<v Speaker 1>Jerry, Katie and Josh makes one hundred. All right, so something, uh,

<v Speaker 1>something horrible happened off the air here in the studio.

<v Speaker 2>Horrible for you because I'm right.

<v Speaker 3>Maybe you showed me a video.

<v Speaker 2>Listen. I know it's like you're like, that is not

<v Speaker 2>how you do that.

<v Speaker 3>That's wrong.

<v Speaker 2>It's not wrong, it's not wrong. It's so right. The

<v Speaker 2>funny thing is, I've been wrong in this so.

<v Speaker 4>Long, Like I've been wrong my whole life in how

<v Speaker 4>to do this, and I finally figured out how, and

<v Speaker 4>then you're telling me I'm wrong and it's totally not okay.

<v Speaker 2>But I made mango salsa this weekend, right, and I.

<v Speaker 4>Was telling Jeremy that I finally know how to cut

<v Speaker 4>a mango because I've never properly cut a mango. Like

<v Speaker 4>it is a mess, Josh, like mango massacre everywhere, suck.

<v Speaker 4>Any time I try and cut one, it's just a

<v Speaker 4>bunch of mess.

<v Speaker 3>It's like mango suck.

<v Speaker 2>They they're my favorite fruit.

<v Speaker 3>Okay, They're so delicious. No, no, no, they're delicious, yeah,

<v Speaker 3>but they're hard to open. They're pre sliced and ready

<v Speaker 3>to rock.

<v Speaker 2>Exactly.

<v Speaker 3>You should just change the name of that fruit. To suck.

<v Speaker 4>It is so hard to get them peeled and cut

<v Speaker 4>up and everything. But I was making mango saltce I've

<v Speaker 4>done it the last couple of weekends with my friend Violet.

<v Speaker 2>Shout out to Violet.

<v Speaker 4>And she showed me the easiest way to peel a mango,

<v Speaker 4>and that is with like a pery knife. Right, So

<v Speaker 4>you take the mango, you hold it in your left

<v Speaker 4>hand if you're right handed, and then you take that

<v Speaker 4>knife and you score it from top to bottom, and

<v Speaker 4>you do it multiple times so as to create almost

<v Speaker 4>the leaves.

<v Speaker 3>It's like you're holding an avocado.

<v Speaker 4>Exactly, and so you're cutting it as again to create

<v Speaker 4>little leaves on it. And then you just pull down

<v Speaker 4>those leaves from top to bottom and it completely peels

<v Speaker 4>it for you. And then you're able to cut it

<v Speaker 4>around the pit and make it in slices or little

<v Speaker 4>squares as I needed for my mango salsa.

<v Speaker 2>But I was so proud of myself for being able

<v Speaker 2>to do this.

<v Speaker 3>That's what I was thinking.

<v Speaker 1>You had like one of the sharpest knives on the

<v Speaker 1>planet and your whole nest slain thing.

<v Speaker 2>Are you kidding me?

<v Speaker 1>It's got the little hook to it and I mean

<v Speaker 1>that can just see it right going right across your wrist.

<v Speaker 2>It's a yellow mango.

<v Speaker 1>And the next thing you know, we're calling nine one

<v Speaker 1>one because you slit your wrists.

<v Speaker 4>The yellow part is the peel. It's not slippery mango.

<v Speaker 4>That's a yellow mango.

<v Speaker 2>For my mango.

<v Speaker 3>Is this the one where you can like peel it

<v Speaker 3>back and it's cubed like you put you No, see,

<v Speaker 3>that's the right way. That's what I thought. That's the

<v Speaker 3>right way. The wrong Okay, I'm not doing it.

<v Speaker 2>There's more than one way to cut up a mango.

<v Speaker 1>But I told you you're gonna piss me off. People

<v Speaker 1>are calling right now. The right ways you stand the

<v Speaker 1>mango up like it's just standing there, little buddy. Yeah,

<v Speaker 1>and you slice down, straight down through it on the

<v Speaker 1>right side. You slice down left side, and you got

<v Speaker 1>the pit in the middle.

<v Speaker 3>That's all you get left, I know.

