46: Documentaries: Telling Your Story
I have been approached by someone from a documentary maker about my story. I am deciding whether to take part but I am often contacted by parents who want to get their stories out and there are pros and cons to doing so, hence this episode. If any listeners want me to pass on your details, DM or email me and I will. Links Episode 14 - https://audioboom.com/posts/8234043-stories-telling-your...
6m May 26, 2024
6m
45: Paternity: Test Issues for Mums, Dads and Children
In the light of a recent news story, I look at paternity testing and whether dads should be able to get a test outside of court proceedings. Some people might see this as an issue for men but it is wider. I discuss how testing has issues for mums, dads and children, including how paternity tests can improve health outcomes for children. Links I mention a recent video from a judge which went v...
9m May 12, 2024
9m
44: Fallible: Do We Expect Too Much From Experts?
This episode I look at the word ‘expert’, not so much to do with court as more widely in society. In many areas of life, experts affect us and sometimes spectacularly let us down. I look at some examples. We need experts but there are few people who really know what they are doing well enough to advise the way experts do and I think we need to be realistic about experts and the word itself. P...
16m Apr 28, 2024
16m
43: Replay: Dr. Marni Hill Foderaro Discusses Alienation
Occasionally I want to look back at past episodes for those new to the podcast. Today is one such episode. I wanted to revisit my discussion with Dr. Marni Hill Foderaro from episode 8. I hope you enjoy listening to it. It's one of my favourite episodes and even before today (April 14th 2024) is already the 8th most popular episode ever. It was a wide-ranging and interesting discussion with D...
1hr 39m Apr 14, 2024
1hr 39m
42: Protests: Outcry At The Garrick Club
In this episode I discuss lawyers and MPs protesting about The Garrick Club and how this relates to family law.
7m Mar 31, 2024
7m
41: Change: Britain’s NHS Bans Blockers
Today I cover a news story that happened this week that impacts many parents. Britain's NHS has banned the NHS from prescribing blockers that hamper the physical development of children. I discuss this healthcare story along with comparing it to Britain's medieval family law system.
5m Mar 17, 2024
5m
40: Review: A Look Back at Episodes 31 to 39
Episode 40 is a look back at episodes 31 to 39. Thanks to all the fantastic guests and listeners. The podcast would be nothing without you. As I often say, if someone wants to take over presenting this podcast let me know and I will be glad to go back behind the scenes. This episode is a compilation of episode clips rather than a ‘best of’ clips as that is individual choice. It is for regular...
34m Mar 03, 2024
34m
39: Comparison: Are Good Parents And Children Treated Worse Than Criminals?
In the family court many good and innocent parents and children suffer more and are treated worse than criminals found guilty of crimes. Considering in Britain all cases come under the umbrella of the Ministry of Justice I discuss this in today's episode.
7m Feb 18, 2024
7m
38: Messaging: Touching The Future With Alienated Children
In today’s episode I want to revisit an idea we spoke about way back in episode 5, which was about parental separation in the movie Interstellar and other movies. It’s a great episode, thanks to Derick McDuff. It is a simple idea but one I have found useful over the years. The idea is using email, photos or other online ways to send messages to a child you are alienated from. Those messages ma...
12m Feb 04, 2024
12m
37: Incentives: How Incentives Work Against Good Outcomes
Many of us have seen incentives play out badly in family court, with solicitors milking Legal Aid, milking parents, parents making false allegations to get Legal Aid, prolonging cases and taking a case that could resolve amicably and blowing it out of the water to the detriment of parents and children. In this episode I discuss how incentives in other industries, and disruption to them, could ...
11m Jan 21, 2024
11m
36: Annual: Looking at 2024
Welcome to the podcast. In this first episode of 2024 I have some thoughts on the new year, my own case and much wider topics. Links Peter Diamandis and Emad Mostaque Clip https://twitter.com/PeterDiamandis/status/1740839831578583088 Episode 28 - Summary of My Story (2018-2022) https://audioboom.com/posts/8218009-story-triple-a-a-portrait-of-abuse-narrated-by-alana-hillenaar Episode 7 - Mik...
7m Jan 07, 2024
7m
35: AI: Can Artificial Intelligence Fix Family Law?
