Inner Hoe Uprising

Sam pops in to tell you about a very special project they’ve produced called “Harlem & Moscow” To listen to Harlem and Moscow in full visit: Apple (https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/harlem-moscow/id1728752643) , Spotify (https://open.spotify.com/show/3HnILS0VoT52X4WeCbQIDw)  or search “Harlem & Moscow” on YouTube or wherever you listen to podcasts. Harlem and Moscow is an audio drama base...

For the past 10 seasons and 7 years, Sam and her lovely rotating co-hosts have had honest, hilarious, and poignant conversations about sex, love, and dating as it pertains to current events in the world, our lives, and yours. And they've all spoken to loads of insightful folks along the way. This is the final episode of the Inner Hoe Uprising. If you’re just joining us, maybe don’t start here....

For this episode, Akua and Sam took a trip over to Brooklyn to visit members of the GRIOT Circle. GRIOT Circle is a community-based, multigenerational organization serving LGBTQ elders of color. Together with GRIOT Circle members we chatted  about sex, love, and dating back in the day and now, and got into the evolutions of the queer community in NYC over the decades. Specific points of discus...

This episode we’re talking all about Compulsory Sexuality, or the societal belief that sexuality is something that we are all obligated to participate in and that everyone desires sex within predetermined “normal” amount. We’re joined by the author of Refusing Compulsory Sexuality: A Black Asexual Lens on Our Sex-Obsessed Culture, Sheronnda J. Brown. Specific topics include: the pressure to ha...

The hoes chat about  STIs in the Black American community. Specifically we’re getting into stigma, sequential epidemics or syndemics, the future of STI treatment in America, what the deal with Monkeypox was and much more with Dr. Typhanye Velka Dyer. RELEVANT LINKS AND NOTES Dr. Dyer on the Web: https://www.drtpdyer.com/ CALL IN WITH YOUR FAREWELL THOUGHTS: (404) 491-9158 MERCH  https://inne...

This episode we’re having fun. We’re talking about hoe-rror stories, anal beads, pissing on graves, aggressively horny songs, ex-boss porn stars, and much more. RELEVANT LINKS AND NOTES The episode with Melahoe: https://pod.link/1057045285/episode/bd46161ef4456d091b332513d3392f3d CALL IN WITH YOUR FAREWELL THOUGHTS: (404) 491-9158 MERCH  https://inner-hoe-uprising.creator-spring.com/ PAY A ...

The hoes chat about the intersection of love, sex, and dating while living life with ADHD with special guest René Brooks. Specific topics include: Societal notions of respect, the stereotypical ADHD avatar, dating apps, rejection-sensitive dysphoria, ADHD symptoms, red and green flags to look for in partners, PTSD, communication, stress, inattentiveness during sex, hyper-sexuality, medication,...

This week we’re getting all philHOEsophical. We’re talking about different philosophical schools of thought relating to existence (and it’s meaning) and how they impact our understanding and experiences of life and joy. Specific topics include: religion, spirituality, nihilism, existentialism, absurdism, inc*ls, existentialist dread, depression, therapy, and the pursuit of meaning and joy. CO...

This episode we’re talking to a pro dom, an adult content creator, and a Kink educator. The catch? They’re all in a relationship with each other. Last week we spoke to them all about their relationship. This week we’re talking about trauma-informed kink, adult content creation, Audre Lorde’s uses of the erotic, rigging and much more. SPONSOR(S) Inner Hoe Uprising listeners get 10% off their fi...

This episode we’re talking to a bad ass queer kinky throuple or as they call it -- thee triarchy. We’re getting into things like: date night for a party of three, jealousy and compersion, who sleeps in the wet spot and much more. Other Topics Include: Riggers & Rope Bunnies, Non Monogamy,  Swinging, nesting partners, impact play, consensual non consent, knife play, service doms, living with a ...

The hoes school you on some juicy LGBTQ biology and some weird moments in hoe history. Specific topics include: the history of STIs and Mass incarceration, The American Plan, Gay kitties, interesting things people used to do to their balls, polyamorous birds, The Henry/Henrietta Goose Saga, getting Steinached and much more. CALL IN WITH YOUR FAREWELL THOUGHTS: (404) 491-9158 CONTENT WARNING(...

The hoes chat about co-dependency and figure out what the heck it is. Specific topics include: enmeshment, a Caribbean upbringing, conflict avoidance, signs of co-dependent relationships, recovery from enmeshment trauma, “I can’t live without you”, How to achieve interdependence, Codependency in media and more! RELEVANT LINKS AND NOTES Are You in a Codependent Relationship: https://bit.ly/3d7...