<v Speaker 2>But you're wasting so much.

<v Speaker 3>No, no, no.

<v Speaker 1>There's a there's a trick to that too. So then

<v Speaker 1>you hold it in your hand like you're cutting an avocado. Yeah,

<v Speaker 1>And you hold it and then you scour it with

<v Speaker 1>a rounded knife at the edge so you don't go.

<v Speaker 3>Through and slice your hand open. You got it. You

<v Speaker 3>have a rounded knife.

<v Speaker 1>But then you do you go four lines down, and

<v Speaker 1>then you go four lines the other way, go horizontal,

<v Speaker 1>then vertical, and then you turn it inside out and

<v Speaker 1>then it's like then it's like.

<v Speaker 3>A flower with all the cub and then.

<v Speaker 4>You can eat it like I don't like it, and

<v Speaker 4>I don't like it. This way, you can slice it

<v Speaker 4>like you would again if you're chopping up an onion

<v Speaker 4>or a potato and you need it in.

<v Speaker 2>The little cubes, it's perfect.

<v Speaker 1>You're giving cubes the other way, watch your big cubes.

<v Speaker 2>It's so much easier.

<v Speaker 3>And it's not it's so much not slimy and sloppy too.

<v Speaker 2>No, no, no, this is like the way.

<v Speaker 4>This is the gangsta way to make mangoes into salsa.

<v Speaker 2>I'm telling you, this is the o G way. This

<v Speaker 2>is the way you do it.

<v Speaker 1>I'm telling you I will bring you in.

<v Speaker 2>The mango salsa and you stupid different.

<v Speaker 3>Because I guarantee you there's blood.

<v Speaker 2>No, no, there's not.

<v Speaker 4>I will show I'm gonna show Josh the video of

<v Speaker 4>nobody wants to see.

<v Speaker 3>You, nobody. I'm gonna tell you right now. I smiled

<v Speaker 3>and it was very polite.

<v Speaker 2>I fast forwarded, what do you mean, Please.

<v Speaker 3>Don't post that, Please don't show anybody.

<v Speaker 2>I did it so I could show you.

<v Speaker 4>I did it just so I could showbody in the

<v Speaker 4>act of it.

<v Speaker 2>I knew you were gonna come at me. I knew

<v Speaker 2>you were going to get my mango kitchen. And I

<v Speaker 2>was like, not today, Jeremy, not today.

<v Speaker 1>And somebody rode in and said, the proper way is

<v Speaker 1>just to buy it cut up. Then you don't have

<v Speaker 1>to have yes, Jeremy, I agree, but then you take

<v Speaker 1>the cubes out with a spoon. No no, I saved

<v Speaker 1>the spoon. I saved the utensil. One less dish to do,

<v Speaker 1>and you just pop it open and you can bite it.

<v Speaker 4>You know what's funny is I will agree with Shelley

<v Speaker 4>who texted in and said, there are several ways to

<v Speaker 4>cut a mango. However, just get a mango slicer and

<v Speaker 4>it works fantastic.

<v Speaker 3>I will have see it on TV.

<v Speaker 4>I have a mango slicer and I've never been able

<v Speaker 4>to use it correctly.

<v Speaker 2>I couldn't figure it out.

<v Speaker 4>But after I was taught how to slice the mango properly,

<v Speaker 4>the mango slicer made so much more sense.

<v Speaker 2>So now I'm gonna go try it.

<v Speaker 4>I actually told my friend I was gonna bring the

<v Speaker 4>man slice are over next time we make.

<v Speaker 3>That's an exciting weekend.

<v Speaker 2>No, we're gonna do this and we're gonna make tortillas next.

<v Speaker 1>Jeremy so surprised that you're to.

<v Speaker 2>Show you by tortilla video.

<v Speaker 3>I can't wait. You gotta find you a man immediately.

<v Speaker 3>This is what you're doing on your weekends. We need

<v Speaker 3>to get you some loving.

<v Speaker 2>What do you mean so I can make him tortillas.

<v Speaker 3>Mango?

<v Speaker 2>I can cut him salsa.

<v Speaker 3>I'm pissed. I gotta go walk around.

