<v Speaker 1>Jerry, Katie, and Josh. Mix 100.
<v Speaker 2>All right, Katie Kat, you are out in the dating world.
<v Speaker 1>Yeah.
<v Speaker 2>Boy, we've heard all the stories about you out there.
<v Speaker 1>Sure have.
<v Speaker 3>I know a lot of ladies that listen to this
<v Speaker 3>morning show, they're out and about trying to find a man.
<v Speaker 3>There's this list out this morning where the ladies are
<v Speaker 3>listing guy flexes that can instantly make them incredibly attractive.
<v Speaker 1>Oh.
<v Speaker 3>I got to ask you before I get into some
<v Speaker 3>of these. Do you kind of have maybe like a
<v Speaker 3>top five of what you're looking for in a dude?
<v Speaker 1>I can tell you right now what gets me going. Perfect.
<v Speaker 1>What is it? Oh, hang on. Sorry.
<v Speaker 2>Take a minute.
<v Speaker 1>Shirt off, bandana on, in the backyard chopping wood like
<v Speaker 1>it's your job.
<v Speaker 2>It's too bad you live in an apartment. I know,
<v Speaker 2>but that is... Maybe he's got a place.
<v Speaker 1>If I came across a man doing.
<v Speaker 2>That, I would just... Hi.
<v Speaker 1>I'm Katie. It would be over for that guy.
<v Speaker 2>And for me. You got it all laid out. Did
<v Speaker 2>he just get out of prison or something? I don't know.
<v Speaker 2>I don't know.
<v Speaker 1>But that's just like my image of like sexy, you know?
<v Speaker 2>All right.
<v Speaker 1>Yeah. So that'll do it for me.
<v Speaker 3>Let's see if I have shirtless wood chopping on the list.
<v Speaker 2>No.
<v Speaker 1>No? Okay. Well, what do you got? These things are
<v Speaker 1>a little.
<v Speaker 2>Deeper than that.
<v Speaker 1>Oh.
<v Speaker 2>You know, deeper than the physical.
<v Speaker 1>Oh, yeah.
<v Speaker 2>Forgot about that part, huh?
<v Speaker 3>Okay, so... This is going to be incredibly self-serving for
<v Speaker 3>me because I feel like I check a lot of
<v Speaker 3>these boxes.
<v Speaker 1>Anyway.
<v Speaker 3>Thoughtfulness is a guy flex that instantly makes him more attractive.
<v Speaker 3>Like little things, like grabbing a snack or a drink
<v Speaker 3>for you as well when he's getting one for himself.
<v Speaker 3>So like if he's going to the kitchen and grabbing
<v Speaker 3>himself a bag of gummy bears, he'll bring you back
<v Speaker 3>a bag of gummy bears as well.
<v Speaker 1>Yeah.
<v Speaker 2>That's a flex. And you're like, oh.
<v Speaker 1>I like thoughtfulness is good. I like that.
<v Speaker 2>Okay, let me put a check. Katie likes thoughtfulness. And
<v Speaker 2>chopping wood. Bandana.
<v Speaker 3>This one is maybe a ding on me.
<v Speaker 2>I mean, I like animals. I got no beef.
<v Speaker 3>But number two is loving animals. When your man loves
<v Speaker 3>animals and the animals love him back and he's gentle
<v Speaker 3>and nice to them, that's an enormous green flag.
<v Speaker 2>That's a huge flag.
<v Speaker 1>Two flags. Two flags. Really? We'll give that one to you. Well,
<v Speaker 1>because animals are so vulnerable and they're so helpless at times.
<v Speaker 1>You know, it's our job to take care of them.
<v Speaker 1>And when a man sees that and a man wants
<v Speaker 1>to go above and beyond to make sure an animal
<v Speaker 1>is taken care of, it makes you think that they'll
<v Speaker 1>also do that for you, you know? And so that'll
<v Speaker 1>carry on to their love for you.
<v Speaker 2>Brush my hair and bathe me.
<v Speaker 1>Exactly. Cuddle me, tell me I'm pretty.
<v Speaker 3>Pick up my poop from the backyard while you're chopping
<v Speaker 3>your what?