The hoes are back in town! On this episode we spill the tea about our summers and reveal a major announcement. Some specific topics we chat about are: trauma therapy, dating a cishet partner as a queer non binary person, weaning off anxiety and depression meds, marriage, cutting off abusers, sex neutrality, and growing with your partner. SPONSOR Inner Hoe Uprising listeners get 10% off their f...

This episode we’re taking a trip down memory lane with ludacris and ursherr baby, talking about some kind of queer salamanders and relationship anarchy, PLUS one of us is a happy ass bitch. This is the last episode of our season 9. We will be back in fall 2022. This is the last episode of our season 9. We will be back in fall 2022. To keep up with weekly IHU content over the summer, hit our Pa...

This episode we’re talking about HSV2, STIs and open relationships, misinformation about horny space aliens, alcohol and sex, and words of quote unquote wisdom from ones parents. RELEVANT LINKS AND NOTES Why NASA Scientists Want to Send Nudes to Space: https://www.smithsonianmag.com/smart-news/why-nasa-wants-to-send-nude-illustrations-into-space-180980103/  Herpes Isn't The End of The World:...

This episode we’re talking about cyborg sex hands, the constitutions of men who wrote the constitution, a song about masturbation, HSV2 and an open relationship, abortion safe havens, trans affirming health care becoming a straight up felony,  and much more.   RELEVANT LINKS AND NOTES With the Supreme Court Set to Overturn Roe, New York Prepares to Become an Abortion Safe Haven: https://www.t...

This episode we’re talking about lots of m*sturbation, medical anomalies, revisiting the dancehall classic “It Wasn’t Me” by Shaggy, dolphin cl*ts, exploring some f*ckery in the NYC housing authority and much more! SPONSOR(S) Inner Hoe Uprising listeners get 10% off their first month at BetterHelp.com/IHU RELEVANT LINKS AND NOTES Kinks vs Paraphillias Patreon episode: https://www.patreon.co...

We’re digging into a new study that found American’s are having less sex. We’ll be analyzing the study, looking at similar declines in things like marriage and hope for the future, take a peek into ours and your sex lives (or lack there of) and much more. For the low low of $5 a month you can access this and other patron only episodes on our Patreon PLUS you can sit in the virtual audience as ...

This episode: questioning possible performative polyamory, interracial relationship shenanigans, indigenous knowledge of gay ass animals, hiding stuff from your spouse, fresh eyes on a freaky song from early aughts  and much more! PATREON AND PAY PAL  http://Paypal.me/innerhoe https://www.patreon.com/InnerHoeUprising  EMAIL ihupodcast@gmail.com (mailto:ihupodcast@gmail.com) VOICE MAIL (40...

The gene edited virgin mary, having the talk with your kids, the plugs response to anti trans legislation, an analysis of a Missy Elliot throwback, how compulsory romanticism hurts us all and much more. CONTENT WARNING(S) Brief mention of sexual assault: 41:20 - 42:49  RELEVANT LINKS AND NOTES Stone Cold Stunner!: https://twitter.com/redapuffenloud/status/1509837569344905216?s=21&t=Wn73saEf...

This episode: were uncovering a two part gay dog saga, the jamaican dancehall DJ who has no empathy for young girls, how climate change is pushing folks on the continent into survival sex work, unpacking a TLC song from the 90s, a sugar baby pyramid scheme and much more. SPONSOR(S) Inner Hoe Uprising listeners get 10% off their first month at BetterHelp.com/IHU RELEVANT LINKS AND NOTES Fost...

Why farting in front of your partner may save your life, entitled orgasms, the gayest mammals, a peak at the shenanigans of dancehall music, why you all keep sharing your business on tik tok and much more. For the low low of $5 a month you can access this episode on our Patreon PLUS you can sit in the virtual audience as we record future Patron only episodes. Join our community and support you...

This episode we’re talking about NFT girlfriends, why its not okay to be mean to your sex partners (unless they enjoy it), pansexual tortoises, 702’s problematic song from your childhood and much more.  RELEVANT LINKS AND NOTES How eels reproduce Tik Tok Fact check: https://www.newsweek.com/fact-check-does-nobody-know-how-eels-reproduce-1623713   NFT explainer episode of Behind the Bastards:...

This episode we’re talking about kinky sexigenarians, the black manosphere and divest movement, the dildo that allows for testicle penetration, we’re gonna have a partner reveal party, and tik tok womb land shenanigans and much more. RELEVANT LINKS AND NOTES My Brush With The Black Manosphere: https://www.elle.com/life-love/a38819237/black-manosphere-online-dating/ More on the Manosphere & D...

