<v Speaker 1>Jerry Katy and Josh Mix one hundred.

<v Speaker 2>All right, so there's a big story going around right now.

<v Speaker 2>It's definitely popping on the socials where this dad had

<v Speaker 2>to take his young daughters in to wash their hands.

<v Speaker 3>Staying away here, Okay, So it involves Oklahoma father Tyler

<v Speaker 3>and man he got a debate going after he recorded

<v Speaker 3>a confrontation at an Alabama gas station. So he brought

<v Speaker 3>his two young daughters into the women's restroom when he

<v Speaker 3>was on this road trip, right and he said he

<v Speaker 3>knocked and announced his presence beforehand to ensure the women's

<v Speaker 3>restroom was empty. I want to preface it with that

<v Speaker 3>he chose the women's room over the men's restroom because

<v Speaker 3>he felt the men's facility, often containing open urinals and

<v Speaker 3>occupied by adult men, was not a safer appropriate environment

<v Speaker 3>for his young daughters. So while he was in there

<v Speaker 3>helping his daughters wash their hands, someone, an older guy,

<v Speaker 3>aggressively confronted him. And there's video of this. You can

<v Speaker 3>see this guy just he is so mad about it.

<v Speaker 3>He's shouting at him, demanding they leave, arguing that his

<v Speaker 3>wife and ill mother in law needed to use the restroom,

<v Speaker 3>but felt uncomfortable with Tyler in there with the man

<v Speaker 3>inside the restroom. So this guy who was yelling at

<v Speaker 3>Tyler called nine one one, and part of the video

<v Speaker 3>is him telling the.

<v Speaker 1>Police there's a guy in the bathroom. He's got his

<v Speaker 1>girls in here.

<v Speaker 3>But here's the thing, is like they're trying to de

<v Speaker 3>escalate the situation. The cops arrive and they're like, you know,

<v Speaker 3>he has not broken any laws. This isn't a police manager.

<v Speaker 3>But the whole thing again went viral. Yeah, matter, but

<v Speaker 3>the whole thing went viral and was put up on

<v Speaker 3>the internet, and now folks are debating about it because

<v Speaker 3>it is very much like I one hundred percent think

<v Speaker 3>he's in the right. If a man wants to bring

<v Speaker 3>his two young girls into the women's restroom, as long

<v Speaker 3>as he made sure and checked it beforehand, made sure

<v Speaker 3>it was empty, announced his presence, it's one hundred percent okay.

<v Speaker 1>He's trying to.

<v Speaker 3>Make his daughters feel comfortable. So that's where I'm one

<v Speaker 3>hundred percent okay with it. But you and Josh have

<v Speaker 3>both said you don't.

<v Speaker 4>Think it's okay. Well no, no, no, I don't know,

<v Speaker 4>I don't know.

<v Speaker 3>I don't both said that you think it's okay for

<v Speaker 3>him to bring the girls into the men's bathroom, and

<v Speaker 3>I think that part is not I understand why he wants.

<v Speaker 1>To bring them into the women's insteads Listen, here's the thing.

<v Speaker 1>So then this.

<v Speaker 3>Is where the argument just gets going because people have

<v Speaker 3>a side on this.

<v Speaker 2>I guess I coming at it because I've I have kids,

<v Speaker 2>I have a daughter, you know, I think I've had

<v Speaker 2>to do this before, and I would just go into

<v Speaker 2>the men's room and quickly wash hands and leave.

<v Speaker 3>I think they're washing their hands in the video, but

<v Speaker 3>I think they went to the bathroom.

<v Speaker 1>I think the girls use the rest.

<v Speaker 4>A different thing.

<v Speaker 2>Then, then, yes, I would I would prefer the women's bathroom.

<v Speaker 4>Yes, then the men's in that circumstance.

<v Speaker 3>And would you go in there with your young girl

<v Speaker 3>to make sure she was okay?

<v Speaker 2>I would probably he popped my head in and just

<v Speaker 2>see if anybody was in there, and if nobody was

<v Speaker 2>in there, I'd let him go if they're capable, probably

<v Speaker 2>by themselves, if nobody was in there, okay, and just

<v Speaker 2>kind of stand guard at the door maybe and think

<v Speaker 2>maybe keep popping my head in and saying, hey, okay,

<v Speaker 2>everything good. I would just kind of monitor, probably from outside.