<v Speaker 1>I'm reading our text line and we were fighting about mangos,

<v Speaker 1>and Kathy wrote in and said, Jeremy, stop mango shaming.

<v Speaker 3>Which is the line of the day.

<v Speaker 1>And we're going into a topic about mom shaming. What

<v Speaker 1>are the freaking odds?

<v Speaker 2>Ready?

<v Speaker 3>And then side note, was that really mango shaming? Is

<v Speaker 3>that a thing?

<v Speaker 5>Now?

<v Speaker 1>Are we are supposed to go on to socials now

<v Speaker 1>and get mad? The funny radio guy in Denver was

<v Speaker 1>mango shaming?

<v Speaker 2>I felt I did.

<v Speaker 5>There.

<v Speaker 1>I was listening to the radio this morning and it's

<v Speaker 1>jerk on Mixed one hundreds. He was mango shaming the

<v Speaker 1>lady on the show for the way she was cutting

<v Speaker 1>her mangoes.

<v Speaker 2>There's no wrong way to cut a mango.

<v Speaker 3>Jare I'm offended for her?

<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

<v Speaker 3>Okay, he was shaming citres.

<v Speaker 2>Back off my slices.

<v Speaker 1>I'm switching back over to Queasy and they love mangoes.

<v Speaker 3>The mixes is a jerk.

<v Speaker 1>You've been called out a couple of times today.

<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you are on one.

<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

<v Speaker 1>I can't listen to that station anymore. I'm everybody on

<v Speaker 1>next doors.

<v Speaker 2>Calm down your mangoes, sir.

<v Speaker 1>Hold your mangoes, Lady Alex all right, So yes, from

<v Speaker 1>mango shady shaming to mom shaming.

<v Speaker 3>Yes, what do you got to say about this?

<v Speaker 4>That's the thing I think every parent in general can

<v Speaker 4>relate to. This can feel what I'm about to say

<v Speaker 4>mom specifically, though I don't know why it is that

<v Speaker 4>we just feel like we're never doing a good enough job,

<v Speaker 4>but that feeling hits almost daily for moms. And I

<v Speaker 4>was just thinking about a few specific instances where I

<v Speaker 4>really felt like I was not doing the mom thing right.

<v Speaker 4>And one it's funny because it's from someone that I

<v Speaker 4>still consider a really good friend. He and his then

<v Speaker 4>it was his fiance. We were all sitting at a restaurant, right,

<v Speaker 4>so we were all eating dinner and everything, and I

<v Speaker 4>don't know how the topic came up, but we started

<v Speaker 4>talking about social security numbers, right, and I I know,

<v Speaker 4>I don't know how it got to that, but we

<v Speaker 4>started talking about social security numbers and the ones that

<v Speaker 4>we knew, and I was like, well, obviously I only

<v Speaker 4>know my social Security number, right, that's what everybody remembers

<v Speaker 4>their own. And the you know person, it's funny enough.

<v Speaker 4>Her name is Karen, she spells it with a C,

<v Speaker 4>and she's super sweet. I want to like, I just

<v Speaker 4>love her. But she looked at me and she was like,

<v Speaker 4>you don't know your baby? No, no social Security number?

<v Speaker 4>And I was like every mom knows their kids sociality number.

<v Speaker 4>And I was like so in the moment, like, oh no,

<v Speaker 4>is this something I'm supposed to know?

<v Speaker 2>And I just completely missed this.

<v Speaker 1>This is like like I already memorized it, like while

<v Speaker 1>they were giving birth, they like gave me the number

<v Speaker 1>one like early.

<v Speaker 2>She's not a mom, right, so she.

<v Speaker 4>Wor but wait, she knew her mom's social Security number

<v Speaker 4>and her two nephews what, And I was just like

<v Speaker 4>so blown away by First of.

<v Speaker 1>All, God, I would have given her crap like hey,

<v Speaker 1>are you into identity theft or something?

<v Speaker 4>No. I just was like really impressed with her memory skills,

<v Speaker 4>for one, because I barely remember my solid security number.

<v Speaker 4>But then I started like asking people like it became

<v Speaker 4>something in me that like, I was so insecure about it.

