S7 Ep14: Hore-moans, Puberty Blockers & Anti Trans Bills
The hoes are talking all about the science of hormones, trans affirming health care, and the big ol white supremacist, patriarchal, capitalist, conspiracy to stamp out trans folks in the United states PLUS what you can do to stop it.  Watch on YouTube:  https://youtu.be/h2hYhGmYoS8 PoliDicks (Politics): 2021 is a Record Year For Anti-Transgender Legislation, we talk about why this is happenin...
1hr 14m Apr 14, 2021
1hr 14m
S7 Ep13: Cum, Cryogenics, & Couples Therapy
On this episode --  background checks for Tinder dates,  couples therapy, who pays for the 3rd wheels meal, s*men on the moon, sensual fantasies, the end of the world, post pandemic polyamory & much more.  Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/j_ludt9EmDE  Fuck is this?! (Pop culture ridiculousness): We answer the question “who pays for your 3rd wheels meal” and chant down Twitter gender wars.  ...
1hr 10m Apr 07, 2021
1hr 10m
S7 Ep12: PCOS, Raw Doggin' & Inattentive Gynos
This episode we’re talking all about living with a hormonal condition that  affects  7–10%  of people who menstruate — PolyCystic Ovarian Syndrome. We’re answering -- what is it, how do you know you might have it, how societal oppression interacts with some of the conditions, symptoms and much more!   Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/E5-nkoC_354  F*k It (Topic of the Day):  Our guest this ...
56m Mar 31, 2021
56m
S7 Ep11: In, S-hoe-lidarity
This week Sam hosts solo all about, the Atlanta massacre targeting Asian massage parlors, an explainer about race, gender, fetishization, sex work, and law enforcement and how that all ties into the massacre, & an ass media documentary review about some very vulgar show girls. Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/7yUEUYt0BeM Fuck That (Currents Events): The Atlanta massacre and intersections on...
44m Mar 23, 2021
44m
S7 Ep10: International Women's Day is not a Girlboss Holiday
The hoes chat about 1 year pandemic anni self care, one mans vendetta against urinary health, the anti capitalist anti violence origins of International Women’s Day, Savage Fenty’s Newest and Littlest bad btch, non binary and women fire fighters,  the science of ASMR p*rn & much more!  Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/hJj8w0DgIcQ Self Care Tip: Sam gives some advice who are feeling bad and ...
1hr 12m Mar 17, 2021
1hr 12m
S7 Ep9: I'm a Parent First and a Hoe Directly After
Akua shares her parenting journey. Everything from teen motherhood, raising a special needs child, finding the balance between parenting and self, dating as a mom, a homophobic baby daddy and much more. Watch on Youtube: https://youtu.be/ZeQMlf0WPms  Fuck It (Topic of the Day):  A listener wrote in asking for Akua to share her parenting journey so we did just that! Points of discussion inclu...
1hr 31m Mar 10, 2021
1hr 31m
S7 Ep8: Only intersectional feminists can eat this ass, okay?!
This episode we’re talking all about sex, love, and dating as a Black, fat, femme in the southwestern United States. Plus were getting into cummunity organizing, intersectional feminism, academia, hoe meals and much more with our guest Karlyn Bradley.  Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/k1UmruOQ6Jk Fuck It (Topic of the Day):  We interview Karlyn Bradley all about community organizing, the s...
1hr 20m Mar 03, 2021
1hr 20m
S7 Ep7: BipoHOElar Disorder
The hoes are talking all about bipolar disorder. Everything from living with it, how it can show up in your sex, love, & dating life, debunking stereotypes, how one of us on this here podcast came to be diagnosed and much more. Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/L4lS8FtHu2I Fuck It (Topic of the Day):  The science of bipolar disorder. Specific points include: The kinds of bipolar disorder, m...
