Hai, dit is marjolijn van der Meulen from Hardconnection Nederland. I together here with dina and there.

The family three in the life. Blue Print.

Aan de family tree is something very interesting because everybody has a mom everybody has a dad.

Aan your mother Also has a mother in a father and your father. Also has a mother in a father.

Zo is continue in continuity continueing for aids for years.

And everything what is insolved in this family? Three.

En One Day.

Het is been Asking to soft.

Zo'n.

That's what's life about life is about meeting yourself.

And to figure out.

What kind of story your telling? And mostly the storing.

With you are telling.

Zo, all the live expert you have in your life.

It's about your family.

Zo even, Dina. If you don't know your mother verywell or your father fary or your family. It doesn matter because your life.

Is like.

Het duplication of your parents and ansisters is not really a duplication. Because your an unique.

Ja.

Aan de ja. But it is very interesting that your telling a family history.

En.

In inhalend wie zij.

Als zo in de family and you see.

Dat kind of family patrons are repeating in the family. Like.

Uh, for example.

En in de familie. Their Many Teachers.

Voor de Primary School.

Zou you Nou.

Teacher.

All the mother Stay have diabetes.

In another family. All the fathers. They are dying of a hardertig.

De F Heart Problems for From. Een jong aids.

En.

Even.

Some dates are repeating.

For example Thats.

Grenfather Diet at Fifty Two.

Father Diet Fifty Two So the sun is very scare to die about fifty two he Is. A journalist of the of newspaper He's writing an article about it.

En so he's fifty two and the next day he he. Would become fifty three.

Articole about the this. This.

Patron.

And you know what.

Sleep.

En als zo is Duck.

Zou Hie Dait is wel es, Ed.

Fifty Two.

From har dettack.

Is net incredible.

Nou, er is. And I think.

Ja, we hadden voor dat Heim-journalist. Incabout, Seargenting, like stories. Like this.

En you know.

Ik ging this a lot of patten in repetition en things that We don t know about that of.

En symbodium to record. Nice that en. Tja.

I love the fact by inwendo of it. You do you highlight like thing important of that?

En that it's already connected. En it's important to have the discussions. And just no about yourself And.

Andre family line of like. You know the surren pattant the recur and sometimes one generation. But then itd get to other generation. So thats really.

Ja.

Er Ligo Point is nice.

Ja, en en het Remind me, Dina. Dat, uhm, in in one family for example your have sisters and brothers and they toty different.

And it totally different experience about their home situation about their family.

And.

That's because of the life blue print. So the period.

Around your pregnancy.

Zo, I'hing. What's happening there? We have. You parents bit also in the world for example. There is a uhm, Lost Week I spoke to flight. Uh, detend.

Is het detennined Door attendant.

Het standpunt. Ja.

Je pleit, attender. Thank you.

Eind, uhm. So ze was very insting what I was saying. And then I said. Yeah, you know, you are flight att tendence. So.

That's maybe you want to reconnect with your father or.

Amenditeit.

In de family.

En dan, uh, Cycette. Ja, de, uh, Brother of my father Heath on a very young aids.

En hij zegt Ok.

Zo.

Uhm, why your flying? Is that you want to heal this part in the family? Because it's connect with.

Your uncle.

Ja.

En Dansey 100. Je hebt het in mijn Life Blue Prints.

Before the conception.

Uhm, excedent.

Van.

This is very interesting.

Ja.

Why you became aflight? Attendant.

Ja.

Zo, even your story about your family.

En die family three like this brother of the father. But also the life blue print about. What was happening?

Before conception. The big accident and many people diet in displain.

En that's waait.

Siebe Camerflight. Intendent.

Ja.

En ze was moeilijk. Big eyes en ze. Wow, this is really interesting So what you are interesting in and what you are doing.

Is al zo.

Become.

A part of your life.

Ja.

Zo.

Older things. You love older. It's.

Telling a Story.

Ja er think about it like.

At you realize that s you know.

This is something that you maybe notest in. Yo, own personal life. And I what made you make that connection and drive you to.

Share this information. And just make the connections of like actually.

Lot of patt and repeat in our families or.

Your life. Can you see that.

Je meer. Dat wil a wezen that you know.

We all interconnected with in our own family line.

Ja, en it's very wonderful. Because all you the talent.

It is Also een inheritance.

Ja.

Wel, all the positive things and the positive patrons.

Are also repeating.

Ja.

Ja.

Really are. And I mean for me for example shoes Make me think of ja. I look at my parents by logical parents are not connected with and people. Who dont even know what s going on in my kind life.

