Why Do I Always End Up With A Cheater Pt. 3: From Betrayal to Resilience

This episode presents a powerful narrative of a woman navigating the tumultuous waters of a failing marriage and a cancer diagnosis. Initially, it highlights a descent from partnership to neglect as her husband becomes consumed with work, leaving her to face her battle with stage 3 breast cancer largely unsupported, a situation that reveals his infidelity. Her journey evolves into one of self-discovery and healing, where despite the heartbreak and betrayal, she embarks on a path of self-care, personal growth, and emotional recovery. Through exploring themes of infidelity, trauma bonding, and self-love, the episode showcases her resilience and determination to prioritize her health and well-being, maintaining a connection with her ex-husband who supports her through chemotherapy, and emphasizing the importance of self-work in the aftermath of her relationship breakdowns.

00:00 Welcome to Behind the 90 with Nneka: The Power of Sharing Stories
02:18 Introducing Slavic, Kelli: A Journey Through Parts
03:18 Kelli's Transformation: From Darkness to Light
10:56 The Healing Power of Sharing and Community
13:58 Navigating New Beginnings: Kelli's Journey Post-Divorce
25:29 Finding Love Again: The Story of Kelli and Her New Husband
43:48 Challenges and Changes: Navigating Work and Marriage
50:14 The Strain of Work Obsession on Marriage
52:01 A Night Out Alone: The Beginning of Doubts
52:30 Confronting the Truth: A Relationship in Crisis
54:05 The Shift: From Trust to Suspicion
01:03:53 A Turning Point: Facing Illness and Betrayal
01:14:35 The Fallout: Divorce and Reflection
01:23:36 Healing and Growth: Learning from Pain
01:37:52 Empowerment: Breaking Generational Curses
01:39:41 Final Thoughts: Fear, Intuition, and Moving Forward