1hr 4m Feb 24, 2021
1hr 4m
S7 Ep6: Degrassi: Deadass, b
On this episode ya'll are all” deadass this” and “facts, b” that -- but really, what was it like to grow up in NYC. Particularly,  what was it like to grow into a sexual being in NYC?! Today, we’re talking all about sex, love, and dating as early adolescents and taking a look at a Netflix teen drama that claims to spill the real tea on youth in the big apple.  Youtube: https://youtu.be/eORTY2a...
1hr 15m Feb 17, 2021
1hr 15m
S7 Ep5: Tart and Stank
The hoes chat about tart and stank asses, tart and stank transphobes, embarking on an adventure into abstinence, paternalistic gynecologists and much more! Don’t Fuck with me: Rob discusses being on Whoreible Decisions podcast.  They unpack things like colorism, non-binary transphobia, the safety in passing as cis in white male spaces, silencing & more.  Fuck is this?! (Pop culture ridiculous...
51m Feb 10, 2021
51m
S7 Ep4: So, whats the big deal about pronouns anyways?
On today’s episode, Sam describes why pronouns and treating our non-binary family with care is of great importance. Then we air a gender 101  from Rob & Sam. We get into transgender identities, non binary identities, pronouns, biology, gender roles, biological sex, the animal kingdom, and much more!  Relevant Links & Notes: Merriam Webster on “they” as a singular pronoun: https://www.merriam...
59m Feb 03, 2021
59m
S7 Ep3: There's nothing I'd rather smell less than Gwyneth Paltrow's p*ssy.
This week we’re talking about the high demand for sperm donors across the US, lesbian rabbits, punani scented candles, couples therapy but as friends, the danish kids show about a big dicked man and much more. Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/YJr1wUpioW0 Self Care Tip:  Learn more about breast cancer & genetics in the Black community: https://www.instagram.com/p/CKVIPyJgFPR/ Animals do be...
1hr 27m Jan 27, 2021
1hr 27m
S7 Ep2: Theres No HR in the Strip Club
Portland has the most strip clubs per capita out of any city in the US. Portland also has severe issues with equitable work conditions when it comes to Black and indigenous sex workers. On this ep we speak about these work conditions as well as the Portland strippers and labor organizers who are leading the PDX Stripper strike — A movement that seeks to create fair working conditions for Black ...
1hr 20m Jan 20, 2021
1hr 20m
S7 Ep1: Cyber STUNK 2077
The hoes chat about managing your time in the new year and beyond, Tech giants anti sex work pro white supremacist histories, the gen Z romantic ballad Throat Baby, a queer black feminist review of CyberPunk 2077,  PLUS using kink to work thru sexual trauma. Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/ALvPLSmYIpc Self Care Tip: Clear your mind and schedule deeply in the future Fuck is this?! (Pop cul...
1hr 30m Jan 13, 2021
1hr 30m
S6 Ep42: Black Mirror Meets Married at First Sight
On today’s episode What would you do if a test could scientifically locate your SOULMATE. That’s the premise of AMC’s latest sci fi anthology series from one of the brains that brought you Black Mirror. This week two futuristic hoes are gonna review that series and discuss some themes like compulsory monogamy, faith, psychopathy, and if the grass is really greener on the other side.  Watch on ...
2hr 26m Nov 26, 2020
2hr 26m
S6 Ep41: Reproductive Rights: Eugenics, Pollution, & Moore
We’re talking all about reproductive rights. Specifically the United States history of Eugenics and sterilization abuse, Climate Change and negative birth outcomes for marginalized people, and the myth of "over population." Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/czxrs6tDCSM Fuck It (Topic of the Day):  Points of discussion include Eugenics, scientific racism and sterilization abuse in the Unite...
1hr 20m Nov 18, 2020
1hr 20m
S6 Ep40: Normalize Queer Family Structures
The non monogamous homies, the fight for LGBTQ Philly Foster parents rights, a discussion of adopting and fostering, 3 parent families, very queer families, single parenting and more!  Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/P7g2pS809uE Bae of the Week: Ruby B Johnson and the homies at Poly Dallas Millennium  Fuck That (Currents Events): The Supreme Court Case reviewing LGBTQ foster parent rights...
