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344: Become the Wind
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Change is everywhere. Within us. Around us. And, sometimes, in our longing for some stability, some centre of ‘no change’ in the tumult of our lives, we’ll close ourselves off from the truth of things, numbing ourselves, distracting ourselves, and pretending it isn’t happening. But the truth is that everything changes. And although we might try to fight it, we human beings long for what is true...
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343: Home
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We often go searching out in the world, far and wide, for qualities that already live in ourselves. And, fuelled by the story of our wider culture that our longings are best met always by ‘more’ and always ‘away from ourselves’, we can forget the treasures that live right here within us, in this living, beating, life-filled heart and body that we are never separate from. So how can we open ours...
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342: That I Would Be Good
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How can we come to know the vast stores of goodness, care and benevolence that are in each of us simply by being human? What makes it possible for us to bring this goodness to bear on the many difficulties and realities that face every single human life? How can we do this without minimising or explaining away the dark sides of human life, and the genuine pain and confusion we can experience at...
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341: Bless This Everyday Mess
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Right when we’re in the mess and complexity of things - for example when raising children, or being in a partnership, or working alongside others - is where we can learn so much about what it is to be human. And it’s where we also learn the most about our own power - to make a world that is better for others to live in, or worse. In this week’s conversation we explore how we might turn everyday...
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<span><span class="js-time" data-epochtime="1713713197" data-format="short_date">Apr 21, 2024</span></span>
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340: Your Task is to Undo the Barriers to Love
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In a time of global distress, we’re often faced with news of dire situations far from us that we can do little to affect directly. But we can learn to respond to the world that is more immediately around us with the kind of patience, wisdom, care and love that makes a genuine, tangible, and life-giving difference. In this week’s conversation we explore how we can observe and undo the barriers i...
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<span><span class="js-time" data-epochtime="1713171915" data-format="short_date">Apr 15, 2024</span></span>
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339: A Place for Others to Rest In
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How can we be the ones who create safety for other people to bring their troubles, longings, hopes, pain and fear our way? And how can stay long enough, and not turn away? And how do we then accompany one another as we address what we find - with love, truthfulness, patience and exquisite care?
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338: What the Living Do
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On the ways comparison can steal the actual living of life from us, and on finding ways to appreciate and live in the midst of the ordinary everydayness of things. Hosted, as always, by Lizzie Winn and Justin Wise of Thirdspace.
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<span><span class="js-time" data-epochtime="1711876742" data-format="short_date">Mar 31, 2024</span></span>
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337: This Small Space
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On acknowledging experiences rather than moving away from them or interrupting them. How we might experience our feelings without ‘acting them out’ when they’re intense or overwhelming. And the gifts and blessings of being gentle with ourselves and one another.
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336: Right-Sized
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How do we take up our right size in the world? Not in some fixed, rigid way but as a responsive way of engaging with what is called for from us in each situation and context? When we see that in some way ‘too big’ and ‘too small’ are both ways we try to control situations, maybe we can open to the emergence of something more fluid, more adaptive, and more sensitive in us. Something that asks of...
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<span><span class="js-time" data-epochtime="1710692638" data-format="short_date">Mar 17, 2024</span></span>
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335: The Thread We Follow
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So much changes in the course of a day, a year, a life. We can be mysteries to ourselves and to others - confounding, confusing - as we turn this way and that, trying to find our way together through this changeable complex world. It’s very easy to feel lost and confused.

But even in the midst of all of this, is there something we can learn to trust… a thread we can reach for that runs through...
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<span><span class="js-time" data-epochtime="1710066399" data-format="short_date">Mar 10, 2024</span></span>
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334: How to Hold the Questions of Others
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How can we learn to love questions themselves as much as the answers we seek? And can we learn to be the ones who sincerely welcome the questions of others, so that they have room to breathe and grow? Because it may well be that often, in the midst of the complexity of life, it’s the very bringing of our sincere questions to one another in which the seeds of the responses we need can begin to g...
