3>Are you sure he hasn't unmatched? Just well, let me see.

<v Speaker 3>Let me go ahead and look real quick. So he

<v Speaker 3>did not reply back. It's been about a toy.

<v Speaker 1>Oh no, hold up, he replied back.

<v Speaker 4>Oh my god, read you what I'm gonna wait?

<v Speaker 1>Okay, so I want you to read it beforehand.

<v Speaker 4>Okay, read it.

<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna play a song. Okay, we'll be back about

<v Speaker 2>two minutes and thirty seconds. Read it now and see

<v Speaker 2>if we can come back and read it.

<v Speaker 1>Because it's this is personal, this is this guy's life.

<v Speaker 4>Oh yeah, yeah, that's fine. It's a nice message back.

<v Speaker 1>Actually, all right, I want to know how he feels

<v Speaker 1>about just being a friend.

<v Speaker 4>Okay, he's just a good guy.

<v Speaker 1>Let's talk about it all right, let's find out let me.

<v Speaker 3>Actually, I want to redo my message because again it

<v Speaker 3>was long, I kind of winded, but sure, so Hi,

<v Speaker 3>I've been debating on whether or not to send this.

<v Speaker 3>I had so much fun talking with you. That being said,

<v Speaker 3>I did not feel a spark between us. I really

<v Speaker 3>liked hanging out with you.

<v Speaker 2>Though.

<v Speaker 3>You can totally tell me if this is too weird

<v Speaker 3>or not, but I was wondering if.

<v Speaker 4>You'd like to be friends. Da da da da da

<v Speaker 4>da da da da.

<v Speaker 3>You can totally just unmatch this if you're not feeling it.

<v Speaker 3>Just thought i'd ask, so I guess. Okay, a few

<v Speaker 3>days for him to finally respond, and just this morning

<v Speaker 3>he did, and he says, hey, ha ha, anytime I

<v Speaker 3>can sit down with anyone for three hours, that's a

<v Speaker 3>friend to me.

<v Speaker 4>No friend zone, friend zone, friend zone, And he really

<v Speaker 4>was fun.

<v Speaker 3>And again, like my thought process is too and maybe

<v Speaker 3>this is overthinking it, but I feel like being in

<v Speaker 3>a like his friends probably are a little like him, right,

<v Speaker 3>so you know, maybe I could be friends with this.

<v Speaker 2>But if his friends are like him, you might meet

<v Speaker 2>his friend group and find one dude within that friend

<v Speaker 2>group that also likes to eat and hike, and that

<v Speaker 2>you would like to have him lay on top of you.

<v Speaker 2>You're picking up what I'm putting really.

<v Speaker 4>So it's all part of a master plan. But I

<v Speaker 4>do like friends friends with one of his friends. Okay,

<v Speaker 4>that's really good.

<v Speaker 1>Hey, let me let me just tell you.

<v Speaker 2>My wife actually just texted during that last break and

<v Speaker 2>she said, uh, tell Katie, just a reminder that you

<v Speaker 2>and I were friends first, as in me and her

<v Speaker 2>friends first.

<v Speaker 1>We were friend zoned.

<v Speaker 4>But you guys didn't like each other at first.

<v Speaker 1>There was not a lot of spark there. But we

<v Speaker 1>like to do the same things.

<v Speaker 4>Okay, maybe it is something that could grow.

<v Speaker 2>And then she grew to love me and she found

<v Speaker 2>me incredibly attractive. It's so funny, and the best part

<v Speaker 2>is is she laid on me

<v Speaker 1>Her