1hr 6m Nov 11, 2020
1hr 6m
S6 Ep39: There's a Man we Call Pencil D*ck
How and why to get active locally in your community, People are STILL f*ckin but STD rates have taken a nose dive, a review and reminisce session over the UPN classic Girlfriends and much more!  Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/SVDDgUDrBAI Self Care Tip: How and why to get active locally Fuck That (Currents Events): The Amount of sex people are having remains consistent and yet STD rates a...
1hr 34m Nov 04, 2020
1hr 34m
S6 Ep38: The Gay Penguins Strike Again
Safe happy hoe-lidays, the self proclaimed badly behaved gay Nigerian fighting to #endSARS, Queer antagonistic Egyptian police departments, Lesbian and Gay Penguin babies, Horror films about killer weaves and sex demons, a little bisexual insecurity, and much more! Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/Jkj-wEb60Sg Self Care Tip: How to Make the Holidays Special Bae of the Week: Matthew Blaise @...
1hr 12m Oct 28, 2020
1hr 12m
S6 Ep37: Ass 2 Ass with U
Movin dat body during the 2nd wave, very dope research about black girls sexual health and substance abuse, fucking roommates during the pandemic, who else is fuckin and a possible HSV1 cure.  Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/t1pYkqYuwZM Self Care Tip: Some ideas on moving your body during the pandemic and a reminder to do body scans. Fuck That (Currents Events): Gene editing may cure Herp...
1hr 23m Oct 14, 2020
1hr 23m
S6 Ep36: 90 Day Colonizers
The most magical of all dykes, sex tourism in Africa, #WINTERISCUMMING and how to prepare for it, moving in with a partner, abuse in the era of ebola and much more! Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/gEV4LhmWLSo Self Care Tip: Some tips to help you prep for another isolated winter in the era of dat rona Bae of the Week: @majic.dyke on Instagram Fuck That (Currents Events): White European w...
1hr 19m Oct 07, 2020
1hr 19m
S6 Ep35: Also, She Still Lives With Her Ex
The importance of Black Women's stories, our fav 1970s era sex worker, stanning bad binches, reproductive rights in San Francisco, LGBTQ seniors, boring yt films,  a whirlwinds of a pandemic romance and more! Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/SWmIjT8Ks9k Self Care Tip: Immerse yourself in the stories of Black women (and pay and support them!) Bae of the Week: Diamond Stylz, Janina Jeff, and...
1hr 9m Sep 30, 2020
1hr 9m
S6 Ep34: Choosing to be a Single Parent
The hoes chat about sex budgets! WTF is that and how do you create one. THEN. Single parenting. What are the societal, financial, romantic factors to consider when you take the plunge into child rearing solo. And much more! Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/4cTZThYw7NU Self Care Tip: For to create a budget and then specifically, how to create a sex budget Fu*k It (Topic of the Day): A deep ...
1hr 39m Sep 24, 2020
1hr 39m
S6 Ep33: Pink or Blue Gender Reveal Nukes
On this episode our resident agender firefighter speaks on gender reveal party fires, quit charging LGBTQ people with sex crimes just for being queer, a discussion on dating top secret LIARS, plus doing the work to heal trauma and discussion of the book “The Body Keeps the Score”.  Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/zLyXu3LZ9Hs Fuck That (Currents Events): A discussion on gender reveal partie...
1hr 31m Sep 16, 2020
1hr 31m
S6 Ep32: McDeez Nutz
This episode we’re talking about phallus meat delicacies, finding Black friendship as a chronic loner,  suicide prevention month, and an understated love story about an undocumented Filipino trans caretaker in Brooklyn.  Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/Q_LdnJaBgUk Self Care Tip: Akua gives a community and collective care reminder for suicide prevention month Fuck That (Currents Events): A...
1hr 17m Sep 10, 2020
1hr 17m
S6 Ep31: bi0hack1ng 4 s3x
This episode we’re getting into our futuristic hoe bags and getting into biohacking 4 sex. Today we’re touching on aspects like nootropics to boost libido, cyborg clitorises, access in marginalized communities, ability, gender affirming hormone therapy, extra limbs for play time and much more. Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/ovAITUX62U4 Self Care Tip: Grief podcast playlist via Berry: http...