<v Speaker 4>I wanted to find out if other moms knew their

<v Speaker 4>social Security number.

<v Speaker 2>And it was brought up a couple times after just like.

<v Speaker 4>Remember when Katie didn't know baby no social security number?

<v Speaker 4>And I, like, you know, had done my research at

<v Speaker 4>that point, so I was like, I just want you

<v Speaker 4>to know I've asked this question in to other moms.

<v Speaker 2>Nobody knows their kids.

<v Speaker 3>No, I don't. I don't think Nick knows our kids.

<v Speaker 4>You're right, No, From that moment, I've tried to remember

<v Speaker 4>they need this point and I can't.

<v Speaker 3>You don't need to.

<v Speaker 4>It's just something in my mind that I cannot hold

<v Speaker 4>onto and I have tried. But the good thing is

<v Speaker 4>I taught her to remember her own. She knows her

<v Speaker 4>social Security number. I know my social security number, But man,

<v Speaker 4>it is something that has just stuck with me.

<v Speaker 2>Really, you were mom shamed that.

<v Speaker 4>I was just kind of made to feel less than

<v Speaker 4>because of something I didn't do as a mom, and

<v Speaker 4>so it just like, you know, and I know that

<v Speaker 4>a lot of moms deal with this.

<v Speaker 2>Another time, when Zoe was super.

<v Speaker 4>Little, we were at a restaurant again and she was

<v Speaker 4>eating chicken fingers and she was less than one, so

<v Speaker 4>she was just a little baby, right, but she like

<v Speaker 4>to really just taste the ranch, like she would dip

<v Speaker 4>her chicken finger and ranch and then just suck on

<v Speaker 4>it because she just loved the ranch.

<v Speaker 2>And I knew that's fine, and I knew that's what

<v Speaker 2>she was doing. She sitting right next to me, and

<v Speaker 2>I knew that's what she was doing.

<v Speaker 4>But there was another person on the other side of

<v Speaker 4>her so terrified that she was gonna numb off a

<v Speaker 4>piece of that chicken and she was gonna choke on it.

<v Speaker 2>And I was just like, lady, I know what she's doing.

<v Speaker 2>She's numbing it. She's just gumming that thing down to

<v Speaker 2>the you know, the tendy. She's just sucking. She's just

<v Speaker 2>sucking on the ranch. Go on she's just sucking on

<v Speaker 2>the ranch. It's fine, Like, but she made me feel

<v Speaker 2>so bad. Well, what do you mean?

<v Speaker 3>Like she just loves the ranch?

<v Speaker 6>See now your mom is fine. She just loves still

<v Speaker 6>what it's a big deal. No, but it happens a

<v Speaker 6>lot and just like yeah, laughing aside. I just feel

<v Speaker 6>like moms.

<v Speaker 3>Have to She was eating is shees like you?

<v Speaker 5>No? What do you mean?

<v Speaker 4>No? I just.

<v Speaker 1>Okay, here's what we're gonna do. We're gonna open up

<v Speaker 1>the phone lines if anybody wants to call, if any

<v Speaker 1>moms want to call him, yes, and uh talk about

<v Speaker 1>Katie's daughter sucking un ranch if that was.

<v Speaker 3>A good idea about it.

<v Speaker 1>No, if you've ever been mom shamed, like, how were

<v Speaker 1>you mom shamed?

<v Speaker 3>What happened? You know, mom's just trying to do their

<v Speaker 3>best out there.

<v Speaker 1>Yeah, give their kids a delicious chicken tendy meal exactly

<v Speaker 1>with a bottle of Hidden Valley with a straw.

<v Speaker 2>Nothing wrong with that?

<v Speaker 3>How were you mom shamed?

<v Speaker 4>Uh?

<v Speaker 3>Dig deep, think about it.

<v Speaker 1>You know when you first started parenting, I know Nick

<v Speaker 1>nack Scott's if I can't talk about him on the air, though.

<v Speaker 2>Why not come on?