I love podcasts and I listen to many, two of which are Exponential Wisdom with @DanSullivanSC and @PeterDiamandis and Moonshots with @PeterDiamandis. I highly recommend listening to both. They cover many things, including AI, which is one of the hot topics of 2023. Those podcasts are not directly connected to our struggles for justice in family law but they are full of forward thinking develo...
18m Dec 24, 2023
18m
34: Rewind: Coping - Simple Ideas For Christmas and Beyond
Christmas can be a difficult time whether you are a targeted parent or not. This episode first aired last Christmas and it highlights 12 ways to help you cope with #ParentalAlienation or #FamilyCourt We have episodes published and planned with experts in their fields to go into depth in specific areas but for now I wanted to give a quick list of many things you can try. In my experience noth...
19m Dec 10, 2023
19m
33: Reform: Transcripts And Bundles
In this episode I discuss the current state of transcripts and bundles in the court system and how it hampers justice and reflects the prehistoric condition of family law. I give many ways things can be improved. We need a modern system not a Jurassic one because parents and children deserve better. I gave some other simple reform examples in episodes 2 and 32.
11m Nov 26, 2023
11m
32: Reform: Should Interviews In Family Law Cases Be Recorded?
Episode 2 had 6 simple low and no cost ideas for effective reform of family law. In this episode I wanted to give one more in answer to the question: should interviews with family law experts be recorded? The answer is 'Yes'. To not have them recorded represents a serious problem in the robustness and integrity of family law in England and Wales. To have recordings is good practise and protect...
9m Nov 12, 2023
9m
31: Review: 30 Episodes In 60 Minutes. Bitesized Clips For Newcomers To The Show
This episode is for those new to the podcast. Every 10 episodes there is a clips episode. We've had 3 so far (episodes 10, 20 and 30). Listening to all 3 clips episodes would take a long time. The guests content is great but, as a shorter introduction episode for anyone just discovering the podcast, I wanted a bitesize clips episode so people can quickly hear parts from all the shows and choo...
59m Oct 29, 2023
59m
30: Review: A Look Back at Episodes 21 to 29
Episode 30 already. Thanks to all the fantastic guests and listeners. The podcast would be nothing without you. As I often say, if someone wants to take over presenting this podcast let me know and I will be glad to go back behind the scenes. This episode is a compilation of episode clips rather than a ‘best of’ clips as that is individual choice. It is for regular listeners and also a taster...
1hr 26m Oct 15, 2023
1hr 26m
29: Books: Man’s Search For Meaning by Viktor Frankl
Today I talk about a book that has helped me: 'Man’s Search For Meaning' by Viktor Frankl. The book applies equally to men and women and I can recommend it to anyone who is being abused or going through tough times. One of the ways of coping with the trauma that we get from abuse and alienation and the Family Court is by exploring stories of adversity. Examples of coping adversity don't get ...
18m Oct 01, 2023
18m
28: Story: Triple A - A Portrait of Abuse Narrated by Alana Hillenaar
A real-life story of a parent, narrated by actor Alana Hillenaar. It tells of someone experiencing ‘Triple A’ (abuse, abduction and alienation). Best wishes to any parent and child being abused. I hope one day things change so nobody has to go through it. If you would like to tell your story let me know. You can narrate it yourself, do a podcast interview or, if you want to remain private, a...
10m Sep 17, 2023
10m
27: Books: Edward James Talks About His Case and Book ‘Bad Dad: The Truth Will Set You Free’ (Part 2)
Today we have part 2 of my talk with Edward James, who is a father of three. We discuss his experience of the family court, parental alienation and more. Edward is the author of the book ‘Bad Dad: The Truth Will Set You Free’ which talks about his experience of truth and lies, injustice, narcissism, mental health and love. The book aims to offer hope to others who find themselves in similar ...
35m Sep 03, 2023
35m
26: Books: Edward James Talks About His Case and Book ‘Bad Dad: The Truth Will Set You Free’ (Part 1)
Today’s guest is Edward James, who is a father of three. We discuss his experience of the family court, parental alienation and more. Edward is the author of the book ‘Bad Dad: The Truth Will Set You Free’ which talks about his experience of truth and lies, injustice, narcissism, mental health and love. The book aims to offer hope to others who find themselves in similar circumstances. He a...