1hr 39m Sep 02, 2020
1hr 39m
S6 Ep30: What Do Men Want? (Gene Edited Babies Apparently)
The splendor of merging self love and artistic ventures, how mattress sex can get you paid, gene edited babies, what happens when white women tell stories about Black women’s traumatic histories, and a review of the documentary "You Belong to Me: Race, Sex, and Murder in the South" Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/y1xhuTUL4RA Self Care Tip:  Sam talks about the benefits of centering your ow...
1hr 31m Aug 27, 2020
1hr 31m
S6 Ep29: What the Heck is NRE?
New Relationship Energy, what is it, how does it drive your budding romance and what impacts it can have on the rest of your life, PLUS have you got a good morning routine? We’ll were gonna talk you thru developing one AND we answer the age old question “Where is the Ass in 2020”? Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/9i-6Xqjsel8 Self Care Tip: Everything you need to know to set up a good mornin...
1hr 16m Aug 19, 2020
1hr 16m
S6 Ep28: Interlocking Genitals & BBL Juice
The beauty of interlocking genitals, hobbies for hoes, a review of a film all about a middle aged leaving the bullshit behind to find herself, trying times as a Black femme in the very white Southwestern United states, and much more!  Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/_bUq9V47ESQ Self Care Tip: Get a Hobby Hoe!  Fuck That (Currents Events): The new pandemic phenomenon of UK couples getting...
1hr 21m Aug 12, 2020
1hr 21m
S6 Ep27: I Want My Willy Back
The beauty of modern medicine and penis arms, The Black Sex Workers Liberation Rally in NYC, Shadow work and self acceptance, poly communities, LSD, trying times as a Black femme is a very white Southwestern United states and much more.  Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/3F8-hJ6OrcE Self Care Tip: Practice shadow work Fuck That (Currents Events): An English Man has a new penis grown on his ...
1hr 26m Aug 06, 2020
1hr 26m
S6 Ep26: Dismantle Your Fat Phobia Right Thee F*ck Now!
It’s summer body season! But what does that really mean? We’re talking all about insecurity. And we’re touching on topics like Body Dysmorphia along the way. PLUS, the racial origins of fat phobia, why clothing is political, An update on Chrystul Kizer, and the never ending struggle to chill thee fuck out.  IHU WILL BE ON BREAK UNTIL AUGUST 2020. PLEASE DELIGHT IN OUR 200+ EPISODE BODY OF WORK...
1hr 18m Jul 01, 2020
1hr 18m
S6 Ep25: Introducing Imani State of Mind
Imani State of Mind is a new podcast from Stitcher that demystifies mental health and wellness in an accessible and approachable way. Dr. Imani Walker (Bravo’s Married to Medicine) equips listeners with the right language and tools to normalize this stigmatized topic, in addition to finding laughter and light in navigating these struggles. Listen now in your favorite podcast app!
7m Jun 26, 2020
7m
S6 Ep24: Ya Don’t Gotta Got to College to Get More Knowledge
The hoes chat about the racial impacts of climate change on Black birthing people, power play inside and outside the bedroom, how to date and practice self love when you’re Black in a sea of whiteness, some self care tips on how to further your education, PLUS a review of Disclosure, A new Netflix doc all about  transgender depictions in film and television. Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/...
1hr 24m Jun 24, 2020
1hr 24m
S6 Ep23: Hypersexuality: Fact, Fiction & Fodder
The hoes chat are celebrating recent wins in the Black Trans community and shouting out the folks who made them possible, doing a deep dive on the concept of hypersexuality, talking about normalizing consent and boundaries in casual dating, saying no to dating people we don’t vibe with, PLUS a review of season 2 of the Netflix series Dating Around.  Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/bPGG37t00...
