<v Speaker 1>Jay Katy and Josh Max one hundred.

<v Speaker 2>Here's what Tessa had to say.

<v Speaker 3>A few months ago, my best friend and I decided

<v Speaker 3>to get matching tattoos together as kind of a friendship

<v Speaker 3>loyalty thing. Honestly, it was mostly her idea in the beginning,

<v Speaker 3>and she kept talking about how cool it would be

<v Speaker 3>to have something permanent that symbolized our friendship forever. The

<v Speaker 3>plan was that I'd get half of a butterfly tattooed

<v Speaker 3>on the side of my hand, and she would get

<v Speaker 3>the other half on her hand, so when we put

<v Speaker 3>our hands together, it would make one butterfly.

<v Speaker 2>Oh that's not tacky at all. That's beautiful.

<v Speaker 3>That's so magical, something that people would do. We went

<v Speaker 3>together to the tattoo shop. I went first, but while

<v Speaker 3>they were tattooing me, she started getting really anxious and queezy.

<v Speaker 3>She said that she felt sick and that she might

<v Speaker 3>pass out, and that she didn't think she could do

<v Speaker 3>it that day her tattoo. I understood, and I told

<v Speaker 3>her that we could always come back at another time.

<v Speaker 2>Well, now it's been three months, you guys.

<v Speaker 3>Not only has she still not gotten the tattoo, but

<v Speaker 3>now she avoids talking about it completely, and I'm getting

<v Speaker 3>more irritated because of this tattoo is right on my

<v Speaker 3>hand and I can't hide it.

<v Speaker 2>It's embarrassing having to explain.

<v Speaker 3>What makes me even more upset is that she's the

<v Speaker 3>one who originally pushed this whole idea. I probably would

<v Speaker 3>have never gotten a hand tattoo in the first place

<v Speaker 3>if we weren't just doing it together.

<v Speaker 2>Oh, she said. I've talked to my friends. They're split.

<v Speaker 3>Some say nobody should ever feel pressured into getting a

<v Speaker 3>tattoo they don't want and to let it go. Others

<v Speaker 3>think if she changed her mind, at least she owes

<v Speaker 3>me an honest conversation. So now I need to know

<v Speaker 3>Am I wrong for being upset that she backed out?

<v Speaker 3>Or do I need to accept that she changed her

<v Speaker 3>mind and move on? She put or in all caps?

<v Speaker 3>How do I make her go? Get her damn friendship tattos?

<v Speaker 2>Right? Would love your thought? That's from Tessa.

<v Speaker 3>If you want to sound off about this, Oh lord,

<v Speaker 3>I wish you would. I know this is good you

<v Speaker 3>guys oh three oh three six nine one sixteen forty nine.

<v Speaker 2>Tessa and her bestie. Should we give her bestI a name. Yeah, Jenessa, Tessa, Jessa, Tessa, Jenesa.

<v Speaker 3>You guys, Tessa went in, got half the butterfly on

<v Speaker 3>her hand. Jenessa got sick and anxious and said, I

<v Speaker 3>can't do it now. And now it's been three months

<v Speaker 3>and there's no friendship tattoo, which is really classy ourse.

<v Speaker 2>Tattoo, isn't it. That's a classy tae.

<v Speaker 4>You can fly away together.

<v Speaker 3>We would love to hear from you guys. Sound off

<v Speaker 3>for show wants to know what should Tessa do about this?

<v Speaker 3>Three oh three six nine one one mix three oh

<v Speaker 3>three six nine one sixteen forty nine Katie, what do

<v Speaker 3>I feel like? This is something you would have done

<v Speaker 3>in North Dakota with Oh.

<v Speaker 2>My goodness, just a hunt.

<v Speaker 4>I have a friendship tattoo like I do, Thank you

<v Speaker 4>I do. It's the frog instead of the monkeys, but

<v Speaker 4>it's see no speak no here, no evil.

