Live With A Queer Black Demisexual Latinx Baddie

Jun 13, 12:56 AM
IHU LIVE and  joined  by Estephanie of the Bag Ladies podcast to chat about pride month, demisexuality, cops and LGBTQIA (aka QUILTBANG) folks, finding suitable dating partners and more! 

Hoe(s) of the Week: The live studio audience

Self Care Tips: Find a hobby and potential make masturbating a hobby?

Estephanie’s Date Tip of the Week: Go to free gallery tours @ Chelsea on Thursdays at 7PM (NYC) 

Fuck That (Current Events): NYC Police Department Commissioner James O’neil apologizes for the departments actions during  the Stonewall rebellion of 1969 and the hoes have a discussion on LGBTQIA (QUILTBANG) and NYPD relations. 
Fuck It (Topic of the Day): A conversation with Estephanie of Bag Ladiez podcast about being a queer, deminisexual, Black, Latinx baddie. 

Points of discussion include:
Naming and Claiming your queer sexual identities, defining demisexualiy, the length of time a demisexual person needs, Akua’s threesome, aesthetic attraction versus sexual attraction, one night stands while demisexual, communicating to partners that you are demisexual, where do you find a good partner, repeating date outfits, speaking to your family about your queer identity, homophobic parents, gender dynamics in Latinx families, discussing your queerness with cis het male partners, sex, love, and dating tips for demisexual folks, How to deal with homophobic family members when you’re queer and living in their household & more! 

Fuck You (Your Lives): We take questions from the audience. Conversations include:  musings on police presence in parades and in therapist offices, is white supremacy indicative of a mental illness, and how to make your boundaries clear regarding your demisexuality on dating app.

Use #InnerHoeUprising and #Podin to keep up with this conversation on social media and let others know that you are listening. 

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 Opening: “Queen S%!T” by SheReal

End: “Yeah Yeah” Abstract Fish Co

Mike of the Much Different Podcast Theater

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