Cashing in Your V-Card - Ep. 009

Mar 08, 2016, 05:29 AM

The first time you have sex is supposed to be a magical and romantic experience.

But in most cases, that couldn’t be farther from the truth.

In fact, most women describe their first experience as uneventful and disappointing.

What’s even worse isn’t the temporary disappointment.

After the deed’s been done, women are often left in a state of confusion that impacts their soul, mind, and spirit.

It’s the kind of confusion that keeps you up at night, that causes you to lose focus, and starts to eat away at your heart.

If you’ve been there, this episode is for you.


Every woman’s fear, pain, or guilt from their first time experience What sex without commitment does to our psyche Why losing your virginity is a vulnerable experience What to expect if you’re getting on birth control for the first time The fallacy of sexpectations Consequences of having sex before you’re ready What goes on in your head vs reality when you’re thinking about having sex for the first time How movies and TV shows shape our sexpectations What to expect of your first time experience The universal truth about sex


“Sex doesn’t equal love.” “Virginity is precious. Treat it that way until you’re ready.” “Don’t romanticize sex so much. Discuss the boundaries and the expectations.”

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