And I like, Yeah, yeah.

We know we new your father when was younger. And he was very into sports.

En de naam leuk. White. No Way close its like ja no, one really doesports and.

Hij heeft lekker goed tellen in sportsetjes. Amazing house. They know you. Can you think bad?

Like your momo. That.

Because you just stone see it any more. And the like know.

Die all is connected. Even do you are disconnected.

Ja, en that's why.

Maybe you don't know your biological parents or your biological Father.

Put.

This is a talent. And That's also Europeed. This. Because this talent is from your father. And you.

Cope, This.

Ja.

In your subconcious. So because it s a goal of life to be active.

To be sportive.

Ja.

Ik was, dat was.

Which you father War.

Was.

Ja, it's remember something. You know with my parents. My.

For my father. It was very important to do a lot of things so.

Wie went to core of the Churchal Monday. There was important for myn. Mam.

Because I love that.

Ja.

Pieno lessons and tennis. Because my father won that.

Because my sister like that dan friday evening we went horse riding.

En Saturday. We were you know, playing and with and with the horses on together on on the stall.

So I had a very active life and like my father was a very sportive as well. But he was.

Good play piano. Very well, he spoke for languages in that time of the period was very unique. Because there was no internet. So.

Was incredible. And I have really difficult lease. We have languages. And, uhm.

Beetje was very good. Uh, socially. He was very good in muff a muffi and physic So you know, some sometimes persons.

Kind of levels.

En zien we zo wezen entertainer in head. Always very funny things in his life. You know.

En I have the same.

Ja.

You know, I can entertained people. And, uh, I always have funny things in my life.

Unique thing. So I am coping this.

Karakter or.

Goal of life. Because in your subcones you. You take this. And because it s, you have to be this way to survive life.

Ja.

Het so interesting. How. How all they things are working.

En so what I did? I did the same with my children.

Nou, Kim Ja.

Ice skating horse riding swimming. Uh, you know, I raise them very sportive.

Very Young.

In the New house. I always had international people.

Ja.

Vrouw voor mijn jong aids. Day day, day, very.

Playful day, start to learn English and a satur them. You know, you have to learn English perfectly Because it's Very important. And it took my whole life to speak.

English and to Learn. English and even my English is.

Not that good. I do not know a lot of word. But I have the same in duts.

Ja.

Nou, it's.

For me toings in that it s a challenge. But also in other languages. And now in spannings.

En En make funough it. Because you know people know that I have problem with who? Well, that.

En in krieble, you know. And I think I am not speaking it.

Right, but people make fun. And I have fun to you know.

Uhm.

Soeven when you.

Have children.

Europeed this patron. And you do n do not that on an con cons.

En nou Jaban. You know you mat syabon.

Because of the sports in New Life.

Ja.

Daar is.

En hij was doing.

Een lot of Sports. During Both, Pregnancea.

En wist je bang? I had a personal trainer.

Ja.

Ok, je mens. Ja.

Uhm, ja, human. The pregnancy. And how during pregnancy die there a lot of sports. Which yeah, explained. How Ja.

En als zo, you know, every, uh, I took them to, uh, the day carot. Uh, sports.

Ja.

At the gym.

To my class. And they plate at the gym as well.

Zo, Io is took them. Beef me so.

Ja.

Its.

Ik wist niet.

Continuing. That is normal to be active.

Hou het you advice amone Who once to unlarn.

Start and patten.

In der Live Blue. Print that Maybe was in.

The most positive.

Is het possible for some people to not.

It may be a negative trade.

En.

Smoking.

Ok, ja, ja.

Uiteindelijk.

Ja.

Recording of this, Uh, of, uh, to hours so.

I can speak about smoking for for really a day. Because it has a lot of history and has a Lot of things. But yes, you can.

En it's about.

Ehm, to fund out find out. Do you think it's a bad habbit?

My all my family Died of of Long Country.

Ja.

So you start to smile Because you want to release this fear.

Zo, Dennis. Smoking, positive.

Je Nou, het.

Firsthing.

Maybe you have, uh, dijk nos or of canter or, uh, you know, another terrable illness?

Negative news about.

Ja.

Family or your best friends or.

Sabotagemechanism. Uh.

Everytime you. You start to go to the sports Goal you to the gym, En you go there ones retrising. You stop.

And you do it one day. And then you stop Because in the evening, you take this cookies and eat the whole packets.

Thing.

You have to figur out.

First. What is the story.

So why do I want to eat Sugar. Why do I wants to to smoke? Why do I want to drink. Why do why take drugs?

You know to find out the story. So you understand.