<v Speaker 1>Tell me I'm a good girl.
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I guess.
<v Speaker 3>I can't wait till our hamster and dog are gone. No, Jeremy,
<v Speaker 3>that's not. I do love them. But it's going to
<v Speaker 3>be nice when we don't have animals and we don't
<v Speaker 3>have the responsibility and we don't have to have people
<v Speaker 3>watch them while we're going on vacation.
<v Speaker 1>Maybe not check that one.
<v Speaker 2>Maybe not check. Maybe go to the next one. No
<v Speaker 2>J on that one. All right. Humility.
<v Speaker 1>Oh, no. Oh, no.
<v Speaker 3>Being able to admit that they don't know certain things
<v Speaker 3>and they might not be the smartest or strongest person
<v Speaker 3>in the room when they have humility.
<v Speaker 2>That's a flex.
<v Speaker 3>And you're like, okay, you know, that's kind of sweet
<v Speaker 3>that you.
<v Speaker 2>Self-aware, right? I think also with.
<v Speaker 1>That accountability, that all of those things kind of go
<v Speaker 1>into one. And yeah, when you have somebody who can
<v Speaker 1>admit when they're wrong and can also admit when they
<v Speaker 1>can't do something or they need to learn to do something. Um, yeah,
<v Speaker 1>all of those things are just being transparent and you're
<v Speaker 1>not feeling like you have to wire.
<v Speaker 3>No, I'm just thinking, cause honestly, I've never had to really,
<v Speaker 3>I've never experienced that. So I don't know anything about
<v Speaker 3>being wrong or not knowing how to do anything, but
<v Speaker 3>that's cool. Some guys are like that, I guess, whatever.
<v Speaker 2>I've never had that issue. Oh, this is me all over.
<v Speaker 3>Being prepared, thinking ahead, anticipating things correctly, moving from disaster
<v Speaker 3>to disaster. Even like real life disasters, I'm Mr. Prepared
<v Speaker 3>at the house. I got extra batteries and flashlights for days.
<v Speaker 1>Yeah.
<v Speaker 2>Cans of soup.
<v Speaker 1>No, I 100% agree. You put a star next to
<v Speaker 1>that one for you. And if you're in a situation
<v Speaker 1>where it's like you need to stay calm and collected,
<v Speaker 1>you also.
<v Speaker 2>I feel like I would be like that. You'd be
<v Speaker 2>good at that. I got jumper cables in the truck. Like,
<v Speaker 2>I'm good to go.
<v Speaker 1>I'd probably freak us all out, but you would calm
<v Speaker 1>everybody down.
<v Speaker 3>So you would find me incredibly attractive because that's a flex.
<v Speaker 1>Yeah.
<v Speaker 2>Would you agree? You'd like a guy like that.
<v Speaker 3>Yeah.
<v Speaker 2>Prepared. Absolutely. He's got cans of soup in his basement.
<v Speaker 1>Yeah.
<v Speaker 2>Kindness to randoms. It is noticed and bodes well for
<v Speaker 2>a future relationship.
<v Speaker 1>Yes.
<v Speaker 2>Kindness to randoms.
<v Speaker 1>Well, and like when you're eating out, how you treat
<v Speaker 1>the waitstaff. Oh, that's good. You know what I mean?
<v Speaker 1>Like the coffee, when you're going to get your coffee,
<v Speaker 1>how you treat the barista and the people behind you.
<v Speaker 2>That's good.
<v Speaker 1>You know, yeah, when you're out and about and you
<v Speaker 1>have to communicate with others the way you.
<v Speaker 2>Do that, absolutely I'm watching.
<v Speaker 3>When I give random prizes to some of our good
<v Speaker 3>listeners because I like them or they're sweet.
<v Speaker 2>Is that sexy?
<v Speaker 1>That's absolutely. It's nice.
<v Speaker 2>It's kind.
<v Speaker 1>Yeah.
<v Speaker 2>Yes. Collar tin right now gets something.
<v Speaker 3>Collar tin gets a lock of my hair.
<v Speaker 1>Really? Sorry.
