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What if your healing wasn’t about becoming someone new… but remembering who the f*ck you are? 💅

Unicorns Do Exist is a safe space for the beautifully broken, the spiritually curious, and the ones who’ve survived some serious sh*t but still believe in magic. 🦄

Hosted by Vanessa — life coach, and unapologetically single mom — this show dives deep into faith, feminine power, trauma healing, and the glow-up that happens when you stop pretending and start living out loud. 🌈✨

It’s therapy meets tequila.
Manifestation meets dark humor.
God meets glitter.

Come as you are — leave believing in miracles (and maybe yourself again). 💜

If you’re ready to reclaim your power and walk into every room like the goddess your ancestors prayed for — this is your awakening.

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Unicorns Do Exist

Vanessa Ruiz
Personal Journals
17 episodes
18: A Day in the Life of a Unicorn
New year, new energy, and a very real life update. In this episode, I’m sharing what 2026 is already teaching me — from manifesting a third bedroom and upgrading to a BMW, to understanding that patience and gratitude will take you further than panic ever could. We’re also getting into the Benito halftime takeover, media distractions, and the slightly unhinged story of how a new pre-workout had...
21m • Feb 11
21m
17: Alcohol, Weed & the Lies We Were Told (Latina Truth Talk Gaby)
Alcoholism in the Hispanic community is often ignored, joked about, or swept under the rug — and we’re done staying quiet. In this episode of Unicorns Do Exist (https://www.instagram.com/unicornsdoexistpod?igsh=NTc4MTIwNjQ2YQ%3D%3D&utm_source=qr) , I’m joined by Gaby, host of the No Pus Guao (https://www.instagram.com/noposguaopodcast/?hl=en) podcast, for a fun, honest, very Latina conversatio...
1hr 3m • Feb 04
1hr 3m
16: Pain Is a Catalyst: Waking Up in a World That Was Never Okay
This episode is an honest one. We’re talking about what’s happening in the United States right now, why it feels so heavy, and why this moment isn’t new — it’s just finally being seen. And instead of spiraling into fear or numbness, we’re having an honest conversation about choice: the meaning we give things, the perspective we live from, and the strength we’re being called into right now. I ...
34m • Jan 28
34m
15: The Attraction Problem No One Wants to Admit
Why do so many people want passion, attraction, and a soft feminine partner… without doing the work to lead, grow, or evolve? In this episode of Unicorns Do Exist, Vanessa gets real (and a little spicy) about lazy energy in relationships—and why attraction dies when there’s no drive, no purpose, and no personal growth. We’re talking masculine and feminine energy, emotional leadership, physical...
26m • Jan 21
26m
14: Dating With No Intention (Yes, I Said That)
In this episode of Unicorns Do Exist, Vanessa gets radically honest about why she’s dating without intention—and why it’s been the healthiest decision she’s ever made. This is a deep, unfiltered conversation about love, motherhood, freedom, cultural conditioning, divorce glow-ups, and why rushing into relationships out of fear creates more suffering than solitude ever could. Vanessa unpacks ho...
28m • Jan 14
28m
13: New Year, One Magical Word
New year. New word. Same real, unfiltered me.  In this episode, Vanessa reflects on heartbreak, grief, missed flights, mom guilt, starting over, and why even your messiest moments are still part of your magic. This is about choosing intention over perfection and trusting that everything really does happen for a reason—even the hot mess chapters. If this episode hits, follow Unicorns Do Exist (...
8m • Jan 07
8m
12: Consider This My Christmas Gift
This episode is my Christmas gift to you 🎄 No coaching, no fixing — just me answering your questions, telling stories, oversharing a little, and letting you get to know the real woman behind Unicorns Do Exist. It’s funny, flirty, honest, and a little unhinged (in the best way). Press play, hang out with me, and consider this episode unwrapped. 😉
38m • Dec 24, 2025
38m
11: Everything Happens for a Reason (Even This Mess)
