<v Speaker 1>Jar, you, Katy and Josh one hundred.
<v Speaker 2>He says, Hey, guys, I was leaving work after a
<v Speaker 2>long day about a week ago, and while backing out
<v Speaker 2>of my parking spot, I accidentally bumped my boss's car
<v Speaker 2>kind of hard. I heard it, I felt it. I
<v Speaker 2>got out, looked at both vehicles. Honestly couldn't see much damage.
<v Speaker 2>I drive a big pickup, so my rear bumper didn't
<v Speaker 2>really show anything. The next morning, my boss came storming
<v Speaker 2>into the office because someone had scraped his car. She's like,
<v Speaker 2>here's where it gets bad. He immediately accused one of
<v Speaker 2>my co workers. Oh oh, She says, they've never really
<v Speaker 2>gotten along, so he was convinced it had to be them.
<v Speaker 2>My coworker denied it over and over, but my boss
<v Speaker 2>wasn't buying it, and I said nothing parenthesies, she put
<v Speaker 2>evil gren. Now the whole office thinks my coworker did it.
<v Speaker 2>The problem is my truck is blue and the scrape
<v Speaker 2>on my boss's car is blue. To make matters worse,
<v Speaker 2>I already had a dent in my rear bumper before
<v Speaker 2>this happened, so if anyone really started digging, it wouldn't
<v Speaker 2>look great for me. Part of me feels awful because
<v Speaker 2>an innocent person is taking the blame. The other part
<v Speaker 2>of me keeps thinking, meh, my boss already disliked them
<v Speaker 2>before this and didn't exactly.
<v Speaker 1>Have time for them anyway.
<v Speaker 2>If I confess now, I could end up paying for
<v Speaker 2>the damage, getting in trouble at work, and admitting I
<v Speaker 2>kept quiet while somebody else took the heat.
<v Speaker 3>Kind of what you did, though I know what they did.
<v Speaker 2>She goes, before you guys ask, no, we don't have
<v Speaker 2>cameras in the parking area.
<v Speaker 1>I could totally get away with it.
<v Speaker 2>Do I come clean and hope honesty counts for something?
<v Speaker 1>Or is it too late now and I should just
<v Speaker 1>let this die?
<v Speaker 2>She says, I'm gonna change my name. You guys can
<v Speaker 2>call me Polly. So there's Polly's dilemma backed into the boss's.
<v Speaker 2>Somebody else is getting blamed for it at the office,
<v Speaker 2>although the boss and that person they don't already get
<v Speaker 2>along anyway.
<v Speaker 1>I know, well, so what you should do about this?
<v Speaker 2>I kind of feel like we've all been in a
<v Speaker 2>position where we have like ruined something or dented or something,
<v Speaker 2>broke something, damn it something, and we just shut up
<v Speaker 2>about it right, We.
<v Speaker 3>Just don't tell on ourselves. Yeah, yeah, just shut up aboutly.
<v Speaker 4>I've been in that situation, not this one particular, but yeah,
<v Speaker 4>this one's You've.
<v Speaker 1>Ruined a couple marriages that no.
<v Speaker 3>One needs to know about it.
<v Speaker 1>I tell right, we speak up, all right? So what
<v Speaker 1>should Polly do about this situation? Should she go ahead
<v Speaker 1>and come clean? Or it sounds like this might just
<v Speaker 1>blow over, so she should just let it die? Is
<v Speaker 1>her quote at the end.
<v Speaker 2>Here's Jessica, Hi, Jazz Hi, good morning, well, good morning
<v Speaker 2>to you.
<v Speaker 1>Thanks for Colin. What do you what's your advice for Polly?
<v Speaker 5>She absolutely needs to come clean. This is exactly what's
<v Speaker 5>wrong with the world today. Takes responsibility for your actions,
<v Speaker 5>grow up and come clean.
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, the accountability part, right, Jessica, I'm with you. I'm
<v Speaker 4>just like to completely, like, let someone else take the
<v Speaker 4>blame is crazy to.