<v Speaker 1>What we do here and involves other family members. I

<v Speaker 1>can think of a couple of game, a couple that

<v Speaker 1>friends told her so. Anyway, phone lines are wide open

<v Speaker 1>if you guys want to sound off about this or

<v Speaker 1>Katie's daughter's eating habits. Yeah, happy Monday morning. Let's dive

<v Speaker 1>into mom shaming. It's mom shaming Monday with JKJ. Yeah,

<v Speaker 1>we opened up the phone lines. If you're a mom

<v Speaker 1>and you want to sound off about somebody who was

<v Speaker 1>just a little bit too much of a busy body

<v Speaker 1>getting into the old business about how you're raising your kids,

<v Speaker 1>would love to talk to you. Three oh three six'

<v Speaker 1>nine to, one sixteen forty nine no name wrote in

<v Speaker 1>and SAID i missed a classroom volunteer.

<v Speaker 3>DAY i was. Working LATER i overheard a group.

<v Speaker 1>Of moms talking about how some parents let their careers

<v Speaker 1>take priority over their. Children and one of them looked

<v Speaker 1>directly at me when they said, it and she had

<v Speaker 1>finished my, saying, Oh, parker MOMS.

<v Speaker 3>O nic.

<v Speaker 4>Hard moms and just people in, general not even just

<v Speaker 4>a mom. Thing people just kind of get there. Sometimes

<v Speaker 4>but hold your, head, hime, mom.

<v Speaker 3>Jeez Here's. Tanisha, Hi, Tanisha welcome to the.

<v Speaker 5>Show good, morning In are you hip to the mom?

<v Speaker 5>Shaming i've been mom, shamed BUT i wanted to add

<v Speaker 5>a slight comment about the chicken bone. Thing so all

<v Speaker 5>my kids they use chicken bones as teeth are the

<v Speaker 5>chicken wing? Bones AND i used chicken. BONES i was

<v Speaker 5>as a kid as a. Teether so we're all still.

<v Speaker 4>Here.

<v Speaker 5>Yeah, no there was absolutely nothing wrong with with the

<v Speaker 5>bones and the ranch and there.

<v Speaker 3>Was no chicken bones.

<v Speaker 4>Though it was just a chicken chicken tender that she

<v Speaker 4>would dip in the ranch and just kind of suck on.

<v Speaker 3>You no bone.

<v Speaker 5>That, Yeah now are you?

<v Speaker 3>Annoyed? No, No i'm a little disgusted even you, know.

<v Speaker 5>They got to learn how to eat food eventually they,

<v Speaker 5>do and you have to.

<v Speaker 2>Let them figure it, out, Right you can't feed them their.

<v Speaker 3>Whole make good. Choices suck on a chicken tending dipped

<v Speaker 3>in ranch and make good.

<v Speaker 2>Choices, Kids, hey all, right.

<v Speaker 5>Because you've never done, it BUT i will SEE i.

<v Speaker 5>Did grandpa shame. MONTHS i, MEAN i guess he was

<v Speaker 5>a grandpa because he was. Learning he gave my three

<v Speaker 5>months old, rice not baby cereal, rice actual, rice and

<v Speaker 5>he said he want that he wanted him to learn

<v Speaker 5>how to. Eat, yeah that's a little young three months. Old,

<v Speaker 5>Yeah i'm LIKE i saw him gumming. SOMETHING i was,

<v Speaker 5>like what's? Fun and it was?

<v Speaker 2>Rice, YEAH.

<v Speaker 5>I know onto my mom. Shames So I'm Native american

<v Speaker 5>And i'm big in our culture is we like to

<v Speaker 5>let our boys their hair grow out. Long so all the,

<v Speaker 5>TIME i, get you need to cut his hair he

<v Speaker 5>is a, boy OR i get, like just what AM

<v Speaker 5>i doing to? Him that's my mom shame THAT i

<v Speaker 5>get all the.

<v Speaker 3>Time would you people to shut? Up just shut?

<v Speaker 5>UP i WISH i could put it on the shirt

<v Speaker 5>because it's like nobody should have a say on How

<v Speaker 5>i'm raising my. Hair, yeah and, yes so that's just.

<v Speaker 5>What that's my little intake on the mom shaming Because.