<v Speaker 4>I don't know if i'd go fully in.

<v Speaker 1>Well, in the.

<v Speaker 3>Video you can see Tyler. It is a restop, a

<v Speaker 3>gas station. It's at a gas station, so it's at

<v Speaker 3>the bathroom and the gas station. But in the video

<v Speaker 3>you can see Tyler is hoisting his young daughter up

<v Speaker 3>to the sink so she can wash. They need help,

<v Speaker 3>so he's in the bathroom with them. And that is

<v Speaker 3>apparently the problem that this older gentleman has and who's

<v Speaker 3>causing this.

<v Speaker 2>Biggest, an old crotchey man that just wants to get

<v Speaker 2>another people's business.

<v Speaker 5>Yes, it is shut.

<v Speaker 1>There are people taking both sides of this.

<v Speaker 3>There are people who are defending the man's action, saying

<v Speaker 3>he had every right to be upset, and then there

<v Speaker 3>are people defending Tyler and saying he's just being a

<v Speaker 3>girl dad trying to take care of his kid.

<v Speaker 4>They just needed to wash their hands and go to

<v Speaker 4>the bathroom.

<v Speaker 6>Leave.

<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

<v Speaker 4>Now, I will say it was funny off.

<v Speaker 2>The air because we briefly talked about this and we're like,

<v Speaker 2>hold on, let's talk about it more.

<v Speaker 4>On the air. Katie was extremely worried that if the

<v Speaker 4>girls went into the men's restroom, they might see ppding, yeah,

<v Speaker 4>because the like and.

<v Speaker 1>We're not familiar with all, I imagine.

<v Speaker 4>And you guys, you guys, we're just walking around, you know.

<v Speaker 2>And Joshua had to explain, it's like, you're you don't,

<v Speaker 2>you're not seeing pp ding ding.

<v Speaker 4>You're no, you don't know.

<v Speaker 2>You're standing at the urinal and even if there's no divider,

<v Speaker 2>you're staring ahead, You're not, you don't.

<v Speaker 4>And again, and mostly there's a lot of it's just divider.

<v Speaker 5>Ninety nine percent of the time, there are dividers in

<v Speaker 5>there too. I have been in men's restrooms my entire life,

<v Speaker 5>and I've never seen one like genuinely I happen.

<v Speaker 2>I've seen men come in with their kids and their

<v Speaker 2>daughters and just wash hands and stuff, and I've never

<v Speaker 2>thought anything about it. And if they're that young, they're

<v Speaker 2>not going to think twice about what they're seeing or

<v Speaker 2>what's going on. Those girls, No, they're not, though they

<v Speaker 2>are girls, they're not going to think twice about They're

<v Speaker 2>not going to.

<v Speaker 3>But in my mind, I'm like, as a young person,

<v Speaker 3>I mean, I'm sure you guys have had the talk

<v Speaker 3>with your father's when you're in your the urinal. You

<v Speaker 3>look straight, you don't look down, you don't know, you

<v Speaker 3>don't talk like. You've probably had that conversation, so you

<v Speaker 3>know what.

<v Speaker 1>That etiquette is so common sense, so you've done it

<v Speaker 1>a million times.

<v Speaker 3>But I'm sure there was a moment where it was

<v Speaker 3>curious for you too, and you looked, You're.

<v Speaker 2>Like, listen, it only happened once here where a guy

<v Speaker 2>looked he peaked.

<v Speaker 4>I'm not even joking about that.

<v Speaker 2>And he was a really tall guy and we were

<v Speaker 2>standing at the urinals and he peeked over and I was.

<v Speaker 4>Like, did you just peek?

<v Speaker 3>I was like, you peek's peak is like for a

<v Speaker 3>woman like I had no idea.

<v Speaker 1>I thought you guys just peaked all the time.

<v Speaker 2>You guys have no peaking and walked around with it,

<v Speaker 2>you know, out and about and getting fresh air.

<v Speaker 5>Katie. If the girls did need to use the restroom

<v Speaker 5>and not just wash their hands, there are actual stalls

<v Speaker 5>in there, you know, like where they.

<v Speaker 4>I don't know.

