Staying Chosen and Cherished with Jon Van Viegen, MFT
Episode 39, Jun 05, 10:00 AM
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Can fighting over text actually help your relationship? Therapist and author Jonathan Van Viegen thinks so—and his no-nonsense, anti-jargon approach to couples therapy is reshaping how partners communicate, connect, and build lasting love.
In this episode of Conversations for Couples, Julie and David Bulitt sit down with Jonathan to discuss:
Why emotional flooding shuts down productive conversation
The problem with over-focusing on "triggers"
Why traditional therapy labels like "attachment styles" can be harmful
How to shift focus from problems to possibilities
The power of physical connection as a relationship barometer
Jonathan’s take on curiosity, self-reflection, and shared identity
Whether you’re newlyweds or decades in, this conversation challenges the conventional and encourages couples to reimagine how they show up for one another—every single day.
🧠 Learn more about Jonathan: Instagram: @jonathanvanviegen
🌐 More episodes: www.thebulitts.com
📲 Follow us everywhere: @TheBulitts
🎙️ Hosted by Julie and David Bulitt
In this episode of Conversations for Couples, Julie and David Bulitt sit down with Jonathan to discuss:
Why emotional flooding shuts down productive conversation
The problem with over-focusing on "triggers"
Why traditional therapy labels like "attachment styles" can be harmful
How to shift focus from problems to possibilities
The power of physical connection as a relationship barometer
Jonathan’s take on curiosity, self-reflection, and shared identity
Whether you’re newlyweds or decades in, this conversation challenges the conventional and encourages couples to reimagine how they show up for one another—every single day.
🧠 Learn more about Jonathan: Instagram: @jonathanvanviegen
🌐 More episodes: www.thebulitts.com
📲 Follow us everywhere: @TheBulitts
🎙️ Hosted by Julie and David Bulitt