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<span><span class="js-time" data-epochtime="1709483996" data-format="short_date">Mar 03, 2024</span></span>
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333: Nurturing the Goodness Within
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As we encounter life we encounter all manner of different parts within us - and among them we often find parts of us which seem determined to thwart us and hold us back. How might we relate to the critical parts, the over-protective parts, the obstructive parts, and the parts of us that simply terrified? And instead of being dominated by them, or trying to dominate them, how might we parent the...
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332: Coaching and the Stories We Live In
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In which we talk about integral development coaching, a way to work in profound and compassionate support of people at they engage with their lives. It&#39;s this work that we&#39;re deeply dedicated to at Thirdspace, but which we haven&#39;t spoken much about directly in the more than six years of Turning Towards Life. Along the way we talk about what it is to meet someone with deep welcome, to be attenti...
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<span><span class="js-time" data-epochtime="1708274082" data-format="short_date">Feb 18, 2024</span></span>
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331: The Most Important Thing
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What might come if we could, as Julia Fehrenbacher writes, make a home inside ourselves, a shelter of kindness that grows all the truest things? It seems to us that doing exactly that is of great support to our courage, our blossoming, our bringing ourselves to the world with both strength and gentleness, and with the truthfulness our relationships deserve. So much of the time our inner harshne...
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<span><span class="js-time" data-epochtime="1707642000" data-format="short_date">Feb 11, 2024</span></span>
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330: Looking After Our Selves
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When we’re children we often know intuitively something that as adults we forget - that there are many different parts of each of us inside, and that sometimes we really need to give space to the part of us that will be kind, and nurturing, and gentle. As adults it is possible for us to relearn this, and we can practice relating to the whole of our inner world with an attentiveness and spacious...
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329: The Deliberate Scaffolding of Relationship
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In our work as coaches, teachers, leaders and community makers, we have been finding anew over the last few years just how important ‘deliberateness’ is in making relationships that can hold and spaces in which there is genuine welcome. It might be easy to ignore the deliberate practices needed to make relationships in this way, or to treat them as optional. But, as the poet Seamus Heaney tells...
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328: This is Hard for Me
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“I am a person who needs you to listen, simply listen, hear me say &#39;this is hard for me&#39;, not offer an answer or solution,” writes Lana Hechtman Ayers. And we are in agreement that there is a move, an opening, a &#39;coming alongside&#39; one another that is the first move to make when someone brings us their difficulty, or pain. For many of us, this is not at all easy to do. Later, perhaps, when a req...
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327: Let This Darkness Be a Bell Tower
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“What is it like, such intensity of pain?” writes Rainer Maria Rilke. While we might ask one another in our more difficult moments “How are you?” or perhaps “How are you doing?”, we less often ask Rilke’s deeper question, a question that helps us and one another make contact with the aliveness and mystery of our being human. And so in this week’s conversation we explore together what it is to t...
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<span><span class="js-time" data-epochtime="1705227479" data-format="short_date">Jan 14, 2024</span></span>
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326: Urgent Message to a Friend in Pain
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&quot;Remember when you saw the stars of childhood, when you knelt alone and thought that they were there for you, lamps that something held to prove your beauty?&quot; writes Joseph Fasano. Can we use these words as a gateway to finding a sense of belonging in the world, rather than being separate from it? And as we find our way to our own belonging - our receiving of life - what does it take for us to ...
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<span><span class="js-time" data-epochtime="1704636846" data-format="short_date">Jan 07, 2024</span></span>
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325: The Ebb and Flow of Relationship
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“When you love someone, you do not love them in exactly the same way all the time. It is an impossibility - a lie to even pretend to.” So how might we live gracefully in our relationships with their inevitable ebb and flow and, instead of demanding they stay constant, learn to trust the very natural movement in them as we would learn to trust the tides? And what might we need to discover about ...
