<v Speaker 1>Jar you, Katy and Josh one hundred.

<v Speaker 2>Well, we've been documenting what's going on with Josh and

<v Speaker 2>his girlfriend Princess Pilots over the past few months, and

<v Speaker 2>some other stuff's going on now, huh buddy.

<v Speaker 3>Yeah, And I really do need your help on this

<v Speaker 3>because I truly don't think I'm in the wrong at all,

<v Speaker 3>but yet apparently she does. We've been dating for a

<v Speaker 3>few months now, like it's coming up on like six

<v Speaker 3>full months of actually dating, not just seeing each other

<v Speaker 3>and like keeping your options open or anything like that,

<v Speaker 3>like we're together, you know, and I've just been feeling

<v Speaker 3>like it's not crazy important to bring your girlfriend around

<v Speaker 3>for everything. Now, hear me out When I say that,

<v Speaker 3>I mean, yes, obviously the big holidays. We're talking Easters,

<v Speaker 3>the Christmas is, the fourth of July is all that stuff. Like, yeah,

<v Speaker 3>you come together as a couple, you know, you bring

<v Speaker 3>a bottle of wine or whatever for all those family

<v Speaker 3>functions that you come to. But apparently there comes a

<v Speaker 3>point in time in relationships when you are just expected

<v Speaker 3>to always show up as like a twosome, like you're

<v Speaker 3>always showing up together. You're all like, you know, Jenny

<v Speaker 3>plus one Josh plus one, you know, yeah, and I don't.

<v Speaker 3>I guess I didn't think we were there yet. But

<v Speaker 3>like she's starting to hint at like, you know, why

<v Speaker 3>am I not seeing your family more often? Why am

<v Speaker 3>I not coming around for this, that and the other thing?

<v Speaker 3>Because you were seeing.

<v Speaker 4>Yeah, see, don't ruin this, don't ruin it.

<v Speaker 5>No.

<v Speaker 3>But that's the thing is like it'll just be no one.

<v Speaker 3>It'll just be random like family functions, like my family's

<v Speaker 3>in town from out of town for this summer. Yeah,

<v Speaker 3>And like we just had a dinner and she like

<v Speaker 3>got a little upset at me for not I was like,

<v Speaker 3>I'm just going to Like, it didn't even cross my mind.

<v Speaker 3>I was just like, I'm going to dinner with them,

<v Speaker 3>It'll be forty five minutes and then I'm going back home.

<v Speaker 1>It's something you know, always done solo.

<v Speaker 4>Always, So it doesn't cross my mind.

<v Speaker 6>You guys do together longer than six months, it feels

<v Speaker 6>like it. Uh, are she pushing like a year now?

<v Speaker 6>Oh No, that's like December.

<v Speaker 1>Yeah, because you guys started dating like officially into December.

<v Speaker 4>Ye, it's about six months.

<v Speaker 2>It's so I'm like, it's not that you go through

<v Speaker 2>Christmas together, Yeah, which was a crazy dismiss She went

<v Speaker 2>through New Year's You've gone through.

<v Speaker 6>Valentine's Day, gone through Valentine.

<v Speaker 2>Birthday, birthdays, both of our birthdays soon to be the

<v Speaker 2>fourth of July together.

<v Speaker 6>We've went through a lot of stuff together already.

<v Speaker 3>We will be spending time with each other's families for

<v Speaker 3>the fourth so like we're just but we're hitting the

<v Speaker 3>majors just.

<v Speaker 6>Like hanging out. You don't want to bring her around.

<v Speaker 4>Well, it's not that I don't want to. She's great,

<v Speaker 4>she's awesome.

<v Speaker 3>It's it's just like it's never crossed my mind, and

<v Speaker 3>she's getting upset that I'm not inviting her to literally everything.

<v Speaker 1>This is a random Saturday night, like yeah, not an

<v Speaker 1>official holiday or something.

<v Speaker 3>And I'm like, in my mind, I'm like, well, six

<v Speaker 3>months in, like we're not married yet, Like I'm not leave,

<v Speaker 3>We're not leaving our house together to go to these things.

<v Speaker 3>So I'm like, and we still live like it's not

<v Speaker 3>long distance by any means, but like she's in the

<v Speaker 3>heart of Denver and I don't live there, So.

