rich 1.0 What if the relationship you thought was love was actually anxiety, attachment, or an old wound being triggered?This week on Unlocked, I’m joined by relationship expert Sabrina Bendory for a conversation that honestly made me look at relationships in a completely different way. We talk about trauma bonds, why we can become addicted to the chaos of a relationship, and why the calm, healthy person can sometimes feel boring when dysfunction is what we’re used to.Sabrina opens up about her own toxic relationship and how it shaped the work she has spent more than 17 years studying. We get into choosing someone versus being chosen, knowing your standards, being needed versus being valued, and why you can’t love someone into becoming the person you want them to be.We also talk about how our childhood can shape what we believe love is supposed to feel like, why we sometimes repeat the same relationship patterns over and over, and how to finally start rewiring those patterns.And because I kn... Unlocked with Savannah Chrisley https://audioboom.com/channels/5177081-unlocked-with-savannah-chrisley Audioboom https://audioboom.com 480 95 https://audioboom.com/i/43870209/600x600/c 600 600 <iframe width="100%" height="95" src="https://embeds.audioboom.com/posts/8960988/embed?v=202301" style="background-color: transparent; display: block; padding: 0; width: 100%" frameborder="0" allowtransparency="allowtransparency" scrolling="no" title="Audioboom player" allow="autoplay" sandbox="allow-downloads allow-forms allow-popups allow-same-origin allow-scripts allow-storage-access-by-user-activation allow-top-navigation-by-user-activation"></iframe>