<v Speaker 4>I'm Also chipwa AND i know how having long hair

<v Speaker 4>in our culture it's like part of our, life like

<v Speaker 4>it's part of our, identity and so cutting it is

<v Speaker 4>a really big. Deal it's not just you bring them

<v Speaker 4>into the barber and they get their hair. CUT i

<v Speaker 4>mean it's a you, know they have ceremonies for it and.

<v Speaker 4>Everything so again that must have failed very very just

<v Speaker 4>like personal to, You like you have no idea why

<v Speaker 4>their hair is still.

<v Speaker 3>Long, yeah shut, Up, yeah it.

<v Speaker 5>Does it, happens And i'm gonna get, THIS i, know

<v Speaker 5>for the rest of his. Life and he's going to

<v Speaker 5>get it, too so he's probably gonna have to say

<v Speaker 5>you a million times growing. Up i'm a, Boy i'm a. Boy, yeah,

<v Speaker 5>yes that was. It but, yeah it's all.

<v Speaker 1>RIGHT i do want you to go out and get.

<v Speaker 1>IT i do want you to go out and get

<v Speaker 1>a shirt.

<v Speaker 3>Though this is just shut, up we.

<v Speaker 2>Go we should all have a shirt like, that, Right, Tanisha.

<v Speaker 1>Anisha thank you for the. Call that's, fantastic all. RIGHT

<v Speaker 1>a couple more that came in on the text line

<v Speaker 1>everyone loves talking about limiting screen. TIME i get, it

<v Speaker 1>but my son AND i play video games.

<v Speaker 3>Together it's one of the ways that we.

<v Speaker 1>Bond another mom told ME i was teaching him laziness

<v Speaker 1>and ruining his. Brain and that's from Another. Katie, okay

<v Speaker 1>geez buzz. Off this woman, Said i'm A i'm not

<v Speaker 1>A pinterest. Mom for a school, PROJECT i bought supplies

<v Speaker 1>helped my son do the work. Himself another parents showed

<v Speaker 1>up with what looked like a professionally designed. Exhibit she

<v Speaker 1>looked at me and, said, oh you must have forgotten

<v Speaker 1>that he had an, assignment and she gave an audible hmm.

<v Speaker 2>See now that's the kind of shame.

<v Speaker 5>T.

<v Speaker 3>Shirt just shut.

<v Speaker 2>Up that's a little.

<v Speaker 1>Much the one that we got a few times from friends,

<v Speaker 1>is you, know we go to bed. Early we both

<v Speaker 1>take nack AND i are up. EARLY i MEAN i

<v Speaker 1>up at three, thirty you, know to come in and

<v Speaker 1>get this job. Going and our kids in turn are

<v Speaker 1>going to bed early, too because it's like it's just

<v Speaker 1>the way it. Is we've had a couple of parents

<v Speaker 1>tell us that we were basically robbing our children of

<v Speaker 1>childhood memories because we make.

<v Speaker 3>Them go to bed. EARLY i, know, right like what

<v Speaker 3>what kind of?

<v Speaker 2>Memories like what are you doing after?

<v Speaker 1>EIGHT i don't, know a nice LIKE i do feel

<v Speaker 1>bad a little, bit like in the summer when we're

<v Speaker 1>getting like whinding down for the night and everything and

<v Speaker 1>it's still a light. Out so, YEAH i, mean, YEAH

<v Speaker 1>i get, it But i'm not really sure what that.

<v Speaker 3>Meant and we got that a few. Times you're robbing

<v Speaker 3>them of childhood.

<v Speaker 1>Memories and we'll get that mortgage ain't gonna pay itself.

<v Speaker 4>Exactly, Right and, again what. Trouble are you going to

<v Speaker 4>get into after like eight thirty at, Nine, right you're just.

<v Speaker 1>Running around the, neighborhood you, know playing grab. Ass, Yeah

<v Speaker 1>acon houses AND tpe and, Things so go to.

<v Speaker 2>Bed i'll be fun robbing them of them core. Memories

<v Speaker 2>get THAT t.

<v Speaker 3>Shirt just shut up in your own.

<v Speaker 5>Business