<v Speaker 4>Like, are still separate?

<v Speaker 1>You're not living together, you know, you're still dating, you know,

<v Speaker 1>just I mean you are dating exclude but totally yeah. Yeah, No,

<v Speaker 1>I can see you are condy your side of it

<v Speaker 1>because you want to kind of like not necessarily wait

<v Speaker 1>as long as you can, but you just don't feel

<v Speaker 1>you're there yet.

<v Speaker 3>No, And I'm just like six months in, I'm like,

<v Speaker 3>do we need Are we the package deal?

<v Speaker 6>That's the question?

<v Speaker 3>Are we the package deal of every Oh?

<v Speaker 6>Yeah? Six months in? Yeah? Yeah, yeah, we've established that.

<v Speaker 6>You talked about your future together.

<v Speaker 3>We have totally. We're in our thirties. Like that's That's

<v Speaker 3>the other thing is like, I'm not dating to waste time.

<v Speaker 6>I'm I'm on her side, you think really? Absolutely?

<v Speaker 2>My god, when I was smitten with Nick Knack after

<v Speaker 2>I was taking her to everything. She was coming to

<v Speaker 2>every family event, every little thing that we did.

<v Speaker 6>Oh no, am I doing? You taken her to church

<v Speaker 6>with you on Sunday? You're a church guy? Are you

<v Speaker 6>taking her?

<v Speaker 3>We know what she works every Sunday? That's her No,

<v Speaker 3>that's her schedule. Yes, well yeah, we've talked about it.

<v Speaker 3>When her her schedule is about to change and so

<v Speaker 3>that is that's when we'll make the effort for that.

<v Speaker 2>But no, she I'm on Tracy's side, she's texting in

<v Speaker 2>and a hashtag.

<v Speaker 6>Team Princess Pilot.

<v Speaker 2>It's weird that you don't want to just bring her around,

<v Speaker 2>Like if you've got something going on with family out

<v Speaker 2>of town, why aren't you just be like, Hey, come

<v Speaker 2>on over, we're having dinner, let's hang out.

<v Speaker 4>I guess it's yeah, maybe it's weird. It's just never

<v Speaker 4>crossed my mind.

<v Speaker 6>I don't think it's weird.

<v Speaker 1>I think it's the gen Z type of you have

<v Speaker 1>had your space for so long, like you've been a

<v Speaker 1>single guy. You live on your own, and it's gonna

<v Speaker 1>take a But yeah.

<v Speaker 2>You're worried about like not finding somebody, not getting married,

<v Speaker 2>and not moving on, Like why are you putting up

<v Speaker 2>a little wall? Oh listen, phone lines are wide open

<v Speaker 2>if anyone wants to sound off about this situation and

<v Speaker 2>how Josh is being mean to Princess Pilot. I don't

<v Speaker 2>think three O three six one mix three O three

<v Speaker 2>six' nine, one sixteen forty. Nine and then if anyone

<v Speaker 2>else wants to sound off about that other blonde girl

<v Speaker 2>that you were hanging out, with they know who that.

<v Speaker 2>Is THREE o three six never getting married sixteen forty.

<v Speaker 2>Nine he doesn't want to Bring princess pilot or to

<v Speaker 2>a lot of family events unless it's a major.

<v Speaker 3>Haul it's not THAT i don't want, to it's just

<v Speaker 3>that it hasn't necessarily crossed my.

<v Speaker 6>Mind that's concerning. Too Hi, brett good morning.

<v Speaker 7>Guys what's going?

<v Speaker 6>On, well we're just chilling waiting for you to. Call

<v Speaker 6>what are your thoughts on?

<v Speaker 3>This?

<v Speaker 7>Uh i'm gonna be a little blunt with, you. GUYS

<v Speaker 7>i found my wife in her thirties and my, thirties

<v Speaker 7>AND i wanted to bring her to every single THING

<v Speaker 7>i ever wanted to AND i gave up on finding

<v Speaker 7>my wife and NOW i have, Her SO i don't,

<v Speaker 7>know throwing up a little bit of a red flag for,

<v Speaker 7>You why why don't you want to take her everywhere

<v Speaker 7>you want to?

