{"type":"rich","version":"1.0","title":"Jennie Young: Dating More Safely in a Patriarchy","description":"Patriarchy destroys relationships, and it has turned dating into a nightmare. Jennie Young is fighting back with her Burned Haystack method, and now the method is a book. Through her work, Jennie endeavors to teach women to detect red flags before they become obvious, and to thwart abuse before it happens. Dating is the most dangerous thing most of us do, and I have no doubt that Jennie is saving lives.\n\nIn this podcast episode, Jennie and I discuss:\n\nWhy dating is so awful, and why men seem like they’re getting worse.\n\nWhat the Burned Haystack method is, and how it can reduce the stress and misery of dating.\n\nSpecific rhetorical and behavioral patterns to look out for in early dating.\n\nWhy dating advice really is a matter of life and death.\n\nAnd much more!\n\nThe first date video I mentioned early in the podcast is here (https://www.tiktok.com/@kayla.g21/video/7466589800728907050) . Jeff and I discuss the Application to be Zawn’s Boyfriend (https://zawn.substack.com/p/the-application-to-be-zawns-boyfriend) here.\n\nJennie Young’s book will be out April 7th. If you want publishers to take on more feminist authors, please consider pre-ordering. Pre-orders are a huge determinant of a book’s success, and you can create a more thriving marketplace for all feminist authors by buying Jennie’s book.\n\nAbout Jennie Young\n\nJennie Young is a professor of writing and rhetoric at the University of Wisconsin-Green Bay, specializing in applied rhetoric, humor, and feminism. She holds a Ph.D. in rhetoric and discourse studies from Case Western Reserve University and a satire writing certificate from Second City Chicago. Her work has been published in McSweeney’s, Ms. Magazine, HuffPost, and others and covered by major media outlets such as The New York Times, RollingStone, Washington Post, Newsweek, and Wall Street Journal.\n\nVisit Jennie at her website here (https://jennieyoung.com/) , and be sure to check out her Substack (https://burnedhaystack.substack.com/) . You can join her man-free support group on Facebook (https://www.facebook.com/groups/9116647515019601) .\n\nYou can preorder her book, Burn the Haystack, here (https://bookshop.org/p/books/burn-the-haystack-decode-dating-torch-the-duds-and-make-room-for-men-who-matter-jennie-young/b44591aa0f6a6150?ean=9780063447578&next=t&aid=105434&listref=understanding-abuse-liberating-motherhood) .\n\nFind all books referenced on the podcast, as well as additional book recommendations, here.\n (https://bookshop.org/shop/liberatingmotherhood)","author_name":"Liberating Motherhood","author_url":"https://audioboom.com/channels/5130888-liberating-motherhood","provider_name":"Audioboom","provider_url":"https://audioboom.com","width":480,"height":95,"thumbnail_url":"https://audioboom.com/i/43556048/600x600/c","thumbnail_width":600,"thumbnail_height":600,"html":""}