The Open Relationship Coach

May 09, 2018, 08:57 AM

Sex therapist and open relationship coach Ruby B. Johnson joins Rebecca & Sam to discuss polyamory and ethical non-monogamy.

Bae(s) of The Week: Salty (Keryce, Claire and JingYu)

Hoe(s) of the Week: Diamond and CupcakeTellem

Self Care Tips: Use scrubbing gloves in the shower

Fuck It (Topic of the Day): A conversation with sex therapist and open relationship coach, Ruby B. Johnson about polyamory.

Points of discussion include: becoming a sex therapist, polyamorous misconceptions, white folks business, black and poly community, black swinger community, fetishisim, polyamory and the church, BDMS & Kink, racial implications within Kink, sex negativity, poly mentors, poly myths, jealousy, unrealistic expectations, polyamory and a sexual orientation, oppressive monogamy, patriarchy, chattel slavery, black femme sexuality, the history of gynecology, marriage, how polyamory can benefit your life, sexuality in older folks, switching from monogamous to poly, parenting while poly, sex therapy, Audre Lorde, the erotic, oppression within relationships, dating a white partner, open relationship coaching, and kink aware professionals.

Fuck You (Your Lives):

Ruby answers some listener letters about polyamory!

Are my open relationship boundaries from a place of insecurity and is that okay?

How do I combat and/or manage jealousy?

People who use the guise of polyamory to manipulate their partners

Was She’s Gotta Have It an accurate portrayal of polyamory?

Any advice for a couple new to polyamory?

How long should an monogamous couple wait before entering polyamory?


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Ruby’s Article on She’s Gotta Have It:

Medical Apartheid by Harriet A. Washington (Book)

Rewriting the Rules: An Integrative Guide to Love, Sex and Relationships by Meg-John Barker (Book)

Sexual Fluidity: Understanding Women's Love and Desir by Lisa M. Diamond





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Opening: “Queen S%!T” by SheReal

Fuck It: "Party on the Weekend" King Kam X DVRKAMBR

End: “Yeah Yeah” Abstract Fish Co



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