Sculptures made of sex toys, your neighbors f*cking loudly, NYC Mayor Eric Adam’s Anti-LGBT staff appointments, an intersex insect, the process of finding a f*ck buddy when your demisexual and much more.  SPONSOR(S) This podcast is sponsored by BetterHelp and Inner Hoe Uprising listeners get 10% off their first month at BetterHelp.com/IHU  WEBSITE  InnerHoeUprising.com PAY A HOE  http://Pay...

This episode we’re answering the question -- is the dating pool filled with p*ss or is it covered in sh*t? Plus the wildest stuff seen by flight attendants, how the conservative white religious RIGHT is coming for all our civil liberties -- and how you can fight back, some questionable songs from our childhood, and much more.   Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/Ge0RhFpJagI SPONSOR(S) Rememb...

Race and “being Black” are not biological concepts. So how did “race” come to be this pervasive way we categorize humans? Why is it inextricably tied to the foundation of western science? And is there ANY biological basis for categorizing humans based on “race”? Find out in this special Inner Hoe Uprising x In Those Genes cross episode Listen to the full In Those Genes episode:  Spotify: htt...

This episode we’re talking about a a pissy concert experience, some rather strange interracial dating encounters, why there ain’t nothing wrong with a bit of poopy in your mouth, dick cakes, plus some reviews of Sex, Love, and Goop and analysis of Swinging in the Netflix hit “You”  Youtube: https://youtu.be/nCSS18RmDnE HASHTAGS Use #InnerHoeUprising and #Podin to keep up with this conversati...

This episode  — Asexual birds living their best lives, data surveillance as HIV intervention and the advocates challenging the practice, a win for Intersex youth in Austin Texas, what would happen if Harriet Tubmans descendants we’re BBL bad bitches and much more.  Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/-LJ5HRIPg08 HASHTAGS Use #InnerHoeUprising and #Podin to keep up with this conversation on so...

This episode we’re getting all musical. We’re looking at some of our favorite or not so favorite songs of yester-year and looking at them from the context of sex, love, and dating and the messages that the songs imposed on our young impressionable minds. We’ll be talking about things like ‘’ we’re we indoctrinated to fuck with broke mfers, why was the R&B group NEXT that thirsty,  the unlikely ...

On today’s episode -- Why are people comparing HIV positive folks to unvaccinated folks? And what does the rapper PLIES have to say about it. PLUS for the past 3 decades various HIV vaccines have been in development -- so why don’t we have an HIV vaccine yet and what are some contenders. Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/q0O9t9M0Uxo HASHTAGS Use #InnerHoeUprising and #Podin to keep up with ...

This episode we’re playing a little dating app game designed to weed out the losers. Then -- a conversation about boundaries and standards in romantic partnerships. Plus marriage is on the decline! We’re gonna talk about why and give our thoughts about a BBC series all about ethical non monogamy.  Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/lxztyg85vic Fuck is this?! (Pop culture ridiculousness):  We ...

This episode we’re talking about the scariest phenomenon -- the white hotep. We could end the episode there. But we won’t we’re also getting into allegedly sonic smoothie sex, safer sex toys, why Texas legislators are increasingly the worst, queer animals and much more.  Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/cq0BxMCljzM Fuck is this?! (Pop culture ridiculousness): Facebook White Hoteps and Megan...

Akua's celibacy journey has opened her eyes to the red flags that come with dating cis het men. Learn more about Akua's journey and how to spot the red flags this week only on Patreon.  Hit up our Patreon and pledge as little as $2/month to join the conversation: https://www.patreon.com/InnerHoeUprising  

We got some alleged gay gorillas, a misinformation conversation, a spooky season love story,  social media debate about “natural” bodies and BBLs  and much more.  Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/omiUY4OHihc HASHTAGS Use #InnerHoeUprising and #Podin to keep up with this conversation on social media and let others know that you are listening.  SPONSOR(S) Remember you can start living a ha...

Married Black lesbian couple Martina and Tawanna join us to talk about their love story, nurturing your partners artistic endeavors, travel, luxury, Black Family values, religion, lesbian community in the 90s, the old Brooklyn, freedom and much more.  Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/fEP_elmexbE HASHTAGS Use #InnerHoeUprising and #Podin to keep up with this conversation on social media and...

This week we get into Astrology and sex, love, and dating with our special guest J. Dooley.  Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/C6Y7j_xwuas Fuck It (Topic of the Day):  Our guest J. Dooley walks us through the ins and outs of using Astrology to analyze your sex, love, and dating life. We talk about Mercury in retrograde, whats woowoo bs, Christianity and being gay the natal chart, moon, ris...