<v Speaker 6>Go i'm, ready it is a red.

<v Speaker 2>Flag I'M i did the exact same thing IF i

<v Speaker 2>was a smitten, kitten WHICH i was With Nick, knack my,

<v Speaker 2>wife she was at. Everything it crossed my mind every

<v Speaker 2>TIME i did, Anything, Hey i'm gonna go to safe

<v Speaker 2>what you want to go with?

<v Speaker 6>Me it was like, everything why are you doing?

<v Speaker 7>It and still to this, day if we're just gonna

<v Speaker 7>go pick up some meds at the. Pharmacy we're going,

<v Speaker 7>together and, yeah it's every minute we want to just

<v Speaker 7>be near each.

<v Speaker 2>Other heavy medication is incredibly, Romantic, josh it is, Okay,

<v Speaker 2>brett thank you for.

<v Speaker 3>CALLING i just think it's, interesting LIKE i guess It's

<v Speaker 3>and it's not That i'm not a smitten kitten like

<v Speaker 3>you guys. KNOW i talk about her, differently like she is.

<v Speaker 3>Amazing it's JUST i don't. KNOW i guess WHEN i

<v Speaker 3>just go to a family, Dinner i'm, Like, okay it'll

<v Speaker 3>be Forty like it's not an. Event it's not like

<v Speaker 3>we're gonna spend eight.

<v Speaker 2>Hours hanging out with. Her she's meeting the rest of your.

<v Speaker 2>Family and it was just mad on a good. Time

<v Speaker 2>even everybody who, said that's coming in from out of.

<v Speaker 3>Town not, Everybody, okay that's not. Everybody but that's the

<v Speaker 3>fourth Of. July it's coming.

<v Speaker 6>Up it's in a.

<v Speaker 2>Week, Hi, Tracy, hello Well, hi what do you think

<v Speaker 2>About Princess pilot not being invited to anything and she

<v Speaker 2>sits at home and cries all?

<v Speaker 5>Night, WELL i agree with What brett said and What

<v Speaker 5>Black Eyed peace. Saying where's the Love, josh where is the? Love,

<v Speaker 5>WELL i don't understand you. Have i've been listening forever

<v Speaker 5>AND i always hear you be, like, OH i need you,

<v Speaker 5>KNOW i want to settle, DOWN i want to blah blah.

<v Speaker 5>Blah what are you doing? Now what are you doing?

<v Speaker 5>Now but also that's the.

<v Speaker 2>Way it's also well documented That Josh josh is a player.

<v Speaker 6>Too, well not. Anymore i'm hoping you're not keeping your options. Openmore,

<v Speaker 6>no this is.

<v Speaker 5>True this is true about the, player but he's not

<v Speaker 5>now no.

<v Speaker 3>Reason you're, Right but it's not that we Don't it's

<v Speaker 3>not that we don't hang out all the, Time, tracy,

<v Speaker 3>like we are always. Together it's just that we don't live.

<v Speaker 3>Together So i'm, like are we always included as the package?

<v Speaker 6>Deal so that's my?

<v Speaker 5>Question automatically, automatically.

<v Speaker 6>Yeah, okay quit being a? Player? Yeah, hey does your

<v Speaker 6>mom not like?

<v Speaker 4>Her is that why my mom loves?

<v Speaker 6>Her your family secretly not adores?

<v Speaker 1>Her, nope she adores, her love like she is so,

<v Speaker 1>sweet she BRING i like.

<v Speaker 6>You guys adore? Her, Yeah so quit cheating on, Her,

<v Speaker 6>Josh oh my, Gosh.

<v Speaker 2>Hi, rachel Hy, hey so what do you think? About

<v Speaker 2>says pilot being left all alone at home with her.

<v Speaker 6>Chats SO i have two.

<v Speaker 8>Points, first one is being not invited. Automatically everything before

<v Speaker 8>you had this, CONVERSATION i think is fine because that

<v Speaker 8>expectation had not yet been, said so have to revaluate

<v Speaker 8>now that it's been brought. Up but for my second,

<v Speaker 8>point coming from the family, Side i'm literally on my

<v Speaker 8>way to the airport to pick up my sister right,

<v Speaker 8>now and all three of my siblings are coming in

<v Speaker 8>town for the weekend without their, spouses AND i have

<v Speaker 8>not gotten to spend time without and others in, years

<v Speaker 8>AND i am so excited to have the opportunity to

<v Speaker 8>spend time with them without. Distractions SO i think it's

<v Speaker 8>okay to spend time without them because your family wants

<v Speaker 8>time with you as. Well as much as they might

<v Speaker 8>love your significant other and things they're, awesome they also

<v Speaker 8>want to spend time with you without.