<v Speaker 3>We're talking the flexes, the guy flexes that instantly make
<v Speaker 3>them more attractive, according to the ladies. Anything else I
<v Speaker 3>want to easily builds things?
<v Speaker 2>I like a builder. He could build things after chopping
<v Speaker 2>that wood. Exactly. I just finished my own basement. See?
<v Speaker 3>I will tell you, when I put my tool belt on,
<v Speaker 3>game over.
<v Speaker 1>Is it? Yeah.
<v Speaker 2>Nick Neck loves the tool belt.
<v Speaker 1>Yeah.
<v Speaker 2>Remembering things?
<v Speaker 1>Yes. Well, I mean, that's everything.
<v Speaker 2>Like little things, even.
<v Speaker 1>Absolutely. Absolutely.
<v Speaker 2>Pro tip.
<v Speaker 1>Go ahead. No, no, no. No, you have an ongoing list.
<v Speaker 1>I was going to brag about you.
<v Speaker 2>Pro tip to the dudes.
<v Speaker 3>Always keep a list in your phone so when your
<v Speaker 3>lady friend says something, I'd like this, we should do this.
<v Speaker 1>Yeah.
<v Speaker 3>You have a note in there labeled... My sexy, sexy lady.
<v Speaker 2>And then you put the little notes in there about
<v Speaker 2>things she says.
<v Speaker 1>Then you remember.
<v Speaker 3>Making people feel comfortable is on the list. Not being
<v Speaker 3>a complainer or a whiny baby.
<v Speaker 1>Uh-oh.
<v Speaker 2>Sometimes I'm a whiny baby.
<v Speaker 1>We're all a whiny baby sometimes. But for the most part,
<v Speaker 1>you know.
<v Speaker 2>Is there anything I missed? Anything I missed in your opinion?
<v Speaker 1>Big fat muscles. Where's that on.
<v Speaker 2>There? Big BFM.
<v Speaker 1>Big fat muscles.
<v Speaker 3>The final two things on the list are kind of
<v Speaker 3>funny to me because I think these ladies were having fun.
<v Speaker 3>The last two things about the flexes that guys can
<v Speaker 3>have that make them attractive.
<v Speaker 2>One, becoming mayor.
<v Speaker 1>What?
<v Speaker 2>And then after that, being forklift certified.
<v Speaker 1>Yeah. Those are all sexy, so I agree.
<v Speaker 3>All the dudes at the Costco warehouses, the Amazon warehouses.
<v Speaker 2>Right now are like, hells yeah, I'm going to get
<v Speaker 2>me some tonight. Yeah.
<v Speaker 3>I think we've all got that one co-worker that kind
<v Speaker 3>of makes us smile, kind of makes our day every
<v Speaker 3>time you see him.
<v Speaker 2>Ours is Jordan.
<v Speaker 3>She's out in our promotions department, so she handles a
<v Speaker 3>lot of our events and scheduling. She's got a filthy,
<v Speaker 3>horrible mouth, which makes it even better. You never know
<v Speaker 3>what's going to come out of her mouth. And I
<v Speaker 3>like her a lot, too, because you can dish it
<v Speaker 3>out to her, and she doesn't get offended. She'll fire back.
<v Speaker 3>And then she'll think of something like an hour later,
<v Speaker 3>like a cut down.
<v Speaker 2>And she'll text you.
<v Speaker 3>She will text you something highly inappropriate, and I love
<v Speaker 3>her for that. I posted a picture yesterday of a
<v Speaker 3>Dolly Parton mug that she actually gave me.
<v Speaker 1>That was her who gave that to you, yeah.
<v Speaker 3>Because she knows I was a Dolly Parton fan, and
<v Speaker 3>I always poked fun at Dolly on the air, and
<v Speaker 3>she gave me a cup that says, Cup of Ambition.
<v Speaker 3>It's a coffee cup, and I have it on my
<v Speaker 3>shelf in my office at home, and every time I
<v Speaker 3>look at it, I think of, Potty mouth Jordan.
<v Speaker 1>She is so sweet.
<v Speaker 2>She is so sweet. Jordan.