This episode we’re talking all about the journey of going thru gender affirming hormone therapy or GAHT for short from the perspective of a non binary transfemme. We’ll be talking about  romance, emotions, the physical body,  second puberty and much more!  Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/etlqQlFBr6Y Fuck It (Topic of the Day):  We interview Ambre, a non binary trans femme embarking on her...

Rob and Sam talk about exclusive dating expectations, Only F*ns haters, de-centering nonsensical men, meeting someone and taking it slow and much more!  Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/FbLELbfs368 HASHTAGS Use #InnerHoeUprising and #Podin to keep up with this conversation on social media and let others know that you are listening.  SPONSOR(S) You can use code IHU for 15% off of some ver...

We answer some of your burning questions about the Inner Hoe Uprising podcast like: Do we date listeners, how do we balance the show with our personal lives, is hot human summer ending? Plus Akua got her back blown out for the first time in years and Rodecka is heading into surgery. Watch on Youtube: https://youtu.be/kYKypsTfRog   HASHTAGS Use #InnerHoeUprising and #Podin to keep up with thi...

We answer some of your burning questions about the Inner Hoe Uprising podcast. Some questions include: How can we all continue being hoes with Covid going on? How has it been navigating your respective friendship dynamics while recording a show together? Did any of you have a fascinating mind blowing make you wanna holler s*xual experience on your getaways or just this summer? Watch on YouT...

This episode —  what happens when you don’t get sex ed, also -- Queer Plantonic Partnerships and Romantic Friendships -- what the heck are those? PLUS  the Supreme Court ruled on a pretty big case regarding Queer couples and their rights to foster. What was the court’s decision and what does it mean for the country? We getting into it all that and more. Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/4fYYs...

It’s pride month -- and we gotta talk about some gay  animals. We’re also getting into our bae of the week -- a tennis baddie not named Naomi or Serena who aired out the clip recently. You’ll learn about why your balls (if you have them) are similar to your brain. Plus an IHU breakup has occurred!  Find out who and what happened.  Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/6S7drJxISfs Animals do be G...

Extreme baddie Vilissa Thompson, joins us  to talk all about the sexual liberation journey of a Black disabled woman, K*nk and navigating the lifestyle as both an LG and a Domme, the journey transitioning from a social worker to s*x therapist and so much more. Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/skgStwQMWfA Points of discussion include: sex ed as a disabled youth, LGs v brats, the nuance of be...

This episode we’re talking about how to keep your head above water in many polyamorous relationships. We’re also talking about ball ripped dild*s, poppin s*x toy parties, and a lack of pleasurable s*xual sensation in people with cl*t. PLUS -- ANOTHER one of us is processing their demis*xuality. Find out who and whats been going on. Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/O57qtAgzOIM Self Care Tip:...

We’re reviewing the worst (and maybe the best?) of the ridiculousness that the internet has to offer in the realm of sex, love, and dating. Everything from sexy robots, thirsty motherfuckers talking to themselves in the DMs, condoms twice used and much more.  Youtube: https://youtu.be/KtdVM3ao_K8 Fuck is this?! (ridiculousness):  Will pole working robots replace us, people who talk to themse...

This episode is allll about play parties. For those who aren’t familiar with the term a play party is a social gathering where m*ther f*ckers do be fucking (if they want). But there's a lot more to it than that. Today we’ll be talking about play party etiquette, how to find play parties, what to expect, conversations around consent, wild stories and much more!    Watch on YouTube: https://yout...

This week we celebrate the life of our homie and brilliant lesbian luminary Nikeeta Slade! Then we talk about  probiotics and the pum pum, the diagnoses of a rare mood disorder, what it looks like to have a solar AKA hoelar return, and a trip to “twang land” Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/RMcj43RwnDo Fuck is this?! (Pop culture ridiculousness):  A trip to “twangland” plus a conversation o...

This week we’re joined by a member of generation (se)X to all about growing up as a “fast” black girl in the 1980s, discovering sexual autonomy and kink at 50+, middle age f*ckboys, sexless marriages, infidelity, words of wisdom to millennials and get Z and much more.  Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/s1XrNZZZfbc Fuck It (Topic of the Day): Our guest Melissa aka Melahoe joins us to talk all...

We’re talking alllll about cannabis, food, pleasure and liberation with our guest Chef Steph.  Things like — how does weed effect your dating life, herbal self care tips, cannabis meals to cook for bae, dating as a heavy weed user, Black farm to table communities, mass incarceration,  and much more!  Youtube: https://youtu.be/cpGb_GHJrMA Self Care Tip: Adding herbs to your weed or just ingest...