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<span><span class="js-time" data-epochtime="1704018897" data-format="short_date">Dec 31, 2023</span></span>
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324: Taking Back Our Projections
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When we freeze in public - giving a speech, or making a presentation - it&#39;s valuable to consider the possibility that all the unwelcome attention that seems to be coming our way might actually be our own attention, projected out onto others. In other words, feeling everyone&#39;s intense interest in us might show us something about how interested we are. The same goes for the feeling of pressure to...
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<span><span class="js-time" data-epochtime="1703413319" data-format="short_date">Dec 24, 2023</span></span>
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323: You Are Big Enough To Hold It All
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We can easily live as if we&#39;re &#39;skating over the surface of life&#39;. Sometimes that&#39;s an intelligent strategy for protecting ourselves from the intensity and difficulty that life can bring us. But our wider culture rarely helps us remember the depths of our lives - the depths that remind us of our mutual goodness, our pain, the ways we heal, the brevity of it all. And if we&#39;re skating the surface...
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<span><span class="js-time" data-epochtime="1702835245" data-format="short_date">Dec 17, 2023</span></span>
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322: What To Love When You&#39;re Running Out of Things to Love
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It’s not surprising, when we’re in difficulty or overstretched, to find ourselves tuning out of the world, distancing ourselves from what and who is around us. The stories we’re handed by our culture - that life is essentially meaningless - don’t help. Who do we become if this is what we do? How might we, instead, learn to love again when we’re ‘running out of things to love’? And how might we ...
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321: The Small Things That Carry Love
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When any of us - or all of us - face a tectonic shift in our lives, through a birth or a death, a change in circumstances, or a calamity in the world, it can be hard to know how to respond. We easily overcomplicate, or turn away because we don’t know what to do. But what if the most necessary response in difficult times - and the one that cultivates the best in us - was the simplest… taking car...
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320: The First Step is to Admit &#39;This is Hard for Me&#39;
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&quot;The first step&quot;, writes Paul Weinfield, is not reaching for a solution to our difficulties but &quot;the willingness to admit &#39;this is hard for me&#39;&quot;. It&#39;s this move that gives us the opportunity to let go of the habitual ways we have of &#39;holding up the heavens&#39;. And when we do this, we have the chance to enter into a series of discoveries about the force and patterns of our own personality and assu...
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Difficult times in the world can easily drive us towards the worst of ourselves. When we become rigid, or narrow in our thinking, or too certain about the rightness of our position… or when we forget how to acknowledge the pain of the other. But difficult times can also be when we choose to bring forward the best of ourselves, to live in our communities and our homes in the way, as Howard Zinn ...
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The healing we need - the healing the world needs - can&#39;t happen without us. When we separate ourselves from the world, as if it&#39;s up to someone else, we miss the ways in which healing and our shared capacity arise from our own minds, hearts and bodies. We can&#39;t leave it up to someone else to do - but doing it also calls on our courage, our care, our truthfulness, our love, and our capacity to ...
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317: Something Small and Practical
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When our inner worlds are in turmoil, perhaps in response to the outer world, how should we respond? Might there be a way to honour other parts of ourselves that easily get sidelined in heightened times? And how might that be a way to hold onto our dignity, care and humanity?
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316: Stay Like Clay
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There are so many reasons to harden ourselves to the world. But what we long for, in ourselves, from one another, is for our ‘clenched fists to unfurl, ready to hold whatever small things drop inside’. It’s not the easiest thing to do when our worlds are filled with hurt and pain, or when we are feeling tender and fragile. So how might we begin? And help one another stay open?
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315: We Never Know Who We Are
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Underneath many of our common-sense understandings of who we each are, there is a deeper mystery. How did I get to be the person who I am today? How does the stream of life that began long before me, and will continue long after me, shape me?
And is there a way we can come to know ourselves and our mystery more fully in the way we listen to and come to know one another - in friendship, communit...