<v Speaker 6>Such a good.

<v Speaker 4>Point, okay is that the?

<v Speaker 2>Case or are they longing to see her And josh

<v Speaker 2>wants to hang out with his family without the?

<v Speaker 6>Distractions, WELL i mean it.

<v Speaker 2>Doesn't that's what it sounds like to, me is you

<v Speaker 2>want to hang out with the family without the distraction

<v Speaker 2>of the.

<v Speaker 3>GIRLFRIENDS i think it could also be a mixture of.

<v Speaker 3>BOTH i, mean my family is is in, town like

<v Speaker 3>they are coming from a different, state they spend time.

<v Speaker 6>Here they want to see the.

<v Speaker 3>Family look as much as we all love, her and

<v Speaker 3>again we, do she's, great there is nothing wrong with

<v Speaker 3>her at, all but it's she's not quote unquote family,

<v Speaker 3>yet Like i'm not married to her. Yet and then

<v Speaker 3>on top of, that LIKE i.

<v Speaker 2>How you figure out if she wants to be family

<v Speaker 2>and you want her in your family full time is

<v Speaker 2>if you bring her to the little things that are

<v Speaker 2>not big holidays and big. Events that's the that's the,

<v Speaker 2>seasoning is the little stuff since how she, is you,

<v Speaker 2>know without a big family meal At thanksgiving And, christmas

<v Speaker 2>but the little stuff.

<v Speaker 1>Together the younger generation is they're coming, up they have

<v Speaker 1>so much more hyper focused on being you, know, themselves

<v Speaker 1>having time by, themselves like they really do like the

<v Speaker 1>alone time that not being. Married there's so many young

<v Speaker 1>kids who don't want to get married. Anymore they appreciate

<v Speaker 1>their alone. Time And i'm just, saying like this whole

<v Speaker 1>thing is once you rip the band aid, off you

<v Speaker 1>can't put it.

<v Speaker 6>Back all the, time there's no getting rid of.

<v Speaker 1>It it's a massive and then but there is, That

<v Speaker 1>and ALSO i think that there's something to be said

<v Speaker 1>for you are somebody different around your family than when

<v Speaker 1>you're with your significant, other and you can't be your you,

<v Speaker 1>know normal self when you're with significant, other you feel

<v Speaker 1>like you're really are, different like.

<v Speaker 4>When you're putting on you, know you can.

<v Speaker 1>Be yourself more than anything else because they know you

<v Speaker 1>better than anybody.

<v Speaker 6>Else and this is still that's how you get a.

<v Speaker 1>Girlfriend but if he's not ready to rip off the

<v Speaker 1>band aid, yet But i'm just reading like maybe he

<v Speaker 1>doesn't want to rip off the band aid just. Yet

<v Speaker 1>like There's whi's true to, that you. KNOW i just

<v Speaker 1>feel LIKE i can see your, Point. Josh AND i

<v Speaker 1>don't think you're an awful human being for not wanting

<v Speaker 1>to invite her to, everything because it's just like work your.

<v Speaker 6>Way up to. It just yet you got to make

<v Speaker 6>go for that blonde girl.

<v Speaker 1>Too it GET i am so, LISTEN i am so.

<v Speaker 4>Screwed i'm gonna come in the mom like.

<v Speaker 6>She was the one that Brought sonic to. Us, no

<v Speaker 6>she was so. Cute no one brought Me sonic cute

<v Speaker 6>as a but there were no.

<v Speaker 4>TOTS i swear.

<v Speaker 6>Great some great.

<v Speaker 2>Tots thank you to everybody who called in and NOW

<v Speaker 2>i don't.

<v Speaker 3>Know i'll bring you to, everything good, luck thank, you thank.

<v Speaker 6>You i'll bring you to. Everything