Explaining yourself - things can be both true, and unhelpful

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Episode summary:

Autistic folks,
have to EXPLAIN themselves too much.

The gap between the lived experiences of YOU and the lived experience that consensus reality regards as REAL… is a wide canyon.

Crossing it, too often falls on YOU to explain your way into their reality

SO it is reasonable to believe that
BEING YOURSELF
requires you to change their reality, so to fit you inside it.

To change their thinking so they understand you.

This belief holds true across instances where there is a lot at stake in being understood;

healthcare systems
legal systems
workplaces
social services
etc.

But having the permission to also NOT have to be understood is also part of the solution.

Allowing ourselves to question what is STRUCTURALLY TRUE, and yet unhelpful thinking, allows us to see beyond the REALITY imposed on our bodies without consent.

To imagine outside of its dictates.

And to give permission to what can only exist when we allow ourselves to NOT be understood.

This is the contradiction at the heart of this work;
to acknowledge what is tangibly real
while also imagining beyond it.

In this episode, I invite you to imagine beyond having to make sense and explain yourself to everyone.

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The Unmasking Unschool Podcast (formerly: sensory siblings) is brought to you by Louisa Shaeri, beaming from The SOLA System; the liberatory framework and unmasking unschool for late-identified autistic+ folks seeking a new way to see, know and be yourself, beyond the paradigm of pathology, and the confines of normativity. Unmask, unravel the false ideas of who you are and emerge from systemic invisibility into the light of your full self.