<v Speaker 2>But we got frogs. We got frogs. Did two other friends? Yes,

<v Speaker 2>which is yours?

<v Speaker 4>So mine is the speak no evil? Ironically nothing I

<v Speaker 4>talk for a living, but yeah, so I've done the

<v Speaker 4>friendship tattoo. Thankfully they did their.

<v Speaker 2>Where's the frog? It's on my ankle? How have I

<v Speaker 2>never seen this?

<v Speaker 3>Put your foot up there, get that size twelve up there,

<v Speaker 3>and let me take a look at that.

<v Speaker 2>A frog. That's a frog. It looks like it looks

<v Speaker 2>like a lily pad. Honestly, not not it.

<v Speaker 4>It looks just like a cartoon frog.

<v Speaker 2>Different.

<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I've been there, I've done it, so this is

<v Speaker 4>interesting to me.

<v Speaker 3>At least she didn't back out, but Tessa's friend Janessa did.

<v Speaker 3>Tessa was gonna go with her best friend to get

<v Speaker 3>matching tattoos, and it was the best friend's idea. We're

<v Speaker 3>calling her Genessa. So Tessa and Genessa we're gonna go

<v Speaker 3>to the tattoo shop and get butterflies half a butterfly

<v Speaker 3>on one hand and half a butterfly on the other

<v Speaker 3>hand for the friend. And then when they put him together,

<v Speaker 3>oh my god, it's.

<v Speaker 2>A whole butterfly.

<v Speaker 4>We get a flyway.

<v Speaker 2>Sounds kind of tacky, but uh, you want to it's

<v Speaker 2>I don't wonder there's probably a lot of people out

<v Speaker 2>there like that, but.

<v Speaker 4>Yes, I got a friendship tattoo.

<v Speaker 2>It's a little tacky, Josh I did too.

<v Speaker 1>Well.

<v Speaker 3>At least you guys follow through with it, so that's good.

<v Speaker 3>Janessa did not, So what should Tessa do about this?

<v Speaker 3>U three O three six nine one, sixteen forty nine.

<v Speaker 3>I will say we had a few people on the line,

<v Speaker 3>but we answered a few off the air too, and

<v Speaker 3>they had potty mouths, so we can't put that on

<v Speaker 3>the air. So if you are clean spoken three O

<v Speaker 3>three six nine one, sixteen forty nine.

<v Speaker 2>I did not want to take the risk with those.

<v Speaker 2>But Hi, Pam, welcome to the show.

<v Speaker 5>Hi, thank you for having me.

<v Speaker 2>Well top of the.

<v Speaker 3>Morning, Tulia, what do you think Tesla should do about

<v Speaker 3>this tacky tattoo?

<v Speaker 5>I say, first, well, thinks she should just get it

<v Speaker 5>removed and be mad at the friend.

<v Speaker 2>Okay, well who's praying for that? Though? Like to go

<v Speaker 2>to get it removed?

<v Speaker 5>Now, I don't know it Just I think the hand

<v Speaker 5>tattoos are kind of yeah, you have to explain, you

<v Speaker 5>have to explain them all, you have to explain them

<v Speaker 5>all the time. So I just think she can be

<v Speaker 5>mad at the friend and just I'd say get the

<v Speaker 5>darn thing removed. That's my opinion. Most of the people.

<v Speaker 3>I'm seeing on the text line are saying that the

<v Speaker 3>friend is essentially just maybe ghosting her in general. Now

<v Speaker 3>it's not about the tattoo anymore. Your friend is just

<v Speaker 3>slowly backing away from you, period. So I don't know

<v Speaker 3>if there's been a reconsideration on the friends side, if

<v Speaker 3>she wants to be friends with Tessa.

<v Speaker 2>The whole thing's a little weird. The whole thing is

<v Speaker 2>a terrible idea to begin with.

<v Speaker 4>Well, I mean again, if you're following through, it's not

<v Speaker 4>so bad because that's something that you can have for

<v Speaker 4>the rest of your friendship together.