1hr 23m Jun 17, 2020
1hr 23m
S6 Ep22: Black Sex Worker's Lives Matter
The hoes talk about about love and Black joy in the midst of resistance, homophobic and transphobic hypocrisy, a breakdown of why the decriminalization of sex work is very much a part of the movement to defend Black lives, activist overload, plus we offer some advice for a first time threesome. Watch on YouTube:  https://youtu.be/VrGfl_WIGF8 Our show notes and list resources that supplement t...
1hr 46m Jun 10, 2020
1hr 46m
S6 Ep21: The Movement for All Black Lives
Today’s episode is a REWIND of an episode hosted in 2016 by Sam and Shanika all about the importance of an intersectional feminist approach to revolution as well as the necessity of self care in times of resistance. The intro to this episode features Sam, reiterating the ways in which we must look at this moment as it pertains to all Black folks — because whether you’re aware or not All Black ...
1hr 48m Jun 03, 2020
1hr 48m
S6 Ep20: It Doesn't Have to Be That Way
The hoes chat about risk mitigation via quarantine pods and secksbuddies, unpacking ableism in your sex life, our good ol friend ethical non-monogamy, a reminder that you are not your trauma, some walks down memory lane, PLUS we fucked up ya’ll and we’re gonna address it and apologize. Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/qY1oeeL7xrg Fuck That (Currents Events): How global governments are (or a...
1hr 25m May 27, 2020
1hr 25m
S6 Ep19: You're Addicted to Love
The hoes chat about romance addictions, do you have one -- what’s the science behind that b*llshit and how to deal with it. Plus, a review of the new Netflix film that puts white heteronormative Rom Coms to shame, healing from trauma whilst understanding hyper-sexuality, and the cutest Black Feminist virtual date in the history of all virtual dates.  Watch on Youtube: https://youtu.be/-F3r-dDf...
1hr 6m May 20, 2020
1hr 6m
S6 Ep18: This P*$$y Be Yankin!
The hoes chat about Sam’s new fav podcast all about infidelity in Queens, NY, the laws jeopardizing the wellbeing of survivors on college campuses, Black women flying planes outchea, A new resource for domestic violence victims in quarantine, dating a narcissist -- revisited, healing broken family relationships and much more!  Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/UQQAAROcF3A Self Care Tip: Free...
1hr 13m May 13, 2020
1hr 13m
S6 Ep17: No Boom Boom Boom in the Zoom Room
The hoes talk about the ins and outs of virtual sex parties, self care tips for survivors of sexual assault, SXSW’s sexy short film selections, missing periods, how to keep the fire burning when you and your partner are quaranting apart, growing tired of masturbation and much more!  Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/2xhlnLyrjRE  Hoe(s) of the Week: Caroline (North Cackalacky), Joesphina/@xit...
1hr 16m May 06, 2020
1hr 16m
S6 Ep16: Affirmations n' Masturbations
The hoes chat about Ramadan for queer muslims, venturing into the wonderful world of Only Fans, sex affirmations, harmful LGBTQIA healthcare legislation, when grief and horniness collide, porn binges, safe guarding our mental and physical health while on the frontlines of that Rona, and much more! Hoe(s) of the Week: Chlotown Brown (Cholotown Brown), Stin K (Stinka), @IG_Hoodgoddess (Hood Godd...
52m Apr 29, 2020
52m
S6 Ep15: Put ya p*ssy on Instagram Live, I'll give ya thousand dollas!
The hoes chat about conspiracy theories, sex work during the pandemic, MTV Cribs virtual dates, opening up about mental health in your relationship, sheltering in place with toxic family members, quaranting with your partner, and much more! Hoe(s) of the Week:  Briana (Ballsanna), Jason (Vorheezy), Aurien ( an AUROAA ?! ), Shaun (Tell All),  Melini, Martini, Tougher than Nigerian Hair, Dr. E,...
59m Apr 15, 2020
59m
S6 Ep14: D*cks Come and Go but the Spank Bank Lasts Forever
The hoes talk about about the FDA ban on blood donations from men who have sex with men, the sweetest virtual date, navigating solo sex while your home with kids, dickheads on dating apps, how to get over ghosting, de-attaching yourself from dick, the beauty of volunteering and much more!  Hoe(s) of the Week: Adaeze  (Amethyst),  Camillion here camillion there tougher than Nigerian hair  Ros...
