Who paid for your wedding?

Episode 34,   Feb 14, 2021, 11:47 PM

According to tradition, the bride and her family should cover the majority of expenses...
While the groom's main responsibilities are to pay for the engagement ring, honeymoon and the flowers for the bride.

Surely that's now outdated?!?

Who paid for your wedding? AND is it really an honour to be a bridesmaid if you have to buy your dress??