Ep 123: Q&A | Vicki answers your dating and relationship questions!
Feb 11, 2021, 06:00 AM
Hi lovely,
Vicki here - I hope this email finds you safe and well ❤️
In today’s episode, I answer some of your questions on dating and relationships (thank you for sending those in!)
Really loved creating this episode for you. There were lots of questions relating to attachment theory (which is great as it is my favorite topic to talk about!).
Specific questions that I answered in the episode:
- Is it possible for an anxious and an avoidant person to develop a secure and loving relationship?
- How do you deal with an avoidantly attached partner who isn't always sure they want to repair their attachment issues?
- How do I start calling in a securely attached partner rather than the avoidant ones I usually find myself drawn to?
- My partner and I are exclusive but he said he’s not ready to call me his girlfriend yet. Is this a red flag?
- I’m just about to move in with my partner. What are your tips for starting the next chapter of our lives in lockdown?
- How do I find the balance in my relationship, so I don’t lose myself?
This is the gorgeous TED talk that I mentioned - The person you really need to marry | Tracy McMillan.
Here is the wonderful book on Attachment theory that I mentioned - Attached by Dr Amir Levine and Rachel Heller.
Ooh and I wanted to also share this brilliant video from The School of Life on ‘How to Cope With an Avoidant Partner.
And lastly, how would you like to receive a (free) weekly love letter from me on topics like the ones explored in today’s episode?
Every Sunday, I am talking about topics like; dating for your attachment style, compatibility, the appeal of the unavailable ones, how to spot the red flags of relationship availability and lots more!
If you’d like to receive my love letters 💌 then head over here to sign up and your first letter will be sent this Sunday (at 5pm gmt)!
Really hope you enjoy this Q&A episode 😍😍😍
So much love, Vicki x