57m Aug 20, 2023
57m
25: Law: Thomas Williams And Roger Isaacs Discuss The THI Show And Their New Blueprint
Today we are joined by two guests to talk about the law. Thomas Williams was born in Liverpool UK and moved to America in 2002. He is an avid researcher, author of two books called From His Story to Our Story, volumes 1 and 2. He is the owner of a charity foundation designed to help struggling people, the creator of a community village in New Mexico, a radio show host of the Truth, Honor & In...
2hr 42m Aug 06, 2023
2hr 42m
24: Law: Lawyer Raymond Hekmat Discusses Family Law In California, Prenups And His Work As A Divorce Consultant And Mediator
Raymond Hekmat is a lawyer and founder of Hekmat Law & Mediation, APC based in Beverly Hills. They focus on family law with areas including divorce, paternity, custody, support issues as well as prenuptial agreements. Raymond earned his Juris Doctorate degree from Loyola Law School in 2009. During his tenure at Loyola, Raymond was President of the Evening Bar Association, and was awarded the ...
57m Jul 23, 2023
57m
23: Suicide: Collin Hughes Discusses Suicide And Suicide Prevention
In today's episode we are going to discuss suicide. I want to take a moment to talk about that before we introduce our guest who has kindly agreed to join us. In episode 15 we spoke with Lawrence Sprung about his personal experience with suicide and also his work with The American Foundation for Suicide Prevention. Please revisit it if you are in crisis. The show notes also contain links to h...
1hr 7m Jul 09, 2023
1hr 7m
22: Books: Anna Maria DiDio Discusses Adoption
Today our guest is Anna Maria DiDio. Anna Maria lives in Philadelphia. She holds a BA in Psychology from Villanova University and an MSW in Family Specialization from the University of Pennsylvania. For over twenty years, she has devoted time to non-profit organizations, locally and globally. She has served as President of Women International Leaders (WIL) of Greater Philadelphia, which provi...
49m Jun 25, 2023
49m
21: Books: Mick Smith PhD on ‘Burning America: In the Best Interest of the Children?’
Today’s guest is Mick Smith PhD, He is a digital marketer, executive, podcaster, voice actor, author and, he says, a recovering academic. He lives in California and is the author of the book 'burning America: In the Best Interest of the Children?'. It is a fictional story in which the main character, Paul, a middle-class professor, has his world shattered when his child is taken by his wife w...
41m Jun 11, 2023
41m
20: Review: A Look Back at Episodes 11 to 19
How did this podcast get to 20 episodes? It is nothing to do with me. Great guests and listeners is the answer. Thanks to all of you. As I often say, if someone wants to take over presenting this podcast let me know and I will be glad to go back behind the scenes. This episode is a compilation. It isn’t a ‘best of’ as that is individual choice, it is more of a taster for people new to the pod...
1hr 18m May 28, 2023
1hr 18m
19: Positivity - Positive Conclusions Discusses Family Law (Part 2)
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42m May 14, 2023
42m
18: Positivity - Positive Conclusions Discusses Family Law (Part 1)
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1hr 3m Apr 30, 2023
1hr 3m
17: Books: Justin Breen Discusses Epic Life
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50m Apr 16, 2023
50m
16: Psychology: Dr. Larry Waldman Ph.D. ABPP
Today’s guest is Dr. Larry Waldman who is a psychologist, professor, speaker and author. He has practiced in family law for over 20 years. He is a forensic psychologist in Phoenix, Arizona and he has worked with children and parents in a solution focussed way. Dr. Waldman was the past president of the Maricopa Psychological Society. Also he has been the Director of Psychological Services for ...
1hr 1m Apr 02, 2023
1hr 1m
15: Suicide: Lawrence Sprung Discusses The American Foundation for Suicide Prevention
I wanted to do some shows on how to cope with abuse and alienation. In recent episodes began that by discussing trauma and meditation. Today we talk about suicide and suicide prevention. The websites findahelpline.com and www.suicide.org have links to helplines and suicide prevention links in many countries. Please take a look if you are suffering or suicidal or you are concerned for someone e...