53m Apr 08, 2020
53m
S6 Ep13: Mega Mutual Masturbation
The Hoes talk about how to have sex during a pandemic, the beauty of masturbation, virtual drink and draw dates, how to get out of your head during sex, fulfilling your civic duty, a 2 year anniversary of abstinence, nonconsensual edging and much more.  Hoe(s) of the Week: T Ray Ray (Terell), K - 1 Visa (Kaeli), Dimitri! (Marble), DWHOSED?! (Dara), Tawiwi (Tawanna), Mont-gizzy! (AL), and Marti...
1hr 5m Apr 01, 2020
1hr 5m
S6 Ep12: Have I Forgotten How to Suck Dick?!
The hoes chat about sex trafficking and sex work….theres a big difference and its important that you understand that, social distancing dance parties and karaoke sessions, lost your job during COVID-19 -- we can relate, pandemic dating SUCKS, sex robots are the PERFECT quarantine buddies, THE FUTURE of romance, and much more! Hoe(s) of the Week: AL (Mont-gizzy), Erika (Eazzzzzzy), Karla (K- 2 ...
1hr 7m Mar 25, 2020
1hr 7m
Introducing the Suga
Check out The Suga, a new podcast from Stitcher! Actress, model, and producer Tika Sumpter and award-winning digital business leader Thai Randolph are teaming together to create a space for modern moms of color. A celebration of sisterhood and motherhood, The Suga is a safe space where moms, moms-to-be, and those undecided can laugh, learn, and love on each other as they navigate life. Listen n...
6m Mar 23, 2020
6m
S6 Ep11: The Princess and the Glass Dildo
The hoes talk about about managing coronavirus related anxiety, Good sex positive legislation in the US, glass dildos, intimate partner violence in the times of COVID-19, cute social distancing dates, job hunting as a gen Zer, and more!  Hoe(s) of the Week:  Tia (Tina Belcher), Samantha (Scaff Beezy), Jenn (Kylo Jenn)  Camillion here tougher than nigerian hair (aka Camille), Devon (Nightwing...
1hr 1m Mar 18, 2020
1hr 1m
S6 Ep10: Love (or Lack Thereof) In the Time of the ‘Rona
The Hoes talk about love (or lack there of) in the time of coronavirus, Cute dates to commemorate Women’s History Month, what do when you’re looking for a third but you kinda hate all the people your partner wants to court, finding sex positive friends when you’re over the age of 50, the beauty of gay parties, and more!  Hoe(s) of the Week: Melyssa D - (Mel D), Ophelia K (OK-K-K-AYYYYYY), Sara...
1hr 12m Mar 11, 2020
1hr 12m
S6 Ep9: STIs Aren’t Dirty or Wrong — They’re Functions of Biology
The hoes talk about the importance of a solo bae-cation, dealing with the stigma of an HSV-2 or a genital herpes diagnosis, cocktails and coffee dates, AND we finally answer the age old question — how much are you motherf*ckers really paying for dates? Hoe(s) of the Week:   Caroline (Timb Cackalacky), Kaeli (K - 1 Visa), Karla (K - 2 Visa),   Golden Ambre (The bawdy), Tawiwi, Martini, Mel La...
1hr 4m Mar 04, 2020
1hr 4m
S6 Ep8: When it Comes to Dating -- We're All Walking L's
The hoes chat about teen parents and the NYC board of education, when your adult child tells you they want to become a porn star, cute dates for artsy people, plus we answer the age old question — Are there any decent, single, non-homophobic straight men???  Hoe(s) of the Week: Eddy R (Double D), Gustavo M. (Gus Fring), R.D. Lang (The Supreme), Jas (Jazz Hand) Fuck That (Currents Events): Th...
1hr 7m Feb 26, 2020
1hr 7m