<v Speaker 3>I just think if you look at it, if you

<v Speaker 3>look at it from the remiss of how this all

<v Speaker 3>got started, and that was a young father thought it

<v Speaker 3>was okay to go into the women's restroom with his

<v Speaker 3>young daughters to help them out.

<v Speaker 4>And I do think it's nobody in there.

<v Speaker 1>So that's the question, do you think it's okay for.

<v Speaker 3>A guy I think bring his daughters into the women's bathroom?

<v Speaker 4>I one, Now, if.

<v Speaker 2>You're in there, nobody's in there, and you're standing there

<v Speaker 2>waiting and helping, and then women come in.

<v Speaker 3>Then what I do say, I'm here helping. We will

<v Speaker 3>be out in a second, please let me finish up again.

<v Speaker 3>I think women across the board will be like, yes,

<v Speaker 3>we are okay with you bringing your daughter to the restroom.

<v Speaker 1>So that's where I.

<v Speaker 2>Did, just think a normal human with some common sense

<v Speaker 2>and courtesy, you'll be like, hey, I get it, dad,

<v Speaker 2>you know, yes, kudos to you, you know, helping these

<v Speaker 2>girls out. We'll wait just a second exactly.

<v Speaker 3>And so that's kind of where the question was phrased,

<v Speaker 3>is where do you think it's okay should Tyler have

<v Speaker 3>brought his young daughters into the men's restroom?

<v Speaker 5>Well, especially if one was in there either, I mean,

<v Speaker 5>if he if you peep your head in and there's

<v Speaker 5>no one in the men's restroom, just bring your young

<v Speaker 5>daughters in, wash your hands, do whatever. Because I'm kind

<v Speaker 5>of on chair side, Like, yeah, I would have probably

<v Speaker 5>just peaked my head because I have sisters and I

<v Speaker 5>remember when we were very young, my dad would take

<v Speaker 5>them in, you know, if it was with my dad,

<v Speaker 5>or I would go to the women's restroom with my mom,

<v Speaker 5>like when I was very young. And again, like he said,

<v Speaker 5>it never occurred to me that it was weird or anything.

<v Speaker 5>I was just with my parent using the restroom. So

<v Speaker 5>I think that's what you say.

<v Speaker 4>He's sitting down all the time. I didn't even know

<v Speaker 4>you could stand up of peaking with Josh because he's extended.

<v Speaker 5>I'm in the stall.

<v Speaker 4>We got Patty, Emily and VICKI.

<v Speaker 2>We'll try to quickly work through these three calls. Hi Patty, Hi,

<v Speaker 2>Hey you what are your thoughts about this?

<v Speaker 7>Well?

<v Speaker 8>I think either they I think it was writing to do.

<v Speaker 8>You know, these kids are little, they don't know what's

<v Speaker 8>going on, and there's a lot of strange people out there,

<v Speaker 8>and we have to protect them. You are there their

<v Speaker 8>protector as a parent. No matter what you have to do,

<v Speaker 8>you do what you need to do. This is what

<v Speaker 8>got to wake up parents living in the fourteen hundred. God, okay,

<v Speaker 8>and I'm living if anything, get yourself. You know, if

<v Speaker 8>they complain, and so much complain, then they need to

<v Speaker 8>have more family friendly bathrooms.

<v Speaker 4>They do.

<v Speaker 2>Those family changing rooms are just game changers. You ever

<v Speaker 2>snuck into one by yourself phone with a bread out,

<v Speaker 2>you put my hands on the walls, or you just

<v Speaker 2>spread out? Thank you, Patty very wise?

<v Speaker 4>Hi, Emili, Hi, hey girl? All right? What do you

<v Speaker 4>thought your thoughts on this hand washing story?

<v Speaker 5>So?

<v Speaker 7>I remember when I was around six or seven, I

<v Speaker 7>remember my dad taking me into a men's restroom and

<v Speaker 7>it scarred me for years. I like, it freaked me out.

<v Speaker 7>I was so nervous. There are so many men, I

<v Speaker 7>thought way too much, and I'll never forget it. I

<v Speaker 7>would never ever let my like my daughters go into

<v Speaker 7>the men's trosture at this point.

<v Speaker 1>Okay, you were six and you remember that.

