<v Speaker 1>Jared Katy and Josh one hundred. My weekend just zipped

<v Speaker 1>on by. It was ridiculous. We had people come in

<v Speaker 1>from out of town. Nickknacks out of the family on Friday,

<v Speaker 1>like after the show, and it was just non stop

<v Speaker 1>the rest of the weekend, and a lot of it

<v Speaker 1>fell on us for hosting and grilling and doing a

<v Speaker 1>brunch and thank god, it's done really good. Though, to

<v Speaker 1>catch up with all the family that came in that

<v Speaker 1>we have not seen in a long time, it got

<v Speaker 1>a little weird because a lot of them are aging okay,

<v Speaker 1>so there was a lot of like, wow, I haven't

<v Speaker 1>seen you in like fifteen years. In man, you're you're

<v Speaker 1>up there? Yeah, and Nicole's dead, bless his heart. I

<v Speaker 1>was talking about his siblings because all the siblings were

<v Speaker 1>together and he's like, well, this is probably be the

<v Speaker 1>last time we're all together where we're all alive. I

<v Speaker 1>was like, no, and he said it multiple times.

<v Speaker 2>Oh goodness, dude, harsh. Is that what you do? You

<v Speaker 2>just get to a point where you accept it, you

<v Speaker 2>start talking about it openly, making people uncomfortable. Is that

<v Speaker 2>pretty much what happened?

<v Speaker 1>And it was brought up like three or four times.

<v Speaker 2>I hate that.

<v Speaker 1>Yeah, like that, I know. I was a little I

<v Speaker 1>was like, I can't know.

<v Speaker 2>Be a little quieter about your demise because I don't

<v Speaker 2>want to hear it.

<v Speaker 1>Like you start thinking about it, and you know, siblings

<v Speaker 1>will go off to different parts of the country and

<v Speaker 1>then you' all are you know, starting to be mid

<v Speaker 1>seventies and all that, and you get together in one

<v Speaker 1>spot and then you're probably thinking, well, one of us

<v Speaker 1>is going to eat it. Yeah, you know, and this

<v Speaker 1>could be the last time.

<v Speaker 2>No.

<v Speaker 1>I kept bringing it up though, when.

<v Speaker 2>You start like breaking it down into reality terms, like

<v Speaker 2>my mom did that the last Christmas I went home

<v Speaker 2>because she was just like, you've only came home for

<v Speaker 2>three Christmases since you left, like twenty five years ago.

<v Speaker 2>And I was just.

<v Speaker 1>Like, I did you, I know.

<v Speaker 2>And like when they break it down like that, like

<v Speaker 2>by Christmases, by summers, by meetings, when you're all going

<v Speaker 2>to see each other, like it really kind of I

<v Speaker 2>think they do it. Also, you just want to hang

<v Speaker 2>on to him longer, right, You're like, don't never leave.

<v Speaker 2>I don't want to miss you ever again. No, You're like,

<v Speaker 2>leave right now, Well afternoon, Well, yeah, you're ready. Well

<v Speaker 2>it was a good last visit. See yeah.

<v Speaker 1>I mean like I was standing there with nik next

<v Speaker 1>dad as his sister was walking away at the end

<v Speaker 1>and they were loading up and it was just me

<v Speaker 1>and him, and he dropped it again. Well that's the

<v Speaker 1>probably the last time I'll see her alive.

<v Speaker 2>I was like, Cander with that guy, what I go?

<v Speaker 1>It sucks getting old, man?

<v Speaker 2>What do you say to me?

<v Speaker 1>What do you say to that? And he's like, well,

<v Speaker 1>we're all going to be there.

<v Speaker 2>How do you respond? I mean, what do you turn? So?

<v Speaker 2>Have you picked out your casket?

<v Speaker 1>Well? Matter of fact, you know what Elsie did while

<v Speaker 1>we were there. They showed us pictures of God, what

<v Speaker 1>were they calling it? Wherever the hole that you put

<v Speaker 1>your cremains the plot? It's it's not a plot. They

<v Speaker 1>were calling it something else. No, it's you that's the

<v Speaker 1>hole in the wall.

<v Speaker 2>Yeah, on the muzzle.

<v Speaker 1>Yeah, they had a funny name for it. I don't

<v Speaker 1>remember what it was. Anyway, they started showing us pictures

<v Speaker 1>that they picked it out. So they've got their names

<v Speaker 1>on it, and they've got their born date and they're

<v Speaker 1>just waiting for the expiration. They're like they're doing selfies

<v Speaker 1>in front of this.

<v Speaker 2>They're forever resting this.

<v Speaker 1>This is our next home in front of your grave site.

<v Speaker 1>What I know, I don't like it.

<v Speaker 2>I don't like it one like a requirement, Like.

<v Speaker 1>I don't know. But I was like, well that's different.

<v Speaker 2>And they learned this in a classes.

<v Speaker 1>Then it got me thinking, like maybe I want to

<v Speaker 1>do that.

<v Speaker 2>Like I guess it's good planning.

<v Speaker 1>But grump says crypt on our text niche. Maybe it

<v Speaker 1>was the niche. Somebody's just said niche. Maybe it was

<v Speaker 1>the niche. I don't remember what they like any of

<v Speaker 1>it though, but yeah, But so I was like, well,

<v Speaker 1>did you like take the front off and like put

<v Speaker 1>your head in there you can kind of see, you know,

<v Speaker 1>because that's about the size of it, right.

<v Speaker 2>Thinking of all the people I go to visit in

<v Speaker 2>the graveyard when I go home, I don't think any

<v Speaker 2>of them saw their spot before they went there.

<v Speaker 1>Doesn't it get you thinking, though? Do you wouldn't you

<v Speaker 1>like to see your spot? Don't you got ready to rock?

<v Speaker 1>Not really especially I think it would be awesome to

<v Speaker 1>have the spot if you're getting buried, and then go

<v Speaker 1>and lay there and then look up at the sky

<v Speaker 1>be like this is gonna be my view. This is

<v Speaker 1>I could you know that? Why not? That's kind of fun.

<v Speaker 2>I don't like that tree right there?

<v Speaker 1>Yeah, their spot like these would be nice. There's birds

<v Speaker 1>chirping and there's a beautiful evergreen and you just lay

<v Speaker 1>there in your spot. You wouldn't do that? Or is

<v Speaker 1>that like bad mojo? Like I would be here sooner

<v Speaker 1>than you want to.

<v Speaker 2>Yes, yeah, I don't think you're supposed to take put

<v Speaker 2>that on.

<v Speaker 1>But anyway, they had selfies in front of their hole,

<v Speaker 1>and I think that was the line her dad used.

<v Speaker 1>He's like, well, we just need an expiration date on there.

<v Speaker 1>You know, we're all gonna be dead the next time

<v Speaker 1>you see us, Like, yeah, stop it now. Who wants

<v Speaker 1>to Danish