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314: Blessing of Courage
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Where does our courage come from? It certainly (and paradoxically) doesn’t come from our efforts to make ourselves safe, or strong, or to armour ourselves against the world. Indeed, it may be that our courage really comes from what is most vulnerable in us, and what is most true - the something in us that lives very close to fear, and is also a neighbour to joy.
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313: Patience
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True patience isn’t ‘going slow’, it isn’t ‘tuning out’, and it isn’t a stick to beat ourselves with. Instead it’s our capacity to turn towards what is actually happening without turning away, and to turn towards our own responses - including our irritation, anger, frustation - without turning away either. It’s in this kind of patience that the seeds of a genuine kind of compassion for the mess...
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312: 6 Years In: Strengthening One Another
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Within us are great forces for the destruction of one another. But also great forces for mutual support, mutual strengthening, and the mutual amplification of care and goodness. Which will we draw upon when we are in trouble? It’s the 6th birthday of ‘Turning Towards Life’, and we are feeling celebratory, and also a mix of  hopefulness about the world and tenderness at the many difficulties we ...
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311: The Gift of Forgetting
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The possibility of taking up both remembering and forgetting as intentional practices. So that we can remember, and not forget, one another’s gifts and goodness, sacredness and possibility, strength and tenderness. So we can forget all that we hold onto in one another that keeps us from who we could be, and meet one another afresh in each brink of time. And so we can remember what needs fixing ...
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<span><span class="js-time" data-epochtime="1695548451" data-format="short_date">Sep 24, 2023</span></span>
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310: Continually Remade
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Look around at the people you know, and you’ll quickly see how particular each person’s response is to what life brings to them. You might say that each person has cultivated, over time, a particular ‘flavour’ for their engagement with life, or a particular ‘way of being’ in response to the world.

And yet this ‘flavour’ is often all but invisible to us in our understanding of ourselves, fallin...
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33m
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<span><span class="js-time" data-epochtime="1694942463" data-format="short_date">Sep 17, 2023</span></span>
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33m
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309: Within You Is...
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We human beings are very sensitive to truth. So when we find the place inside us from which we can talk, truthfully, about the many aspects of our experience, it can be deeply connecting and safety-making. It also goes a long way to having the many parts of us themselves feel named and seen, and in doing so to become less desperate and fearful. And this place from which we can talk? We might ca...
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29m
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<span><span class="js-time" data-epochtime="1694453696" data-format="short_date">Sep 11, 2023</span></span>
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308: Start with Rest
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A conversation about slowing down so we can, with gentleness, relax our own patterns and habits and then see them with truthfulness. About how we might be the ones for each other that make this possible. And about how radical, counter-cultural and necessary true rest can be.
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<span><span class="js-time" data-epochtime="1693752213" data-format="short_date">Sep 03, 2023</span></span>
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307: Remembering Ourselves Whole Again
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The wider culture of the world doesn’t teach us much about how to see and name the goodness of people. But we quickly learn how to compare, criticise, and find all the ways we’re wanting or falling short, or how other people are. What does it take to start to see the goodness that underlies even the mistakes we make, and be ones who can help liberate that goodness into ever fuller expression?
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<span><span class="js-time" data-epochtime="1693171938" data-format="short_date">Aug 27, 2023</span></span>
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306: Listen Until the Clouds Crack
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Listening is the foundation of all human relationship. But what is it to listen? Who do we have to be, to be ones whose listening connects, heals, restores, and supports our being true with one another? One response is that we&#39;re called to be ones who listen for all that is not said - the vastness of a person, their wholeness, and the &#39;essential self&#39; that is beneath everything another person i...
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<span><span class="js-time" data-epochtime="1692682762" data-format="short_date">Aug 22, 2023</span></span>
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305: A Splendid Torch
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What if a life of purpose isn&#39;t so much found by looking far from ourselves, towards some future goal, but instead by paying attention to the way that life is already moving through us? What does it take to kindle life&#39;s energy in us so that the qualities that we uniquely have to bring have a chance to get brought? And how might we stay awake to the splendour and energy of life that is always w...