<v Speaker 1>Be totally do it, totally do it.
<v Speaker 3>Oh, it's so bad if nobody gets caught.
<v Speaker 4>That's one thing that if someone else is getting in
<v Speaker 4>trouble for what you did.
<v Speaker 3>Jessica, I'm with you one hundred percent. She needs to
<v Speaker 3>come clean.
<v Speaker 1>Maybe that the other coworker had it coming.
<v Speaker 5>No, no, no, the truth always reveals itself. I don't
<v Speaker 5>know yet.
<v Speaker 2>People are texting in check the cameras again, and in
<v Speaker 2>case you missed it in the email, she said, before
<v Speaker 2>you guys ask, we don't have cameras in the parking
<v Speaker 2>lead area.
<v Speaker 1>I could totally get away with it.
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, that was part of it.
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, so I kind of want to know what kind
<v Speaker 2>of car the boss has too, like if it's for
<v Speaker 2>something really expensive or what makes the boss which makes
<v Speaker 2>even more difficult, doesn't matter, Just go tell, all right, Jess,
<v Speaker 2>I have you down for tell the boss.
<v Speaker 1>Thank you for calling in. Very kind of you. Here's
<v Speaker 1>Marky Mark.
<v Speaker 2>Hi, Mark, Hey a, you done well.
<v Speaker 1>We're super dupes, buddy. What do you think Polly should
<v Speaker 1>do well?
<v Speaker 5>Unfortunately, I also think she should tell the boss she's
<v Speaker 5>in a bad situation now because she let it go
<v Speaker 5>when it happened. She should have just walked in and said,
<v Speaker 5>oh my god, I'm so sorry I accidentally hit your car,
<v Speaker 5>and just the troubles we go through life. We try
<v Speaker 5>to teach our kids these things.
<v Speaker 6>You've got to live it too.
<v Speaker 5>You can't teach something and then living amoral life or whatever.
<v Speaker 1>Maybe she doesn't have kids. She's not teaching anybody anything.
<v Speaker 1>It's just her.
<v Speaker 4>Yeah.
<v Speaker 5>Well, even then, there's not a lot. Sometimes we can
<v Speaker 5>control in life, but we can control who we are,
<v Speaker 5>and we can.
<v Speaker 6>Be good people.
<v Speaker 5>As they say, how would you like to be treated yourself?
<v Speaker 5>And then plus whether you like the person or not,
<v Speaker 5>the fact that some someone else is taking heat and
<v Speaker 5>hurting them makes it even worse. You know, if if
<v Speaker 5>he had either way, she should just tell. And it's unfortunate.
<v Speaker 5>But in our society we do. We have more crime.
<v Speaker 5>Everything's being stolen. I'm at the supermarket and we have
<v Speaker 5>armed guards. I mean, our society unfortunately has come to
<v Speaker 5>that in some places. And the way to change that
<v Speaker 5>starts with each person living better.
<v Speaker 1>Look at you, doctor Phil. This is good stuff.
<v Speaker 3>No, Mark, I love this good stuff.
<v Speaker 1>I still think you should play dumb. No, I knew
<v Speaker 1>you know.
<v Speaker 3>I think Mark, what you said that's going to stay
<v Speaker 3>with me a minute.
<v Speaker 4>We don't have much control about things, but we do
<v Speaker 4>have control about who we are.
<v Speaker 1>That's really good.
<v Speaker 3>It's really good.
<v Speaker 1>She's a bad back around it sounds like that's who
<v Speaker 1>she is.
<v Speaker 3>Have a rearview camera anymore, Jared.
<v Speaker 1>Mark, you are very wise. We appreciate you calling in
<v Speaker 1>and spewing your wisdom.
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I still think I could err on the side.
<v Speaker 2>I've had big trucks and if you hit stuff sometimes
<v Speaker 2>you're like I didn't even know.