Grief after sudden loss hits differently — especially when you’re far from home. In this deeply personal episode, we explore grief, loss of a friend, emotional overwhelm, missed expectations, and how healing isn’t a straight line. If you’re grieving someone you loved, struggling to make sense of loss, or trying to move forward while your heart is heavy, this episode will meet you where you are...
40m • Dec 18, 2025
40m
10: ✨ Starting Over Like It’s a Hobby ✨
In this episode, we dive deep into the truth about starting again, whether by choice or because life threw you off a cliff and said, “fly, Doll.” From heartbreaks and betrayals to layoffs, new careers, and completely reinventing your life, this conversation is your reminder that beginning again is nothing to be ashamed of.
23m • Dec 10, 2025
23m
9: When Choosing You Makes You the Villain (Good.)
This episode is for the woman ready to step into her dark feminine power and stop apologizing for choosing herself. We talk villain era energy, boundaries, confidence, and why people get uncomfortable when you stop shrinking. Want to shift your energy fast? My new 7-Day Dark Feminine eBook is now live in my Stand Store — the perfect companion to this episode. Press play, step into your power, a...
27m • Dec 03, 2025
27m
8: Multicultural & Unapologetic: Why Your Identity Is Your Superpower
In this episode, we welcome our very first guest, Urmi — an Italian-Bengali force of nature who proves that not fitting in is its own kind of magic. Together, we talk identity, self-discovery, multicultural roots, and turning your “too much” into your superpower. If you’ve ever felt different, this is your reminder that your uniqueness is your greatest flex.
43m • Nov 26, 2025
43m
7: Dark Unicorn Energy: The Side of You They Never Expected
Doll… if you’ve been acting like a cute little glitter unicorn but deep down you know you’ve got claws? Yeah. This episode is for you. Today we’re getting into the Dark Feminine (https://stan.store/unicornsdoexistpod/p/7-day-dark-feminine-challenge-) — the part of you that doesn’t chase, doesn’t beg, doesn’t negotiate, and definitely doesn’t deal with bare-minimum energy. I’m teaching you how...
42m • Nov 19, 2025
42m
6: Unicorns Don’t Ghost — They Reconnect 💜
What if the spark didn’t die… it just needed a new frequency? ✨ In this episode, Vanessa dives deep into the art of reigniting connection in long-term relationships — inspired by Esther Perel’s Mating in Captivity. From rebuilding emotional intimacy after distance or infidelity, to rediscovering your partner as the passionate, magnetic soul you once fell for, this is your reminder that love doe...
35m • Nov 12, 2025
35m
5: You’re Not a Saint — You’re Just Scared
Suffering in a relationship isn’t love — it’s self-abandonment dressed up as loyalty. 💔 In this episode, Vanessa calls out the “good girl” trap of staying just to look like the nice one. It’s time to choose peace over pity and remember: walking away doesn’t make you cold, it makes you awake. 🌙✨
26m • Nov 05, 2025
26m
4: Let’s Get Intimate… With Money & Ourselves
After 20 years of being proudly lesbian, Vanessa finds herself unexpectedly attracted to men — and questioning everything she thought she knew about love, sex, and identity. A raw, funny, and unapologetic conversation about sexuality, motherhood, money, and the magic of evolving into your truest self.
39m • Oct 29, 2025
39m
2: Welcome to the Magic: Delusional? Maybe. But It’s Working.
The episode that started it all — where Vanessa proves that believing in yourself like a crazy person is exactly how you change your life.
23m • Oct 22, 2025
23m
1: Unicorns Do Exist The Trailer
Welcome to Unicorns Do Exist, the unapologetic podcast for women who are ready to rise — after the heartbreak, after the chaos, after forgetting who they were. I’m your host, Vanessa — first-gen Latina, single mama, lesbian, life coach, and living proof that your pain can become your power. This isn’t your average healing podcast.  We talk real transformation — the kind that comes after you’v...
2m • Oct 20, 2025
2m

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