What it is. So you need knowlets.

Nou, leuk, ja.

Ja.

En de second thing is.

Ward kind of emotions. Do you have about this habit?

Ja.

We have fer wysmoking. Are you enry self? If you take this cookies? Uhm, and.

Do you, uh.

Ah, die is zij.

Not ac Knowledge that you taking drugs. You know your.

Ja.

In your un world your block yourself. And you don't feel.

All kind of things you have to be understo yourself. What do I feel.

Bord kind of forts Do I have about my negative happit.

Ja.

Maar alleen dus. One become very honest with them. Zelfs.

Hou.

Would you advice someone to start being really honest I think you takes a lot of courage.

Een alarm. People. Hyde.

Would being honest with themselfully. Honest Lijk how. We ding coach.

You know, someone listening. Now, it it apartcast. How we juncased and step one.

To be, very.

Deze very very good question dina. This. Is the best question i ever. Head.

Because it so difficult most people in the survival mode.

En day are not aware. Day know. I am smoking and it s not good. But they not aware.

Of.

De story.

And the most people have some fear to be honest.

Most People are.

Afraides that they the art people will reject them.

You know, so your not in the group anymore and indonator. If your alone, you don't have many chances to survive. So as a you die. So this a lot of fear.

That you that pip that the group.

The Tribe.

Uhm, so to be honest it s a challenge to be honest.

Ja.

Really, challenging.

Anders. What's helping is Pain.

Zo.

Je hebt zo meteen pain. During smoking. You know.

Ik denk. Oh, I have really have to do something about it.

Een shock.

Uhm.

En heel nest. There is no medicine for it. Zo hard to figure it out by yourself.

En that's.

But I see in all the worlds in the ot alternative world to spiritual the regular other know just in life that that.

People making excuses. All the time and specially in the emotional spiritual world, zei. Oh, I work so hard of Myself and I am already.

Very Light. En hij heeft So Much councious Nurse and But.

Het You Nou.

I'm already there, But it's not.

That's als zo een survival.

Ze is 'm zo.

Het. If you in the survival system in the Blue Face.

This one is a challenge to be honest actually.

Like.

If you doing the marathon.

You have the practice.

O, ja.

You cannot do the Mariton in ones. You know, it s not possible so to be unders. You have to be practice to.

Zo all the tools I give even hard connection.

It's a way to be honest and to get honest and. You know you, have to be you. Have.

To be Honest.

And if youard chose the way to be honest to your self.

Het zal zo challenging. Because.

Hou.

More understugar with yourself.

Hamojusie.

Hou other people, not.

Aan. Oeh, dat. Oh, ja, dat is een goodpoint.

Wauw.

Ja, zo 't is zo Dina. It's not at the way of to be healthy because.

Hardconnexion is the way to be.

Healthy on all levels.

Ja.

En toen viel.

That your feel. Look, I do saye. Uhm, Happiness.

Heb je niet.

Het heeft wel Happy.

En de, Ja, dat te. That's not.

Easy.

Nou.

Is not.

Het is not easy. Nou.

Nou aan the. But it's the best way and is very interesting.

Way. Like we start with the family three. In the like bluedprint it. Is so interesting.

Toen Finout your story.

En that's wordt. My book is about that. What my teaching is about my trainings is about. Zo Ja.

Uhm, so thank you Dna for this conversation. And the.

Doe you have a last final? Question.

Nou, dat ging mij final. Pras be that.

Ja, Life is the workshop. En.

Start being honest, But yourself through the work. It. You do.

In de pocket. Yo, have I think nja, the more You realize hut to be honest with yourself.

Juweel is er. Alle people notar anas. Het them souts.

En I think the beauty in like discovering that through book.

Tussen you know, life is a workshop. En everyone has.

Life. To work On.

Eind ja.

Fijn dat jullie pure vol het liefst in de hork dat you do And just knowledge having the knowledge.

Is de grootste tijd.

Being on.

Ja.

Ja.

Ja, in. That's time the patient beef yourself and the.

Because it very healthy to start to be honest with yourself with your body, briefing and out. And.

Er feel. How your body fields.

Pain. Maybe.

Some tension. Somewhere just brief in and out.

En s do not have any expectations.

Voor that It have to be soul of now. Be there.

En de Every Emotion Every soort.

Preven and outs.

En we gingen ster and.

Nothing have to be solved.

En dit is Connect Mile Release.

Je kunt do It's every moment.

In the car, Or.

Not closure ice. But to be aware of your body of course.

Dring you work, do you? New sport?

Even in out.

Remember Life is a workshop.

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