rich 1.0 You are not in love with him. You are in love with who you think he COULD be. In 2 years. After he heals. After he gets money. After he finally leaves that situation. After he finally chooses you fully. Girl, that's not love. That's a project. And you are not Bob the Builder. In this episode, I'm asking you the question that will save you 2 years of your life: Who is he RIGHT NOW? Not in 6 months. Not when he's at his best. Right now. Today. On a random Wednesday. If the answer is "inconsistent, disrespectful, low effort, confused" - then that's who you're dating. Not his potential. IN THIS EPISODE: - Why smart women fall for potential (it's not stupidity, it's empathy) - The difference between potential and pattern - 5 signs you are dating potential, not reality - Why "He has a good heart" is keeping you stuck - Who is he RIGHT NOW? The 3 question reality check - How to grieve the fantasy so you can meet reality - Wholeness looks better than desperation - whole women date proof, not potential This episode is your permission slip to stop waiting for him to become the man you need and start choosing a man who already IS. Listen to this before you text him back. Then send it to the friend who keeps saying "but he could be so good." LISTEN NEXT: One Great Weekend Doesn't Erase 6 Months of Red Flags Men Set The Tone In Relationships For educational purposes only. Quality Queen Control https://audioboom.com/channels/5150620-quality-queen-control Audioboom https://audioboom.com 480 95 https://audioboom.com/i/43828760/600x600/c 600 600 <iframe width="100%" height="95" src="https://embeds.audioboom.com/posts/8950383/embed?v=202301" style="background-color: transparent; display: block; padding: 0; width: 100%" frameborder="0" allowtransparency="allowtransparency" scrolling="no" title="Audioboom player" allow="autoplay" sandbox="allow-downloads allow-forms allow-popups allow-same-origin allow-scripts allow-storage-access-by-user-activation allow-top-navigation-by-user-activation"></iframe>