<v Speaker 4>Seven? Yeah, what was good keeping? Radio friendly? But what

<v Speaker 4>the hell was going on in that bathroom? What what

<v Speaker 4>were you seeing? I mean, I just I'm not familiar

<v Speaker 4>with this. I've been into a lot of men's rooms,

<v Speaker 4>you know, just.

<v Speaker 7>Very very crowded. There was probably like it was one

<v Speaker 7>of those trough like giant giant restrooms, and I just

<v Speaker 7>remember seeing men everywhere and I'm little and I have

<v Speaker 7>no idea what's happening, and it was very aggressive.

<v Speaker 4>Yeah, and I don't like that.

<v Speaker 2>If I were to go in there with my daughter

<v Speaker 2>and there was that many dudes in there, I'd be like, no,

<v Speaker 2>we're going to find another option.

<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

<v Speaker 4>I don't like that.

<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, yeah, all right, Emily, So you're against it

<v Speaker 2>or wait, what are your So you're okay with this

<v Speaker 2>dad going into the women's Yeah.

<v Speaker 7>Absolutely. If I'm in the women's restroom and I see

<v Speaker 7>a dad with his daughters, I'm like.

<v Speaker 8>Good on you.

<v Speaker 3>Yeah, all right, because it's about keeping the kids comfortable, right.

<v Speaker 3>I think that's the best part of what this dad

<v Speaker 3>did is he knew that he would probably get some

<v Speaker 3>flack or at least expected it. But I mean he

<v Speaker 3>was trying to help his daughters out in this moment, which,

<v Speaker 3>as we can see from Emily, I'm glad he did it.

<v Speaker 5>Yeah.

<v Speaker 2>Yeah, Emily, thank you so much for the call. Really

<v Speaker 2>appreciate you. Let's wrap things up with Vicky, Hi, viky Hi,

<v Speaker 2>y'all fired.

<v Speaker 4>Up right now?

<v Speaker 6>VICKI no, I think that old guy needs to chill.

<v Speaker 4>Yeah, don't joke.

<v Speaker 2>That's the bottom line of this story, right, like buzz off, dude,

<v Speaker 2>that guy's he needs a good old fashioned throat punch.

<v Speaker 4>I think as well.

<v Speaker 6>Yeah, when I tested it, I said, you know, I

<v Speaker 6>know some of the colleges now the dorms are completely

<v Speaker 6>co ed. Oh like yeah, it's all boy girl it

<v Speaker 6>doesn't matter. And like the shower and the stalls are

<v Speaker 6>all floor to ceiling covered so you don't see anything.

<v Speaker 6>The sink area is a co ed and they keeps

<v Speaker 6>are fine with it. The parents thought, you know, it's

<v Speaker 6>a little whatever. But I don't want to name the

<v Speaker 6>schools because I don't want anything that's college for the

<v Speaker 6>little girls, for the little old I think it's better

<v Speaker 6>that the dad takes hurt them into the women's room versus.

<v Speaker 2>That's now, let me ask you, Vicky, Uh, you walk in,

<v Speaker 2>there's this dad in there washing the hands of the girls.

<v Speaker 4>What do you say?

<v Speaker 5>What do you do?

<v Speaker 6>I would say, that's fine. I'm a mom, and I'm like, yeah,

<v Speaker 6>I get it, you know, go go for it, especially

<v Speaker 6>especially if the rest of it was empty. When he

<v Speaker 6>went in. It was like, yeah, he's going to do

<v Speaker 6>his thing with the kids. He's not doing anything. He's

<v Speaker 6>just washing his kid's hand.

<v Speaker 7>He's a dad.

<v Speaker 6>Do you do at home?

<v Speaker 7>You know what I mean?

<v Speaker 6>When do you do at home? You have co ed

<v Speaker 6>bathrooms at home?

<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, well I thought for sure you'd say you'd

<v Speaker 2>walk in and just go to a stall and just

<v Speaker 2>tear it up.

<v Speaker 4>I thought that's what you were going to say.

<v Speaker 6>If I still just go and do my business, yeah,

<v Speaker 6>if I have to go to SAT.

<v Speaker 4>Yeah, that'll teach you theim get in there and tear

<v Speaker 4>it up.

<v Speaker 6>Thank you for there.

<v Speaker 4>It's fine.

<v Speaker 1>I'm glad that you're a good dude. Girls, girls just