<v Speaker 1>So, yeah, when someone's taking advantage of her, we were
<v Speaker 1>all like, wait, what? So this story. So we were
<v Speaker 1>chatting the other day and she told me that she's
<v Speaker 1>got a really busy month because she was talking to
<v Speaker 1>one of her friends and there's a big mud run. Right.
<v Speaker 1>You know, those big. events where you're like doing obstacle
<v Speaker 1>courses and it's all in a bunch of mud.
<v Speaker 2>Quick name one thing I'll never do. I've done these before.
<v Speaker 1>They're really fun, but you know, it takes a lot
<v Speaker 1>to get involved with them. And when it's in a
<v Speaker 1>different state, I imagine there's a lot of planning and
<v Speaker 1>stuff that goes with that. So she was talking to
<v Speaker 1>one of her friends about a mud run. I think
<v Speaker 1>that was in like Kansas or something like that.
<v Speaker 2>Right.
<v Speaker 1>And they were talking about how much fun it would be.
<v Speaker 1>And that conversation blossomed into, well, we should do it.
<v Speaker 1>And then they started making plans. They're looking at this
<v Speaker 1>mud run online. And they are this close to booking
<v Speaker 1>the tickets, right? So they've got this whole plan in
<v Speaker 1>order to go to a mud run in a different state. Yes.
<v Speaker 2>Question.
<v Speaker 1>Yeah.
<v Speaker 2>Does Jordan ever run a day in her life? Of course, yeah.
<v Speaker 1>What do you mean?
<v Speaker 2>Question answered.
<v Speaker 1>Thank you.
<v Speaker 2>Jordan just doesn't seem like a runner because she's a.
<v Speaker 1>Well, and again, it's not necessarily a run.
<v Speaker 2>She just doesn't seem like a runner.
<v Speaker 1>It's an obstacle course. It's her, like, you know, getting.
<v Speaker 2>She doesn't seem like somebody who'd be on a.
<v Speaker 1>Crawling through mud and jumping over walls and stuff like that. So...
<v Speaker 1>It's a little different than just Ryan.
<v Speaker 2>Let's just say I wouldn't want her on my team.
<v Speaker 1>Oh, okay.
<v Speaker 2>Please continue.
<v Speaker 1>I would. I'd want her on my team.
<v Speaker 2>I don't think so.
<v Speaker 1>But anyway, her friend was like bothering her about it.
<v Speaker 1>So they had the conversation about doing it. Jordan was like, oh,
<v Speaker 1>you know what? I think that's actually the same weekend
<v Speaker 1>as something else I have going on. Let me check
<v Speaker 1>with you and get back with you. That was where
<v Speaker 1>she left her friend.
<v Speaker 2>Gotcha.
<v Speaker 1>Well, I guess a couple days later. Her friend messaged
<v Speaker 1>her and she was just like, hey, guess what? I
<v Speaker 1>got our tickets for the mud run, plane tickets. tickets
<v Speaker 1>to the actual event. Everything's paid for. You can Venmo
<v Speaker 1>me whenever you get the money. And Jordan was just like,
<v Speaker 1>wait a second. I told you to hold off on that.
<v Speaker 1>I wasn't ready to actually, you know.
<v Speaker 2>Do the dang thing.
<v Speaker 1>And so she was like, I kind of asked you
<v Speaker 1>to wait. And then it turns out she had something
<v Speaker 1>else on that same weekend, a wedding for one of
<v Speaker 1>her good friends in which she was a part of.
<v Speaker 1>So she can't miss that wedding. And so now she's
<v Speaker 1>trying to tell her friend. I kind of asked you
<v Speaker 1>to hang on because I wasn't sure if I could
<v Speaker 1>fully do it.
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you didn't confirm anything.
<v Speaker 1>Her friend got mad. Her friend was like, you know,
<v Speaker 1>I didn't pay this bill or something so I could
<v Speaker 1>make sure we had the same flight. And I made
<v Speaker 1>sure we had the tickets. And you owe me. Now
<v Speaker 1>her friend is getting in her kitchen and saying, you
<v Speaker 1>owe me money. For half of this plane ticket, you
<v Speaker 1>owe me for this ticket to the event.