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<span><span class="js-time" data-epochtime="1691947782" data-format="short_date">Aug 13, 2023</span></span>
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304: Older, and Wiser
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The wider culture no longer honour elders in the way it once did, and so we lose a source of wisdom and depth that we so need in these times. Because of this, the culture also doesn’t give many of us a route to become elders ourselves as we age, so we can easily fall into patterns of rigidity of thought and opinion, insisting that the world and others stay the same rather than meeting the world...
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38m
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<span><span class="js-time" data-epochtime="1691317583" data-format="short_date">Aug 06, 2023</span></span>
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303: The Awkwardness Principle
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How our familiarity and what we’re comfortable with builds a whole world, with its own particular horizon of possibilities. Why it might be that the very thing that’s most called for to change things in the ways we long for is to do the last thing we’d imagine. And how we can help one another grow by being the ones who lovingly find a way to welcome and explore the unfamiliar in one another.
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36m
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<span><span class="js-time" data-epochtime="1691015708" data-format="short_date">Aug 02, 2023</span></span>
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302: Drinking Damage into Love
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In a wider culture that has told us to turn away from our own suffering and grief, to harden up and plough through, it’s a deeply counter-cultural and necessary move to turn towards it and towards one another. How might we do this? And how do we trust the deep wells of goodness and capacity within and between us that can, with patience and faithfulness, transform our difficulty into love?
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31m
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<span><span class="js-time" data-epochtime="1690103594" data-format="short_date">Jul 23, 2023</span></span>
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301: Bird and Stone
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How do we attend to our inner complexity? Are there ways we might relate to the many parts of us that honour both subtlety and certainty, practicality and mystery, hardness and softness, ground and sky? And what might it take for us to be the ones who bring ourselves to all of this - and to each other - in a way that fosters relationships that are nourishing and truthful, inviting and care-taki...
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29m
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<span><span class="js-time" data-epochtime="1689498720" data-format="short_date">Jul 16, 2023</span></span>
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300: A Walking Permission-Slip
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It&#39;s our 300th episode, so we are feeling very celebratory. This week our conversation takes up the question of permission. What do we make possible - give permission for - in others, by our way of being and interacting with the world? And what do we make impossible?

Can we begin to catch on to the patterns that have become habitual to us (and often invisible to us) so we can start to be more ...
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299: What is Most Holy in Me
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We easily forget that inside us, and inside everyone, is something delicate, solid, sweet, and very tender - a source of life and dignity and care. And when we forget this it’s easy to treat the surface of things - our disagreements, our hurriedness, our fear - as what is most true. But it’s the depth of being human that gives us access to the most life-giving of gifts we each have to bring. Ca...
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298: A Vast Net of Kindness
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As the poet Rosemerry Wahtola Trommer teaches us, even as the whole world can seem to be falling, we have a choice whether to contribute to isolation and fear or to a vast net of generosity and kindness in which we hold one another. Perhaps when we feel most afraid and most isolated, it&#39;s the time to ask ourselves the other side of the question too - are we willing to receive and be open to the...
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Every experience we have of another person is first about us (our hopes, our fears, our way of interpreting, our projections). And every experience another person has of us is first about them. We live, in some very deep way, in a ‘hall of mirrors’.

So, do we have any chance of truly ‘receiving’ one another? What in ourselves might we have let go of to make that possible? And then what do we h...
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A conversation for any of us who find ourselves resisting our bodies ageing and changing: about all the painful comparisons we can get into; about the way the narratives and economic structures (and algorithms) of our wider culture are built to enrol us in just these comparisons and just this pain; about how we might attend joyfully to our own inner lives so that we can come to discover and app...
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The kind of attention we bring to the world can enslave, reduce or destroy us and others, or support us, and them, in flourishing. It particularly matters when we have any kind of power or influence - for example when we’re a parent, or a leader, a coach, in a partnership of any kind. But we&#39;re rarely taught anything about this, because it&#39;s not largely in the interest of the systems around us ...
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