<v Speaker 1>You know.

<v Speaker 4>I know a lot of friends who stayed friends and

<v Speaker 4>they have their tattoos.

<v Speaker 2>You know, are they all in prison now? No?

<v Speaker 4>Stop? Like, it is not not completely uncommon thing to do,

<v Speaker 4>is what I mean.

<v Speaker 3>Yeah, A lot of people are saying, if she talked

<v Speaker 3>you into it, then yeah, she kind of owes you.

<v Speaker 2>Uh.

<v Speaker 3>And then a lot of people are saying, at this point,

<v Speaker 3>just go in and finish the butterfly another way and

<v Speaker 3>move on with your life.

<v Speaker 5>Yeah.

<v Speaker 2>I don't know how they would do that.

<v Speaker 3>How would they do that, Pam, But the other half

<v Speaker 3>on the palm side or maybe.

<v Speaker 5>I have no idea, I don't know.

<v Speaker 4>But if Tessa just gets the other half on her

<v Speaker 4>back of her hand, and then she's got the whole butterfly,

<v Speaker 4>and then she can just exactly just get it going

<v Speaker 4>by yourself. She doesn't need nobody to Well.

<v Speaker 2>It looks tacky and ridiculous when you're doing that.

<v Speaker 4>What do you mean it's my metamorphosis moment. I'm going,

<v Speaker 4>I'm flying into the sky.

<v Speaker 3>You get metamorphosis put on your back like you cross

<v Speaker 3>your shoulder, but its spelled wrong.

<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that's Larry. Good morning, thank you, Pam, good morning, mixed.

<v Speaker 2>Who's this?

<v Speaker 1>It's Vanessa?

<v Speaker 2>Hi, Vanessa. What do you think Tessa should do? Vanessava?

<v Speaker 1>So here, I just popped in my mind. Do you

<v Speaker 1>remember I might be dating myself? Remember it's this sounds

<v Speaker 1>like a case for Judge Glachner and the People's Court undone.

<v Speaker 2>Undone. She is like like how how?

<v Speaker 1>Why?

<v Speaker 2>No?

<v Speaker 3>You know, She's like, I could sue you because of

<v Speaker 3>this mal plaintiff coming in undone.

<v Speaker 2>So no, but really, what should Tessa do about this? Vanessa?

<v Speaker 1>She can't Well, here's the deal, right, Obviously she can't

<v Speaker 1>do anything right unlessa's girl steps up and does the

<v Speaker 1>right thing and offers to like at least pay for it.

<v Speaker 1>What can you do? She's she's up a creek.

<v Speaker 2>Yea up a creek. Huh. She can get a little

<v Speaker 2>creek tattooed on her other hand, or.

<v Speaker 1>Something where the butterfly lands on the rowboat that you

<v Speaker 1>would only.

<v Speaker 2>Need for that.

<v Speaker 4>See that's right, thank you inside the box.

<v Speaker 2>Here, very funny. All right, well, thank you for you.

<v Speaker 2>Have a great day.

<v Speaker 3>Okay, So I think the logical explanation on this, and

<v Speaker 3>multiple messages coming in they said, just get the other

<v Speaker 3>half of the butterfly on your other hand.

<v Speaker 2>The metamorphosis dot com.

<v Speaker 3>That's it's going to be your logical, yes, Tessa, is

<v Speaker 3>give your friend the boot and then just get it

<v Speaker 3>on your other hand.

<v Speaker 2>I think, well, and I.

<v Speaker 4>Think maybe your next tattoo, you get it in a

<v Speaker 4>place where so.

<v Speaker 2>You can hide it wrap.

<v Speaker 4>Genessa go first, Genessa first, or whatever friend you decide

<v Speaker 4>to get it with

<v Speaker 2>Next time butt crack tattoos, that's what I'm there, you

<v Speaker 2>go