<v Speaker 2>What a nutty friend.
<v Speaker 1>And Jordan's like, wait, I mean, I didn't say I
<v Speaker 1>was going to 100% go, though. How do I owe you? Well,
<v Speaker 1>this friend is kind of harassing her. I mean, not
<v Speaker 1>only texting, but showing up at her house. Coming to
<v Speaker 1>see her at certain events that she's at to demand
<v Speaker 1>this money. So much so that Jordan has given her
<v Speaker 1>back a couple hundred bucks just to get her to
<v Speaker 1>shut up. And she's like, do I owe?
<v Speaker 2>She's given her money?
<v Speaker 1>She has. She's given her money because she's just so...
<v Speaker 1>you know, she's just really, really aggressive about it. This
<v Speaker 1>friend is.
<v Speaker 2>I don't like this friend at all.
<v Speaker 1>And so Jordan came to me and she's like, am
<v Speaker 1>I missing something? Do I owe her some money? Because
<v Speaker 1>we talked about this and, you know, it was a
<v Speaker 1>thing and we talked about maybe doing it and then
<v Speaker 1>she bought it and now I feel bad because her
<v Speaker 1>friend's out some cash and, Jordan feels like she owes
<v Speaker 1>it to her.
<v Speaker 2>Jordan's being too nice. Jordan is being too nice. I
<v Speaker 2>would go to the friend right now and demand my
<v Speaker 2>$ 200 back.
<v Speaker 1>Yes, exactly. And how do you do that? What conversation
<v Speaker 1>can you have with that friend that's like, hey, that
<v Speaker 1>she hasn't already said?
<v Speaker 2>You put us on the phone with her is what
<v Speaker 2>you do. That's what I kind of told.
<v Speaker 1>I kind of told Jordan.
<v Speaker 2>You ghost her. That's a friend you don't want to
<v Speaker 2>be a friend with.
<v Speaker 1>That's a friend you don't want to be a friend with.
<v Speaker 1>And I kind of tried to tell her that, too.
<v Speaker 1>But she, I don't know. I don't know.
<v Speaker 3>If anyone has any advice for our dear friend Jordan, which,
<v Speaker 3>side note, she texted me.
<v Speaker 1>Oh.
<v Speaker 2>She says the only thing that runs is my mouth, dog. See,
<v Speaker 2>I knew it. I knew she doesn't run.
<v Speaker 1>There she goes.
<v Speaker 2>I participate in physical activities.
<v Speaker 1>That is a Jordan response.
<v Speaker 2>The only thing that runs is her mouth, dog.
<v Speaker 1>My fist all over your face.
<v Speaker 3>What should Jordan do? Feel free to sound off. I
<v Speaker 3>think we're pretty set in our ways here.
<v Speaker 2>That's dumb.
<v Speaker 1>That is dumb.
<v Speaker 3>All right, Katie, what's the consensus on the text line
<v Speaker 3>for our dear friend Jordan who's being scammed out of cash?
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, everyone thinks that the person who's doing that to
<v Speaker 1>Jordan sucks. Not a good friend. I mean, they say here,
<v Speaker 1>anybody who goes out of their way to make you
<v Speaker 1>feel bad about something you couldn't do, get them out
<v Speaker 1>of your life immediately. We also have this right here.
<v Speaker 1>Maybe that friend owes Jordan some money from all the harassment.
<v Speaker 1>This seems like something that could go to court. And
<v Speaker 1>then we got this one from Amy. I love this one.
<v Speaker 1>She said, I met Jordan at Mix 100's Diamond Dive.
<v Speaker 1>I would not want to mess with Jordan.
<v Speaker 2>Like, all caps. I'll tell you right now that Jordan
<v Speaker 2>will get you in a headlock. You don't want that
<v Speaker 2>to happen. She will choke you out.
<v Speaker 1>She's the best, so we don't want people taking advantage
<v Speaker 1>of Jordan.
<v Speaker 3>Appreciate you guys sounding off. If you ever want to
<v Speaker 3>text in 303-691-1649, that's your link to the Mix 100 studios.
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