48m Mar 19, 2023
48m
14: Stories: Telling Your Story
Way back in episode 1 I mentioned that listeners could use the podcast to tell their own stories. Some guests have done that and it would also be good for listeners, who want to share, to be able to. So, if you want to do that consider this episode an open invitation. Sharing our stories is powerful and increases awareness. I believe raising awareness is a key to change. As Mike Bell describe...
7m Mar 05, 2023
7m
13: Parenthood: Burt Bacharach and Joni Mitchell
This is a change to the scheduled episode. I recorded this to mark the death last week of the great Burt Bacharach. RIP. We sometimes do offshoot episodes, such as our discussion of parenting and separation in movies. I wanted to discuss music and parenting today and talk briefly about a parenting story I read about Burt. I also briefly mention another of my musical heroes, Joni Mitchell. We ...
7m Feb 19, 2023
7m
12: Meditation: Orsi Discusses Using Meditation And Yoga To Help Cope
Today we talk with Orsi, a meditation and yoga teacher about using them to help cope with trauma. There is lots of content out there but I want to discuss meditation and yoga in the context of parents going through hell and how it can help. Some parents may not have considered meditation due to lack of time or stress so, for our listeners, I wanted to raise it as a tool to try. The family cou...
36m Feb 05, 2023
36m
11: Trauma: Jodee Gibson MA PCC Discusses Trauma and Coping
Our guest today is Jodee Gibson, a human behaviour expert and master coach. Jodee is based in Michigan. Her work is deeply layered in developmental psychology, NLP, neuroscience, consciousness, trauma, levels of energy and intention. The intersection she created between these is fascinating. Being a Detroit native, her approach is always practical and conversational. Jodee coaches and speaks ...
47m Jan 22, 2023
47m
10: Review: A Look Back at Episodes 1 to 9
Episode 10 already. We have covered a lot of ground so I wanted to do a look back at play a few highlights from the shows. It isn’t a ‘best of’ as that would be individual choice. This episode is more a taster for people new to the podcast. We’ve had some fantastic guests. A big thank you to all of the guests and listeners. OK let’s go... Episode 1: was a welcome to the podcast. I spoke a a b...
53m Jan 08, 2023
53m
9: Coping: Simple Ideas For Christmas and Beyond
Christmas can be a difficult time whether you are a targeted parent or not. In this episode I give 12 ways to help you cope with #ParentalAlienation or #FamilyCourt We have episodes planned next year with experts in their fields. We will go in depth on specific areas but for now I wanted to give a quick list of many things you can try. In my experience nothing works all the time but many thi...
19m Dec 25, 2022
19m
8: Books: Dr. Marni Hill Foderaro Discusses Alienation
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1hr 38m Dec 11, 2022
1hr 38m
7: Coalition: Mike Bell of FCRC.uk Discusses Reform
In this episode we speak with Mike Bell of the Family Court Reform Coalition. This episode was recorded in October and was originally due to be released on November 13. It was postponed for reasons explained in the episode 6 audio and show notes. Many people, including judges and MPs, have described flaws in the family law system. The flaws seem well known but they persist and harm parents an...
35m Nov 27, 2022
35m
6: Reflection: Podcasting During Proceedings
This short episode replaces the planned episode. The other side raised the Fair Parenting Podcast in court this week but could not show anything improper. They also added more false allegations which were very upsetting. The podcast release schedule is planned weeks ahead and today we were due to release an episode with the Family Court Reform Coalition. I have postponed it as this week’s eve...
7m Nov 13, 2022
7m
5: Interstellar: Derick McDuff on Parenting and Child Separation in the Movies
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56m Oct 30, 2022
56m
4: Support: Ros Barton of MatchMothers.org
In this episode we speak with Ros Barton of MatchMothers.org. Ros also works with @MyCAFCASS advising them on change and she is also part of Recover Our Kids. We hear about the positive support available from MatchMothers.org. They support mums and ALL women separated from children, so if you are an aunt, grandmother, sister, etc. please contact them for support. Women are sometimes overlook...
35m Oct 16, 2022
35m
3: Inception: Derick McDuff on Parenting and Child Separation in the Movies
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35m Oct 02, 2022
35m
2: Reform: Six Simple Ways to Improve the System
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9m Sep 18, 2022
9m
1: Welcome
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13m Sep 05, 2022
13m