<v Speaker 1>Really, So I think she can be like I had
<v Speaker 1>no idea. Really, I think I think I think you're fine.
<v Speaker 1>I think you're fine, PAULI. Here's heston.
<v Speaker 6>Hi, guys, how are you well?
<v Speaker 2>We're super dupes buddy. What do you want to say
<v Speaker 2>to Paulie?
<v Speaker 6>Yeah, I agree with everybody that's called previously. I mean,
<v Speaker 6>I think you have a moral obligation. You damage someone
<v Speaker 6>else's property, and if that happened to me, I would
<v Speaker 6>want somebody to come clean. And the longer she doesn't
<v Speaker 6>say anything, the worst is gonna get. So I think
<v Speaker 6>she should just bite the bullet and let him know
<v Speaker 6>and everything will kind of itself after that.
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I guess you can go in, you know, with
<v Speaker 2>your tail between your legs and say, hey, you know
<v Speaker 2>I've been sitting on this, I'm.
<v Speaker 1>So sorry that was that was me my bad. Yeah,
<v Speaker 1>and then he'll fire.
<v Speaker 6>I think the longer she doesn't do that, the worst
<v Speaker 6>it's gonna get.
<v Speaker 3>Ye're right, I think.
<v Speaker 4>It's already too late though. Yeah, I think that she
<v Speaker 4>should have come clean in the beginning. Now it's she
<v Speaker 4>might get fired, right, don't you think just for lying?
<v Speaker 1>Nestin, thank you for your call is three for three
<v Speaker 1>there on the line of you got to go in
<v Speaker 1>and say something, I.
<v Speaker 4>Think and here like I would say something because of
<v Speaker 4>the karma thing that you mentioned, because every bad thing
<v Speaker 4>that happened to.
<v Speaker 3>Me, they're on out.
<v Speaker 4>I would attribute back to me hitting my boss's car
<v Speaker 4>and not telling them, Oh, this is my karma, is
<v Speaker 4>what I get? You know, Like I would just go
<v Speaker 4>through life like that. You think, no way to live life,
<v Speaker 4>dear me, just thinking that bad karma is going to
<v Speaker 4>come your way because you did something.
<v Speaker 1>You're just waiting to listen.
<v Speaker 2>I got a question about the bad karma and how
<v Speaker 2>it works. So you did one bad thing? Yeah, so
<v Speaker 2>does karma come back and just do one bad.
<v Speaker 4>Thing to you know?
<v Speaker 3>Two medium?
<v Speaker 1>I don't how it works. I don't know how karma works.
<v Speaker 1>That's not how it works. You do one bad thing,
<v Speaker 1>then it comes back to bite you once.
<v Speaker 4>That's all you get that what if it's like something
<v Speaker 4>bad doesn't happen for a while and then you're just
<v Speaker 4>waiting for something bad to happen.
<v Speaker 1>She did one bad thing.
<v Speaker 2>Can she turn around today and do two good things
<v Speaker 2>to cancel out the one bad thing? Can you cancel
<v Speaker 2>out the bad karma? Like today, she's gonna go volunteer
<v Speaker 2>at like a homeless shelter and go read to orphans
<v Speaker 2>and this will cancel all this out.
<v Speaker 3>Then you go find your coworker a new job and
<v Speaker 3>then you're good.
<v Speaker 1>Nah, they'll be fine.
<v Speaker 2>All right, guys, thanks for having some fun with us.
<v Speaker 2>This is why we do the show Wants to Know segment.
<v Speaker 2>We get to read things going on in your life.
<v Speaker 2>Give you some answers. Pollie, the people have spoken, everyone
<v Speaker 2>except me. You need to go in and probably tell
<v Speaker 2>your boss that you did this, apologize, swallow your pride,
<v Speaker 2>swallow all the nonsense, and just say, hey, I did it.
<v Speaker 1>Fess up all right.
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it's gonna be bad for you though, because you waited.
<v Speaker 1>Or just play them
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